Too many grown boys looking to leech off unsuspecting women. These men want our affections & support for FREE without making an honest effort towards a committed relationship. PROCEED WITH CAUTION.😔🙏🏽
Sis, it's doesn't matter how much of a good woman you are. It will not be enough for the wrong man....he's not one (husband). Stop giving your boyfriends, husband benefits (shacking up, cooking, cleaning, joint bank accounts.) It sounds like you're giving way more than you're receiving.
She should’ve focused on herself instead of all these relationship stuff which has distracted her from finishing school and financial stressors from her family....time waits for no one ...
don't give that to your husband either..I dont cook and cleaning a floor that you share needs to be shared. period..no need for joint accounts either..I dont want one..but you are right never good enough for the wrong man..the keyword is the 12 months..I m 37 and almost been on my back in my early 20s..but I said no..and knew I always wanted marriage..I was with a bf for 6 months max once..would not give more than 12 months for marriage..
I became Christian after watching Tony Gaskins all of videos. I became a totally different person and so much peace came to my life. I am still working on myself and trying to better my life in all aspects. I have so much peace , knowledge, understanding, clarity just implementing everything Tony Gaskins said. Thank you for proving that God is real and there is real love.
I don't completely agree with you. Depends on what he is wanting and what her love language is...you can't change a servant's heart but a servant has to be cautious on whom she is serving! I think it gets twisted when a woman willingly does these things with expectations... You can't give and expect anything in return or your being deceiving. Abuse is unacceptable.
@Bianca Torres A boy is a young, immature male lacking in judgment and knowledge (boyfriend) and since most woman I know are looking for a "man" because she doesn't fit the definition or description of a (girlfriend) a young, immature female lacking in judgment and knowledge. She's not looking to be a girlfriend who giving husband benefits to a BF. So yes, its ok if he chests because he's for the streets and has not been in her sheets. Just my opinion. Lastly, most people who are marriage minded are already faithful and have already committed to each other prior to the wedding. It's a spiritual, heart and mind commitment.
“Imma tell you one thing I have done learned, These women just on here just looking at me. These women ain’t listening to a single wrord coming out my mouth ” TG. 🤣🤣🤣
Diffeniately do not live with a man ...I learned my lesson when I was younger makes no sense to live with a man with no commitment .. get in and get out and get your own place
@@kaleema1987 I agree to an extent. Most woman have "Cinderella" syndrome from movies and church... Men want the supermodel with mommy attributes. Just accept people and enjoy your life! Too conditional
A word of advice for 40plus learners. If you going for a 1st degree, apply to a program that will place you in a position while your in school or upon graduation. Social worker, teacher, mental health counselor, etc. Talk to the employment counselor in your area. You can't depend on a man for lifetime security, have your education in the bank.
You are right, we put ourselves in these positions, we allow these things because we're desperate. Ladies wake up and show up. Stopp putting up with BS. I'm 4 years single, I'm not settling and i will focus on my kids and raise them.
This is the reason why people don’t think Marriage is necessary! Stop doing and excepting marriage stuff in dating. The reason why a lot of men don’t feel the need to get married, is because us as women give them everything without commitment.
I appreciate how T.G. crashed her pity party and placed the responsibility on her. A man will go along with every degrading thing a woman permits. Also, the man is traaayysh.
Ladies, PLEASE LISTEN to this video!! I watch TG videos e'erday!! This is one of the BEST videos I've seen!! My goodness I wish I had this message 20 years ago.
Thats why over 50 percent of marriages end in divorce. How can u be sure that you wanna spend the rest of your life with a person in that short of time. Death do you part can be a verrrrrrry long time. 12 to 18 months is still in the honeymoon stage. Once the newness wears off then they headed for divorce.
I was married and ended up being a placeholder. Instead of ending things the right way he chose to cheat and start a whole new relationship while still being married. I left him and now he's still with the mistress. She knew he was married and had kid as well and still went along with it. You just never really know who you with.
There's NO WAY you're listening to Mr. Tony videos everyday and you're not becoming better. That's a lie. You may be hearing it but not listening and understanding. It makes no sense getting all this knowledge and not applying it. Faith without works is dead. I watched one video "grown boy tactics" and I made a final decision. The book a "Woman's Influence" was a map to stay on track. Almost a year here and I've grown. Don't let all that knowledge and honesty you're getting at no cost go to waste just because you think he's stepping on your toes. Swallow your pride, listen and get the message and lesson and apply it to your life. Only way to see the difference. God is speaking to us directly through Mr. Tony, especially those of us who like people to sugarcoat things for us. Be blessed.
