4 Things Introverts Secretly Love
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- Опубликовано: 4 авг 2024
- Are you an introvert who feels like your secret loves are often misunderstood? Well, you're in for a treat! In this video, we're diving into the world of introverts and revealing 4 Things Introverts Secretly Love. Get ready to nod your head in agreement and relate to the experiences and passions that make introverts tick!
Our goal is to create a sense of connection and understanding, bridging the gap between introverts and extroverts. Even if you're an extrovert, this video will provide valuable insights into the world of introversion, helping you understand and appreciate the introverts in your life.
We also made a video on the struggles only introverts can relate to: • 6 Struggles Only Intro...
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Dembling, S. (2012). The Introvert's Way: Living a Quiet Life in a Noisy World. Perigee Books.
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Helgoe, L. (2008). Introvert power: Why your inner life is your hidden strength. Sourcebooks, Inc.
Johnson, M. (2022). Understanding introversion: Why introverts tend to keep their hobbies and passions to themselves. In P. Smith (Ed.), Advances in Personality Psychology (pp. 125-140). New York, NY: Springer.
Laney, M. O. (2002). The Introvert Advantage: How to Thrive in an Extrovert World. Workman Publishing Company.
I hate that in today's world, Introverts (like myself) are always treated like they had some disorder that they need to fix. Respecting that is something I need in a friend- or relationship.
I think it's because the generalization of introverts is that you need to be careful or gentle, which isn't necessarily a bad thing, if it's done right. It's not a problem, you don't need to fix it, but it helps to at least recognize it correctly.
Who cares if people are introverts, you are allowed to be Introverted even if it is not accepted in society. It's a good thing to not open up to everyone, not everyone deserves to know you. Some introverts are extroverted depending on who they are with. Therefore your observations are not entirely accurate.
Yeah as someone that’s mostly introverted I can confirm and in todays world extroversion is rewarded like for example my schools award system favoured extroverts and you were more likely to get an award if you were more extroverted which I just hate and my school was basically saying that introversion was a mental disorder that needed to be treated and this is obviously not true at all we don’t need to be fixed we’re just introverts in a extroverted world that thinks we need to be corrected which is just sad
sadly true :(
@@ActuallyDuomy university life was pain if you are an introvert cause my university forced you to be extrovert so you can pass more easily
Introverts worst nightmare:The things you told a person in one-on-one is being discussed in a group setting
Or worse...
Being scolded.
The room will get about 1000 degrees warmer if someone scolds me. Especially over some petty bs. 😂
when you tell your best friend your secrets then he/she tells a group of friends he/she knows.
well, that is the reason why i always retain intel and remember what i did tell to whom.
Lots of things I just keep to myself or talk to strangers about.
I told a close friend of mine a really big secret I have, and she told practically all my friends through a group chat.
@@A_K37- Hope you recover from this traumatic event soon❤️
The second one really hits home. I can hold a conversation with a single person, but in a group conversation, I hardly ever speak up
Same! But there are many people who appreciate someone to talk to alone and who's not only there for you in a larger group. I personally think it's a really nice trait in a person if they're a bit more quiet but you can tell them very private stuff when you're alone with them 🙂.
Does this include groups of friends? Lol
@@JadenHercules Yep, I tend to be the last wheel 😅
Yeah that’s definitely me at home and at school
Same
I’m an introvert, and everything in this video is true for me.
Which of the four points did you resonate to the most?
Agreed. The observation and planning tangent hits the nail.
@@Psych2go that being planned and organized is rewarding for us
@@Psych2go definitely taking in surroundings. I find outside to be peaceful
4/4 as well. Great references, too.
0:35 1. OBSERVATION
1:42 2. ONE-ON-ONE INTERACTIONS
2:27 3. INTELLECTUAL STIMULATION
3:34 4. PLANNING AND ORGANIZING
Thank you for the key points!
thank you
@@Psych2go No problem!
