Too Poor To Save - Til Debt Do Us Part - Taming The Monster Mortage

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  • Опубликовано: 3 янв 2025

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  • @sct4040
    @sct4040 2 года назад +1148

    They need to bring back this show. It’s 2022, and it’s more relevant than ever.

    • @manthing1467
      @manthing1467 2 года назад +41

      Just seeing this for the first time but very relevant to most people as they are horrible with money.

    • @lukeclarke267
      @lukeclarke267 2 года назад +45

      I'm a mortgage broker in Australia, these sorts of people are everywhere. I see less than 1 in 20 have a budget, less than 1 in 30 that get their living expenses anywhere near right to what they actually spend.
      I offer budgeting services FREE of charge. Barely any take me up on it. It's amazing people just put it in the too hard basket.
      I had a young married couple, no kids and doing their refinance (I did the original loan too) on over $200k/year income. They overdrafted their account three times in the past month... I mean... HOW?

    • @manthing1467
      @manthing1467 2 года назад +4

      @@lukeclarke267 My wifes from Aus. We live in the US. Her friend there has an adjustable rate mortgage. I've heard they do interest only loans there too. How common are the adjustable rate and do you see an impending meltdown of the Aus economy due to a housing crash? I know there hasn't been a down turn there in 30 years but it seems like everyone was so incredibly over leveraged.

    • @lukeclarke267
      @lukeclarke267 2 года назад +9

      @@manthing1467 In Australia variable rates are the common, fixed rates are very high and generally only 2-3 years are decent.
      I foresee interest rates going up another ~1.0%, but I don't think we'll see a crash, more of a correction.
      For some reason people thought interest rates would stay at historic or emergency lows forever.

    • @manthing1467
      @manthing1467 2 года назад +4

      @@lukeclarke267 3-4% is very low historically. I just dont see how housing prices can go much higher over there.

  • @kathleenmouat8499
    @kathleenmouat8499 2 года назад +427

    I don’t remember when Gail’s show first aired but through her lessons and tough love episodes I am now mortgage free debt free and now have investments!!! Thanks Gail ❤️

    • @cjhoward409
      @cjhoward409 2 года назад +8

      2005 I believe

    • @aic0809
      @aic0809 2 года назад +6

      Congratulations, that’s so inspiring!! 🥳🙌🏾

    • @sparkdorable
      @sparkdorable 2 года назад +21

      I am Indonesian. Born 89. Recently discovered this show a month ago.. woww you are blessed with this show in such a long time ago... We dont have good money show like this ! I binge watching every episode and I am now succesfully reduce my monthly expense.! Thanks gailll

    • @kli9005
      @kli9005 2 года назад +5

      That’s awesome!

    • @IamRocque
      @IamRocque 2 года назад +4

      Amazing 😱

  • @carkarlaw
    @carkarlaw 2 года назад +119

    I love that they are showing the kids money management skills.

    • @aussiemouth747
      @aussiemouth747 4 месяца назад +1

      Unless it was Birthday or Xmas we only received stuff we work for in some way. Thanks late Mum and Dad. 🥰🦘

  • @fariedaclassen6045
    @fariedaclassen6045 2 года назад +50

    At Last a family who actually listened and in process saved themselves

  • @hyruleanraven81
    @hyruleanraven81 2 месяца назад +13

    Awesome family. Did not complain or made excuses. Took the challenge and accomplished it as a family.

  • @mustangthings
    @mustangthings 2 года назад +262

    The intro jingle is so funny. Clearly whoever was in charge of writing it forgot until about 15 minutes before the deadline.

    • @patriciainportland5567
      @patriciainportland5567 2 года назад +27

      I find it quite clever. They put music to the word that goes round and round in our heads, nonstop. At least for those of us like the participants on this show!

    • @freedomartwork6950
      @freedomartwork6950 2 года назад +18

      I believe it's a takeoff on the 1973 song by the O'Jays called "For the Love of Money".

    • @Bandwagons
      @Bandwagons 2 года назад +2

      It makes me think of Cabaret.

    • @chimera00000
      @chimera00000 3 месяца назад

      ⁠@@freedomartwork6950 you’re right!