@@blacksongbird100 same here sis lol! It's also easy to think you've found someone good that you can 'work with' and that it's slim pickings out here. I'm just happily single right now... I still have alot to learn and change
If y'all dont listen to this whole video...just start at the 50 minute mark. This is what YOU NEED. Get into that Bible, The Word, Jesus!!!! That's how you get your peace here on earth!
I love the way you explained this to this lady Tony. You sure have a way with words! I hope she heals and learns from this so she can finally get married to the man who is for her! 🙌🙏🏻
Don't say that, you are making a difference. Many people they do listen, but they don't hear, they don't receive it, and they don't apply what they hear on a consistent basis. You have to do all four listen, hear, receive and apply the knowledge consistently. Keep doing the Lord's work man of God.
I have come to realize how important it is that we tell our story properly. We have a tendency to tell our story in a way that makes us the victim...yet we don't honestly share how we were a willing participant in our own pain. The power of choice is real. You have a CHOICE! We all make mistakes, but everything Tony shared in this video will keep you from repeating the cycle. I was blessed by what he shared for our reasons to stay off our backs. I'm happily married, but we have daughters that are coming of age, and this is preparing me for what they will face. Our security, sanity, sanctity, etc....so much wisdom in this! If you aren't rooted in what God has said and why, you ultimately will compromise and it rarely ends well. A prayer life and obedience to what God says will keep us SAFE! There's safety in the will of God. The fear factor is a real issue for many women....but fear is not of God. So that means, a man/husband shouldn't be the prayer point....fear should be. Fear is the enemy you need out of your life. The perfect love of God will cast out ALL fear.
Tony has a heart for the people. It’s evident in his passion. You can tell he really wants better for us women. Thank you, sir. I am one who have been strengthened by your [many] teachings. They aren’t in vain!!!
It seems like a lot women just listen to your videos instead of applying what is learned. I realized when you play games with a man like ghosting etc. he only taking you back to get the last laugh, no matter how nice he is being. That’s how I’m looking at it. And also no one wants to marry a immature woman it seems at 40 she still has a lot of growing to do to meet the right man.
@@freedom123-j8j Right. And then you have to put the shoe on the other foot, like if a man all of sudden ghosted you after having sex and did it more than once, how would you feel? How would you look at that man? Seems like she’s trying to play the same games that a man may have did to her in the past with this act, but when has that ever turned out with a happy ending if that’s what you’re really looking for. So I don’t understand it
@@ashleycbla You don't have to understand it. Do you really think the man was hurt? Could be, but most of the time it's not, cause most of the younger men deal with several women at the same time.... The lady has to respect others but even more herself. By ghosting a men and coming back 2x does nothing for her life. That's what i ment. Have a nice day😊
@@freedom123-j8j I’m not worried about the man being hurt, it’s more of I have no respect for you, if I’m being selfish enough to ghost is what I mean. It’s more about treating people the way you want to be treated but if you don’t want to then gone bout ya business. That’s the part I don’t understand. The world would be a better place if did understand that.
Tony, not true. Many of us listen to you and put what you say into action. We just aren't writing letters bc we're actually DOING what you're teaching us. We don't have a lot of drama to share. We appreciate your teachings and wisdom.
Tony, we're listening. I started listening to you when we shut down last year. I've watched every single video.... Some a few times. You're making a huge difference 💚 I learned so much and I've applied it to my life 💯 I took your coaching course, had a session and I have peace 🕊️ There's a corner in heaven with your name on it. Stay well and be blessed 🙏🏽
You gotta have a relationship with God 1st and foremost, period. Tony can talk talk talk but God will bring wisdom, understand, discernment. Pray, pray, pray. Tony is giving his insight... live and learn. No judgement.
In order to have a healthy happy relationship leading to marriage, you have to set standards and boundaries for your life and live by them. This means not staying when you are disrespected or love is not proven, not allowing someone to mistreat, hurt you or waste your time, not depending on anyone with your house or money and not offering husband benefits to a boyfriend. Love yourself, do not allow low-character people to make you feel insecure or exaggerated for what you know deep down isn't right and work on becoming the best version of you because that will give you the confidence and the power to only accept what is for you.
I have never in my entire life thought I would live to see where people care so much about sex and material things. My prayer. 🙏 God if I never have wealth...if I to live pay check to pay check. God blessed me to be able to work smart not hard and able to take care of myself until the day I die. I rather have great health then wealth any day of my life. I work with senior’s and they don’t know Tuesday from Friday. The senior’s can’t remember family members, love ones and as I sat there’s I began to realize what I really value in my life and the after life. If people would take time to think believe me !!!! what you thought meant a lot to you become less on your list. I learn God have greater for me ... I had to do some soul searching and life changes to see my faults in my past relationships. I learned you can not move forward until you search your soul and heart ❤️ to see your faults in your passed relationship. Life will not began until you know your mistakes and ask for forgiveness so you can get what the most high have for you to behold. Believing is receiving and I thank God foe my felt relationship so I can grow and grow close to him... I also know if I didn’t come across your videos, I would be where I am today. God blessed you and your family and sorry for the long text.
