Adam Boquist...... You are Exactly right....👍👍 In today's society,,,.... People are Clueless about Love and don't have Common senses.... MOST of them are so Selfish.... Thinking Only me me and ME....
That feeling when your partner cheated and you don't have the courage to leave him or her so you just dealt with the pain and live everyday asking questions about your worth. This pain is different from the cheating one-- living and seeing him everyday anticipating when will he or she do it again. Your videos are incredibly well done. No critique, thanks for doing this *Brian Hacks online*
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"Have you ever noticed? After a breakup, the loyal one stays single until they are healed while the cheater is already in another relationship." It's the story of my life. She went outside of our marriage and then divorced me when I was 29 and she took our son. The courts punished ME for it. I've never remarried. I'm 73 now and too old to worry about dating any longer. No trust whatsoever left in women re: love relationships. I was MGTOW before it even existed. All of this happened PRIOR to feminism really taking off, and now the situation is even worse for younger people. You can chase women or you can chase everything else that makes you happy. I figured out, for my own life, which is more important. To end on a positive note, Life is good! Keep up the good work. Watching your channel and reading the responses you get (mostly from men) lets me feel I'm not alone and like I've made the right choices for my life. "If only I may grow firmer, simpler, quieter, warmer." ~Dag Hammarskjold~
1:24 loss of affection and intimacy.(This happens cause they get affection from somewhere else). 2:40 communication change(key word is drastic change, not minor changes it has to be drastic, but don’t be paranoid there should be trust) 4:36 she starts accusing you and is paranoid(this is because of her own guilt) 5:40 Thirst traps on social media(posting things she would not normally post, posting naked pictures, bikini...) 7:05 protective of her phone. Watch the videos anyways cause it’s sick, And like so people can see it and to help others.
If a girl is cheating on you it's because psychologically she has already broken up with you in her mind. This usually happens days, weeks or months in her mind. From the moment she decides she's breaking up with you to the moment she actually breaks up with you she is just thinking how to break up with you and doing the least amount of damage to you. Some girls are cowards in this regard.
My ex that i was with for nearly 4 years when i asked her when she made up her made to break it off. She told me 6 months ago....had me like wtf?! So true. Signs started around that time so no suprise. But seriously....who wtf waits that long lol
That's not always true. Men cheat with someone, usually a female. People act as if women can not have the spirit of lust like men. False. I know women that would be with another man and still call the current boyfriend to say they love them while with that man. I also know woman who want to marry you while cheating on you. Woman have lustful desire for other men too. Men just seem to lust after more woman. Now I agree on, if a women is deciding to leave you, she usually established another relationship, but she can still cheat on you while wanting to be with you. Just think about it, Men cheat usually with a women and that women is probably in a relationship with someone else. When there's an alter call for deliverance for the spirit of lust men and women are usually equally in that line. The devil needs the female and the male to destroy marriages and relationship. Both do it equally, woman may compartmentalize it better, hide it better, and justify it better. They also get caught less. Because when a guy make you his girlfriend or wife, he can not envision the one he loves to be with another person. He usually puts her on the good girl pedestal. Women have been condition that all men are dogs, so they look out for it more. If men, look out for it as much as women, you will see it is alot more than people think. A female psychologist admitted it.
I have this married woman and we talk as friends . She always quickly responds to me. Sometimes she jokingly says she wants me. Onetime, I met up to give her my class notes to help her with the class bc she was having difficulties. And she, brought me…..a large bag of goodies and large not regular cup of green tea smoothly…It’s confused what she wants but it’s clear she wants to stay friends. She also shared so much about her husband. I stay friends bc this girl has such a tragic story and I feel so bad. So whenever I can, I try to help her.
Summary:- 1. Loss of affection. 2. Drastic Change in communication 3. Accusing you/ Panaroid 4. Thirst posts on social media 5. Protective of her phone
Being with my ex narc for the past 6 yrs. made me observe this very pattern. I think they wanted to feel very important in a way that is disturbing. Instead of building trust with their intimate partners, they destroy the trust that they built with you (in that case lying when they tried to put you in their pedestal). Once they have a committed partner, they can’t stand being loved authentically by one person. Instead they go on and prey on other women that is susceptible to their love bombing. My ex narc was a compulsive pursuer in a relationship. He would go back and forth to the women he were involved before or try to meet women in complicated situation so that going public isn’t an option while having you as their main supply. In the end they destroy the very person that loved them. They are like toddlers testing your love for them. Showing and telling them you love them isn’t enough, they will cheat on your face to make you feel inadequate even if you are more than they deserve. They want to test your love for them so they keep hurting you and when you have enough of their abuse, you leave. Then they tell you, ‘you never loved me because you abandon me’. Well in fact it’s their actions and narcissistic behavior that made you leave or in other cases they discard you and will give silly reasons of the discard. Mine would use, ‘she’s crazy’, ‘she’s a nega-star’, ‘she insults me’, ‘she cheated on me’ et al. So with this pattern of infidelities and emotional abuse (who knows what else) it’s better to walk away. I did walk away and is now rebuilding my life with our daughter. We are struggling financially because I’m not earning enough to provide for my daughter but now we get to laugh and bring with us sunshine every day. No lies, no abuse and no fake love. We only live once, forgive yourself and move forward but never forget the lesson that narc abuse taught you. That is to respect yourself to walk away from what’s hurting and destroying you. That you deserve a life of solitude, happiness and love. Hugs*** :) Additionally I hired a private detective Metaspyhub@gmail. com. Once I knew what the narc was up to, it got easier to get over that lying, cheating, sack of doo doo, loser. I didn’t need closure from the narc, I paid for it. Best money I EVER spent!
It took me 8 years to catch my narcissistic wife. Of course, I didn’t know she was a narcissist back then. I didn’t even know what narcissism was. A part of me always knew that she wasn’t faithful to me. It was just that whenever I voiced my concerns or asked for some reassurance, there was hell to pay. She put me through a mental gauntlet of feigned outrage, moral indignation, gaslighting, and flipping reality on its head in order to make me the bad guy. She repeatedly set what little progress I had made in trying to have a good relationship with her, back to square one. She exploited my deepest desires-to have a good marriage and to keep our family together, by always keeping one foot out the door and threatening to leave. So, I learned to carefully pick my battles…. and worse. I learned to put the blinders on and to pretend that she wasn’t up to no good. I also learned to convince myself that I was the problem. And then one day, while she was at work, I decided to clean out the car. She had a nasty habit of treating the backseat like a dumpster. As I stuffed empty wrappers, bottles, and cups into a trash bag, I found an envelope with her name on it. Thinking it might be important, I decided to look at its contents before I threw it away. It was a letter from some guy who was clearly in love with her. He expressed how he wanted more from her than their secret rendezvous. There was no mistaking what he meant. Even though my heart was crushed, I regained my power in the very next moment. I drove to where she worked, and I angrily approached her. Her eyes fell on the letter in my hand, and her shoulders slumped in silent defeat. She quietly said, “I can’t talk right now, but I’ll be home in an hour.” “Good!” I replied. “I’ll be waiting!” Then I turned on my heel and stormed out the door. Now that the cat was out of the bag, she admitted the entire affair-including all the places where they would meet up. As difficult as that was to hear, I stood by, ready to forgive her. I was well-practiced in starting over from square one, and I eagerly waited for the opportunity to roll up my sleeves and to get to work. But she played the wounded victim as convincingly as Amber Heard, and she asked me to wait for two days while she decided what she should do. Of course, I said yes. Even though I had been married to her for 14 years, I still had no idea what I was dealing with. In the midst of that painful discussion, she was plotting her next move. It turned out that she needed two days to think because that’s when her boyfriend would return from his business trip. She wanted to be in a relationship with him, but when he refused to leave his wife for her, she decided to stay married to me. Of course, I didn’t know any of this at the time. I only knew that after two days, she decided to stay. Being the eternal optimist that I am, I saw this as an opportunity for a brand new start, and I convinced myself that we were finally going to have a good marriage. But she didn’t share my optimism, and it was obvious that her heart wasn’t in her decision to stay. We suffered together for another 2 weeks when she blamed me for her affair. That’s when I finally threw in the towel. We divorced on friendly terms, and we made all our own arrangements for custody and child support. We only needed a lawyer to draft and file the appropriate documents. The laws have changed since those days, and you can’t do that kind of stuff anymore. Anyway, during our many conversations to dissolve our marriage, she admitted lots of things that I didn’t know about-including the fact that she was never faithful to me. If I had understood narcissism back then, I would have handled things differently. I wouldn’t have put up with her mental abuse, and I would have left her years earlier. Additionally, There are many ways to find out what someone is hiding from you in their phones. These several ways only need the assistance of someone who has the knowledge spy!ng and can hack into phones and social media. For help, contact Metaspyhub@gmail. com for assistance.
Good to hear a man's side . Similar thing happened to me. She denied everything I got shamed and blamed. It took years until my family members realized she was a lying botch. Then they realized I was right all a long.
The most important thing is to not ignore the red flags. It sucks knowing that the end of a long, wonderful relationship is nearing its end but if they don't want to stay don't force it, nothing good will come from that.