  • @rosemarywilliams9969
    @rosemarywilliams9969 2 года назад +151

    The daughter is awesome whatever you tell her to do she does it correctly and she just keeps it moving that's a great Habit to have🤗

    • @sarah3796
      @sarah3796 Год назад +11

      Yeah!! And the son actually saves money

  • @Ravenousyouth
    @Ravenousyouth Год назад +126

    I love that gail immediately sees that it is messed up that they both work full time and the husband only does %20 of the chores . Then he says : i wish my kids did chores !!! set an example durr

    • @totalDfitness
      @totalDfitness 4 месяца назад

      Kids do chores.. parents work 😊

    • @JewelBlueIbanez
      @JewelBlueIbanez 3 месяца назад +2

      In fairness, he earns more and has a more physically demanding job.

    • @woody5563
      @woody5563 2 месяца назад +2

      He does earn 25% more money than her so the least she can do is the chores 🤷‍♀️

    • @areasonableperson24
      @areasonableperson24 2 месяца назад

      Yes - he has a penis and therefore earns more. That is so fair in 2024.

    • @carylhalfwassen8555
      @carylhalfwassen8555 2 месяца назад

      In a family I know the children do not have chores, they have contributions (to the family household). They do get $ for additional tasks around the house, yard, with pets.

  • @keithgozon9915
    @keithgozon9915 2 года назад +175

    This show is only 10-15 years old. I can’t wrap around my head how cheap the house back then in Canada relative to family income. Their family income is 105k, and their house was like 150k. Fast forward 2022, is a totally different scenario. This house seems like 3 br, 2 bath, and 2 garage. You cannot buy a house like that for 150k even in rural Canada.

    • @73cidalia
      @73cidalia 2 года назад +15

      In this case, relative to their income. My husband and I certainly weren’t making $100,000 a year 10-15 years ago. We barely made half that. And we still don’t make that much. But, yes, house prices (and rent) have gone up too much.

    • @lisamarielund6292
      @lisamarielund6292 2 года назад +14

      Try buying a house in Orange County in Southern California. The average price is 1.1 million. Average price is $789,000 for the state of California.

    • @darakristi
      @darakristi 2 года назад +2

      @@lisamarielund6292 Wow! I went to CSUF, had no idea houses cost that much. I'm from Riverside and prices there have gone up considerably. Moved to Austin and it is getting extremely expensive here from all of us Californians moving here lol.

    • @lisamarielund6292
      @lisamarielund6292 2 года назад +3

      @@darakristi $535.000 will get you a dumpy 2 bed 2 bath 994 Sq foot condo in cruddy Garden Grove.

    • @lolgriffin3243
      @lolgriffin3243 2 года назад +2

      Australia is the same. Average wage is 70-80K. Average house prices are 500k somewhere cheap.

  • @Dominique...
    @Dominique... 2 года назад +49

    I watch this show every time I need to get my money together

  • @dcamnc1
    @dcamnc1 2 года назад +148

    I have a coworker that keeps putting everything into his mortgage, multiple cars, vacations, etc. And he claims these things are now "paid off" because he paid them with a refi. Unbelieveable. He'll be paying that mortgage till he dies.

    • @teresahegerich8835
      @teresahegerich8835 2 года назад +16

      Yikes! I caused a bankruptcy early in our marriage. The good news is that I learned from it, and our first bankruptcy was our last one. We didn't buy a home until 46 though. The good news on that is that I am two months ahead on that.

    • @allisonwillcox9393
      @allisonwillcox9393 2 года назад +11

      Literally what my friend is doing, they can’t afford their mortgage so they refinance to pay it… it’s a bad cycle

    • @1anythingandeverything
      @1anythingandeverything 6 месяцев назад +4

      @@allisonwillcox9393 yeah, sounds like financially uneducated. wealthy people use the refi as a down payment for a second place, and rent it out, and generate another income stream; then they use the income stream to buy their toys

    • @peggypeggy4137
      @peggypeggy4137 4 месяца назад +7

      @@allisonwillcox9393 I have a friend that inherited a house 25 yrs ago. The house was worth 200K back then. They bought out the brother for 100 K , so owed 100K for mortgage. Fast forward 2024 and they owe 400K. They smoke tons of weed. The house never completed renovation-wise. They are having a lot of trouble financially and the bank suggested that they sell. Too bad Gail has retired, although I don't think they would take her advice, lol.

  • @douglasgriffiths3534
    @douglasgriffiths3534 2 года назад +45

    I've been repainting, drywall repair, and laying tile after my husband died. I've had experience in these fields, and know how to do them correctly. I gave my main bathroom a makeover---tiled floors, walls, and ceiling in black and white checkerboard. Took me 3 weeks (I work a 10 hour shift M-F at my job), and even installed a new black toilet by myself (I always wanted one). I'm happy now that in my home all carpet has been replaced with tile that I did myself, and looks great. Yep, I do use spacers and cut it to be sure it all fit nicely. I'm proud of what I'm doing, and it surely is a lot cheaper to DIY, and pay for the materials. And it's fun to do if you know how. (Jan Griffiths).

