So many people have responded to 'LET THEM' that I wanted to add in some encouragement to help long the way. Donna Ashworth - 'I Wish I Knew'. www.google.co....
You helped me in a very bad phase of my life.. may god help you and give you happiness. Thanks from bottom of my heart. Keep helping others I have found that to give me real happiness.. Thanks
Just told myself, a few hours ago, all my faults, and that i think that i must be this and that, feeling down about just not able to get it right. And then you came up in suggested videos. Thank you.
Dee, it is as if you are re-Mothering us, who had neglectful or uncaring parents.😁🙌🥰💕. Thank you for sharing your amazing soul with us. This world really needs your calm and sweet voice. ❤️. We need you. Have a sparkling day. ✨
Thank you Dee. It is only now in my very late 40s that I am honouring my inner child and the little things that delight her. I feel like I have rediscovered a precious part of myself.❤
I discovered a trick....when I'm anxious, I take her on my knee and hold her. I tell her everything will be OK and I will look after her. It always helps ❤
Same.... for so many years i stopped myself from enjoying certain things because older kids would think they were childish and i didnt want to look a certain way to whoever.
I am 17 years old and am experiencing my first heartbreak. We were together for two years and he let me know yesterday that he didn’t love me anymore. I am still in love with him and I feel immense pain and sadness, I feel like I can’t talk to anyone because I’m so embarrassed of how I was so naive to love someone who didn’t love me. Thank you for this video and your last one as well.
You have experienced the hardship of lost love. It is painful and it WILL get better. Your pain is a life lesson and test of your strength. We humans are resilient and can move on. I’m not diminishing your pain and loss. My experience as I am in my 70’s, is that “You’ve got this” and you will learn from it. . Don’t regret this experience, learn from it and keep on blossoming. I read my journal from my first “love” and smile as I realize how I have moved on and how much more there is to discover…good 😚, great😍 and the not so great.🥺 😊 Bless you and have faith in yourself! 😎🙋♀️
@@favouritemusic8959I love him . begged cried chased asked him for a chance he straightly denied. I had woven dreams of getting married to him. We were close to it but he left. Now he on occasions calls as a friend and enquires me about my marriage . knowing that he is already talking to another girl it hurts and I still have a hope in some corner of my heart. Cant explain what I m going through 😢
"Shine bright little fighter, this dark world needs your glow". This made me cry, I'm battling, depression and anxiety and adding to these is the process of trying to heal from being discarded by my ex. Life lately felt I'm in the dark and no hope to see the light, and this reminded me that I can be that light. 😢
You can. I hope that you have friends/family around who can support you and encourage you. Maybe you could buy one of those battery 'candles' to remind you. Please do join us on our video walks - they are relaxing and allow you to escape for a little while. It would be lovely to have you join us. Take care. D
What a beautiful deep breath of fresh fragrant air! I just found you today, thank you so much for expressing your kind open heart online, you are a welcome balance in our world. This has lifted my day. 🥰
Dee-you’re really something special! I recently experienced the end of a deep friendship where the person unexpectedly decided to leave. Your video has helped me on my journey to heal from that situation. Thank you for that. Sending love from Oregon! ❤
I found your channel last week and I’ve been watching your videos everyday now especially when I’m having a hard moment. Your videos make me very emotional and cry but it helps me so much more than I thought it would. Your videos give me strength and a open mind and I thank you for that
@xshady313x I think I understand what you said, but I wanted to confirm, your spouse left out of nowhere? As if the relationship meant nothing at all to them? If so, it's exactly what I'm going through now, my heart is broken because it was nothing to him, its like he was just throwing out the trash. My heart hurts for you, I wouldn't wish this on anyone.
i watch your let them video every morning and every night and it has helped me so much through my breakup. you’re such a strong person, i aspire to be like you!!!💗
Hello, Ms. Dee. I'm 23 years old and I'm going to graduate soon, however these weeks have been very hard for me, thanks to the RUclips algorithm I was able to find you when I needed a friend to comfort me, your words are like a summer breeze, I really want to thank you for opening your channel. I watch your videos from Mexico, so you know that your words are reaching all parts of the world💖
What a way to start a Friday - a lovely cup of coffee with Dee. I feel soothed. And whole. And I am wearing a blue floofy dressing gown.. but more importantly, wearing a smile. Thank you Dee. Have a beautiful day.
Your videos always leave me feeling so much better and lighter, as if all the heavy, harsh feelings and thoughts I have going on in my head slowly fade away. Like thunderclouds gradually uncovering the blue skies. I am grateful for you and the wonderful content you create ♥️ You speak so passionately and gracefully. Thank you Dee! Sending love from Poland xx
I could listen to you read poems for hours. Dee, you have given me strength in my day to day life for a while now, and I couldn't thank you enough. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for all of this self loving content.
oh grandma Dee...why is it so hard to learn how to love and respect myself, when I was born from a toxic family that always makes me believe that I'm the problem...I really need to gain my inner strength together 😢
You're like a mother or a grand mother who I wish I had. Your video makes me feel I'm okay to live. One day I wanna be like you who save many people. Thank you so much for sharing wonderful videos. I wish all the good things you do come back to you.
