The Itaewon Halloween Tragedy - 159 Dead & How The Police Tried To Cover It Up

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  • @rottenmangopod
    @rottenmangopod  Год назад +19586

    The video that was posted yesterday was age-restricted and taken down... We wanted to make sure that this video got pushed out there as this is a case that we really really were impacted by. We apologize if this is your second time seeing this.

    • @shmutterflyyy4442
      @shmutterflyyy4442 Год назад +430

      I'm so glad! I got part of the way through it but had to stop because it was too emotional for where I was at the time and I was sad trying to find it again. Thank you for all that you do Stephanie and fam!!!!!

    • @haleyelenabeauty2615
      @haleyelenabeauty2615 Год назад +145

      Thank you For covering this case Stephanie.

    • @shun1590
      @shun1590 Год назад +63

      Thank you so much for all your hard work

    • @riversongap5798
      @riversongap5798 Год назад +35

      You are truly incredible!

    • @ravenhearth271
      @ravenhearth271 Год назад +66

      Great! I can finish this one. I wasn't done watching the episode when it was taken down. I needed to pause and step outside. When I was to resume, the video was already unavailable.

  • @jeanlee9569
    @jeanlee9569 Год назад +32851

    The shopkeeper who wanted the kids to have one last meal and fought for it really got to me. Humanity is important.

    • @Moi_81
      @Moi_81 Год назад +249

      Me too. Me too.

    • @jasonchow602
      @jasonchow602 Год назад

      illuminati dont care. UN dont care. north korea dont care. china dont care

    • @Lilac_31
      @Lilac_31 Год назад +427

      Preserving scenes also important.
      It's not like the police don't understand what this old man feels, probably would let him do this on the side anyway.

    • @ayameisastar
      @ayameisastar Год назад +366

      I mean his shop is right there. No reason he couldn't set up a shrine/last meal in his shop. Either way I'm glad the cops were nice to him and I'm sure they helped him move the items away.

    • @e6ytmnpe
      @e6ytmnpe Год назад +68

      That sounds like... an episode of the Korean dramas about ghost.
      When he said that... I immediately imagine the ghost 😭

  • @AxelMacopelli
    @AxelMacopelli 6 месяцев назад +7941

    158 reports made before the incident began, and they dispatched 4 officers. I have no words

    • @mmaxine1331
      @mmaxine1331 6 месяцев назад +222

      I wish the biggest whiner in the world could whine about Korean police for once

    • @gypsywoman9140
      @gypsywoman9140 5 месяцев назад +316

      ....nearly one call for every life lost...damn

    • @EzraMerr
      @EzraMerr 5 месяцев назад +18

      It's natural selection, stop blaming the authorities and asking for more regulations that eventually lead to stagnation of evolution and innovation. It sounds cold and insensitive but this is reality. Obviously we have sympathy for the victims and their families, but when everyone is stuck or somehow not moving over obstacles that's clear sign of lacking something in the frontal lobe.

    • @storyteller4613
      @storyteller4613 5 месяцев назад +306

      ​@@EzraMerrSo you're blaming the people instead,I don't understand your point of view...

    • @Angels-Grace
      @Angels-Grace 5 месяцев назад +20

      @@EzraMerr Most of them lack situational awareness

  • @StarryEyed80
    @StarryEyed80 4 месяца назад +1310

    I was caught in a crowd surge during Super Bowl 2004 in Downtown Houston. It was the longest 15 minutes of my life. Luckily the crowd made it to an opening. I cried for hours it was terrifying. The man up against me grabbed me by the waist and tried to life me up but he couldn’t. We couldn’t move. He kept me as calm as possible. I wish I could thank him

    • @walter-vq1fw
      @walter-vq1fw 4 месяца назад +120

      This comment section made me realize how common crowd surges are. Insane that there aren't more measures to prevent them. It takes a lot of people dying for any legal entity to care

    • @olivebrosnan4437
      @olivebrosnan4437 3 месяца назад +35

      ⁠@@walter-vq1fwthey’re very common in crowded spaces such as concerts or sports events. It’s why at some concerts you’ll see someone, possibly the singer of the band /music artist you’re watching, stage dive into the crowd because the massive amount of people can catch them or cushion their fall.
      It was especially common when festival seating was allowed in concerts. Basically this means “first come, first serve” and people would push and shove through other attendees to get the best seats even when that meant pushing them to the ground and risk another living being being trampled by other concert goers. The aftermath of multiple crowd surges resulting in crushes and trampling made festival seatings in certain countries illegal.
      However crowd surges will happen. If the surge happens in an open area like the outside with no obstructions like buildings, objects that might make you trip, etc., the crowd will move like an ocean wave, move to the direction the crowd is moving. If it’s in a tightly packed space like a stadium or small venue, you’ll probably have to rely on the people around you to keep you up right . If you can try to climb using rails or windows or just whatever is available.
      If you’re trying to survive a crush or stampede, even if you feel yourself stepping on someone, you may have no choice but to keep going. It’s a horrifying thing to say but unfortunately you’ll risk getting crushed or trampled yourself if you try to help those who have fallen.
      That’s all I really know, there’s a lot of crowd crushes and they’re also common in a burning building full of multiple people like a nightclub or even a hotel. My advice for if a deadly fire happens at a nightclub or hotel you’re not familiar with? Follow the employees, the people who work there. They’ll know the ins and outs of the building and could be your best chance at survival.
      Sorry for being weeks late on this comment.

    • @fae206
      @fae206 2 месяца назад +8

      Not so much, but I went to a concert one time to see a Japanese band with my friends who had sung songs for anime series when they were touring in the US. I got knocked over and stepped on by people dancing and jumping before someone yelled that I had fallen down and everyone stopped and helped me up and asked if I was okay. (It was hot and I got dehydrated) it definitely wasn’t to the extreme but these days I avoid standing concerts for that reason
      For more info, it was 2006 (I was 16) and water was $6 a bottle

    • @chekhovsgun4554
      @chekhovsgun4554 2 месяца назад +3

      Had similar experiences at concerts. I only experienced a crowd surge very briefly (mere seconds) and it was one of the scariest sensations I have ever experienced. I stay far away from big concerts and events like that because of that very brief feeling.

    • @alexis-n.a
      @alexis-n.a Месяц назад +3

      @@fae206thank God you’re okay today❤ and thank God for the person who yelled out to help you❤ I’m sorry you had to deal with that, at 16yrs old I would sneak into EDM concerts which was silly of me and I’d come out bruised by being so pushed by the masses unto the front row bars - but nothing life threatening thankfully

  • @NaDee-mh2po
    @NaDee-mh2po 2 месяца назад +343

    The way you provided background of many of the victims to make sure people wouldn't think they were to blame for what happened ... Thank you for doing that.

  • @Charlo_imsingleforever
    @Charlo_imsingleforever Год назад +6740

    The guy who tried his best to do chest compressions for his girlfriend for over an hour almost brought me to tears. I can't imagine what that guy was feeling.

    • @Crazy_Hailey
      @Crazy_Hailey 11 месяцев назад +192

      I was trying so hard not to cry this whole time and when I heard this part literally started crying I feel so bad for the victims and there families fly high🕊️❤

    • @animelifeforever88
      @animelifeforever88 11 месяцев назад +78

      Literally same. I actually cried at each clip, it’s just devastating, and that couple broke my heart

    • @michaezell4607
      @michaezell4607 11 месяцев назад +111

      I felt equally bad for the police officer who lamented that had he had a megaphone he might have been able to do more to get the message to people to turn back before entering the alley. I'm sure that his inability to communicate with the crowd due to the incessant noise weighs heavily on his heart.

    • @DRAG0N_TTV1
      @DRAG0N_TTV1 10 месяцев назад +13

      I feel so bad for him

    • @aquaticats7118
      @aquaticats7118 10 месяцев назад +48

      This is what broke me
      My boyfriend and I reach 2 years today and it broke my heart to put myself in this man’s shoes.
      I couldn’t begin to imagine the emotions he would be feeling for that whole hour, the despair when he realised she’s not coming back, the exhaustion from performing CPR mixed with the mind breaking understanding that he lost his love forever.

  • @Prettypoisonswitch
    @Prettypoisonswitch 11 месяцев назад +4734

    The elderly gentleman trying to give the victims one last meal broke my heart. He was so thoughtful. I wasn't expecting to cry so soon into the video.

    • @michaezell4607
      @michaezell4607 11 месяцев назад +73

      It goes to show just how much this tragedy has effected everyone.

    • @Drenched_InPurple
      @Drenched_InPurple 4 месяца назад +15

      I know
      Imagine how many of them died hungry and breathless
      This is just so tragic and depressing

    • @romdom9406
      @romdom9406 27 дней назад +3

      and what does the police try to do, the 10 police officers now trying to stop him? 10 police officers, where was at least 10 when the surge was happening?

  • @Vampri.i
    @Vampri.i Месяц назад +101

    32:19 BROKE MY HEART. You can see so clearly the fear, worry and sadness in his eyes and can even hear the worry in his voice. To think that so many police didn't do anything it's so shocking to see how much an officer who wasn't even dispatched to the scene cared.

  • @SaturnGrl
    @SaturnGrl 5 месяцев назад +505

    My mom said she used to frequent Itaewon when she was a teenager, and that was nearly 60-years ago. It was always a popular party place for young people. She was shocked to hear about this when the tragedy occurred. She walked through there in February 2023, remembering what it was like when she was young. She still could not believe so many young people died in the same place she used to "play" as a teenager.

