The Difference Between Why Women And Men Cheat

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  • Опубликовано: 9 мар 2024
  • The Difference Between Why Men And Women Cheat... I want you to understand why men and women cheat so that you can address the underlying issues and work towards a healthier and more fulfilling relationship. Men and women cheat for various reasons, and they get motivated often by a combination of psychological and emotional factors. If you pay close attention to this dating advice and watch the full video, you will better understand the difference between why men and women cheat.
    I want you to be aware of the difference between why men and women cheat so you can understand the different genders' perspectives on relationships. To understand the difference between why men and women cheat, you need to acknowledge that men and women are different. Watch this dating advice video to learn more about why men and women cheat.
    You need to know that the difference between why men and women cheat because it will influence how they perceive and respond to various aspects of relationships. It is essential to understand the difference between why men and women cheat to be aware of the specific factors that drive each gender's specific behavior in relationships. I was hoping you could discover the difference between why men and women cheat to navigate the challenges of relationships with a greater understanding of both genders.
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  • @YourWingmam
    @YourWingmam  3 месяца назад +9

    I hope you enjoyed my video, "The Difference Between Why Men And Women Cheat"
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    Love is the answer, people! Don’t give up. DO. NOT. GIVE. UP. HOPE. God loves you and so do I! You got this.
    OK so who agrees we should get rid of Daylight Savings time changes? LOL I'm so discombobulated! Anyone else? xx

    • @ronhenson7167
      @ronhenson7167 3 месяца назад

      Anna, thanks for another fine video. As far as changing the clocks go, it is past time to ditch Daylight Savings time. It is also based on a lie. YOU CANNOT "SAVE DAYLIGHT or lengthen the number of daylight in a given day. You are only moving an hour of daylight from the morning to the evening. An effort has been under way in the USA to make Daylight Savings time year round. Doctors say our bodies are more in sync with standard time. Let's have standard time year round. YES!

    • @karihamalainen9622
      @karihamalainen9622 3 месяца назад

      Why I am here - not to find woman but understand more women. My current relationship has lasted more than 12 years. Do I have problems with women is yes and no. I have mathematical - mechanical background and I have problem to understand irrational illogical random feeling female-generator. And yes I have had experience multiple relationships both very good and one bäd. And still woman is mystery. So I am 193 cm Neanderthal with 54 size foot. Yes some woman fear at first but generally my size is ok. To understand women and woman is that issue.

    • @farmerbobsgarden5554
      @farmerbobsgarden5554 3 месяца назад

      roughly 20 yrs ago there were 2 researchers from England that did a worldwide family DNA study and found that 1 in 4 children (worldwide) and 1 in 5 children ( north America) were raised by a man who's DNA did NOT match the children's ( the man did not know about the mismatch). Those researchers had to go into hiding because of death threats from several countries who considered their women do be the most chaiste in the world. When you add in the fact that most women do not get pregnant at the 1rst act of promiscuity, it begs the question; how many times do women actually cheat? Just something to think about.

    • @karihamalainen9622
      @karihamalainen9622 3 месяца назад

      During Finland's continuous-war men have been in front-line more than 2 years. And wife has children who s age was 1 year. Still man accept child as his own child. Time to time war softens reality so much and adultery is not an issue.

    • @samuelflorez1461
      @samuelflorez1461 3 месяца назад

      Here in Arizona we don't have DayLight savings time , Also I would Love to here from you Only ❤️

  • @pitchforker3304
    @pitchforker3304 3 месяца назад +117

    There's no difference. When a guy cheats, it's his fault. When a woman cheats, it's the guy's fault.

    • @DannyBoy443
      @DannyBoy443 3 месяца назад +12

      Wow lol

    • @williamcarey8529
      @williamcarey8529 3 месяца назад +6

      I agree!!

    • @fitless
      @fitless 3 месяца назад +19

      It is the guy's fault - according to the woman. You did not finish the sentence.

    • @williamcarey8529
      @williamcarey8529 3 месяца назад +17

      It is time to hold women more accountable for their actions!!

    • @ObserveInSilent
      @ObserveInSilent 3 месяца назад +5

      😂😂 It's amusing 😆 but true 👍🏽

  • @thecowboy9698
    @thecowboy9698 3 месяца назад +16

    Its never truly your fault if you get cheated on. Yes, you can contribute the circumstances that can lead someone to cheat, but whether or not they actually do so, that is a decision that is on them.
    You for your part, have to decide whether or not you will stay, or you will leave.

  • @yorkshireboy3886
    @yorkshireboy3886 3 месяца назад +6

    My ex didn't cheat physically (that I know of anyway) but she sure as hell emotionally cheated by giving other men her attention and midnight texts etc. When I pulled her up about it raising my concerns, I was being 'controlling' and 'jealous' apparently.
    My gut feeling told me something wasn't right and even if it was alright, I was sick of feeling unsettled. I'm single now and my head and heart never felt better.
    Anna you do a wonderful job on here. God bless ❤🐈

  • @jacquesmertens3369
    @jacquesmertens3369 3 месяца назад +19

    When my ex-wife found out about my lover she joined forces with her, against me, by starting a relationship with her.
    It doesn't get more humiliating than that. But if you play, you should also accept that you can lose. Today I can still laugh about it.

    • @Trazynn
      @Trazynn 3 месяца назад +4

      I mean, the next step is obvious.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  3 месяца назад +3

      You know you’re over it when you can laugh about it!

