It’s honestly less of “I’m completely oblivious when people have a crush on me” and more of “why would anyone have a crush on me i must be reading into this wrong”
I'm Canadian, it gets very confusing. Everyone's polite all the time, so if someone's into you they just blend into the "Canadians are polite" category. (Its not true that were all very nice all the time, were only human, but we do apologize a lot)
The trouble is that most of us will convince ourselves that our crushes are showing these signs of mutual attraction because we want to believe it so bad.
You have to become friends first and then get to know them because true love is one that develops over time rather than One sight that's just you being attracted to them Not necessarily ready for an actual relationship Just a tip I have expreinced it before
@@sans4124 Yes connecting further is important! For me personally I have to make that first initial sight connection then move forward to get to know them and see if the connection goes further. If that first sight connection isn’t there it wont grow over time, it never even started but thats just for me 🤗
@@AMKmusic96 well I got my crush to like me without having any direct contact I just did weird stuff that you would not do normally like Not wearing shoes in class It's hot come on and we have to go through a dress code Though when I announced it everybody just laughed it off I guess you can say I became a comedian Though I am proud being able to announce that I'm not wearing shoes during class Is something my introverted ass could not do a year ago And I guess I made it clearly obvious because eye contact which made me cringe hard So I gave up Though it could probably commence further I decided to grow up a bit and than look for love right now I'm just focusing on becoming the odd one inside I do thinks you would not do socially But have a reason for it Stand out I guess but not in a weird way
@@Psych2go hi. Well not to get too personal but I started college/uni during the pandemic and it’s been tough. My only friend here is someone from highschool. So at this point I’m just looking for genuine friends and working on my myself to hopefully one day be open to a relationship!
Dudeeeee you right, I did a fb marketplace interaction but chick was totally blushing through her mask “sexual tension was real” pretty sure under aged though so no thanks xD then my mask fell while walking away and her and her girlfriends got to snap some mental photos of me.
Are you attracted,or are you deluded,are you willing to compromise,The early stages are about dopamine,establishing intimacy could be daunting,are they available,or are they elusive,body language could be a sign on how they feel about you,do you blush,do you feel ghosted💲✔️
Mirroring? - for me it's normal especially if part of your daily life routine to look presentable any where. MU contact - when you have same thinking, and when they're being professionalism. Dilated pupil - depends in interaction. Light touch - depends in personalities. Blushing? - Make up? Or just rosey chicks and especially if that's her/his aset or just effect of skin care routine. Glowing - is that cliche from every fairy love stories? Fidgeting - I'm not fidgeting when I have crush to someone, 'cause I'm being shy and I don't show if I have crush. Feet pointing - Huh? If I have crush I don't show it 'cause I'm casually interacting like interacting with normal people either she's my crish or not. Leaning in - that's too normal when you have close friends to motivate them.
@@Alex_St.ar. No, not really? Check yourself in the mirror, without a mask, smile, now, smile a little more. Does your cheecks gets a bit more than it should be? yes? no? Now, Imagine you are busting a laugh, won't the other person notice? Unless you are a cyborg, ofc
@@54Giraffe I’ve known my crush for years as well. My family knows her family and I’m friends with her brother and shit like that. Kinda tough talking to her.
9 Things People Do When They Are Highly Attracted To You 1) Mirroring 0:51 2) Dilated pupil 1:31 3) Mutual eye contact 2:02 4) Leaning in 2:30 5) Feet pointing 3:00 6) Fidgeting 3:31 7) Light touch 3:57 8) Blushing 4:23 9) Glowing 4:54 Have a great day Psych2Goers!
Since pandemic has hindered in person dating, one sure way of knowing whether someone likes you is if you noticed that they have been updating you every often about what's going in their lives and they are establishing routines with you in mind. For instance, when I started talking to this guy, we just casually talk but not really trying to update every now and then. After we met for the first time, he started updating me often, telling me how his day went and wishes that my day turned great too.
Every single time in the past when I was asked out by a woman, it was a set up for a joke or prank for her friends. Now if a woman is nice to me it's a mixture of "Don't fall for it." and "She's just being friendly, don't be THAT guy. It's purely platonic. No one is into you.".
When I was single I had that same feeling bc I was panked by girls growing up. Ik wym that shit makes it hard to trust anyone's word but keep trying u will find someone (if u already.haevnt)
This is extremely helpful to me actually. I've been working out and working on my self confidence, and it's improved enough to where I can see myself as attractive. Now for the hard part, acting on it lol.
*”If your crush likes you, their feet may point directly at you, signaling that they are interested.”* My crush: *Contorts their feet to the opposite direction of where I’m standing*
I am actually really stiff around my crush. Thinking about it now, I tend to point my feet away from them and try to avoid their gaze/attention because I’m so nervous. If your crush is like me, it’s possible they’re nervous around you and are actually scared to talk to you.
@@kirigiru423 Your gender. It probably don't matter, but the fact that it happened twice to you might either be super unfortunate or a common thing happening.
People would never know I like them, because: 1. I match my walking pace with anyone I'm walking with 2. I have brown eyes, not just brown- DARK BROWN 3. I avoid eye contact with EVERYONE 4. I keep my distance from people, it's always the same, and usually stay closer to people I know 5. I stand like a fucking anime girl, I physically can't stand normally 6. I fidget with anything, for any reason, like being bored 7. Look at number 4 8. Idk what to say for this 9. I'm not a lightbulb
Some people are pretty dense at love. Including me. I convince myself no one sees me in a romantic way, so even if they did flirt, I'd just take it as them being nice. When my current gf first asked me out, I thought she was joking and it wasn't until a week after we started dating that I realized she was serious about it. So women, if you ever think "I told him to his face I liked him. He can't be that dense, right?" Oh, we can.
Things I have noticed are: they look at you when talking to see how you react to their joke or story. They thank you personally after a get together with more people instead of talking in group chat ect. They put a little more time in their outfit to impress you a little. They might start rambling or stutter because you make them nervous or they are more calm and relaxed.