These signs you are looking for in your partner are not 100% accurate because they can be influenced by different events don't know that keep men distant , moverover they can lie abaout it if you are unto them. If you have doubts and want to know the truth fidelity or infidelity, you can get proof of it by getting access to the medium they use to cheat that's their phone , this has saved me from many legal proceedings and the safety of my children was swiftly taken into account because we owe them more than I care to understand
I wish I have had someone telling me all this before I got married. My husband of 25 years used to behave like a dictator and all the red flags were there. Emotional abuse is a serious problem in a relationship. From emotional abuse, cheating started.Thank you *Johnsonspy* for posting this time to get me all the evidence.
If you ask them or confront them straight out without evidence they will deny it absolutely, If they are cheating on you *Johnsonspy* can help you get backdoor access to your spouse cell phone.
@@ketobodybuilder2482thats why this women was with this “toxic” and “cheating husband” for 25 years. They love the drama and unfaithfulness but won’t admit it. Female nature is CRUEL.
@@Itsmeagain12345 Truth ? you want the Truth ? the truth is non of us guys looking on yt for dating advice ever have a hope in hell of getting a woman, if the truth came out channels like hers would die tomorow, the truth is you need to be PERFECT at pick up or your fucked, the truth is that women are getting hundreds of offers a day, thats well over 600 000 offers a year, set against guys who have zero, not only zero but are rejected well over 99.99% of times, thats a power ga of well over 600 000% in favour of women, the onky guys who get dates now are top pick up artists, and by the looks of things thats not you, or me, or anyone searching for dating advice on yt, a few crappy tips from this woman isnt going to solve anything excet it might give you some temporary false hope until you try and definatly get rejected, its you who cant handle the truth not me you fool, the quicker you understand the power gap the quicker you will realize yyour powerless to change reality, you lucked out you were born a man in tthe west right now and the fact its so insainly rediculoously outrageously easy for women now is a direct consiquence of how impossible it is for guys. The truth is your better off forgetting about women altogether because its never going to happen, false hope like she gives just makes things even worse, your so far from a top pick up artist its hopeless without years and years of dedication going out every night getting rejected by hndreds of women a night and never letting it affect your self esteem, it takes a very special mindset and complete dedication to get a woman now.
I'm a UK born and living in Australia and I cannot express enough how much I despise these scumbags. Literally whenever people ask me my nationality I just tell them I'm British because idiots like these give us a horrendous reputation, not to also mention they scam other people too. It warms my heart to see stuff like this, please keep up the great recovery’s work Team *Johnsonspy* , thanks for destroying these scammers! And i won the case.....!!!
What are you talking about? No shit if someone asked your nationality you say British, well if you are "UK" born whatever that means then obviously you are British 🤦 i am British but foremost, I am English.
Facts. Women nowadays can say, do, talk to, wear whatever they want (which is no problem) BUT the moment a man does these things he's a misogynist, narcissistic POS woman hater, who's a cheater and a liar.
@@matthewschwartz6607 if you have to ask you're not really paying attention. Men in movies and TV shows are constantly portrayed as bumbling idiots. If you want to make sure your woman doesn't have bad habits that lead to cheating your insecure to name a few.
Wow...amazing!! Everything you said hits home. Going through a divorce with my wife of 10 years and 2 kids. Found out a few months ago she had an "emotional " affair with another married man who has 2 kids as well. They both planned the divorce at the same time to be together. Everything you mentioned is what I experienced. The blame deflecting was the worst. They try to pin their actions on you to give them a sense of justification and relief. Another red flag that I want to add with social media is when they stop posting pictures of your relationship together.
Same here mate my ex wife tried to monkey branch to her friends husband our neighbours! It failed he wasn't interested in anything serious he moved in with another woman whilst begging to go back to his wife, she has tried to reel me back in no thanks now divorced, a broke family for nothing but at least I can see the real woman married, all the best mate from England 🏴
For sure got the “how was she?” After I went to see one of my mates one night. Got suspicious so looked at her Instagram friends…… I’m sure you can guess how that worked out
Watch them if they come home and sit in driveway on phone, they’ll call the dude they’re cheating with when they leave and talk to him on their way to your house and tell them they’re “home”
As a man you do not put up with disrespect, period. I have trouble getting along with people a lot for this reason. I'm very straight forward with people when it comes to how im treated, I get hostile.
The loss of intimacy is a huge sign. It happens a lot with women once you are in a LTR or Marriage. They have what they want and no longer have to be physical.
I noticed these: 1. Going out with her "girlfriend" a lot more than usual 2. Starting to buy a lot of lingerie and dressing more provocatively 3. Changes in personal grooming habits 4. Insisting on having a bath before intimacy after her "girls night out" 5. Huge change in spending habits (credit card statements) This list might be more applicable to a long term relationship than a casual one.
@@soarindragon603 That was the first warning sign my friends saw before my wife cheated. I was too blue pilled to notice, and they only clued me in much later. Since then, I’ve studied on it much further, and there’s a body of knowledge in social psychology that supports this. There’s a researcher who is able to predict with incredible accuracy the probability of divorce by watching a half hour video of couples interacting when interviewed. These outward signs of the value we place on our partner, and their thoughts and feelings, are fundamental.
A common red flag for me was inconsistency in stories along with elaborate explanations of why she didn't show up when planned (it doesnt take many words to tell the truth) and the hostile reaction when questioned about it, then the stonewalling and gaslighting that makes you doubt your own sanity, so hard when you already fell in love with them, but better to be alone and happy than in a relationship and miserable.
@@SimbaUchihaa yeah I've had that too.. if I confront her she's in denial.. I even asked her to confirm something she said immediately after she said it and denied it because she had already said it. I asked her to repeat what she said as I heard her say it but she claims she said nothing.. I said to her.. next time you have something to say to me, please approach me or get my attention at least and then ask me as you can see I was pretty involved and it's only courtesy to do that.
One you don’t mention is when you start noticing signs of disrespect. Eye rolls and snide comments indicate she doesn’t value you anymore, and at that point it’s just a matter of time until she finds a better option than you.
Courtney, idk if you’ll see this but I want to sincerely thank you for this video. A lot of this stuff really resonated looking back at the behavior of my ex. It opened my eyes which were slammed shut for so long because of emotions around her. Not necessarily she may have cheated but certainly just she had lost interest and I didn’t want to admit it to myself. This video has felt like a major step forward for me in healing and a massive sense of closure by finally being able to admit to myself that this “perfect” girl, wasn’t so perfect after all. She was a great girl with a beautiful heart, but just not as committed as I would’ve hoped. Anyway, thank you so much for this. God bless you
Courtney, you are so spot on with this. I’ve been through this. I’ve been cheating on before. She would always accuse me all the time, and she use to put her phone facedown all the time. I found out and I left. The best decision I’ve ever made in my life. ✌🏾✌🏾
Bless your heart *Johnsonspy* . Its SO sad how the scammers prey on the elderly and the uninformed public.. Bless you and all others who fight against these crimes. Its horrible how mainstream media is not doing the right thing by shining light on these things to help the public.....!!!!
My ex used to go through my phone all the time and constantly accuse me of cheating so I ended up losing interest in her and breaking up with her and lo and behold she's with a new guy like 2 days later lmao, probably was cheating on me the whole time.
Odd work hours having to do with sudden OT. 2.Always keeping her phone in her possession not even letting u hold it. 3. Mad about something then all of a sudden She's being nice to u extremely nice out of nowhere (because they did something worse). 4. New lingo , words, mindset and way of acting.
I wasn’t expecting another video today, but I sure am excited to hear your perspective!! The feeling when you know someone’s losing interest is the worst 😩
At 0:50 I'd just like to add that you don't necessarily break off immediately as you start losing trust. Sometimes it just happens that you become suspicious and lose trust to your SO while actually there was some misunderstanding, lack of communication or just bad luck. Communication is the key and you must always tell whats bothering you, what you noticed about your SO and so on. You will know for sure if something is up if you hold conversations, communicate a lot but same mistakes that bother you happen over and over again. Just never hold something bad in yourself because your SO isn't aware of it and you start making up ugly scenes in your head unnecessarily, which makes all your suspicions even worse.
What makes Court so great is how she's generally on our side and spreads positivity to men's mental health, which is something that we can never get enough of these days. Most females in advice channels constantly pander to the female ego and come off as judgmental, rather than acting like a personal wing-man for us.
Your out-of-the-box thinking and unique perspective turned an otherwise mediocre presentation into a fantastic one *johnson spy* . You did a good job of catching the mistakes and keeping us from wasting time and by taking the wrong path. Your attention to detail really sets you apart from the crowd. Great work! Jack, Your great work has resulted in tangible, beneficial results to me. You’re a force to be reckoned
That feeling when your partner cheated and you don't have the courage to leave him or her so you just dealt with the pain and live everyday asking questions about your worth. This pain is different from the cheating one-- living and seeing him everyday anticipating when will he or she do it again. Your spy jobs are incredibly well done. No critique, thanks for doing this *JohnsonSpy*
True, I iust came from other videos with other girls talking about things within this "girls wish guys knew.." genre and the girls were terrible. When i clicked on this video I felt a total personality change. I felt less of an angry cat vibe to be simple lol
I had a gf once that constantly accused me of cheating and had an issue with any girl I knew. Came to find that was her way of putting up a front that she was a saint so that she could cheat. Definitely learned that sign the hard way.