    • @carojames6776
      @carojames6776 2 года назад +3

      Good for you, well done and saved yourself a small fortune.

    • @areasonableperson24
      @areasonableperson24 2 месяца назад

      You are an inspiration. Maybe I can try to learn to cut tile and do it myself.

  • @alicedotkay
    @alicedotkay 2 года назад +49

    I wish they would bring this show back... one thing I love about this show is that Gail not only addresses $ issues but family dynamics as well.

    • @lvega5606
      @lvega5606 2 года назад +2

      Hmmm....maybe I should make a show like this. I'm very analytical, though. I probably would've gotten I to the weeds about how it was actually smart to roll the auto debt into the mortgage, but not if the rate adjusted higher. And did opportunity cost analyses and such.

  • @karenfisher589
    @karenfisher589 2 года назад +100

    What a fantastic episode with a 180 degree turnaround! The two children have learned a great deal from this experience, and will have years to build their wealth.

  • @wendynicklin7693
    @wendynicklin7693 2 года назад +37

    Bring back this show ☺️ it's needed 🙂

    • @kikihowe4799
      @kikihowe4799 2 года назад +2

      Gail was finished so it was her idea to leave …

  • @janebaker4912
    @janebaker4912 2 года назад +178

    They paid just 154k for that house!!?!
    A mortgage of $130k with an income of $105k. My god!

    • @kara2162
      @kara2162 2 года назад +31

      We had the same house price and income except that we paid off the mortgage in full in 10 years and we cash flowed the 80k in renovations.

    • @shilarakesh
      @shilarakesh 2 года назад +32

      I think that was almost 20 years ago. This show is from the early 2000’s

    • @myyt3824
      @myyt3824 2 года назад +20

      That’s very reasonable. VERY reasonable. The refinancing, however, is not.

    • @cjhoward409
      @cjhoward409 2 года назад +17

      @@shilarakesh
      But the income was good for back in the early 2,000’s 👍🏻

    • @LucasFernandez-fk8se
      @LucasFernandez-fk8se 2 года назад +1

      @@cjhoward409 the income is decent now, and the home cost was cheap in the early 2000s. I mean you gotta remember before 2021/2022 the US had 2000s wages and 2000s home prices and 2000s costs of living. The dollar store still existed, 5$ foot longs existed for like 20 years, a home in 2005 was let’s say 230k, it crashed to like 170k by 2012 and by the end of the trump admin it was like 230-250k again. Wages were stagnant until the end of the trump presidency where they went up 8 grand from 2017-2019 taking the average wage from the 50k range to the 60k range for Americans but the inflation was still very low before Joe Biden. So wages and home prices were comparable to today Tbh

  • @CeravvvEgan
    @CeravvvEgan 2 месяца назад +4

    What a lovely family and beautiful kids

  • @adricruz9740
    @adricruz9740 4 месяца назад +14

    We need this show back!!!!

    • @liviadrusilla6778
      @liviadrusilla6778 4 месяца назад +2

      I am watching this in the UK and am shocked at how many credit cards people have. In the UK you cannot obtain copious amounts of credit without proof that you can afford to pay it back. Unheard of to add car credit onto a mortgage

  • @Shealynne7
    @Shealynne7 2 года назад +30

    This family had the best attitude that I have seen so far. It's funny watching this for the first time years later and so little has changed beyond the fashion and the more extreme numbers we have now.

  • @cherylvasquez5333
    @cherylvasquez5333 2 месяца назад +6

    When I went to work hubby agreed to do half cooking and household chores. That lasted about 2 weeks. Then it was all me. We worked same place about 10 hours a day. But I came home cooked, cleaned, laundry. He was bad about charging on credit cards. I’d work overtime and save so could go on vacation wish was a lot of time camping He passed after we were together 40 years. I now have money and I paid off house.

  • @agriope2334
    @agriope2334 3 месяца назад +6

    "I look forward to the future now" Priceless, worth so much more than all those THINGS!

  • @jesseforce9933
    @jesseforce9933 2 года назад +76

    Good for this family. Looking at bills can make you feel small. I hope they stuck to it and are doing well.

    • @carojames6776
      @carojames6776 2 года назад +1

      Some people don't LOOK at the bills, that's the problem.