When Tony recited the scriptures, I felt that in my spirit. The word of God will save you from yourself and this world! Smh you will become something new, can’t nobody tell you different, cause God will remind you of his word when you know it
Don’t give up on us, we trying forreal! Some of us catch on quicker than others but God would not have you doing this if it wasn’t going to reach someone !
When you fall in with Jesus Christ, he will show you who you are in Christ, your worth, and value. Once you realize your worth and value you won't put up with this grown boy behavior. And you will save yourself and not give your body away to anyone.
This video was amazing! That breakdown was superb! No one's doing it like TG! Be great in your 3 B's ladies! Brain, Brand, & Body! It's 2021 we are not excepting any foolery from dudes anymore! And that's on Mary her little lamb & the Billy goat! 💅🏾
Break it down for us brother! I know it's hard to break away from the soul ties, especially for us women, but I believe if I'd heard of RUclips and men like Tony Gaskins and Bishop RC Blakes my life would've changed a long time ago. Better late than never
I did not write this but I have experienced the exact same thing, this letter basically me! I also responded the same going from bad to worse . This letter reaches me , as I am now trying to get back the correct mindset! Thank you for all you do Mr Gaskins and all the work you put in breaking down these letters ! You are here on a mission and you are helping us tremendously!! God bless you! I am so grateful! I love your advice on this it brings so much clarity
God bless you and thank you Tony. I listened to your message in your videos and I can smile and say YES, I am doing the right things. Knowledge is power!
I thank God for having mercy on me. In the midst of my mess, he saw fit to lead me to this channel. I’ve listened, prayed, cried, and now I am whole. If I go out and error, after ALL of this Word, I’m inexcusable🤷♀️. Thank you Tony, for everything you do; and your beautiful wife that allows you work in your calling. We appreciate you🙏.
Señor Gaskins, When I am ready to go out, I listen to your videos, I pray and enjoy my night. I have learn to see men for who they are …. I am very lucky, I don’t feel lonely; I feel in peace….
Tony! You are MAKING a difference. Please know that...It’s her frustration that’s making her not making wise choices. One of best videos for us ladies. Bless you Tony😢😇🙏🏿
If we are not intentional about change especially in the area of love and relationships, it's a wrap. We have to "set our heart" about self love and boundaries or we will be eaten alive. I know about this. Thank you Tony, deep teaching tonight.
This man is extremely hilarious and real! I love listening to him! I catch up on my Tony talks every Sunday! You’ve helped me grow so much over the years! Thank you
This right here is GOLD👏🙌 need to sit with it and meditate on it! Sis, I pray that you hear this and heal first, otherwise you'll (unintentionally) become one those hurt people who go around hurting others. Walk in your strength with God’s grace🙏💪
I’m listening Tony. Stumbled upon your channel by the grace of God one day after I was searching for answers as to why I was constantly in confusion in chaos in all of my relationships. Your work is not in vain. I am still healing, reading the books taking all of the courses I can afford and doing the work. God is using you to go get his daughters🙌🏾 I’m absolutely here for it Thank you
Tony you brighten up my day today with this video. I was down and in a emotional state, feeling alone and lonely but you have cheered me up today listening to you. Talk I got bout go get some WIC peanut butter etc Boyeee you is CRAZY LOL 😂 FUNNY TO ME. Thanks Tony LOL now you taking bout of you don’t smirk powder LOL boy smdh GOD HAS A WAY OF LIFTING YOU UP! Thanks Tony
God does give peace. I am in awe of Him. After everything I'm still standing because of God my father. And I have so much joy and I can't even explain it in the natural. Jesus is definitely my Lord and Savior.
Keep doing talks with Tony Mr. Gaskins. I’m listening and applying the knowledge. I stumbled upon your videos in February this year and it has helped me tremendously. I’m working on my 3 B’s, focusing on my children and no extra curricular activities with men.
He a GROWN BOY...Point Blank Perioooood... leaving cards, flexing, petty...SIS LET HIM GO... cause that's what he not gonna do... he is a bought and paid for man... let her deal with his trash behind "You Hear Me?"
I’m listening and I’ve been listening .., You have definitely helped me with healing and having healthy boundaries and life has been Great!!! Thanks for all you do.
