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In the mid 2000s, my now adult child used to wear dresses to middle school. I actually had one of his teachers call me to tell me that my child was gay! So I asked her if she had something against gay people, to which she said no. Then I asked her if it was against school policy for boys to wear dresses and she said no. So then I asked her why she was interrupting my day with her stupidity! And then I had my child removed from her class because what if he was gay and wasn't ready to tell me or what if I was intolerant and she put him in danger? I'm with Sophia, clothes don't have a gender.
I was in HS during this time and the theatre class clown decided to wear a dress to school for lols. The hillarious thing is absolutely no one cared, no adults, no students, like there were no open transgender kids I knew of, but still it was like huh, ok w/e.... 😅
@@RepubsWannaMarryKids this is the way!!! It should absolutely mean nothing at all. Didn't Kurt Cobain get married in a dress? For me, it's like saying girls shouldn't wear pants. Makes no sense.
I just prefer a younger child to have the heads up. If after telling them how people will most likely react then sure. My teen wore a dress to LARPs and I helped him pick out a nice one. So it isn't that I care if they decide that is what they want. I just do not want them to be unprepared, I certainly would inform a younger child who may not be aware that ridicule is a possibility. It is no different than I would handle anything else. Information is key.
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I guess then coming nude to your middle school also shouldnt matter ,
I’m sorry but as a parent, you have to reinforce boundaries if you were being told over and over and over to not do something there are consequences. I think this Dad is perfectly justified in letting his daughter face her consequences full blast. What if when she gets older she starts stealing other things and that will lead to her being in jail. This father created a situation where her daughter will never in her life repeat the same stupid mistake ever again without there being dire consequences to her well being. So good on the father!!!
I completely agree. I was 100% on bug dads side. Actions have consequences and this consequence was entirely natural. He didn’t yell at her, he didn’t ground her or take her things, he didn’t put his hands on her, etc. he literally just didn’t get up in the middle of the night to handle the bugs SHE brought into her room.
100% agreed. Had she listened in the first place, nothing would've happened.
If she got older, she wouldn't go to jail for stealing bugs. Dick dad
Bruh i have European parents. This seems completely normal to me.
I agree 100% dad did the right thing
Edit. This is a good lesson on no means no and do not or else
That friend group is the real MVP. To turn your back on someone you’ve known for 20+ years because they do someone dirty like that. Those dudes got some standards and ops ex fell wayyyyu short
My now 7 year old nephew was OBSESSED with Frozen and Princess Anna when he was 2-4. He had a Princess Anna Frozen dress and wore it literally everywhere. His parents didn’t push it on him, they didn’t push gender stereotypes or push him to think he was gay because he liked Frozen and wearing that dress. He was just playing dress up like his little sister. Now he is a 7 year old who is literally ALL BOY!
This is how it should be. Parents need to stop pushing one way or the other. Just let your kids live, and guide YOU in what they like. Don’t tell them they’re “gay” because they’re a little boy who likes Disney Princesses. Ti them it’s just a show.
Yeah this. I would often cross dress and play as male characters or more characteristically male roles and games as a kid, and that was the 90s. I'm glad my parent bought me army men I asked for xmas, and the barbie I wanted. As an adult I am cis female and now actually enjoy being girly at times when I hated it as a kid.
@@RepubsWannaMarryKids We hate things forced on us - but when we can choose, we love what we choose.
Amazon sells a thermostsat lock that works amazingly for rude house guests who think they should have the final say over the temperature in your home. It costs about 12 bucks, screws to the wall from the inside (so no taking the screws out) and locks with a key. They'd have to bust it apart to change the temp.
That's cool, but that wasn't her only issue with them; they were openly ostile towards her about anything.
They played with the thermostat to piss her off. If it wasn't this, it would've been something else, and she can't keep spending money to "proof" her home just for them as if they're toddlers.
They did not want to be cordial with her in her own apartment and expected assistance from their son to oppress her.
There's an even better thermostat lock called not letting these assholes in the door. 🤷🏻♀
@@triciad4100 Preventative measures are always best
@@Poufkimashoula1 Agreed.