@@BWater-yq3jx So she was suspicious enough to think damage was done against her and then she should retaliate? Meanwhile, she's the only cheater here?
When eyes that couldn't hide the fact that they were looking at the person they loved most in the world begin to avoid meeting yours. . . when the voice that said your name melodically and affectionately now sounds injured, in pain. . . When running out to the driveway to greet you with a kiss and hug stops and the closest description you can associate to what you came home to is like a wild animal trapped in a cage. . . wanting to escape.. . . Someone cheating does those 5 as a minimum! For me asking if there was someone else resulted in drama, disbelief, disgust, and more deprivation. . . gaslighting, lying, projecting accusations all had me questioning my own mind, but the signs were all there and my gut knew . . .I felt that after being married 20 years we could get past anything, but I knew that feeling wasn't shared when I was served with the divorce. . . I will likely always be in love with the girl I married, but the person she became is not someone I'd have anything to do with, then or now.
The very first item you "listed" or pointed out describes my wife to the "T." I know she's not cheating on me, but she certainly has no interest in any passionate moments with me, she hasn't for the last 10-12 years of our marriage...when she says "it's not in me (when I asked to sit down at the end of the day and just talk about how our day went); I don't need it (when I wanted to discuss the falling off of our sexual relations); it's not necessary, it's just understood" (when I wanted to discuss why we didn't kiss hello and goodbye and say I love you any more), you know the true love in the heart is no longer there.
Seen a comment on going through a partner’s phone and just wanted to comment abt it whether you find it or not. if your partner overthinks or rather is insecure in themselves but actually expresses that to you or communicates to you about the thoughts they may think or insecurities they may have, dont take that as them accusing you on something. Try and heal them, find ways to reassure them rather than just ignoring it or blaming them for “accusing you”. If they ask to go through your phone, it shouldn’t be a problem because you know yourself you aren’t doing anything wrong so let them prove themselves wrong mentally and enjoy you. Let them heal themselves, but heal them as well with your reassurance and affection. You know you dont have anything to hide, they probably dont either and would gladly show you anything if need be. The reason for all the overthinking and etc. are probably because of trauma from past relationships. Don’t fabricate it into something else, but also dont be blind to when it’s them accusing you because then that would be heavily suspicious. Saying this because I do this myself a lot, and I know I would never cheat on my partner.
If your partner takes a shower when they get back. Check their underwear for you know what. Check clothes for lipstick or perfume. Or torn buttons look for scratch Mark's on the back. Hickey Mark's bruises in the inner thighs arms ect. Check their car for signs of damage or perfume or cologne. This always works hold your partner's hand and at the same time ask them if they are cheating. And if they cannot with a straight face say no without laughing. There most likely cheating. I really like your videos your always calm and honest.
Not going to lie, but we are actually really proud to have an employee like you as part of our team. The job is done so gracefully and neatly. Very well done, dear *brian hacks online* . First of all. Thank you for making the work environment so friendly and taking your responsibility seriously and completing the work gracefully! You deserve so much.
I sincerely appreciate your prompt response in resolving this unexpected issue about spying partner *brian hacks online* . Your willingness to take risks and make quick decisions helped me in getting access to his account. I’m grateful to have such a talented and perceptive person.
Women that cheat are pretty smart. They will delete evidence and tell you its okay to go through their phone. I found out my girlfriend of 2 years was cheating this way. But there are ways to tell if they are cheating. When you're with someone for a length of time, you will learn their mannerisms and their general character and demeanor. You can literally feel the difference if they change patterns.
Social media validation for attention online is toxic! NOT A GOOD SIGN! So so true, she follows a guy on social media (likes all his pictures), so she might be posting the picture so he can see it. You are so right about when they start to "get really into themselves and post themselves more often on social media". THEY ARE THE TOXIC ONES, NOT THE PARTNER WHO CATCHES THEM
ALSO.. if her social media account has friends list and/relationship status hidden. Ive seen this a lot. I added a girl on fb a long time ago, she had ZERO indicators that she was in a relationship. Little did I know, she had been in a long term relationship for many years. Now, this doesn't mean she's cheating but i think it does mean she likes to appear available to the male traffic on her fb. And she knows that hiding those things keeps the male traffic coming in. She seemed like the type that is always on the hunt for the next best thing.
Was willfully oblivious to these things, say too trusting, got cheated on and a 6 year relationship was destroyed in about 2 months. Life feels bleak now.
I had emergency open heart surgery back in Dec. It changed my life. I can’t party any more. I don’t drink the way I used too. And I’ve lost interest in a lot of things that used to bring me joy. But I still had my GF of 12 years with me to get through it. I just found out this past weekend that she has been seeing somebody else for a couple months behind my back. Im not angry or sad. Just very disappointed. You never really know people and what they are capable of.
Spot on, I admire you saying that you don’t hide anything and wouldn’t care if he inspected your phone. It’s so rare that you learned this being as young as you are. Kudos!!
1. Loss of Trust. If you catch her lying about her whereabouts... or she tells you about where she's been, versus volunteering where she is going, before she goes. It's pretty rare that a woman works really late, or works overtime, staying late into the evening, at the job. 2. Loss of affection. Lack of Nookie, hugs, kisses, greetings make you feel distant from her.
One year ago I broke up with my ex, and I still watch these videos, thinking, why the hell she did this to me? All those promises, plans, everything was going perfect, her family liked me a lot, my family liked her a lot, everything was so perfect, 1 week before the break up, she told me I was her most important person in her life, after a week, she told me she never loved me. Also her parents were sorry for what she did, but after she left me, I was focused on making my family proud, and I'm doing it, all the things I promised her I will do, I'm doing it step by step, and my life is going great, but still feeling terrible because of her
I made my position on that very clear from the start, and reiterate it to remind her. Intimacy dies so does our marriage. She still wants to marry me. Its her choice. No excuses, no exceptions. Her only real options are desperate assholes or married cheaters and she knows it.
Courtney love to get womens prospective view of things it refreshing. Years ago I was dating a girl a few times of accusing me if cheating when I came later than she expected. To find out after we broke up she cheated. With Cell phones I had my girlfriends 4 digit code and she had mine without have to ask. Once the relationship is done I never go back. I have never cheated on any female!
I was in a relationship and all of these indicators were present. She was always wanting me to support her and use my credit card. I sent a friend to go out and observe her and she was charging my card to pay for her dude on the side. I never confronted her (maybe I should have). when we were out I didn’t want to pay her way because I was mad. She immediately told me I was replaceable. She started talking to other guys in front of me. I immediately walked up to the guy and told him that’s my girlfriend and I have an open relationship and I need $200 for him to date her for the night. He gladly gave me the two Benjamins. Later on when they left together he told her and she was livid. The next day she brought her dad to my house to move her things outta my house. After that day I never saw or heard from her again. Sometimes it’s better to be alone than to be with someone as toxic as she was.
Every time I watch your videos, I notice something in your facial expressions, you have like a talent of: "Happiness through your eyes, you smile using your eyes, even though it doesn't seem like through your mouth" (it shows you're a friendly individual with helpful information, where positivity impacts other people)
This hardest lesson I learned when it comes to dating is that if/when she loses respect for you for whatever reason, deserved or not, it’s over. Don’t try to hang on to or fix something that’s dead. In her mind she’s already broken up with you but is too scared to actually do it right away, and that’s when the cheating happens.If you notice the loss of respect, just break up with her. It saves a lot of trouble.
As someone who's passionate about checking if my other significant is cheating, I'd honestly love to do this. It looks like a lot of fun. Also, the one cyber spy shouting encouragement when *Johnson Spy* was doing drills on the system was fantastic. I'd love to have that dude just follow me around and deafen me with motivation.🇺🇸🇺🇸
That feeling when your partner cheated and you don't have the courage to leave him or her so you just dealt with the pain and live everyday asking questions about your worth. This pain is different from the cheating one-- living and seeing him everyday anticipating when will he or she do it again. Your spy jobs are incredibly well done. No critique, thanks for doing this *JohnsonSpy*
She had ALL of these "symptoms". Then we fought over she being shady then admitting she's meeting with her ex's sister and he also being there and we broke up. A few days after she was with some other guy that always used to try to text her on social media, but I trusted her, hence never said anything. She was soooo unlike this, I will always find it hard to trust people.
Don't go through your partner's phone. Not only is it a huge violation of your partner's autonomy but it's also just plain pathetic. Besides what will it get you? You'll either ruin your relationship by finding out they're cheating or ruin your relationship because they weren't but you still didn't trust them and went behind their back. If you feel the need to do this *Brian Hacks online* all this I saw ,it's just heart wrecking
All you have to do to start is look up their name making use of your phone's browser to get to their platform and chat *BRIAN* about getting the spying done
If you ask them or confront them straight out without evidence they will deny it absolutely, If they are cheating on you *BRIAN* can help you get backdoor access to your spouse cell phone.
I dont know what I would have done without *BRIAN* help in my divorce case. Your dedication, enthusiasm, and expertise were like a lifesaver. Youre my hero!
I did, needed proof, she was cheating but still had the audacity to lie to my face and tell me I'm wrong for going through her phone. The fact that some people think going through a phone is worse than cheating shows how far society has falling.