Yea this is true. I had a crush on a co-worker who worked part-time. She’d come in on Tuesday’s and Thursdays. So I always wore my best clothes on those days. I’d also come in early to start the pot of coffee, so it’d be ready by the time she arrived. It never went anywhere, so to this day she has no idea lol 😅
@@Mr_Green2178 That will never work for me. She’s like three years older and we have only spoken once this year I doubt if she still know I exist Edit: exist
about the mirroring, i always find so cute the way my boyfriend mirrors my way of speaking, especially my jokes and things i usually say. we've been together for 8 months now, and day by day he speaks more like i do. it makes me feel so much appreciated
I am weird because whenever I encounter these types of mirroring or shall I say copying my style of speech or vocals, I see them as copycats who has no originality. lol
Okay i wanna go on a little rant, thank you to anybody who actually reads this. In all of these videos they mention eye contact a lot but as a person who thinks eyes are really pretty i always find myself staring into someone’s eyes no matter who’s they are and it’s really hard to focus on anything else, sometimes the person notices and it becomes really awkward and they start to think i like them. This also happens when i zone out and look into space and someone thinks I’m staring at them. Also, I blush really easily. Literally ANYBODY can make me blush. One of ⋔ friends tried a pick up line in me and after a few seconds they were like “wow you blush soo easily” and i was really embarrassed. As well as this my friends like to ship me with one of my guy friends and i blush at that aswell. He also probably thinks i like him back because of the eye contact and staring into eyes which then leads to the blushing and looking away and it makes life way more difficult and awkward than it needs to be. Edit: oml I’m also really fidgety as a result of mental disorders and stuff Thank you for listening to my lil rant, peace homie ig😩🤚
To be honest i have never experienced any of these signs but i can only imagine how wonderful it must feel. The feeling to be genuinely wanted and liked back. I am just happy there are people out there that do give love and care as for i have accepted my fate to be alone.
Hey u know what... Just keep working on yourself and your goals and love will come knocking at your door when u least expect it All the best for the future! :-)
Wow, good for you. I love that feeling, that you described. But the person I love is moving away, so I will soon have to venture out and find another gem like the one I loved before. It's really sad, but I can't wait to find another one that will stay.
@@player1641 Well turns out my friend is kind of a manipative person, so she broke up with him and said she had feelings for me before they started dating, but figured I thought we were just friends. We're dating now, but it kinda sucks that my only friend I've had for years turned out to be a bad person.
My husband of 23 years left me for a woman he met on Facebook. She's in South Carolina we are in Kentucky. He told me he wanted a divorce before he ever met her in person. He's met her twice in 3 months . I too felt like I didn't know what my life was anymore . I wanted to just give up and go walk off somewhere like a dying animal and just die. But I learnt just after one month ago from now of him telling me he wanted a divorce that I am not gonna anyone's second choice. If I am not his first than he never deserved me at all. He's cheated on me for years with at least 50/60 women that I know of . I've put up with a lot . But I found my self worth and my dignity again. I deserve better and so do you. If they leave you it doesn't mean your life is over. It just means that the chapter of your life with them in it is over and now a new chapter will begin. I hope you are in a better place now .
Personally, my crush and i do these few examples: we fidget alot next to eachother, we had held hands more than once, we lean in one another and mirror eachother. Its nice to have the reminder of these videos that you and that special someone have a spark in the relationship
I've done 2000 quizzes, asked all my friends, watched all these videos, flirted with them, observed her body language they all showed that she likes me but I still don't believe it.
Just remember, guys: black people do blush, but instead of getting a red tone, most start to shine (literally). This is caused by the high amounts of melamine in the skin. If you can't see that yet, you just need to learn by observation (watch some show with mostly black people, for example, until you learn to see the difference). 🥰
@@featherghost1085 This is nonsense. Racists don't even think that deeply about the "others"! They just think dismissively! Stop getting creative with your notions of what goes on in the minds of others and then, worse, actually believing in your own stupidity!
Damn tru. My friends were like this about my crush too, they think he's unattractive and weird and they want me to "find someone hotter" but just no. My crush is perfect to me. So I just stopped talking about him to them
For me, when I’m next to the person I really like, I tend to be overly friendly to them, like extremely friendly. So if someone is being really friendly, kind, or helpful, it’s a sign that they want you to like them back
The girl i like calling me her gf, flirting with me, constantly hugging me or touching me, doing things for me, and her tryna get me to be her friend because I don't have enough: My head: *Its all a lie. She doesn't like you back.*
@@healpoolhalo Lmaooo I felt this. the girl i like is bi but i cant tell if shes dropping subtle hints or if im just reading too much into it. like damn i thought this was pride month, but here i am overthinking shit😭
Once again, another video that tells me no one has ever had a crush on me. But at least I can use these tips for the characters in my story. So it’s not completely useless.
My best friend just told me they liked me a little while ago. I didn't think someone so pretty could like me so when I liked them I tried to suppress my feelings and cover them up by liking someone else. I'm now realizing that I have liked them all along but just stopped myself from showing it. Now that I know they like me back I see just how much I do these things and how much they do too. ❤️
1. Mirroring 2. Dilated pupils 3. Mutual eye contact 4. Leaning in / getting closer 5. Feet pointed at you or pidgin toes 6. Extra fidgety around you 7. Light touch 8. Blushing 9. Glowing
This video was so beautiful. The animation, especially the dancing heart with the long legs was hypnotizing and this generally brought a smile to my face throughout!
The simplest way to tell if someone is attracted to you is to ask them out. Nothing major, just a drink after work or class, or maybe coffee. Try to pick an upbeat moment, like when you are both laughing over a shared joke. Then segue into a simple invite like “hey, I really like talking with you, would you like to go out for a drink sometime?” Be sure to be specific, don’t say “let’s hangout sometime.” Your interest will either say yes, no, or I’m in a relationship and you can take it from there. And don’t be totally discouraged if the first response is no, keep the relationship light and friendly and maybe you can try again once they get to know you a little better.