Thank you so much, I love you, you are a kind and beautiful woman with a kind heart Your voice and your words help me and makes me happy and confident❤
I really needed this. I had a fight with the person I tought it was my best friend. After she talked bad about me behind my back (and also did horrible things to my friends) I decided to erase her from my life. It's been 3 years and sometimes I miss her, but this video changed my mind completely. She is not going to change, ever. So why I should wait for that? I should prioritize myself and just that. Thanks precious lady, you are an angel
I’ve been in a place recently where i’m trying to work on myself mentally. Just remembering i don’t have to look perfect or be a certain way at school. I like school, and i like solo presentations, and i like writing essays and stories, that’s who i am. I like having unnatural colored hair and making bracelets with strange colors, and drawing on my shoes and painting my bedroom walls with pictures. These videos you make, i appreciate them so much because they remind that i’m human. I like different things than other people and my ways are different too, and that’s alright.
Thank you. Such a wonderful little gift when you pop up. Hearing you're voice with such brightness makes me think of my grandma. I was extremely close with her and my grandaddy and they were married over 70 years when they transcended. But I speak to both of them often when out in the backyard. Then the cardinals show up and I observe them having some early breakfast and will share their food with one another so it looks like they are giving each other a kiss. One thing that I am sure of is that they are right here with me because I can feel their loving energy. Sorry for rambling on. Much love and many blessings to you. ❤️🕊❤️
I don’t know what twist of the universe put your videos in my path but it’s been a very, very long time since something has hit me so forcefully as the simple messages you’ve shared have. I had to pause and consider the idea of simply believing I am good because I am, and other people will see it. Just the idea of trusting that instead of constantly striving to earn it or prove it. It feels very foreign but revelatory. Thank you for sharing your wisdom!
I can’t believe this popped up on my RUclips again! I found your previous video by accident and it ended up having a big impact on me. I was talking with my boyfriend and I was worried that something wasn’t going to work out between us. So I was up front with him that this thing he wanted wasn’t something I was going to provide and in my head all I heard was “Let him” if he decided that our relationship wasn’t going to be enough for him. In the end, we decided to stay together and we have been stronger ever since. You should never hide something in fear that someone might leave you, if you think they can’t accept you and will leave, let them. Just remember to always accept yourself, you are enough.
I find it extremely heartwarming to see you like recent comments from hours ago despite posting this two weeks ago. Your "let them" video appeared on my for-you page literally the exact moment i need it. My partner of one year broke up with me a couple days ago, and I dont feel like myself since. I can't believe i begged them to come back, i cant believe i put down my self-respect, my ego, my dignity, and took all the blame to beg someone who immediately got with another girl the day after we broke up. Who broke up with me to "work on himself" despite me telling him if he truly loved me, he would be willing to work on himself beside me. Your takes made me realize that there really is no use ruminating over a past we cant change, over the damage that already has been done. I've been trying my best to get over the fact that we're never speaking again, and letting him go. To try and get over the fact that I still love him despite him absolutely destroying me and this first relationship I've been in, while he's been in 14. Thank you, Dee, for inspiring individuals of all ages, genders, and ethnicities with your wise comments in life.
@@USAneedsGOD Amen!! God put him in my life for me to realize how love should be like. The "right person" will never leave you to "improve themselves", they wont leave you in the first place !!
Love defies the bounds of what we know to be "right". Do not worry much over your self-respect, ego, dignity, etc. because all (or most) true lovers do not let go of their love easily. "Everything I've ever let go of has claw marks on it." you fight for what you want, thats a good thing. Right now the thought of never speaking again is daunting but one day the thought of having to talk to him at all would be a bother because you'd have grown so far from that place! The growth happens naturally, but slowly, give yourself grace. Now is the time to direct that energy towards yourself...and if that energy is too intense, direct it towards an art or an outlet of your choice! The power is yours! In the meantime, have some fun!
I have no idea why, but these words really just spoke to some part of me. This was such a healing video to stumble across. It allowed me to access emotions I had bottled away for so long after feeling very numb for quite some time. Thank You
I'm caring for my grandson and his girlfriend atm, and we have a saying "Strong, not wrong". We are focusing on their strengths , not what they have been told is "wrong' with them. ( ps..my grandson is recovering from a mental breakdown ..his parents love him dearly, but the people in the town they live in have had a major impact on his life. He's healing here by the ocean and his working parents spend every weekend here with him). When you focus on someones strengths, empower them, shine a light on what is good within, they bloom. Thank you for sharing xx
You have no idea how much I've needed someone like you to show up in my life. In a world where everything seems so hopeless, you have given me a new perspective of life, a new perspective of me. Your decision to share your thoughts, to share your memories, to share your metaphors was the best thing I could have hoped for, they have left such a beautiful mark on my soul. Simple, yet so remarkable. Thank you, for reminding me, who I am, who I was, and who I CAN/WILL be. Y(OUR) light will always shine from the people you have inspired. Stay well and blessed!
You always choose the prettiest poems to read, and also you have such a talent in telling them, your voice is so calm. Thank you for these videos, they are very peaceful, and you had appeared in my feed during a time i was needing, and read a poem that really spoke to me. Also, the background with the windmill is so beautiful, i don't know the right word to describe the comfort this video bring. God bless you 💝💝
I came across your channel accidentally but I am so pleased I did. The video "let them" I sent to my daughter so she could send it back to me and now I treasure it. My life turned a little upside down but now I'm getting back on track again and with your help I know that the decision I made was the right one and I'm moving on. Thank you so much, you are like the mother I never had, bless you.❤.