    • @KingKull1971
      @KingKull1971 3 месяца назад

      Sounds like your wife was 🌈 all along. She didn't care about you anyway. And your girlfriend was just greedy.

    • @themoonbleu627
      @themoonbleu627 2 месяца назад +1

      😂😂😂 wow you guys are all corrupt and toxic.

    • @themoonbleu627
      @themoonbleu627 2 месяца назад +1

      @@Trazynn😂😂

  • @lhaley9873
    @lhaley9873 3 месяца назад +5

    My experience is its 50%-50%, men are more likely to admit to cheating because of boasting.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  3 месяца назад

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

  • @tommygun5038
    @tommygun5038 3 месяца назад +5

    From my experience women lie about cheating. So it's impossible to know the exact amount. 59 yrs of listening and watching women has brought me to this conclusion.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  3 месяца назад +2

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤

    • @Melodiousvoicess
      @Melodiousvoicess 2 месяца назад +2

      You are true man my friend i am 18 and you are absolutely right they also show no remorse whatsoever

    • @johnnylego807
      @johnnylego807 Месяц назад

      Both do, men will Lie, women will lie. Cheating is a sin, adultery, and it typically goes hand in hand with another sin, lying.

    • @tommygun5038
      @tommygun5038 Месяц назад

      @@johnnylego807 ....The point is women will lie and never take accountability. Especially about cheating. So the percentages are always wrong when it comes to women. This is well known and why the numbers are actually about equal.

  • @RobertTaylor-gz2fu
    @RobertTaylor-gz2fu 3 месяца назад +9

    To cheat requires an opportunity, which typically is there every day for women but is rarely there for men. Hence men tend to take the opportunity when they get them.

    • @sidmcwhorter9311
      @sidmcwhorter9311 3 месяца назад

      What is rare us valuable

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  3 месяца назад +2

      *some men, yes

    • @waynegoodman3345
      @waynegoodman3345 3 месяца назад +2

      Some men yes especially if your in a sexless relationship.

    • @Tom-cp6yj
      @Tom-cp6yj 3 месяца назад

      ​@@waynegoodman3345 or sleeping with the same person for decades

    • @_agk_
      @_agk_ 3 месяца назад

      Most men will cheat, This is not even a debate.
      Men are faithful as their options

  • @RobertTaylor-gz2fu
    @RobertTaylor-gz2fu 3 месяца назад +7

    A high proportion of women have a strong preference for attached men.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  3 месяца назад

      *emotionally damaged women, yes

    • @waynegoodman3345
      @waynegoodman3345 3 месяца назад +1

      Strange I have found that to be true as well some women see you as more viable if another woman has chosen you?

    • @_agk_
      @_agk_ 3 месяца назад

      @@waynegoodman3345 It's called social proof, That's how playboys gets girls.
      If a woman feels attracted towards you that automatically makes other women attractive towards you .

    • @chaitanyagupta6668
      @chaitanyagupta6668 Месяц назад

      @@YourWingmam you are not qualified to call majority of the women emotionally damaged then.

  • @juliochingaling5824
    @juliochingaling5824 3 месяца назад

    Thanx Doc,well said. Blessings

  • @madwax1360
    @madwax1360 3 месяца назад +3

    This was a good quickie

  • @user-de2pm7vr7y
    @user-de2pm7vr7y 3 месяца назад

    Thank you for packing so much information in this video. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @FatGourmand
    @FatGourmand 3 месяца назад

    Very insightful and well articulated

  • @mann8098
    @mann8098 3 месяца назад +40

    Best way to prevent cheating on both sides is having great, passionate, pleasurable and frequent sex. No one wants to leave that 😂

    • @RobertTaylor-gz2fu
      @RobertTaylor-gz2fu 3 месяца назад +12

      It reduces the risk, but there are other reasons to cheat.

    • @mann8098
      @mann8098 3 месяца назад +1

      @@RobertTaylor-gz2fu yes, that's why I said it's the best way, not the only way. "Treating her right", doing the chores, bringing flowers etc pale in comparison and with these modern savages called women, some of these other things are turn offs. Making sure that the relationship is burning hot and very connected beats anything else.

    • @RobertTaylor-gz2fu
      @RobertTaylor-gz2fu 3 месяца назад +1

      @@steelearmstrong9616 How could it have the opposite effect?

    • @ralphy1989
      @ralphy1989 3 месяца назад

      If she isn't connected to you emotionally she will

    • @mann8098
      @mann8098 3 месяца назад +3

      @ralphy1989 and there is no better way for a woman to connect/ bind to you emotionally than thru love making frequently. Even you as a man will bind to her. It is inevitable. It's brain chemistry. Oxytocin.

  • @wingrider1004
    @wingrider1004 3 месяца назад +4

    Good information. The comparing of the different reasons for each cheating is very necessary. The differences between men and women are hardly ever discussed and much less understood. People enter into relationships all of the time without having a clue as to what they are seeing, feeling or need.