Hi Tony Gaskins I hope all is well. My mother tragically passed away a few days ago. We are desperately trying to raise money so that we can attend her funeral in Senegal. If you can please help share our go fund me link in my bio. We are running out of time. Please 🙏🏿
Thanks to you I proceed much more carefully now. I do listen to you and your advice. I have learnt how important it is to strengthen my relationship with God. It breaks my ❤ to hear such stories. Keep teaching women what they should be doing. Blessings from France.
Men love to call an intelligent discerning woman "INSECURE" when she catches onto their sneaky behavior and lies. Hilarious
Absolutely Kemi
If the shoe was on the other foot they wouldn't tolerate such behavior. The hypocrisy 🙄🤨
Or say she has baggage when she can go "hmm, I've heard this song and dance before".
It happened to me.
💯
How is she exhibiting "intelligence"?
Too many grown boys looking to leech off unsuspecting women. These men want our affections & support for FREE without making an honest effort towards a committed relationship. PROCEED WITH CAUTION.😔🙏🏽
thats why we must stay woke, they actually respect the women they cant play with
@@nikkyshamz2696 🙏
Sis, it's doesn't matter how much of a good woman you are. It will not be enough for the wrong man....he's not one (husband). Stop giving your boyfriends, husband benefits (shacking up, cooking, cleaning, joint bank accounts.) It sounds like you're giving way more than you're receiving.
She should’ve focused on herself instead of all these relationship stuff which has distracted her from finishing school and financial stressors from her family....time waits for no one ...
💯💯💯
100%%
don't give that to your husband either..I dont cook and cleaning a floor that you share needs to be shared. period..no need for joint accounts either..I dont want one..but you are right never good enough for the wrong man..the keyword is the 12 months..I m 37 and almost been on my back in my early 20s..but I said no..and knew I always wanted marriage..I was with a bf for 6 months max once..would not give more than 12 months for marriage..
I became Christian after watching Tony Gaskins all of videos. I became a totally different person and so much peace came to my life. I am still working on myself and trying to better my life in all aspects. I have so much peace , knowledge, understanding, clarity just implementing everything Tony Gaskins said. Thank you for proving that God is real and there is real love.
Praise God sister !
yaaay many congrats sis, welcome
Congrats
🗣Hallelujah & glory to God!🥳 thiiiiiis is the best decision of your life!🥰
Praise God. Thanks for sharing your good report.
A good man is not abusive or a cheater. Girlfriends should not be cooking and cleaning his house.....you are not married.
Nine chances out of ten he moved into her home.
I don't completely agree with you. Depends on what he is wanting and what her love language is...you can't change a servant's heart but a servant has to be cautious on whom she is serving! I think it gets twisted when a woman willingly does these things with expectations... You can't give and expect anything in return or your being deceiving. Abuse is unacceptable.
You’re single until you’re married 👏🏾
Exactly
Point blank period
Facts.
thats it, thats all
@Bianca Torres
A boy is a young, immature male lacking in judgment and knowledge (boyfriend) and since most woman I know are looking for a "man" because she doesn't fit the definition or description of a (girlfriend) a young, immature female lacking in judgment and knowledge. She's not looking to be a girlfriend who giving husband benefits to a BF. So yes, its ok if he chests because he's for the streets and has not been in her sheets. Just my opinion. Lastly, most people who are marriage minded are already faithful and have already committed to each other prior to the wedding. It's a spiritual, heart and mind commitment.
“Imma tell you one thing I have done learned, These women just on here just looking at me. These women ain’t listening to a single wrord coming out my mouth ” TG. 🤣🤣🤣
😔 seems like a true story. I’m sure there are many success stories - like my own
I’m listening and taking notes
This is why I take notes when I listen to these videos now so I can soak up all the knowledge. I want it to really sink in.
Tony, most of us who listen to you and absorb what you're saying don't need to write you cause we know exactly what to do when we see the red flags.
🙌🏾💯
FACTS
exactly cos we are busy applying the lessons in real life, my cut off game is insane now
Amen sister
Exactly I’m listening💯
Stop dating men and get on your grind. Never live with a man. A man sees no need for marriage if you are acting like a wife.
Diffeniately do not live with a man ...I learned my lesson when I was younger makes no sense to live with a man with no commitment .. get in and get out and get your own place
never ever, its a huge red flag, they wont respect you and a solid man wont ask that of you, he will marry you first
Yes that's right. Why buy the cow when the milkman(the woman) delivering the milk faithfully every morning
Amen
PREACH
Don't lower your standards but your gonna have to lower your expectations of people. Otherwise, you will constantly be disappointed and unhappy
selah
Wisdom I tell you
@@kaleema1987 I agree to an extent. Most woman have "Cinderella" syndrome from movies and church... Men want the supermodel with mommy attributes. Just accept people and enjoy your life! Too conditional
🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂😭😭😭😭😭😭 nooooo!!!! You said, "these women on here jus looking at me......they ain't listening to a word I'm saying". I am crying!!!!!🤣😂😭😭😭😭
Have to start sending in testimonial emails too. Lol
He is hilarious 🤣
He is TRASH ladybug. He already knew he didn't want you as a wife. He played a serious mind game. Pay attention to all the red flags.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💯
A word of advice for 40plus learners. If you going for a 1st degree, apply to a program that will place you in a position while your in school or upon graduation. Social worker, teacher, mental health counselor, etc. Talk to the employment counselor in your area. You can't depend on a man for lifetime security, have your education in the bank.
