Please remember that if a man that is taken entertaining you, he is NOT a good man! He is not a good man because he doesn’t respect his girlfriend/wife! If that man doesn’t want that woman, then he needs to leave!
@@denisemyers733 I know! A man that really want you will not put you in position of second. He would also do things decent and in order. He would not have a woman and still try to be with other women at the same time.
Exactly!! No If's! No and's! Or buts!! Flatout. I've never dated a man with someone else in his life! Doesn't matter what his story is!! According to him😉
I agree. Unfortunately, until most women agree with this and stop thinking in a selfish way it’s not gone change. Woman want to believe the man likes her better that’s why he’s entertaining her while in a relationship and she will fantasize about him leaving his wife/gf for her. Not realizing that man don’t have no respect for her so when she does get him for herself after the wife/gf leaves she wonders why he cheating on her smh
I'm 50yr now and I'm harder now......i know the games now (cause they STILL playing games), i know what i deserve and I'm keeping these legs closed until i get it!...periodt👍🏽👏🏾🌟
Tony, I wish I had started listening to you years ago. No one ever told me the things you share about relationships. Would have me saved me years of heartache and would have made better choices. But by the grace of God, I’m learning to love myself and expect more.
Same here😊 i have came a loonnggg way and it feels so good to not be the same woman anymore and dealing with everything I used to. I learned the hard way but I'm still glad I learned that now. Keep your head up 👑
I’m 54. Not all of us do that Tony. Some of us are still waiting for the right man to come along. Men in their 60’s and 70’s still play games. They are the ones who think you are easy loose butties.
I was involved with a man last year, who was 69 and he gave me the impression that he was mature and knew what he wanted. VERY convincing but he was a manipulative player, dishonest and a cheater. Luckily I was only dating him 4 months when I caught on to his game. I was 64 when he started to pursue me. I was a widow for 14 years at the time and hadn’t dated anyone in all that time. Enough to put you off dating again. Wish I had know about Tony’s coaching videos before I dated this immature man.
@@dublingirl1691 I’m sorry you went through that but honestly I’m not surprised. I’ve dealt with a lot of deceptive and narcissistic individuals. If they can’t be honest just walk away and save yourself a headache.
The moment he told you he has someone else and you still slept with him he tried you and lost any respect he had. You will never have a healthy loving relationship with this man at this point. Please walk away.
I am 51. I can't speak for all women, but I am definately not easy at my age. If anything, I am a little too guarded. And as far as men still playing games at my age, yes, it's sad, but true. It's like their behavior gets worse as they get older. I may be single, but I am certainly not desperate.
Never make hopes and plans based on what "he says" but on what he shows. If he has someone else, leave him with his choices. Even if it's hard letting go, you have to love yourself enough to only want someone who wants you and only you, who puts you first and shows you with actions every day.
Preach Tony!! 🙌🏽This is me!!! 🙋🏽I’ve learned my lesson. I’m 49 and He’s 51. We live in the same city tho, in Georgia. He was my high school sweetheart. We saw each other for a year Knowing he had a girlfriend.He married his girlfriend in April. Tony, the only answer I have for you is I GOT LONELY. I feel so stupid, embarrassed, ashamed and heartbroken. 💔 I’ve blocked him and not looking back. I don’t ever want to see him or talk to him again. He’s dead to me!!!😡 Never again... I’ve learned my lesson. Tony thank for your wisdom. I’ve learned so much from you. I would love to meet you someday to say thank you. I’m going to be ok.😊God bless you and your beautiful family.🙏🏽
“You had some asparagus? Oh what you had some Brussels sprouts?” 😂😂😂 I always get a good laugh in with these videos. Knowledge and laughter in one 🙌🏾🙌🏾
Whew this one was rough. No woman left behind though 🙌🏾. Ladies we have got to heal and lift each other up. This the harsh truth. A man will stomp all over you if you let him.
Tony I am so sorry you have to teach older people but I want you to know but sorry to say ; some of these older men are worse than you will ever imagine ! They play games still! Older women are going through more than than you know. However, many of us are ashamed to say it ! Thank you for painting the picture of this tomfoolery. Wisdom from God is what matters ! Yes you are much younger but it’s the wisdom that helps us to realize what’s happening! I know we should be teaching the younger generation but it’s difficult 😞 to teach them when we are going through the same nonsense but a-shame to tell anyone. Thank you for addressing all ages . God Bless you🙏 please keep teaching us all ! Yes it’s really sad but true 😞 much Love to you & your Beautiful family ❤️❤️
These sorry males don't want to be in committed relationships. What they want is PERPETUAL PARENTAL CARE. Driving his girlfriend's car, really? Going from woman to woman, collecting their valuable resources without shame. Sorry, no peen is worth the shiftlessness. Love yourself bc he clearly doesn't.🙏🏽💪🏽
What should you do??? Take accountability! You know exactly what you were getting into and both of ya'll are hurting someone else in the process. Leave and regain your dignity and self respect. Being a side chick has no benefits.