  • @glicmathan1771
    @glicmathan1771 3 месяца назад +3

    Great points! I’ll only add that it helps to avoid narcissists and cluster B types such as borderlines. They can often hide under the radar just long enough to get you involved. Then everything can change. They are emotionally disregulated and can have you questioning yourself when you’re doing nothing wrong. These types are prone to addiction, shopping binges, cheating etc. There’s an epidemic of this today which is why I’m mentioning it. 🙏

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  3 месяца назад

      Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

  • @paultravis3249
    @paultravis3249 3 месяца назад

    Thanks for sharing

  • @JackNiles
    @JackNiles 3 месяца назад

    Glad you are getting more subscribers and views. Go for it

  • @Amir76fresno
    @Amir76fresno 3 месяца назад +1

    Hello Doc. Great said indeed🙏. You're D best. Wishing you all Happiness prosperity. Cheers from Stockholm 🇸🇪💙🤍

  • @romanrodriguez4330
    @romanrodriguez4330 3 месяца назад +4

    I find it hard to believe that only 25% women cheat. Is it plausible that that the women studied were not being honest? Especially with this day and age of online dating, it seems ripe for ladies to have higher numbers. That’s my take. I love this channel and its content. Thank you!

    • @Tom-cp6yj
      @Tom-cp6yj 3 месяца назад +2

      That number is probably closer to 75% if they were honest and take accountability, which most women don't..

    • @timothycorless7286
      @timothycorless7286 3 месяца назад

      1 survey states that 53% of married women admitted they have another man as the backup husband.
      Another states that 68 % married women would cheat if they could get away with it.

    • @blacksamurai6038
      @blacksamurai6038 2 месяца назад

      Exactly

  • @CarlosArizona
    @CarlosArizona 3 месяца назад +1

    Wow. You're good. You're really good. I agree 110%.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  3 месяца назад

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

  • @Laoriginal718
    @Laoriginal718 3 месяца назад +2

    I’m so tired of this topic. People cheat because they want to. End of story.

  • @matthewschwartz6607
    @matthewschwartz6607 3 месяца назад

    The new hair is great .

  • @anthonymcnamee6297
    @anthonymcnamee6297 3 месяца назад

    Too the point 👍✌️

  • @tomgrosemusic
    @tomgrosemusic 3 месяца назад

    Your ability to communicate is amazing, thank you. I think even though men have lower standards, the smart ones will at least try to be proactive and if the chips fall they might have less regret. Right on My Wingmam!

  • @migmontest
    @migmontest 3 месяца назад +6

    Holly Molly. I know this place . If you see the homeless guy with the red cap , run! Just kidding he’s harmless

    • @matthewschwartz6607
      @matthewschwartz6607 3 месяца назад

      Heh, heh!

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  3 месяца назад

      Hard to find places to film that are quiet, won’t disturb others, and have decent lighting. Red cap, noted lol

  • @sm5574
    @sm5574 3 месяца назад

    I have learned this about myself: if I am in a thriving, loving relationship, I cannot cheat. There simply is not room in my heart for being with someone else, it isn't even a thought in my mind. But if my efforts in the relationship are not appreciated or reciprocated, those thoughts creep in.

  • @NaeKid
    @NaeKid 3 месяца назад +2

    A man is nothing more than a project to a woman. My dad said it with a funny quote.
    Woman is nervous on her wedding day. Her best friend gave her advice. There is only three things to think about to get thru the wedding
    First is "aisle", then "alter" then "him" and then the day will go well. Say the three quoted words out loud a few times to get it

  • @samuelflorez1461
    @samuelflorez1461 3 месяца назад +1

    I know what you mean , I was married for almost 2 yrs , she cheated , I was not going to take any part and left her

  • @silverdale3207
    @silverdale3207 3 месяца назад +2

    Not sure where your stats are from but it's the first time I've heard that men cheat more than women, everything I've seen says women cheat more , which makes sense as they have far greater opportunity than men , ie an average looking women will get offers whereas an average looking man will get ignored by women. I suspect You're not counting the number of men who cheat but the number of times Chad and Tyrone score.

    • @tylerdurden3722
      @tylerdurden3722 3 месяца назад

      Worldwide stats differ significantly from US stats. US women are a lost cause.

  • @johnbrooke9948
    @johnbrooke9948 3 месяца назад +2

    Im 53 now. Ive had enough women and to be honest i think i maybe too choosey as i live and learn.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  3 месяца назад +1

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

  • @natet2210
    @natet2210 3 месяца назад

    First video of yours that I'm not sure I agree with 100%.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  3 месяца назад +2

      That’s ok! Share your thoughts, respectful discussion is good for all :))

  • @SteelFanther
    @SteelFanther 3 месяца назад +4

    A recent study showed that 1 out of 3 people in a relationship is cheating ...
    Now my Canadian buddy Dan is trying to figure out if it's his GF or his wife ...
    * Moscow, Russia

  • @karihamalainen9622
    @karihamalainen9622 3 месяца назад

    Tnx! 2 minutes cat - exactly!

  • @travelinben1966
    @travelinben1966 3 месяца назад +1

    Never cheated,never will.If it gets to that point in a relationship,I walk.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  3 месяца назад

      Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

    • @travelinben1966
      @travelinben1966 3 месяца назад

      @@YourWingmam
      My pleasure Anna.Thank you!👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

  • @James-lp4ev
    @James-lp4ev 26 дней назад +1

    It's safer to do it far from home.