@@Poufkimashoula1. I’m positive that this person knows all of that other extra stuff about OP and her in-laws. I think it was just more of an idea suggestion to anyone Who might need it, because it was in the story and make the thought of the thermostat lock thing seen on amazon, and was just suggesting it or thought it was at least worth a mention. Wasn’t super serious to insinuate that it was a suggestion that could have solved all the problems.
I've been in a situation like Story 1. He made the right decision. With unrequited love, your life is at a standstill. You can't move on, and you can't pursue your love either.
Distance & time away is the only thing that will help heal the heart. Otherwise, every time you see them, your life comes to a standstill.
I think the term self-flagellation is more appropriate for OP rather then masochist - masochist is specific to gaining pleasure from receiving harm or whatever, OP is not enjoying his self sabotage. Whereas self-flagellation is a term to describe inflicting pain on oneself as a form of penance. As his drive to sabotage himself is driven by guilt rather then pleasure it makes more sense to me. Or maybe there is an even more accurate term! If anyone knows hit me up :)
Exactly
Agreed
Before I even hear the hows and whys, my answer is YES. Abso-frkn-lutely sue the crap out of the mother who couldn't be bothered to stop her kid from destroying what I assume she will refer to as "just a poster."
I have zero empathy for parents who refuse to make their kids behave in other people's homes. It is not a difficult thing to teach kids.
As a former K-12 teacher, I've had lots of students behave like the little girl taking the worms. Dad is not the AH. Being warned multiple times and given various chances to do other tasks instead, and she's still knowingly doing something that she knows she should not do? Dad was right to let her see the consequences of not listening as well as taking something that is not yours. Would have been good to teach her about the worms as soon as she showed interest in them. But still, not the AH.
I totally agree. I am a high school teacher and I used to teach middle school. A LOT of kids think they are slick when they're not and do dumb stuff just to get their way. Those small bad behaviors will quickly turn into larger, more serious, bad behaviors of not corrected early. She may say that she is mad now but that is only because her shenanigans came back to bite her and daddy made her face the consequences instead of coming to her rescue. She made her bed and he made her lay in it, and I guarantee that she will never steal anything from her father again.
Definitely agree
Current K teacher: this wasn’t appropriate. Parent should have taught about the worms and not make them so tempting and educate. I’m all for natural consequences within developmentally appropriate means.
@@emilypeterson1133 You say this as if she was not able to comprehend that stealing is wrong and that no means no. It's not like she is an infant, she is old enough to know better. And besides, how he supposed to make LITERAL INSECTS less tempting? They are worms used for feeding other animals, not toys. Most people wouldn't even want to touch them, let alone steal them.
Hot take. He’s kind of the ahole in this. The thing that makes him is that he didn’t take the time to teach her about the mealworms. He could have bought one of those cheap plastic cages for transporting mice. Put some of the bedding for the bird’s cage on the cage and keep a few of the mealworms in there. Have her look at the worms to see them turn into beetles and explain to her what is happening.
Actually, when i was bullied for reading star trek books, changing my clothes radically distracted the bullies from who i was to what i was wearing. It was liberating
I’m sorry to hear about your breakup Sam ❤ I hope you find peace in your heart soon
I have a special diet. I buy my own food. I am an adult. I had to set a boundary with my roommate (my mom) because she made food that she expected me to eat that I CANNOT eat without severe pain and absolutely awful blood sugars.
Messing with someone’s food is very serious. These consequences are appropriate. What is NOT appropriate is other people sticking their noses into this family’s business. They are clearly showing that they do not care about the vegan daughter at all. Now everyone clearly knows how those grandparents and “friends” feel about the daughter. This is so sad. I feel really bad for the daughter.
