The Hidden Truth About Today's Sexless Marriages: A Trend Explained By Char Curry
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Gratitude
Agreed. A woman’s words can change her man’s attraction to her
MAJOR FACTS 🎯💯
Bingo💯🎯🎯
I wish I could give your comment TWO thumbs up. A lot of women don't understand how important respect is to a man. We kill each other over disrespect.
Instantly!!!
A. WORD.
She said it loud and clear....ladies ....SOMETIMES IT'S YOUR MOUTH. Ladies....if you are not ready and willing to deliver on what you signed up for....LEAVE THAT MAN ALONE.
Its not sometimes.. its EVERYTIME
Always there mouth
most person don't have a clue about the intricacies' of marriage, a lot of persons want lavish wedding but not even the minute responsibilities of marriage.
Women not persons. Women care more about the ceremony than any man ever would.
Preach!
@@Eddybo22they believe that’s what a marriage is and they also believe that’s where it starts.
This is where a marriage starts and it’s the ultimate action to signify marriage
Exodus 22:16
How do we know something we don’t understand
So true 💯
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All i know is my whole life: I've seen men of all races, rich and poor, famous or not, complain about sexless marriages. How are all these men experiencing the same thing.
I agree but where is the conversation about this between the two? Also, if the man is worn out he can’t tell her no especially if she wants to conceive.
@EButta71 wow. You wrote a lot of things with passion. Question, so if the wife is now at the point to where she doesn't even want her husband to touch her, because of all you stated has happened to her, is it ok for him to get sex else where?
@@EButta71 Most men do but that will not make the woman the victom. Plus in some cases the wife/mother wants things her way so they do it themselves then complain
@@EButta71 For me it’s 70/30. Don’t know many women who do everything and work too even when they are single. The man handles, yard work, repairs, car maintenance, drop offs, protection etc. The women married doing everything is usually an exaggeration or her means of having things her way.
@@EButta71 you too
Ive never been married but I've had this conversation with 2 women before and they asked me the question " How long would you give your wife a grace period if she didn't want to have sex " I said 2 weeks maybe 3 weeks after that then its clearly something deeper going on and i would attempt to talk to her but i would feel that she doesn't want to be with me and its time to move on... HOW WOULD A WOMAN FEEL IF ME AS HER HUSBAND UP AND SAID YOU KNOW I JUST DON'T FEEL LIKE PAYING THE BILLS???? IT WOULD BE OVER
One period week that's it!
Facts
Or I don't feel like being responsible within the context of the marriage
This is why most wives will slow drip “pity sex” to you after your chores are done for her. That’s how she strings you along for an extended period so you don’t divorce her.
I've never been married, but I like the way this sister is expressing herself about marriage.🙏🏾
This is a serious problem that's also manipulating actions. Some of these women have other issues like attachments to people in their past
Definitely…
Yup or not wanting to bonds with the new man because of men from the past. Experience this myself that’s why body count matters.
@@tyriley7488 Most definitely True & they can't lie about it because there are times you fight with those spirits they slept with its warfare because they control them more than you ever can
Women marry who they can. Not who they want.
Grown women acting like children. They want to be in a committed long term relationship but want no part of being responsible for what comes with that man. ED definitely is in many cases cause by women abusing and mistreating that man to the point that he becomes non functional and is very very sad. This is one of the many reasons why most marriages fail.
I thought I had ED until I broke up with my girl and realized I had lost ALL attraction for her due to her thot behaviors and mindsets. She was sweet, but would say and do ho-ish things, while acting confused when I’d call her out. Next relationship, I was bricked up every day 😂
@@Underratedcommentator good very good you understood the root cause of your ED and you are back up and running lol..
@@ManzaMvsa 😂😂😂 I was scared for a while. Thanks!
@Underratedcommentator same..my wife was cheating and she says they never actually had sex but it used to be ready to go immediately and now it doesn't..can barely get it hard for her and I know it's because of that
@@Underratedcommentatorabsofuckinlutely factual
Alot of women have a mindset where if he not taking me out and dating me. I’m not interested in being intimate. Its more on their part. If a man is married to a woman. Pays the bills, gives to the marriage but he has to do something specifically in order for her to be intimate such as take her on vacations, dinners, concerts. Then He shouldn’t be with that woman. Imagine if a man said. I won’t pay the bills unless she cooks and clean 5 days straight. Or something wild. You’re in a relationship to give.