  • @terrytorres5026
    @terrytorres5026 3 месяца назад +4

    Simply. Wonen cheat because they can

    • @user-jz6to8md3c
      @user-jz6to8md3c 3 месяца назад +2

      Yes they cheat when they are bored or need a new handbag or just for the sake of it to be spiteful also ect

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  3 месяца назад

      *some women yes, and some men

  • @buckleymordecai9605
    @buckleymordecai9605 3 месяца назад

    Fascinating, thanks! Always good to 'hear/read' why each gender cheats. Been married twice here- never cheated on either wife actually. On wife #2 I did begin online role-plays however. I remember when wife #2 came back from a long weekend/high school reunion she had a different 'vibe'. I knew intuitively she cheated but had to facts to confront her with.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  3 месяца назад +1

      Awful feeling! Glad you found value in this one. :)

  • @DannyBoy443
    @DannyBoy443 3 месяца назад

    I like this out on the town style "quick hits" from AJ. As a man though, I'd like to say that it'd be easier on us (IKR?) if women spoke up honestly and said more to us as a warning for us to make sure it's still worth getting into the relationship. This is a great video.

    • @davidjacobo4204
      @davidjacobo4204 3 месяца назад

      They do, in subtle indiscernible secret signals that we then are suppose to decipher. It’s simple you’re just not paying attention.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  3 месяца назад

      David is speaking truth. The difficulty is women speak hint and men don’t.

  • @actmyage2149
    @actmyage2149 3 месяца назад

    Points seem consistent with what I've witnessed over the years. I would say that women are more likely to think they can "fix him" than men do. Men don't tend to think of "fixing" her as much as "yeah, she does this, but I can live with it." Neither is particularly helpful, but the idea that you can "fix" your partner seems very wrong on many levels. It allows you to think to highly of yourself and it categorizes your partner as "broken." That's very unfair if the "brokenness" isn't "brokenness" at all, but just a different way of dealing with life. Too often "fixing" means "remaking them into the image I want for them" rather than correcting a real deficiency. Good video. Hope you're feeling better. Praying for you. -- Russ P PS/Confused pooches dealing with a beautiful sunny day here, but with bitter cold winds which spoils their fun.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  3 месяца назад

      So true, never go for potential! As is where is or you’ll both be miserable. The pups need sweaters! lol Very manly ;) I’m on the mend! Thank you, Russ! 🙏

  • @worshipwhilewewait
    @worshipwhilewewait 3 месяца назад +2

    Is it just Me or does it seem like People just don't want to do the work it takes to MAINTAIN a Relationship? Truth is Relationships are HARD work but the payoffs are....whew. For Me, it all comes down to what You're 'willing to do' for the sake of the Relationship, whether it's with Me or Them or Us. Ask this: how BAD do You want it to work? Making the right CHOICE from the beginning - that was GOLD! Have NEVER understood cheating while IN a Relationship. Break clean THEN You're free to go have Your fun. So much less hurt all around...THANK GOD I chose the RIGHT One!

    • @RobertTaylor-gz2fu
      @RobertTaylor-gz2fu 3 месяца назад +1

      What payoffs are great?

    • @buckleymordecai9605
      @buckleymordecai9605 3 месяца назад

      ...as long as the 'maintenance' comes fro both partners, I agree with you...one-sided? naahh, count me out.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  3 месяца назад +1

      Amen!

  • @dimondDave100
    @dimondDave100 3 месяца назад +1

    Great video again. My ex wife was conned into cheating with a co worker at her job. He was a do nothing bum. My ex-wife mother and her brothers did not like him at all and my daughters were damaged somewhat by his emotional narc. verbal abuse. My 2 daughters father in laws had a come unglued on him. He started running me down and both daughters father in law were very calm and loving men. Each of my daughters father in laws had a run in at different a week apart with him. Sometimes the cheating is done by a CON ARTIST WHO WILL talk a person into a relationship that would otherwise never do. I am a calm and peaceful guy but if i knew what was happening i would of have a date with him an set the ground rules. Never ever steal another guys wife. The trust was lost between my ex and me. Ballroom dancing is one way to rebuild trust and that romance. She was for it then not then for ballroom classes then not. I then gone back into ballroom dancing and i love it. Men are men and women are women and love formal events to show cases. Now i would love to meet a women who likes ballroom dancing to romantic get a ways

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  3 месяца назад

      I think that’s why “guardrails” are appropriate in relationships. Lead thee not into temptation. Have agreements that limit opportunity out of respect not mistrust. Thank you for sharing your experience!

  • @johnnylego807
    @johnnylego807 Месяц назад +1

    Another point I must add, why is it that many women are interested in guys in already in relationships even More so than ones who are single? Is it that they want what “they can’t have”? I’ve seen this dynamic so many times I know it in-fact exists. The question is why?

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Месяц назад

      It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏

  • @Tumble96
    @Tumble96 3 месяца назад +1

    The best thing you said is men need to raise their standards and women definitely need to chill out more. Also, both of them need to stop the drama. It takes two and the grass is not greener on the other side… although it may just feel good . Relationships and marriages are the hardest job out there for anyone to do. Just like raising kids it takes 24 /7 of continuous work. With the right person it’s well worth it and anything else it’s just a learning experience..

  • @johnnylego807
    @johnnylego807 Месяц назад +5

    I will NEVER understand the reasoning behind cheating? If they are unhappy (men and women) why don’t they just LEAVE? Why is it that those partners will then use whatever “emotional” justification to go cheat actively while with a partner. Absolutely bizarre. And in my opinion, evil.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Месяц назад +2

      I feel you, it definitely isn't an easy situation but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏🏼

  • @RobertTaylor-gz2fu
    @RobertTaylor-gz2fu 3 месяца назад +3

    How should someone react if their partner decides their relationship should become celibate?

