Our HEARTS know what REALLY MATTERS

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  • @ReflectionsofLife
    @ReflectionsofLife  2 месяца назад +9

    Support us in creating more films like this : www.patreon.com/reflectionsoflife
    Thank you Justine & Michael 💚

  • @Vivechyanityam01
    @Vivechyanityam01 Год назад +857

    Solitude rather than a bad company is a bliss..

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Год назад +6

      Thank you for sharing this thought Vivechya. Kind wishes Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @mariannewolf57
      @mariannewolf57 8 месяцев назад +5

      Amen to that...

    • @bellagrace9812
      @bellagrace9812 8 месяцев назад

      Indeed it is. ❤

    • @nancymosby7369
      @nancymosby7369 7 месяцев назад

      Agreed 👍🏽

    • @Bietka58
      @Bietka58 4 месяца назад

      Dziękuję,potrzeba było mi posłuchać i pomyśleć,mam teraz trudny czas, dziękuję 💚

  • @jcsrst
    @jcsrst Год назад +1778

    The joy of getting older is realizing what really matters and not caring about what doesn't.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Год назад +18

      Thank you for sharing these thoughts with us. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @atticuskilby515
      @atticuskilby515 Год назад +10

      Absolutely.♥️

    • @ConnyGermangirl
      @ConnyGermangirl Год назад +7

      So true❤❤

    • @jmc8076
      @jmc8076 Год назад +13

      So true but not for all older humans I’ve met. Reality is too many even in their 90s hang on to what no longer should matter.

    • @jcsrst
      @jcsrst Год назад

      So true! It never even crossed my mind because I don't know any of them right now, in the past yes.@@jmc8076

  • @jenna2431
    @jenna2431 Год назад +2015

    I wish I lived next door to Gina. We'd sew and paint and talk deeply about deep things. We'd butter bread and drink tea and laugh out loud about holiday men.

    • @spmoran4703
      @spmoran4703 Год назад +100

      Could I join you .

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Год назад +57

      Lovely. Glad you enjoyed the video with her so much Jenna. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @Tiffany-bk4kz
      @Tiffany-bk4kz Год назад +100

      I'd love being neighbors with you and Gina. Deep thinkers & logical, honest people are hard to find. :)

    • @joniirvin1469
      @joniirvin1469 Год назад +53

      Can I be in your neighborhood too?💜

    • @lovelifementoring5399
      @lovelifementoring5399 Год назад +28

      What a beautiful thing to say ❤

  • @Mia-ei4mh
    @Mia-ei4mh 11 месяцев назад +618

    She paints, bakes, writes, speaks well, stich & have a garden 🥹it's a dream life 💕

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  11 месяцев назад +4

      💚

    • @glendalamadrid5567
      @glendalamadrid5567 10 месяцев назад +10

      I also do most of what she does, and I have a family of 5 to take care of. And yes, its a dream life.

    • @l.5832
      @l.5832 9 месяцев назад +10

      Yes. Many older divorced women have to stay in the workforce indefinitely to afford a roof over their heads, sometimes working several jobs.

    • @peggyduncanbaggenstoss5380
      @peggyduncanbaggenstoss5380 9 месяцев назад +6

      There’s balance in everything… we all find time to do things we are interested in.

    • @sallymitchell6423
      @sallymitchell6423 9 месяцев назад +4

      Perhaps you can find a way to have more of these things in your life too? I hope so ❤

  • @AtHomeWithLulu
    @AtHomeWithLulu Год назад +449

    I am an empty nester, nearing 50 yrs old and have been struggling deeply, with sadness, anxiety and loneliness. Having a difficult time settling into my “now” life. Struggling to accept my aging face and body, my empty home and just trying to figure out what it is that I should be doing with this season of my life. Gina’s story and sweet, gentle wisdom was a balm to my angsty soul. Thank you for showing us how peaceful and joyful the second half of life can be. It gave me a glimmer of hope.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Год назад +11

      Thank you for sharing your current struggles with us Loretta. So special that Gina's story touched you so greatly. May her words help and inspire you to find your feet and settle in this new phase of your life. Sending you much love. Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @AtHomeWithLulu
      @AtHomeWithLulu Год назад +1

      @@ReflectionsofLife thank you! 🙏🏻❤️

    • @deanihendry7967
      @deanihendry7967 11 месяцев назад +17

      ❤ I’m in the same place in my life , recently alone at 67 ❤

    • @cb1623
      @cb1623 11 месяцев назад +11

      There is so much you can be doing. Now you can find a friend to go on a cruise with. Get a job in a friendly environment. Volunteer. Find a spouse if you don't have one. You have a full life of your own that is separate from that of your dear children. Take control of it and live it!

    • @Smilingraincat
      @Smilingraincat 11 месяцев назад +23

      I am 51 and experiencing a similar transition - although without children. What is so fascinating to me is how much most of us have in common. (This is beautiful life!) I wish you the very best, sending a smile your way. Happy New Year. ⏳☕️🧭💕

  • @nilepearl1997
    @nilepearl1997 Год назад +170

    "Although my head understood it completely ... my heart took a lot longer to accept that" !

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Год назад +1

      💚

    • @Beautiful121
      @Beautiful121 7 месяцев назад

      😭🌹

    • @Flyfreenow
      @Flyfreenow 4 месяца назад

      Love 💗 this and know it to be true

    • @spring5802
      @spring5802 24 дня назад +1

      What my head understood right away took my heart more than 1 year to accept it. I am so glad that it doesn’t haunt me anymore and I finally found peace.