I just discovered your channel. I’m 24 and currently dealing with the end of a relationship and a lot of uncertainties and failure in my life projects. You seem a sweet, beautiful soul just like my nonna. A hug from Italy
My dear lady, just a short time ago before I lay myself down to sleep, I came across your video about letting go. How beautiful, so is this video and your others. I am a new subscriber from across the pond, living not far from the Kingdom of the Mouse in the Orlando, Florida area, AKA, Walt Disney World. You dear lady, are a bright light in a world that seems many want to strike the lights of people and not only allow them to live and be in darkness, but demand that they do. I thought that we as humans, had largely put that way of being behind us. Keep your kind and gentle light shinning.
Thank you so much for your kind words. So many people are struggling - on so many levels. This human is endeavouring to help - just a little bit. I have fond memories if my visit to Florida many years ago- and of being bitten aall over by the mossies in the everglades despite being lathered in repellant and not showing much skin! Take care. D
Thank you so much for the advice again I'm 17 years old turning 18 and I question myself if I am worth full or if I'm enough to have things I desire or dream of or pray everyday to have them I wish I could hug you cause you're a great person thank you mam god may bless you 🙏❤️🥰🥰😘♥️🥹♥️
If a man makes you feel confused, he is wasting your time and eroding your self esteem! It's VERY simple: always judge a person by their ACTIONS, and you will never EVER be fooled by their words... 1. Know your value!!! (Do NOT doubt yourself.) 2. Take yourself and your worth seriously. You need to BE A QUEEN to be treated like one. 3. Don’t give easy access. Access to your energy should be expensive. 4. Do NOT only EXPRESS your boundaries. YOU MUST show them. 5. Always be ready to walk away. 6. Show that you are focused on actions not on words. 7. Have a healthy degree of skepticism. 8. You must be willing to say NO and you must be willing to lose the man, if needed. 9. Never EVER chase a man! A truly worthy woman, does not EVER chase a man. Giving the same energy that you're getting is key and if you don't like that energy then move on! NOW! It can be hard but that's when you need to choose yourself over the damn illusion/fantasy. A man who loves a woman will not ignore her, ever, period. So... If he ignores me I will step back and he will lose me. Simple. Simple. Non-dramatic and uncomplicated. I don’t, under any circumstance: play these childish-abusive-controlling mind games. I will only be with a man who values and appreciates me, and treats me as the Queen, I AM. (Daughter of the Most Hight; King of kings!) Because I am a beautiful and kind and divine and sexy and wise and intelligent and magical woman: who knows my worth. Period. Also, We create each moment. This moment contains, through my focus, both positive and negative... I can put my attention on what I lack, what I don't have, what traumas I do have etc... And, I can put my attention on the calm moment that I am in, NOW, the food I just ate, and the fact that my body is satisfied, the shelter I do have... (You get my idea!) Both are here... And now. For the sake of fairness, I will allow myself to cry my pains, in the moment if/when they come/arise, AND also acknowledge the beauty I still have in my life NOW. Pain? Yes. Suffering? Indeed. And, also: wonderous magical divine beauty. Blessings to you!
@@wafabhatt9108agreed, likewise for women, what happens if they pull away or quiet or in a bad mood, do you just walk away at every slight sign of it? Unfortunately we’ve all been treated poorly & want to control the future so it never happens again
Thank you. Thank you again for appearing in my life. You help alot. Really. Also thank you for sharing the book, i went and searched about it and will get it soon. Your light helps. Thank you again.
Thank you so much I did watch the first part and cried and now this one gave me such a hope, granted me a second breath. I’m truly thankful for this wisdom you’ve shared. You can’t imagine how much you helped
Thank you for doing this ❤ I’ve been feeling really alone and tired of the circumstances and health I’m in that I can’t control and I’ve been letting it exhaust me mentally. And that I’ve lost the glow I once had.
I was named after my grandmother (mom’s mom) and she was beautiful courageous wise woman. She passed away right before I was born. This feels like something I would hear from her. Thank you dearly❤
This got me cryin😢 I’m at a horrible place right now in life and I’ve been so numb to it. Everyone around me points it out and I don’t even believe it. I don’t even love myself. I don’t know who I am or what I’m in this world for. I question my own feelings and worth. I don’t see any way out this funk I’ve been in for years. Your soothing yet genuine words have made me think and question my own feelings outside the box. Outside the normal feelings I feel every day. I don’t know how to explain it except the fact your words and thoughts are such a breath or fresh air. It hit me in parts of me I forget exist. Thank your beautiful soul❤️
Thank you so much. Just take one baby step at a time... especially towards learning just who you are and loving that person. May I suggest that you check out some of my videos from the past weeks - I reckon you will find support for you in there. Take care. D
“Shine bright little fighter…this dark world needs your glow” ✨ This I dedicate to my beautiful, brave son, he’s 27 with severe Cerebral Palsy. They said he wouldn’t live a week when he was born. His name is Emilio and his smile shines brighter than all the stars in the sky. 🤍💫 Thank you Dee, another thought provoking video of wisdom and hope.
Love your voice of liquid silk! Soothing my mind and heart. Thanking the Lord I found you, Dee, and I truly appreciate you. I need your lovely videos of comfort & inspiration at this point in my life. I'm also sharing them with my sisterhood of family and friends. God bless you. 🐦🎶🦋🌷🌞🩷
this video found me at the perfect time. as someone with bpd i never learned how to prosses my emotions and stuff like that and these videos have been very helpful. thank you!!