    • @Myhalamanz
      @Myhalamanz 3 месяца назад +4

      I partially blame the party culture

    • @milkywaycafe.
      @milkywaycafe. 28 дней назад +8

      ​@Myhalamanz
      This wasn't about partying, crowds like this can happen in all sorts of places at all sorts of event

    • @alaelensar95
      @alaelensar95 2 дня назад

      @@Myhalamanz This can happen in any type of crowd, people have gotten hurt at concerts, even sales. Crowds can get out of hand easily in many ways, we all like to think tragedy won't happen to us.

  • @machazychaz
    @machazychaz Год назад +7718

    "Maybe we could've saved just one more person" really shows you how much he cares about each and every individual.

    • @woofmeow5752
      @woofmeow5752 Год назад +113

      That reminds me of a scene in Schindler’s list where he is looking at anything valuable he owns left. A pin, his car, and crying he could of sold it to save one more person. I sobbed at that scene both times I watched it at school. People doing the best they can, nitpicking every little thing they did because they will never beleive it was enough.

    • @FigureUnboxing
      @FigureUnboxing Год назад +17

      The tragedy could have been avoided EASILY if only people on both ends of the queue walked away quickly....

    • @machazychaz
      @machazychaz Год назад +108

      @@FigureUnboxing and how are they supposed to know they need to walk away? It's like you didn't even watch the video.

    • @WH0S_3L1Z4
      @WH0S_3L1Z4 Год назад +18

      @@FigureUnboxing how would they know?Hv u even watched the video-

    • @ElkyXAnimations
      @ElkyXAnimations Год назад

      @@FigureUnboxing You are disrespectful pls watch the goddam video

  • @kirikakirikakirika
    @kirikakirikakirika Год назад +9246

    My friend is Canadian, but she was teaching English in Korea at the time. She was 10 minutes away from the scene and two of her friends died in the crowd. Despite being 10 minutes away, she could hear the screams when people started to realise what was going on. She thought a bomb went off.

    • @Imcoolerthenyouxx
      @Imcoolerthenyouxx Год назад +286

      That’s very sad :(

    • @DicedTea
      @DicedTea Год назад +259

      I am so sorry for your friend’s friends. May they rest in peace. ❤

    • @flwr_89
      @flwr_89 Год назад +119

      That's so terrifying

    • @1995marixsa
      @1995marixsa Год назад +62

      This is so sad

    • @naosch94
      @naosch94 Год назад +146

      My sister was there too when it happened she went out that night I can only thank god that nothing happened to her, this story is just so tragic

  • @rachelmazza4079
    @rachelmazza4079 4 месяца назад +340

    I was in a minor crowd surge in London in 2015 during the Christmas lighting. It was so crowded that my feet were not touching the ground for about a minute. Thankfully we were able to disperse safely because there were many side roads. But that feeling of having nowhere to go and being lifted beyond your own control is terrifying. I can’t imagine what this was like oh my god

    • @sshii
      @sshii 2 месяца назад +6

      So glad you are okay! I’m sorry you were put in such a scary situation.

    • @chekhovsgun4554
      @chekhovsgun4554 Месяц назад +4

      It is the singular scariest situation i have ever been in myself..never again. I cannot imagine the terror the victims felt. :C

  • @LenniMay
    @LenniMay 2 месяца назад +86

    This has to be THE MOST heart breaking, heart wrenching stories you’ve ever covered… literally crying…

    • @vincentrodriguez6253
      @vincentrodriguez6253 7 дней назад +1

      It' definitely gives the her Sewol Ferry vid a run for its money (in terms of heartbreak and tears)

  • @MooWuu
    @MooWuu Год назад +5089

    That police officer trying to warn ppl and immediately tried to help is a saint and is a perfect example of what a police officer should be. RIP to all those innocent ppl, and thank u to those who helped ❤️

    • @TecTitan
      @TecTitan Год назад +133

      Imagine how much better off they'd all be if there were more men like officer kim

    • @d.k.t.3380
      @d.k.t.3380 Год назад +66

      There is only one choice for a new Itaewon Police Chief: the only officer on that force the public has any trust in anymore...

    • @_nob0dy_297
      @_nob0dy_297 11 месяцев назад +5

      Agreed
      Rip

    • @swannygaming_roblox
      @swannygaming_roblox 11 месяцев назад +2

      @@_nob0dy_297true😢

    • @swannygaming_roblox
      @swannygaming_roblox 11 месяцев назад +1

      True😢

  • @theblondetornado3768
    @theblondetornado3768 5 месяцев назад +3212

    The police are AT FAULT. Not only were they not there, they didn’t respond to multiple calls saying something bad was going to happen! 😢

    • @peaceowen3709
      @peaceowen3709 4 месяца назад +32

      It's incredibly evil! Jesus.

    • @valerieanimagus6230
      @valerieanimagus6230 4 месяца назад +78

      @@peaceowen3709with Sewol, etc, SK gov seems so inept. Not just that, it’s like they don’t care! So many people could have been saved!

    • @Dot.99999
      @Dot.99999 4 месяца назад +42

      ​@@valerieanimagus6230Same thing with the ferry incident. They just pretended to help until it was too late. It's as if they don't care like you said- so many beautiful and young people have lost their lives to careless and ignorant people. It begs the question- how many people's lives will be at risk for the government or the police to do something?

    • @frogz8317
      @frogz8317 4 месяца назад +36

      Definetely the people getting the phone calls and calling the shot are to blame but random emergency responders like that one cop desperately yelling at the crowd did everything they could in the moment.

    • @judithcalandre8716
      @judithcalandre8716 3 месяца назад +7

      And there wasn't prevention, organisation... They knew after pandemic that area would recieve that much people...

  • @Aeneasiliaca
    @Aeneasiliaca 3 месяца назад +119

    I will never understand how anyone can judge or blame the people caught in a crowd surge. It’s almost inhuman.

  • @davs714
    @davs714 2 месяца назад +59

    Wish Stephanie specifically touched on the fact that a lot of the early calls to police were ignored bc the older generation has biased thinking that younger people are irresponsible, lazy, and just like to party.
    So a significant factor in the lack of police response was that those people in itaewon were this "lazy, drinking" type who should not be partying anyway and thus no need to respond in a timely manner if at all

  • @jujuoof174
    @jujuoof174 7 месяцев назад +2245

    These videos are SO important. Stats are just stats, but storytelling like this gives us the empathy to make stats feel like PEOPLE

    • @lll9693
      @lll9693 5 месяцев назад +3

      but like are these stories all true? Wjhere'd they come from I mean I doubt anyone is so horrible as to make up stories about these poor victims but like I just want to know where they all came from they're so detailed.

    • @sarahmanal9809
      @sarahmanal9809 5 месяцев назад +64

      ​@@lll9693 many news outlets interview the victims family members and obviously there are lists if victims so she probably got it from news channels

    • @Lost_in_my_basement
      @Lost_in_my_basement 4 месяца назад

      @@lll9693she always hires investigators and translators… and even sometimes she interviews or reaches out to families of the victims herself… she does her research

    • @scraidywolf7081
      @scraidywolf7081 4 месяца назад +3

      Being a Canadian I really appreciate stories like this. Different cultures experience tragedy. Tragedy doesn't discriminate

    • @TeeNicole10
      @TeeNicole10 4 месяца назад +2

      RIP TO ALL💔🥺 GOD BLESS THEM ALL 🙌💜🙏

  • @NightofOrion
    @NightofOrion 6 месяцев назад +3419

    The worst part about Lee Ji Han was that he wasn't even out partying, he was on his way home after filming. He lived in Itaewon and noticed the girl. He could have left her there and kept going, but he didn't. He only got stuck because he went to help her. Such a senseless loss of life that could have been prevented.

    • @goddamn-3702
      @goddamn-3702 3 месяца назад +35

      That's called humanity, if you don't know.

    • @zodo2476
      @zodo2476 3 месяца назад +150

      @@goddamn-3702 Wow got real sherlock over here. Fantastic contribution.

    • @goddamn-3702
      @goddamn-3702 3 месяца назад +2

      @@zodo2476 got the dumas.s over here, L zodo😂😂

    • @HikaruCrystal8
      @HikaruCrystal8 3 месяца назад +96

      ​@goddamn-3702 It's sad that you're here trying to make a snide comment where none should exist. Obviously the OP knows that what the young man did was good. They're just upset he had to die. Please just get a life already

    • @goddamn-3702
      @goddamn-3702 3 месяца назад +13

      @@HikaruCrystal8 he lost his life is a different thing, but the fact that he helped is just great. The comment above says he got stuck coz of his senseless help. Helps are never senseless, he showed how he cared and unfortunately passed away. You get a life and have a better mindset kindly :) I already have a better life than yours, fortunately.

  • @zombiemanjosh
    @zombiemanjosh 4 месяца назад +65

    No parent should ever experience the pain of outliving their child.

  • @NUFAN1313
    @NUFAN1313 3 месяца назад +63

    I just found your channel and have been binging it the last two days. I don't normally start crying until way later in your videos, but that old man and police officer made me sob.

  • @clarissa22
    @clarissa22 Год назад +3504

    “The government focused on their image, rather than prioritizing lives.”
    Is the most true statement I’ve heard. Most countries seem to have this issue…

    • @ladyrose508
      @ladyrose508 Год назад +75

      I'm from the U.S. & it's obvious the leaders of our country's first priority is to protect themselves. Much love to S. Korea from New York City.

    • @ravindrarawatbisht4883
      @ravindrarawatbisht4883 Год назад +5

      Truee

    • @pumkin610
      @pumkin610 Год назад +51

      Corporations can run smear campaigns to cover up their mistakes, like that lady who was severely burned by coffee, they made her look stupid and greedy when in reality the workers made the coffee dangerously hot, I wonder if the coffee melted the container hmm

    • @d.k.t.3380
      @d.k.t.3380 Год назад +17

      Sadly, that statement has been true since Cain looked sideways at Abel.
      The part that needs to scare us as a collective? the politicians primarily rising to power all around us are the ones that have perfected it...