With the dress - I would usually think it was ridiculous to blow so much money on a dress - but replacement value is replacement value. I was thinking NTA before finding out that C had popped seams got it off, then deliberately hacked it apart to take something special away because of her own selfishness - I hope therapy helps, because there’s a lot of anger there. But OP is 100% NTA
I was a little on the fence but leaning towards NTA when I thought it was an actual college fund but then learning it wasn’t even to actually pay for college with was just a for fun account and she did it on purpose???? I’m so glad they have her in therapy and I feel so bad for the bride but definitely 100% NTA
For legal reasons I can not say what I would do to someone who hurts my dog/puppy/baby
The thermostat is 100% non-negotiable in our house 😂 it stays at 68 regardless of who visits. Our family members bring sweaters, but they don't mind. It is a blast of Heaven when you're coming in from the thick, humid, 100 degree heat
My father in law barely runs the AC and I always feel like I can't breathe in his house when we visit
68 is perfect
The mealworm thief got what she had coming. She should've listened.
*we actually dont know whether the daughter had been informed previously of the worms growing into beetles.
Intentionally buying someone else a dress too small is disgusting.
So when I was little I begged my mom to let me wear a GIANT bow on my head. This was way before Lady Gaga or Jojo Siwa so big bows weren't common at school.
My Mom told me I couldn't wear it but I pleaded with her because I thought it was so beautiful and she eventually relented. She said I could wear the bow but warned me that the other kids at school would most definitely bully me and say mean things. She asked me if that was something I could handle and of course I said yes cuz omg that bow is so pretty haha.
A few kids did try to start shit but I just didn't care because I loved the bow and no one could convince me otherwise. Eventually they gave up and the rest of the class decided that I was right, that the bow was awesome haha.
Anyway, O.P. is not the AH for letting his son wear the dress. Maybe he could have prepared his son for the bullying like how my Mom did, but really the teachers should have put a stop to the bullying. The school system is the AH in this story.
Agreed.... NTA or just slightly AH only for not mentioning the possibility of bullying
the male in a dress at school thing always throws me off, because it was a final year tradition at my highschool for a heap of the guys to show up in borrowed dresses for one of their final whole school meetings
I have a reptile that eats mealworms .. my kids were interested in them so I started a meal worm farm and separated them into separate containers so they could have a chance to observe them .. meal worms to beetles.. babies to meal worms and so on .. I explained each cycle and let them hold a meal worm and to this day they still aren’t a big fan of beetles 😅
If someone tells you they'll scream rāpẹ, be the first to scream. Scream whatever you like at them, just do it quickly.
Although, I really like op's response lol
I wish my husband had a best friend like the man from the first story. My husbands best friend, who was the best man at our wedding 5 years ago tried to get me to go cheat on my husband with him earlier this year after saying and doing inappropriate things more than once before this. Safe to say, they are no longer friends and my husband is better off without him
So his parents can absolutely be invited to move the f*** out, and if he does not support her and back her up and insist that his parents respect her, then he can move out too. BYE!
If someone ever kicked one of my dogs, I'd be in jail for what I would have done to the person. He would never be able to play that instrument.
Dad wasn't the AH, She wasnt in harms way, she just had a beetle in her room because she was being hard headed/defiant
As a parent you are absolutely wrong about the worms incident. The beatles, though scary, are harmless. His daughter needed to be taught that her actions have consequences.
My bf and I have an open relationship (and have since the beginning) and as someone in one ruled are everything. We have rules like, no friends (unless we are both involved), we have to tell each other anyone we are going to do things with, and no romantic things (dates etc). For us it works perfect (especially since we are both bi) and allows us to explore things the other can’t offer. We both still prefer each other over anyone and always have the opinion that sex for fun is not near comparable to sex with someone you actually love. It absolutely can be done healthy but it requires respect for each other and very specific views on sex and not just because your “bored” of your partner
With the poster thing. If you have not thought your child boundaries do not let them roam your relatives house unsupervised. Or if you do be ready for them to break something and for you to have to apologise. Your children your responsibility. Period.
Love the videos but Ngl y’all be making me feel like I got dementia HAHAHA I’m like “I’ve heard it but it’s like dejavu” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 love from aus 🇦🇺🦘
I thought I was too but then realized, this is a re-uploaded video.