You are right, we put ourselves in these positions, we allow these things because we're desperate. Ladies wake up and show up. Stopp putting up with BS. I'm 4 years single, I'm not settling and i will focus on my kids and raise them.
This is the reason why people don’t think Marriage is necessary! Stop doing and excepting marriage stuff in dating. The reason why a lot of men don’t feel the need to get married, is because us as women give them everything without commitment.
No lies told 💯
And I mean EVERYTHING 😩🙂
I appreciate how T.G. crashed her pity party and placed the responsibility on her. A man will go along with every degrading thing a woman permits. Also, the man is traaayysh.
I wish I knew the 12-18 month rule when I was in my 20's. I lost a lot of time on ALMOST but not the one
Same here sis.
In hindsight, I lost a lot of time on NEVER was the one
Ladies, PLEASE LISTEN to this video!! I watch TG videos e'erday!! This is one of the BEST videos I've seen!! My goodness I wish I had this message 20 years ago.
Thats why over 50 percent of marriages end in divorce. How can u be sure that you wanna spend the rest of your life with a person in that short of time. Death do you part can be a verrrrrrry long time. 12 to 18 months is still in the honeymoon stage. Once the newness wears off then they headed for divorce.
“What a man buys, he owns.” TG
This is Law lol that’s a mans 💴
amen
A lot of wives are placeholders and don’t even know it ☕️
That part right there. You could be a whole wife yet you're the other woman in someone's story. 🤣 Hurts like hell, but hilarious at the same time.
Men using the women to build to where they need to be then they put to get the women they really want ...
So true I was one
better an ex wife than a man just using you to have kids....as an ex wife you are entitled to a lot, jokes on him
I was married and ended up being a placeholder. Instead of ending things the right way he chose to cheat and start a whole new relationship while still being married. I left him and now he's still with the mistress. She knew he was married and had kid as well and still went along with it. You just never really know who you with.
She needs therapy. He realized she has issues and lost interest instead of talking and seeking help with her for her
Exactly what I said, her issues go deeper than dating, and probably come from her childhood trauma🙏🏾
There's NO WAY you're listening to Mr. Tony videos everyday and you're not becoming better. That's a lie. You may be hearing it but not listening and understanding. It makes no sense getting all this knowledge and not applying it. Faith without works is dead. I watched one video "grown boy tactics" and I made a final decision. The book a "Woman's Influence" was a map to stay on track. Almost a year here and I've grown. Don't let all that knowledge and honesty you're getting at no cost go to waste just because you think he's stepping on your toes. Swallow your pride, listen and get the message and lesson and apply it to your life. Only way to see the difference. God is speaking to us directly through Mr. Tony, especially those of us who like people to sugarcoat things for us. Be blessed.
Well said 💯💯
Amen 🙏🏾
This is why women should listen to that inner voice. I'm sure it was screaming at her but she was rationalizing his nonsense.
Yup! Undoubtedly she was. Been in that class before. I was a top student. Lol Thank God I'm out of that class.
@@blacksongbird100 same here sis lol! It's also easy to think you've found someone good that you can 'work with' and that it's slim pickings out here. I'm just happily single right now... I still have alot to learn and change
"She closer to the grave than the birth canal" - Tony Gaskins... I'm dead
Sis...😩🤣🤣🤣🤣😭☠☠
I had to put the video on pause and leave the room😂😂
😂😂😂
@@aliciag946 Whenever I'm feeling sad.. all I have to do is watch Tony's Video... I forget all about everything else... Girl!!!
@@maiyajones5814 YAS!! I know my neighbors are like...what is so dang gone funny...TonyG..better get him in your spirit!
She must've been listening to Tony Chatkins for 6 months because based on this letter, she sho ain't been listening to Tony Gaskins
Lololol😂😂😂
lmfaooooooooo
Omg 😭😭😭
Lololololol🤣🤣
That’s what I thought too
How are you listening to him for 6 months and do the opposite of what he’s telling us to do?
If y'all dont listen to this whole video...just start at the 50 minute mark. This is what YOU NEED. Get into that Bible, The Word, Jesus!!!! That's how you get your peace here on earth!