I was with someone over 10 years...loved her..was always loyal to her.. and I'm pretty sure she cheated on me with her ex-boyfriend who was abusive... She had a couple of these signs.. always accusing me and being insecure and secretive with the phone.. all because my work schedule.. because I had to make a living and sometimes had to work later.. and she knew this when she started dating me.. lesson learned.. don't be with someone if you're going to cheat on them.. would you want that done to you?? I'll never do the insecure thing ever again.. childish
If someone is gonna cheat on you, let them. But don't stick around and tolerate it, and definitely do not take them back, because if you do, theyll more than likely cheat on you again, unfortunately. So, have enough self-respect to walk away, and find someone who is worthy of your time and attention.
Yeah honestly people watching can be good too. Like if you notice your girl/guy disrespecting you in public dont step in and call them out. Just watch and see what happens. See what they think theyre allowed to do to you, because chances are thats what they will always do no matter how often you call them out.
When I found out my girl had been cheating the only behavior on this list was she was protective of her phone; not overly so, but she’d hide it when I walked by if she was messaging or texting. She said this was a reflex due to her abusive ex getting violent when she was on her phone. This was something she also told me before we were dating so I believed it. She’d tell me about & show me conversations she’d be having so I didn’t get overly suspicious. She only pulled back on sex but not general affection the last 2 weeks before I found out. Things had recently been stressful for us so I didn’t think too much of it.
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Idk if you touched on it because I was eating wings while listening.. but change in appearance is a good sign in my experience. If they start randomly getting extra ready for something your not involved with, she might be trying to Impress someone.
100% agreed 👍. Like video.. question? We have kids. 3 year girl and 6 year boy . I can't abandon them . I'm afraid of child support.. what should going forward??
I’ve got 4, in a 8 year relationship I feel like I missed all These signs cause I didn’t give a sh!t myself, been cheated on and now I’ve woke up and feel something was off but it’s to late and we’re on good terms.
I used the loss of affection [ Alienation of affection ] to force my way out of a marriage, and no I was not cheating. I turned the relationship into an unrequited relationship. I used alienation of affection to force my way into a divorce. Usually someone is telling you something when this is happening, "I want out!".
@@willh1655 Hi, I did ask for a divorce and she wanted to fight the idea, the damage was done and I through in the towel. I was miserable with her and willing to do most anything to get out.
What you said at the beginning completely makes intuitive and logical sense; it's a case where one implication holds, and the logical converse of it doesn't
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I was in a long Term Relationship with my Ex. But I had a feeling that She was Cheating, because She showed a LOT of the sings (even though She denied it). I didn't have any evidence that She was IN FACT, Cheating. But Also back when we first started, her Ex had messaged me and told me. That HE broke up with HER because SHE Cheated on HIM. So I dumped her.
Being cheated on is a horrible feeling. What I've learnt from being cheated on is that it's not necessarily your fault; but no matter devastating and demeaning it was at that time, the positive steps and the willingness to improve and recognise the red flags will make you the better person in the long run. Something that you said in your last Q & A where you spoke about that time you were cheated on, really resonated me. You said that you know what you have to give and offer, and you know who you are. To me that was a perfect encapsulation of the kind of confidence and honestly that people should tell themselves more often.
My ex showed all of these signs when she was having multiple affairs. Either of them could be something else, but all 5 at once is a pretty solid indicator.
How hard is it to breakup with said person before sleeping with someone else? I once told the woman I was with that if she ever felt like she didn't love me anymore to leave and not cheat. What did she do...
Also, their friends avoid or stop talking to you. Because the chances are that they know what your partner is up to . Great video, thanks for sharing :)
My ex was very protective of her phone around me. I wasn't even trying to look, but her actions made me very suspicious. One night we were on the couch, she was on her phone. I leaned back to rest more and she moved back to keep her phone out of view. I thought that was a bit strange so I tested something, I leaned back into the couch more, and she moved her phone even more out of view. Yes, turns out she was cheating on me. She always says she regrets, like most do when caught, but I think she just regrets getting caught.
She only has regrests because she got caught and lost the best man she will ever get!!! My LTR gf has told me she is going to Germany for 9 days with her bestie, and she's just going to see the culture and blah blah. Now, 2 weeks after she let it out by accident, she's gonna not only be in Germany but in Spain as well, and now it's 14 days. After she saw in my face I was done and she said "I'm so afraid of losing you!" I asked myself WHYYYYY would you ever be afraid you've don't nothing...right!? BSSSSS DUDE...WHEN SHE GETS BACK SHE WILL HAVE A 3 PARAGRAPH LETTER DUMPING HER ASS. HER DREAMS OF MARRYING ME AND GETTING CITIZENSHIP or American benefits, as she calls it, are OVERRRR! I JUST started a new job making more money than ever, and already girls are gvijgn me tons of attention. How the fuck does 9 days go to 2 straight weeks away from me totally unaccountable while she's there in 2 different countries? Fuck her.
I’m so sorry that someone cheated on you its so wrong that someone would cheat on a nice person like you , I believe eyes are the window into the soul and I see a kind soul and you have an aura of a nice and caring person keep up the good work and advice
Being in love in this generation is scary. Loyalty is so rare.
Preach. Same here.
Very true Adam Boquist 👏👍👌
Adam Boquist...... You are Exactly right....👍👍
In today's society,,,.... People are Clueless about Love and don't have Common senses....
MOST of them are so Selfish....
Thinking Only me me and ME....
THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS LOVE OR LOYALTY IN THESE MODERN TIMES OF TODAY ! ITS ALL ABOUT CONVENIENCE , USARY AND MONEY ! $$$$$$$$
Every generation
That feeling when your partner cheated and you don't have the courage to leave him or her so you just dealt with the pain and live everyday asking questions about your worth. This pain is different from the cheating one-- living and seeing him everyday anticipating when will he or she do it again. Your videos are incredibly well done. No critique, thanks for doing this *Brian Hacks online*
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Another sign is changing style 9:34 in clothing. For exmple: Nighclub-style for
going to a movie with some female friend you neve he
and about before.
_If you feel like you cannot trust someone. You shouldn't be with them._
Very true.
Most people that get cheated on, trusted someone way too much. Its okay to trust but keep your eyes open and trust your guts feeling
Indeed 👏🏻
Guilty people are always suspicious of others.
True..... But when people are inlove with that Bitc....... It's very hard to decide
Especially got kids together Already
@@danzo4354 So Cheaters and Liars don't have feeling.....🤣😂 ?????
"Have you ever noticed? After a breakup, the loyal one stays single until they are healed while the cheater is already in another relationship."
It's the story of my life. She went outside of our marriage and then divorced me when I was 29 and she took our son. The courts punished ME for it. I've never remarried. I'm 73 now and too old to worry about dating any longer. No trust whatsoever left in women re: love relationships. I was MGTOW before it even existed.
All of this happened PRIOR to feminism really taking off, and now the situation is even worse for younger people. You can chase women or you can chase everything else that makes you happy. I figured out, for my own life, which is more important.
To end on a positive note, Life is good! Keep up the good work. Watching your channel and reading the responses you get (mostly from men) lets me feel I'm not alone and like I've made the right choices for my life. "If only I may grow firmer, simpler, quieter, warmer." ~Dag Hammarskjold~
1:24 loss of affection and intimacy.(This happens cause they get affection from somewhere else).
2:40 communication change(key word is drastic change, not minor changes it has to be drastic, but don’t be paranoid there should be trust)
4:36 she starts accusing you and is paranoid(this is because of her own guilt)
5:40 Thirst traps on social media(posting things she would not normally post, posting naked pictures, bikini...)
7:05 protective of her phone.
Watch the videos anyways cause it’s sick,
And like so people can see it and to help others.
Can relate to all that jeez
@Stabswache keep her EXed forever my friend.
Thanks bro, you saved me valuable time. She talks a lot.
Thanks Lucas, it was dragging on, glad I read yours at 1:40 and done!
My girlfriend has been doing everything on the list
If a girl is cheating on you it's because psychologically she has already broken up with you in her mind. This usually happens days, weeks or months in her mind. From the moment she decides she's breaking up with you to the moment she actually breaks up with you she is just thinking how to break up with you and doing the least amount of damage to you. Some girls are cowards in this regard.
My ex that i was with for nearly 4 years when i asked her when she made up her made to break it off. She told me 6 months ago....had me like wtf?! So true. Signs started around that time so no suprise. But seriously....who wtf waits that long lol
That's not always true. Men cheat with someone, usually a female. People act as if women can not have the spirit of lust like men. False. I know women that would be with another man and still call the current boyfriend to say they love them while with that man. I also know woman who want to marry you while cheating on you. Woman have lustful desire for other men too. Men just seem to lust after more woman. Now I agree on, if a women is deciding to leave you, she usually established another relationship, but she can still cheat on you while wanting to be with you. Just think about it, Men cheat usually with a women and that women is probably in a relationship with someone else. When there's an alter call for deliverance for the spirit of lust men and women are usually equally in that line. The devil needs the female and the male to destroy marriages and relationship. Both do it equally, woman may compartmentalize it better, hide it better, and justify it better. They also get caught less. Because when a guy make you his girlfriend or wife, he can not envision the one he loves to be with another person. He usually puts her on the good girl pedestal. Women have been condition that all men are dogs, so they look out for it more. If men, look out for it as much as women, you will see it is alot more than people think. A female psychologist admitted it.