My ex just broke up with me after 3 years and told me he doesn’t feel the same and didn’t have any more to give. You’re helping me more than you know during my time of grief….
So true! We believe what we are told about ourselves .. sometimes we are the hardest on ourselves. Just remember you can always change that voice in your head.
You didn’t blow it, Dee! You were spot on. 😉 You go girl! (as we say in America) Much success to you and your channel. I’ve already shared your Light!❤
Thanks so much - this gal intends to keep going as long as she can!! I was so amazed when my channel took off a few weeks ago - after I had been posting for 2 years. D
This is one of the reasons why, leaving aside the hate and some horrible things that it also hosts, I love how powerful the Internet can be. Because of people like you, who share this kindness in order to connect with others around the world and help them. I really and profoundly appreciate every single word you say, in every video. It gets me emocional every time I hear your talks and advices because it seems for me hard to believe the existence of such a wonderful person you are here, in the Internet, where most of the people stand up only for sharing bad words and spreading hate. I could repeat this a hundred times, but THANK YOU. Now I believe again in algorithms, thanks to RUclips recommending me this incredible profile. Lot of love from Spain :))).
You helped me in a very bad phase of my life.. may god help you and give you happiness. Thanks from bottom of my heart. Keep helping others I have found that to give me real happiness.. Thanks
Glad I could help. D
Frl my life is already changing and I watched her for the first time a few hours ago
I feel the same way ❤
Just told myself, a few hours ago, all my faults, and that i think that i must be this and that, feeling down about just not able to get it right. And then you came up in suggested videos. Thank you.
Very sweet. Some of us don’t have the aunt to talk to and you are that sweet aunt.
“Shine bright little fighter. This world needs your glow” 😊❤
I love those words - D
Dee, it is as if you are re-Mothering us, who had neglectful or uncaring parents.😁🙌🥰💕. Thank you for sharing your amazing soul with us. This world really needs your calm and sweet voice. ❤️. We need you. Have a sparkling day. ✨
You are so welcome! D
You are like a warm hug. Thankyou so much Dee. God bless you xxxxx
I love that colourful paper wind spiralling behind in the bushes, almost symbolic of hidden hope within, and that theres nothing to worry about🩷
Takes me back to my childhood and happy holidays. D
"Shine bright little fighter, this dark world needs your glow". Thank you 💓💗💓
This quote stood out!!! If all the little fighters hold their glowing candles high and proud we could surely brighten a large portion of this world!
Thank you Dee. It is only now in my very late 40s that I am honouring my inner child and the little things that delight her. I feel like I have rediscovered a precious part of myself.❤
I discovered a trick....when I'm anxious, I take her on my knee and hold her. I tell her everything will be OK and I will look after her. It always helps ❤
Wonderful! - Enjoy those little things that you have probably come to take for granted in this busy world of ours. D
Same.... for so many years i stopped myself from enjoying certain things because older kids would think they were childish and i didnt want to look a certain way to whoever.
😢beautiful
I am 17 years old and am experiencing my first heartbreak. We were together for two years and he let me know yesterday that he didn’t love me anymore. I am still in love with him and I feel immense pain and sadness, I feel like I can’t talk to anyone because I’m so embarrassed of how I was so naive to love someone who didn’t love me. Thank you for this video and your last one as well.
You have experienced the hardship of lost love. It is painful and it WILL get better. Your pain is a life lesson and test of your strength. We humans are resilient and can move on. I’m not diminishing your pain and loss. My experience as I am in my 70’s, is that “You’ve got this” and you will learn from it. . Don’t regret this experience, learn from it and keep on blossoming. I read my journal from my first “love” and smile as I realize how I have moved on and how much more there is to discover…good 😚, great😍 and the not so great.🥺 😊 Bless you and have faith in yourself! 😎🙋♀️
Simply listen to Mickey's lovely - and wise words. D
It hurts bad. Somehow we muster the strength to move forward. Time heals. Don’t forget to love yourself. ❤
Dear person. Relish these words and these will save you. Never chase after a man or a bus because there is always another one coming along. Mary 💚
@@favouritemusic8959I love him . begged cried chased asked him for a chance he straightly denied. I had woven dreams of getting married to him. We were close to it but he left. Now he on occasions calls as a friend and enquires me about my marriage . knowing that he is already talking to another girl it hurts and I still have a hope in some corner of my heart. Cant explain what I m going through 😢
"Shine bright little fighter, this dark world needs your glow". This made me cry, I'm battling, depression and anxiety and adding to these is the process of trying to heal from being discarded by my ex.
Life lately felt I'm in the dark and no hope to see the light, and this reminded me that I can be that light. 😢
You can. I hope that you have friends/family around who can support you and encourage you. Maybe you could buy one of those battery 'candles' to remind you. Please do join us on our video walks - they are relaxing and allow you to escape for a little while. It would be lovely to have you join us. Take care. D
"stop showing the world all that you are not, and start showing them all that you are"
In fact, you’re like the mother I never had 😆😌♥️♥️♥️
Thank you for reminding us to fill our own cups too 💟
I have watched "Let Them" many times. This is just... so unbelievably precious to hear. You are beautiful inside and out Dee. 🌺 Thank you for this.