    • @voxdarling8631
      @voxdarling8631 Год назад

      I hate that I have to say this, but it’s honestly very true, especially someone from the US and a lot of other places. You honestly can’t trust the government, it’s corrupted to where it feels like it can’t be saved.

  • @BenficaFem
    @BenficaFem 5 месяцев назад +2280

    Had no idea about the men who filmed dead girls just because they were unclothed. How vile.

    • @zizojaezekeom3565
      @zizojaezekeom3565 4 месяца назад +1

      Men being disgusting... Again 😢

    • @WinniePooh33
      @WinniePooh33 4 месяца назад +59

      🤢

    • @cookie5535
      @cookie5535 4 месяца назад +25

      how would anyone know thats the reason their filming them? most the people there were livestreaming and videotaping

    • @BenficaFem
      @BenficaFem 4 месяца назад

      She stated on the video many of these videos were later uploaded to porn sites. Filming of women in S Korea is widespread too @@cookie5535

    • @SukunaYaoi
      @SukunaYaoi 4 месяца назад +41

      ​@peeira_ you can easily download videos from someone else though. Why do u think videos gets stolen

  • @TheSilverAfro
    @TheSilverAfro 4 месяца назад +60

    I discovered this channel last week, and I have to say, I absolutely love the compassion with which you tell these stories. Thank you for sharing these stories, as tragic as they are, there are lessons to be learned from each one.

  • @skygemini70
    @skygemini70 4 месяца назад +95

    Thank you all for giving a genuinely loving voice to the silenced, with every show you do. We're better for knowing these stories. We love and appreciate you more than you know. ❤

  • @Megan-sb2ju
    @Megan-sb2ju Год назад +4864

    The lack of police response despite so many alerts is horrifying. Can you imagine if after those first calls, several officers came down and blocked off crowded area and directed traffic and had the music stopped? My heart goes out to the victims and their families.

    • @jemarseannyabut8519
      @jemarseannyabut8519 Год назад +196

      More of them are STUPID almost thousand of call was received but none responded

    • @Megan-sb2ju
      @Megan-sb2ju Год назад +318

      @@msferz9177 I get what you're saying, later on there was little police could do. However, I'm referring to the very early calls that happened before the panic and injuries truly set in. This tragedy was preventable.

    • @lmjrenee
      @lmjrenee Год назад +21

      To be fair in Korean people don’t really listen to the police some of them even fight the cops

    • @kenny995
      @kenny995 Год назад +165

      ​@@msferz9177 they most definitely could have foreseen such an event, maybe not to that scale, but they should have planned better. I've been apart of events where I helped direct people and lived in big cities where massive events happen and the police are very diligent. At the very minimum they could have taken the early calls seriously and done something about it, but they chose to ignore it. They could have stepped in much sooner and helped prevent or at least reduce the effects of this, but they intentionally chose not to. Police officials weren't just arrested for the heIl of it, they were arrested because they were seriously negligent and need to be held responsible.

    • @taras9655
      @taras9655 Год назад +113

      @@msferz9177 I blame the police as an institution, in terms of those higher up who actually direct officers on where to go and what their orders are. The officers on the scene surely tried their best, but the lack of action among the higher ups is horrific and they are 100% to blame. The numerous calls before the event should have been sign enough, the police are not stupid they are TRAINED for situations such as these. To ignore clear warning signs that REGULAR CIVILIANS were recognising? There's no excuse for it. They were aware of how large the event would be, they literally had plans that they simply didn't put in motion. Excessive crowds ALWAYS end in either crushes or stampedes. This comment is acting as if police aren't trained to use foresight. They are. There's no excuse.

  • @myusicc
    @myusicc 8 месяцев назад +2068

    My best friend and her fiancé were about to head to itaewon that night, but her fiancé got an eerie feeling. He said he felt so off about going there. They were dressed and ready to get on the train. My best friend said if you don’t feel like it’s a good idea let’s go back to your parents. And they did. She called me crying that night. Hearing it from her was so heartbreaking. While I was glad they listened to his hunch, I still feel so sick and sad for all those who died.

    • @speakevermore
      @speakevermore 7 месяцев назад +137

      Thank goodness for her fiancé's intuition and for your best friend listening to him. I hope they are doing well today.

    • @Liu-ju9ll
      @Liu-ju9ll 4 месяца назад +2

      Sixth sense?

    • @user-yq9vp5zf4n
      @user-yq9vp5zf4n 10 дней назад +1

      Sometimes it oay to listen to your hunches

  • @user-gm7um3zi6b
    @user-gm7um3zi6b 3 месяца назад +30

    I just want to thank you for putting these together. It's cases I've never heard before finally and you're a great story teller. Listening to you tell stories, even ones I've heard a hundred times, is amazing. You're truly gifted with this.

  • @BoomChakaLaka26
    @BoomChakaLaka26 3 месяца назад +22

    You mean to tell me nobody could cut the cord to the music the entire time? Madness.

    • @mirang9884
      @mirang9884 3 месяца назад +2

      I know, it's infuriating!

  • @gabijamatutyte4900
    @gabijamatutyte4900 Год назад +4591

    The way this woman is telling this whole story makes it seem less far away. she shows a lot of emotion.

    • @Raev222
      @Raev222 Год назад +367

      Everytime she chokes up I do too. She's very, very empathetic.

    • @seer873
      @seer873 Год назад +126

      Bro I’m actually sobbing right now wtf 😭😭😭

    • @Novalove2820
      @Novalove2820 Год назад +174

      And the fact she was still able to tell it while almost breaking down is amazing. You can tell she has to cut to after she cried, and I feel like that adds to this whole episode. It's awful that this happened, and she cares.

    • @DoughyDewey
      @DoughyDewey Год назад +33

      thats how she tell stories always full of emotion sometimes idk if she add some spice here and there or not

    • @marb5110
      @marb5110 Год назад +45

      I am listening at work and had to go to the restroom because i actually started crying. Such a tragedy.

  • @TaylorMarie831
    @TaylorMarie831 7 месяцев назад +2963

    Seeing the officer trying to get people to leave was absolutely horrifying and heartbreaking. I hope he’s okay :/

    • @Iridescent_System
      @Iridescent_System 5 месяцев назад +74

      The scariest part is even turned all the way up, I could barely hear him over the music...

    • @rachelmazza4079
      @rachelmazza4079 4 месяца назад +83

      That poor man was trying so hard. He looked so scared but could not communicate how dire the situation was because no one could hear him

    • @naurbila
      @naurbila 4 месяца назад +23

      His voice omg the desperation

    • @naurbila
      @naurbila 4 месяца назад +22

      @@Iridescent_Systemright like imagine being there and all you hear is giant speakers blasting music OVER police orders

    • @claressia2512
      @claressia2512 4 месяца назад +7

      That was so heartbreaking.

  • @melsoft121
    @melsoft121 Месяц назад +25

    I work at an entertainment venue and I honestly believe that people who make safety decisions for anywhere that has entertainment should have to watch the footage from crowd management and fire safety related disasters regularly so they never forget what is at stake when they make their decisions. There is so much research and science into how to prevent these kinds of tragedies and there is absolutely no reason for them to still be happening.

  • @juliadevore9602
    @juliadevore9602 3 месяца назад +20

    This made me cry multiple times. Thank you for sharing

  • @dearsookie
    @dearsookie Год назад +4280

    thank you for making these people’s deaths more than just a number. we’re so desensitized to things like these usually on social media because there’s a new tragedy every week, but you really humanized their stories and i appreciate that. cried many times, you’re amazing for even making this steph

  • @Emma-pq6ds
    @Emma-pq6ds 8 месяцев назад +4506

    When you hear big numbers of deaths in the media it just turns into statistics. We don’t think about how each of these individual deaths has loved ones grieving for them. It just turns into numbers instead of lives. Hearing stories from the families of these victims is really touching. I hope the survivors and the victims loved ones are doing well.

    • @Neoncloud2428
      @Neoncloud2428 8 месяцев назад +34

      When I was younger I didn't really cry to stuff like this but I honestly cry to anyone dying now even in kids movies I start crying so I'm not rlly that type to not rlly care I rlly do care about this

    • @Mahlak_Mriuani_Anatman
      @Mahlak_Mriuani_Anatman 8 месяцев назад +2

      Everybody is stats to me tbh

    • @ilovedaydreaming222
      @ilovedaydreaming222 8 месяцев назад +39

      @@Mahlak_Mriuani_Anatman wow ur so cool

    • @ihopeidontwakeup
      @ihopeidontwakeup 7 месяцев назад +28

      @@Mahlak_Mriuani_Anatman youre just a stat to me too tbh

    • @jujuoof174
      @jujuoof174 7 месяцев назад +5

      Yes, EXACTLY. These videos are SO important…

  • @masonmcnair5900
    @masonmcnair5900 4 месяца назад +30

    Stephanie Soo I am sitting here crying with you through this. I know it isn't easy being a voice for the deceased and tell there story but you did this with so much heart and care. To see you cry through this also just shows that you care and have a heart when making your videos unlike other youtubers. Thank you for being you!!!!

  • @amandamansour8263
    @amandamansour8263 4 месяца назад +7

    steph i am so used to ur voice i fall asleep and a whole playlist i’ve gone thru. Thank u for bringing the toughest stories to life so gracefully 😢❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @DragonBonder
    @DragonBonder Год назад +3458

    The dad who said "there's a term for children who lost their parents: orphans. but there's none for parents who lost their children. I think i know what the term should be: sinners. I feel so guilty"
    oh my gosh that really broke me. please please, i hope they realise it's not their fault and they shouldn't feel this guilt.