  • @SIP612
    @SIP612 2 года назад +11

    I love seeing families come together 🫂

  • @irhonda31
    @irhonda31 2 года назад +42

    The kids will really benefit from this knowledge if they keep it up. Wish I had this when I was young.

  • @andreamacintyre4220
    @andreamacintyre4220 2 года назад +45

    The good old days when you could get a house in Toronto for $150,000. That house has to be worth 1.5 million by now

    • @Rooneytunes01
      @Rooneytunes01 Год назад +2

      You’re right. That’s what I think when I watch these episodes…. They’re all housing millionaires if they hung on to these homes

    • @caterinaramirez8864
      @caterinaramirez8864 Год назад +5

      I think of my parents who didn’t want to spend more then 100k on their home in 2000 even though their dream home in a nicer area was like 150k and that was just too scary for them to even consider. If only they knew 😢

  • @vickialm2596
    @vickialm2596 2 года назад +44

    The kids should've joined dad at the cooking course 😁

  • @bookmagicroe9553
    @bookmagicroe9553 2 года назад +74

    Years ago I also went on strike. Days later the kid asks where his clean baseball pants are. Answer: wherever you put them after you washed them.
    Daughter wanted a ride. Answer: I'm not a taxi service, what did you do to locate a ride or what else could you do, like ride a bike. Husband: what's
    for dinner. Answer: whatever you took out of the freezer this morning. Husband mentioned dog hair on the floor. Answer: the mop is in the hallway
    closet. At the end of the week, everyone had appreciation for the time and effort to manage a home. My grown sons can clean a kitchen, mop a floor,
    do laundry, balance a budget, scrub a bathroom, cook, make repairs, and work as a team with their wives.

    • @evr0.904
      @evr0.904 2 месяца назад

      So you're just a miserable banshee? Got it.

  • @marionbowler5440
    @marionbowler5440 2 года назад +14

    Please bring this show back!!!!!🍁🇨🇦

  • @Lunchladydoyle
    @Lunchladydoyle 4 месяца назад +9

    How sad is it to hear a parent, a father no less, to say I wish my kids would do chores !! Who’s the adult here guy ??

  • @ebonylewis1680
    @ebonylewis1680 2 года назад +13

    I remember this show. I really enjoyed it back then.

  • @sylviasanchez585
    @sylviasanchez585 2 года назад +3

    Very well done, Gale. I miss watching this program on TV. This family did really well. I hope they stick with it.

  • @elipotter369
    @elipotter369 2 года назад +22

    When my old car was costing a lot in maintenance a few years in a row, I worked out the real cost by adding the car cost onto the mortgage and working out how much interest on it for the ten years till the mortgage was paid out. I don't understand why people don't think to do this when buying anything.
    I had a friend who told me proudly they'd bought a new car for cash "oh, you've paid off your mortgage then"? I said. "No" she said. In reality, she was paying the car's value at the interest rate of the mortgage, year after year until the mortgage was gone.
    She didn't need a new car in my view - hers was 5 years old. I kept mine for 19 years then someone ran into me and wrote it off.

    • @MoreMedication
      @MoreMedication 6 месяцев назад +2

      You sound like us. (Except for the accident part.) Our only car is also 19 years old, and every time we get in we tell her what a good girl she is and how much we love her. We are hoping for another 3-5 years out of her before we consign her to the big slag heap in the sky.

    • @elipotter369
      @elipotter369 6 месяцев назад +2

      @MoreMedication 😀 I've had so much social pressure with that original car to update - & people looking down their noses at me - but I was the one paying down my mortgage, not them.
      I replaced it with a new car- small, basic but does the job & still looks new after 17 years!

  • @suzanneweaver7579
    @suzanneweaver7579 2 года назад +10

    What a gorgeous family! I hope they stick to budgeting!!

  • @bridgettavelar2024
    @bridgettavelar2024 2 года назад +12

    Omg she just called them dumb 🤣

    • @M_SC
      @M_SC 4 месяца назад

      I love her frankness

  • @19madeline427
    @19madeline427 День назад

    I love that she involves the kids so they can learn a few tips and also SEE how the family is in financial trouble by doing what they have been.

  • @TrangHuynh-hz9vb
    @TrangHuynh-hz9vb 2 года назад +3

    That is so sweet . Thanks Gail I did learn alot from this show . Please keep it .