Women violate the vows first. It’s because women “settle” for the man they can get and not the man they wanted.
I don’t care if the man was an “Alpha” at the beginning or not. He turns into a Beta eventually and that’s another turn off for the woman.
We want a whole wife not a 60year might be gamble...learn to be a husband...wife....then go find the match. Not a project. A whole car. Not parts...half done never finished ..for NEW CAR MONEY....PAYMENTS.
My wife tried to use sex as a control tool. It didn't work I just told her forget about the marriage. I went somewhere else. I have no time for games. I am out. I will never ask her again. I grabbed my passport and started having a good time overseas.
Hell yeah
Why overseas though with all the other options here?
@@mikehughes8023 US options are corrupt ...family courts are corrupt
You know what it is @@mikehughes8023
@@mikehughes8023you mean the other TRASH options here.
My ex-wife spent more time making sure that I wasn't getting it from somewhere else than to just give it to me. Then when she did I could tell that she really didn't want it. I was in the streets rejecting women just to come home and get rejected by her. Then when I was done she started to initiate and it only made me more mad. Now she doesn't have to worry about a man pressing her for sex.
Yep I shocked 2 women and 3 families by issuing divorce papers to my wives for this very reason.
@kevinobrien3888
That's not even the reason why I divorced her. My reason was because I was the only one in her life that she didn't mind disappointing or letting down.
In Alison Armstrong’s books Keys to the Kingdom and the Queen’s Code she explains that couples shouldn’t wait to have sex until they desire it. It’s important for them, especially the women, to create conditions that put them in the mood. Spontaneous desire becomes less likely in long term relationships. Sex is important because the physical union strengthens to spiritual union.
As a man, I’m not withholding intimacy in my marriage. We need to have a talk but I think we will resolve our differences. We find a way.
Heavy on that disrespect and that sharp tongue killing attraction and desire of a man for his woman. They don’t hear you sis 😂💯 Real 💩
Sadly women here don't get it nor do they care. The bad ones esp enjoy poisoning the good ones as they speak with forked tongues.
When a woman shows her disrespect towards her husband he loses that sexual attraction to his woman.
This isn’t talked about enough. Ladies we gotta keep that same energy when we are dating as we do after marriage. We tend to let children and life responsibilities dictate how we connect with our partners but we have to find a way to balance life and intimacy with our partners. Communication, date nights and spending alone time with your partner is vital! If you have a good man don’t let him get away because you aren’t willing to do the work. Of course it takes two but it’s worth it!
It’s because women get married to the men they can and not the men they want. They give up on the vows first because of “feelings”.
Thank you for this.
I dont know who's interviewing her but shes staying on point with her responses despite the odd questions
He is simping trying to stay pc
This lady spoken nothing but truth 💯💯💯💯
A lot of men get into these situations because have a “problem solver” mentality. So our wife or girlfriend not wanting sex is seen by us as just another problem to solve. So we try to figure out what we need to do to get her to want sex again. And women know this. But if men simply said “no sex then no relationship no providing etc” there’d be consequences when a woman weaponizes sex in that way.
Some dudes sadly LOVE drama and ignore the warning signs. Can't feel sorry for those types when they allowe themselves to remain in fetal position from the onset
Women also know society, the government and other women aren’t ever going to hold them accountable or responsible, so that clearly can only leave men as the problem.
Sex as a control mechanism could be a factor. Outside of physical and psychological issues.
They also don’t have sex with you because you weren’t their first choice. You were always AN option for marriage, not THE option.
Their miserable lives are their own fault for chasing feelings.
This is Gold all facts got a lot of coworkers in sexless marriages
Thank you for bringing up and having these conversations. Our community has many real unresolved issues, and it turns up in the destruction of our families and children. Thanks again for calling these things out. You are really helping people.