What a beautiful deep breath of fresh fragrant air! I just found you today, thank you so much for expressing your kind open heart online, you are a welcome balance in our world. This has lifted my day. 🥰
Thank you so much! D
Dee-you’re really something special! I recently experienced the end of a deep friendship where the person unexpectedly decided to leave. Your video has helped me on my journey to heal from that situation. Thank you for that. Sending love from Oregon! ❤
I found your channel last week and I’ve been watching your videos everyday now especially when I’m having a hard moment. Your videos make me very emotional and cry but it helps me so much more than I thought it would. Your videos give me strength and a open mind and I thank you for that
Take care. D
Is it just me or It’s very warm here feels like sunshine caressing you on a windy day 🤗🤍very peaceful and nice
you're like the friend I've never had and have always wished for. Thank you for pouring kind words into us ♥♥♥♥
I’m still recovering from someone who wouldn’t work through anything and is gladly to walk out of my life. Again thank you for this.
My pleasure - take care. D
@xshady313x I think I understand what you said, but I wanted to confirm, your spouse left out of nowhere? As if the relationship meant nothing at all to them? If so, it's exactly what I'm going through now, my heart is broken because it was nothing to him, its like he was just throwing out the trash. My heart hurts for you, I wouldn't wish this on anyone.
i watch your let them video every morning and every night and it has helped me so much through my breakup. you’re such a strong person, i aspire to be like you!!!💗
Take care. D
Hello, Ms. Dee. I'm 23 years old and I'm going to graduate soon, however these weeks have been very hard for me, thanks to the RUclips algorithm I was able to find you when I needed a friend to comfort me, your words are like a summer breeze, I really want to thank you for opening your channel.
I watch your videos from Mexico, so you know that your words are reaching all parts of the world💖
Thank you so much. Here's to a new, positive chapter in your life after graduation. D
Thank you for the wise videos. They contain precious information. Worth watching and Enjoyable.
You have such kind eyes. Thank you for the message
Thank you. D
Your let them, helped me get out of a dark dark space after someone I loved so deeply dropped me out of the blue. Thank you abundantly dear Dee.
You are so welcome D
What a way to start a Friday - a lovely cup of coffee with Dee. I feel soothed. And whole. And I am wearing a blue floofy dressing gown.. but more importantly, wearing a smile.
Thank you Dee. Have a beautiful day.
Enjoy! I have a vivid mental picture - in my fluffy dressing gown! D
Thank you for posting your video. I take your advice to heart🌸
I find you so comforting. Please don't stop making these beautiful videos, they really help
Your videos always leave me feeling so much better and lighter, as if all the heavy, harsh feelings and thoughts I have going on in my head slowly fade away. Like thunderclouds gradually uncovering the blue skies. I am grateful for you and the wonderful content you create ♥️ You speak so passionately and gracefully. Thank you Dee! Sending love from Poland xx
Just found Dee, I never had grandparents to pass on wisdom or anything so to find u feels like divine timing at this point in my life, thanks Dee ❤❤
Welcome - and hope you stick around. D
@@Cheshirelass 😊
I think this might be the best or my most favourite channel. It's like a bandaid for a fallen world. Who'd guess?
Thank you so much. D
I could listen to you read poems for hours.
Dee, you have given me strength in my day to day life for a while now, and I couldn't thank you enough.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart for all of this self loving content.
You are so welcome. Take care. D
You are doing good work. God bless you
I love how that colorfoul wind thing moves right at the exact moment that she says: ''kind of magically so''. As if magic was there to prove her point
HaHa - I cannot claim to have had anything to do with that.
I just wanna hug you, sweet Dee! You are a wonderful human being.
oh grandma Dee...why is it so hard to learn how to love and respect myself, when I was born from a toxic family that always makes me believe that I'm the problem...I really need to gain my inner strength together 😢
You can so do this. D
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We love and care about you ! ! You are worth it, and I know thing's will get better for you, so keep going ! ! 🤍💕 Sending lot's of love your way !
@@Moon_is_here I appreciate ur support :3
I love that, “take pleasure in being the person that you are”, so simple and yet so true and powerful
You have a lovely garden Dee!
You're like a mother or a grand mother who I wish I had.
Your video makes me feel I'm okay to live.
One day I wanna be like you who save many people.
Thank you so much for sharing wonderful videos.
I wish all the good things you do come back to you.
You are so kind D
@@Cheshirelass
So are you :)
I've actually made a video inspired by you just now
I hope it makes someone feel good too
Thank you for your light, Dee. Much Love from Japan. ❤
I’m in a difficult phase of my relationship, arguments, negative thoughts stress, anxiety etc this helped. Thanks
Take care. D
Dee, you are holding my hand through some challenging times through these videos. I feel understood, and accepted. ❤ thank you so much
Take care of yourself. D
Ma'am many Thanks for this, has given so much peace to my heart 💖
Good morning Dee. Beautiful poems and inspiring messages. Thank you. Love from Kenya 🇰🇪
Thank you so much, I love you, you are a kind and beautiful woman with a kind heart
Your voice and your words help me and makes me happy and confident❤
You are so welcome D
I really needed this. I had a fight with the person I tought it was my best friend. After she talked bad about me behind my back (and also did horrible things to my friends) I decided to erase her from my life. It's been 3 years and sometimes I miss her, but this video changed my mind completely.
She is not going to change, ever. So why I should wait for that? I should prioritize myself and just that. Thanks precious lady, you are an angel
I’ve been in a place recently where i’m trying to work on myself mentally. Just remembering i don’t have to look perfect or be a certain way at school. I like school, and i like solo presentations, and i like writing essays and stories, that’s who i am. I like having unnatural colored hair and making bracelets with strange colors, and drawing on my shoes and painting my bedroom walls with pictures. These videos you make, i appreciate them so much because they remind that i’m human. I like different things than other people and my ways are different too, and that’s alright.