  • @joyaustin6581
    @joyaustin6581 2 года назад +23

    Wonder how they are today

  • @nickyb7266
    @nickyb7266 4 месяца назад +1

    This was such a good episode! This budgeting should be taught in schools! It’s sad to think that kids have no role model other than their parents who are highly in debt and clueless

  • @lyndamcleod2242
    @lyndamcleod2242 2 года назад +16

    Gail gets very sharp when they don’t do as she asks! This woman is an expert,listen to what she says. Do what she advises ,don’t let her waste her time!!!She could be helping someone else !

    • @M_SC
      @M_SC 4 месяца назад +1

      Love her no fear of confrontation

  • @ginnyberg9271
    @ginnyberg9271 2 года назад +3

    I just found the show on RUclips is it still on this was the best family I’ve watched so far they really wanted it

    • @ManifestingShrink
      @ManifestingShrink 2 года назад

      No it’s not still on but there’s like five seasons worth on RUclips :)

  • @MikeN1375
    @MikeN1375 2 года назад +3

    I love the blue outfit from the beginning. Beautiful! Ms Vaz Oxlade has a gift for speaking the truth.

    • @ritaamor283
      @ritaamor283 2 месяца назад

      The outfit was so great!!!

  • @debbieframpton3857
    @debbieframpton3857 2 года назад +32

    Looks like the mother is trying to be her daughter's best friend

    • @nellautumngirl
      @nellautumngirl 4 месяца назад

      That's not going to work, and if it works she will forever be dependent on her mom.

  • @dovenflight2056
    @dovenflight2056 Год назад

    Absolutely. It is very much needed

  • @KristinA-xv4yk
    @KristinA-xv4yk 4 месяца назад +6

    I kinda hate these ppl for being so careless when they were in such amazing circumstances! They started with a 130k mortgage, making 105k annually. We can only dream of such ratios today 😩

    • @ritaamor283
      @ritaamor283 2 месяца назад

      Can you imagine that ratio today? 😭😭🤯

  • @ADR7707
    @ADR7707 2 года назад +32

    You would think that couples, representing two minds, two brains, two salaries, two points of input, would be in better control of their finances, but they're not.

    • @bookmagicroe9553
      @bookmagicroe9553 2 года назад +1

      @Diane: when we were early in our marriage we would go shopping together and spend money like two drunken sailors. When we would buy
      stuff separately we questioned each other about the cost, necessity, etc. We decided to discuss possible needs and wants BEFORE going
      shopping, so we wouldn't always spend like two kids in a candy store.

  • @mandytroost7274
    @mandytroost7274 3 месяца назад +1

    I love the ending of this episode

  • @christinebutler7630
    @christinebutler7630 2 года назад +10

    The renovations look like they were basically cosmetic, not structural. Not liking your cabinets is not a good reason to remortgage your house!

  • @shannonchapman227
    @shannonchapman227 2 месяца назад +4

    It's now 2024, and we need Gail!!

  • @camillecali2
    @camillecali2 2 года назад +16

    I was just thinking I wanted to see her help the working class poor and voila!! I know some people think they make $105000 a year but that is $26000 per person so not a lot of money. Good job. This one helps me as I am retired and live on $18,000 a year. Haven't been able to save but I am going to use the jars and see what happens.

    • @dudanunesbleff
      @dudanunesbleff 2 года назад +10

      This is not a poor family, and certainly even less in the early 2000's,when this was filmed. Where I am from, in 2022, making 25000 euros a year is considered middle class.

    • @PandoraBear357
      @PandoraBear357 2 года назад +8

      They are solidly middle class. Even separately, they would not fall under the poverty line or even be close to it. Their original mortgage amount was a reasonable amount. They just got into the mindset that refinancing to pay for a lifestyle above their means was worth it. You can't have an upper middle class lifestyle on a lower middle class budget, but you still aren't poor.

  • @MBoldman50
    @MBoldman50 4 месяца назад +1

    Great couple and family!

  • @BuffShamans
    @BuffShamans Месяц назад

    Awesome family

  • @theripleyeffect5203
    @theripleyeffect5203 5 месяцев назад +14

    Here's an AWESOME alternative to sending kids to camp and it's free. Send your kid to help with chores at a family member's home and have them send their kid to yours. Each of you teach them valuable skills like efficient and thorough cleaning, proper laundry skills, cooking and managing money. They should learn money management by observing the family member's smart financial habits. This will be a priceless education!

    • @JaNouWatIkVind
      @JaNouWatIkVind 4 месяца назад

      My mother makes a list. And she pays extraordinary wages to the kids. (Please don’t apply)

    • @marciebigley1820
      @marciebigley1820 2 месяца назад

      All camps usually have scholarships. Find those ones!