I have this married woman and we talk as friends . She always quickly responds to me. Sometimes she jokingly says she wants me. Onetime, I met up to give her my class notes to help her with the class bc she was having difficulties. And she, brought me…..a large bag of goodies and large not regular cup of green tea smoothly…It’s confused what she wants but it’s clear she wants to stay friends. She also shared so much about her husband. I stay friends bc this girl has such a tragic story and I feel so bad. So whenever I can, I try to help her.
@@2007Club The large bag of goodies would throw me off but some people are very generous. Just stay as friends, help her whatever way you can.
@@twinturbo3461 thank you sir, that’s what I will do and continue stay as friends
Summary:-
1. Loss of affection.
2. Drastic Change in communication
3. Accusing you/ Panaroid
4. Thirst posts on social media
5. Protective of her phone
Being with my ex narc for the past 6 yrs. made me observe this very pattern. I think they wanted to feel very important in a way that is disturbing. Instead of building trust with their intimate partners, they destroy the trust that they built with you (in that case lying when they tried to put you in their pedestal). Once they have a committed partner, they can’t stand being loved authentically by one person. Instead they go on and prey on other women that is susceptible to their love bombing. My ex narc was a compulsive pursuer in a relationship. He would go back and forth to the women he were involved before or try to meet women in complicated situation so that going public isn’t an option while having you as their main supply. In the end they destroy the very person that loved them. They are like toddlers testing your love for them. Showing and telling them you love them isn’t enough, they will cheat on your face to make you feel inadequate even if you are more than they deserve. They want to test your love for them so they keep hurting you and when you have enough of their abuse, you leave. Then they tell you, ‘you never loved me because you abandon me’. Well in fact it’s their actions and narcissistic behavior that made you leave or in other cases they discard you and will give silly reasons of the discard. Mine would use, ‘she’s crazy’, ‘she’s a nega-star’, ‘she insults me’, ‘she cheated on me’ et al. So with this pattern of infidelities and emotional abuse (who knows what else) it’s better to walk away. I did walk away and is now rebuilding my life with our daughter. We are struggling financially because I’m not earning enough to provide for my daughter but now we get to laugh and bring with us sunshine every day. No lies, no abuse and no fake love. We only live once, forgive yourself and move forward but never forget the lesson that narc abuse taught you. That is to respect yourself to walk away from what’s hurting and destroying you. That you deserve a life of solitude, happiness and love. Hugs*** :) Additionally I hired a private detective Metaspyhub@gmail. com. Once I knew what the narc was up to, it got easier to get over that lying, cheating, sack of doo doo, loser. I didn’t need closure from the narc, I paid for it. Best money I EVER spent!
It took me 8 years to catch my narcissistic wife. Of course, I didn’t know she was a narcissist back then. I didn’t even know what narcissism was. A part of me always knew that she wasn’t faithful to me. It was just that whenever I voiced my concerns or asked for some reassurance, there was hell to pay. She put me through a mental gauntlet of feigned outrage, moral indignation, gaslighting, and flipping reality on its head in order to make me the bad guy. She repeatedly set what little progress I had made in trying to have a good relationship with her, back to square one.
She exploited my deepest desires-to have a good marriage and to keep our family together, by always keeping one foot out the door and threatening to leave. So, I learned to carefully pick my battles…. and worse. I learned to put the blinders on and to pretend that she wasn’t up to no good. I also learned to convince myself that I was the problem. And then one day, while she was at work, I decided to clean out the car. She had a nasty habit of treating the backseat like a dumpster. As I stuffed empty wrappers, bottles, and cups into a trash bag, I found an envelope with her name on it.
Thinking it might be important, I decided to look at its contents before I threw it away. It was a letter from some guy who was clearly in love with her. He expressed how he wanted more from her than their secret rendezvous. There was no mistaking what he meant. Even though my heart was crushed, I regained my power in the very next moment. I drove to where she worked, and I angrily approached her. Her eyes fell on the letter in my hand, and her shoulders slumped in silent defeat. She quietly said, “I can’t talk right now, but I’ll be home in an hour.” “Good!” I replied. “I’ll be waiting!” Then I turned on my heel and stormed out the door. Now that the cat was out of the bag, she admitted the entire affair-including all the places where they would meet up.
As difficult as that was to hear, I stood by, ready to forgive her. I was well-practiced in starting over from square one, and I eagerly waited for the opportunity to roll up my sleeves and to get to work. But she played the wounded victim as convincingly as Amber Heard, and she asked me to wait for two days while she decided what she should do. Of course, I said yes. Even though I had been married to her for 14 years, I still had no idea what I was dealing with. In the midst of that painful discussion, she was plotting her next move. It turned out that she needed two days to think because that’s when her boyfriend would return from his business trip. She wanted to be in a relationship with him, but when he refused to leave his wife for her, she decided to stay married to me. Of course, I didn’t know any of this at the time. I only knew that after two days, she decided to stay.
Being the eternal optimist that I am, I saw this as an opportunity for a brand new start, and I convinced myself that we were finally going to have a good marriage. But she didn’t share my optimism, and it was obvious that her heart wasn’t in her decision to stay. We suffered together for another 2 weeks when she blamed me for her affair. That’s when I finally threw in the towel. We divorced on friendly terms, and we made all our own arrangements for custody and child support. We only needed a lawyer to draft and file the appropriate documents. The laws have changed since those days, and you can’t do that kind of stuff anymore. Anyway, during our many conversations to dissolve our marriage, she admitted lots of things that I didn’t know about-including the fact that she was never faithful to me. If I had understood narcissism back then, I would have handled things differently. I wouldn’t have put up with her mental abuse, and I would have left her years earlier.
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You took 8 years to suss it all. SMH. Just walk.
Good to hear a man's side . Similar thing happened to me. She denied everything I got shamed and blamed. It took years until my family members realized she was a lying botch.
Then they realized I was right all a long.
Eternal optimist = beta
Wow, you typed all of that. Tl;dr
You caught her cheating, and then she still gets half.
The most important thing is to not ignore the red flags. It sucks knowing that the end of a long, wonderful relationship is nearing its end but if they don't want to stay don't force it, nothing good will come from that.
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I wish I have had someone telling me all this before I got married. My husband of 25 years used to behave like a dictator and all the red flags were there. Emotional abuse is a serious problem in a relationship. From emotional abuse, cheating started.Thank you *Johnsonspy* for posting this time to get me all the evidence.
If you ask them or confront them straight out without evidence they will deny it absolutely, If they are cheating on you *Johnsonspy* can help you get backdoor access to your spouse cell phone.
Women over 45 intiate 80% of divorces. They get bored with a faithful loving guy.
@@ketobodybuilder2482thats why this women was with this “toxic” and “cheating husband” for 25 years. They love the drama and unfaithfulness but won’t admit it. Female nature is CRUEL.
When you see people like Courtney in this world, you know there is still hope! Keep up the good work Courtney!
IDK about that, she give a lot of bad advice to guys as all women pick up artists do ! she could be doing more harm than good.
@@mcpartridgeboy or maybe a lot of truths you're not ready to hear... She's not perfect, no one is, but I've heard great things...
@@Itsmeagain12345 Truth ? you want the Truth ? the truth is non of us guys looking on yt for dating advice ever have a hope in hell of getting a woman, if the truth came out channels like hers would die tomorow, the truth is you need to be PERFECT at pick up or your fucked, the truth is that women are getting hundreds of offers a day, thats well over 600 000 offers a year, set against guys who have zero, not only zero but are rejected well over 99.99% of times, thats a power ga of well over 600 000% in favour of women, the onky guys who get dates now are top pick up artists, and by the looks of things thats not you, or me, or anyone searching for dating advice on yt, a few crappy tips from this woman isnt going to solve anything excet it might give you some temporary false hope until you try and definatly get rejected, its you who cant handle the truth not me you fool, the quicker you understand the power gap the quicker you will realize yyour powerless to change reality, you lucked out you were born a man in tthe west right now and the fact its so insainly rediculoously outrageously easy for women now is a direct consiquence of how impossible it is for guys. The truth is your better off forgetting about women altogether because its never going to happen, false hope like she gives just makes things even worse, your so far from a top pick up artist its hopeless without years and years of dedication going out every night getting rejected by hndreds of women a night and never letting it affect your self esteem, it takes a very special mindset and complete dedication to get a woman now.
You’re just simping cause she pretty. What credit is is or expertise does she have other than being pretty?
She’s one of the few women who’s said she hasn’t cheated that I actually believed.
I'm a UK born and living in Australia and I cannot express enough how much I despise these scumbags. Literally whenever people ask me my nationality I just tell them I'm British because idiots like these give us a horrendous reputation, not to also mention they scam other people too. It warms my heart to see stuff like this, please keep up the great recovery’s work Team *Johnsonspy* , thanks for destroying these scammers! And i won the case.....!!!
What are you talking about? No shit if someone asked your nationality you say British, well if you are "UK" born whatever that means then obviously you are British 🤦 i am British but foremost, I am English.
She's not yours, it's just your turn. Always remember that gentlemen ;)
facts
It should be taught to all boys starting in middle school and up.... best quote ever
mgtow
@@AvinaPressureWashing Yup. Reality
@@RabeaHussain Exactly
Disrespect is always a relationship killer and unfortunately culture has made it cool for men to be disrespected regularly.