I’m 22 years old but best believe I’m listening & taking heed to what Mr. Gaskins teaching on
I’m 23 and learning so much!
26 no kids or husband. learning alot.
I love the way you explained this to this lady Tony. You sure have a way with words! I hope she heals and learns from this so she can finally get married to the man who is for her! 🙌🙏🏻
Don't say that, you are making a difference. Many people they do listen, but they don't hear, they don't receive it, and they don't apply what they hear on a consistent basis. You have to do all four listen, hear, receive and apply the knowledge consistently. Keep doing the Lord's work man of God.
I have come to realize how important it is that we tell our story properly. We have a tendency to tell our story in a way that makes us the victim...yet we don't honestly share how we were a willing participant in our own pain. The power of choice is real. You have a CHOICE! We all make mistakes, but everything Tony shared in this video will keep you from repeating the cycle. I was blessed by what he shared for our reasons to stay off our backs. I'm happily married, but we have daughters that are coming of age, and this is preparing me for what they will face. Our security, sanity, sanctity, etc....so much wisdom in this! If you aren't rooted in what God has said and why, you ultimately will compromise and it rarely ends well. A prayer life and obedience to what God says will keep us SAFE! There's safety in the will of God. The fear factor is a real issue for many women....but fear is not of God. So that means, a man/husband shouldn't be the prayer point....fear should be. Fear is the enemy you need out of your life. The perfect love of God will cast out ALL fear.
Sister start by moving out from the house, believe me you will surprise him, get your life together..hard in the beginning but worth it
Tony has a heart for the people. It’s evident in his passion. You can tell he really wants better for us women. Thank you, sir. I am one who have been strengthened by your [many] teachings. They aren’t in vain!!!
Sheesh ! “When you get new knowledge, you have new standards, and you have a renewed mind now you have new confidence” come on !!
It seems like a lot women just listen to your videos instead of applying what is learned. I realized when you play games with a man like ghosting etc. he only taking you back to get the last laugh, no matter how nice he is being. That’s how I’m looking at it. And also no one wants to marry a immature woman it seems at 40 she still has a lot of growing to do to meet the right man.
Yes indeed, so true! Like, if you have to ghost, than ghost for good...no men will respect you, if you can't be consistent🙄
@@freedom123-j8j Right. And then you have to put the shoe on the other foot, like if a man all of sudden ghosted you after having sex and did it more than once, how would you feel? How would you look at that man? Seems like she’s trying to play the same games that a man may have did to her in the past with this act, but when has that ever turned out with a happy ending if that’s what you’re really looking for. So I don’t understand it
@@ashleycbla You don't have to understand it. Do you really think the man was hurt? Could be, but most of the time it's not, cause most of the younger men deal with several women at the same time....
The lady has to respect others but even more herself. By ghosting a men and coming back 2x does nothing for her life. That's what i ment.
Have a nice day😊
@@freedom123-j8j I’m not worried about the man being hurt, it’s more of I have no respect for you, if I’m being selfish enough to ghost is what I mean. It’s more about treating people the way you want to be treated but if you don’t want to then gone bout ya business. That’s the part I don’t understand. The world would be a better place if did understand that.
Oooh that's a WORD... "only taking you back to get the last laugh" smh
Tony, not true. Many of us listen to you and put what you say into action. We just aren't writing letters bc we're actually DOING what you're teaching us. We don't have a lot of drama to share. We appreciate your teachings and wisdom.
These videos not only have helped with relationships but they have made me a smarter person in life. Truly blessed to learn from you. Thank you Tony 🙏
Tony, we're listening. I started listening to you when we shut down last year.
I've watched every single video.... Some a few times.
You're making a huge difference 💚
I learned so much and I've applied it to my life 💯
I took your coaching course, had a session and I have peace 🕊️
There's a corner in heaven with your name on it.
Stay well and be blessed 🙏🏽
Lord let us pray for this lady. To love one self enough to not put up with theses behavior from disrespectful men. Sis you are the prize💯
"Fifty and READY!!...and she got that money, Honey!!" Tony, you crack me up! You're 100% right, though.
You gotta have a relationship with God 1st and foremost, period. Tony can talk talk talk but God will bring wisdom, understand, discernment. Pray, pray, pray. Tony is giving his insight... live and learn. No judgement.
In order to have a healthy happy relationship leading to marriage, you have to set standards and boundaries for your life and live by them. This means not staying when you are disrespected or love is not proven, not allowing someone to mistreat, hurt you or waste your time, not depending on anyone with your house or money and not offering husband benefits to a boyfriend. Love yourself, do not allow low-character people to make you feel insecure or exaggerated for what you know deep down isn't right and work on becoming the best version of you because that will give you the confidence and the power to only accept what is for you.
louder sis
@@nikkyshamz2696 Thank you very much !