@@kaylarhodan2476 I see your point however, is it really beneficial to a side chick to pimp herself out in order to get her bills paid while a man temporarily treats her 'great' till he finds someone 'better' and still goes home to his wife/gf at the end of the day? I say getting a job and some self respect are huge benefits.
She’s absolutely correct 50-60 year old grown boys are still trying be playas or running high school games. I’ve quickly discovered if these men have been single for 5-15 years there’s a reason why!! Gone bout’ your bisness!!
Unfortunately, these type of women is why grown boys continue to do what they do!! Most know they have girlfriends or wives and don’t care. Then have the audacity to blame him or say there isn’t any good men. We have the power ladies to change the game! Stop being hold me down, side chic and ride or die females. If there’s no supply there’s no demand!
She should learn to love herself. If she truly loved herself, she wouldn’t allow this type of treatment. Most importantly, if she truly loved herself, she wouldn’t lower her standards and be involved with a man that’s taken. Women have got to stop doing this to other women. We are not our sisters keepers. We ARE our sisters.
Sis..the hardest step was seeking feedback, another perspective ..that tells me (you gonna get through this)...because when we are really in a "hopeless" place is when you isolate yourself!! I pray you receive Mr Gaskins words of wisdom w/brotherly love)..chew the meat and spit out the bone (as my grandma say)..At the least consider the feedback!! Be encouraged Sis and Be of Good Courage on this new journey of self care..setting boundaries..learning what your deal breakers are...You're worth IT!!!!!!!! What you desire, desires you..believe that!!
Its so sad what women have to go through in their 20s, 30s, 40s , 50s, 60s to find a good honest man. The future does not look bright for husband material in today's time. Men just want to mess with multiple women and they don't want any type of commitment.
I’m sorry but he told you he was in a relationship and live with his girlfriend. The nerve to say “and occasionally we have sex”..... chileeee ppl are triphlen honey...and y’all 51 at that. I can’t with ppl
She really thinks she's better than the X/current woman, which some "next" women do. Chile, if she had a 🍵 with the X/current woman, it might could have saved her the heartache she so desperately earned.
Never move for anyone. I moved but it was for me. Women need to pay men more attention. Stop jumping for a man. Jump for God he will guide you. He will put that person in your life. If you wait on him.
I think older women aren't necessarily lonely and desperate, but they feel more sexually liberated. This is because they aren't tied down by children due to being pass childbearing age and their children are grown or older in age.
That’s interesting because the older I get the less I wanna jump into anything with a man. I ain’t even gonna say how long I’ve been abstinent and I’m fine with it. I’m 63 and yes these men still trying to play. I have turned down numerous men. In fact I believe that men keep pursuing me because they seem to sniff abstinence 😂😂. That’s what I think sometimes. I’m dating, smiling, friendly and staying off my back. Tony, can men sense that you’re not out there like that?
This reminds me of an older man in my area who thinks he is so fly. I think he is about 65 because his face looks so worn. He does his hair and dresses in leather pants. He is always lingering with his look. I call him "walking venereal disease"! He really looks like that to me.
@@adaofcharles1217 Sure enough. I saw him again this week, talking to an older lady who had lots of grey hair. I break out in a rash when I see him. Lol.
😂🤣😂😂 I screamed laughing at "smelling something on the toilet . Is that asparagus? Is that Brussel Sprouts " Top tier information over here with a sprinkle of innate comedy. I love it here
This comedy and mentor God gave him 2gift 😅, some time laugh is good for the soul and when he telling the truth, I learned a lot from Tony and I am 56 and I didn't know, because I so free ❤️ and giving and 💯 at it's I have so many people that love me it is so unreal.
Also women need to start questioning and looking into stuff! I’m all for checking phones! For a man to have a whole other woman and we not know about it, is so insane to me! I know we need trust, but don’t let trust turn you into a fool!
Manglish Translation Is The Way Forward Tony....I absolutely love how you did that....No Sugarcoating Nothinn' - CALL IT WHAT IT IS! THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH SIR 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
PSA TO LADIES AND GENTLEMEN: If he/she will cheat with YOU then he/she will cheat on YOU! What YOU reap is what YOU sow. The spiritual law of reciprocity is REAL!
I’ll never forget when I was at church and my son was bout 2 and he went in the bathroom behind a lady and he said “momma it stank, it stank” 😂😂😂😂😂 whew Chile! I didn’t know what to do 😳
🗣 We gotta HEAL ladies, this will be a Continuous Cycle if we don't. That's why so many are Bitter, & Jealous cause they're looking @ someone who Sacrificed so much to heal. HEALING is our Portion!
I love it! Paraphrasing: you have to be a poet and a writer to see the fullness of the situation. This is truth on so many levels. Wise beyond his years.
SHE IS AT HER AGE ASKING WHAT SHOULD I DO? She needs some pride and self respect. That’s what she SHOULD do. I hate to see women who have no self worth. Smh. On a plane to another state to be with someone else man who don’t even have him? Hec no, bro.