Facts. Women nowadays can say, do, talk to, wear whatever they want (which is no problem) BUT the moment a man does these things he's a misogynist, narcissistic POS woman hater, who's a cheater and a liar.
How is that?
@@matthewschwartz6607 if you have to ask you're not really paying attention. Men in movies and TV shows are constantly portrayed as bumbling idiots. If you want to make sure your woman doesn't have bad habits that lead to cheating your insecure to name a few.
Word...
true, we are expected to give but never receive
Wow...amazing!! Everything you said hits home. Going through a divorce with my wife of 10 years and 2 kids. Found out a few months ago she had an "emotional " affair with another married man who has 2 kids as well. They both planned the divorce at the same time to be together. Everything you mentioned is what I experienced. The blame deflecting was the worst. They try to pin their actions on you to give them a sense of justification and relief. Another red flag that I want to add with social media is when they stop posting pictures of your relationship together.
Same here mate my ex wife tried to monkey branch to her friends husband our neighbours! It failed he wasn't interested in anything serious he moved in with another woman whilst begging to go back to his wife, she has tried to reel me back in no thanks now divorced, a broke family for nothing but at least I can see the real woman married, all the best mate from England 🏴
Cheaters are usually thieves and huge liars as well, completely dishonest and disloyal, they never accept responsibility for their actions.
Number 3 (that she accuses you of stuff) really is a good one. A cheater's biggest fear is to be cheated on
For sure got the “how was she?” After I went to see one of my mates one night. Got suspicious so looked at her Instagram friends…… I’m sure you can guess how that worked out
Watch them if they come home and sit in driveway on phone, they’ll call the dude they’re cheating with when they leave and talk to him on their way to your house and tell them they’re “home”
They’ll also leave it face down and take it EVERYWHERE like I mean everywhere they go.
As a man you do not put up with disrespect, period. I have trouble getting along with people a lot for this reason. I'm very straight forward with people when it comes to how im treated, I get hostile.
If someone treats you with disrespect you have every right to be hostile
I don't care if I get disrespected. Women hate me
The loss of intimacy is a huge sign. It happens a lot with women once you are in a LTR or Marriage. They have what they want and no longer have to be physical.
GOD help you and your children in divorce court it will be hell on earth for you and your children by design!
@@jbman413I had a cheating spouse with little kids. Finally divorced her and of course she got paid and alienated me from the kids.
I noticed these:
1. Going out with her "girlfriend" a lot more than usual
2. Starting to buy a lot of lingerie and dressing more provocatively
3. Changes in personal grooming habits
4. Insisting on having a bath before intimacy after her "girls night out"
5. Huge change in spending habits (credit card statements)
This list might be more applicable to a long term relationship than a casual one.
Good list!
0. Displays of disrespect. Pay attention to eye rolls and snide comments. The clock is ticking at that point.
Spot on dude.
@@jpoeng True. Disrespect, looking for and/or creating reasons to argue, being combative when she was never that way before...
@@soarindragon603 That was the first warning sign my friends saw before my wife cheated. I was too blue pilled to notice, and they only clued me in much later. Since then, I’ve studied on it much further, and there’s a body of knowledge in social psychology that supports this. There’s a researcher who is able to predict with incredible accuracy the probability of divorce by watching a half hour video of couples interacting when interviewed. These outward signs of the value we place on our partner, and their thoughts and feelings, are fundamental.
A common red flag for me was inconsistency in stories along with elaborate explanations of why she didn't show up when planned (it doesnt take many words to tell the truth) and the hostile reaction when questioned about it, then the stonewalling and gaslighting that makes you doubt your own sanity, so hard when you already fell in love with them, but better to be alone and happy than in a relationship and miserable.
I got gas lighted & didn't even know it at 1st. Thought I was hearing random sht
@@SimbaUchihaa can you elaborate on "hearing random things"
@@garystinten9339 basically I was tricked into believing I was making up words out of her mouth, when the person really did say those things
@@SimbaUchihaa yeah I've had that too.. if I confront her she's in denial..
I even asked her to confirm something she said immediately after she said it and denied it because she had already said it. I asked her to repeat what she said as I heard her say it but she claims she said nothing..
I said to her.. next time you have something to say to me, please approach me or get my attention at least and then ask me as you can see I was pretty involved and it's only courtesy to do that.
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One you don’t mention is when you start noticing signs of disrespect. Eye rolls and snide comments indicate she doesn’t value you anymore, and at that point it’s just a matter of time until she finds a better option than you.
Spot on brother, when your woman doesn’t respect you anymore you’re doomed.
Yep, thats true.
Signs of disrespect for sure!
You are correct.
If they doin that they all ready found that option they just just around cus he ain’t worried bout her in that moment and you feed her
Courtney, idk if you’ll see this but I want to sincerely thank you for this video. A lot of this stuff really resonated looking back at the behavior of my ex. It opened my eyes which were slammed shut for so long because of emotions around her. Not necessarily she may have cheated but certainly just she had lost interest and I didn’t want to admit it to myself. This video has felt like a major step forward for me in healing and a massive sense of closure by finally being able to admit to myself that this “perfect” girl, wasn’t so perfect after all. She was a great girl with a beautiful heart, but just not as committed as I would’ve hoped. Anyway, thank you so much for this. God bless you
Courtney, you are so spot on with this. I’ve been through this. I’ve been cheating on before. She would always accuse me all the time, and she use to put her phone facedown all the time. I found out and I left. The best decision I’ve ever made in my life. ✌🏾✌🏾
Have you gone back?
Ah the phone face down trick. Yep
@@matthewschwartz6607 fuk nooo. Why would you wanna buy a used car for the same price as a new one?
Haha phone face down omg, cheaters always gonna be cheaters this was happened to me too...
Bless your heart *Johnsonspy* . Its SO sad how the scammers prey on the elderly and the uninformed public.. Bless you and all others who fight against these crimes. Its horrible how mainstream media is not doing the right thing by shining light on these things to help the public.....!!!!
The dude is just not fakeing . The finishes of the goals. Beautiful. Magisterial. Love you *Leapnotch!.* 🙏🏼
My ex used to go through my phone all the time and constantly accuse me of cheating so I ended up losing interest in her and breaking up with her and lo and behold she's with a new guy like 2 days later lmao, probably was cheating on me the whole time.
PROBABLY?? no!!
she was deffenutely cheating on you
no worries my friend
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Yes she was cheating On u bro because no one get in a relationship so quick
Sounds like she was crazy and she was trying to make you jealous 😂😂😂
she was Monkey branching
More like at least 2 weeks before anything became suspicious.
Courtney is making people more aware each passing day. 🙂
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I'm fed up with relationships just lies and mistrust! I recognise what you have said loaty love and affection is gone it's all about greed now! Shame.
Odd work hours having to do with sudden OT. 2.Always keeping her phone in her possession not even letting u hold it.
3. Mad about something then all of a sudden She's being nice to u extremely nice out of nowhere (because they did something worse).
4. New lingo , words, mindset and way of acting.
3. What could be possibly worst than cheating?
Those are some fair points. I should ask my wife's boyfriend about his take on this
GME to the moon tho
Lmfao 🤣🤣
Now we all know why Jesus Christ never had a girlfreind lol!!
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Right 😆
"I always assume you cheating, so I'm never hurt when I find out you is."
I wasn’t expecting another video today, but I sure am excited to hear your perspective!! The feeling when you know someone’s losing interest is the worst 😩
Haha I like to keep your guys on your toes! 😂 it really is the worst I agree!
@@CourtneyRyan Haha I appreciate it! 😂 For sure, I’m the type that notices even the tiniest details and it’s not a fun observation!
At 0:50 I'd just like to add that you don't necessarily break off immediately as you start losing trust. Sometimes it just happens that you become suspicious and lose trust to your SO while actually there was some misunderstanding, lack of communication or just bad luck. Communication is the key and you must always tell whats bothering you, what you noticed about your SO and so on. You will know for sure if something is up if you hold conversations, communicate a lot but same mistakes that bother you happen over and over again. Just never hold something bad in yourself because your SO isn't aware of it and you start making up ugly scenes in your head unnecessarily, which makes all your suspicions even worse.
What makes Court so great is how she's generally on our side and spreads positivity to men's mental health, which is something that we can never get enough of these days. Most females in advice channels constantly pander to the female ego and come off as judgmental, rather than acting like a personal wing-man for us.
Facts my guy!
@@mrnegronomics1529 oohu my
Your out-of-the-box thinking and unique perspective turned an otherwise mediocre presentation into a fantastic one *johnson spy* . You did a good job of catching the mistakes and keeping us from wasting time and by taking the wrong path. Your attention to detail really sets you apart from the crowd. Great work! Jack, Your great work has resulted in tangible, beneficial results to me. You’re a force to be reckoned
Thanks *johnsonspy* for the remote access into target's complete phone activities
That feeling when your partner cheated and you don't have the courage to leave him or her so you just dealt with the pain and live everyday asking questions about your worth. This pain is different from the cheating one-- living and seeing him everyday anticipating when will he or she do it again. Your spy jobs are incredibly well done. No critique, thanks for doing this *JohnsonSpy*
You seem like a very cool and genuine girl to be friends with.