  • @kindred-spirits
    @kindred-spirits Год назад +871

    Whenever I find myself feeling down or disillusioned with life, I turn to this channel for solace. It's so comforting to have people from all ages and walks of life who've gone through the strife and struggles of life and come out on the other side, and to be able to hear their stories and be reminded that there is much beyond life than my current struggles as long as I have the courage to go on. I am absolutely amazed by the limitless wisdom and beauty of this channel. Words cannot express my gratitude to you for creating these extraordinary documentaries.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Год назад +29

      Thank you for your comment, your words mean a lot to us and encourage us. It's wonderful to read that the various stories help and inspire you when you are struggling. May there always be the right video for you at the right time. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @braxenaeurasiers
      @braxenaeurasiers Год назад +15

      I do too, that is why I am here today. I do watch it other times but especially when I need uplifting, and good advice from my elders, I come here. Thank you Green Renaissance for such beautiful visual and verbal material.

    • @marylynnjohnson4597
      @marylynnjohnson4597 Год назад +9

      Your words stand true for me as well, kindred-spirits 🤗Thank you Justine and Michael

    • @lisahinkofer2085
      @lisahinkofer2085 Год назад +13

      Yes me too. Love these beautiful souls that talk of love and peace with themselves and what is. This channel gives me peace and joy

    • @pamelashoemaker1614
      @pamelashoemaker1614 Год назад +12

      I am feeling all the sadness you mentioned. I am trying to let go and live the moments that I am here. I stumbled across this video and I am so grateful. It really comforted me. I loved how you shared your talk along with your cookies and your neighbor’s cat. I am crying tears of joy. I feel like I was sitting down with an old friend. ❤😊. Thank you.

  • @curtisgrindahl446
    @curtisgrindahl446 10 месяцев назад +255

    Having watched many of these I think I can say that healing really comes about from having a cat in your life... or a dog, but probably a cat.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  10 месяцев назад +13

      Thank you for sharing this thought. Some people prefer cats, others dogs, or another animal. But a pet definitely makes a huge in a person's life. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @rahmasamir909
      @rahmasamir909 9 месяцев назад +6

      Cat yes

    • @Lynnette4
      @Lynnette4 9 месяцев назад +6

      Dogs are wonderful companions! As are cats! Nature is beautiful

    • @ladytube64
      @ladytube64 9 месяцев назад +6

      Amen about having a cat!!

    • @tomroyse1540
      @tomroyse1540 9 месяцев назад +6

      Not just one cat or two or seventeen but connecting with another life force.I have several cats ,a dog and two horses.I love my life , my family and all that surrounds me. Life is indeed good!

  • @pacificnorthwestgirl2725
    @pacificnorthwestgirl2725 Год назад +90

    I really liked the message in this video, thank you. Her mother's quote " If there is something you cannot fix, step over it... learn to step over it and let it go"...

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Год назад +1

      So glad you enjoyed the story she shared. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @Flyfreenow
      @Flyfreenow 4 месяца назад +2

      Stepping over the rejection and control of a narcissistic family and moving on

  • @virusdot6159
    @virusdot6159 Год назад +80

    Real friends are rare...

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Год назад +1

      Thank you for sharing this thought. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @Lotus1111
    @Lotus1111 Год назад +1045

    Under 2 min. in, I’m tearful & so grateful for Gina & her message. A few days before my mother transitioned, she looked me directly in my eyes and said, “stop taking life so seriously, it’s not for you to understand, enjoy your life more, please.” With tears in our eyes, we hugged and I nodded like I “got it.” For the last two days, been journaling more & letting go … finally, a decade later, at 59, her words are ringing true. Freedom. Grateful.

    • @calashibryant295
      @calashibryant295 Год назад +47

      🥺🙏🏼💗 So beautiful. You are spreading her wisdom to me now. She is still blessing others. I needed this. Thank you for this gift! 🙏🏼💐

    • @parry3231
      @parry3231 Год назад +24

      ❤Thanks for your help and support for all of us in our process of living in the moment and finding the joy of living regardless of the circumstances that surround us.❤

    • @williama.hovestreydt6623
      @williama.hovestreydt6623 Год назад +17

      Your comments resonate with me at this moment and I happen to be 59 s well. Thanks for sharing!

    • @AStephT
      @AStephT Год назад +7

      ❤❤❤

    • @deliabraun4418
      @deliabraun4418 Год назад +15

      I am also 59, I was meant to read your comment today. Thank you so much ❤

  • @shemlocked
    @shemlocked Год назад +122

    I’ve learned at 30 to let go of what I can’t control and it really made a difference.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Год назад +2

      Great that you came to tat point and it changed your life positively Shem. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @xWabbli
      @xWabbli 6 месяцев назад

      Hi, when to let go of a relationship?

    • @saikrishna2747
      @saikrishna2747 6 месяцев назад

      ​@@xWabbliwhy let go be committed and be trust worthy discuss issues solve them openly always try to protect relationship❤

  • @forestgreen916
    @forestgreen916 Месяц назад +9

    " if there's something that you can't fix - just STEP OVER it "
    the simplicity of her mother's advice is SO HELPFUL &
    MADE me CHUCKLE : )

  • @pamcain7893
    @pamcain7893 8 месяцев назад +7

    How beautiful life could be, if only we could let go and just enjoy what we have been blessed with.

  • @liveacousticsound
    @liveacousticsound 9 месяцев назад +41

    I understand loss and grief better than most. I lost my adult daughter suddenly, and the grief has shattered me. I don’t know if I will ever be at a place of acceptance. The loss of a child isn’t like other types of loss.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  9 месяцев назад +4

      Sorry to read about the passing of your daughter, we hear you. It's always hard to lose a loved one but to lose a child is enormously painful. The words fail us somehow. We wish you strength for every new day, may you feel carried.
      Maybe this video can be a help: ‘Through The Storm’ - (ruclips.net/video/tB98ldnUcTE/видео.html). Sending much love and kindness. Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @CaptWuppazz
      @CaptWuppazz 7 месяцев назад +5

      Although I empathize with your loss, I can’t imagine how much it hurts, I don’t think you can say that you know grief better than most. Losing a parent when you are young or your spouse when your spouse is your only connection in this world is very significant.
      I encourage you to leave room for others to feel their grief and not qualify it as a Les or more thing. Coming to terms with your grief in a way that you have no need to compare it with other people is the best way. And I am speaking to myself to.