  • @Yaya2214CJ
    @Yaya2214CJ 2 месяца назад +2

    Say No to me to do your chores, you'll learn what discipline means. Our daughter started doing chores ar 5 years old. She got a little money and by the time she was old enough to drive, she had the money to buy a good used car and pay her insurance because she had a job at 16. And the same goes with our grandsons. They were expected to do chores.

  • @carrierooks3816
    @carrierooks3816 2 месяца назад +3

    The fact that they are shameless about borrowing money from their kid is insane!

  • @tigerlee9613
    @tigerlee9613 6 месяцев назад +4

    They need to bring back the houses that were priced at $150,000.

  • @denisebarker9288
    @denisebarker9288 2 года назад +11

    Unbelievable. Good Luck in your futures.

  • @budgetingdaddyuk6761
    @budgetingdaddyuk6761 2 года назад +1

    We need this program back on.

  • @TheImperfectReader
    @TheImperfectReader 2 года назад +11

    Gail don't play!!

  • @lizadivine3785
    @lizadivine3785 11 месяцев назад

    The family did a GREAT job on those kitchen cabinets!

  • @kevinkoy2579
    @kevinkoy2579 2 года назад +17

    Already see the problem...2 cars and fancy camps...working on the house that looks fine and having kids.

  • @moewilson4605
    @moewilson4605 2 года назад +3

    This show updated would be great. I guess one common thread with today is that many people budget poorly. The scary thing is that their income then is probably more than some households make today. Their townhome is $230,000 but today would be probably $500,000 to $600,000 in my city of Ottawa. Average single home prices are north of $700,000. Inflation is high etc… At least I could see this couple still together as their seems to be a warmth and respect that many couples are lacking.

  • @drewconway7135
    @drewconway7135 2 года назад +30

    These two are doomed. Mortgage not paid off until age 70, and then $250k saved for retirement? Yeesh.

    • @sct4040
      @sct4040 2 года назад +2

      They can sell the house once the kids are gone, that money goes into retirement. A couple can easily live in a 1 bedroom condo.

    • @autobotdiva9268
      @autobotdiva9268 2 года назад

      I wud sell

    • @russwes7778
      @russwes7778 2 года назад +2

      they both probably have pension plans at work.

    • @drewconway7135
      @drewconway7135 4 месяца назад

      @@machinesnmetalUnless they are going to eat the house, they aren’t fine

  • @lisaduncan3363
    @lisaduncan3363 2 года назад +12

    We did not have an allowance growing up. My father said you live here, right? Do it! and we did. Today kids are brats.

  • @Decodedz
    @Decodedz 2 года назад +6

    Live like you are poor even if you aren't. I buy things second hand even though can easily afford new stuff. Money is precious and easily spent.

  • @ronaldreagan-ik6hz
    @ronaldreagan-ik6hz Год назад

    That was cool with the grill. Good show.

  • @davidsensing2664
    @davidsensing2664 2 года назад +27

    I blame our education system for part of this. In high school, I was required to take classes like Chemistry. It would have been much better to educate on personal finance. Thankfully, I found Dave Ramsey early and control my expenses. I just updated my kitchen but saved up to do it. I am trying not to touch my home equity with the plan of paying it off ten years before I retire.

    • @sct4040
      @sct4040 2 года назад +19

      Why do people depend on HS to teach them everything? What happened to the parents? School taught you how to read, go read on finance.

    • @cjhoward409
      @cjhoward409 2 года назад +7

      My parents taught me finances the beginning of high school. I also got the finance class 2 years later in hs.
      Yes, parents should be showing their kids.
      Many years ago I was a foster parent. I also helped those kids learn all about finance and budgeting. 😀

    • @davidsensing2664
      @davidsensing2664 2 года назад +6

      @@sct4040 Honestly, because many parents don't know it. High School should provide a fundamental education to function in society. It is great if parents help but not everyone has the "perfect family situation". If parents are in huge credit card debt, do you think they will be good to teach their kid how to budget?

    • @davidsensing2664
      @davidsensing2664 2 года назад +3

      @@cjhoward409 Great that it was taught to you from two areas. Money management is key for adults and a large reason why people get divorced. It needs to be stressed.

    • @violettippet5246
      @violettippet5246 2 года назад +1

      In alberta they do teach finance its called CALM. Albertans still find themselves in this mess. Why? Because money is 99% discipline and 1% education. Also parents should teach this to their kids.

  • @cmf6081
    @cmf6081 2 месяца назад +1

    This episode aired in 2009. I wish someone would do a show following up on all of the couples (all 9 seasons).