I was so embarrassed to realize that I have done these things unconsciously around other people but no one has ever done them to me. Or if they have, they were extremely subtle. Also, I am physically incapable of blushing, and I have never seen someone actually blush. I think it's an urban myth.
I just wanna say something that I feel like many people need to hear. Ik there are plenty of people who are afraid to b happy. This may sound weird if you don't understand but I used to be one of these people. Scared to b happy for fear of getting hurt worse than I was before, but I realized something. I realized that even if I do get hurt that at least I got something good out of it. I realized that there will b some point in ur life when life gives u a break. Rn u might b in pain or hurt or experiencing something negative but trust me, life will give u a break. There's another thing I noticed abt life. There r two types of people in this world, now this will vary depending on the person ofc but imagine life is a rose. Now there are people who avoid roses for fear of getting hurt by the thorns, and there r people who notice and acknowledge those thorns but can still c the beauty in it. They can still c that even with those thorns it's still beautiful, that with the thorns it's still perfect. Which one are u and which one do u want to b?
"Use touch" meanwhile I'm afraid of touching anyone I like romantically but have no problem touching anyone I only see as a friend. Also applies to dirty jokes and flirting.
When you watch the whole video : Even though your an asexual introvert Who doesn’t really tolerate people Much less would tolerate being in a relationship with them.
This post is for everyone who just realized that no one has ever displayed any of this behavior around them. You are no body until somebody loves you, and that somebody is me. I love you.
“Blushing is a sign that they like you” Nah I blush/turn red SO easily because I just generally get nervous when the attention is on me. Could be with anyone. Heck I even turn red after a simple laugh.
Are you curious whether your crush likes you back? Watch this video lol.
i'm pretty sure no lol, but good video :D
Edit: yea I don’t like anyone anymore
i don't really know if someone has a crush on me lol
I think so
no :(, I don’t have one so...
I'm just curious if anyone on earth likes me lol
Top 3 unsolved mysteries:
1. Bermuda Triangle
2. Black Hole
3. Is my crush into me?
Yes
ikr ughhhh
Haha totally
3: are we in a simulator
You gotta double down.Ask her if she likes Among us.
I swear someone could look me right in the face and say “I’m into you” and I’d still be able to convince myself it’s all in my head
Same
That happened to me and I thought that
Are you me?
Fucking same....
I’d be like “they mean into me as FRIENDS yeah psh I’m overthinking it”
"are they into you"
quick answer: no
long answer: hell no
BAHJHAJAJHAJHJAHJHAJHAjHJ OFC HE DOESN'T LIKE ME IK
You too, huh?
U and me both
Idk why this cracked me up 😂😂😂
definitive answer: ew
It’s honestly less of “I’m completely oblivious when people have a crush on me” and more of “why would anyone have a crush on me i must be reading into this wrong”
That second one is just my life
Second one is me bro
The second one thats me
#ThisGuy
Damn and im here being both lmao
"Once again, can't really be sure, maybe she's Canadian and was just being nice"
Thanks for this casual explanation definitely noted
I see we have men of culture around here
@@imbackbro3836 my exact thought, my man!!
Maybe he's just Italian and is being hospitable
I'm Canadian, it gets very confusing. Everyone's polite all the time, so if someone's into you they just blend into the "Canadians are polite" category. (Its not true that were all very nice all the time, were only human, but we do apologize a lot)
I thought it said “9 things people do when they’re highly allergic to you”
Omg lmaooo-
I-
Lol
Lol
Good thing they had their EpiPen handy
Why isn’t anyone talking about how adorable the art style is.
We all think it probably
This is so true
RIGHT IT’S SO GOOD
yaaaas, I really loved the artstyle of this one
It really is!
The trouble is that most of us will convince ourselves that our crushes are showing these signs of mutual attraction because we want to believe it so bad.
or that ur gf is not doing any of theses cuz u feel like u dont deserve love.
@@faidhnaife1740 Are U shiftin' the blame onto me, bro?
@@GregoryTheGr8ster no its projection cuz thatss what i do🤪
@@faidhnaife1740 Ahhhhhhhhhhh!
Lol not me...I'd like to have something to cry about 😹
Imagine your crush liking you back sounds like a fantasy 😔
@Bob well that’s good for u
@@div1628 dang
@Bob congrats brother. You made it.
Rip
Imagine having a crush. Sounds like a fantasy.
*obvious signs he isn’t interested*
My heart: “Do it...fall for him”
You have to become friends first and then get to know them because true love is one that develops over time rather than
One sight that's just you being attracted to them
Not necessarily ready for an actual relationship
Just a tip I have expreinced it before
@@sans4124 Yes connecting further is important!
For me personally I have to make that first initial sight connection then move forward to get to know them and see if the connection goes further.
If that first sight connection isn’t there it wont grow over time, it never even started but thats just for me 🤗
@@AMKmusic96 well I got my crush to like me without having any direct contact
I just did weird stuff that you would not do normally like
Not wearing shoes in class
It's hot come on and we have to go through a dress code
Though when I announced it everybody just laughed it off
I guess you can say I became a comedian
Though I am proud being able to announce that I'm not wearing shoes during class
Is something my introverted ass could not do a year ago
And I guess I made it clearly obvious because eye contact
which made me cringe hard
So I gave up
Though it could probably commence further
I decided to grow up a bit and than look for love right now
I'm just focusing on becoming the odd one inside
I do thinks you would not do socially
But have a reason for it
Stand out I guess but not in a weird way
@@sans4124 Love that! Yeah its been an eyeball game so far for me nothing further yet 😆
Sounds similar to mine.
*Obvious signs she's crazy*
My heart: [Palpatine voice] "Do it."
If only "attracted to you" and "fully ready to date you" went together these days.