Right lol same
Same here lol so pleased someone said something 🇦🇺🤣
@@lindacollins9581 you bet I sit through every video tho HAHAHHAA
@@suzy1407is it? Or did you mean a compilation?
I would explain that kids are mean, and the reality of what wearing a dress would do. But I wouldn't stop my son if he still wanted to. I wouldn't send him into the situation blindly though. When my son was 4, he wanted a princess birthday party like princess cake. Pink and purple, the whole 9. My family thought I was unhinged but I did it. He's 11 now and he still remembers it as his fav birthday party😊
Hey, mill worms are hella expensive. I have to buy them all the time for my leopard gecko. And it's like $12 just for a 15 count.
52:20 she DEFINITELY has an eating disorder. Obsession with other peoples weight is also a mental illness I can’t remember what it’s called. Also can’t believe people read that story and decided to comment “eat less and work out more”
I am soooooo satisfied that the last couple called the BS on the grandparents. And then Cancelled the room! 😂
honestly my first reaction to the husband (Miles) destroying the cake for Andy with the elf would be to slap him in front of everybody. i maybe would've been the AH but that was the first thing that came to my mind as to how i would react in that situation.
Oh, Sam is going through a breakup. That makes me sad.
i went to school where we had gender bender day for homecoming week and the boys went all out.
also, many of those same boys would wear skirts and/or dresses for fun to school. in addition to the fact that i have a male coworker who lets his daughters paint his nails and he wears skirts to work and out in public.
Im sorry but as a seamstresses my opinion on the dress was NTA, if need be do the parents do a no interest loan for the school if she really needs help rather than student loans. AFTER THE UPDATE super NTA, and knowing it was malicious the daughter pays and doesn't get any help recouping her fun money. She did it out of jealousy and spite, and decided to destroy it further after the fact and lied about how it happened
They have thermostat locks for stuff like this
I love how Sam is always in a jacket but with no pants
The only times I let my little kids sleep with me was on the rare occasion they were really sick - fever, cough, puking…
It's wild how literally no one asked.
Eh, I think using the word "simp" so loosely is dehumanizing to the woman he has feelings for Even though he shouldn't have feelings for her, she is a person, a friend, not someone on the internet trying to exploit him.
Damn tough spot for him to be in, though.
I'm in Arizona and it's been 103F to 108F everyday so we have our thermostat at 75F. As a parent I'd have told my kids that the mealworms grow into beetles, biggest obsession with my kids is bringing rocks and acorns from school.
The poster story. The fact Stan Lee signed it you cant replace that.
I have two kids and if they wanted to wear something weird, no matter what it happened to be, I would probably just say "Hey, other kids might be mean but you do you." And let them make the decision. I think if the Dad had warned his son he probably wouldn't have been so excited to wear a dress
Eh I wore lots of strange stuff thruout school and never actually got made fun of for THAT. Got made fun of for everything else. Kids tend to pick on/tease the same peeps just FYI.
I understand 1 story, I have ex who dumped me to married someone else, and now that man with wife and kid want friend tern with me, I blocked him everywhere but he still calling from private number but I'm glad we live different states.
Geez, the bagpipe story, I hope she took the dog to a vet, it couldve caused epilepsy. my puppy was hit in the head, accidentally, with a tennis racket while playing fetch at the park...started having seizures at night and was diagnosed epileptic. Passed away a few yes later from a grand mal seizure, was awful. Hopefully her dog is fine but it taught me never to throw the ball further by using a racquet and how careful hounded to be.
If you're one of those people who could never go so far as to sue a family member, relish those people with everything you have every single day. Hug them every chance you get. Let them know how much you appreciate who they are. Don't let them think for a moment that they're not as important as they are. You are the lucky ones whose family would never fk you over.
As for the rest of us, we can only hope to have a common sense judge who takes no nonsense from people.
‘We’ll do it together, live, in front of a camera’
Where do we apply for this? Asking for a friend 🤣🤣🤣
44:10 I have let my son wear a dress to school. We talked about it ahead of time, but not like, defeatist. We discussed reasons people might give him grief and practiced a few responses. He's always been a kid that gains confidence from a few dry runs.