A sexless marriage is a breach of contract. Because the man did not sign up knowing he wasn't going to be able to get any. Of course you sign up for the good and the bad but to somewhat eliminat it. He didn't sign up for that. I can understand if something happened to where she wasn't able to give him none but to completely hold it against him, he should be able to leave and not have to pay anything
Yes! Get out
Women give up on the vows first. “To HAVE and to hold” is said for a reason.
I think as a society we need to socialise women into thinking about sex as something they joyfully take part in rather than something they give to men. I'm a woman myself and making that change in perspective has made me enjoy sex more. Sex is not a weapon, it's an avenue of connection to my man and it's so pleasurable and fun. It's also a way to express myself and a frontier for creativity.
If unresolved issues are brought into marriage there has to be a major intentional effort to develop energy tools of healing. Becoming family with each other can be a two sided coin.
In my experience I’d never been with a woman who worked out or worked on anything regarding her past hurts or relationship failure issues.
I love this video. As a man the hardest thing is being told by society that it's ALWAYS your fault for your wife's lack of desire no matter what. Women are always left with no accountability for the lack of sex
I believe that the work economy and just the economy play a role in some of these happenings
Everyone missing the point this United States way of living everything is so expensive,the social media world most people are working a 9 to 5 struggling to pay the bills stressed because they are living check to check worrying about paying the bills in this over priced economy,when they get home from work with all the stress and also if they have kids no partner has any energy but laying down getting back to work just to survive and the upper middle class specifically African Americans are so focused on trying to impress social media with trying to portray the perfect life they forgot about giving each other attention, everyone wants to be happy but don't wanna put in the work to be happy
It’s simple. A woman married a man that she could. She didn’t marry who she wanted to.
Women break rules for alphas and make rules for betas. If she doesn’t have burning desire for her husband then she stepped out of the marriage commitment first and she’s at fault.
This should be a magnificent THOUGHT conference! ❤
I totally agree with her I only seen the 1st few minutes.!
My ex mother in law taught my ex wife what they called…. “Cookie Control”.
She left cause she caught me planning to “cheat.”
I looked her dead in her face and said “I’m not sorry”
Really?
😂😂😂😂
ED can also mean medical attention and taking better care of the body. Mentally physically and emotionally for self FIRST.
THIS IS WHY YOU STAY SINGLE AND DO WTF YOU WANT! It’s not that hard 🤷🏽♂️
@incognegro2315 How the heck does staying single fix the sexual drought of older age and wait I cannot get it when I want it!!! YOU SIR sound like a liar!!!!!
Now truth: GET A LOVE DOLL in the image of a person you like and keep the doll never a day without cuddling and or passionate intimacy.
Yeah there's a lot of dogs and cats up for adoption
@@FillyouupSplash but do you want her to marry a man she doesn't like. The man is going to suffer from disrespect, nagging and non-intimacy. Y'all don't realise that sometimes rejection is protection. If you as a man are getting rejected by a woman, yes sometimes the prob cld be you but sometimes it's better that way. I've seen alotta women who settled for their hubbies and those hubbies are going thru a lot. Let no one settle for you.
@@theemapsmash My point exactly. Focus on you! Fk a relationship
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Are they withholding or cheating? Let’s be serious.
Both maybe depending on the woman. Some women will leave before the cheat.. some women cheat and stay with the man wishing for change. Cheating isn’t always a factor with women tho.. most are content with their unhappiness and confinement.
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From what I’ve read and talk to other men about this situation more than likely she’s cheating.
Women marry who they can and not who they want. She simply married a man she doesn’t desire at all.
Marriage...where sex goes to die!
Love Dolls where sex never ends!!!!
Best way is to avoid marriage in this current society. Peace and sanity is priceless. 💪🏽💪🏽
This woman is speaking HUGE FACTZ!!! 💪🏾
Most marriage vows are broken by the woman first. They give up on the obligations of being a wife because they know society isn’t going to hold a woman accountable or responsible when it ends.
Men know they have everything to lose so they stay and hope she changes her mind.
“To HAVE and to hold”. That means you should have a desire for your husband and you should WANT to please him and him alone. If you don’t desire him and don’t want to please him than you never should have married him.
Someone should’ve had this conversation with my ex wife.
That someone should have been you?