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  3 месяца назад

      Therapy or a relationship coach. (Too much nuance.) :(

  • @55time3
    @55time3 3 месяца назад

    Sweet

  • @johnbrooke9948
    @johnbrooke9948 3 месяца назад

    Rusted from the axle out lol xx

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  3 месяца назад +1

      Glad you liked that one!

  • @daveg4417
    @daveg4417 2 месяца назад +1

    I've only been cheated on once. I was cheated on by a girlfriend after six months, the other guy was taller and richer, but he wasn't even interested in dating her, I dropped her when I found out. I thought we were doing fine, good communication, good sex life, fun times together. She apparently wanted to try to move up. Hypergamy. I still don't blame her, I had gotten divorced a few years earlier and lost everything, so I was just starting over again from $0. No hard feelings.

    • @marguskiis7711
      @marguskiis7711 Месяц назад

      Bullshit.

    • @TeriG23-
      @TeriG23- Месяц назад

      That sucks!!! Cheating seems to be ‘normalized’ these days. I will not go out with anyone who has cheated before as major turn off.
      I think it helps to date/meet people who share same faith/religion and/or paradigm.
      And definitely stay off the date sites as it’s just one big mind game.

  • @eugenepohjola258
    @eugenepohjola258 7 дней назад

    Howdy.
    It bewilders me that some have so little integrity that they fall for cheating.
    Relations may fail. Yes. But better split first and sleep around later. There will be a chance the partners can remain citizens in each other's eyes.
    Cheating in a relation likely produces animosity between partners that will linger on after the breakup.
    Someone may feel, though, that a hard break by cheating is the only way possible to split fast and permanently.
    Regards.

  • @shawnhuff3920
    @shawnhuff3920 3 месяца назад +1

    My dead ex wife cheated on me several times and used meth and heroin she would go get high with criminals and open up and go down on them I'm a truck driver so I'm home for a day and a half a week so she had plenty of time to do so when I met her she for years clean and sober

  • @RICHY8791
    @RICHY8791 3 месяца назад

    Happy you found a way to make money. London UK

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  3 месяца назад

      It’s not a fortune but I enjoy it 😊🙏

  • @thomasewen6108
    @thomasewen6108 3 месяца назад +1

    Hi I’m really enjoying videos but please can I have your advice on a difficult situation. I’m 41 and a work colleague 36 have been flirting on/off for a while. And I’ve made like jokes about marriage, kids etc in return she tested me on my career & plans. We also always looking at each other. The problem is she has left the shop and gone to Europe for 6 months to train to become a pilot. Her IQ is also very high. On her left day i gave her a gift - pink purse and she was taken aback. She gave me a hug (for the first time). I asked if she wanted my number. Looking to the floor then me she said ‘oh Tom I don’t have my on me all the time like you do’. We left it there then in the warehouse she said ‘you’re such a nice guy’. On leaving the building she looked at me and said ‘don’t worry Tom I’ll be back in a few months. I stood there and said nothing (nervous) and she had another girl with her. Do i wait for her. Does she want more? Did I do any thing wrong?
    Thomas - London

  • @charlesmarotta8410
    @charlesmarotta8410 3 месяца назад

    HELLO ANNA. YOU SAID IT RIGHT ADULTERY. IT WORKS BOTH WAY.S. AWESOME TOPIC.

  • @extra222love
    @extra222love 3 месяца назад +1

    The key 🔑 that opens multiple locks is called Master key!
    While the lock 🔒 that gets opened by multiple keys is called bad lock!

  • @mikehess4494
    @mikehess4494 3 месяца назад +1

    Humans enjoy variety, it's human nature and normal. And then a religion comes along and tells people not to be normal to guilt shame and control. Stay hydrated and get enough rest.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  3 месяца назад +1

      And be honest about your needs.

  • @RobCoghanable
    @RobCoghanable 3 месяца назад +1

    Not this man, I am a one at a time person, if it is that kind of fix it is broken and wrong without continuation possible or warranted. I have had 99 problems but infidelity ain’t one.

  • @diydoug
    @diydoug 3 месяца назад +1

    Anna, as a longtime viewer... your "new" delivery is too rushed. Maybe your old delivery was a tad slow. Don't overcorrect. I love your content.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  3 месяца назад

      Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

  • @Aethelgeat
    @Aethelgeat 3 месяца назад

    In university, we read and debated "The Selfish Gene" by Richard Dawkins. He made arguments that many of our stereotypes about men, women, and relationships could be explained by a genetically driven behaviour that was re-productively advantageous. That included a study of rates of tolerance and intolerance of infidelity of spouses. I'm not saying the feelings and emotions aren't also valid, but book argued that they coincide with successful reproduction strategies.
    Bread x Butter Cafe?

  • @64maxpower
    @64maxpower 3 месяца назад

    I feel it's very sad that people cheat On each other. Especially when they really need to grow closer
    It seems like it would be so much easier to speak and communicate.But that's definitely not the situation
    Its fortunate for humanity that understanding each other is what Anna Jorgensens lifes mission to help us all

  • @michaelestrada6957
    @michaelestrada6957 3 месяца назад

    I'm the guy who drank from the wrong grail in the Indiana Jones movie. I chose poorly 😂

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  3 месяца назад

      Dang. But at least you can laugh

  • @Trazynn
    @Trazynn 3 месяца назад

    A girl who cheated on her partner (they were living together) with me said she did it because he already accused her of cheating so she might as well.