Same here. I just turned 50. I was at my doctor appointment recently, and the nurses kept saying- " There is NO WAY your're 50!? You look like your 30 years old." I've been doing yoga for 25 years, and I always eaten well. And lots of younger men pursuing me too. But I like men my age or a few years younger.
I thought, ‘Age should speak; advanced years should teach wisdom.’ But it is the spirit in a person, the breath of the Almighty, that gives them understanding. It is not only the old who are wise, not only the aged who understand what is right. -Job 32:7-9
I honestly feel like I’m content with being single ..... is that a bad thing ? I’m 33.... I love my peace now I feel like I’m learning myself and loving myself.... I honestly don’t want to be bothered .... august will be 1 year no sex 🙏
Hi Tony to address your question why older women are easy sexually, I am in my late 60’s, I was happily married 44 years, my husband died 3 years ago, so at this stage of my life I am not looking to get booed up. A 44 year marriage is enough to last a lifetime I am happy as a single widow. I am looking for friendships with men and believe me men in my age group 60’s are divorced, have baggage and full of it otherwise they would still be married. The on man I have dealt with is 65 and he is a player. He’s divorced and not looking for a relationship. We do things together go to Costco go out to lunch cook together play Chess and we have sex occasionally and keep it moving. Unfortunately it’s leaves a lot to be desired due to STD’s. I recently got tested for STD and got a clean bill of health so I’m done having sex outside of a sexually exclusive relationship.
At her age she should be teaching the young ladies in her sphere of influence how to be respectable and classy. Instead she running behind some no good trifling... sigh 😔
My ex had women in other states. He would tell me he was working or going to visit his parents but he was really seeing other women maybe men too...who knows?! 😑
It happened to me at 68. He was 65. He living in the 90's. I learned a lot in two years. I had been abstinate for over 5 years. Thank God I survived his boyish attitude! Two years was too long. I had red flags, checkered flags, sirens; I guess I was desperate and didn't realize it!!!??
It’s crazy because that’s typical men (not all) some can have a great woman and still sneak out and creep behind her back and I rarely hear other men put men in their place about cheating. Most times men justify it and say it was something she was lacking that’s why he cheated. Relationships are scary giving someone your heart while they sneaking sexing behind your back.
*let me look at you with my good eye* mmhmmm Got the Apple bottom jeans boots with the fur , with that swoop bang, old school Ashanti look 😭 Tony is a mess! She still young & fly 💯
Well TG , apparently as women get older their s ex drive increases. Maybe that could be a reason why some older women “easier”. And yessss there are 50s yo men STILL playing games and wanting friends with benefit knowing dang well that life could come kick the bucket and they would rather fool around then find someone to marry and ride out with
Bro Tony you have me rolling 🤣🤣🤣 you said you never seen a 51 Year old young and fly. Boy, you something serious am loving it though Talks with Tony. God Bless you Bro Tony
I can say for myself the easier mindset comes from being tired , after tryin for so long . Even tho the Bible says do not grow weary in doing what is right, and that is what it is . We are growing weary by the time we 30 , seeing grown boys, by the time we 40, seeing grown boys, by the time we 50, grown boys, at this point it’s like ok let me feel something because it’s about to dry up . Seriously 😒
Mitz, there's no vetting of potential suitors--no listening to God when He says "this isn't the man I have for you." A lot of women give their time, money and wombs to any man that comes along in the name of being in love. This is one of the reasons a lot of women are tired. No accountability and treating boyfriends as husbands. Men do what we allow and then when we're tired and used up, we get in our feelings and blame the guy for wasting our time. No, we waste our own.
We are out here working on the three Bs to be chosen by grown boys, Na it’s crazy! As we are working on improving they are working on how messy they can be ! Via those other type videos Tony was referring to its a battle of sexes and it feel we are not winning. Maybe I’m wrong . But good women are staying single because it’s such slim pickings!
@@mitz1919 all the more reason to keep working on those 3 Bs and move on quickly when you run into jokers like the grown boy from the letter in the video. The man for you will rise to the occasion! Stay prayed up! You ( we) got this 😊
I'm like you, Tony. I will never understand why folk 40+ still don't get it. That's got to be an inside problem. Never seen this amount of game playing and naivety in my life. No self-love or emotional intelligence. No growth or sense of accountability/responsibility, just abuse & false entitlement. Passing around BV lol We've all been caught up but good LAWD, people!!! We STILL getting caught up at 40 something, ladies??? Can't just blame that one on men. ijs. yikes...smh madness
@ about 40 minutes in...That was an awesome and vivid picture you painted for us Mr. Gaskins and for that I'm truly grateful 🙏🏾. I need to be slapped in the face with reality sometimes for the truth to really seep in.
Please remember that if a man that is taken entertaining you, he is NOT a good man! He is not a good man because he doesn’t respect his girlfriend/wife! If that man doesn’t want that woman, then he needs to leave!
Sad to say some woman don’t want a good man but just settle for a man they think is good to them.