It certainly is alright!! Be yourself - and enjoy. D
Thank you. Such a wonderful little gift when you pop up. Hearing you're voice with such brightness makes me think of my grandma. I was extremely close with her and my grandaddy and they were married over 70 years when they transcended. But I speak to both of them often when out in the backyard. Then the cardinals show up and I observe them having some early breakfast and will share their food with one another so it looks like they are giving each other a kiss. One thing that I am sure of is that they are right here with me because I can feel their loving energy.
Sorry for rambling on. Much love and many blessings to you. ❤️🕊❤️
Don't apologise - it was a lovely story - not rambling at all. Thank you for sharing it with us. D
I don’t know what twist of the universe put your videos in my path but it’s been a very, very long time since something has hit me so forcefully as the simple messages you’ve shared have.
I had to pause and consider the idea of simply believing I am good because I am, and other people will see it. Just the idea of trusting that instead of constantly striving to earn it or prove it.
It feels very foreign but revelatory. Thank you for sharing your wisdom!
I can’t believe this popped up on my RUclips again! I found your previous video by accident and it ended up having a big impact on me. I was talking with my boyfriend and I was worried that something wasn’t going to work out between us. So I was up front with him that this thing he wanted wasn’t something I was going to provide and in my head all I heard was “Let him” if he decided that our relationship wasn’t going to be enough for him. In the end, we decided to stay together and we have been stronger ever since. You should never hide something in fear that someone might leave you, if you think they can’t accept you and will leave, let them. Just remember to always accept yourself, you are enough.
Self-acceptance is so important - D
Listening to this is so calming and reassuring. Thank you
I find it extremely heartwarming to see you like recent comments from hours ago despite posting this two weeks ago. Your "let them" video appeared on my for-you page literally the exact moment i need it. My partner of one year broke up with me a couple days ago, and I dont feel like myself since. I can't believe i begged them to come back, i cant believe i put down my self-respect, my ego, my dignity, and took all the blame to beg someone who immediately got with another girl the day after we broke up. Who broke up with me to "work on himself" despite me telling him if he truly loved me, he would be willing to work on himself beside me. Your takes made me realize that there really is no use ruminating over a past we cant change, over the damage that already has been done. I've been trying my best to get over the fact that we're never speaking again, and letting him go. To try and get over the fact that I still love him despite him absolutely destroying me and this first relationship I've been in, while he's been in 14. Thank you, Dee, for inspiring individuals of all ages, genders, and ethnicities with your wise comments in life.
I learned early on… why do I want someone who doesn’t want me? Hard to let go, but looking back- best thing I’ve ever realized❤
@@USAneedsGOD Amen!! God put him in my life for me to realize how love should be like. The "right person" will never leave you to "improve themselves", they wont leave you in the first place !!
Thank you - do take care and make sure that you do those little things that give you pleasure and contentment. D
Love defies the bounds of what we know to be "right". Do not worry much over your self-respect, ego, dignity, etc. because all (or most) true lovers do not let go of their love easily. "Everything I've ever let go of has claw marks on it." you fight for what you want, thats a good thing. Right now the thought of never speaking again is daunting but one day the thought of having to talk to him at all would be a bother because you'd have grown so far from that place! The growth happens naturally, but slowly, give yourself grace. Now is the time to direct that energy towards yourself...and if that energy is too intense, direct it towards an art or an outlet of your choice! The power is yours! In the meantime, have some fun!
הי קשה לי עם האנגלית. מישהו יוכל לכתוב לי בבקשה מאיזה ספר היא ציטטה?
תודה רבה
I have no idea why, but these words really just spoke to some part of me. This was such a healing video to stumble across. It allowed me to access emotions I had bottled away for so long after feeling very numb for quite some time.
Thank You
My pleasure - I hope that having stumbled across my channel that you stick around and join us for others. D
I'm caring for my grandson and his girlfriend atm, and we have a saying "Strong, not wrong". We are focusing on their strengths , not what they have been told is "wrong' with them. ( ps..my grandson is recovering from a mental breakdown ..his parents love him dearly, but the people in the town they live in have had a major impact on his life. He's healing here by the ocean and his working parents spend every weekend here with him).
When you focus on someones strengths, empower them, shine a light on what is good within, they bloom.
Thank you for sharing xx
Thank you so much for sharing your story. Take care of yourself and those around you. D
You have no idea how much I've needed someone like you to show up in my life. In a world where everything seems so hopeless, you have given me a new perspective of life, a new perspective of me. Your decision to share your thoughts, to share your memories, to share your metaphors was the best thing I could have hoped for, they have left such a beautiful mark on my soul. Simple, yet so remarkable. Thank you, for reminding me, who I am, who I was, and who I CAN/WILL be. Y(OUR) light will always shine from the people you have inspired.
Stay well and blessed!