    • @liveacousticsound
      @liveacousticsound 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@CaptWuppazz The loss of an adult child is grief on a whole different level, believe me. Yes, one can easily make comparison. If you haven’t experienced it, you”d never really understand. The grief you mention is very difficult, just not the same. I can’t explain it to you, I just know. I probably should not have posted this here for the same reason you mentioned, to give others room for their own grief. It was self-serving of me. My apologies!

    • @now591
      @now591 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@CaptWuppazz Coulda just left it without feeling the need to go into "correctional mode" It was authentic and totally valid expression of depth of pain & I agree with it.

    • @now591
      @now591 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@liveacousticsound My heartfelt sympathy to you ! 💜❤🙏You are right ,it is on a whole different level in fact I said the very same thing to someone just recently. You should not feel any need to apologise.😪

  • @esteeb42
    @esteeb42 Год назад +275

    I was married at 19, we have a son and a daughter. My husband passed away October of last year after a battle with brain cancer. We were married 41 years this coming Monday.
    Her message resonated with me a lot, maybe in a different way however I really enjoyed and learned from it.😊

    • @jacqueline8559
      @jacqueline8559 Год назад +12

      You are in my thoughts, though we are Strangers. May you find some solace, even in the grief, on Monday knowing you have been so loved

    • @parry3231
      @parry3231 Год назад +5

      ❤Finding the strength and the ability to live with love for the memories of all of the years of having such a magnificent time with your husband.
      The resiliency of making a place for your healing and the way to be present and to enjoy life with a variety of things that are important to spend time in being joyously living in a creative place with gratitude and appreciation in all of the days of your life unfolding in the mystery. ❤You are blessed with the love that you experienced and the love of your life now too.❤

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Год назад +12

      Thank you for sharing a bit about your life Esther. We are really sorry that you had to say good bye to your husband last year after his battle with cancer. May you find strength and inspiration for every new day, especially also for this coming Monday. Wonderful that Gina's message spoke to you and was valuable. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @brightpurpleviking
      @brightpurpleviking Год назад +9

      I’m so sorry for your great loss. When my father died my mom said you never really understand what it’s like to lose your spouse until you do. 💜

    • @helianacastro3026
      @helianacastro3026 Год назад +1

      the fact of letting go its never been easy however, in my solituded i find calm... thought by times i desired meet one day that married love...i dont know mmm 😊😮

  • @judylandry302
    @judylandry302 Год назад +523

    As an older women, be careful of men who pretend to be interested but who really just want a "nurse" with a purse; someone (you) to take care of them.
    And NEVER let them move in with you.

    • @Elizabeth-p3d3d
      @Elizabeth-p3d3d Год назад +45

      Very true. They hide their malice behind a honey-tongued tongue and wear a mask of virtues. Be prudent and tell ourselves we are capable on our own we manage with our love ❤for ourselves.

    • @Elizabeth-p3d3d
      @Elizabeth-p3d3d Год назад +5

      Gina sounds like an Irish. My first and best friend is a Irish girl, Felicity Gilmore. I met her her in London. I m still seeking her put and would like to meet up with her. We met in St Philomena located in Euston London.

    • @sherrypeveto1868
      @sherrypeveto1868 11 месяцев назад +23

      As a nurse, I agree!!

    • @penelopethomson6601
      @penelopethomson6601 11 месяцев назад +48

      Yes I have been told that. Men over a certain age want a house keeper and / or a nurse.

    • @rogergardner7740
      @rogergardner7740 11 месяцев назад +17

      So we older guys just depart to the Philippines where we're welcomed, well taken care of and vice versa
      Bye now
      Gotcha
      Problem solved

  • @cloudsinmycoffeeeee
    @cloudsinmycoffeeeee 7 месяцев назад +39

    I am so grateful that I found this channel. I am in my late 20s and want to realize as early as now what truly matters in this life. I don’t want to overthink and overanalyze. I don’t want to chase things that won’t matter in the long run.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  7 месяцев назад

      Welcome to our channel, we are glad that we can share these videos with you. May the various messages help you to find the answers, to find out what really matters in life. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @cherilynne1946
      @cherilynne1946 4 месяца назад +2

      You’re blessedly young to already be gaining incredible wisdom and insight into what really matters in this life. Hang on tightly to these lessons you’re learning. They will guide your steps and will help you to make wise choices.

  • @rachelcharris
    @rachelcharris Год назад +43

    Today has enough trouble of it's own - Jesus ❤

  • @sarahfaith6531
    @sarahfaith6531 9 месяцев назад +40

    “Regardless of the outcome, this will always be my treasure.”
    That means so much to me. Thanks 😊

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  9 месяцев назад +1

      Wonderful that these words were so valuable. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @justpassingthrough7437
    @justpassingthrough7437 Год назад +370

    I love how honestly she speaks of heartbreak! So many times people only express the courageous parts of surviving heartbreak. This lovely lady openly shared the hard part. What a blessing! Once again Green Renaissance has blessed me with a beautiful film. Thank you!