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Thank you 😊
As an introvert, I can confirm that ever single one of these is 100% true. Y'all basically just threw my personality into a nutshell. Awesome job
Same
As an introvert, I find my own joy in music and reading. However, something about today's world is that introverts are treated as if they have some problem because we prefer to keep quiet and try to "fix us" and by doing so, they just make us more uncomfortable with sharing our interests. Btw, I love how psych2go brings psychology to our everyday life in an understandable and comfortable manner. :)
Yes!!!!! A sibling wanted to move in with me. I kept saying the house is way too small. It ran on for more than a year. Finally I had to say, as gently as possible I just would not to live my real life. Sibling talks non stop, wants by my side 24/7, won't watch TV even in a different room. Visits challenge me enough. Full time would make me so unhappy.
Agreed. Some people must perceive me as an asocial person. And I have zero social média, I love it that way but when people learn that, they look at me like I'm an alien.
@@lancelotfabre3530 you tube is my only social media.... and it's not really social media like Instagram etc. I rarely take my cell with me. It honestly drives me nuts watching a couple in a restaurant and both looking at their screens. Why eat out? Oi ya vey!
@@wendi2819 Haha I feel you! I don't even have Internet on my phone.😄
The 1 on 1 thing in the video is so real for me. And I also am (often) more comfortable writing than talking in person.
So at my school we had to take a personality test and it said I was 100% an introvert. Lol
I am an extreme introvert so I cannot recharge without my alone time. This video is spot on. It's good to know that there are some people out there that understand us.
Yes to all four traits! I am retired now and enjoy numerous, mostly solitary, hobbies. When I was working, the words that sparked utter dread for me were "networking" and "group/team project"!
A problem I have with todays world, is that so many people are always wanting to get to know you even when you just want to spend time alone and away from people. A while ago, there would be times at school when your new teacher wants to get to know everyone better by doing that thing where everyone says something about themselves in a circle, or they play games with everyone that includes speaking up and going out of your comfort zone. I think many people today can most likely relate to this and it can be stressful at times.
I’m an introvert, and one-on-one interactions are what I like the most. Big group conversations make me anxious most of the time
As an introvert, I personally love reading in peace in my room, watch thrillers about investigation, murder and serial killers. I hate romantic movies and prefer to interact in one on one conversations. People think I'm just shy, but they just don't understand how drained I can feel after a group conversation. I love making research on hidden things, I'm a perfectionist and love to observe! I'm exactly described in this video!
Oh god
This comment speak volume about me lol
I love mysteries as well! Able to piece together information to find a perpetrator? That sounds rewarding!
I guess that also explains why I always felt like I can’t speak in group conversations because there’s a lot of topic all over the place
Agree with You first comment🙋
@@k-1212 Nice
You sound like a great friend
@@hicknopunk I do my best, at all times!
As an introvert, I can agree with everything this says 😅
I definitely consider myself an introvert, and I think the idea seemed negative for a good part of my life. But now, with the help of people like you, who also point out our _positive_ traits and help me understand why I like certain activities and dislike others, I fully embrace my introversion. One of my secret loves is just enjoying your soothing videos and the *adorable characters* animated by your team. 🥰
I'm an introvert and the two things I enjoy are one on one conversations and observation. I love to observe nature.
Team introvert here!
When the plague hit, I think i was almost at my happiest.
The streets were clean and empty.
I was able to walk into a store, pick out what i needed and leave. No dealing with people bringing the whole family just to buy a loaf of bread, but look at sunglasses.
And i was able to work from home. No one staring at me. No one coughing on me. Making comments about my lunch or stealing it. I controlled the air quality and ambiance. I was able to light a candle!
So yeah, I'm definitely an introvert!❤🎉😊
Omgoodness...It's terrible to think this way but I feel the exact same way. I was sooooo happy to be able work from home, not interact every minute. Webex is a godsend.
@@tical00111
If you're over 40, you may not have had the luxury of working from home. It wasn't an option for many decades.