  • @edwardmylnychuk5774
    @edwardmylnychuk5774 3 месяца назад

    like its been said, IT JUST YOUR TURN NOT FOREVER, little children cant hold a relationship because they get bored,

  • @phillipjenkins5978
    @phillipjenkins5978 3 месяца назад

    The difference is, he gets tired of her. She ‘wants more’.

  • @Obnax
    @Obnax Месяц назад

    From what i learn,my own experience
    woman will leave you when you Treat them good and also will leave you when treated badly,so you need to manipulate womens to always be with you

  • @waynegoodman3345
    @waynegoodman3345 3 месяца назад +1

    This happens when men withdraw attention or/and love and when women withdraw sex well for some couples mostly.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  3 месяца назад +1

      Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

  • @jocular1910
    @jocular1910 Месяц назад

    Putting a lifetime target on your back does not seem to be a good strategy. Without relationships there is no cheating. Therefore the answer to cheating is obvious.

  • @Sol-hl2rj
    @Sol-hl2rj 3 месяца назад

    I’d love too to drop the whole daylight saving time.. If I had more daylight going from work and coming home with some daylight left it would be much much better that having a stray of light (if any) going to work.. and then to be inside while the daylight rises.. No, give me the afternoon light 🙏

  • @_agk_
    @_agk_ 3 месяца назад +1

    If polygamy for men is generalized just like kings and earls had in the past , No man will cheat 😂

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  3 месяца назад

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤

  • @jtrojan
    @jtrojan 3 месяца назад

    Men who can choose well generally have more options with women. No guarantee that a woman won't cheat on you so be vigilant about the relationship is going. Regardless of the statistics, some YT channels and others think that cheating is on the rise.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  3 месяца назад

      It probably is on the rise. There’s a blasé attitude about sex and few are choosing for life but instead for now. Be careful, choose wisely.

  • @steelearmstrong9616
    @steelearmstrong9616 3 месяца назад

    Men put with alot more neglect due to insecurities and fear due to lack of options, nothing else

    • @daleb5967
      @daleb5967 3 месяца назад

      Yes. And most women will risk everything. That's why they prefer bad boys. In their concept, bad boys are risk takers. In actuality, bad boys aren't risk takers, they just make choices without premeditated thought....

  • @TazMartin
    @TazMartin 2 месяца назад +2

    Jesus over you and yours. Always a privilege and a pleasure.😊

  • @matthewschwartz6607
    @matthewschwartz6607 3 месяца назад +1

    Is it true that if you take a woman back or stay with her after she cheats, she loses respect for you ?

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  3 месяца назад

      Depends

    • @carlitosbrigante6889
      @carlitosbrigante6889 3 месяца назад

      Don’t listen to her lol , if she cheats and you forgive her she will always see you as a format and remember when a woman cheat is to leave you for that other man , respect is the main structure that makes a man frame . If she cheated once even not even to you dump her!!🧐🤨😎

    • @matthewschwartz6607
      @matthewschwartz6607 3 месяца назад

      @@carlitosbrigante6889 - There is a big difference between a cheat hook-up and an ongoing affair.

    • @matthewschwartz6607
      @matthewschwartz6607 3 месяца назад

      @@carlitosbrigante6889 - There is a difference between a one-time cheat and an ongoing affairs (Affairs involve deception, sneaking around, etc.).

  • @johnpaul2285
    @johnpaul2285 3 месяца назад

    Not sure if this is a compliment or not, but if you were a car, you would have to be a very beautiful ,well preserved , shiny old car in the classic auto museum with a full tank of premium gas and plenty of good tread left on your tires 😅
    God bless really nice cars🙏❤️

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  3 месяца назад +1

      Very original ✔️ Thanks, vroom vroom

    • @johnpaul2285
      @johnpaul2285 3 месяца назад

      @@YourWingmam If only I wasn't an old hunk a junk that's falling apart and well, overdue for the graveyard I'd of pulled up in your driveway already happily beeping my my horn and annoying all your neighbors too

  • @mypov4343
    @mypov4343 3 месяца назад

    It would seem more people are interested in getting married then making sure they never get divorced by working on the relationship before ever considering marriage. Making marriage your main goal is not a good idea

  • @hammerfist8763
    @hammerfist8763 3 месяца назад

    Hmm, lack of integrity vs. lack of integrity. Whodathunkit what a shocker! This is like rationalizing criminal behavior (poor, bad neighborhood, no role models, blah blah blah), even though most of us (even most of those from a disadvantaged background) do not engage in it.

  • @Private-GtngxNMBKvYzXyPq
    @Private-GtngxNMBKvYzXyPq 3 месяца назад

    I still suspect that there are issues with the methodology of most studies. The math doesn’t work out if there is such a difference in how many men cheat vs women. I strongly suspect that there are factors that cause differences in reporting. It just feels like gaslighting to so many men who have experienced the monkey branching and so on. I also think it matters how it’s defined; I strongly suspect women cheat emotionally more than men do. Consider me a skeptic.