He got a few comments from the kids we thought he would, but it was very minor and other kids stood behind my kid. This was in the last ten years.
story one: OP i am so sorry that you feel the need to start over. I hope you find a wifey soon that you love at least just as much so you can return and reunited with your family.
i totally see how a new start and keeping busy for a few years would be nice. You are not a masochist. Dont listen! (maybe ure but not cuz this) Some people just have a harder time processing and sorting their feelings. Take all you need!!!!
With the wedding dress story wtf did C mean “it wasn’t her fault”? She put it on WITHOUT permission and then INTENTIONALLY cut her way out of it. That’s nothing BUT her fault!!
Also “where’s OP supposed to bone?!” killed me 🤣
Co sleeping is so dangerous. Spend time in an ER and you will likely experience a young child being brought in with EMTs performing CPR on them after they were accidentally smothered.
My last week of a rotation in an ER ended with
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I totally get why OP would move away. Its the THUNDERBOLT. Sounds like he's experiencing that very, very rare electrical and spiritual reaction to someone. Like soul mate energy. For anyone that thinks "just get over your feelings, suck it up, don't be a simp" etc., you obviously haven't been in that situation. I totally get it. Humans are capable of falling in love many times, but the thunderbolt happens only once.There are some people you might rarely meet in life that give you such a strong feeling from the first second of meeting that you almost can't contain it. And for him to feel that with one of his friends, his BFs girlfriend.......THAT would be the torture and the masochism. Staying to endure that is self inflicted pain. There may or may not be actual soul mates in the world. That's up to you to decide if you believe in that. BUT the thunderbolt is real. The love at first sight is real. The intense, inner butterflies, electricity so strong it almost compels you to blurt out to that person how you feel.......its so real. I experienced this in high school. It wasn't normal teenager hormone stuff. This was stuff of legend. This was like The Notebook. Like you knew you may get married super young, but you'd be that old couple that celebrates their 70th anniversary. He was my first real true love. And he died later on in my junior year. And although I love my husband of 18 years, and we have grown kids, and I'm 44 now. I think about it all the time. It only happens once. Seriously. It was like something out of a movie. A literal script "their eyes meet across the room and sparks fly as she walks past him. She feels the floor go wonky under her feet, as she locks eyes with him. An out of body experience just a moment away. I know, puke right🤮😂But it's the truth. I feel so bad for OP. The one that got away sux. My advice for everyone........don't let the ONE get away. If you can help it and if you can do it without hurting people. He's right to move. He sounds like a good man with morals. And side note, WOMEN ALWAYS KNOW. It's the not being able to hold eye contact. We see straight into that wet eyed, enlarged pupil and we KNOW. So, she knows. She knows. We intuit. She feels it. Hearts literally send out electrical pulses up to 6 feet. She knows. And I really hope this isn't a case where when they both met her, and she actually did like him, but ended up falling for the friend becasue this guy didn't speak up. You gotta shoot your shot.
For the story about open marriage: My boyfriend and I are in plain terms in an open relationship, but we have chosen to make it our own. Before I sleep with someone else, the have to be my friend, because I don’t want a casual one night stand. It is a connection and they have to meet my boyfriend. The same goes for him. For the most part everything is great. I don’t have any other connections or relationships than my boyfriend right now but I also have not been looking, I feel like people assume that with an open relationship everyone is just seeking out someone else, we really aren’t, it just gives us the space we want to connect with people on a different level if we choose to.
i think that while some of the parents seem harsh they did pretty well. For sure, the girl that ruined the dress? Yes make her pay with her money. She deserves to lose all that money if she can't be a jealous POS for more than a minute.
I mean..... Don't because she's still married, their marriage is on the rocks, but they aren't separated so they are at least trying.
Just because theyre family doesnt mean you cannot and should not sue them! If family chooses to do shitty things to you, you have every right to treat them the same as a stranger. Do not be letting family get away with taking advantage of you or choosing to accept shitty behavior.
OP had every right to sue her sister when her sister refused to fix the poster or pay the appraisal costs. And sister literally wouldnt have done anything to make it right until it went to court.