Thank you. D
Your videos always pop up on my phone when i need them the most. You are lovely and your words bring me peace. Thank you Dee ❤️
My pleasure D
You always choose the prettiest poems to read, and also you have such a talent in telling them, your voice is so calm. Thank you for these videos, they are very peaceful, and you had appeared in my feed during a time i was needing, and read a poem that really spoke to me. Also, the background with the windmill is so beautiful, i don't know the right word to describe the comfort this video bring. God bless you 💝💝
Wow, thank you! Take care. D
You garden is absolutely beautiful! Let them helped me so much and the follow-up is just what I needed. Thank you so much Dee ❤
I came across your channel accidentally but I am so pleased I did. The video "let them" I sent to my daughter so she could send it back to me and now I treasure it. My life turned a little upside down but now I'm getting back on track again and with your help I know that the decision I made was the right one and I'm moving on. Thank you so much, you are like the mother I never had, bless you.❤.
Welcome!! Take care. D
This was a safe place that I much needed. Thank you.
Take care. D
I just discovered your channel. I’m 24 and currently dealing with the end of a relationship and a lot of uncertainties and failure in my life projects. You seem a sweet, beautiful soul just like my nonna. A hug from Italy
get how you feel try just living day by day. worrying too much about the future will give you anxiety
Thank you nd welcome - a hug being sent back to Italy. D
Same 😢
“Your light is simply made of the youness that makes you, you” Beautiful! Thanks Dee ❤
My dear lady, just a short time ago before I lay myself down to sleep, I came across your video about letting go. How beautiful, so is this video and your others. I am a new subscriber from across the pond, living not far from the Kingdom of the Mouse in the Orlando, Florida area, AKA, Walt Disney World. You dear lady, are a bright light in a world that seems many want to strike the lights of people and not only allow them to live and be in darkness, but demand that they do. I thought that we as humans, had largely put that way of being behind us. Keep your kind and gentle light shinning.
Thank you so much for your kind words. So many people are struggling - on so many levels. This human is endeavouring to help - just a little bit. I have fond memories if my visit to Florida many years ago- and of being bitten aall over by the mossies in the everglades despite being lathered in repellant and not showing much skin! Take care. D
Thank you so much for the advice again I'm 17 years old turning 18 and I question myself if I am worth full or if I'm enough to have things I desire or dream of or pray everyday to have them I wish I could hug you cause you're a great person thank you mam god may bless you 🙏❤️🥰🥰😘♥️🥹♥️
Take care - don't forget to make time to enjoy yourself!! D
If a man makes you feel confused,
he is wasting your time
and eroding your self esteem!
It's VERY simple:
always judge a person by their ACTIONS,
and you will never EVER be fooled by their words...
1. Know your value!!! (Do NOT doubt yourself.)
2. Take yourself and your worth seriously. You need to BE A QUEEN to be treated like one.
3. Don’t give easy access. Access to your energy should be expensive.
4. Do NOT only EXPRESS your boundaries. YOU MUST show them.
5. Always be ready to walk away.
6. Show that you are focused on actions not on words.
7. Have a healthy degree of skepticism.
8. You must be willing to say NO and you must be willing to lose the man, if needed.
9. Never EVER chase a man! A truly worthy woman, does not EVER chase a man.
Giving the same energy that you're getting
is key
and if you don't like that energy
then move on! NOW!
It can be hard
but that's when you need to choose yourself
over the damn illusion/fantasy.
A man who loves a woman will not ignore her, ever, period.
So...
If he ignores me
I will step back
and he will lose me.
Simple. Simple.
Non-dramatic
and uncomplicated.
I don’t,
under any circumstance:
play these childish-abusive-controlling
mind games.
I will only be with a man who values and appreciates me,
and treats me as the Queen, I AM.
(Daughter of the Most Hight; King of kings!)
Because I am a beautiful and kind and divine
and sexy and wise and intelligent and magical woman:
who knows my worth.
Period.
Also,
We create each moment.
This moment contains,
through my focus,
both positive and negative...
I can put my attention on what I lack,
what I don't have,
what traumas I do have etc...
And,
I can put my attention on the calm moment that I am in, NOW,
the food I just ate, and the fact that my body is satisfied, the shelter I do have...
(You get my idea!)
Both are here...
And now.
For the sake of fairness,
I will allow myself to cry my pains, in the moment
if/when they come/arise,
AND
also acknowledge the beauty I still have in my life NOW.
Pain? Yes.
Suffering? Indeed.
And,
also:
wonderous magical divine beauty.
Blessings to you!
Easier said than done
@@wafabhatt9108agreed, likewise for women, what happens if they pull away or quiet or in a bad mood, do you just walk away at every slight sign of it? Unfortunately we’ve all been treated poorly & want to control the future so it never happens again
Thank you. Thank you again for appearing in my life. You help alot. Really. Also thank you for sharing the book, i went and searched about it and will get it soon. Your light helps. Thank you again.
You are a joy. Thank you for sharing your wise and kind insights and experience. You’re a genuine treasure to listen to.💕🌻✨
Thank you too. D
Thank you so much
I did watch the first part and cried and now this one gave me such a hope, granted me a second breath. I’m truly thankful for this wisdom you’ve shared. You can’t imagine how much you helped
You are welcome D
Thank you grandma i feel calm just listening to you this video i feel calm.
I will re play this video its nice
Thank you D
Thank you for doing this ❤ I’ve been feeling really alone and tired of the circumstances and health I’m in that I can’t control and I’ve been letting it exhaust me mentally. And that I’ve lost the glow I once had.
That glow is still there - nurture it and don't let your tiredness dim it. Take care D
The world needs more people like you. Thank you
I've been wandering around with an itch I couldn't scratch, until you popped up! Thank you Dee for your encouragement
My goodness, I am so incredibly grateful for finding your channel, Dee. Truly, you are an amazing human being! ❤
And this dark world needs your glow. Thank you!