@@Craig-pm2kc Why assume that he didn't?
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@@Craig-pm2kc modern women typically listen to their friends advice or even another man(like their pastor) before they listen to the man that actually cares enough to take care of them daily...sad but true
@@Craig-pm2kc Don’t think I did that? Someone else explained it and that’s why we are divorced.
My 25 years of marriage are retired because of this😢
You getting a divorce?
No been divorced for 5 years but this is the reason why
@@Atlantasfinest345 oh wow. So sexless marriage is a real thing.. is it because the person just stops loving you?
No she still loves me tell this day. Just lost the desire to have sex because she would be in pain every time we had sex@Peace2dagawdz
I don’t agree with her reason for why women hold out. I think it’s cuz they chose men they really don’t want. And in the long run it’s harder to sex them cuz they don’t “really” want them
Women are pathological manipulators. It's absolutely about power and control first and foremost.
Right. Ruined by past promiscuity.
So you gonna neglect your Toyota you need for work because you really want a Porsche??
That's impractical and unrealistic setting yourself up for failure
Thats not tru..because for the great majority of the time it does not start sexeless it ends up this wsy
The men they really want don't want them but for only a short time
God bless this sister.
I would send this to my wife, but she doesn’t give af.
Why is she your wife then?
@@Craig-pm2kcbecause he will get financially wrecked
@@Craig-pm2kc He remembers how things used to be and wants his wife back that he married!!!!
NOT THE BORED MENOPAUSE MONSTER THAT LURKS TODAY???
Also the kids maybe??? (REDDIT deadbedrooms) do your research!!!!!
Why doesn’t she care is the deeper question. She cared before!
@@sunniecameron990 Humanity cared about Nintendo at first why do they not car now???
Maybe Boredom!!!! (both statements mine/yours)
Maybe not enough earnings!!!!
Maybe more depression crap from hormones/genetics/life quality/aging (wrinkle in time self hating)
I wanted to send this to my wife, but I don't think she will watch it. It's been over 9 years since we have been intimate. I'm retired, so I have the opportunity to watch over my 8 year twins. I haven't stepped out. It is a little frustrating, but my closeness to The Most High keeps me faithful.
I won’t tell you what to do, but I’ll briefly share my story. I’m a Messianic Jew and I divorced twice.
My first wife was due to no intimacy and a firm no in her desire to change, communicate or compromise. My second wife was verbally and emotionally abusive as well as her strong desire to usurp my authority and do whatever she wanted (after we got married).
In both cases, from a Jewish perspective, I had a biblical right to divorce them based on them being neglectful and abusive. I’m not happy I felt I had no other options, but it was obvious it was that or allow them “total control”.
Should I have married again? In hindsight no. I know more now than I did then. However I have no regrets divorcing either of them.
@kevinobrien3888 Thank you for sharing that.
That saying what happens in this house stay in the house! Simply mean you did not go out telling peoples business be it yours or someones else's! This was told to children to stop them from gossiping! However, when someone was being violated that was a completely different story. You always told an adult if someone did something to you that felt wrong!
A woman's words can change her man's attraction to her is so paramount!.. I was in a relationship inwhich my ex belittled me in front of her people subliminally and it led to low performance sexually... when I stepped out on her sex was dynamite with other women.. just being honest..
That's an eye opener. And sad for her.
She's a narcissist for sure!
Wonder why I cannot just hear boredom is the main reason??
So Really NOW we are hiding radiation poisoning as mold spore breathing??
How will you know which reason was really the reason???
I play Nintendo all day wonder how I feel about PlayStation!!!!???
Well, the Nintendo has some hard games PlayStation I can set game on easy and its newer!!!!