    • @trulytrue3661
      @trulytrue3661 Год назад +24

      Childless - without a child. Sonless -without a son. Daughterless-without a daughter. You call the parents sinners (lawless ones) and then claim it is not their fault. Really? You are telling the parents they sinned that is why they lost their children, so it is their fault. Maybe if they were raised better they would still be alive, isn't that what you are saying?

    • @nanoj7860
      @nanoj7860 Год назад +305

      @@trulytrue3661 I think you read this wrong. They were quoting what the dad said, they never said that.

    • @DragonBonder
      @DragonBonder Год назад +164

      @@trulytrue3661 that whole chunk in quotation marks was quoted from the father of a victim

    • @trulytrue3661
      @trulytrue3661 Год назад +2

      @@DragonBonder Okay.

    • @jenellenelson4447
      @jenellenelson4447 11 месяцев назад +141

      ​@@trulytrue3661it's okay to be wrong. What's not okay is not owning up to it. Instead of saying "okay." "Oops I totally read that wrong my bad, my heart goes out to the family." Accountability goes a long way

  • @baoge4591
    @baoge4591 Год назад +3010

    As someone who has worked in public safety for a decade, this is upsetting, unaccountable negligence from the authorities.

    • @Kavin-Mason
      @Kavin-Mason Год назад +48

      100% correct

    • @remrem-gx3ml
      @remrem-gx3ml Год назад +5

      welcome to earth

    • @kumikohigurashi5366
      @kumikohigurashi5366 Год назад +72

      Seeing the videos of people even far away it was OBVIOUS how dangerous that was. Negligence that should never be forgotten nor forgiven

    • @anubizz3
      @anubizz3 Год назад +6

      @@kumikohigurashi5366 Then why people still want to go in? even when people start dying alot of people still hang around there tempering the rescue effort.

    • @adamc.2230
      @adamc.2230 Год назад +24

      @@anubizz3 because despite of the noted kind people who tried their best to spare lives, it's a party. there more assholes in those kinds of events wherever you go. it's their turf.

  • @joeyveit4198
    @joeyveit4198 4 месяца назад +13

    I recently found your podcast..and i i got to say i friggin love it..the way you tell a story is so captivating..and i love that you cover things that are not mainstream! Thabk you l!!

  • @michelleleblanc1468
    @michelleleblanc1468 4 месяца назад +10

    Awesome episode. I’ve watched a lot about this incident and didn’t fully understand it until I saw this.

  • @MomoDearestt
    @MomoDearestt 7 месяцев назад +3013

    My older sister was there after it all went down. Greatfully, just only arrived on the scene after the tragedy. She told me she thought the bodies of the dead were halloween props at first. but quickly realised the severity of the situation and came to the conclusion that those were in fact, bodies of people, she turned the other direction and went home. She said that was the most traumatic scene she has ever came across. Seeing it made her traumatized. Imagine being there and surviving.
    My heart and prayers go out to the families of the dead.

    • @hasini2007
      @hasini2007 7 месяцев назад +92

      I am so glad she is safe❤

    • @Urmi35
      @Urmi35 7 месяцев назад +62

      Your sister was lucky. She may be traumatized for life

    • @sabrinaleedance
      @sabrinaleedance 6 месяцев назад +71

      I cant even imagine. You think your coming out for a fun night and stumble upon that. I hope she doesnt feel guilt either. I remember once I saw a man die at ab amusement park he was older and i dint know if it was a heart attack or a stroke or what but I watched all of it go down and just that 1 person stuck w me for like a week and shook me up. I cant even imagine what a scene like that feels like.

    • @Adoesntknowauser
      @Adoesntknowauser 5 месяцев назад +5

      I’m glad she’s safe and I hope she’s doing better now❤❤❤

    • @mikethegoo
      @mikethegoo 4 месяца назад +8

      I can only imagine what it's like arriving there and going
      "Oh, those are pretty nice and realistic Halloween prop-... Wait... Oh... OH... Yeaaah, okay never mind, I'm going home."
      Like... Jesus Christ

  • @flyingpigggies
    @flyingpigggies Год назад +4205

    I was there at Itaewon during Halloween. It was so bad...I couldn't even breath because people kept pushing me. I was stuck in a crowd for about ten minutes. At that moment, my bf told me that it was time to leave Itaewon and I agreed so fast. I was lucky that my boyfriend was with me so he was able to guide me out of the crowd, but it took forever to get out. We were able to get out of the alley, but after we did, that disaster happened...I couldn't believe my eyes when it happened...there was so much going through my head when everyone tumbled over...I was just in there and I escaped before it happened. I remember hearing the sirens and the police/ambulance telling everyone to leave Itaewon and to make more room. I remember them carrying bodies to the street and performing CPR...I was shocked because that could have been me there. As a medical person, I wanted to help perform CPR too but I couldn't help myself because it was so traumatic for me. I feel bad that I survived. I will never forget this day.
    Salute to those who helped, you're a hero. Those who were taken, I'm sorry.

    • @temari105
      @temari105 Год назад +452

      You were in shock. Don't blame yourself for that. I'm sorry you had to go through this. This shouldn't have happen.

    • @silberichcloe
      @silberichcloe Год назад +193

      Thanks you for your comment… I cry now because your story it’s exactly the same than mine. Just thank you so much I have the same feeling..

    • @vdeviialyssa4097
      @vdeviialyssa4097 Год назад +120

      glad you're safe, like really glad you weren't one of the 159 people it's so heartbreaking

    • @lenaboyer6981
      @lenaboyer6981 Год назад

      If you had died it would have been an even greater tragedy and higher body count. Every person who made it out alive is a blessing. I can’t imagine the survivor’s guilt, though, so I will just say that I wish you continued healing and thank you for sharing your experience.

    • @JohnWayne-86ed
      @JohnWayne-86ed Год назад +92

      I remember watching it on TV with my Yeobo, she's a very cold, apathetic person, I never see her cry but she did that day... I suppose, that's where she's from so it probably felt very personal. I'm glad you and your boyfriend made it out okay, you should never feel bad for that, only thankful.

  • @valerietaveras7163
    @valerietaveras7163 4 месяца назад +16

    This video is probably the first video to actually make me physically respond. Stephanies story telling makes me feel like i was there myself. There were moments where i felt like i couldn't breathe.

  • @expatstef
    @expatstef 4 месяца назад +18

    Hi Stephanie, I am in Seoul for the Lunar New Year holiday and knew I’d be in Itaewon this evening so I purposely watched your video beforehand to be educated on what went down. There is now a memorial panel of 3 large photos of the city with some info translated into multiple languages as you enter the alley from the metro. Also, there is a memorial tent by the City Hall full of portrait pictures of the fallen. A young woman with a baseball cap and face mask was there who looked to be like a grieving family member or a survivor. That was very powerful, especially after hearing the stories from you. Thanks for sharing.

  • @iliahgonzalez3994
    @iliahgonzalez3994 Год назад +1231

    OMG.. I started crying when you talked about the daughter who told her dad she needed him for another 70years.... When I was little, my dad promised he'd take care of me until I am 80.... Now he is 80, and I tell him I need him to be healthy because he has another 40years to go..... I know it's not possible, but the little girl in me wishes for forever.

    • @eajaros
      @eajaros Год назад +43

      I lost my father at 19 when he was 60 and I’m 33 now. To have your father in his 80’s is a gift!

    • @iliahgonzalez3994
      @iliahgonzalez3994 Год назад +29

      @@eajaros it really is.... I don't know what I would do without him. I am so sorry for your loss, you are very kind to say what you've said.

    • @SpaceCats07
      @SpaceCats07 Год назад +7

      I love my dad and my bonus dad if either of then died I'd don't what I'd do I need them both

    • @TecTitan
      @TecTitan Год назад +4

      Who knows?
      Modern medicine is getting kinda wild
      Losing parents is like the worst thing that happens that I wish could never happen

  • @OH_jiwon
    @OH_jiwon Год назад +3963

    I still remember that in every single group chat I was in, we did a count. Like attendance. Just to see if everyone was alive. And I was so scared when some of my friends didn't answer. Some of them I knew went to Itaewon. I must have texted everyone I know. The following weeks it wasn't "how are you doing?", it was "are you alive?".
    I woke up the day after Halloween to more than ten messages asking if I was alive. I had slept in until 10 because I drank the night before. I was the reason people worried. People thought I was dead. It took three days to confirm everyone in my class had made it. I got texts WEEKS later asking if I was alive. From people I hadn't talked to in years. It was tragic.
    The only reason I wasn't in Itaewon was because my homeroom teacher asked me not to. She said it was too dangerous. She even mentioned the alleyway. She might be the reason I'm alive today.

    • @lalalilian2482
      @lalalilian2482 Год назад +440

      even though im just a stranger on the internet, i am grateful that your teacher had warned you about it. im so glad everyone in your class is fine, and also the people that you haven’t talked to in years. it actually made me very happy - the fact that people you aren’t close to checked up on you and asked if you were still alive. this was tragic, and i hope you are okay

    • @idgon09
      @idgon09 Год назад +242

      The same happened in all of my chat groups. It began at 10:30 with some friends warning to not go to itaewon. One friend was in the area and going to walk through itaewon club street to get to his home and check out thr costumes, but turned around and found another path when he saw the warnings.

    • @redd9970
      @redd9970 Год назад +82

      holy shit. bless your teacher.

    • @acelyne
      @acelyne Год назад +96

      How did your homeroom teacher forsee the danger and not the government? 😢

    • @acelyne
      @acelyne Год назад +16

      ​@@idgon09 what warnings did he see?