I always get the “I’m attracted to you” but never the “I’m fully ready to date you” as well.
@@user_28373 you guys are getting "I'm attracted to you"s?
Hahaha I have that issue
right dawg
Same situation, I'm the one who is attracted to someone, but dating not allowed.
“they’re feet point towards you” my crush : *cuts his feet off*
Underrated comment
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
then his knees will be towards you :)
@Rhiannon Hitt if he cuts those off then his thighs then his torso and so on :)
same buddy haha
"They glow when they are attracted to you"
My crush : Turns into a blackhole.
its funny how obvious the difference is between guyz comments and the chicks comments
LMFAO the best comment so far😂
black hole sun won't you come...wash away the rain...black hole sun.... won't you come?...won't you come?...~~
Aw 😂❤️
Jokes on you, the super strong gravitational pull of a black hole is so strong even light can’t escape, so black holes are really bright
Somebody : *breathing*
Me : *"omg they are mirroring me, they must like me"*
What if you mirror them?
Wow he brought an AK to the class, good thing I brought my M4
Lmao
Sameeeee
😂
When your in matching band and everyone is mirroring you: 😳
Oooh you must be extra attractive 👀
Well you are in a “matching” band...
@@b1akn3ss93 Ahaha I didn't even notice that 🤣
Omg relatable
Time for an affair
I love the fact that nobody acted like this towards me in my entire life
F 😔✊
Same. ;-;
Same
Sound like kinda familiar scenario to me
Or maybe you haven’t noticed
- Closes book -
"Like that'll ever happen".
Roll credits
- flushes the toilet -
Somebody once told a girl will never love me
I got that reference right away😭🤚🏼
The Office reference?
These animations are so cute. But honestly at this point I’d just like a friend more than lover now a days.
Same here. Need some stress free interactions
@@grayc3814 I feel you. I already have enough stress in my life rn. Last thing I need is thinking ab how I’m standing talking to someone
What do you think is holding you back from being that lover?
@@Psych2go hi. Well not to get too personal but I started college/uni during the pandemic and it’s been tough. My only friend here is someone from highschool. So at this point I’m just looking for genuine friends and working on my myself to hopefully one day be open to a relationship!
get a Friend With Benefits! No commitments! Just a friend you make love to!
1. Mirroring: adopts your mannerisms ex: keeping walking pace with someone
2. Dilated pupils
3. Mutual eye contact
4. Leaning in
5. Feet pointing: pigeon toed
6. Fidgeting
7. Light touch
8. Blushing
9. Glowing
thank u sooo much
Thank you, I know I'm in the minority by saying this but her voice kinda annoys me
MVP 👏🏾
legend
My cats are definitely into me❣️
"If they're blushing around you, it's a surefire sign they like you"
Every girl I've ever liked when they're around me: *White as a fucking ghost*
Maybe she European
And then there's face masks 😷
Loll
Lol, you'll find a girl that isn't as white as hell one day my guy
@Mirela Nita SAMEE
blushing on cheeks: exists
the masks we have to wear: *no more*
Dudeeeee you right, I did a fb marketplace interaction but chick was totally blushing through her mask “sexual tension was real” pretty sure under aged though so no thanks xD then my mask fell while walking away and her and her girlfriends got to snap some mental photos of me.
@@hostileenvironment6107 did they have your permission to do so ?
@@rahmahassaf2275 Free country! “Shrugs”
@@hostileenvironment6107 report them , this is not okay, imagine if the roles were reversed
@@rahmahassaf2275 they meant like pictures in their mind/remembering his face forever, not actual pictures
Me an Asian trying to see if my crush has dilated pupils: 👁️👄👁️
ok i feft this 🤣
So..
Plss almost everyones eye colour is dark brown and black how will i notice?🤣
Exactly we have dark brown eyes with black pupil how are we supposed to understand it lol
@@Psych2go I can't see it qwq
This made me realize how adorable people are sometimes😭🌸
Fr🙃😄
Yup, just like you 🤗😇😊😉
@@roselindream278 aww 🥺💗
cookiecrushxx 🌸🌸🌸💖💖💖💖💞💕💕💝
Am prism
1) Mirroring
2) Dilated pupil
3) Mutual eye contact
4) Leaning in
5) Feet pointing
6) Fidgeting
7) Light touch
8) Blushing
9) Glowing
Are you attracted,or are you deluded,are you willing to compromise,The early stages are about dopamine,establishing intimacy could be daunting,are they available,or are they elusive,body language could be a sign on how they feel about you,do you blush,do you feel ghosted💲✔️
Mirroring? - for me it's normal especially if part of your daily life routine to look presentable any where.
MU contact - when you have same thinking, and when they're being professionalism.
Dilated pupil - depends in interaction.
Light touch - depends in personalities.
Blushing? - Make up? Or just rosey chicks and especially if that's her/his aset or just effect of skin care routine.
Glowing - is that cliche from every fairy love stories?
Fidgeting - I'm not fidgeting when I have crush to someone, 'cause I'm being shy and I don't show if I have crush.
Feet pointing - Huh? If I have crush I don't show it 'cause I'm casually interacting like interacting with normal people either she's my crish or not.
Leaning in - that's too normal when you have close friends to motivate them.
Psych2Go, please tell the animator that I love them and they're talented omg--
Will do! I'm sure they will see the message here:)
We love you Karen
Ugh, I hate the “you only blush when you have a crush on someone” stereotype. I’ve never had a crush in my life, yet I blush really easily.
Wait why did you watch the video then?
I’ve only actually blushed with my crush so guess it applies to me
yeah i blush really easily if someone stares at me
Dude, I never blush. Yet I have a crush.
@@doctr3on375 for future reference
"Light touch"
My friends: *slaps each other hard on the backs like there's no tomorrow*
“I like ya cut g” *hits as hard as possible *
@@4n4rch1st7 “I-“ *blushes* “I like ya cut...
g”
*SLAP*
@@jcfiggy *insert perfectly cut scream*
*Bully starts hitting me*
Me: HARDER DADDY I LOVE YOU
Bully: I LOVE YOU TOO!! CAN YOU BE MY BF?