Thank you 🥲
or more! :D
*_And eventually to become a good wife & mother._*
She is trust me. Gives me a stern talking to every time I do something dumb
True, I iust came from other videos with other girls talking about things within this "girls wish guys knew.." genre and the girls were terrible. When i clicked on this video I felt a total personality change. I felt less of an angry cat vibe to be simple lol
I've learned all of these the hard way... I don't regret my past relationships because they were great teachers, though they didn't know it.
I had a gf once that constantly accused me of cheating and had an issue with any girl I knew. Came to find that was her way of putting up a front that she was a saint so that she could cheat. Definitely learned that sign the hard way.
Boom.
Or she genuinely thought that, and then cheated as a result.
@@BWater-yq3jx So she was suspicious enough to think damage was done against her and then she should retaliate? Meanwhile, she's the only cheater here?
When eyes that couldn't hide the fact that they were looking at the person they loved most in the world begin to avoid meeting yours. . . when the voice that said your name melodically and affectionately now sounds injured, in pain. . . When running out to the driveway to greet you with a kiss and hug stops and the closest description you can associate to what you came home to is like a wild animal trapped in a cage. . . wanting to escape.. . .
Someone cheating does those 5 as a minimum! For me asking if there was someone else resulted in drama, disbelief, disgust, and more deprivation. . . gaslighting, lying, projecting accusations all had me questioning my own mind, but the signs were all there and my gut knew . . .I felt that after being married 20 years we could get past anything, but I knew that feeling wasn't shared when I was served with the divorce. . .
I will likely always be in love with the girl I married, but the person she became is not someone I'd have anything to do with, then or now.
I’m 20 years in and my gut is screaming and there are red flags. Just waiting on the other show to drop. It sucks and I don’t know what to do.
The very first item you "listed" or pointed out describes my wife to the "T." I know she's not cheating on me, but she certainly has no interest in any passionate moments with me, she hasn't for the last 10-12 years of our marriage...when she says "it's not in me (when I asked to sit down at the end of the day and just talk about how our day went); I don't need it (when I wanted to discuss the falling off of our sexual relations); it's not necessary, it's just understood" (when I wanted to discuss why we didn't kiss hello and goodbye and say I love you any more), you know the true love in the heart is no longer there.
😕 ...But you're STILL with her?
Always say NO to a sexless marriage!
Seen a comment on going through a partner’s phone and just wanted to comment abt it whether you find it or not.
if your partner overthinks or rather is insecure in themselves but actually expresses that to you or communicates to you about the thoughts they may think or insecurities they may have, dont take that as them accusing you on something. Try and heal them, find ways to reassure them rather than just ignoring it or blaming them for “accusing you”. If they ask to go through your phone, it shouldn’t be a problem because you know yourself you aren’t doing anything wrong so let them prove themselves wrong mentally and enjoy you. Let them heal themselves, but heal them as well with your reassurance and affection. You know you dont have anything to hide, they probably dont either and would gladly show you anything if need be. The reason for all the overthinking and etc. are probably because of trauma from past relationships. Don’t fabricate it into something else, but also dont be blind to when it’s them accusing you because then that would be heavily suspicious.
Saying this because I do this myself a lot, and I know I would never cheat on my partner.
I absolutely respect your dedication to RUclips .
You deserve your success Courtney
If your partner takes a shower when they get back. Check their underwear for you know what. Check clothes for lipstick or perfume. Or torn buttons look for scratch Mark's on the back. Hickey Mark's bruises in the inner thighs arms ect. Check their car for signs of damage or perfume or cologne. This always works hold your partner's hand and at the same time ask them if they are cheating. And if they cannot with a straight face say no without laughing. There most likely cheating. I really like your videos your always calm and honest.
6) always has an excuse and not spending time with you.
I don’t even want to be in a relationship anymore shit is too dangerous for my mentality and soul
Not going to lie, but we are actually really proud to have an employee like you as part of our team. The job is done so gracefully and neatly. Very well done, dear *brian hacks online* . First of all. Thank you for making the work environment so friendly and taking your responsibility seriously and completing the work gracefully! You deserve so much.
I sincerely appreciate your prompt response in resolving this unexpected issue about spying partner *brian hacks online* . Your willingness to take risks and make quick decisions helped me in getting access to his account. I’m grateful to have such a talented and perceptive person.
Women that cheat are pretty smart. They will delete evidence and tell you its okay to go through their phone.
I found out my girlfriend of 2 years was cheating this way. But there are ways to tell if they are cheating.
When you're with someone for a length of time, you will learn their mannerisms and their general character and demeanor. You can literally feel the difference if they change patterns.
Social media validation for attention online is toxic! NOT A GOOD SIGN! So so true, she follows a guy on social media (likes all his pictures), so she might be posting the picture so he can see it. You are so right about when they start to "get really into themselves and post themselves more often on social media". THEY ARE THE TOXIC ONES, NOT THE PARTNER WHO CATCHES THEM
ALSO.. if her social media account has friends list and/relationship status hidden. Ive seen this a lot. I added a girl on fb a long time ago, she had ZERO indicators that she was in a relationship. Little did I know, she had been in a long term relationship for many years. Now, this doesn't mean she's cheating but i think it does mean she likes to appear available to the male traffic on her fb. And she knows that hiding those things keeps the male traffic coming in. She seemed like the type that is always on the hunt for the next best thing.
If he/she cheats on you, they belong to the streets.
Be yourself, follow your heart, a most importantly, be respectful.
Was willfully oblivious to these things, say too trusting, got cheated on and a 6 year relationship was destroyed in about 2 months. Life feels bleak now.
I had emergency open heart surgery back in Dec. It changed my life. I can’t party any more. I don’t drink the way I used too. And I’ve lost interest in a lot of things that used to bring me joy. But I still had my GF of 12 years with me to get through it. I just found out this past weekend that she has been seeing somebody else for a couple months behind my back. Im not angry or sad. Just very disappointed. You never really know people and what they are capable of.
I became friends with those guys here wow!! wow! NICE WORK MAN, NICE ONE MINSLEGEND
Spot on, I admire you saying that you don’t hide anything and wouldn’t care if he inspected your phone. It’s so rare that you learned this being as young as you are. Kudos!!
1. Loss of Trust. If you catch her lying about her whereabouts... or she tells you about where she's been, versus volunteering where she is going, before she goes. It's pretty rare that a woman works really late, or works overtime, staying late into the evening, at the job.
2. Loss of affection. Lack of Nookie, hugs, kisses, greetings make you feel distant from her.
Those first 2 signs were the most obvious signs in my last relationship. Dating is harder than ever before, especially for those over 40 like myself.
One year ago I broke up with my ex, and I still watch these videos, thinking, why the hell she did this to me? All those promises, plans, everything was going perfect, her family liked me a lot, my family liked her a lot, everything was so perfect, 1 week before the break up, she told me I was her most important person in her life, after a week, she told me she never loved me. Also her parents were sorry for what she did, but after she left me, I was focused on making my family proud, and I'm doing it, all the things I promised her I will do, I'm doing it step by step, and my life is going great, but still feeling terrible because of her
She will lose interest 100 % of the time a few years after marriage. No exceptions.
Exactly right Bro
What's the difference between your job and your wife?
Your job still sucks after the first year.
stfu red piller
@@dard4642 Wow, that is deep. Wow. I mean, wow. Oh man, unlike the wife, your job sucks even more after the third year.
I made my position on that very clear from the start, and reiterate it to remind her. Intimacy dies so does our marriage. She still wants to marry me. Its her choice. No excuses, no exceptions. Her only real options are desperate assholes or married cheaters and she knows it.
Courtney love to get womens prospective view of things it refreshing. Years ago I was dating a girl a few times of accusing me if cheating when I came later than she expected. To find out after we broke up she cheated. With Cell phones I had my girlfriends 4 digit code and she had mine without have to ask. Once the relationship is done I never go back. I have never cheated on any female!
Sexual over compensation...all the sudden, she is so open with intimacy, way more than used to, out of guilt.
Facts !
I was in a relationship and all of these indicators were present. She was always wanting me to support her and use my credit card. I sent a friend to go out and observe her and she was charging my card to pay for her dude on the side.
I never confronted her (maybe I should have). when we were out I didn’t want to pay her way because I was mad. She immediately told me I was replaceable.
She started talking to other guys in front of me. I immediately walked up to the guy and told him that’s my girlfriend and I have an open relationship and I need $200 for him to date her for the night. He gladly gave me the two Benjamins. Later on when they left together he told her and she was livid.
The next day she brought her dad to my house to move her things outta my house. After that day I never saw or heard from her again.
Sometimes it’s better to be alone than to be with someone as toxic as she was.
Lol you was her pimp lol😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Every time I watch your videos, I notice something in your facial expressions, you have like a talent of: "Happiness through your eyes, you smile using your eyes, even though it doesn't seem like through your mouth" (it shows you're a friendly individual with helpful information, where positivity impacts other people)
This hardest lesson I learned when it comes to dating is that if/when she loses respect for you for whatever reason, deserved or not, it’s over. Don’t try to hang on to or fix something that’s dead. In her mind she’s already broken up with you but is too scared to actually do it right away, and that’s when the cheating happens.If you notice the loss of respect, just break up with her. It saves a lot of trouble.
A possibility is if she has to chat with someone and she has to walk outside the same room you're both in
Oooh that’s a good one
@@CourtneyRyan You gained a new subscriber!