The worms being TAKEN with out permission or sneaking them is "steeling" in a way imagine if it was money or store items...
The father more or less was teaching her consiqueses not the AH.
*"stealing"
@@RepubsWannaMarryKids fair enough,
If she stole money she wouldn't have bugs in her room. Not even comparable.
@@minxymoo2325 So your saying stealing is ok if it isnt money. Gotcha alright. Well imma just break into your house and steal your car, your tv and your cat after all it isnt money.
@DemonicGoddess youre making massive leaps
For the elf on the shelf story.
The idea of the elf on the shelf being mischievous could’ve worked. But the pranks needed to be harmless. The younger the child, the more harmless and soft you need to make the mischief.
Maybe have “Bob” hide one of their toys under the bed or something.
But what the father did in this situation goes too far, considering the ages of the children involved.
I work for a coffee shop and had to file a police report on an older couple because the lady said "poor customer service is the reason places are being shot up". The cops made the choice to trespass her. I wish I could of heard that phone call.
In a Wisconsin summer we have our air set at 70-72, in the winter its normally set at 70-71.
If I was that Dad I would probably do more then take her money! I would have made her work in an old folks home since she is missing grandma so much!
My thermostat is set between 68-72, depending on the time of year.
Is it just me or do the same videos get Uploaded twice? I'll be like ooh, new video start listening to it. Only to realize it's the stories or video I just listened to?
They put all the videos from throughout the week together
John Wick comes to mind... bagpipe man sounds like hes fishing for a dogbite lawsuit.
The dad who left the girl to deal with the beetle consequences is definitely not the asshole. She was warned not to do what she did.
I say we get a story time about how you guys met and then your love story. PLEEEEAZZZZZZE 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
To the question at 44 minutes-my son saw me wear nail polish every day. He saw me do my nails multiple times a week. He wanted me to do his nails. I told him that I Dont have a problem with it, but others may. And if they do, he could get teased or treated differently. So if he wants, I can do his toes his favorite color (we stuck to blues greens and black) for now. He decided he wanted to do his toes, a couple weeks later he wanted his fingers….he did not get teased, he managed to start a whole dang trend in his class! Some parents thought it was cute, some, dads in particular, didn't like it. But I let him know those were the colors rock stars wear so he went to school and apparently acted like a rock start. It was awesome. Very wholesome. I think it's the deliver-not just saying “people won't likebit” but giving examples of how to do it in a way others will accept.
I once mistook someone to work somewhere. The Dollar store didnt have any nail glue, so i went to the Dollar General two stores down the street. There was a lady with the same uniform (except for a small embroidered logo that my dumb ass cpuldnt see) and i asked her where the nail glue was. When she told me that she didnt work there, i was too embarrassed to keep shopping. Spent 2 weeks with a cracked nail because i felt stupid. Dollar General, please staff your stores or at least give your employees better uniforms.
Put on a thermostat lock! Done! 😂
11:50 my heat doesn't work and during this last artic blast my house got as low as 47°f when I woke up but I did sleep with an electric heater in my bedroom so I only froze in my living room and kitchen. That's where my stove saved the day! You gotta do what you gotta do
My roommate kicked my cat. Long lasting effects on her hips. I had to take her every 3 days for 3 weeks to get shots for pain along with oral medication daily. I moved within a month
My sister had a male classmate in 8th grade who were skirts basically every day and I think the only reason she remembered it so vividly was because it was unusual. But if I had a son and he wanted to wear a dress or skirt, my first question would be “do you have one to wear?” (Like if he’s little none of my skirts and dresses would fit so he couldn’t wear them) and then if he didn’t, I’d offer to take him shopping for one after school
On the co-sleeping situation, I had a friend... she was my best friend from kindergarten until adulthood with gaps of time missing due to college, me moving out of state.... unfortunately, she came across some bad times and my partner and I decided to let her and her daughter come stay with us. No one, not one mutual friend or any of her family members felt the need to notify me of her drinking. (Her dad was an alcoholic and unfortunately was hit by another drunk driver and died when she was young) she had a 2nd daughter shortly after I had my first and unfortunately when the baby was a couple months old she passed due to her falling asleep while breast feeding her. (I had found out she was drinking even then) mind you, this was the night before her birthday and as an alcoholic, she didn't need a reason to celebrate to get drunk. She woke up her birthday morning to her baby being dead.... that only made her drinking worse.