Me: YES.
*It worked!!*
@@jcfiggy imma do that to my crush lol
“Blushing whenever you are around”
Mask: *so allow me to introduce myself*
you can still see people while smile cause cheeks gets big
@@InnerEagle no not really
@@Alex_St.ar. No, not really?
Check yourself in the mirror, without a mask, smile, now, smile a little more.
Does your cheecks gets a bit more than it should be? yes? no?
Now, Imagine you are busting a laugh, won't the other person notice?
Unless you are a cyborg, ofc
@@InnerEagle Yep
Well my whole face gets red when I blush😂
*Me staring at my crush's eyes*
Crush: What are you doing?
Me: Just checking if your pupils are dilated
Haha 😂 Im not even at the talkimg stage, mostly me starimg at him when hes not looking 👀
Literally 😂😂😂
@@54Giraffe How'd it go?
@@54Giraffe I’ve known my crush for years as well. My family knows her family and I’m friends with her brother and shit like that. Kinda tough talking to her.
@@54Giraffe Nice 👌
"What is love? Baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me. No more."
Can you link the song here please baby?
what a great song!
@@Psych2go goo goo ga ga!
Aot meme?
@@Psych2go haddaway-what is love
9 Things People Do When They Are Highly Attracted To You
1) Mirroring 0:51
2) Dilated pupil 1:31
3) Mutual eye contact 2:02
4) Leaning in 2:30
5) Feet pointing 3:00
6) Fidgeting 3:31
7) Light touch 3:57
8) Blushing 4:23
9) Glowing 4:54
Have a great day Psych2Goers!
Thanks😁
Thank you so so much!
Thanks i read it faster than the ads finished
Light touch is gonna cause the corona virus to spread more 👁👄👁
I hate seeing when they are no longer into me and there's nothing to be fone to stop it.
Since pandemic has hindered in person dating, one sure way of knowing whether someone likes you is if you noticed that they have been updating you every often about what's going in their lives and they are establishing routines with you in mind. For instance, when I started talking to this guy, we just casually talk but not really trying to update every now and then. After we met for the first time, he started updating me often, telling me how his day went and wishes that my day turned great too.
Well I just did fall in love online-
@@snegik I fell in love with a bot.
OK BUT CAN WE JUST TALK ABOUT HOW CUTE THE THUMBNAIL IS 🥺💖
Glad you like Karen's artwork!
@@Psych2go :D
ikr its adorable
@@Psych2go it's like the best artwork to express psychological state of mind ...its calming with ur voice
@@Psych2go we love it 😭
*Me:* "Wow, her pupils are dilated... she must really like me!"
*Her:* "Why is it so dark in here?"
Based terra branford pfp
Bitch you're in my basement that's why, you're gonna be here for 15 years like the last four
Me: Shhhh closes the curtains and locks the door
Lool
Now wait a sec…
Every single time in the past when I was asked out by a woman, it was a set up for a joke or prank for her friends. Now if a woman is nice to me it's a mixture of "Don't fall for it." and "She's just being friendly, don't be THAT guy. It's purely platonic. No one is into you.".
Start asking people their intentions then
F
Fk that prank. They're soooo mean. You deserve better.
When I was single I had that same feeling bc I was panked by girls growing up. Ik wym that shit makes it hard to trust anyone's word but keep trying u will find someone (if u already.haevnt)
I'm the same way
This is extremely helpful to me actually. I've been working out and working on my self confidence, and it's improved enough to where I can see myself as attractive. Now for the hard part, acting on it lol.
Felt that vibe! I'm in the same gat dayum boat, lmao.
That's the hardest part,im still in it
Me: This is stupid I could literally just walk up to them and ask.
Also me: Nah, I’ll just stress about it and overthink and watch videos like these.
Such facts
POV: you’re trying to do these exact things to get your crush to notice you like them
Trying but its a lock down in my country 😤 i only met him for 1 month 😭😭
Exqctly what i was doing when i noticed i wasnt
Stop calling me out man
I tried the "pointing feet" trick. My crush pointed their feet as well in my direction and blushed. Help, I'm head over heels for them😭
Haha same 😂
*”If your crush likes you, their feet may point directly at you, signaling that they are interested.”*
My crush:
*Contorts their feet to the opposite direction of where I’m standing*
lmaooooo
I am actually really stiff around my crush. Thinking about it now, I tend to point my feet away from them and try to avoid their gaze/attention because I’m so nervous. If your crush is like me, it’s possible they’re nervous around you and are actually scared to talk to you.
@@curiouslamp2841 You see my crush is straight so theres a better chance they actually don’t like me because I’m LGBTQ+
@@amygaming3664 thats why dont be lgbtq somebody will not like you because of it
@@misrukiahmees3085 I don’t let them get to me homophobe
Imagine having a crush on a girl, all the signs being there,but then she doesn't like your gender.
lol definately hasn't happened to me TWICE lmao
What is your own, if you don't mind me asking?
@@skycastic what do you mean-?
@@kirigiru423 Your gender. It probably don't matter, but the fact that it happened twice to you might either be super unfortunate or a common thing happening.
I feel you buddy. This has happened to me 4 times so far and it never gets easier. :^)
@@tjreds7500 I second that 😅
1. Mirroring 0:51
2. Dilated pupol 1:31
3. Mutual eye contact 2:02
4. Leaning in 2:30
5. Feet pointing 3:00
6. Fidgeting 3:31
7. Light touch 3:57
8. Blushing 4:23
9. Glowing 4:54
I hope I could help! :)
Thanks!
Thank you fellow time traveler
Ty
2 months ago!?
Why does it say 2 months ago when this was posted today
Me: talks to someone once
Them: says something back
Me: *gets butterflies*
That’s the truth
Relatable
Imagine being 26 and that still happens lmao...