    • @parry3231
      @parry3231 Год назад +6


      Thanks for your comment and the encouragement to find the love of our lives in each precious moment of our lives. ❤
      I agree that we are all blessed with the wonderful postings of Green Renaissance ❤

    • @sharonannc.3079
      @sharonannc.3079 Год назад +8

      ……Never a disappointment from Green Renaissance….always a careful choice with depth… I share your videos often.
      This lovely lady spoke volumes of bittersweet truths.
      Going within isn’t always easy, or a first choice, we gloss over our pain, disappointments & harbor them up…
      However like a sailboat ⛵️ I must pull up the sails step in & let go ….of my fears… of my choices that bind me up ….. as Gina’s Mum so poignantly said “ Step over it” I liked that…
      My Mum would say , often , you can’t fix others, you must mend yourself…..life is full of bittersweet memories.
      I raised 2 small boys solo … & as I reflect I wonder how I did it, but with Grace! Yes grace, of many people God put in our paths, we grew together, closer than we thought it could be.
      Thank you …. I’m so grateful for your dedication to share life…through sooooo many vessels…
      We are the clay… For me He, my God is the potter , molding me from broken pieces… blending colorful experiences together, in my life, with much Grace, Love, & Peace…
      Blessings all who watch & listen…may we all embrace Grace …& learn to become a perineal to blossom through seasons… & allow Grace to exude upon & through us….to others..
      🌹 I am a perineal growing through the poundings of life..🌹

    • @krystal7382
      @krystal7382 Год назад +1

      ​​​@@sharonannc.3079Hello. I think you meant to type perennial..which is a type of flower that returns every year in our gardens. You typed perineal which is located in the lower regions of our bodies. Google/YT may have auto-corrected the word by accident. Nevertheless...just wanted to help you out. Much love. 🙏💕

    • @krystal7382
      @krystal7382 Год назад

      ​@@sharonannc.3079I liked your comment 😊.

    • @justpassingthrough7437
      @justpassingthrough7437 Год назад

      @@krystal7382 😁😆😅🤣!

  • @MargaretShephard
    @MargaretShephard Год назад +80

    Thank you for the lovely video I needed just now. I am 75. I feel I am in a good season of my life and feel blessed but I still have periods of overthinking, trying to understand things.Step over it really spoke to me.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Год назад +2

      Wonderful. We are so happy that this video so valuable to you, may her words inspire and help you in your daily life. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @shannonbradley4699
    @shannonbradley4699 11 месяцев назад +27

    Wow! I just stumbled into this on my news feed and boy, I NEEDED to see and hear this lovely lady. I have been alone since 2017 and I am just now learning to accept it. I am no longer the pretty young thing always looking for fun and excitement. I am almost 60 years old, childless (not by choice) and I am FINALLY learning that my life is beautiful....just in different ways now. I thought my life was over. I faced cancer and addiction and truly thought that I was going to end up dead and people would say, "She had such a sad life. Maybe it's better and she will finally be at peace." I know now that my life is NOT over. I still have lots to do but in a different way now. I am now subscribed and THANK YOU.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  11 месяцев назад +3

      Welcome! So happy you came across our channel, thank you for subscribing. Wonderful that this video reached you at the right time. Thank you for sharing a bit about your life. We are glad you came through all of the difficulties trials and sickness and are here with us. Whatever life holds for you, whatever you will do, we wish you all the best in all you do. Sending you warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @angelinjohn5710
      @angelinjohn5710 7 месяцев назад +1

      Your an inspiration.. Thanks for sharing your message.

  • @annanicole1717
    @annanicole1717 11 месяцев назад +6

    This just showed up in my youtube at the right moment. Today is. My birthday and I feel that I will never have any more Happy birthdays. My dad died 2 months ago and now my mom is sick and I’m not sure she will pull through. My grief is unbearable. I’ve never been married and I have no children and now I’m too old. I am so overwhelmed and so lonely and so sad. And sometimes anxious. Today I cried off and on from the the time I woke up at 10:30 this morning until now 1 am. Thank you for this video. So gentle, which is what I need now most.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  11 месяцев назад

      Really sorry to read that you find yourself in this tough and sad spot on your birthday. Even so we wish you belated all the best for the year ahead, despite all the difficulties and sadness.
      Glad we could share her message with you, that it was just what you needed. Maybe there are other videos that can carry you at this time. One might be ‘Through The Storm’ - (ruclips.net/video/tB98ldnUcTE/видео.html). Sending you much love and strength. Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @alejandraibanez9007
      @alejandraibanez9007 2 месяца назад

      You are not alone, you have yourself and god ❤

  • @bonniewagg5711
    @bonniewagg5711 9 месяцев назад +22

    I don’t know how I saw your video today but my gosh I needed to hear you. My marriage ended after 38 years and my rock was my older sister. Sadly she passed away before I fully recovered but she was there for me when I needed her most. I am still hoping for a beautiful life even though I am 70, have COPD, and live alone. It’s within me I know, and listening to you today I’m much more confident than I was yesterday. Thank you and many blessings.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  9 месяцев назад

      We are so glad to hear that, in some small way, this film could help to remind you of the strength that you carry within you. Keep carrying your sisters faith and believe in you, forward in your heart. And may you grow stronger and more confident with each new day. We send you love! Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @galegreen3203
    @galegreen3203 Год назад +138

    Complete love and respect for Gina and her words. My soul is touched.

    • @parry3231
      @parry3231 Год назад +2

      ❤Yes ❤We all have to learn how to stabilize ourselves in the inevitable stages of loss and how to get back to be present and joyously living. It is a very important part of our lives and we need to make a decision to get back into our own love of living and to remain grateful for the love that is still existing and how to make peace with the past memories and the loss that is always felt. ❤We can help each other with our own thoughts and feelings about our lives and how we are going through this process of learning to live with love and care for ourselves and others in our lives. ❤

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Год назад +3

      Thank you for being open to her story Gale. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @ManuelaChristina1
    @ManuelaChristina1 Год назад +113

    I am in the same proces this lovely woman is. Letting go of everything what was. Just living. I am searching just now for a lovely still place to live. The city is for me to much noise and to much people. I feel lost between this kind of noise and no longer fitting. I am happy on my own and with my cat and nature and my family near. That gives me peace and quiet place comfort me. Thanks Gina for sharing your experience ❤ thanks to Justine and Michael for sharing your channel ❤ i have not much but i give every month a gift for your work. Those messages are so needed ❤

    • @parry3231
      @parry3231 Год назад +3

      ❤Blessings to you and the ability to live with love and care in your life ❤Thanks for sharing your thoughts and feelings on your own personal life in finding your own needs for peace and quiet. ❤
      Thanks again ❤

    • @ManuelaChristina1
      @ManuelaChristina1 Год назад +1

      Thanks to you for your lovely woords ❤🎉

    • @nicoleurdang4909
      @nicoleurdang4909 Год назад +5

      I think as we age it’s easy to embrace the concept of JOMO, the joy of missing out.
      Lewis Carroll wrote something in Alice in Wonderland. That would apply to today’s overstimulating world, there’s “too much of a munchness.”