  • @johngonzalez4298
    @johngonzalez4298 3 месяца назад +2

    Vamos spicy señorita Anna ❤ The Security Guard gets an awesome cameo 😁

  • @daleb5967
    @daleb5967 3 месяца назад

    Most partners are bad fits for each other. Even satisfied couples. The problem is, time and events wear that limited cohesion down, couples take each other for granted, and more so now days with social media..........(and extensive easy access adult content and dating apps)......see a greener grass on the other side of the fence..which in many cases is misleading and untrue. Imho......the bulk of the issue is today's short term gratification that makes most people, boomers forward.....more easily irritated and conductive to selfish, childish behavior, self destructive behavior. We just want to press a button to self gratify, like microwave chicken or a drive thru latte. I think both men and women have worsened traits today across the field. This is backed up with the mgtow movement, since they just want to avoid the field from the start.

  • @briansparks8528
    @briansparks8528 3 месяца назад

    I think I'm going to become a hermit and live in a cave it's all too complicated for me 🤣

  • @natamonpipithkul740
    @natamonpipithkul740 3 месяца назад

    Quick question to anyone who read this.
    Would you guys consider a man or a woman who can have casual sex with their bff?
    To me it's a red flag. I just need to weigh my opinion if I'm being too judgemental on this.

  • @kobushugo7507
    @kobushugo7507 Месяц назад +1

    Cheat is cheat. It's still wrong. 😮 it's worse than 💩

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Месяц назад

      Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

  • @initiatorhater0688
    @initiatorhater0688 3 месяца назад

    yup, another reminder that, guys, men, are the only gender that have to practice or do all the learning when it comes to knowing how to or just getting better at interacting with, communicating with or just talking to the other sex, yes, i'm aware people will say "so what?", or "thats the way it is", those statements make me very mad and angry, they make it sound like men still have it better than women do, and because i'm saying thats how it is for women, and women just what, just have to exist, just exist and do nothing, that doesn't require any skills or any learning, training, practice and trial and error. It makes me laugh and cringe when people say that women need "game", or women need "skills", for attracting or interacting with guys, when they are passive throughout the whole seduction/courtship process.

  • @joem.8277
    @joem.8277 3 месяца назад

    Dear Anna:
    "Why do birds, suddenly appear, ev'ry time you're near?
    Just like me, they long to be close to you.
    Why do stars, fall down from the sky, ev'ry time you walk by?
    Just like me, they long to be close to you.
    On the day that you were born, the angels got together
    And decided to create a dream come true."
    So many signs, Anna. So many signs.
    Anyway, great video. Short and to the point. I keep seeing videos and reading articles which say women actually cheat more than men nowadays. Either way, it is wrong. Do you think many women deny it when asked on these studies? Or somewhat justify it to where they believe they are not cheating? I really would like read your opinion on that.
    I hope you have a great Sunday and an amazing week Anna. Is it getting warmer up there yet? Hug and a peck, actually about six pecks on each cheek because you just looked so pretty in this video. Have a great week.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  3 месяца назад

      I do think women lie about cheating more on studies and like you said no matter what it’s wrong. Still cold enough here to have snow on the ground! lol

  • @SergeySimeonov
    @SergeySimeonov 3 месяца назад +2

    Hi Anna, please tell me the story of this cat that shows up in almost every video :)

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  3 месяца назад

      It was in the background of one of my early videos and get some comments so now it makes a cameo. A friend gave it to me as a joke when I was allergic to cats. 😻

    • @SergeySimeonov
      @SergeySimeonov 3 месяца назад

      @@YourWingmam The presence of the cat pic in your videos looks like the spirit of this cat is always around you. It's like your mascot and also gives some mystic around you :)

  • @leehogg4624
    @leehogg4624 3 месяца назад

    Men also exaggerate about their number of partners and women lie in the opposite direction. Plus, they all need someone to cheat with so its probably about eaual.

    • @tylerdurden3722
      @tylerdurden3722 3 месяца назад

      I've slept with more women than I can count who turned out to have partners, and virtually all of these girls didnt have too much experience. And I'm sure it's the same for other guys who have high body counts. So you're right...mathematically, there should be a small percentage of men who cheat a lot, and a large percentage of females who cheat once in a blue moon if the stars align.
      One girl I was seriously interested in, jokingly told me the way she feels about me is she just wants my baby and then wants me to fck-off. Later on I began to learn she and "her ex" never broke up. (that wasn't the only time). I came up with a dual mating strategy theory independently based on my own experiences (it takes an average of 6 attempts to conceive, which is probably why female affairs last longer).
      I also read once that in the 90's, when paternity tests were initially used by hospitals to confirm paternity when diagnosing possible hereditary causes of medical issues, 40% of individuals were not being raised by their biological fathers (and hospitals arent allowed to share this information with anyone except the mother). A lot of " i just want your baby and then i want you to fck-off" situations happened before paternity test TV shows became a thing.
      The rest of the women cheat because they're attempting to transition to a new guy (an upgrade...I was rarely this guy...and this guy is typically also clueless of what exactly is transpiring)

  • @alexhaynes7220
    @alexhaynes7220 29 дней назад

    Is it ok that I am a 26 year old man and I have never ever and still have not date d a women and kiss and sex ual so on 😢😢😢😢

  • @mikemuha7537
    @mikemuha7537 3 месяца назад

    Is it cheating, or not allowing yourself to be cheated? Only you can answer that question.

  • @karihamalainen9622
    @karihamalainen9622 3 месяца назад

    Why we men lack endurance to support our relationship? My brains are made differently than my lady counterpart. Sometimes I have ability to speak lively and intelligently but mostly talking is very lady-like-boring. Yes I admit. My talking is too right-forward style thinking. I would like to talk philosophy-technical-science type of talk and Lady like to talk Egyptology-mummies-space alien type of imagination talks. I am able to make poetry and graphics but there are no proper intersection with my lady. Choosing clothes is death-sentence for me. Yes you can laugh loud but this is serious.