That’s right and that’s how we should always see it. He’s not a good man while in a whole relationship. Cause if it’s that bad you should leave.
@@denisemyers733 I know! A man that really want you will not put you in position of second. He would also do things decent and in order. He would not have a woman and still try to be with other women at the same time.
Exactly!! No If's! No and's! Or buts!! Flatout. I've never dated a man with someone else in his life! Doesn't matter what his story is!! According to him😉
I agree. Unfortunately, until most women agree with this and stop thinking in a selfish way it’s not gone change. Woman want to believe the man likes her better that’s why he’s entertaining her while in a relationship and she will fantasize about him leaving his wife/gf for her. Not realizing that man don’t have no respect for her so when she does get him for herself after the wife/gf leaves she wonders why he cheating on her smh
Golden Rule: What you do to others eventually is done to you.
Absolutely
You better no it will....
But don't be controlled.....
Right
Amen
Yo body is a temple Yo mind is a temple.. most definitely not to be played with
I'm 50yr now and I'm harder now......i know the games now (cause they STILL playing games), i know what i deserve and I'm keeping these legs closed until i get it!...periodt👍🏽👏🏾🌟
Same!
Absolutely Amen to that.🙏🏾
High five up top ✋
you should be dating 70 and up... catch them before the grave as my dad said
We are closed until marriage Ma.
Some women get easier with age because they get lonely and desperate.
It’s true ..
Desperation and loneliness exactly
Maybe most women but definitely not all.
The devil is a liar...Im harder cuz I no better 😂
NOT!! Lol least not this one!! Lol
“I wouldn’t be moving to somebody else’ state to sleep with somebody else’ man, if I was a woman.” TG
Right....yuck
its desperation thats all she 51 so she figures she might as well
She moved to be with a man that's already in a relationship. Make it make sense.
@@TheOne-gu9lz We, women, have got to do better!
For her man, but she might as well not for somebody’s else man.
Tony, I wish I had started listening to you years ago. No one ever told me the things you share about relationships. Would have me saved me years of heartache and would have made better choices. But by the grace of God, I’m learning to love myself and expect more.
Same Sis🤗
i pray you love yourself and know how special you are🌸
Same here😊 i have came a loonnggg way and it feels so good to not be the same woman anymore and dealing with everything I used to. I learned the hard way but I'm still glad I learned that now. Keep your head up 👑
Same here I wish I new what I know now would have saved me a lot of heartache. God bless 🙏🏾
Same
I’m 54. Not all of us do that Tony. Some of us are still waiting for the right man to come along. Men in their 60’s and 70’s still play games. They are the ones who think you are easy loose butties.
Yes they are. Some men will go to their graves being players. It’s insane to me that they’ll never mature 🤦🏻♀️
@@sisis_eyes_wide_open Truth🙄!!!
I was involved with a man last year, who was 69 and he gave me the impression that he was mature and knew what he wanted.
VERY convincing but he was a manipulative player, dishonest and a cheater.
Luckily I was only dating him 4 months when I caught on to his game. I was 64 when he started to pursue me. I was a widow for 14 years at the time and hadn’t dated anyone in all that time. Enough to put you off dating again. Wish I had know about Tony’s coaching videos before I dated this immature man.
Playing games in their 70s??? Aren't they dead by than?😂😂😂
@@dublingirl1691 I’m sorry you went through that but honestly I’m not surprised. I’ve dealt with a lot of deceptive and narcissistic individuals. If they can’t be honest just walk away and save yourself a headache.
The moment he told you he has someone else and you still slept with him he tried you and lost any respect he had. You will never have a healthy loving relationship with this man at this point. Please walk away.
You 51 acting like you 21 took me tf out 🤣🤣damn Tony told it like it was .
I am 51. I can't speak for all women, but I am definately not easy at my age. If anything, I am a little too guarded. And as far as men still playing games at my age, yes, it's sad, but true. It's like their behavior gets worse as they get older. I may be single, but I am certainly not desperate.
Same at 55!
Same at 53
Same at 55 too!
That Right Sis.! Proudly 54
IF HE WILL CHEAT WITH YOU...HE WILL CHEAT ON YOU....POINT BLANK PERIODTTTTT !!!!
That's what my mom always told me ..facts
Now that is so true.
If that ain't true, then what is?
“If it hurt, let it hurt”
🌹
After seeing these Talks with Tony, reminds me to keep waiting on God. Happily single and free. Peace and no drama. I sleep too good at night.
Never make hopes and plans based on what "he says" but on what he shows. If he has someone else, leave him with his choices. Even if it's hard letting go, you have to love yourself enough to only want someone who wants you and only you, who puts you first and shows you with actions every day.
I agree 💯!
Well said
Amen 🙏🏽
@@sisis_eyes_wide_open Thank you very much !
@@brendabeautiful3096 Thank you very much !