  • @jessicarotten1181
    @jessicarotten1181 Месяц назад +1

    Stephanie, you are so easy to listen to. And I truly appreciate what you do! I'm binge watching RM I recently discovered your podcast. Keep it up girly!!

  • @Teisy_Z
    @Teisy_Z 4 дня назад +3

    I was there on the day before it happened, it was crowded that day too, to think that I was going to go the next day is crazy. Prayers to all of the ones lost on that day. May you all rest in peace.

  • @KittyGoRawr876
    @KittyGoRawr876 Год назад +3155

    Officer Kim really broke my heart. Seeing the footage of him trying so hard to guide the crowd and the desperation in his face and his screams broke me.
    So many victims of this tragedy. Prayers to all those suffering 🤍

    • @ms.juhntialit3008
      @ms.juhntialit3008 Год назад +11

      Me too 😢😢😢

    • @gw6667
      @gw6667 Год назад +1

      Rest in chaos

    • @JayXDagger
      @JayXDagger Год назад +8

      Ngl it's hard to watch

    • @rialovesmusic8422
      @rialovesmusic8422 Год назад +38

      that feeling of HELPLESSNESS kills you
      you know what's happening, you are trying to prevent it but....
      when she said - many ppl are dressed like that :((

    • @gw6667
      @gw6667 Год назад

      @@rialovesmusic8422 Sexy police officer to help!

  • @zeoru
    @zeoru 5 месяцев назад +2369

    I know its been over a year but I wanted to share the memory of two people who lost their life in the crowd crush.
    My friend Rauf was from Uzbekistan and was a bartender who was finishing his last year in university. He was genuinely one of the friendliest people that everyone loved and always had a goofy smile on his face. He put others above himself and honestly didn't deserve for this to happen to him.
    Another person who I knew but was not close with was a girl named Juliana. I believe she was from Russia and though I did not know her very well, she was always kind when we interacted. She was beautiful and kind.
    My friends and I were going to go to Itaewon that night but decided to stop at Hongdae before to eat dinner. After hearing about how crowded it was, we decided against going and I could not be more thankful for our groups decision. When we were out at 2am in Hongdae, we started seeing the news about the death count in Itaewon and some of the friend group were worried about the people we knew in Itaewon. When you're in this sort of situation, you never expect people you know to be in danger you know? You have faith that nothing bad could possibly happen even if they were there. We made contact with someone and he told us not to worry about the others even though they were separated because they probably just lost their phone and he told us to just keep having fun as everything will probably be alright. It wasn't. We eventually went home the next morning because subways weren't open and had to sleep without knowing what exactly happened to our friends. We sent messages out to the people we knew hoping that they would reply. We made contact with some parents worried for their children and had to contact our friends for them, and most of the time they wouldn't pick up because their phones were dead. We eventually heard news about the death of our friend and at first, I felt nothing. Honestly, I don't think that the emotions hit yet. It was hard to really believe. The emotions didn't hit until we eventually went to his funeral and I saw his covered body, and I realized I wouldn't really see him again.
    I would like to say that there is one friend, S, that blames himself because when they were in the crowd, S lost Rauf's hand. He thinks if he could just hold on, then Rauf would still be here. I want to tell S that it's not his fault. I mean, we all told him it wasn't. But I'm so sorry to S that feels this way.
    I cannot imagine the pain of the family that have to deal with the grief of the situation even now.
    I feel guilty that I am happy that we didn't go because a my friend didn't survive.
    I'm so sorry Rauf and Juliana. May you both rest in peace.

    • @LEYENDAZTECA
      @LEYENDAZTECA 4 месяца назад +72

      Thank you for sharing your memories, it must have been so hard 😢 I can't imagine that happening to my friends, thankfully they live in your memories and the many hearts of others whom they shared their life with

    • @dr.gwendolyncarter5048
      @dr.gwendolyncarter5048 4 месяца назад +9

    • @nina-cy5dd
      @nina-cy5dd 4 месяца назад +27

      Oh how awful. May they rest in eternal peace, thank you for sharing and I’m so sorry for your loss. I hope S comes to understand that it wasn’t their fault, they couldn’t have controlled what happened.

    • @peaceowen3709
      @peaceowen3709 4 месяца назад +18

      Thank you for sharing this. It is important that every single story about every single person be kept alive for as long as we all collectively can. I am sorry for your loss, and the amount of guilt you carry still. I pray you, S and all other relatives and survivors find peace.

    • @CaliPane
      @CaliPane 4 месяца назад +9

      Prayers for them and their loved ones

  • @katie_v003
    @katie_v003 Месяц назад +5

    this is such a horrible case. i’m praying for all of the victim’s families. as well as you, Stephanie. i can tell this is one of the hardest cases you’ve talked about and trying not to cry must’ve been so difficult. thank you for keeping us aware of this situation. we appreciate all you do

  • @jacquelinemetivier6941
    @jacquelinemetivier6941 3 месяца назад +4

    Thank you for breaking down this event. I can only imagine how difficult it was for you because it was difficult of how difficult it was to hear it. Although there can be no consolation to a parent who has lost a child, I pray their souls can find peace within this immense sorrow.

  • @Suzy24
    @Suzy24 Год назад +8993

    The people who blame the victims for just wanting to have a fun Halloween are disgusting

    • @LadyMFUnicorn
      @LadyMFUnicorn 11 месяцев назад +117

      So much that they probably hate themselves

    • @seesaweffect8095
      @seesaweffect8095 11 месяцев назад +555

      people blame victims to feel like theyre in control. the thought that tragedy and misfortune could happen to anyone no matter what is too scary, so they convince themselves that the victim MUST have done something wrong.

    • @elyalvarz
      @elyalvarz 11 месяцев назад +273

      @@seesaweffect8095Hmm… victim-blaming is disgusting, but I never stopped to think of it as a defense mechanism. Interesting.

    • @ultrav5012
      @ultrav5012 11 месяцев назад +75

      @@elyalvarz A lot of it is indirect hate to exponential increase in narcissism. People think others die because they are "too overconfident in their own abilities." Yeah, I don't get how it works but I've heard it around a few times.

    • @ovinedreamer1451
      @ovinedreamer1451 10 месяцев назад +103

      @@ultrav5012 There's the argument of "oh well everyone knows pushing people is bad! So they did a bad thing!". History has shown us that crushes like this get out of control so quickly, and once you're in it there's nothing you can do but try and push your way through and out. Anyone who blames the victims here has clearly never been stuck in a moving crowd.

  • @cinderellasglassslipper777
    @cinderellasglassslipper777 Год назад +3268

    The fact that I as a outsider am feeling this amount of sadness & rage & disgust.... I can only imagine how the parents, partners and other people affected would feel..

    • @Susumiyahh
      @Susumiyahh Год назад +83

      Especially that man who lost his girlfriend:(

    • @exotic_donuts2069
      @exotic_donuts2069 Год назад +45

      @@Susumiyahh I totally broke down hearing that it’s so sad

    • @aubreysong
      @aubreysong Год назад +71

      I'm not even Korean or living in South Korea, but I never knew I would have this kinda feeling again after Sowol Ferry Incident. The two incidents is actually really avoidable.
      I couldn't even imagine how resentful and anger South Korean citizen feelings.
      I pray peaceful for the victims, RIP. Also may their family and friends also get peaceful and redeem.

    • @angelastrouse3003
      @angelastrouse3003 Год назад +21

      I've been crying almost this whole video and if I'm crying this much as an outsider the victims relatives have to be doing 1000x worse and I just feel so bad for them.

    • @Kai452007
      @Kai452007 Год назад +11

      It was horrible. The whole country was in mourning for days. It's all I could think about and feel. I remember it took weeks before a single day could go by where I didn't think about this.
      Yet, I was one of the lucky ones. Unlike many friends, I wasn't there that night. Only because I was moving soon when my friends headed there around 10, I went home to get an early night so I could pack more in the morning.

  • @brittwhatever1467
    @brittwhatever1467 3 месяца назад +8

    I’ve watched MANY MANY of your videos
    This one got me 😭

  • @billiebair5664
    @billiebair5664 2 месяца назад +7

    this is literally my worst nightmare but i sat through every last second because you really cover the case and the victims. Few people can handle true crime with such grace

  • @peenyweeny3834
    @peenyweeny3834 Год назад +4241

    this is, no joke, the first true crime video ive seen that actually shows empathy towards the victims

    • @HappyPhantom668
      @HappyPhantom668 Год назад +240

      I can recommend Coffeehouse Crime, he’s really respectful and empathic imo.

    • @peenyweeny3834
      @peenyweeny3834 Год назад +68

      @@HappyPhantom668 ty for the recommendation ill go check him out ^_^

    • @AJ_1namillion
      @AJ_1namillion 11 месяцев назад +78

      Danielle hallen, Danielle kristy and Elenor Neale show a lot of compassion too.

    • @peenyweeny3834
      @peenyweeny3834 11 месяцев назад +25

      @@AJ_1namillion thank you for the recs!

    • @person8999
      @person8999 11 месяцев назад +70

      I have almost never cried, I cannot remember the last time I cried, but this, it just made me tear up, hearing their voices.

  • @kixkicks139
    @kixkicks139 Год назад +8223

    I remember seeing that officer in videos and he was so desperate. I could feel his heartbreak just in that moment of seeing the chaos and unable to stop it. I hope he knows he’s still a hero. Among many many others. You cared and tried. But we’re all only human.