Wait...
This is literally how I got my first crush. This happened this week.
People would never know I like them, because:
1. I match my walking pace with anyone I'm walking with
2. I have brown eyes, not just brown- DARK BROWN
3. I avoid eye contact with EVERYONE
4. I keep my distance from people, it's always the same, and usually stay closer to people I know
5. I stand like a fucking anime girl, I physically can't stand normally
6. I fidget with anything, for any reason, like being bored
7. Look at number 4
8. Idk what to say for this
9. I'm not a lightbulb
Girl, you say you an anime girl? Hey, wanna grab some dinner together?
Is it me or are you a introvert?
@@n.v.i7534 Yes
@@Mystery9870 no wonder why its sound like it and also im a introvert
@@cat4lina Idk, probably
"Someone glows when they are attracted to you"
Girls talking to me: *returns to slenderman*
Bruh
Bruh
Bruuh
Bruh
ooo self burn, those are rare!
I'm autistic and can't read facial expressions, so this actually helps lol
im autistic too (and gay) so im really out here studying to try to figure this shit out😭
@@merch1159 same wksnsisi
Guess you're my twin
Yeyy fellow autistic people☺
@@lovelykindess3622 Me too! 😊
same! even eye contact feels so hard
So as I'm wondering if my crush is actually interested in me like it seems he is, I get this notification. Perfect timing
The universe has spoken.
@Teddy y'all better stop or the community guidelines will be mad at you
@@bso_av I think they might be bots. Just don’t interact with them :/
@@leoraggnait1387 reported
Congratulations
Some people are pretty dense at love. Including me. I convince myself no one sees me in a romantic way, so even if they did flirt, I'd just take it as them being nice. When my current gf first asked me out, I thought she was joking and it wasn't until a week after we started dating that I realized she was serious about it. So women, if you ever think "I told him to his face I liked him. He can't be that dense, right?" Oh, we can.
Things I have noticed are: they look at you when talking to see how you react to their joke or story. They thank you personally after a get together with more people instead of talking in group chat ect. They put a little more time in their outfit to impress you a little. They might start rambling or stutter because you make them nervous or they are more calm and relaxed.
omg my crush does ramble a lot :0 i find it super cute
For some reason that sounds ridiculously cute 🥰
My crush does the first thing literally every day at school
Yea this is true. I had a crush on a co-worker who worked part-time. She’d come in on Tuesday’s and Thursdays. So I always wore my best clothes on those days. I’d also come in early to start the pot of coffee, so it’d be ready by the time she arrived.
It never went anywhere, so to this day she has no idea lol 😅
@@dearthofdoohickeys4703
Aww, that is so sweet of you!!!
I have a massive crush on my girlfriend and I’m glad to have confirmed she likes me back 🙈
Bois we found it. The 1% of people in a video like this XD
Watching this to test this with my long distance bf when we meet.😂
No, you don't have a crush on your girlfriend. A crush is for single people.
You're a lucky man denise, a lucky man
@@BBY-01YAMATO lesbian
Can we get a video that explains to us introverts how to even begin talking to your crush lmao
Search up a video about gaining social confidence, worked for me atleast. I started talking to mine
I'm definitely not an introvert (I'm in the middle) but I don't have the courage to do that.
@@Mr_Green2178 That will never work for me. She’s like three years older and we have only spoken once this year I doubt if she still know I exist
Edit: exist
@@Nickys_Corner my advice is just dont think just start talking to her it might be hard but once the conversation starts the hardest part is over
@@sir_genericname4781 ok
I love watching these to convince myself the person I like, likes me back, based on my supreme skillfulness in grasping at straws.
about the mirroring, i always find so cute the way my boyfriend mirrors my way of speaking, especially my jokes and things i usually say. we've been together for 8 months now, and day by day he speaks more like i do. it makes me feel so much appreciated
I am weird because whenever I encounter these types of mirroring or shall I say copying my style of speech or vocals, I see them as copycats who has no originality. lol
a couple weeks ago I was blasting sweater weather in my ears and this girl taps me on the shoulder and says hi, I get crushes on people way too easily
We can do a video for that!
Popeye would be so proud of you!
@@Psych2go yes please!
@@Psych2go omg pls do it I get multiple crushes so easily when I was younger I wanna know y!
me too
It has been a year since pandemic started and I have never felt this lonely.
The pandemic has caused a lot of that.. this year for many :(
@Adel Elhabishi ma'am this is a wendy's
@@SpooderOfficial lmao 💀💀💀
(Report them)
and there is me with my BPD and depressio nwho feel everytime alone
@@AmicusAdastra whats BPD??
Okay i wanna go on a little rant, thank you to anybody who actually reads this.
In all of these videos they mention eye contact a lot but as a person who thinks eyes are really pretty i always find myself staring into someone’s eyes no matter who’s they are and it’s really hard to focus on anything else, sometimes the person notices and it becomes really awkward and they start to think i like them. This also happens when i zone out and look into space and someone thinks I’m staring at them. Also, I blush really easily. Literally ANYBODY can make me blush. One of ⋔ friends tried a pick up line in me and after a few seconds they were like “wow you blush soo easily” and i was really embarrassed. As well as this my friends like to ship me with one of my guy friends and i blush at that aswell. He also probably thinks i like him back because of the eye contact and staring into eyes which then leads to the blushing and looking away and it makes life way more difficult and awkward than it needs to be.
Edit: oml I’m also really fidgety as a result of mental disorders and stuff
Thank you for listening to my lil rant, peace homie ig😩🤚
To be honest i have never experienced any of these signs but i can only imagine how wonderful it must feel. The feeling to be genuinely wanted and liked back. I am just happy there are people out there that do give love and care as for i have accepted my fate to be alone.