Excellent advice
@@mercedesmunn Thank you so much !
I have never in my entire life thought I would live to see where people care so much about sex and material things. My prayer. 🙏 God if I never have wealth...if I to live pay check to pay check. God blessed me to be able to work smart not hard and able to take care of myself until the day I die. I rather have great health then wealth any day of my life. I work with senior’s and they don’t know Tuesday from Friday. The senior’s can’t remember family members, love ones and as I sat there’s I began to realize what I really value in my life and the after life. If people would take time to think believe me !!!! what you thought meant a lot to you become less on your list. I learn God have greater for me ... I had to do some soul searching and life changes to see my faults in my past relationships. I learned you can not move forward until you search your soul and heart ❤️ to see your faults in your passed relationship. Life will not began until you know your mistakes and ask for forgiveness so you can get what the most high have for you to behold. Believing is receiving and I thank God foe my felt relationship so I can grow and grow close to him... I also know if I didn’t come across your videos, I would be where I am today. God blessed you and your family and sorry for the long text.
A majority of these men looking for help .. they only want to settle down with the one that has the bigger bag 💰
Tony I know you didn’t just say “ Have a baby and get some WIC” 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣😂😂I can’t, you are terrible😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😎😎😎
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Bronx chronicles he correct tho
but did he lie lmao
Too dead..😂😂😂😂
“You don’t have to look like what you’ve been through” An entire word 🙌🏽
Every video I listen to, the more I don't want a man. Not a single one 🤷🏾♀️
It's serious out here. Very, very scary. What can we do so, Sis? Just continue to work on ourselves and and trust God. He will never fail us
When Tony recited the scriptures, I felt that in my spirit. The word of God will save you from yourself and this world! Smh you will become something new, can’t nobody tell you different, cause God will remind you of his word when you know it
Don’t give up on us, we trying forreal! Some of us catch on quicker than others but God would not have you doing this if it wasn’t going to reach someone !
Saw the notification, was like what???😳
That took me, "in a relationship with a single man". That explains it, smh.
When you fall in with Jesus Christ, he will show you who you are in Christ, your worth, and value. Once you realize your worth and value you won't put up with this grown boy behavior. And you will save yourself and not give your body away to anyone.
Amen
“Cheese 🧀 peanut 🥜 butter 🧈 oatmeal “😂 Tony you are the best
This video was amazing! That breakdown was superb! No one's doing it like TG! Be great in your 3 B's ladies! Brain, Brand, & Body! It's 2021 we are not excepting any foolery from dudes anymore! And that's on Mary her little lamb & the Billy goat! 💅🏾
Thought this was an excellent breakdown today!
@@mitz1919 it really was! I've had it on repeat all day. Heard little nuggets with each listen. 🥰
"With the Knowledge of God comes a Strong Confidence and Peace" Preach Tony ..She needs to find God ✔
I’m praying for you Tony . Lord, please deliver tony from his storm . God is going to deliver you . Thank you for showing the bad and the good ..
She's acting out of frustration... That's a dangerous place to be. Asking God to renew her mind🙏🏽
Had to rewind Tony said “you wanting marriage cannot determine your standards, your standards should be determined by your enteral compass
Break it down for us brother! I know it's hard to break away from the soul ties, especially for us women, but I believe if I'd heard of RUclips and men like Tony Gaskins and Bishop RC Blakes my life would've changed a long time ago. Better late than never
Dont forget COACH ROD on youtube as well girl
Tony said, "Kegel'd up"!!! 💀😂
Click so fast to hear talks with Tony!!!
Sanity, Safety, Security and Sacred
I did not write this but I have experienced the exact same thing, this letter basically me! I also responded the same going from bad to worse . This letter reaches me , as I am now trying to get back the correct mindset! Thank you for all you do Mr Gaskins and all the work you put in breaking down these letters ! You are here on a mission and you are helping us tremendously!! God bless you! I am so grateful! I love your advice on this it brings so much clarity
👏🏽👏🏽 you got this 💯
Went into the gym watching one of your videos and now, just got out the gym and I’m ready to listen.❤️
It sound like she has an ideology of what she thinks she wants but she's not solid on it.
We cannot blame our ignorance on God. Yes, when we really hold ourselves accountable and look to God and listen, HE is everywhere!
God bless you and thank you Tony. I listened to your message in your videos and I can smile and say YES, I am doing the right things. Knowledge is power!
Tony just "schooled" us. Thank you sir. 👏👏👏
My uncles always tell me don’t give away the milk for free...🤫
YOU ARE MAKING A DIFFERENCE!❤️
“I need a water break!” 😂😂😂
Sis, won't that the truth, I know I did too😩
Good Lord. She's gave you her life's story.