And we had cubicles with kinda high walls. We had privacy and some control of the air temperature in our corner of the office. Open floor plans were the worst idea ever! Germs and noise everywhere! 😄
@@janeentumbao8690 LoL, you literally just described my work environment. I am over 40 and it felt like I had been training for the pandemic/work from home my entire life. I barely got dressed, during the work day but somehow was extremly productive. I felt like I got a raise because I did'nt have to put gas in the car for weeks. In the last year we have been forced to come back in 3 days a week. It's not too bad but every morning I go in feels like I got my toys taken away at school.
@@janeentumbao8690 Regarding open floor plans, they should be SPECIFICALLY OUTLAWED ON THE NATIONAL LEVEL for public health reasons, and ALL office workspaces limited to NO MORE THAN SIX people -- open-plan offices are THE perfect breeding grounds for contagious disease!
@@janeentumbao8690 Do you happen to know who has ILLEGALLY REMOVED my comment that open floor plans should be OUTLAWED AT THE NATIONAL LEVEL for public health reasons?! Because whoever did this has thereby COMMITTED AN ACT OF BIO-TERRORISM by hindering advocacy of policies which promote public health, and he/she SHALL BE DEALT WITH ACCORDINGLY! Comments like that one are SPECIALLY PROTECTED SPEECH according to the National Security Strategy Guidelines of the United States from 9/17/2001, and removing or suppressing them in ANY way whatsoever CONSTITUTES TERRORISM!
Timestamps :
0:34 - Observation
1:41 - One on one interactions
2:28 - Intellectual stimulation
3:35 - Planning and organizing
Stay safe everyone, love y'all
Thanks so much for the timestamps! I'm sure it'll be very helpful!
@@Psych2go You're welcome, thanks for the amazing content !
I’m too afraid of talking about my own hobbies and interests because i “think” that people will stigmatise me for who i am….
I am an introvert. The one thing that fits me to a T is intellectual stimulation. I am really into that. I am a total nerd. I enjoy thinking about deep and complex topics. It is so fun. My favorite subject is fantasy. I also like science, religion, politics and New Age. One subject I like is psychology. So the Psyche To Go channel is right up my alley. Heck today I was writing in my first Dungeons and Dragons journal. Dungeons and Dragons is hard core hard core fantasy nerd stuff. Learning how to play is difficult due to complex rules. Yet it so much fun to dive in due to all the creatures, classes, worlds and history. It is so awesome. I am getting to the hang of playing. That is good. Then I can engage in the stuff that is cool. That might be the great grandaddy of modern fantasy games. Giving the brain a workout has mental health benefits. I am glad that there are benefits for reducing stress and anxiety. I think it also reduces the risk of dementia when one gets older. I am not exactly sure. If one keeps their mind sharp with intellectual stimulation, the mind is less likely to waste away. I would rather have an elderly person be super wise instead of being super forgetful and dim.
I too, am an introvert. And engaging with an elderly person with a wealth of knowledge and life experiences just appeals to me so much more than that of menial, shallow nit-wit.
That, or someone just as observant, deep thinking & likeminded as me and who I can nerd out with
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Definitely an introvert and its super hard to explain my feelings and beliefs. I dont have anyone that understands me except for my animals of course 😊
As an introvert myself I can definitely relate to your problem. I have been holding the belief that I am always misunderstood for a long time, but in my experience, people are more similar than it might seem. Maybe you just have to be a little bit transparent in front of someone you trust and then they might understand you more:) but animals are always there for you no matter what.
the introvert is that one friend of the group who you must protect at all costs
they may not say much but always have something good to bring to the group when they DO speak
As an introvert, I can relate to everything discussed. One on one is just so much better! 👍
This video has definitely described me being introvert. I just recently starting talking to someone at my workplace whom has been there for some months. I just decided to start a conversation with her and come to find out she is also an introvert. From my observation, she also likes the quiet like me and seems to enjoy the few one-on-one conversations we’ve had. Having two introverts trying to create a bond in a mass wide work environment is rather interesting to me. I want to learn more about her but the windows and circumstances are so thin and short. Making a connection is one thing, but expanding that connection is another challenge. There is a reason why I keep small and tight circles. Hopefully things can grow.