  • @JFBalz
    @JFBalz 3 месяца назад

    She sticks with the AP because no good man would stick around if they find out she stepped out on her ex husband.
    Past infidelity is the biggest of red flags.
    …so, she damns herself to this garbage tier of men they cheated with, or have cheated themselves.
    I for one plan to sabotage every relationship my ex has for the rest of her life. Both with our children and any love interests. She’ll wear the scarlet letter until her last breath… and then, I’ll tell the grave diggers too.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  3 месяца назад

      Not fair to your kids. They didn’t cheat, you’ll damage them with your hatred.

    • @JFBalz
      @JFBalz 3 месяца назад

      @@YourWingmam You don’t think they deserve to know who destroyed their family?
      You don’t think they should learn a life lesson as to the consequences of infidelity?
      You don’t think the ex should feel shame every time she looks in their eyes?

  • @dougie6886
    @dougie6886 3 месяца назад

    Women don't label it as cheating.
    They say that their husbands do not satisfy them anymore.
    They blame their husbands, and check out their marriage.
    Women are never satisfied.

  • @marvinbanjo
    @marvinbanjo 3 месяца назад

    Geeze Anna it must be really cold or you have a breakfast date . Less than four minutes and No cat either. .By the way what was that building you were filming ? It looks really beautiful. As far as cheating goes I never did it-- as God is my witness. I just think it;s for idiots .Women talk and your reputation about being halfway serious in a relationship pretty well goes down the drain with this kind of thing .My dad cheated on my mom and I saw how it hurt her and I could never do anything like that to any woman I was going with . One of the reasons I'm MGTOW is because my parents loved each other but when they handed out dysfunctional they got in line twice for it -- my Dad more than my mom though. As a result I abhorred this stuff but always wound up with train wreck women who were all about drama and chaos . while I understand a woman's need to shake things up for the purpose of knowing you still care about them sometimes ,the women I wound up with were nice packages with dysfunctional behavior as bad or worse than myself .To stop this I did a lot of research into relationships myself and decided to just quit having them for the sake of repeating the same mistakes over and over again. It's taken several years but I now understand more about myself and how to short circuit this dysfunction and break the cycle in my life. Problem is the rest of my family members and siblings still have a lot of that old stuff going on and when I left this dog and pony show, they got mad as hell at me for not playing into this garbage any more .I still talk with them although rarely because they think I've been taken over by some kind of cult or something because I don't take the bait in this dysfunctional stuff anymore . I have my faith in my Christian creator rather than the opinions of people . Faith wise, I get along with just about anybody and although I may not agree with some people, I find more is accomplished by just keeping this stuff to myself. Like Paul said I try to be all things to all men and let my God be my navigator . I've been in four lengthy relationships in my life and all of those women left me and I'm still friends with all but one of them . I don't speak with my exes on a regular basis but I'm prone to sharing a meal when any of them come through town. I think I'm pretty good at forgiving because I can't really blame my exes because we were both just as flawed in our own ways. The thing is -- I've tried to learn about this a while before I discovered your book and channel. This is why I like to hear what you have to say . Over time I think I've gotten better at this relationship stuff but I don't think I'll ever become any kind of expert . I'm just a guy honestly trying to do the best I can -- and who knows as the old saying goes : Sometimes even a blind Hog finds an acorn.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  3 месяца назад

      It’s an art gallery in downtown Vancouver (I forget the name), but someone recognized it. And yes it’s still cold here. You seem like you’re in a place where you could be ready for someone. You’ve done a lot of self reflection and realize where you contributed to Crazytown. As for family, not everyone grows. You’ve got the right attitude. I pray God reveal your acorn and you have eyes to recognize her! 🙏

  • @williamkennedy5492
    @williamkennedy5492 3 месяца назад

    When your married to a monster cheating keeps you sane ! I had to make an appointment for sex and was told no sex Olympics'

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  3 месяца назад

      Why did you marry a monster?

  • @karihamalainen9622
    @karihamalainen9622 3 месяца назад

    nÖY cat?

  • @antoerickson4152
    @antoerickson4152 3 месяца назад

    These are unwanted stats, but it's true because what you said about men having affair with different women is true and it had happened many times. Women other than prostitutes won't hook up with many men at the same time and that's what I think. We are living in a very dark times. We must choose well and also we have to maintain the relationship well.

  • @johnton6488
    @johnton6488 Месяц назад

    Same pseudoreasons again and again. "Not being happy in her primary relationship....",

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  Месяц назад

      Same pseudoreasons men cheat

  • @jamesbowman1767
    @jamesbowman1767 3 месяца назад +1

    Here

  • @doglegjake6788
    @doglegjake6788 3 месяца назад

    100% of married women have a hairy leg on the side ,, It's true

  • @smithgroove945
    @smithgroove945 3 месяца назад

    There is no right fit with women. Your just the next turn.

    • @YourWingmam
      @YourWingmam  3 месяца назад +1

      You must be new to my channel, welcome!

    • @smithgroove945
      @smithgroove945 3 месяца назад

      @@YourWingmam Anna seems to put up with my shit. 🤔

  • @dennisneel9788
    @dennisneel9788 3 месяца назад

    I miss you