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Год назад +7

      Thank you Manuela, your message touches us deeply - firstly because our videos are so valuable to you and also because you feel it in your heart to support our work. We have no words. Please be assured that your support is greatly appreciated.
      May you you find that comfortable and still place, away from the hustle and bustle of city life, and live happily every day with your cat and family in close proximity. Wishing you all the best and sending you much love. Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @ManuelaChristina1
      @ManuelaChristina1 Год назад +1

      Thanks so much Justine and Michael ❤🎉

  • @KatjaEmmery
    @KatjaEmmery Год назад +83

    What a beautiful soul this woman is, with all her wisdom, the humour and her immense power to be grateful for the little things that make life precious. And again....Justine & Michael, you made the most beautiful images, a tiny mini-movie it is every time. Thank you. Much love.

    • @parry3231
      @parry3231 Год назад +1

      ❤So very true ❤

    • @slimshany4602
      @slimshany4602 Год назад +1

      ❤😊

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Год назад +1

      We appreciate all your kind and encouraging words Katja. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @l.5832
    @l.5832 9 месяцев назад +36

    She is fortunate to have enough money to live the way she does. Many of us, after losing long time relationships, and particularly if they ended abusively, have a very difficult time providing the necessities of life....on top of the grief of what you thought you had.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  9 месяцев назад +8

      Sorry to hear that your situation has been so difficult. May the road ahead become easier for you, as you navigate the grief and create a new life for yourself - one that you truly deserve. We send you much love and care. Justine and Michael. x

    • @SYDsyd444
      @SYDsyd444 2 месяца назад +1

      Everyone has to navigate their own lives

  • @Anichqa92
    @Anichqa92 11 месяцев назад +8

    I havent dates anyone for 5 years and just 2 months ago I met someone, could not even believe it. 2 days ago he told me he does not see it seriously. We ended it. Even for such a short time and yet I feel completely devastated. ❤ Thank you for this.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  11 месяцев назад

      So sorry that you experienced a break-up. May her words carry and help you in the days to come. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @kaitlinmeadows6273
    @kaitlinmeadows6273 Год назад +120

    As always, you have captured such beautiful sentiments in the soul of a beautiful person who has traveled a challenging road but emerged into the sunlight, radiant and grateful! You and she are great blessings to this world!

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Год назад +6

      Oh wow, thanks Kaitlin. So beautifully written. We are so glad that we could share Gina's story and many others with you. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @Royally_Charmed
    @Royally_Charmed 8 месяцев назад +13

    I have been so sad all day - it’s unbelievable that this popped onto my feed today. I’ve never seen or heard you before but today you came and the message was perfect. Perfectly relevant to what I was thinking about and dwelling on. Tomorrow I will wake up and step over what I cannot fix. Thank you ❤

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  8 месяцев назад

      Thank you for opening your heart to all that Gina shared with us, and for allowing her story to inspire to stand up and to take that step! We send you warmest of hugs. Justine and Michael. x

  • @tereseb6113
    @tereseb6113 Год назад +35

    Lately, I feel so anxious about living my best life, not doing enough, feeling missing out on all kinds of experiences all the time, but I was gently reminded how beautiful just living is, being immersed in what’s happening around in nature. Breathing, breathing, breathing. Thank you!

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Год назад

      Wonderful that Gina's message was so beneficial to you Terese. Enjoy life, breathe. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @tereseb6113
      @tereseb6113 Год назад

      @@ReflectionsofLife 💜

  • @Marley.Anne.Torres
    @Marley.Anne.Torres 9 месяцев назад +24

    “Life is a conveyer belt, we just have to be patient enough to move along and know that, we will come out of sadness”

  • @mharrod258
    @mharrod258 Год назад +297

    i am constantly overwhelmed by the beauty, wisdom, and sense of profound connection that I get from every single story (person) on this channel. Others go to church - I log in to Green Renaissance. And my cup overflows, as they say! As does my heart, and my tears. Just so beautiful - thank you!

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Год назад +11

      Your words touch us. We are so happy that the different videos mean so much to you. Thank you for being a part of our journey. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @dheema811
      @dheema811 Год назад +5

      My sentiments exactly.

    • @slavkavancikova5377
      @slavkavancikova5377 10 месяцев назад +1

      Words of wisdom I needed to hear... when it's hard to let go

  • @calashibryant295
    @calashibryant295 Год назад +81

    Wow!!!! 🥺🙏🏼 "Take care of it as good as you can". My God. How gentle and timely this message. The being at ease. How gentle her soul. Thank you so much for the gift of this message. 🙏🏼💗

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Год назад +1

      You are so welcome. Wonderful to read that her words meant so much to you and that this video reached you at the 'right' time. Sending you warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @dheema811
    @dheema811 Год назад +53

    So beautifully and eloquently put. Simple profundity. Yet, there are traces of sadness in your acceptance. However, it no longer causes you to suffer. I am on a similar journey and this wondrous clip has become my 'walking stick' ❤

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Год назад

      Lovely to hear that Gina's message was so significant for you. May her words inspire and help you on your walk through life. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @pattin4015
    @pattin4015 Год назад +86

    Sometimes hearing or reading words in a mere 12 minutes can warm the heart. Gina did just that. Although I have not had the children she's had, I too am happy to be living alone and enjoying what nature and life has to offer every day. Thanks for bringing joy by having speakers who truly express appreciation for life.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Год назад +1