I really wish you all the best! I know this feeling. Sometimes when you like someone but you're both introvert and don't have that much time to talk at work, chatting really helps, at least me. I didn't feel so insecure because I didn't have to talk right to the person but could read a message over and over before I sent it. Afterwards we started to talk more face-to-face because we had some topics from our chat conversation and things automatically went their way.
Same here -- I had met a super-nerdy girl in college, discovered that she's a highly intelligent introvert just like me, we became friends, went out on a date a while ago, and now we're in a long-distance relationship which I hope will become a non-long-distance one sooner rather than later!
I can relate totally. I enjoy being by myself in quiet environment. I prefer one on one or 2 or 3 people instead of groups.I always notce small details, and really dislike loud and crowded places. I'm quite happy to hang out at home with my animals.
This video had me fully engaged from start to finish because it described me to a T. Growing up I thought I had to be like everybody else so that I wouldn’t “miss out” but now in my 30s I’m embracing and geeking out about my introverted personality, and just LOVE it!
shoutout to the introverts! where you guys at?!
I’m glad to find more of my people here
it’s nice to know we’re not alone 🤝
Me!!! i took a personality test online i got INTJ
There all over the internet
Here, and my MBTI type is ISTP!
I am totally chocked. This video is describing me from the start to the end 😰😰😰
I could not describe myself better than that !!! It is very cool to be able to put some words on our behaviour and to be aware that we are not strange but just different …
Thank you ❤
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Most of my life, I never understood why I felt so tired, drained and every muscle on edge whenever I went to the mall. I finally understand my introverted self better.
The mall is not too bad because at least you can tune out the crowd and you can CHOOSE not to interact with anyone -- but going to a party is TRULY hell on earth!
@@agentorange153 absolutely 💯
As an introvert I can confirm this is true
Same 😊
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Timestamps
1). Observation 0:33
2). One-on-one interactions 1:41
3). Intellectual stimulation 2:27
4). Planning and organising 3:34
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
As an introvert I can relate to everything in this video. I don't like being in large groups or having someone look over my shoulder when I'm trying to do something constructive. I prefer small interactions and doing my hobbies alone.
All of this. Yes. I just LOVE going out by myself, getting a snack and watch people, I am intrigued by social settings and groups. I never function in a group myself, I always feel like an outsider and I am never the 'popular' one or the leader, or an integral part. I just don't function in groups unless I'm being excplicitly told what to do or if I have the authority to tell the group what to do. But it would be draining and not my preferred way to work. Alone I am fine, one on one I am fine, with three, I am the odd one out already.
I'm an introvert and really the one that fits me the most is the intellectual stimulation, I love things like scripting or making strategies for games which also will fit into the planning and organizing. Also I just love to make things like excels with stats of troops from some game.
Exactly! When it comes to games, I love to min-max my character, making their builds as strong and effective as possible so that I may get more out of the game. This is especially the case for me in Destiny 2, where a lot of it is grinding for the ideal perk rolls on weapons or stats on pieces of armour.
Some things I enjoy doing include doing Sudoku and engaging in brain teasers in "Games Magazine". My favorite is the "Battleship" game, where they give you six grids with a full fleet hidden and you have to guess where they are. I do identify with the need for intellectual stimulation.
I love one on one conversations, where you can say a lot without interruption
This channel is so great! I watched you for 3 years, I’m glad I watched your videos! Keep up the great work.
I’m an extrovert married to an introvert. We got some counseling and realized most of our issues were our basic opposite personalities learned about each others ways and ACCEPTED them. It was eye opening and marriage saving. Now I know more what he needs and his intentions and he understands more my need for people and conversations to recharge my battery.