I seen someone mirroring me 😁
Hey u know what... Just keep working on yourself and your goals and love will come knocking at your door when u least expect it
All the best for the future! :-)
Wow, good for you. I love that feeling, that you described. But the person I love is moving away, so I will soon have to venture out and find another gem like the one I loved before. It's really sad, but I can't wait to find another one that will stay.
so i just have to stare closely at his eyes and find the sign ok got it
YES. You got to keep an eye out for them like Nicki keep an eye out for Selenerrrr
@@thisistheskinofakillerbella Lmao I-
Why were you here btw bosgotnojams
@@twitzmixx8374 hi, again, i guess:)
Lmfao
THIS ANIMATION STYLE IS SO FREAKIN CUTE 💓💓💓💓
My crush does nearly all of these, but then she started dating my best friend. I have no clue what my life is anymore
Damn that’s one hell of a bullet to the heart. Hope you have a steady recovery process.
@@player1641 Well turns out my friend is kind of a manipative person, so she broke up with him and said she had feelings for me before they started dating, but figured I thought we were just friends. We're dating now, but it kinda sucks that my only friend I've had for years turned out to be a bad person.
My husband of 23 years left me for a woman he met on Facebook. She's in South Carolina we are in Kentucky. He told me he wanted a divorce before he ever met her in person. He's met her twice in 3 months . I too felt like I didn't know what my life was anymore . I wanted to just give up and go walk off somewhere like a dying animal and just die. But I learnt just after one month ago from now of him telling me he wanted a divorce that I am not gonna anyone's second choice. If I am not his first than he never deserved me at all. He's cheated on me for years with at least 50/60 women that I know of . I've put up with a lot . But I found my self worth and my dignity again. I deserve better and so do you. If they leave you it doesn't mean your life is over. It just means that the chapter of your life with them in it is over and now a new chapter will begin. I hope you are in a better place now .
Personally, my crush and i do these few examples: we fidget alot next to eachother, we had held hands more than once, we lean in one another and mirror eachother.
Its nice to have the reminder of these videos that you and that special someone have a spark in the relationship
Exactly ! don't you just love it !
It gives such immense happiness
I love that I’m watching this while I literally already have a date planned with her tomorrow and she has said that she likes me back lol
Updateee pleaaasseee
Sweet :3
I’m watching this and have been dating my man for almost 4 years, this is making sure he stillll likes me🤌🏽✨
Can you teach me how to ask someone out? >.
Updateeeeeeeeeee3333
He is a wise man who does not grieve for the things which he has not, but rejoices for those which he has.
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@Jitu Sarvaiya Xd
I've done 2000 quizzes, asked all my friends, watched all these videos, flirted with them, observed her body language they all showed that she likes me but I still don't believe it.
sign: literally blushing
everyone at my school: *wears masks*
Yeah, they should do a video about: 'how to see if someone likes you' so we can tell with a mask and social distancing
@ahwwhhzh me with sunburnt ears and cheeks:
I domt even have to wear masks in public
@@doctr3on375 why?
@@kwilesvolleyball2028 Crispy
Physical touch: I get punched, "This person must be in love with me."
It'd be something as opposed to nothing
Enemies to lovers.. jk jk Unless...😳
So... the bullies... it was all a lie...
That happened to me.😅
Punched, kicked, shoulder checked... Yup yup.
1:43 That red guy eating cookies is me. It's THE mood
Hahaha 🤣
🤣🤣
Same lmfao
Shut the hell up with “mood” be original for once
Checking my hamster:
Pupils - small
Fidgeting - definitely
Glowing - absolutely
He is positively in love with me!😂
Anxiety: What if it's in your head tho
I thought pupils would be big when they dilate
Just remember, guys: black people do blush, but instead of getting a red tone, most start to shine (literally). This is caused by the high amounts of melamine in the skin. If you can't see that yet, you just need to learn by observation (watch some show with mostly black people, for example, until you learn to see the difference). 🥰
Racists think black people lack stuff white ppl have, but they literally glow when they blush.🥺
I did not know that lol 😅
I didn’t know that, thanks for mentioning this!
@@featherghost1085 This is nonsense. Racists don't even think that deeply about the "others"! They just think dismissively!
Stop getting creative with your notions of what goes on in the minds of others and then, worse, actually believing in your own stupidity!
@@SunshineSuperstar I'm guessing you're a racist 30 year old trying to make themself feel better
Me: He`s so dreamy...
My friends: Ew, out of everyone, why did you choose that boy who is-
Me: A loved one is always perfect in someone`s eyes
@Cole.Beckwith.spencer same
@Cole.Beckwith.spencer someone might think of you like that but they might be too shy to tell you .
@Cole.Beckwith.spencer either confront her. Or she is horrible
Damn tru. My friends were like this about my crush too, they think he's unattractive and weird and they want me to "find someone hotter" but just no. My crush is perfect to me. So I just stopped talking about him to them
@Cole.Beckwith.spencer it really depends. It's not okay though if they start to hurt your feelings.
We're all thinking about that one special person in our lives aren't we?
Yes we are
Or lost love 😔
Pizza?
@@Psych2go 11 seconds ago 😆
that one special person NOT YET IN our lives!
For me, when I’m next to the person I really like, I tend to be overly friendly to them, like extremely friendly. So if someone is being really friendly, kind, or helpful, it’s a sign that they want you to like them back
The girl i like calling me her gf, flirting with me, constantly hugging me or touching me, doing things for me, and her tryna get me to be her friend because I don't have enough:
My head: *Its all a lie. She doesn't like you back.*
If u like her just ask her out! Idk if my crush likes me back I feel like she does but I don’t want to ruin our friendship
She doesn't she's just a friend and the media has convinced u that everyone is gay but ur actually straight who the fuck told u u were leabian
@@masterpain7742 I GENUINELY WANNA CRY THIS IS SO FUCKING FUNNY
@RipCity! my school ends on the 18th lmao im gonna tell her then and ill see if we still text each other and if she feels the same. im lowkey scared
@@healpoolhalo Lmaooo I felt this. the girl i like is bi but i cant tell if shes dropping subtle hints or if im just reading too much into it. like damn i thought this was pride month, but here i am overthinking shit😭
Once again, another video that tells me no one has ever had a crush on me. But at least I can use these tips for the characters in my story. So it’s not completely useless.
lmao this is the exact reason I'm watching too
My best friend just told me they liked me a little while ago. I didn't think someone so pretty could like me so when I liked them I tried to suppress my feelings and cover them up by liking someone else. I'm now realizing that I have liked them all along but just stopped myself from showing it. Now that I know they like me back I see just how much I do these things and how much they do too. ❤️
1. Mirroring
2. Dilated pupils
3. Mutual eye contact
4. Leaning in / getting closer
5. Feet pointed at you or pidgin toes
6. Extra fidgety around you
7. Light touch
8. Blushing
9. Glowing
I always get so shy and giggly around my crush especially if he's a friend
me watching this despite not liking anyone or having anyone like me: 👁👄👁
yeah... Honestly feel the same. I dont know if i can be attracted to people anymore
me who mirrors all of my friends because i dont have a personality: 😬
You don’t even know how hard that hits 😭
Huh, dang, kind of accurate.
Yeah, I even mimic the way they text😖
me : grabs from everyone’s personality
Also me realizing what I done: oh shit-
Yikes to all of you
I’ve realized I do a lot of these things when I want to be FRIENDS with people and now I’m wondering if they think I have a crush on them 💭
This video was so beautiful. The animation, especially the dancing heart with the long legs was hypnotizing and this generally brought a smile to my face throughout!
oh yeah, another episode of me trying to find these signs from my crush but found all in me instead!!
the amount of ppl ive noticed doing these things around me: the office season 7 episode 1 at 0:55
Hello timeworks
ooh timeworks has a crush i think, thats why hes tryna found out if they are into him
when a verified only has 46 likes the past month
nobaaady! nobaady!
nObOdAyyyyy 😂😂😂
The simplest way to tell if someone is attracted to you is to ask them out. Nothing major, just a drink after work or class, or maybe coffee. Try to pick an upbeat moment, like when you are both laughing over a shared joke. Then segue into a simple invite like “hey, I really like talking with you, would you like to go out for a drink sometime?” Be sure to be specific, don’t say “let’s hangout sometime.” Your interest will either say yes, no, or I’m in a relationship and you can take it from there. And don’t be totally discouraged if the first response is no, keep the relationship light and friendly and maybe you can try again once they get to know you a little better.
“Mirroring”
Now that I look back on it I remember doing that a lot when I used to have a crush on one of my friends.
me: * *in a healthy relationship with my girlfriend* *
me: hmm interesting
SAME
Literally exactly why I'm here lol
Me and my bf lmao, I'm just curious how much of this we do!
Same I have no idea why I'm here
Haha we broke yp
Same here, I dunno what I'm doing
Remember, gentlemen: "Why aren't you married, you're such a good guy?" is a question that answers itself.
In what way? Sorry this is probably so obvious but i dont know
@@Wingbar maybe he is not a good boy
@@alexandrasabau8272 lol
please explain sorry.
Cos I’m gay and that ain’t legal where I am?? Yeah probably true
Me knowing that my crush doesn’t like me back: yes, let’s see how much I give myself away
not entirely related but I love that little red dude who's just eating cookies *away* from the tv. absolutely beautiful
"Dilation of the pupils usually means that that person is into you" Or on drugs. Definitely the latter.
lol or both, 'they are' into you because 'they are' on drugs.
*When she has all the signs*
She probably doesn't like me
I was so embarrassed to realize that I have done these things unconsciously around other people but no one has ever done them to me. Or if they have, they were extremely subtle. Also, I am physically incapable of blushing, and I have never seen someone actually blush. I think it's an urban myth.
Sometimes I am blushing so hard that I look like a tomato. :)
I just wanna say something that I feel like many people need to hear. Ik there are plenty of people who are afraid to b happy. This may sound weird if you don't understand but I used to be one of these people. Scared to b happy for fear of getting hurt worse than I was before, but I realized something. I realized that even if I do get hurt that at least I got something good out of it. I realized that there will b some point in ur life when life gives u a break. Rn u might b in pain or hurt or experiencing something negative but trust me, life will give u a break. There's another thing I noticed abt life. There r two types of people in this world, now this will vary depending on the person ofc but imagine life is a rose. Now there are people who avoid roses for fear of getting hurt by the thorns, and there r people who notice and acknowledge those thorns but can still c the beauty in it. They can still c that even with those thorns it's still beautiful, that with the thorns it's still perfect. Which one are u and which one do u want to b?
hmm... very insightful indeed...
My go-to way is to confess, and if I get rejected they aren't into me, if they don't they might be.
"Use touch" meanwhile I'm afraid of touching anyone I like romantically but have no problem touching anyone I only see as a friend. Also applies to dirty jokes and flirting.
“If you want a good relationship seek out the good ones and bad ones then once you find the one then you will feel in love forever.”
When you watch the whole video : Even though your an asexual introvert Who doesn’t really tolerate people Much less would tolerate being in a relationship with them.
Me too 😂😂
😂😂me
Yee
Haha yes xD
Stop calling me out T^T
This post is for everyone who just realized that no one has ever displayed any of this behavior around them.
You are no body until somebody loves you, and that somebody is me. I love you.
That's sweet. Love you too
Thanks for calling me a nobody, eh
@@Fermin-hw5pd you are clearly somebody, because I love you
Mistaaa NEW VEGASSSS
Scrolling all the way down to find this comment was certainly worth it.
This is the most soothing voice I’ve ever heard, can you please narrate my thoughts?
“Blushing is a sign that they like you” Nah I blush/turn red SO easily because I just generally get nervous when the attention is on me. Could be with anyone. Heck I even turn red after a simple laugh.