      You are so welcome Patti. We are so glad that the various videos mean a lot to you. So happy that Gina's story of 12 minutes could warm your heart. Sending you hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @janmccann8081
    @janmccann8081 Год назад +36

    A lovely film. I'm 65 and learning to let go. As I do so, the joy of the little things increases. Thank you for sharing this little glimpse of your life.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Год назад

      You're very welcome! We are so happy for you that you are on a beautiful journey Jan. Enjoy. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @peggyduncanbaggenstoss5380
    @peggyduncanbaggenstoss5380 9 месяцев назад +53

    A much as I loved my Children’s father after 20 years of tolerating his constant infidelity I had to leave the marriage. I was immediately emotionally released. It took a few years to become financially stable as I ended up paying for some of his debts as they were incurred while married… we were in Arkansas. I never ask him for repayment as I knew from his previous bad money management record it would have been wasted time.
    God continues to Bless me beyond measure.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  9 месяцев назад

      Thank you for sharing your experiences. We are glad you found stability and contentment after your divorce. Wishing you all the best further. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @vivianobi3463
      @vivianobi3463 8 месяцев назад

    • @susanaustin_filmproducer
      @susanaustin_filmproducer 8 месяцев назад

      I wish I had your strength..... 35 years & I know it my heart (tried to leave several times) it's is a toxic relationship & I will be able to breathe one day 🙏 This has helped a lot, especially the acknowledgement it is not easy to leave.... even support people have said he will make it a nightmare 😢 But going on living like this at 54 years is no longer acceptable to me.....this I know to be true ❤

    • @milels6917
      @milels6917 8 месяцев назад

      @@susanaustin_filmproducer I had to make a break at the age of forty I was empty inside my children grow up so I made the break it’s not easy I worked bought a small house a old car made mistakes because I allowed people in my life that were on the lookout for a woman that was inexperienced My advice be very careful don’t get involved too Quickly don’t give up your independence It was lovely being me again creating a nice home playing the music I wanted to listen to no man was going to live off me plenty of them about But one day after 10 years alone only a few friends I did meet a kind lovely man who didn’t need what I had We retired and found we liked the same things He asked me to marry him had to think long and hard about it .We are still together have two cats lovely home ect In old age now Thank God for hid guidance over my life I came through.hope you do too

    • @nancydelauro2181
      @nancydelauro2181 8 месяцев назад +2

      I had a similar experience, just too many lies. The most valuable lessons learned: to value myself more, not to seek vengenance, and to use my God given gifts to help others. God only teuly knows one's heart. It took several years after separating from my husband but now have been blessed with peace, free ness, prosperity, and joy. I never feel alone as I know God watches over me.

  • @constancewalsh3646
    @constancewalsh3646 Месяц назад +3

    This is one of my favorite episodes, it is full of truth.
    I lived such rich solitude for most of fifty-seven years, treasured it! Owning my small, enchanting house, cycles of lovers
    and the anguish of partings; the blessed stability of friends, good work, good health, creativity, Nature.
    And then I met a man whose company I cherished and he mine. We have been together 21 years, but much of it living
    in separate regions at a considerable distance due to the commitments already in place when we met.
    The wheel has turned. Now my 'rich solitude' is more sad than cherished when I am far from my beloved.
    We are happier together than apart even with our ability to live well on our own.
    This woman is brave and wise. Her sadness is with her, but her laughter is pure delight.
    Oh Life! O love! O such Mystery!

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Месяц назад

      Thank you for sharing a bit about your life, very interesting what happened. Wishing you both all the best for life's journey. We can understand that Gina's story resonates with you. Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @HennieCam
    @HennieCam 9 месяцев назад +4

    "The heart and the mind don't speak the same language". Big lesson.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  9 месяцев назад +1

      Glad thee words meant much to you. Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @Privatenospying
    @Privatenospying 11 месяцев назад +22

    This blessed woman is the definition of aging gracefully. This synchronistically popped up on my screen when I very much needed to feel her peace 🙏 thank you.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  11 месяцев назад +1

      Wonderful that the video was suggested at such a fitting time. Glad we were able to share her story with you. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @c.brownell8618
      @c.brownell8618 5 месяцев назад +1

      Gracefully but still in pain....

  • @skoolie_life3261
    @skoolie_life3261 11 месяцев назад +11

    I’m going through a break up after 12 years of togetherness, and I’ve been really focused on the negative parts of our relationship as a way to continue to justify why this has to happen. I have been avoiding thinking about the good times, so as not to feel their loss or doubt my decision. When she started talking about the good times being her treasure, I started bawling. I haven’t lost those times and they aren’t going away with him. I will always have them as memories in my heart as treasures and blessings. Her words helped me find a place for those wonderful memories ❤

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  11 месяцев назад +1

      How beautiful that her words meant such a lot to you, that you could find that place for the precious memories. All the best for the road head. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @Gregoria_80
    @Gregoria_80 5 месяцев назад +7

    "The heart and the mind don't speak the same language", it's so true unfortunately.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  5 месяцев назад

      Thank you for watching. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @soulshinealwaysresale791
    @soulshinealwaysresale791 Год назад +31

    Another beautiful human, living her journey with eyes, head, and heart wide open to it all! 💞🌸🌎 …and I just have to say Green Renaissance you know exactly how to capture the spirit and daily essence of these lovely souls you come across!🙏💖

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Год назад

      Wow, thank you for you kind and encouraging message. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @АНЖЕЛАБАДРАКОВА
    @АНЖЕЛАБАДРАКОВА Год назад +23

    there is so much love in the warmth and comfort in this Woman. Peace and quiet. My heart is grateful to Her.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Год назад +1

      We are really happy you you enjoyed listening to her. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @heidi1651
    @heidi1651 Год назад +122

    I really enjoyed listening to this beautiful woman and her message. I even took notes! Thank you! ❤🙏🕊

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Год назад +3

      You are welcome Heidi. We are glad her message contained a lot of valuable points for you. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @mercyshanthi9555
      @mercyshanthi9555 Год назад +1

      I’m 57 years old female suffering from anxiety and fear.only my faith keeps me going..people only have hurt me …the world has become very scary..I do not do things which I used to enjoy..music,reading etc..how can I pull through.