I'm also an introvert and I love your videos which is about introverts.These types of videos are so reletable!😚😚
I'm an introvert, too.
Thank you for making this video! As an introvert I can relate to all of these points really well. This was pretty helpful!
I never been so well described by one video like this. It's so true. Observing things is something i constantly do. I'm always watching, even if you don't think so.
Logician here! This is a very sweet way to explain some of our behaviors. I am often called cold and detached, then giggles at when I cry at a movie. Take the time to get to know each other, there is strength in each of us.
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As an introvert, all these characteristics fit well with me, I resonated mostly with Observation and 1 on 1 conversations.
im an introvert and i lowkey love getting compliments
Its always a great expirence to see a video here - as a introvert I like a lot of those activities. Its good to see, hear and read that a lot of people feel the same way.
Also respect for the animation and the background knowledge for this video, you can truly see that a lot of effort was put into the video :)
Most of the points mentioned are so true for me. I love one-on-one conversations and observing people and my surrounding environment. I enjoy reading, listening to and playing music, studying psychology and sociology amongst other solo activities. But that doesn't mean I don't enjoy socialising. It's true that it can sometimes get overwhelming and exhausting though: need personal space and time to recharge. Thank you for the video.
I don’t know what I am.. most of these things described in the video are what I have ended up having to do as a lonely person.
I used to think I was an ambivert because I used to have a group of two best friends and me that I loved deeply as a friend, and felt that I had deep friendships with both of them.
I consider myself to be very personable and interpersonal and can juggle multiple people at once.
I have learnt over the years that I’m only uncomfortable in larger groups if there is someone there that I don’t like, or if at least one person is horrible, deceitful, selfish, or unpleasant.
I used to be a people-pleaser, it’s gotten me into so much trouble and pain as a teenager, and I’d often find myself in massive groups of people and I’d most of the time be completely left out because I’m not as wild or outspoken as some of these people, and I didn’t share their interests (promiscuity, drugs etc).
I’ve struggled all of my life to find my own “people” which I’ve now come to define as simply empaths, as those are the only people I can cope with now.
I don’t have any friends left because everyone has used, abandoned or abused me in some way. I’m now very cynical of the world, and have trust in absolutely no one, and I even have a strained relationship with the closest person to me who is my mother. It is very isolating having no friends who have the very high maturity and empathy levels that I have, who require more intellectual things in life. Don’t get me wrong I’m very happy to listen to dance music and party, but I also need time to do more brain-stimulating things as well.
I’m friends with an old colleague I used to work with now, and I feel like she is also using me out of loneliness like other people have done all of my life, if not for other selfish ends. I don’t know anyone who has a pure need for friendship anymore, I’ve never met another real genuine person like myself. 😞😢💔
And yes, I have tried looking online for friendships, but it’s hard to be friends with someone you find attractive! And if they’re not attractive, they’re more often than not a narcissist or other kind of person just using you for selfish reasons! I give up on life.. I really do. I’ve felt this way since I was a teenager. Therapy hasn’t helped me.. I’m doomed to feel alone for the rest of my life… 😢
I am however one of the most introspective people I’ve ever met, but I wouldn’t put it down to introversion, I would put it down to the horrible life and experiences I’ve had..
Always love your animated videos. Very fun to watch and very in-depth. Thanks for always giving such wholesome advice whilst being insightful!!!
Thank you so much for your kind words! I'm thrilled to hear that you enjoy the animated videos and find them both entertaining and insightful. Your appreciation means a lot. Is there any specific topic or aspect you'd like to see more of in future videos?
@@Psych2go I was curious if you'd do an ambivert type video bcus I couldn't find it in your channel. Either that or I was blind when I was looking through. It would be quite a fun topic to hear on especially since I'm an ambivert.
We do have several videos on ambiverts. Maybe you can start with this one! :)
ruclips.net/video/mdd74Gjqogo/видео.html
@@Psych2go Thank you so much!!!