What makes me more is that since no one let me know what to expect, our friendship ended due to her drinking. I was taking care of her kid, my kids, all by myself while having to clean after a drunk, dealing with lies and disrespectful behavior and the fact that she never showered and completely ruined the room she stayed in.
I know alcohol has a big play on this, but it's also why I never, ever, co slept with my kids. With or without being inebriated, it's way too really to roll over on a small child.
Maybe Sam’s the SIMP 😂😂. And onggg tell me why a ad came on right when they were talking about the guy loving his best friends wife and the dude in the ad said “LET ME GET A HOMEWRECKER” 😭😂😂😂 like wahhhh 😭😂!!?
About the little boy wearing a dress to school.
Kids are super sensitive to how other kids treat them. Bullying is a reality of life & leaves serious emotional scars on people.
It is the parents responsibility to teach and provide guidance to their children.
Allowing kids to express themselves is important but they are KIDS who can’t foresee consequences of their choices & behavior like grownups can. HELP THEM OUT.
Me and my bf are sorta open (as we call it) we need to ask before doing a physical irl thing or dating (also poly) someone else. But online stuff is fine and free. It has really helped our relationship with our mismatched needs. And we still have a great intimate life and love eachother dearly
Omg. I so feel that thermostat thing! NOBODY touches the thermostat besides my husband or me and I KNOW IMMEDIATELY even when he does it. I mean, it's cool but I do notice it. Someone turning on my heat like that would not stand! (It's AC between 70-72 in the summer and heat on 69 or 70 in the winter in my house.)
in my high school we had a day called "cross dress day" (this was student made and the teacher allowed it during spirit week as long as the outfits were appropriate) an there were SO MANY GUYS from the sports teams wearing slim fitted dresses with makeup and wigs so it honestly depends on the school.
When I was a kid, our dog (a miniature schnauzer) ran out the front door when my dad came home. So we drove around the neighborhood looking for him. We found him in a mans yard trying to get to his trashcan. The man kicked him hard. My dad did not react well. My mom was not pleased when we got home and we said “daddy slapped the glasses off that man’s face”. 😭
Thermostatat 22.5C when it's mid 20's celcius outside and 22C when it's 30+ celcius outside. I'm in a townhouse and heat rises, plus my house holds heat too well so even when it's 20C outside at night, I'll set the thermistat to 22.5C so when the 32C afternoon heat hits, the AC won't have to work so hard.
My best old person story from work wasn’t even my job. Apparently I “look like I work at Home Depot”
So I’m renovating a house, got a fixer upper that has been a nightmare to update but I’m doing it all myself and loving every accomplishment.
So I am at Home Depot… a lot.
A few weeks ago I was there getting a lot of wood for a build and this elderly couple goes “excuse me little miss do you know where we can find the door hardware?” I tell them and point, they ask if I can show them, I worked in Senior care for a long time so I didn’t hesitate to set my cart filled with wood aside and show them.
They then asked if I could put an order in for them. I told them I can’t I don’t work there.
They literally argued yelling at me and demanded another employee get the manager to get me fired for refusing to do my job. Everyone knows me there at this point (partially because I usually bring my husky they love) so I had to wait for the manager because the couple was following me so they can point me out to management.
So I’m loading more wood onto the cart while they’re waiting talking about how horribly lazy this generation is when Chris the store manager comes up asking if they needed help where they then gave him the story but the bad employee. Aka - me.
He also explained to them that I don’t work there and they yelled at him that they should not allow people to “dress like workers” in the store and threatened to call corporate.
Chris told them if that would make them feel better he would give them the number. They then shifted tones to “well… really we just needed help with a tile order.”