I thank God for having mercy on me. In the midst of my mess, he saw fit to lead me to this channel. I’ve listened, prayed, cried, and now I am whole. If I go out and error, after ALL of this Word, I’m inexcusable🤷♀️. Thank you Tony, for everything you do; and your beautiful wife that allows you work in your calling. We appreciate you🙏.
I think Therapy would be useful here as well. Sounds like there are some things she needs to work through
When you are in God, you are at peace for sure!!! Amen brother!!
You did the wife thing for someone who wasn’t your husband!
“I need a water break “ lmaoooo I hollered . Great advice as usual !!!!
Señor Gaskins, When I am ready to go out, I listen to your videos, I pray and enjoy my night. I have learn to see men for who they are …. I am very lucky, I don’t feel lonely; I feel in peace….
Tony! You are MAKING a difference. Please know that...It’s her frustration that’s making her not making wise choices. One of best videos for us ladies. Bless you Tony😢😇🙏🏿
If we are not intentional about change especially in the area of love and relationships, it's a wrap. We have to "set our heart" about self love and boundaries or we will be eaten alive. I know about this. Thank you Tony, deep teaching tonight.
Your metaphors deserve an award!!
This man is extremely hilarious and real! I love listening to him! I catch up on my Tony talks every Sunday! You’ve helped me grow so much over the years! Thank you
I watch every video, multiple times, and learned SO much. I believe I have been subscribed to you fo 2 years of this month!🥳❤️🩹🥇☮️🌹
Sounds like they both playing the same game, except he won. 😂
Lord Please Bless This Women
Thanks to Tony I recognize a grown boy and the games they play😌
This right here is GOLD👏🙌 need to sit with it and meditate on it!
Sis, I pray that you hear this and heal first, otherwise you'll (unintentionally) become one those hurt people who go around hurting others. Walk in your strength with God’s grace🙏💪
I’m listening Tony. Stumbled upon your channel by the grace of God one day after I was searching for answers as to why I was constantly in confusion in chaos in all of my relationships. Your work is not in vain. I am still healing, reading the books taking all of the courses I can afford and doing the work. God is using you to go get his daughters🙌🏾 I’m absolutely here for it Thank you
Tony you brighten up my day today with this video. I was down and in a emotional state, feeling alone and lonely but you have cheered me up today listening to you. Talk I got bout go get some WIC peanut butter etc Boyeee you is CRAZY LOL 😂 FUNNY TO ME. Thanks Tony LOL now you taking bout of you don’t smirk powder LOL boy smdh GOD HAS A WAY OF LIFTING YOU UP! Thanks Tony
He basically is using the older woman for her more comfortable arrangement . He's using her too
Amen! I have so much peace in the midst of a divorce. Praise the Lord!!
God does give peace. I am in awe of Him. After everything I'm still standing because of God my father. And I have so much joy and I can't even explain it in the natural. Jesus is definitely my Lord and Savior.
Yes. Fear is a liar. False Evidence Appearing Real. - love that. "With the knowledge of God, comes strong confidence".
Keep doing talks with Tony Mr. Gaskins. I’m listening and applying the knowledge. I stumbled upon your videos in February this year and it has helped me tremendously. I’m working on my 3 B’s, focusing on my children and no extra curricular activities with men.
Listen to what Tony said and Be The Boss. I tell ladies this all the time. This is wisdom from a married woman.
He a GROWN BOY...Point Blank Perioooood... leaving cards, flexing, petty...SIS LET HIM GO... cause that's what he not gonna do... he is a bought and paid for man... let her deal with his trash behind "You Hear Me?"
"Send me a check". TG 😂😂😂
That gets me every time! 😁
@@PeaceBeStill- me too!!! 😆😆
I just want to grab our purse and go on this one Tony. She asking too much.
I’m listening and I’ve been listening .., You have definitely helped me with healing and having healthy boundaries and life has been Great!!! Thanks for all you do.
God bless you sis. Heal and press forth. Your time is coming🙌🏾
Thank you for all these encouraging words we’re listening and we will keep praying 🙏
Hi Tony Gaskins I hope all is well. My mother tragically passed away a few days ago. We are desperately trying to raise money so that we can attend her funeral in Senegal. If you can please help share our go fund me link in my bio. We are running out of time. Please 🙏🏿
Thanks to you I proceed much more carefully now. I do listen to you and your advice. I have learnt how important it is to strengthen my relationship with God. It breaks my ❤ to hear such stories. Keep teaching women what they should be doing. Blessings from France.
Tony I can’t with you LOL 😂 7million dollars for the college degrees LOL 😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
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