You're always very assertive when it comes to narcissism and cheating wives! Thank you!
As someone who's passionate about checking if my other significant is cheating, I'd honestly love to do this. It looks like a lot of fun. Also, the one cyber spy shouting encouragement when *Johnson Spy* was doing drills on the system was fantastic. I'd love to have that dude just follow me around and deafen me with motivation.🇺🇸🇺🇸
Thanks *johnsonspy* for the remote access into target's complete phone activities
That feeling when your partner cheated and you don't have the courage to leave him or her so you just dealt with the pain and live everyday asking questions about your worth. This pain is different from the cheating one-- living and seeing him everyday anticipating when will he or she do it again. Your spy jobs are incredibly well done. No critique, thanks for doing this *JohnsonSpy*
She had ALL of these "symptoms".
Then we fought over she being shady then admitting she's meeting with her ex's sister and he also being there and we broke up.
A few days after she was with some other guy that always used to try to text her on social media, but I trusted her, hence never said anything.
She was soooo unlike this, I will always find it hard to trust people.
same :/
Eff that broad that'd why you gotta be cold as ice
Courtney is the big sister I always needed. You’re the GOAT as always Courtney.
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The projection thing sucks. It’s basically gaslighting you, if you think about it.
Don't go through your partner's phone. Not only is it a huge violation of your partner's autonomy but it's also just plain pathetic. Besides what will it get you? You'll either ruin your relationship by finding out they're cheating or ruin your relationship because they weren't but you still didn't trust them and went behind their back. If you feel the need to do this *Brian Hacks online* all this I saw ,it's just heart wrecking
All you have to do to start is look up their name making use of your phone's browser to get to their platform and chat *BRIAN* about getting the spying done
If you ask them or confront them straight out without evidence they will deny it absolutely, If they are cheating on you *BRIAN* can help you get backdoor access to your spouse cell phone.
I dont know what I would have done without *BRIAN* help in my divorce case. Your dedication, enthusiasm, and expertise were like a lifesaver. Youre my hero!
How do you get into contact with this Brian hacks?
I did, needed proof, she was cheating but still had the audacity to lie to my face and tell me I'm wrong for going through her phone. The fact that some people think going through a phone is worse than cheating shows how far society has falling.
I was with someone over 10 years...loved her..was always loyal to her.. and I'm pretty sure she cheated on me with her ex-boyfriend who was abusive... She had a couple of these signs.. always accusing me and being insecure and secretive with the phone.. all because my work schedule.. because I had to make a living and sometimes had to work later.. and she knew this when she started dating me.. lesson learned.. don't be with someone if you're going to cheat on them.. would you want that done to you?? I'll never do the insecure thing ever again.. childish
If someone is gonna cheat on you, let them. But don't stick around and tolerate it, and definitely do not take them back, because if you do, theyll more than likely cheat on you again, unfortunately.
So, have enough self-respect to walk away, and find someone who is worthy of your time and attention.
Yeah honestly people watching can be good too. Like if you notice your girl/guy disrespecting you in public dont step in and call them out. Just watch and see what happens. See what they think theyre allowed to do to you, because chances are thats what they will always do no matter how often you call them out.
When I found out my girl had been cheating the only behavior on this list was she was protective of her phone; not overly so, but she’d hide it when I walked by if she was messaging or texting. She said this was a reflex due to her abusive ex getting violent when she was on her phone. This was something she also told me before we were dating so I believed it. She’d tell me about & show me conversations she’d be having so I didn’t get overly suspicious.
She only pulled back on sex but not general affection the last 2 weeks before I found out. Things had recently been stressful for us so I didn’t think too much of it.
Thank you for your full focus on the job instead of focusing on proving yourself to others. You always tried harder to be better *johnson spy* and now your success speaks out louder. Thank you for a hard work. I’m sure it was worth it all. There is no doubt that you are the most deserving of all that should be given a shout out
Hey, *DigitsalTruthSeekers* squad! I just wanted to drop by and shower you with some virtual love and appreciation! You guys are like the fairy godmothers of truth, waving your digital wands and making all the lies disappear.. Thank you for being my rock when everything else seemed to crumble. You're the real MVPs..!!!!!!.
I can't believe they cheated on you. That's hard since your so cool.
Idk if you touched on it because I was eating wings while listening.. but change in appearance is a good sign in my experience. If they start randomly getting extra ready for something your not involved with, she might be trying to Impress someone.
Courtney is officially one of the boys
100% agreed 👍. Like video.. question? We have kids. 3 year girl and 6 year boy . I can't abandon them . I'm afraid of child support.. what should going forward??
I’ve got 4, in a 8 year relationship I feel like I missed all
These signs cause I didn’t give a sh!t myself, been cheated on and now I’ve woke up and feel something was off but it’s to late and we’re on good terms.
I used the loss of affection [ Alienation of affection ] to force my way out of a marriage, and no I was not cheating. I turned the relationship into an unrequited relationship. I used alienation of affection to force my way into a divorce. Usually someone is telling you something when this is happening, "I want out!".
why play these games? just be honest and ask for a divorce. This is worse than cheating.
@@willh1655 Hi, I did ask for a divorce and she wanted to fight the idea, the damage was done and I through in the towel. I was miserable with her and willing to do most anything to get out.
What you said at the beginning completely makes intuitive and logical sense; it's a case where one implication holds, and the logical converse of it doesn't
This is the most comprehensive, understandable, well-presented historical spy site overview I have heard from any online agency. I have subscribed to and shared your channel with friends around the world. Whoever created *Johnson Spy* that particular spy site deserves the highest of journalistic accolades. Bravo!!!!!
I was in a long Term Relationship with my Ex. But I had a feeling that She was Cheating, because She showed a LOT of the sings (even though She denied it). I didn't have any evidence that She was IN FACT, Cheating. But Also back when we first started, her Ex had messaged me and told me. That HE broke up with HER because SHE Cheated on HIM. So I dumped her.
Being cheated on is a horrible feeling. What I've learnt from being cheated on is that it's not necessarily your fault; but no matter devastating and demeaning it was at that time, the positive steps and the willingness to improve and recognise the red flags will make you the better person in the long run.
Something that you said in your last Q & A where you spoke about that time you were cheated on, really resonated me. You said that you know what you have to give and offer, and you know who you are. To me that was a perfect encapsulation of the kind of confidence and honestly that people should tell themselves more often.
Well really, it's not ever your fault.
If someone's unhappy enough with their partner to cheat,
then they should just leave.
A good slap will always bring perspective and remind someone how to act.
5:24 "...projected..."
Courtney, you nailed it.
My ex showed all of these signs when she was having multiple affairs. Either of them could be something else, but all 5 at once is a pretty solid indicator.
How hard is it to breakup with said person before sleeping with someone else? I once told the woman I was with that if she ever felt like she didn't love me anymore to leave and not cheat. What did she do...
Also, their friends avoid or stop talking to you. Because the chances are that they know what your partner is up to . Great video, thanks for sharing :)
Oh that’s a good one too!
Why Would anyone cheat on you Christine, you are so nice and have a great voice!
Finally a RUclipsr giving me real dating advice that isn’t yelling or always putting a ad in the video 👌🏻😌
haha, i allways wonder why they have to yell continously. Its like writing IN CAPITAL LETTERS ALL THE TIME!!!!!!
My foot is down, never in my life I trust another person. Thanks for the video
My ex was very protective of her phone around me. I wasn't even trying to look, but her actions made me very suspicious. One night we were on the couch, she was on her phone. I leaned back to rest more and she moved back to keep her phone out of view. I thought that was a bit strange so I tested something, I leaned back into the couch more, and she moved her phone even more out of view. Yes, turns out she was cheating on me. She always says she regrets, like most do when caught, but I think she just regrets getting caught.
She only has regrests because she got caught and lost the best man she will ever get!!!
My LTR gf has told me she is going to Germany for 9 days with her bestie, and she's just going to see the culture and blah blah. Now, 2 weeks after she let it out by accident, she's gonna not only be in Germany but in Spain as well, and now it's 14 days. After she saw in my face I was done and she said "I'm so afraid of losing you!" I asked myself WHYYYYY would you ever be afraid you've don't nothing...right!? BSSSSS DUDE...WHEN SHE GETS BACK SHE WILL HAVE A 3 PARAGRAPH LETTER DUMPING HER ASS. HER DREAMS OF MARRYING ME AND GETTING CITIZENSHIP or American benefits, as she calls it, are OVERRRR!
I JUST started a new job making more money than ever, and already girls are gvijgn me tons of attention.
How the fuck does 9 days go to 2 straight weeks away from me totally unaccountable while she's there in 2 different countries?
Fuck her.
I’m so sorry that someone cheated on you its so wrong that someone would cheat on a nice person like you , I believe eyes are the window into the soul and I see a kind soul and you have an aura of a nice and caring person keep up the good work and advice
I’ll come back to this when I have a girlfriend 🥲
Same XD
Don’t be and idiot stay single all girls are the same spend all ur money on urself and screw all the girls over
@@MrPapi235 I once ate meat infront of a vegan.
@Cmndr Roy Fokker this person had a complete meltdown.
If your going to worry about this stuff then dont date her anymore simple there are 3 women to every guy in usa not to mention the world