    • @kixkicks139
      @kixkicks139 Год назад +53

      Love you Stephanie. I know this had to be hard to cover

    • @Candice7
      @Candice7 Год назад +37

      It broke my heart 💔💔🥺

    • @Okwardly
      @Okwardly Год назад +224

      It hurts me that he still blames himself for not doing more :(( like there’s only so much ONE person could do in that situation

    • @raquelfigueroa5539
      @raquelfigueroa5539 Год назад +94

      I hope he’s ok mentally and emotionally it’s not easy to be the person who’s suppose to protect and serve and not be able to do it…

    • @kimmeyjones
      @kimmeyjones Год назад +12

      so sad to see. i know he wasn't on duty but he didn't even have radio/phone to call to the station? to tell how serious it was

  • @yousmellofhorse
    @yousmellofhorse 4 месяца назад +16

    I’m sure someone has already said this, but if you ever are in the position where you have to do CPR, DO NOT STOP until a medical professional gets there. If you get tired, switch with another person and take turns for as long as possible. Even if the person is deceased, you’re still pumping oxygen to their brain so if they do get revived they have more chance at recovery.

  • @asmrcrafts9279
    @asmrcrafts9279 4 месяца назад +5

    I generally don't have trouble listening to true crime but you really do tackle these in such a way.. I'm not sure if Its a combination of how u tell it and also the story of course but i actually need a break from these 😢😢❤thank you for the work that you do ❤

  • @tendesigns1377
    @tendesigns1377 Год назад +4341

    as someone who was there the night of the crowd crush, this was the first time ive allowed myself to even be exposed to it since october. i tried to go back to itaewon one time in december and had a terrible panic attack. thank you stephanie for bringing attention to it, it is such a shame how our government failed us and didn' even have the decency to take responsibility for it. and the fact that the victims did not get the same love and sympathy as those of the sewol incident all because they wanted to have a little fun on a saturday night.

    • @alyssavon5246
      @alyssavon5246 Год назад +147

      That's horrible. I'm so sorry about what happened and I hope you and your family are ok.

    • @apoisonpotato93
      @apoisonpotato93 Год назад +59

      I'm so sorry the leaders people are told to trust didn't prevent or respond this horrid event. Everybody in that alley deserves so much better. The idea that they refuse to take responsibility for what happened is so sickening.
      As someone with expansive trauma, I really hope you've been able to find a positive method of coping. I wish you the absolute best.

    • @a-s-y-a
      @a-s-y-a Год назад +8

      I’m so sorry 😢

    • @uditabhattacharya2824
      @uditabhattacharya2824 Год назад +15

      pardon me for asking this as a genuine question: how is a crowd rush a government responsibility, is there a legality to it?

    • @missgirl1607
      @missgirl1607 Год назад +127

      @@uditabhattacharya2824 I'm not sure I will be 100% right about this, but: government and/ or city council needs to take preventive measures in cooperation with the police and other emergency services when situations with big crowds are expected to happen - as Stephanie said in the video - be it a big concert, rally, or just any sort of public gathering. Even the slightest escalation can cause harm, whether physical, material or otherwise. If the organizations responsible for these situations did not act properly, multiple levels bear responsibility, and at the top of that "pyramid" is the city/state and the respective governments.
      That's why, after the persons in the closest circle of those responsible have been detained, the public has the right to expect a systematic and legal questioning of the role of higher structures and consequentially for the "top of the pyramid" (or actually the iceberg...) to take responsibility, admit mistakes, work on preventing situations like this to happen again and, finally, apologize to the victims and the citizens. The duty of the state is to take care of the security of its citizens: this is done through various structures, but in the end the government is the supreme one.
      I say this only from the general knowledge that I have, of course each country has its own laws, but the structures are almost always arranged in the same order and so is the responsibility they have. I truly wish peace and justice to all those affected. This was such a heartbreaking video...

  • @futuresaintlaurentgirl6366
    @futuresaintlaurentgirl6366 Год назад +1536

    The story of the 2 friends who weren't even planning on going inside the alleyway but got sucked inside really shows u the severity of the crowd surge....

    • @FigureUnboxing
      @FigureUnboxing Год назад +15

      The crowd was foolish. And why couldn't people on BOTH ENDS of the queue quickly walked away to avoid bigger human jam? It makes no sense.

    • @angietoonz6605
      @angietoonz6605 Год назад

      @@FigureUnboxing your ignorance just shows that you know nothing. I hope this never happens to you cause you seem like the type to think highly of yourself and take no advice.

    • @maryamrehan1398
      @maryamrehan1398 Год назад +111

      ​@@FigureUnboxing Probably cuz by the time they realized what was happening a whole crowd of people already gathered behind them,making them squashed between the already stuck people and newcomers and that crowd too was being pushed by more people,also in the video she said the itaewon station is located right in front of the alley way so there were more people coming from the subways

    • @qq84
      @qq84 Год назад +21

      @@FigureUnboxing They weren't stupid, it was an organized pushing.

    • @trishtrain2075
      @trishtrain2075 Год назад +42

      @@FigureUnboxing Its not really their fault. they went in not realizing the danger, it was too crowded and loud to organize themselves, and in the end it was just a horrible domino effect

  • @crystalcaitlin9449
    @crystalcaitlin9449 Месяц назад +3

    I’ve been listening to your stories for a couple months now and this one is exceptionally sad and touching. Thanks for sharing this story. This makes me thankful that I’ve survived every major holiday crowd event. I would imagine a fire, a terrorist attack…but not a crowd surge. Makes me understand more why my Mom would always encourage me to stay home on Halloween and thanksgiving and check on me. More people should hear this story so that if anything were to happen in future they will have more patience to not push, not move, and have some reference of what to do even if intoxicated… I feel for all the people who passed and their families.

  • @miguelangelo5316
    @miguelangelo5316 3 месяца назад +13

    I went to itaewon a few times months after Halloween, I wouldn’t say it was a ghost town but it’s not what it used to be. But walking through that alley and looking at the wall at the bottom of the slope used a memorial for the victims is truly saddening.

  • @alfredwillems9121
    @alfredwillems9121 11 месяцев назад +1763

    That poor cop,No one thinks about the responsibility that poor guy feels! He is definitely a hero!

    • @jayr1404
      @jayr1404 10 месяцев назад +34

      My thoughts are the same, he was just ignored.

    • @terihillgartner5702
      @terihillgartner5702 10 месяцев назад +7

      Yes

    • @solarprncss
      @solarprncss 10 месяцев назад +42

      Imagine being that cop and everybody either can’t hear you or thinks you’re in a costume

    • @medicalgoose2126
      @medicalgoose2126 9 месяцев назад +15

      @@solarprncss now this makes me shiver, like he was tring to givve them even a hint of guidance, but the fact that it was a halloween party made it less believable

    • @pisto30
      @pisto30 9 месяцев назад +2

      That broke my heart. He must've felt so helpless 😢

  • @malixalopez2794
    @malixalopez2794 Год назад +2776

    What is truly sad is that between 6pm and the time of this happening, 158 calls were made. 158... how does the police brush aside 158 calls that is super scary. rest in pardise, you beautiful souls, and I pray for the families.

    • @FigureUnboxing
      @FigureUnboxing Год назад +42

      The tragedy could have been avoided EASILY if only people on both ends of the queue walked away quickly.... But they didn't. so W.H.Y. ???

    • @oneironautz328
      @oneironautz328 Год назад +402

      @@FigureUnboxing you act like people actually had space to move. There was NO space to move, even outside the alleyway. It was immensely crowded on all streets leading into the alley. Obviously if people could “walk away quickly”, they would have done so 🙄

    • @maryamrehan1398
      @maryamrehan1398 Год назад +167

      ​@@FigureUnboxing There was no space to move back,when she said people couldn't even move there toes and their feet weren't even touching the ground,there had to be immense force pushing people, coming from more people that didn't yet realize that the situation was that serious and by the time they realized they already had people gathered up behind them

    • @strawbinnys
      @strawbinnys Год назад +12

      @@oneironautz328 I see what your're saying but the people on the end toward the street of the alleyway could have just went the other way since it was so crowded they should have seen that people were not moving and that if they also joined they would get stuck.

    • @isntsheabeaut7456
      @isntsheabeaut7456 Год назад +170

      @@strawbinnys victim blaming

  • @sinkingslowlywithasmile
    @sinkingslowlywithasmile 4 месяца назад +3

    Thank you so much for this I've never heard of this story

  • @ReclusiveNatured23
    @ReclusiveNatured23 4 месяца назад +2

    Thank you for getting through this, I can’t believe I’m just now hearing of this story

  • @fishnets8966
    @fishnets8966 Год назад +660

    The man in the denim jacket is a hero. I wish him the best, rest in peace to those who didn't make it.

    • @lovinavargas-carriedo2698
      @lovinavargas-carriedo2698 Год назад +47

      The denim jacket guy, the actor who picked up the child. The crowd who were dying and worked together to rescue the child. There were so many people who were in danger trying to save each other. And each of them are or were amazing heros who I wish never had to prove their characters like this

  • @caececookie
    @caececookie Год назад +2992

    I never realised just how serious this incident was. Thank you for going into so much detail and talking about what led up to it and what actually happened during the incident. I feel like news reports and media never covered just how horrible this tragedy was. They basically stopped describing it after giving us the number of deaths and injuries...

    • @daevastafford
      @daevastafford Год назад +77

      Yea me too. I thought it was just a bunch of drunk people and a stampede... Not this...

    • @NijiKonohana
      @NijiKonohana Год назад +64

      > "I feel like news reports and media never covered just how horrible this tragedy was."
      This is... a bit difficult, because there are arguments both ways. If the media reports too much on the tragedy, people will criticise them for taking advantage of it and sensationalising it for money (or worse, traumatising their viewers who don't want to see it). If they choose not to report the details, then people will accuse them of covering it up or censoring it. There's no 'right' way for media to cover it.
      Honestly, that's where semi-documentaries, like this video here, steps in. Official news media will let you know that a tragedy happened, as factually and as un-triggering as possible, and that's it. If you want to know more, search the internet for it. There will definitely be people talking about it, and you can decide how much or how little you want to be exposed to it.