The second one is so accurate! One-on-one interactions are my favourite conversations, the ones I remember the best
It always surprises me how much I can relate to the stuff in these kinds of videos. Like observation and feeling addicted to planning? That hits close to home.
We hope this video helped you feel reassured that you're not alone :) What other aspects do you find relatable in these videos?
@@Psych2go Mainly the stuff surrounding just the strange habits and stuff that people have that they never realise is normal and that kind of stuff.
Dang, they made a whole video about me!
I Love all of these things. I wish more extroverts understood this about us. The recharge time can make a big difference in our moods. Everyone presents their low battery different. I think cause of my traumas mine can be snippy or angry. I wish people would just understand to back off sometimes. Instead of forcing me to be what they want because they think I’m dumb and don’t understand.
Wow. That one-on-one segment really struck home. I've always enjoyed having conversations and discussions with people, but when it comes to talking, even if its just two-three people, i feel like i cant keep up. I didn't really put together until now that what I've really been looking for isn't what I've been practicing. Thanks for this video, its really well made and accurate.
Extreme introvert here. Once at a friend's place with another friend, and we all knew each other through the same activity, we sat around and chatted for about 3 or 4 hours. I said two sentences in that whole duration. I also learned the time limit for how long their lap dog would sit on my lap and endure pets: 3 hours.
I agree 100% with all this. Unfortunately I have some extrovert friends that don't understand, and think I'm being anti-social.😅
It’s always interesting to see these videos. I enjoy observing others and being intellectually stimulated. Planning and one on one conversations while being around others is difficult but enjoyable, I’m also ADHD so distractions are an issue 😊.
I absolutely get this. :3
Came here to mention introverts with ADHD
This rings so true for me. I do enjoy the mentally stimulating activities and working with my hands is fun for me as it does ease my stress and anxiety. ❤
This is so spot on! I just kept saying “yup, yeah, oh wow” to each point.
I always observe a lot more then other ppl. that might be why I can rea ppl so well, unlike others. that also might be the reason, I take notice in other relationships on what to do and what not to do. I always loved looking at the small fine details in games, movies and in the real world.
Thank you for sharing this very interesting and reassuring short list of a few of an introvert's likes and needs. I am delighted to have connected with this insightful channel 😊🎉❤
You're most welcome! I'm glad you found the list of an introvert's likes and needs interesting and reassuring. It's great to have you as part of our insightful channel community. Feel free to share any specific topics or suggestions you'd like us to cover in the future. 😊
Small thing, but are the captions new? I love it! They're transparent and aesthetic, and not intrusive like closed captions. I can understand every word without sacrificing seeing the video. Lovely!!
This is all extremely true for me! While the fourth hit me in a different way than what was described, it all hit really close to home for me. Things like this really help me feel valid.
I used to think I was an extrovert, but the pandemic showed me that I was actually quite the opposite! I now have a better understanding of why I emotionally react a certain way and have made positive changes that have enriched my life. Thanks so much for these videos.
I love interacting with introverts because you can always learn something new from them when interacting with them. Especially, with some societies that praise being an extrovert… 😙😙😙
All of the above! 😂❤ I'm truly an introvert. And I like it so much. Just because I tend to see the small things that others might miss 🥰 it's a gift
Okay, you got me. I was nodding at most of these. I love mentally exploring complex ideas to see how they're supposed to work. The puzzle of detective stories, the big ideas of science fiction, and the complex nuances of philosophy, especially politically philosophy, have often kept me thinking about things. I also like exploring physical spaces, like houses, buildings, parks, gardens, or nature trails. It's quite fun finding a secret or little-used room or space. And planning and organizing is just a matter of putting ideas to work. And if I have to talk to people, it's almost always better to talk one-on-one instead of to a group of people. Unless I need to be rescued by having someone else take over the conversation.