So I get accosted for looking like I work there, manager gets screamed at for allowing people to dress like employees, and what was I wearing?
Gray plaid baggy pajama pants and a deep gray green hoodie, with 6 inch combat boots.
I was in my literal pajamas with “I don’t want to ask for help to reach the top shelf” boots.
“IT’S YOUR FAULT FOR LOOKING LIKE AN EMPLOYEE”
😩🤌
I'm that lizard, I love it when it's 81 degrees, and when I lived alone that's what I kept it at in the spring/summer. Now that I live with my boyfriend who likes it cold we keep it at 73-75
Mealworm beetles(tenebrio) can have up to 500 eggs, so removing them would be best for sure as they only incubate for like 2 weeks.
That ish is on the teachers. It's so simple to tell the class, hey guys, some boys wear jeans, some boys wear dresses. Say anything about it again and you'll be headed to the office for bullying.
I am a recovering anorexic and I hate to say it but having this disorder comes with fat phobia. I hate that I sometimes get sucked back into that mindset and I am no way want to defend this woman treating OP that way but eating disorders are so tricky to deal with and I’m sorry op is stuck dealing with the other side of it
My thermostat is at 73-74… in Texas in the summer 😂
Man that kid story was f’d up, ngl I think you need to have an almost unconscious fear of crushing something, even growing up I used to take care of kittens like all the time, my cat just kept getting out, would come back prego, and then would have a batch of kittens, and my parents like never let me sleep with them which is fair lol, but as I got to like 11-12 I’d sleep in my basement after hanging out there as teens do the little troglodytes, but I’d have like 5 kittens and the mama cat all sleeping with me on a couch like in the middle of the wall my legs and I’d just wake up and all the kittens would be fine, like a love/fear so strong that even an unconscious teen could refuse to move even while asleep, that’s what I think anyways, almost like waking up before you’re alarm goes off before school/work even though you only slept a few hours almost like you’re brains just like “Ayo Mr. White wakey wakey meth lets bakey” anyways lol that’s just one long huge word vomit of a message.
I'm in Central FL Thermostat is at 74 during the day 71 at night. During the winter heat at 71 if it gets colder than 68
That happened to a friend. But her baby was a few months old. And the mother rolled over on the baby, and unalive the baby. The mother never recovered.
Why do I have to “publicly” subscribe 😂
77-78 for me. Though I tend to fight my father during the winter season. 🤣 Hope she doesn’t keep having a relationship with the Boyfriend.
My son and mom like it cold so I purchased a space heater for me room.
Our air conditioner is set between 68 and 72 degrees. Depending where the baby is. If the baby is down crawling around she gets too cold when it's at 68. But my grandparents set their thermostat to 80 degrees!! We have a large family so holidays can make the room hot with body heat and they still keep it at 80 degrees!! Some people just keep it hot.
My thermostat is at 76° BUT! The biggest problem in my house is the circulation so we have a window unit blowing it around better and we have these covers that direct the air right at me. With the window unit and the covers it's just too much for me and I'm way too cold 76 keeps a nice balance to where the air doesn't turn on all the time but it keeps up with the window unit and we have proper circulation. It sounds hot but it's not, it's a lot closer to 73-72 which is pretty normal
My thermostat is 64-68. Never more than 68. I prefer 68 but I get narly hot flashes
Man what sorta of temps have you atm? It has already hit triple here, but to be fair I am not too far from where the hottesy ever recorded place was. 😅
Same. 66
Until you are a parent, you really can't give out parenting advice, and even if you do, no one's gonna listen to you because you don't have kids, you don't know what it's like.
If you hurt my pet we are no longer friends. Even if we're related. My pet will always take priority to an abuser. If its an accident, I won't be mad, but if you harm my pet intentionally you are out.
Our thermostat (in the north east, so a colder area) is set at 72 during the day and 55 at night for the colder months (winter, late fall, early spring) and set at 60 during the summer (no AC, just heat setting won’t kick on unless it hits 60, which some summer nights it could.
Second OP needs to dump the husband and the parents. He let them act a fool. Needs a new apartment and a new husband.