    • @yasmineguerin2852
      @yasmineguerin2852 Год назад +1

      Um

    • @yasmineguerin2852
      @yasmineguerin2852 Год назад +6

      ​@@NijiKonohana there is a right way, they tried to cover it up. People wanted to know what was going on how serious it was especially if they lived there, they just brushed off the deaths and everything

    • @akinemainunangugel9650
      @akinemainunangugel9650 Год назад +2

      ​@@yasmineguerin2852 really? So what it is, what is the right way..
      Not all people care about this, most of the other people have something going on their lives,,
      And not all want to know just about this,, there is tragedy to India too and other close to the time frame of this tragedy
      So what is the right way

  • @JellyJuli
    @JellyJuli 2 месяца назад +1

    I’m new to your channel and I never heard of this tragedy before I’ve binged a bunch of your videos in the last two days but none of them have made me cry till this one. I’ve cried for almost a hour of the video. Like ugly sobbing. Your words really made me feel the pain for the victims and family’s like I’ve never experienced

  • @Doorsofperception420
    @Doorsofperception420 3 месяца назад

    Thank you so much for reporting on cases and still can have respect for victims and families

  • @dustdust9508
    @dustdust9508 Год назад +3039

    As a claustrophobic person who is scared of crowds this is nightmarish. I cried multiple times during the video. I hope nothing like this ever happens again

    • @alexterieur8813
      @alexterieur8813 Год назад +40

      It will but hopefully it happens less and less

    • @khushil.4957
      @khushil.4957 Год назад +50

      honestly same, this was a terrifying video to watch, I cried too and multiple times it felt like I couldn't breathe, lets hope this never happens again

    • @qq84
      @qq84 Год назад

      It will happen again until the government gets held accountable.

    • @Itsmetheonlyexitanceditch
      @Itsmetheonlyexitanceditch Год назад +14

      Me too i can't even imagine the the people who lost their lives would have felt

    • @oasisfani8353
      @oasisfani8353 Год назад +17

      Yep. As a clautrophobic also when i go somewhere and there´s is lot of people i´m like. This is too much, too many people. I´m out of here. This could happen anywhere.

  • @mrstofu0524
    @mrstofu0524 Год назад +1872

    I started to sob when I saw the poor man on the ground crying and telling his daughter that he's here. This is my country, and I am very disappointed in the police department for not sending officers there quicker. You can see the pain and tears in Steph's eyes the whole time she's telling the story. Rest in peace beautiful souls. My heart sunk every time she told us the way they died. Lots of Love from everyone watching.

    • @nehayadav7049
      @nehayadav7049 Год назад +26

      I was on the verge of tears when I heard the stories of parents and many people, including youtuber, that nurse, various people giving CPR, that police man and shopkeeper, etc. And most of all, this youtuber voice just made me cry. I tend to cry when I hear someone saying something. I had to remove my Bluetooth earphones. That time, I didn't understand what was going on. All i know was crowded on itawom and many peopledied. But I didn't know it in this much detail.
      😢
      R.i.p to these beautiful souls.

    • @mrstofu0524
      @mrstofu0524 Год назад +1

      WHAT?? THIS IS THE FIRST TIME I'VE CHECKED THIS COMMENT AND IT ALREADY HAS OVER 100 LIKES??

    • @nehayadav7049
      @nehayadav7049 Год назад +3

      @@mrstofu0524 congratulations

    • @dorkchops
      @dorkchops Год назад +14

      @@mrstofu0524 respectfully nows not the time to worry about your likes* 💀💀

    • @mrstofu0524
      @mrstofu0524 Год назад +2

      @@dorkchops respectfully, you didn’t even say RIP to the victims. I replied to my own comment, and I meant that in no way of disrespect to the people who passed.

  • @RachaelHall-12.35
    @RachaelHall-12.35 Месяц назад +4

    If you ever have to try to perform cpr and you aren't trained, start singing "Staying Alive" and then internalize it. Keep singing it in your head and it can help. It is literally used when they train CPR because it is 103 bpm through and through. The BeeGees actually received an award for it.

  • @elenamihai4358
    @elenamihai4358 3 месяца назад +10

    We arrived in Itaewon at 22:15 and when we realized the situation was extremely bad we tried to walk as far away as possible and then take a taxi to Ansan, where were staying (40min +- away from itaewon) We tried getting a taxi and the chauffeurs were using the urgency of the situation by 4x the price of the taxi. When we refused to pay that much we had to stay in a game cafe until the morning when the subway was open again to take the metro home.

    • @marilee8063
      @marilee8063 6 дней назад

      That is beyond fucked up. The amount of corruption, negligence and irresponsibility from so many people that could have helped but refused is infuriating and truely disgusting.

  • @SaraNicholeTV
    @SaraNicholeTV Год назад +764

    The fact that the police tried to destroy the evidence is insane!! This evident was so tragic, I remember seeing it all over TikTok. I was absolutely heartbroken.

  • @jazrex
    @jazrex 10 месяцев назад +2501

    IMPORTANT: You have to KEEP DOING CPR until the victim starts breathing OR emergency services arrive! CPR is not only about restarting the heart, but it also supplies oxygen to the victim's system..if you stop..the victim will die. Hollywood movie CPR is NOT how you do CPR, you are not a doctor, you cannot determine if someone is dead, that means you DO NOT STOP but have to keep doing CPR and keep putting oxygen in the victims system until either the victim starts breathing autonomously or emergency services arrive!

    • @leelunk8235
      @leelunk8235 10 месяцев назад

      WE KNOW CALM DOWN BUGGA HEAD

    • @omnicupid6694
      @omnicupid6694 9 месяцев назад +161

      Unfortunately, you have to take breaks when you do get tired. If you're tired, then it wouldn't be as effective. I'm not a medical professional, but that's how I was trained.

    • @senpaiiemily
      @senpaiiemily 9 месяцев назад +332

      @@omnicupid6694when you need a break, someone else has to immediately take over for you. the point is that CPR needs to be continuous and not be stopped until emergency services say otherwise - not necessarily that YOU as an individual can’t stop. but you are right. if you get tired, your CPR gets sloppy and isn’t as effective which is why they recommend multiple people taking turns.

    • @omnicupid6694
      @omnicupid6694 9 месяцев назад +35

      @@senpaiiemily Right, that is true!

    • @whereisacbijustice-4ssrdis737
      @whereisacbijustice-4ssrdis737 9 месяцев назад +8

      Yea

  • @jlkim2585
    @jlkim2585 4 месяца назад +1

    thank you for retelling

  • @kristykelly111271
    @kristykelly111271 4 месяца назад +1

    Thank you for your very informative storytime

  • @nicholejj
    @nicholejj Год назад +1813

    I live in Korea and when we heard it happened “in an alley near the station,” when I say *everyone* in Seoul knew exactly which alley it was, it’s not an exaggeration. Because it’s right next to the station, it’s the alley most people walk through to go to and from the station and a back street with most of the bars. Even before the tragedy, I’d try to avoid it because it’s so steep and uneven so it’s really scary to walk down, even if you’re sober and it’s not crowded. So knowing the police/government did nothing preemptively, despite the fact that it’s a commonly known dangerous area, they knew the amount of people that could show up, AND they were warned multiple times the night of, is just infuriating. The government failed those people, and then tried to shift the blame. They even wanted to rebrand it as the “Itaewon Accident” rather than “Tragedy” to try and minimize it and lessen the blame and negative light it shined on the government.

    • @xEPICxNESS
      @xEPICxNESS Год назад +36

      I can’t imagine how it felt… the atmosphere.. the fear and the sadness… I hope you and your friends and anyone effected is being kind to themselves. Thank you for sharing your experience on this. Take care ❤️

    • @ayameisastar
      @ayameisastar Год назад +54

      Yup! I've never lived in Korea, and only partied in Itaewon once but I 100% knew what alley they were talking about before I saw pictures. Even drunk, on a non-special Friday night I was uncomfortable walking in that alleyway and thought to myself, "damn there's a lot of people through this narrow alley. This feels very dangerous. Definitely poor civil planning".

    • @scarlett8782
      @scarlett8782 Год назад +46

      the korean government was also completely incompetent in the Sewol tragedy and then also tried to minimize and cover it up. the south korean government/police are truly ineffective.

    • @Anon-qp3kt
      @Anon-qp3kt 11 месяцев назад

      You can’t just blame the police. They were probably stretched thin enough on the night, people were partying with music on full blast + drunks + the crowds from the station. In hindsight, you could say more police would have helped but this was unprecedented even by Itaewon standards

    • @lexyshannon9428
      @lexyshannon9428 3 месяца назад

      ​@@Anon-qp3ktI get what you're saying to an extent, but even the four officers that were dispatched didn't do much to help unfortunately

  • @magnoliaflower3310
    @magnoliaflower3310 Год назад +2883

    It's so sad that the age group that experienced the Sewol Ferry Tragedy are the same age group who had to go through the Itaewon Halloween Tragedy. They went through two tragedies before they even hit 30. It's like almost 500 promising youths disappeared needlessly.

    • @dominicdo2719
      @dominicdo2719 Год назад +506

      And it's due to the fault of the adults who are responsible for the infrasture of the Sewol ferry and Itaewon. If people just did their jobs properly none of this would happen. Negligence is also a crime

    • @treasure2behold282
      @treasure2behold282 Год назад

      I thought it was some sort of Halloween ritual. People don't seem to understand that the veil thins during this time. Demonic forces are out to claim souls. This is not a joke.