How do you handle a withholding for years at a time
That's in another Universe in itself
run brother run ... but since ur still there u must be hopeful. So try and find a solution together and if she's not willing ... run
@@Openyoureyes-dq7fq
That is definitely what I would say too.. Give them a time and an ultimatum and if both time and ultimatum go by and still NOTHING.. that means they really don't give a damn about you and they are cold feeling for you.. Get the hell out of there cus you only live once
LEAVE! A woman holding out from sex for years has emotionally detached from you. And once a woman is done that’s a wrap. After years the only reason that a woman who has held out for years would have sex is because of some form of manipulation. Finally withholding of sex IS grounds for divorce
Oh please believe she’s not withholding. Respectfully, she’s just getting it elsewhere
If women signed up to care for men mentally, physically, emotionally then the same selfless acts should be reciprocated. That’s the issue… some are asking for this but don’t learn the nature of a woman… some man constantly dismiss their woman’s needs and expect this should be given. It’s 2024… no one person should be pouring from an empty cup to satisfy the other. Both should be putting in the work.
Whataboutism
@@Slowjo1221 For real.
See your not listening!
Ignore the harpees
Maybe you’re with someone who doesn’t care about your needs.
Welcome to a man’s world. You have equality.
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1:44 I condone getting some side 🐱 under these circumstances 100%. I’ve been there. I tried talking, we went to therapy, I addressed everything that she claimed to be the problem and it was still being withheld. So your options are: leave and break up your family. Get a side chick/prostitute or just stay and deal with it.
@enohp660 You missed one SIR get a High End Love DOLL where you won't have to worry about HPV/HIV/Aids/herppes/etc
As a woman and men…….If you experience such trauma why pull someone into that without giving that person and option to even engage in such relationships .
Because people are lazy and they either think “time will heal my wounds” or their partner will do their healing for them so they don’t have to.
majority of every woman and every man I know some form of molestation has happened to them. It's sad.
Out of all the women I know about 2 of them actually love their dude! The self sabotaging epidemic is crazy! Watch women chase men down and start finding ridiculous reasons to break up once they get them.
It’s because all they are chasing and desiring are the 0.10% of all men and no man is going to hit every checkbox on her long laundry wish list.
Women need to learn to control their emotions, their hypergamy and their hedonics. Most of them never will because it’s widely accepted that women are never to blame.
That last part is so profound
I want to speak on the part where she said it's the womans mouth. She is telling the truth, it's happened to me personally, completely lost interest in my woman although I wanted to be with her, I was no longer interested. Eventually we broke up. But it's best not to have sex until marriage.
She so right about wha happens in this house and stay in a child's place. Gladly, I've noticed this and get to work on it right away
There's a difference between ED and low libido. ED is never on the women. Not Ever. Stress and anxiety can cause libido issues. Man or women we are responsible for our sexual health.
How bout they withhold to punish or to control the man.
I agree, too many of us are battling for control of the relationship! Wrong move!
They also never desired their husband.
are we sexually beings, or well beings with sex organs? is sex to be utilized as a reproductive system or for pleasure? wonder why prostate cancer ranks high amongst us? you to busy trying to get your manhood back and using sex as a remedy wearing out all kinds of organs etc smh. women ought to hold out weak males out here with unmet psychological needs seeking and misusing sex won’t solve a thing! like c’mon sex shouldn’t even be a topic especially with the level of toxicity within most people. lots of sex toys, liquor, weed, pregnancy test and emergency contraceptives being sold out here and ninjas ain’t getting a dime from it.
She speaking the Real.
Great insight and analysis my sista
She is soo 🔥
What about when the situation is reversed? A very serious question for someone who needs to know.
It goes both ways ❤
Charr Curry is the goat and shes say what she wants!!! Can we clone her so we All came have a great woman!!! salute to the show and your wonderful guest!!!
This women is own to something here!!
Good video, ty
Damn she couldn’t have said it best 💯
It's not just our community that has the policy of what happens in the house, starts in the house. EVERY ABUSER has this policy no matter the race.
One of my coworkers told me that her guy wouldn’t lay a finger on her for 6+ months. I was lost for words plus I did absolutely nothing to hear about her private intimate relationship details 🤣
he prob knew she was out here playin'..she wont tell you that part
All the psychological issues popped up after the ring?
See u there !
This is one way but studies just say women aren’t really attracted to their long commitment partners Dr Rob sapolsky has a whole lecture on this.
It’s because to a woman over the course of the relationship the alpha she thought she had… either he turns into a beta himself or she turns him into one.