  • @gretalukoseviciute2058
    @gretalukoseviciute2058 Год назад

    What beautiful kids

  • @ktsterlin9304
    @ktsterlin9304 2 года назад +7

    Man, we just bought a house and there’s definitely stuff I want to upgrade or fix, but we have a plan for it. It boggles my mind when people get loans- maybe some of the stuff was urgent…
    Also, if all my husband made was hotdogs, then I’m eating hotdogs 😅

  • @GunterKopka
    @GunterKopka 11 месяцев назад

    I totally agree with you show is the best please bring back I love Gal ❤

  • @Jane5720
    @Jane5720 2 года назад +5

    How can people be so unaware?

  • @sandycarroll7914
    @sandycarroll7914 2 года назад

    Good job

  • @donnapoolejackofalltrades7827
    @donnapoolejackofalltrades7827 2 года назад +5

    This need to help people are on SSI and social security.

  • @GNYC77
    @GNYC77 Год назад +2

    We need this show 2023

  • @bovnycccoperalover3579
    @bovnycccoperalover3579 2 года назад +3

    Gail made me realize that the refi I did five years ago, only moved my debt around. At least it wasn't more than the original price.

  • @patobrien6364
    @patobrien6364 4 месяца назад

    What a nice family 😍

  • @susanschmitz5871
    @susanschmitz5871 4 месяца назад +3

    Look at the prices back then, no where near what they are now, their house if they still have it must be worth $500k by now.

  • @tuc1113
    @tuc1113 2 года назад +13

    I wish unexpected illness and emergencies would be added into budgets. Cancer, an accident, MS, natural disaster etc. can totally destroy a person/family financially.

    • @teresahegerich8835
      @teresahegerich8835 2 года назад +3

      It sure can.

    • @vivianblack2951
      @vivianblack2951 2 года назад

      This is Canada... Universal Healthcare. Home insurance will cover natural disasters.

    • @kirstyirsty8919
      @kirstyirsty8919 2 года назад +1

      She always has money set aside in budgets for emergencies. She doesn't mention it in every episode but she does have a savings category for emergencies in her budgets.
      Typical advice is to have 3-6 months of living expenses set aside as an emergency fund.

  • @tia.the.mockingbird
    @tia.the.mockingbird Год назад +3

    Gail looks like a Greek goddess in this blue dress!

  • @douglasgriffiths3534
    @douglasgriffiths3534 2 года назад +11

    Kids the ages those kids are and having no chores is disgraceful. The kids should be doing the dishes (boys too, not just girls), yard work (girls too, not just boys), keeping their rooms clean, doing their own laundry, and taking out trash. Cleaning the bathrooms as well. When I was a kid, mu mom worked all week. I did my own laundry, then did my parents' laundry. I kept my room clean. I cleaned the bathrooms, and took out the trash. I got a very generous allowance, but I had to work for it too. Not only that, but in summer, I mowed the yards, raked leaves in the fall, and shoveled snow in winter. I thought of my chores as a game, and actually had fun doing them. (Jan Griffiths).

  • @elizabethanderson136
    @elizabethanderson136 22 дня назад

    Gail is the best. Who redoes their kitchen and doesn't do the cupboards??? 🤣 Tell em Gail!

  • @tvrecepion
    @tvrecepion 2 года назад +5

    She keeps referring to these peoples home as an asset, it’s not. An asset makes money, an expense is a liability. This home is listed in the liability column.

    • @moewilson4605
      @moewilson4605 2 года назад +3

      Mortgages are not considered a liability unless you are truly in over your head. If they still live there that same home at $230,000 would be over $500,000 in my city. We bought our home for $570,000 seven years ago and it is now worth over $900,000. I guess home prices really depend on where you live. A coworker of mine left Toronto to move here to Ottawa because of cheaper home prices. He was lucky that both him and his wife had jobs that they could relocate with.

    • @robocop581
      @robocop581 2 года назад

      A car doesn't make money but it's an asset. Gold bar doesn't make money but it's an asset.

    • @tvrecepion
      @tvrecepion 2 года назад

      When you own a home (that you live in) does cash flow in or out? In equals an asset, out flowing money would be listed in the liability column.