    • @satiat170
      @satiat170 Год назад +8

      @@Eryu_lan sorry for your loss hun ❤

    • @QaDri93
      @QaDri93 Год назад +9

      @@dominicdo2719 Itaewon was the people’s fault. No way you’re trying to blame others for it.

    • @AwakeningWings
      @AwakeningWings Год назад +48

      I also wanted to add, it happened to kids that were really good and well-behaved. That's what makes it even worse to witness or see on the news.

  • @jennyspicer6900
    @jennyspicer6900 3 месяца назад +1

    Just found youre channel 😍 addicted, you are beautiful, calming abd i love the delivery and content ❤

  • @beardridingchamp
    @beardridingchamp 2 месяца назад +2

    Thanx for your hard work!

  • @bunnykid8399
    @bunnykid8399 Год назад +2058

    I love to see that you’re covering this case. My boyfriend was visiting his parents at this time and he went to take his little brother there as he wanted to see the flashing lights. My boyfriend made it out, his brother wasn’t as lucky. To this day we still mourn his death, everyday we sit with his favorite food and eat our share and leave his there. My boyfriend is still in tears to this day, his parents call us regularly and want to move out here with his aunt and uncle. The family took a huge toll, and we’re still not over it. This case NEEDS to be told and spread more. I hope you’re okay, Min-Jun. We miss you.

    • @violetmancilla5047
      @violetmancilla5047 Год назад +84

      i’m so so sorry, this broke my heart reading this while watching it to. i hope you guys are doing well

    • @rei-san189
      @rei-san189 Год назад +46

      I'm so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you and your family, and hope he finds happiness wherever he is. ❤

    • @leahkuv
      @leahkuv 11 месяцев назад +40

      just reading this makes me tear up. I genuinely send condolences to you, your boyfriend, family, and friends.

    • @Sadie-rai
      @Sadie-rai 11 месяцев назад +22

      Thank you for being there and helping him and his family through this. You probably already know how much it means and does, but it always does *so* much just to be there for loved ones in times of loss and grief. I wish you, him, and his family the very best

    • @Evil_babies
      @Evil_babies 11 месяцев назад +20

      rest in peace Min-Jun

  • @orange_rain
    @orange_rain 5 месяцев назад +684

    that sole police officer doing his absolute best to direct people away from the alleyway broke my heart into a million pieces. You could feel his emotions through the video and it's absolutely heart wrenching :( I sincerely, sincerely hope he is doing okay and getting all the help he needs

  • @I.M.SofaKingdom
    @I.M.SofaKingdom 2 месяца назад +3

    I love the way you present your videos. You have a knack for getting the point across, the sadness, the irresponsibilities, etc. without being overly dramatic. You would make a great news commentator like Barbara Walters. I eatched your Sewol Ferry podcast, it was the most thorough of all the stories about it.
    Keep up with all the stories. Young people need fair representation. In a culture that emphasizes listening to and obeying adults and authority figures, it's left to people like you to make sure the authorities act responsibly. Keep them in check! You are the best!

  • @SY-ut5dz
    @SY-ut5dz 3 месяца назад +1

    Stephanie, you and your team are very talented researchers and you are an incredible storyteller.

  • @jacksonpablodiasdeoliveira9215
    @jacksonpablodiasdeoliveira9215 Год назад +727

    “The children needs to have one last meal” what powerful and meaningful words.

    • @JayXDagger
      @JayXDagger Год назад +11

      That hits hard like motherf"ker

  • @whatsup_kay
    @whatsup_kay Год назад +327

    I went to Itaewon for the first time yesterday and went down that same alley. Pictures don't do justice with showing how SMALL it really is. And at the end of the alley towards the street, there's 2 walls covered in notes for the victims and fresh flowers. It's truly saddening.

    • @TecTitan
      @TecTitan Год назад +7

      The man telling the officers to leave the food alone gets to me so bad
      With that kind of energy if I were called upon to keep it safe I wouldn't be able to refuse

  • @ErieRosewood
    @ErieRosewood 4 месяца назад +12

    my middle school had one long hallway connecting the front of the building to the back. it was called the harrington highway. every period, the hall would fill with hundreds of students hoing back and forth. in 7th grade, i was practically using it every period so i became very accustomed to the traffic. once i remember it was so crowded my feet left the ground and for a few seconds i was just being pushed along by everyone else. it was a terrifying feeling. i remember thinking what a stupid design plan it was to have only one long hallway connecting the newer and older halves. crowd control is no joke. improper planning can kill. my heart goes out to the victims, survivors, and their friends and family.

  • @lanifisk3805
    @lanifisk3805 2 месяца назад +2

    You are the very best story teller on RUclips!!

  • @atiny0805
    @atiny0805 Год назад +621

    before moving to korea i told all of my friends and my family that i‘ll spend halloween in itaewon. then my favourite boygroup announced a concert for exactly that day. i was really disappointed that i wasn’t able to go to itaewon but told myself that i can just go next year… i‘m so thankful that i went to the concert instead of itaewon.

    • @alyssaromero7470
      @alyssaromero7470 Год назад +64

      I’m so glad you’re ok and that you chose to go to the concert instead

    • @Scarasanity
      @Scarasanity Год назад +29

      I’m really really happy that you are okay. If you want to still go next year please be careful. Ur life matters and I am glad you are okay.

    • @Geumseong756
      @Geumseong756 Год назад +30

      당신이 괜찮아서 기뻐요. 혹시라도 가신다면 저희 가족 주위에 통하는 룰이 있습니다. 도보로 10분을 단축하더라도 좁고 좁은 골목길로 절대 가지 마십시오.

    • @bushbaby64
      @bushbaby64 Год назад +13

      ​@@Geumseong756 Very good advice x

    • @MysticGoBrrrr
      @MysticGoBrrrr 11 месяцев назад +2

      Bless you I'm glad you didn't go to this mess

  • @urlocal_kris
    @urlocal_kris Год назад +686

    Once I heard "The children deserve one last meal" I started SOBBING

  • @NayatSari
    @NayatSari 4 месяца назад +2

    This hurts my soul... Thanks for covering it and remembering these innocent souls...

  • @LeandieWilliams
    @LeandieWilliams 10 дней назад

    I am a new subscriber to your channel, but you are an incredible story teller. I am hooked on your videos, & i love that you cover important stories that need to be told. Bless you! Greetings from South Africa :)

  • @kurea4666
    @kurea4666 9 месяцев назад +2127

    Still, there should be laws in every country banning people cosplaying as officials, police, fire fighters... or any emergency workers in public for any reason.

    • @hasicazulatv2078
      @hasicazulatv2078 9 месяцев назад +50

      Agreed

    • @grayonthewater
      @grayonthewater 9 месяцев назад +187

      Most of the costumes are so ridiculous it’s very clear they aren’t the real person, it is illegal to impersonate an official but the costumes are ok because it’s obvious they are costumes

    • @Kingj2real
      @Kingj2real 9 месяцев назад +21

      To what end? If your a child you shouldn’t be able too? If your a very very old man you shouldn’t be able too? There’s no way to regulate that

    • @itzbel4081
      @itzbel4081 8 месяцев назад +66

      @@Kingj2real It’s just a tough thing, there’s no way of having it be easily watched, but I think the commenter was just saying keeping people from dressing up as one of these people would help immensely in situations like these where sometimes you can’t tell who is and isn’t an official police officer, medic, etc etc.

    • @the1truejoe178
      @the1truejoe178 8 месяцев назад +28

      I feel that this channel has proven that there should be a morals test for government workers like police officers, not to mention more extensive training, cus the negligence these officers show every chance is mind blowing

  • @dawnross6721
    @dawnross6721 Год назад +3435

    It’s a comfort to hear Stephanie crying as she talks because most channels sounds so cold and desensitized when speaking on things such as this. Makes me feel safe to cry along with her

    • @101falcon
      @101falcon Год назад +310

      I like watching/listening to her delivery on these tragedies and crimes. She humanizes the victims, they're not just numbers, not just statistics, they're all real humans with friends, family, lives they had before this and lives they looked forward too.
      It's so easy to get news about tragedies now and we're constantly being bombarded with it from all around the world, a lot of people have become burnt out from hearing about them and we've become desensitized. No matter how many tragedies have happened and will probably continue to happen, it is important to remember that the victims are human and they all had their own individual stories. Creators like Steph are important because they give a voice to the voiceless, spotlighting the victims rather than only focusing on who is to blame or the tragedy itself. If we become so desensitized that we lose our empathy can we even call ourselves human?

    • @saskuerox
      @saskuerox Год назад +106

      Seriously! It shows she really does care about these victims when she tells their stories

    • @moonb3ams593
      @moonb3ams593 Год назад +81

      I agree, she feels genuine remorse for the victims, I watch so many people who never show any emotion or they say "it's so devastating!" "I could cry!" But they have a sad demeanor for one second and move on and never actually cry.
      It really rubs me the wrong way.
      This is so full of compassion and love!

    • @ogeteres7618
      @ogeteres7618 Год назад +5

      I feel pity for the victims. But it doesn't make sense to me. Why would I stay in a play I can't move yet I'm assu.ed to be dancing and having fun? Public education needed

    • @ms.juhntialit3008
      @ms.juhntialit3008 Год назад +28

      I was wondering why she looked drained in the beginning, and after two minutes in I was crying 😢😢😢😢

  • @choppermorgan9946
    @choppermorgan9946 3 месяца назад

    Thanks for thanks for reporting this they don't show this stuff on regular TV much anymore I'm glad you did this young lady God bless you and your family from Indiana USA