@ 5:35, "It's Your Mouth". Binho. 💣💥💯
Indigenous ppl of Earth have been r worded since the inception of this nation. We haven't been given any substantive interventions or supports to heal as a collective so until WE are made whole, nothing will change😑
That part! What black men fail to realize is we see that black men have been temporarily defeated and that’s a hard pill to swallow. We have been defeated as a race as well, so when is that going to change so women can actually look up to their man
@@alexishunt4336 You would have to ask the Black American men who haven't healed🫶🏽
What if the man has ED and won’t get help for it? Someone should discuss that.
This discussion was about withholding. Why would you bring up ED. Classic goal post moving. Speaks volumes
@@darrengordon3616 your response speaks volumes. I was asking for help you say that bs. Classic selfishness and self- centeredness.
Try to make him feel more appreciated. And be honest about it. Every human being has unique qualities that can be appreciated. Stimulate him mentally by the way you represent yourself behind closed doors and in public. One thing that I know is a complete turn off for men is a woman being extra friendly with other men or not being genuine. Be yourself and take care of your mental health and everything else will fall into place. It's about having the right energy.
@@darrengordon3616ED can occur for a variety of reasons. If a man has ED and refuses to acknowledge it, I can see how the woman might feel like he’s withholding sex.
He only has Ed with YOU… you can help him if you really wanted to…
I agree with her but I have to add the brain/mind connection to the genitals when it comes to women. If we are having a rough patch in the relationship then the last thing I’m thinking about is sex
women's rough patch= he doesnt make enough money for my tastes
- Im with him but I cant get over my ex
- he holds me accountable for the foolish things I decide to do
When my two marriages were falling apart I still paid the bills. It’s not that hard.
that why i say. of the get go ask god for the right one. and every thing this sister said. 🎯🎯👀
Best way to stop sexless marriages, don't get married. 😂😅
How do you stop STDs from Random I cannot trust you DATES. Charlie Sheen with AIDs??? Anyone wish I could save him LIKE him as an ACTOR!!!
@@simeacalvinlifeobserver3741 marriage was a religious contract, hence the oath taken. Sadly most people don't fear God and now a days glamorize sin. What we really seeing is the paganist concept "Do what though wilt."
This kind of behavior really exist ?? 🤔🤔 I'm sorry I can't!!! Be in a relationship without sex.🙄🙄
And this is what some women don’t like about relationships.
Find a rare woman that has a high tolerance…
Marriage yes, dating uhh🤷
What if you meet a virgin? Unless you don't date virgins which is very much ohk.
I will say this, men was never meant to have 1 woman, say what you will and thank me later, men!!!
Sister Char stating that unruly spouses/partners being the cause of ED ... 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 Now, I'm not saying (and I'm sure that Sister Char isn't implying) that there aren't other external and internal causes for ED, but ... 🤷🏿♂️🤷🏿♂️🤷🏿♂️ but a complacent, complaining, contemptuous women should be at the top of the list of causes. 💯
ED can also be caused by a poor diet which is a primary cause in the U.S.
@kevinobrien3888 Yeah, no shit, guy. Thanks for the info that everyone already knows. 👍🏿👎🏿🙏🏿😂
Addressing ONE SIDE, is NOT addressing relationship ISSUES Dear🤷🏽♀️🙄🤷🏽♀️🇬🇧
What if the roles are reversed and the woman is the person not being sexually pleased in the relationship?.... I'm always hearing about the men and what women need to be doing to make them happy but never the other way around
That’s what’s called a communication issue.
It’s because for men sex is viewed and felt completely differently. For a man it’s his primary source of love, happiness and fulfillment. It’s first on his radar. It’s also the primary reason men marry. Men also know intercourse and intimate/sexual touching aren’t high on a woman’s priority list. So yes a lot of men can overlook that aspect.
I’m speaking in very broad generalities here, but generally speaking we’re just wired for different relationship needs.
If you aren’t getting your needs met then talk. Most men will give you more and be sensitive to you giving encouraging instructions on your desired needs.