I was somehow forced to be at least little extroverted when I was little. The cause was that my younger sister is shy and was almost unable to make friends with new people. So I always made "friends" with them and withdrew from the scene later. I don't like to be in big groups, but it seems I am somehow good at creating connections between other people. I identify myself like an introvert, but when really needed I can stand between extroverts for a short amount of time if needed.
I agree with all of these. I mostly just feel overwhelmed in public settings and tend to overthink every little thing I say, do or hear. Logic tells me Im over reacting to most things, but I can’t help. Definitely makes it hard for me because (as for the “intellectual stimulation”) I have been thinking over ideas for stories that I want to post on RUclips, but it’s the actual DOING it part that has slowed me down. I have plenty of material to work with but bringing it to a public platform just makes me anxious. I’ve shared my first recording with my friend (and we both died of laughter from how awkward I sounded) but it’s been sitting there for months now. Realizing this now I’m hoping to edit it and post it before I change my mind.
I resonate with all of the things discussed here. Its refreashing to watch a video that so eloquently describes the kind of person i am. I definitely want to share this video with others who i wish to get to know me better. Thank you!
Spot on. I do all four of those habitually. Planning activities for others is more fun to me than the activity itself. It's where I shine and it's a great opportunity to explore whatever ideas pop into my head.
As an ambivert / introvert /extrovert /selectively introverted /selectively extroverted people all of us practically if we look at each other with empathy we can understand the fact that we all have our special qualities be yourself brother ❤️
I got reminded of a funny dream because of bringing up observation and people watching. I remember dreaming I was in a city at a park just watching people. Guess my brain wanted more than I can give it in 12 hours lmao, Love your videos!!!❤❤❤
Thank you for your channel! As an introvert, this is pretty accurate. My shop/studio is my refuge and safe place.
I’m an introvert who grew up an extrovert at a young age but as I grow older my thought patterns are so different from when I was a kid, I’m 25 now & from my past trauma I’ve experienced has made me an introvert & I share some of the things that has been mentioned in the video!
All of these are me haha, felt like a turtle out of its shell watching this video describing who i am
Everything is true especially intellectual stimulation. I got a degree in math and now I'm learning Japanese and Korean😁
To be honest,these type of videos really helped me, i was feeling like there is nobody that can understand things im feeling and going trough... Thank you for bringing a little light to my world about thing i experience !!!
I’m an introvert who loves rain (not heavy) And gets overwhelmed by Loud noises. I prefer peace and quiet 😆. And I like socializing but you know my energy can be drained
As an introvert, I just love hugs! Especially comforting ones when I am down (which i dont get, as I dont feel safe around my parents and I dont break down in front of friends). I suffer from a bad mentality, and all I want is a hug from someone. Thats the reason why I always hug my friends.
I also love seeing people (especially classmates) getting along with each other and me. I am currently in a class who gets along with each other well. The boys include everyone in sports and I love that. It feels like I'm included.
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I also think that comforting hugs are the best!! However I myself find it pretty hard to open up to people and show them that this is what I need... I guess if you hug your friends a lot they will realise that maybe physical touch is your love language and comfort you in that way.
It sounds really good that you feel happy and included in your class, I hope it will stay that way!!
I would love to get huged
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One of the best quotes ive ever heard the biggest mistake an introvert can do is to pretend to be an extrovert and vice versa just be yourself
Keep extending the list!
Please make more videos like this!
As an introvert, I agree with all of these things. Personally, it can be a very hectic challenge. With things I have to force myself to go through, I don't want to go through longer in the future. I just wanna have my own space, be alone away from crowds of people.
For example, I have to work. I plan on publishing books in the future and being a RUclipsr 💗 But for now, I have to work, I have to go outside, and I have to talk to people. It's a challenge for me because I become easily overwhelmed and panic wanting to get away from everyone. It isn't easy and when I do want my own space that's not until I go home and sit in my room taking my time breathing and calming down.