Wow, thank you! D
Your videos give me such a sense of calmness. Thank you for sharing and being a light in someone’s day 🫶🏼
My pleasure D
I was named after my grandmother (mom’s mom) and she was beautiful courageous wise woman. She passed away right before I was born. This feels like something I would hear from her. Thank you dearly❤
Take care. D
I wish I was raised by someone like you.
Your videos seem to show up in my feed just when I need them most. Thank you Dee. 🙂
Take care. D
I just saw "Let Them" for the first time. Incredibly powerful. Well done.
I could listen to you read for hours. Thank you for being a comforting and bright light in this dark world ❤
Wow, thank you D
You have helped me more than you imagine. Thank you for your wisdom 🩷
This got me cryin😢 I’m at a horrible place right now in life and I’ve been so numb to it. Everyone around me points it out and I don’t even believe it. I don’t even love myself. I don’t know who I am or what I’m in this world for. I question my own feelings and worth. I don’t see any way out this funk I’ve been in for years. Your soothing yet genuine words have made me think and question my own feelings outside the box. Outside the normal feelings I feel every day. I don’t know how to explain it except the fact your words and thoughts are such a breath or fresh air. It hit me in parts of me I forget exist. Thank your beautiful soul❤️
Thank you so much. Just take one baby step at a time... especially towards learning just who you are and loving that person. May I suggest that you check out some of my videos from the past weeks - I reckon you will find support for you in there. Take care. D
@@Cheshirelass thank you for responding to me. I’ll continue to watch your helpful kind videos 🥹❤️
You look like my grandmother And it’s really lovely to hear you speak- you remind me so much of her I have to subscribe
Thank you for the encouragement you give to my soul! You have such a calming effect with your delicate words. May God richly bless you.
Thank you so very much for the pep talk, I really needed it ❤️
“Shine bright little fighter…this dark world needs your glow” ✨ This I dedicate to my beautiful, brave son, he’s 27 with severe Cerebral Palsy. They said he wouldn’t live a week when he was born. His name is Emilio and his smile shines brighter than all the stars in the sky. 🤍💫 Thank you Dee, another thought provoking video of wisdom and hope.
You brought tears to my eyes with your love for your son. I wish blessings to you both.
Sending hugs to Emilio and you. Have a wonderful weekend.
Love to your shining star Emilio - and to you too. D
@@QueenYak Thank you so much, same to you. 🤗
@@Cheshirelass Thank you Dee. Your videos are a great source of inspiration and bring me much peace. 🤍
You're carrying me through a break up and into my next phase in life. I so appreciate you and the algorithm for leading you my way.
Take care. D
How are U now ? I m also going through the same since 1 month.
@@wafabhatt9108 I'm making it, slowly but surely 🙏🏻 reminding myself that I don't always have to feel great or have it all figured out
Love your voice of liquid silk! Soothing my mind and heart. Thanking the Lord I found you, Dee, and I truly appreciate you. I need your lovely videos of comfort & inspiration at this point in my life. I'm also sharing them with my sisterhood of family and friends. God bless you. 🐦🎶🦋🌷🌞🩷
thank you so much. D
this video found me at the perfect time. as someone with bpd i never learned how to prosses my emotions and stuff like that and these videos have been very helpful. thank you!!
Glad it helped!
I love this woman
Thank you D
Such a lovely message, delivered so calmly and lovingly. Your energy brightened my day, thank you for sharing Dee
You are so welcome D
I needed this. Thank you 🙏🏼❤️
Thank you for allowing me to be here! I know one day humans like yourself we all be together to cherish beautiful moments.
A lovely way to start our day listening to your wonderful reminders of what we need to hear. Thank you dear Dee and blessings to you ☯️🥰💚🙏
My ex just broke up with me after 3 years and told me he doesn’t feel the same and didn’t have any more to give. You’re helping me more than you know during my time of grief….
Take care. D
So true! We believe what we are told about ourselves .. sometimes we are the hardest on ourselves. Just remember you can always change that voice in your head.
You can - but if it has been going on for some time, you havae to be patient with ridding yourself of it. D
You didn’t blow it, Dee! You were spot on. 😉 You go girl! (as we say in America) Much success to you and your channel. I’ve already shared your Light!❤
Thanks so much - this gal intends to keep going as long as she can!! I was so amazed when my channel took off a few weeks ago - after I had been posting for 2 years. D
This is one of the reasons why, leaving aside the hate and some horrible things that it also hosts, I love how powerful the Internet can be. Because of people like you, who share this kindness in order to connect with others around the world and help them. I really and profoundly appreciate every single word you say, in every video. It gets me emocional every time I hear your talks and advices because it seems for me hard to believe the existence of such a wonderful person you are here, in the Internet, where most of the people stand up only for sharing bad words and spreading hate.
I could repeat this a hundred times, but THANK YOU. Now I believe again in algorithms, thanks to RUclips recommending me this incredible profile. Lot of love from Spain :))).
Gracias - for your very kind words. D
Your words truly touch my heart. Thank you so much.
You are an incredible, beautiful person. You are sharing pure love with everyone who watches these videos. I am in tears. ❤
You are so kind D
Your soul is so beautiful it is helping so many broken souls heal. You are true a soul healer, thank you 🙏❤
You are so welcome - thank you for joining us. D
Beautiful soul thank you for sharing your light with us.