    • @walkingrace1233
      @walkingrace1233 Год назад

      @@mercyshanthi9555 One day at a time. Your faith will carry you through this part of your journey. God's grace is sufficient and He will meet you at your point of need. Lean on Him and His Word!!!!! Please remember, fear is NOT from God, it is from the "enemy." Refocus and as Gina said...start "letting go, gently!" You are in my prayers.

    • @cathydoane8059
      @cathydoane8059 11 месяцев назад +1

      Me too and sent it to my friend mail to listen another day 😊

  • @teresapotter2121
    @teresapotter2121 8 месяцев назад +5

    I’m trying so hard to let that deep pain that doesn’t serve me go. I do great for a while, then I seem to have a day of uncontrollable crying. Thank you for such a nice video

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  8 месяцев назад +3

      Sorry to hear that you carry such deep pain within your heart. There isn't a magical date and time on which that pain leaves it. It is a flow of coming and going - and in that process, the pain subsides over time. Be gentle with yourself. Allow the tears to flow, for that helps to release the pain. And know that the light will shine once more. We send you much love and kindness. Justine and Michael x

    • @DwightLivesMatter
      @DwightLivesMatter 6 месяцев назад +1

      My current life. Lmao.

  • @lindylou3519
    @lindylou3519 8 месяцев назад +11

    How wonderful.😊 I stayed with my husband for financial reasons. We have been married for 50 years & it’s been a roller coaster ride. Three years ago I came into a small inheritance but within these last 3 years my husband also has developed prostate cancer & beginning stages of dementia so I now feel trapped because if I were to leave now my daughters would feel they are responsible for their fathers care & I wouldn’t want that. So I wait.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  8 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you for sharing, we hear you. We wish you strength and all the best. May you make the right decisions. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @lindaparisi74
    @lindaparisi74 Год назад +30

    Sometimes I feel a bit silly saying the same thing over & over again, how every time I watch one of your films, it’s exactly what I needed. But it’s true. What Gina had to say & how you edited it, spoke directly into what I’ve been going through. She “had” me at the opening poem. The word & theme of our true “home” & the longing to find my way there has captivated my attention for years. The way she named the pain, the process & the freedom now that she is on the other side, validated & resonated with my own. I felt like she addressed both the importance of leaning on people for help and how essential it is to go within to the “inner sanctuary” of our own “home” where only we can go. I too have the kind of mind that wants to understand, to “fix”, to “figure things out”, so I welcome Gina’s mother’s wise words. About a year ago, something happened that brought me to my knees & much of my attention has been on processing it. When Gina said, “What’s the point of dwelling on all the stuff that’s not right?”, she spoke directly into the places I was still holding on to the hurt. (In my case it happened to a loved one.) Like Gina, I’ve journaled pages & pages, sorted it all through with wise mentors & read books on forgiveness. Her words, “I felt at times I could disappear - disintegrate - I was so sad”, nailed it. “My head understood…we did it for the right reasons & with lots of care”, but “my heart took a lot longer to accept that…I don’t think the heart & the mind speak the same language. They often misunderstand each other.” Wow. Her story reminded me that the process of healing has it’s own timetable. It takes what it takes for each of us. We can’t rush it. And what a difference it makes to have even one person who can provide the safety & grace to simply listen - for as long as it takes - and to be that person in someone else’s life - to talk & “rehash” again & again & again” until “eventually you accept it.” And even then to have the thoughts like “maybe we can still fix this. This can’t be happening.” Oh how I love it when people speak the truth about how healing is messy, how it is simply not a straight path. Perhaps the message I most received from this beautiful film is about trust. How we can trust that Life, or God or as Gina said, “nature” desires to move me forward & will not let me “drown”. And how if we can catch ourselves & keep ourselves from the mind wandering into the past or future, it's possible that even in our darkest moment of grief, we might be able to notice little things like “the light shining on the water” that opens us up to see the gifts in it all, regardless of the outcome. So thank you, Gina. I am finding myself where you are now, loving my own everyday, ordinary life, seeing the beauty in the small things & truly feeling like “nothing is missing”. If getting on the other side of the pain & all the lessons we needed to learn is what it takes to truly come “home” to the beautiful life we already have, it’s so worth it. Thank you for being willing to share your story & thank you, GR for the gorgeous way you helped her do so.

    • @ginaniederhumer6914
      @ginaniederhumer6914 Год назад +1

      Thank you for your heartfelt response. warmest regards, Gina

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Год назад +3

      We have no words. You've said it all dear Linda... more eloquently and with more care, than we ever could. Time and time again, your words give wind to our spirits... and so they soar. With the fullness of these two simple words... Thank You! xxx

    • @marjanjanzen4605
      @marjanjanzen4605 Год назад +1

      Thank you.......I so very much needed to hear this

    • @aquilinaciamacco2410
      @aquilinaciamacco2410 10 месяцев назад

      @lindaparisi74 Thank You for taking the time to share your story with us all...we all go through so much in this life yet seem to somehow have the resilience to keep moving forward ❤

  • @izziecooper
    @izziecooper Год назад +46

    Im just 25. When I am hearing this beautiful story, I felt how I am blessed to hear this message now. Living in present, enjoy every little thing in our life. Let things go which we cant control. Just enjoy the simplicity of the life. How amazing the message is ❤ Thank you so much Gina's kind and lovely words ❤