This was so one-sided. It is absurd. As a married man, it should not all be placed on the woman to perform. Men, are you taking your wife on dates? Are you wooing her? Are you helping to keep the house clean? Are you able to find a babysitter of needed? Are you complimenting your woman? Are there scented candles in the house? Or are you just demanding/expecting sex? And if you have ED, are you talking to your doctor? Are you getting in the gym and losing weight? Are you getting enough sleep and eating well? All of these questions are important if you want a healthy marriage. It can't be all on the woman.
Once a month would be welcomed. 25 years and maybe 50 times.
Damn, why do men put up with this?
Yep that’s why I’m twice divorced. First marriage was 16 months. Second marriage was 16 weeks.
I wish the focus would be equal...ever heard of a walk away wife. Most women don't usually just stop giving that intimacy they signed up for and knew they would provide for as long as they're together with their husbands. Women are reactive and when they sign up long term, they are patient too,... but what in that current marriage would cause such a shut down? It's like saying wives should be submissive to their husbands...but conveniently leaving out the part where the husbands should love their wives! You can't have one without the other.
For the women using it for control or those who are burdened with horrible past experiences, that's a whole different ball game😢
Everyone is cheating
Because most weren’t given the tools to be complete spouse and never looked for help.
I cheat in my head and watch porn sometimes doing it for real is too much problem s to be honest I don’t get it thou
@@richardwilliams3839 Doesn't everybody do this?
Women whom ask for such are MOST definitely still active but elsewhere. It's laughable if it's implied that they're just remaining abstinent. Said woman doesn't fear God as that's one of cardinal sins in religion.
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This was a bit much on women. It definitely goes both ways as there are many men that don't take care of their woman's needs. ED or not, some are just lazy and only want to be pleased. A couple should cater to each other. It's not for a woman to just be at a man's disposal.
Do you say the same thing when men are being critiqued? It's a bit much on men? Or do you cosign
@@WHG369 If what is said is a bit much I will say it's a bit much. I'm not against men....in fact, mine is kept very happy. I just wish that we as a Nation would get to the root of our issues instead of surface dwelling.
@@freedomc8784but she did get to some roots, but it seems like a root you maybe didn’t want to hear? It just looks like too often women can’t handle honest critiques about their flaws. Critiques seem to always be perceived by women as attacks.
@@aturner5377 You are probably a good man and know how to handle it when a woman caters to you. There are many that still mistreat their women even when she does everything she can to heal him. My point is that we all need a deep-rooted healing in order to be able to treat each other in a Divine way.
@@freedomc8784there aren’t a lot of men who sexually deprive their woman. If they do, it’s because she got fat or is being disrespectful. Thats generally it. Of course there are some abusive men out there, but I think this conversation is more about people who are necessarily trying to be abusive.
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My wife found me watching her videos!
Lmao i dont why this comment was funny
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ED…as a result of bad disrespectful mouth & unattractive attitude; facts
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Her name is joy
Wow yall make it complicated. Im a married woman and mother and YES I go in with my husband 1-2x weekly. 😂❤ my husband used to withold from me when he was being childish but he stopped after we discussed the consequences and how toxic his behavior was PLUS the fact we are trying for baby no.2
Leave,leave, leave.......period.
A lot of women be down lo and just get married for the kids
To have a family is the most legit reason to get married.
For men or women.
Women get married to the man they can, not the man they wanted. Many of them will marry because they want the wedding, a house and a car they could never afford on their own.
Women marry for self preservation, not love.
Children are taught to be seen not heard is emotional abuse. I really am not buying women not having sex with their husbands because of a previous sexual assault incident before the marriage. I believe women might have had some sort of relationship with a guy and they were in the emotional affair stage and she gets raped because most people think emotional affairs are safe. Or the wife could if gotten pregnant did an abortion and / or people know about the relationship except for the husband now all of a suttin there was a rape🤨. If a woman stops having sex with you she is with someone else or she is trying to detox the V for the next guy or woman. Do not get into a deep relationship. Women will get together and tell the other woman she not having sex with her husband - lying, so the other woman - dummy, will follow along but only one person is ruining their marriage.
Man had things to happen to them when they were children too. We don’t sit here and complain as adults and make excuses. We got a man upif it’s us.
There's no support for men as we're expected to get over it, even though many of us compensate. For all the nonsense women talk abt patriarchy many prove their brain is still in the infantile stage.