I wish there were easier alternatives for Introverts. I hope I didn't make that sound too far off.
But it feels so much better in my own space. I tend to overthink a lot so it's normal for me daily. But I wish I had the power to create my own universal space 😂
As a introvert this is 100% accurate also if there is any surgeons in the comments please give me some tips
This video is so true for me and I did not even realized it, thank you so much for making this video
This past weekend had a family cookout, I believe there were at least 6 conversations going on at once and here I am just sitting silent taking in little bits of each conversation trying to merge them together in my mind.
I have all of these traits 😅
I thought I was just weird
For me these solidifies how introvert I am.
Thanks a lot
As an introvert, I enjoyed the video alot :D
Keep at it psych2go!
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I'm an introvert too and the most important thing for me is observation. I don't like to talk a lot unless i'm asked a question and prefer to observe everyone around me without making it so noticeable
I'm an extrovert which - as I quote my introvert friends - "adopt the introverts to my group", and I can see that these are... Not secret things to me hahahahaha. Altho sometimes since I'm sooo unaware of my surroundings and most of my (introvert) friends are aware of even the smallest change there is, I tend to forget that not everyone is THAT observative hahahahaha. I love them and their shenanigans tho. And I love the content, thank you!
I agree with everything here. I love sitting down and watching nature wether it’s virtually or in person. One-on-one interactions can be great, but also scary because sometimes someone starts yelling and it hurts, making me not want to have those important conversations. For me the intellectual stimulation is my math class. I’m in the advanced math class this year and I don’t have the kids who get up and walk around the classroom for no reason other than to distract people in my class, so it helps me focus much easier. As for the planning and organization, it’s a bit of a hot mess. It’s fun to organize my books or jewelry though because it’s not a task as big as clearing my desk and reorganizing it. All in all, this video is going to help a lot since my significant other is an extrovert.
Excellent video, I definitely do all 4 of these myself 😅
3:17 chess gives me anxiety and I start sweating if I play longer than 30 minutes
Glad being an introvert whether others like it or not...also you really have a sweet soothing voice! thanks for this video...was motivating and can completely relate to whatever you said in the video
All these range true, but especially the 1 on 1 interactions. I find that it’s easier for me to strike up conversation with a complete stranger in a strange (such as a Greek UN ambassador on a plane ride in Europe) than in a peer group, where I will shrink and not engage. I love getting to know new people, and 1 on 1 is definitely the right way to do it for me.
as an introvert, all of this is true. especially observation. i love analyzing my surroundings at any given moments. also the planning one. it is so fun to me. intellectual stimulation? i get it all the time. people ask me to do a lot of things which need brain power cause im the “smart kid” everywhere
Same but I’ve grown on this field to the point I’m able to control my breath and when you do that it feels like you control your perspective of time
True, that's why I like to be at the back of the group when walking. I like to observe my friends as they interact with each other. I just like looking at them having a bond
Such a lovely animation!
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Thanks for the video! Observation is by far my favorite 🤗
I loved this! As an introvert, I really relate to everything said in this too.
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I prefer watching people I know or who frequent the place I'm at, watching complete strangers is kinda boring as there isn't much context or ending to what I'm watching, just someone's there one moment, gone the next, barely enough time to really get a good look at their clothes....
💯 on point.
Everyone I know, family members, people I meet online, therapists Ive talked to, treat Introvertedness as a mental illness and something that must be cured. When they hear that I live a solitary life they immediately demand that I put my self in situations that make me feel uncomfortable just to make them selves feel better, they feel like theyre doing something to help me but in reality theyre pushing me deeper into the little box I hide in because theyre doing the exact things that I am trying to remove my self from. I dont want those idiots forcing me into dangerous situations with people I dont know and so I stop talking to them too. Then they dont understand why I am treating them so horribly even though theyre trying to help, and they push harder.
Agree introverts are treated like a depressive soul
As an introvert total agree 💯 with these 4 key points . ❤🎯🤗🙌🏻