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Год назад

      Wonderful that her story meant so much to you Pramu, may her words inspire and help you for your walk through life. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @rahmasamir909
      @rahmasamir909 9 месяцев назад

      Yes hold to this life pass so fast

  • @lshwadchuck5643
    @lshwadchuck5643 Год назад +7

    Another beautiful film of an artist at home, with wise words as a bonus. 'You don't need the big things to be happy'. I feel no need to travel. When I was young a trip was something to count the days toward, to escape the present. Several years ago I was asked to accompany an acquaintance on an overseas tour. I had no time to count the months. And I didn't even pour over the itinerary. Every single thing was a complete surprise, so it was all good, no disappointments. And I learned that to satisfy this spurious desire to be far from home we have to suffer the misery of airline travel. Life here is peaceful and rich. You don't have to be a painter. I used to be a professional artist. Now in my seventies I prefer the fleeting, immaterial pleasure of learning to play piano. It accumulates no stuff, asks for no one's approval.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Год назад +1

      Thank you for your kind words about this video and for sharing your story, your experiences. Interesting. We are glad you like life as it is now, enjoy every day. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @PugpugKeller
    @PugpugKeller 5 месяцев назад +4

    How many watching this as tears rolling down your face, reflecting the truth inside your own life. Thank you so much for such raw reflection I can relate to. Healing prayers to you and to those watching. Growth through painful reflection results in growth

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  5 месяцев назад

      Touching words, thank you. We are glad Gina's message meant much to you, glad we could share this video with you. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @belleiccm9801
      @belleiccm9801 4 месяца назад

      Thank you!

  • @mamalovesthebeach437
    @mamalovesthebeach437 10 месяцев назад +63

    I have a sister that’s never still…she’s constantly traveling, constantly seeking new adventures, new places, new people. She and I are only 11 months apart and well into our 60s, both married. I live a very simple life at a house I do not own, at the ocean. We love our simple life. I love Gina’s outlook on life… There is so much beauty all around us. If we only just open our eyes, drink it in and appreciate the small every day things… Every day is an adventure!❤

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  10 месяцев назад

      Thank you for sharing a bit about your life. Glad Gina's message resonated with you. Keep on enjoying the small things, the simple life every day. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @Mary-mj9mf
    @Mary-mj9mf Год назад +13

    Gina is correct when she says “The small things…the beauty in the small things…” Perfect x

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Год назад +1

      So happy her message resonated with you Mary. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @Amelia_123-w6y
    @Amelia_123-w6y Год назад +38

    Thank you for bringing us ginas story. What a lovely lady , very genuine. It is good to let go of the so called big things in life. Just collecting all the little joys in life bring peace. As I get older just the joy of having a cup of tea and watching a green reinessance film is rewarding for me. Always a lot to learn from you guys. Thank you x

    • @parry3231
      @parry3231 Год назад +3

      ❤Simple pleasures are the best ❤Thanks for sharing your thoughts and the gratitude of your feelings for Green Renaissance and the peaceful life with joy and contentment. ❤

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Год назад +4

      Pleasure Norri, we are so happy that this story resonated with you so much. Lovely that you watch our videos over a cup of tea, sounds lovely. We hope we can share many more stories with you. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @sydney6262
      @sydney6262 Год назад +2

      NEEDED to hear this SO badly in my life right now! Thank you❤️

  • @ravensridge3830
    @ravensridge3830 Год назад +20

    Your story spoke to the deepest hurts of my heart and soul. Just as I am needing it. Moment by moment, breath by breath, I want to get to where you are now. Thank you for sharing with us.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Год назад

      You are so welcome, we are glad her words were so meaningful. May they inspire and help you. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @oilnurturelady2347
    @oilnurturelady2347 11 месяцев назад +9

    I've always felt that it is better to be alone, than in a relationship and lonely! When we are alone, we can the fullness of our lives! I also love the wisdom in your words of reflection, that you are "grateful for these treasures." Thank you for your deeply moving, very "grounded" story of the substance within our unique lives, even as individuals.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  11 месяцев назад

      So happy her story spoke to you. Glad we were able to share it with you. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @sonnyboy5566
    @sonnyboy5566 8 месяцев назад +25

    I was dependent on heroin and then alcohol. When I learned to accept and let go, that I’m not in control and at the centre of the world, then my recovery started and I started growing up. Thank you.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  8 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you for sharing what happened. Wonderful that you were able to turn things around in your life, that you learned to let go. Wishing you all the best for life's journey. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @riyana9960
    @riyana9960 Год назад +26

    To make a new whole from all the broken pieces and not see any cracks in it is the biggest takeaway here. Gina is quietly attributing this strength to her being older but more than than it’s her awareness towards her being and not doing. She is definitely home and misses nothing. 🙌🏼Profound

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Год назад

      Thank you for sharing these beautiful thoughts with us Riyana, so happy her message meant a lot to you. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @jacqueline8559
    @jacqueline8559 Год назад +9

    What a beautiful lady, inside and out. She has made me realise i need to worry less . I need to stop trying to make sense of those things that hurt so very desperately , yet were senseless, in my life. I need to just live and be....life is a beautiful gift

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Год назад

      So happy you enjoyed listening to her Jacqueline. We hope her words inspire you. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @ombretta5147
    @ombretta5147 Год назад +17

    Dalle sofferenze nasce la consapevolezza di apprezzare poi le cose semplici,compresi i ricordi belli.E'questa la vita che ognuno sogna di vivere.Graxie per questo bel video 💖💖💖🙋🏻

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Год назад

      We are glad her message resonated with you Ombretta. Yes, hard times often teach us so much. Thank you for watching. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @willekefarrington3020
    @willekefarrington3020 Год назад +37

    This video moved me very much. Currently my husband of 82 and I (75) after a marriage of 51 years are really talking. Expressing how I feel, felt in an honest way. At long last speaking my truth (which does not necessarily has to be his) and he is listening. