How to Teach your Child to Take Responsibility! Without Reminding!
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- Опубликовано: 8 сен 2020
- If you are trying to teach your child to take responsibility for themselves without constant reminders, this video is for you! Teaching responsibility to kids is a challenge sometimes, especially when you want them to do it without your nagging, but when they understand reasonable consequences to neglecting responsibility, kids learn much more quickly.
Responsibility can be taught very early in a child's life and you can teach them through consistency and by attaching earned privileges to their fulfilling them without being told. This video will take you step by step through a plan that will get your kids to take responsibility and get up and moving without your reminders.
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I think every parent should be required to watch these videos🥰 quality content
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Wow Thank you my 6yr old is so playful and distracted. Definitely going to do this
Thank you!
Love this
Sounds very interesting. Will try this. Thanks
Let me know how it goes or if you have any questions. 😊
Sucks that middle school kids get chromebooks in school they take full advantage of that with games and what not during school so taking away devices while at home during the week is a joke unfortunately . So what do u recommend instead?
My first recommendation would be to homeschool. But, if that isn’t possible, there isn’t any reason a child has to use devices at home just because they do at school. Is there something I’m missing?
As a parent, you can regulate what they are allowed to do at home and can discuss with their teacher the matter of how the devices at school are used.
But there are a growing number of reasons to homeschool or at least choose a private school at this point in time.
Children need to get off devices and into life.
Thank you for you question and comment!
Yes, I agree. The Chromebooks at home ruined a responsible and A student child. Nothing interests the children but the RUclips on Chromebook. The whole homework is on Chromebook. No.more books reading. Educational system is destroying kids' future...
Hi Holly,
Thank you so much for your excellent videos and parent trainings! You have helped so much!!!!
I just got a copy of your book. I'm looking for the steps or content from this video about teaching children to take responsibility without reminding. Similarly I'd like to find the steps (written out in your book) from another of your great videos: How to get the kids out the door on time.
Do you know what page or chapter these are in ?
Thanks again so much!
Jeffrey
Thank you for the very kind words! Out the door on time steps are not in the book I don't believe. Not everything on the RUclips channel will be in the book and vice versa.
Our 6yo won't even agree to sitting down and having a conversation. When we've tried, she refuses to engage and will not accept any responsibilities. I'm ready to clear all the toys from her room and make her earn them back!
I’m sorry you are struggling. It’s important to work in building your relationship in order for her to be open to conversations about these kinds of things.
Have you tried doing eye to eye time twice a day?
@@MommyAnswerLady I have not. Tell me more about that?
@Angie Haworth
Eye to eye time is 5-10 minutes of uninterrupted time where you focus completely on her. Turn off all distractions like phone, computer, TV and listen to her.
Ask, “what’s the best part of your day?” And let her tell you about it.
This is not a time to correct her or talk about any heavy issues unless she wants to. It is only about building a relationship.
Do this at least twice a day. You will see a big change in her behavior generally once you implement this.
Once this has happened for a week consistently, then you can start working on the other things that need to be addressed but NOT during eye to eye time. That should always be a time of building. Not a time of correction.
Do the other kinds of conversations completely separate from eye to eye time.
Impossibly this video would be a good one for you to take a look at. I believe it talks about that and other things you might want to be aware of.
ruclips.net/video/2ejcVysNwg0/видео.html
I have a young teen who doesn't know what motivates her, plus all of us have ADHD.
Any tips?
@@matthewhuot4189 what does she do in her spare time?
My son is 10 years old. And he is more responsible than he should be at this age. He took all things as it's my duty it's my fault, I have to do this. I'm afraid he is going to lose his innocence. He Should make mistakes play and enjoy like other children. What do I have to do in this situation? Please reply to me.
I’m not sure specifically what you mean? What is he doing exactly that is concerning?
What if they didn't do in the time given
Then I remind again and again and they doesn't care about the time
The video explains. Use a motivator and make it a privilege. If they don’t earn that privilege by getting done on time, they lose it. That is all explained. But the motivator has to be something they really like to do.
@@MommyAnswerLady thank you
With holding a meal seems like a strange punishment.
That depends on your point of view.
I'm kinda worried about not feeding your child dinner, seems a bit too harsh isn't it??
Thank you for your question.
Your child has the ability to eat dinner. They decide whether or not to fulfill their responsibility or not.
If they choose not to and miss it, that’s not going to cause any harm. But it will teach them a lesson. No--it’s not harsh if done as described on this video.
What to do with teenagers they don't listen and talk back why should I do because it's not important for them to do anything except for what they want to do
I am not sure if that is a question…?
Background music so annoying
@@hulda2002 do you mean it’s too loud or the music itself is annoying?
@@MommyAnswerLady too loud to listen to the info
@@hulda2002
Thank you. I think I have resolved that issue in newer videos and I’ll have to look at redoing this one.