    • @robocop581
      @robocop581 2 года назад +2

      @@tvrecepion If you didn't have that home then you'll be paying rent. Take your pick. Either way you need to pay to live somewhere and owning a home is cheaper than renting in the long term

    • @robocop581
      @robocop581 2 года назад +1

      @@tvrecepion I can sell a home or apply for a HELOC from the bank. Now why would the bank loan me cash using my house as collateral if it's not an asset. Think

  • @Robboa1
    @Robboa1 Год назад +3

    Can you even imagine a decent place to live for $130,000????? They didn’t know how fortunate they were - and that they nearly ****** it all away.

  • @IndBro2
    @IndBro2 Месяц назад

    I have our budget posted on our wall, along with our envelopes for cash & our notebook to write everything down. The numbers don’t lie!

  • @cherryrotella3714
    @cherryrotella3714 3 месяца назад +2

    I really like Gayle 😊

  • @jreinel1966
    @jreinel1966 2 года назад +12

    To poor to save but not to poor to spend spend spend?..i want to go half a million dollars in 5 years but in to savings for sure..!

  • @janebaker4912
    @janebaker4912 2 года назад +16

    250k in retirement!!!
    Oh guys who make $105. My god. They're wrecked

    • @MrsEJV
      @MrsEJV 2 года назад +2

      Probably 2006?

    • @throughmyshadow
      @throughmyshadow 2 года назад +5

      Them and most people. The median retirement savings for 55-65 year olds is ~$90K. Their not special in their poor retirement savings.

    • @lisamarielund6292
      @lisamarielund6292 2 года назад

      They will probably need to find part-time jobs in addition to their Social Security and any pensions they will be getting.

  • @deenibeeniable
    @deenibeeniable Месяц назад

    When Gail says "THOUsand" it's so brutal.

  • @kat_ie_9984
    @kat_ie_9984 2 года назад +4

    We had a UK version of this I can't remember what it was called though

    • @jester7792
      @jester7792 2 года назад +8

      Spendaholics

    • @kat_ie_9984
      @kat_ie_9984 2 года назад +2

      @@jester7792 yes that's the one

  • @marciebigley1820
    @marciebigley1820 Год назад +1

    My parents never paid for summer camps! I went many summers! These ppl are like my parents ended up, broke and depending on my brother and I. They're so entitled they genuinely don't care about anyone comfort except themselves.

  • @thegreenmanofnorwich
    @thegreenmanofnorwich 29 дней назад

    Renovations have to be done very carefully. I tend to think "live with it" unless something is really awful (e.g. a bed is broken or the oven doesn't heat up)

  • @Cindy-by3ho
    @Cindy-by3ho 2 года назад +5

    The children shouldn't get an allowance at their age. They are old enough to get a part time job.

  • @christinebutler7630
    @christinebutler7630 2 года назад +22

    Sell the kids, rice and and beans...

    • @emmanuel43
      @emmanuel43 2 года назад +4

      rice and beans are healthier than fast junk foods

    • @musicforthemind8338
      @musicforthemind8338 2 года назад +5

      Lol Dave Ramsey

    • @bovnycccoperalover3579
      @bovnycccoperalover3579 8 месяцев назад +3

      You can substitute lentils for beans. There a great Mediterranean dish called majudarra that includes lentils, rice, onions and yogurt or hummus. Delicious and on RUclips.

    • @debbieframpton3857
      @debbieframpton3857 5 месяцев назад

      I don't care for rice and beans or lentils but I'm also not in debt and save 20% of my monthly income

    • @janeandrews1790
      @janeandrews1790 3 месяца назад

      ​@@bovnycccoperalover3579soóooo good!

  • @missprizzy1
    @missprizzy1 11 дней назад

    "Theyre so dumb they put it in their mortgage" lmao

  • @VanessaDove-p4j
    @VanessaDove-p4j 4 месяца назад +3

    2024 we need you

  • @Maya-ln1os
    @Maya-ln1os 2 года назад +3

    I'll never understand why people borrow against their house just to remodel...totally unnecessary.
    That should be for emergencies only...like a tree falling thru your roof and you have to get a new roof ASAP.

  • @emilylong5157
    @emilylong5157 2 месяца назад +1

    It amazes me that people can make 4x what I make and still be in debt... Simply because they aren't being aware.

  • @ronaldreagan-ik6hz
    @ronaldreagan-ik6hz Год назад

    Well done. Good info

  • @sinkintostillness
    @sinkintostillness Год назад +2

    Oh wow, you got your mortgage payment down! - no it's still $1747 I just wrote it as $1700?? Did she really think Gail wouldn't notice? Surely she's seen the show!

  • @fionabeeming2486
    @fionabeeming2486 Месяц назад +3

    Watching this in December 2024 still so relevant!!! And willl probably still in 5 years....