Preach Tony!! 🙌🏽This is me!!! 🙋🏽I’ve learned my lesson. I’m 49 and He’s 51. We live in the same city tho, in Georgia. He was my high school sweetheart. We saw each other for a year Knowing he had a girlfriend.He married his girlfriend in April. Tony, the only answer I have for you is I GOT LONELY. I feel so stupid, embarrassed, ashamed and heartbroken. 💔 I’ve blocked him and not looking back. I don’t ever want to see him or talk to him again. He’s dead to me!!!😡 Never again... I’ve learned my lesson. Tony thank for your wisdom. I’ve learned so much from you. I would love to meet you someday to say thank you. I’m going to be ok.😊God bless you and your beautiful family.🙏🏽
Whole letter screams "side chick" and desperate!🤐 Sis-sta, gone bout cho business
I read/heard the "Sis-sta"..in TG voice..🤣🤣🤣
@@ThisIzKena yes🤣
😂😂😂
Stop being a side chick..stop being a friends with benefits..this wasn't hard to figure out knowing the man has a girlfriend he lives with .
Very true
Exactly
This is y men always cheat cuz it's always a women like this to cheat wit him. ..smh
Bunch of desperados got to love yourself first
Trifling‼️
"Let me look at cha with my good eye."😂
LMAO! 🤣🤣🤣
😂
Lmaoooooo so loud.
"Dookie stick" 🤣😂 I love the comedy yet bluntness of his videos. Im 28& wish I had found TG a long time ago but, I guess better late than never.
Take heed Sis! I wished I had him at your age 😄
@@loveyournest-kitchendesign3001 Most definitely will do!!
Im right there wit u at 29. Dont worry bout age...just get the lesson sis ❤
Agreed!! I’m 30 I’m here with u also we are getting the blueprint girl!! 😊
Same over here (found him at 31 now i’m 32) .I’m been played by grownboys. But we woke now😉
“You had some asparagus? Oh what you had some Brussels sprouts?” 😂😂😂 I always get a good laugh in with these videos. Knowledge and laughter in one 🙌🏾🙌🏾
Man I'm 50 and I'm not going thru those changes, not giving up the cookies,it feels good too,and I date,then go home by myself 😁
When you at the age of "self smelling" you can't be making bad decisions. 😂😂😂😂 You can't make this stuff up! TG Unscripted! TG off the dome!
Whew this one was rough. No woman left behind though 🙌🏾. Ladies we have got to heal and lift each other up. This the harsh truth. A man will stomp all over you if you let him.
I 💘 it!! "No woman left behind"..You should put this on (tee's)..Facts!!!
Facts
@@mzdee7021 I read that out of Sarah Jakes Roberts new book woman evolve. if its not trade marked already i sure will LOL
Tony I am so sorry you have to teach older people but I want you to know but sorry to say ; some of these older men are worse than you will ever imagine ! They play games still! Older women are going through more than than you know. However, many of us are ashamed to say it ! Thank you for painting the picture of this tomfoolery. Wisdom from God is what matters ! Yes you are much younger but it’s the wisdom that helps us to realize what’s happening! I know we should be teaching the younger generation but it’s difficult 😞 to teach them when we are going through the same nonsense but a-shame to tell anyone. Thank you for addressing all ages . God Bless you🙏 please keep teaching us all ! Yes it’s really sad but true 😞 much Love to you & your Beautiful family ❤️❤️
This should be titled "What we not finna do" 💯
Shame....
Sissssss!
😄😃😂😂😂
🤣🤣 I’m screaming
These sorry males don't want to be in committed relationships. What they want is PERPETUAL PARENTAL CARE. Driving his girlfriend's car, really? Going from woman to woman, collecting their valuable resources without shame. Sorry, no peen is worth the shiftlessness. Love yourself bc he clearly doesn't.🙏🏽💪🏽
Living with his girlfriend also means free rent.
@@fendiboots4481 Yes. He sounds like a sorry middle-aged freeloader. And this is who some of us are crying over? Sad.🤦🏽♀️
You nailed it. Looking for perpetual parental care and playing round robin
@@kathylofton4530 To the curb they go! Lol😂🤣
Wow, call it like it is Tony!! Paint the picture, that'll scare anyone straight. Facts!
No apology necessary. We (I) needed to hear this 💚
What should you do??? Take accountability! You know exactly what you were getting into and both of ya'll are hurting someone else in the process. Leave and regain your dignity and self respect. Being a side chick has no benefits.
Reap what you sow
Some times it does have benefits. Some men be paying the side chicks bills and treating them better then their gfs/wives
@@kaylarhodan2476 I see your point however, is it really beneficial to a side chick to pimp herself out in order to get her bills paid while a man temporarily treats her 'great' till he finds someone 'better' and still goes home to his wife/gf at the end of the day? I say getting a job and some self respect are huge benefits.
@@mileyroe4877 bingo
@@mileyroe4877 side chicks aren’t worrried bout self worth and all that especially if a man is paying bills
Being in you 40s,50s and on up doesn't mean that you have to settle for a PIECE OF A MAN. Keep your standards no matter what age you are.
High five ✋
She’s absolutely correct 50-60 year old grown boys are still trying be playas or running high school games. I’ve quickly discovered if these men have been single for 5-15 years there’s a reason why!! Gone bout’ your bisness!!
Unfortunately, these type of women is why grown boys continue to do what they do!! Most know they have girlfriends or wives and don’t care. Then have the audacity to blame him or say there isn’t any good men. We have the power ladies to change the game! Stop being hold me down, side chic and ride or die females. If there’s no supply there’s no demand!
She should learn to love herself. If she truly loved herself, she wouldn’t allow this type of treatment. Most importantly, if she truly loved herself, she wouldn’t lower her standards and be involved with a man that’s taken. Women have got to stop doing this to other women. We are not our sisters keepers. We ARE our sisters.
Amen🤗!!!
So true a man will not disrespect you unless you allow him to.
You fly sis.
The voicemail in Manglish is another genius idea!!
TG said at 51 your body cant take all this bacteria😭😭😭😭😭. Gurrrrrl gone bout your bizzzzzness!!!!
Track shoes sis!!! run all the way back to Illinois >>>>
Sis..the hardest step was seeking feedback, another perspective
..that tells me (you gonna get through this)...because when we are really in a "hopeless" place is when you isolate yourself!! I pray you receive Mr Gaskins words of wisdom w/brotherly love)..chew the meat and spit out the bone (as my grandma say)..At the least consider the feedback!! Be encouraged Sis and Be of Good Courage on this new journey of self care..setting boundaries..learning what your deal breakers are...You're worth IT!!!!!!!! What you desire, desires you..believe that!!
I agree I hope she gets some counseling, so she will not keep allowing herself to be treated this way by a dog of a man
beautiful wordss
Looking Young, Acting Young... she lives in Atlanta...💃💃💃Men in their 50s and 60s are in these streets.
these older men some fools out hur in dees skreets! 😂😂
“Offender” “Plenty of Sharks”😂💯😅
It’s “Finn-der” 😂
Its so sad what women have to go through in their 20s, 30s, 40s , 50s, 60s to find a good honest man. The future does not look bright for husband material in today's time. Men just want to mess with multiple women and they don't want any type of commitment.
Teens too that’s where I went through the most with a toxic guy
TONY, can only help us so much.. we gotta help ourselves ladies 🗣
I always say lessons not learned. Gets repeated over and over and over. Until you get the lessons.............
I’m sorry but he told you he was in a relationship and live with his girlfriend. The nerve to say “and occasionally we have sex”..... chileeee ppl are triphlen honey...and y’all 51 at that. I can’t with ppl
Its BV all up in that 3 some.....ewwww
No lies heard. 🗣️🗣️
Desperation is a disease that can be cured with a good strong dose of SELF LOVE.
How u heart broken by SOMEBODY ELSE MAN.
Right!!!
Now that’s sad beyond sad. Know your worth.
She really thinks she's better than the X/current woman, which some "next" women do. Chile, if she had a 🍵 with the X/current woman, it might could have saved her the heartache she so desperately earned.
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Now THAT'S the question! 👏
He did not just say “dookie stick”...lawd I just hollud!!! 😂
Never move for anyone. I moved but it was for me. Women need to pay men more attention. Stop jumping for a man. Jump for God he will guide you. He will put that person in your life. If you wait on him.
Exactly, he should he been the one moving.
Amen
I think older women aren't necessarily lonely and desperate, but they feel more sexually liberated. This is because they aren't tied down by children due to being pass childbearing age and their children are grown or older in age.
desperation is a sickness because any man that talk to them they chase and hunt men down for dates...smh
Being sexually liberated is one thing but settling for someone who is with anaother woman sounds like desperation to me. Or low self esteem Or both.
@@1racethehumanrace946 sus said it
@@1racethehumanrace946 absolutely
@@1racethehumanrace946 selfishness!
That’s interesting because the older I get the less I wanna jump into anything with a man. I ain’t even gonna say how long I’ve been abstinent and I’m fine with it. I’m 63 and yes these men still trying to play. I have turned down numerous men. In fact I believe that men keep pursuing me because they seem to sniff abstinence 😂😂. That’s what I think sometimes. I’m dating, smiling, friendly and staying off my back. Tony, can men sense that you’re not out there like that?
This reminds me of an older man in my area who thinks he is so fly. I think he is about 65 because his face looks so worn. He does his hair and dresses in leather pants. He is always lingering with his look. I call him "walking venereal disease"! He really looks like that to me.
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Lol
😂💀🤣
Lol, I think he is a perv.
@@adaofcharles1217 Sure enough. I saw him again this week, talking to an older lady who had lots of grey hair. I break out in a rash when I see him. Lol.
😂🤣😂😂 I screamed laughing at "smelling something on the toilet . Is that asparagus? Is that Brussel Sprouts "
Top tier information over here with a sprinkle of innate comedy. I love it here
😂😂😂😂 i hollered honey. He said she smelling a hint bhaaaaaahhh
@@AllThingsTiffanyTV yesss indeed. I definitely screamed laughing
Girl, I thought it was just me! I fell out laughing at that part! 🤣
This comedy and mentor God gave him 2gift 😅, some time laugh is good for the soul and when he telling the truth, I learned a lot from Tony and I am 56 and I didn't know, because I so free ❤️ and giving and 💯 at it's I have so many people that love me it is so unreal.
Also women need to start questioning and looking into stuff! I’m all for checking phones! For a man to have a whole other woman and we not know about it, is so insane to me! I know we need trust, but don’t let trust turn you into a fool!
Gurl! I will check a phone in a minute. Not sorry!!
Here here....
I’ve always checked phones! Found bullshit each time too!
Manglish Translation Is The Way Forward Tony....I absolutely love how you did that....No Sugarcoating Nothinn' - CALL IT WHAT IT IS! THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH SIR 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
PSA TO LADIES AND GENTLEMEN: If he/she will cheat with YOU then he/she will cheat on YOU! What YOU reap is what YOU sow. The spiritual law of reciprocity is REAL!
I’ll never forget when I was at church and my son was bout 2 and he went in the bathroom behind a lady and he said “momma it stank, it stank” 😂😂😂😂😂 whew Chile! I didn’t know what to do 😳
Oan I get tickled every time he calls people grown and musty🥴😩😂💀
🗣 We gotta HEAL ladies, this will be a Continuous Cycle if we don't. That's why so many are Bitter, & Jealous cause they're looking @ someone who Sacrificed so much to heal. HEALING is our Portion!
I love it! Paraphrasing: you have to be a poet and a writer to see the fullness of the situation. This is truth on so many levels. Wise beyond his years.
Seems like neither one of them left high school mentally. Which is probably why she looks so young. WISDOM looks mature.
Lmaoooooooo, Sis you got a tongue.
SHE IS AT HER AGE ASKING WHAT SHOULD I DO? She needs some pride and self respect. That’s what she SHOULD do. I hate to see women who have no self worth. Smh. On a plane to another state to be with someone else man who don’t even have him? Hec no, bro.
Mr. Gaskins, please do not apologize for give the truth. Some of us need to hear the burning truth in order to make changes.
Lol Tony in my 50's I don't look or feel as old as your description... could not stop laughing.
Same here. Im 54
Same. I’m 55!
Same here 52
Same here. I just turned 50. I was at my doctor appointment recently, and the nurses kept saying- " There is NO WAY your're 50!? You look like your 30 years old." I've been doing yoga for 25 years, and I always eaten well. And lots of younger men pursuing me too. But I like men my age or a few years younger.
Don’t apologize for calling a spade, a spade Unc
Wow. You did paint the picture. Thank you!
I thought, ‘Age should speak; advanced years should teach wisdom.’ But it is the spirit in a person, the breath of the Almighty, that gives them understanding. It is not only the old who are wise, not only the aged who understand what is right. -Job 32:7-9
"Plenty of Sharks", "No Harmony", "Offender"...Tony and these remixed names of these dating sites🤣🤣
Bumble 🤣🤣🤣
He remixed them correctly.🤣🤣🤣
I honestly feel like I’m content with being single ..... is that a bad thing ? I’m 33.... I love my peace now I feel like I’m learning myself and loving myself.... I honestly don’t want to be bothered .... august will be 1 year no sex 🙏
Iam 43 and having peace is the best feeling over all
Hi Tony to address your question why older women are easy sexually, I am in my late 60’s, I was happily married 44 years, my husband died 3 years ago, so at this stage of my life I am not looking to get booed up. A 44 year marriage is enough to last a lifetime I am happy as a single widow. I am looking for friendships with men and believe me men in my age group 60’s are divorced, have baggage and full of it otherwise they would still be married. The on man I have dealt with is 65 and he is a player. He’s divorced and not looking for a relationship. We do things together go to Costco go out to lunch cook together play Chess and we have sex occasionally and keep it moving. Unfortunately it’s leaves a lot to be desired due to STD’s. I recently got tested for STD and got a clean bill of health so I’m done having sex outside of a sexually exclusive relationship.
Age does not cure game. IJS.🤷🏾♀️
I Think She Was Intrigued & Comfortable With Knowing Him From All Those Years & Curious Of What She Missed Out On.🤔
Yep!
His actions saying you gettin a DOOKY STICK! 🤣
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I can't 😂😂😂😂
Lol.
It's 😥 sad when women are willing to be a side piece for a man knowing he has a wife or woman! 😒
You are telling the truth Tony! This is sad but real.🙁
At her age she should be teaching the young ladies in her sphere of influence how to be respectable and classy. Instead she running behind some no good trifling... sigh 😔
Yasssssss......triflin to def
Amen absolutely however, we have to think about how she was taught.
@@ellamccall1489 not taught
@@brendabeautiful3096 that's your opinion on that subject. God bless
My ex had women in other states. He would tell me he was working or going to visit his parents but he was really seeing other women maybe men too...who knows?! 😑
Wow! 🥴 Great job Tony. You're doing right by not sugarcoating it.
Thanks for keeping it real and keeping it strong Tony! Many Blessings 🙌🏼🙏🏼💌
That swoop bang!! That had me lol 😆
"Look like it grab a lil piece of dat eye"..😩🤣🤣🤣🤣..why is he like this!!
@@ThisIzKena lmbo😫😫😂🤣. Child idk, he is something else
@@ThisIzKena Tony is all the way a mess😂🤣!!!
Whew!!!!! This is some TRUTH Tony is telling today!
Thank you!
This was sad. Thank you TG for keeping it real and raw.
Keep bringing the heat, Tony 🔥 You need to burn some sense into some of us 💯
It happened to me at 68. He was 65. He living in the 90's. I learned a lot in two years. I had been abstinate for over 5 years. Thank God I survived his boyish attitude! Two years was too long. I had red flags, checkered flags, sirens; I guess I was desperate and didn't realize it!!!??
Omg!!!....Preach brother!!!...Tell the truth and shame the devil!!
28:51 that right there! When you sit in your choices you see yourself truly. It can be painful but like Tony said “ get your message from you mess “
Yes, TG, you got to be real, raw and be full/on to expose situations like this. There may be no one else to do it. Carry on, soldier. 🙏🏻✝️
It’s crazy because that’s typical men (not all) some can have a great woman and still sneak out and creep behind her back and I rarely hear other men put men in their place about cheating. Most times men justify it and say it was something she was lacking that’s why he cheated. Relationships are scary giving someone your heart while they sneaking sexing behind your back.
Right.....see I will b in jail....so never mind
Just my thoughts...
But I could never share a man.
*let me look at you with my good eye* mmhmmm Got the Apple bottom jeans boots with the fur , with that swoop bang, old school Ashanti look 😭 Tony is a mess! She still young & fly 💯
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I died😂
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I started singing.🤣🤣
Tony was more invested in the truth behind the pic than the actual letter bcuz he knew it was pure foolishness lol
Well TG , apparently as women get older their s ex drive increases. Maybe that could be a reason why some older women “easier”. And yessss there are 50s yo men STILL playing games and wanting friends with benefit knowing dang well that life could come kick the bucket and they would rather fool around then find someone to marry and ride out with
Whew Tony definitely painted a picture for me in this video! He’s speaking straight facts I needed to hear this foreal!
Tony, you have a real gift here. To tell someone about themselves, yet still have tact is amazing. Bravo 👏
Tonnnnyyyyy!!! lol 😂 I can’t with you lol 😂 is that asparagus?!!
TONY
THANK YOU FOR BEING REAL...
GOD CONTINUE BLESSING YOU..
Bro Tony you have me rolling 🤣🤣🤣 you said you never seen a 51 Year old young and fly. Boy, you something serious am loving it though Talks with Tony. God Bless you Bro Tony
You call it what it is, you’ll see it for what it is!
I can say for myself the easier mindset comes from being tired , after tryin for so long . Even tho the Bible says do not grow weary in doing what is right, and that is what it is . We are growing weary by the time we 30 , seeing grown boys, by the time we 40, seeing grown boys, by the time we 50, grown boys, at this point it’s like ok let me feel something because it’s about to dry up . Seriously 😒
Mitz, there's no vetting of potential suitors--no listening to God when He says "this isn't the man I have for you." A lot of women give their time, money and wombs to any man that comes along in the name of being in love. This is one of the reasons a lot of women are tired. No accountability and treating boyfriends as husbands. Men do what we allow and then when we're tired and used up, we get in our feelings and blame the guy for wasting our time. No, we waste our own.
@@fabulousmdb7927 I agree it’s just a tiring process when u see they do not change much with age
We are out here working on the three Bs to be chosen by grown boys, Na it’s crazy! As we are working on improving they are working on how messy they can be ! Via those other type videos Tony was referring to its a battle of sexes and it feel we are not winning. Maybe I’m wrong . But good women are staying single because it’s such slim pickings!
@@mitz1919 all the more reason to keep working on those 3 Bs and move on quickly when you run into jokers like the grown boy from the letter in the video. The man for you will rise to the occasion! Stay prayed up! You ( we) got this 😊
Lmao
I'm like you, Tony. I will never understand why folk 40+ still don't get it. That's got to be an inside problem. Never seen this amount of game playing and naivety in my life. No self-love or emotional intelligence. No growth or sense of accountability/responsibility, just abuse & false entitlement. Passing around BV lol We've all been caught up but good LAWD, people!!! We STILL getting caught up at 40 something, ladies??? Can't just blame that one on men. ijs. yikes...smh madness
@ about 40 minutes in...That was an awesome and vivid picture you painted for us Mr. Gaskins and for that I'm truly grateful 🙏🏾. I need to be slapped in the face with reality sometimes for the truth to really seep in.
Thank you Mr Gaskins. I didn’t know what DM meant until now and have always wondered. Best wishes & God Bless you and your family. ✝️