Most people switch majors, on avg 3 or 4 times within the first 4 years of college. At least those were the statistics back when I was going to University. 😄 I don't know if there is anything I can say to stop you from trying to be perfect or doing things perfectly. I just want you to consider not grinding yourself to dust mentally. When I was in college I was working a full-time job on the night shift, doing independent research on the side under the mentorship of a professor in order to present said research at a Psychological conversation, and trying to maintain a relationship with a girlfriend who didn't understand how overworked I was. Not to mention having to commute by bus and relying on my parents support/tyranny to a heavy degree. I am not lying when I say some weeks I would go without sleep for two days straight. It made me perpetualy miserable and crushingly depressed. I would wake up feeling overwhelmed and wanting the world to stop turning. It made that year in college a blur in my mind. I can only recall being tired and depressed. But I survived it nonetheless. You don't have to be perfect, you don't have to do everything, and you are not responsible for knowing everything. You are a good person, you deserve to be happy, and you deserve to enjoy yourself. Tommorow is not guaranteed, so toss in a bit of what you want right now. Indulge yourself, give yourself time and premission. Lastly, give yourself a 8 hour sleep schedule. Your brain will thank you. You will survive these hardships and it will get easier.
Grim Song Thank You for sharing your experience and encouragement! It will all work itself out.. :) And yes, I need to get back to a good sleep schedule..
@@brosis3249 Your welcome, and please do get yourself settled into a 8 hour sleep cycle. Sleeping poorly effects everything; thinking, emotions, memory, etc, etc.
Thanks for the video. It's quite deep, so I will have to think about your questions. How did you discover MBTI? What is a Se loop? They say talent borrows and genius steals, so here are some quotes for you (Te at work): ''Stress is an engineering word. When you take a chunk of metal and you give it a twist. You stress it and it bends out of shape. Human beings don't bend out of shape, they spring back. When you stress people. Some people don't spring back into a good shape. Some people spring back into the same shape, more or less. Some people bounce back; actually they bounce forward. They come through adversity, in a way, giving healthy growth. Resilient people are not people who have an easy time all of their lives. Human beings are challenge seeking organisms. When we go through a challenge. If we adapt in a healthy way, we are resilient.'' (Professor David Peters - Centre of Resilience, University of Westminster, London, UK) "I've missed more than 9,000 shots in my career. I've lost almost 300 games. Twenty-six times, I've been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I've failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed." (Michael Jordan- Basketball legend- On Failure)
I think you would enjoy a systems theoretic perspective on personal finance and lifestyle design. Take a look into "Early Retirement Extreme". Retirement is not a necessary component; it is combination of simple living, anticonsumerism, DIY ethics, self-reliance, resilience, and applied capitalism. I am an INTP, but I have been regularly posting on the INTJ-dominated forums for several years.
Most people switch majors, on avg 3 or 4 times within the first 4 years of college. At least those were the statistics back when I was going to University.
😄 I don't know if there is anything I can say to stop you from trying to be perfect or doing things perfectly.
I just want you to consider not grinding yourself to dust mentally.
When I was in college I was working a full-time job on the night shift, doing independent research on the side under the mentorship of a professor in order to present said research at a Psychological conversation, and trying to maintain a relationship with a girlfriend who didn't understand how overworked I was. Not to mention having to commute by bus and relying on my parents support/tyranny to a heavy degree.
I am not lying when I say some weeks I would go without sleep for two days straight.
It made me perpetualy miserable and crushingly depressed. I would wake up feeling overwhelmed and wanting the world to stop turning.
It made that year in college a blur in my mind. I can only recall being tired and depressed. But I survived it nonetheless.
You don't have to be perfect, you don't have to do everything, and you are not responsible for knowing everything. You are a good person, you deserve to be happy, and you deserve to enjoy yourself.
Tommorow is not guaranteed, so toss in a bit of what you want right now. Indulge yourself, give yourself time and premission.
Lastly, give yourself a 8 hour sleep schedule. Your brain will thank you.
You will survive these hardships and it will get easier.
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It does get easier... 🐒🐎
Grim Song Thank You for sharing your experience and encouragement! It will all work itself out.. :) And yes, I need to get back to a good sleep schedule..
@@brosis3249
Your welcome, and please do get yourself settled into a 8 hour sleep cycle. Sleeping poorly effects everything; thinking, emotions, memory, etc, etc.
Thanks for the video. It's quite deep, so I will have to think about your questions.
How did you discover MBTI?
What is a Se loop?
They say talent borrows and genius steals, so here are some quotes for you (Te at work):
''Stress is an engineering word. When you take a chunk of metal and you give it a twist. You stress it and it bends out of shape. Human beings don't bend out of shape, they spring back. When you stress people. Some people don't spring back into a good shape. Some people spring back into the same shape, more or less. Some people bounce back; actually they bounce forward. They come through adversity, in a way, giving healthy growth. Resilient people are not people who have an easy time all of their lives. Human beings are challenge seeking organisms. When we go through a challenge. If we adapt in a healthy way, we are resilient.''
(Professor David Peters - Centre of Resilience, University of Westminster, London, UK)
"I've missed more than 9,000 shots in my career. I've lost almost 300 games. Twenty-six times, I've been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I've failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed."
(Michael Jordan- Basketball legend- On Failure)
I think you would enjoy a systems theoretic perspective on personal finance and lifestyle design. Take a look into "Early Retirement Extreme". Retirement is not a necessary component; it is combination of simple living, anticonsumerism, DIY ethics, self-reliance, resilience, and applied capitalism. I am an INTP, but I have been regularly posting on the INTJ-dominated forums for several years.
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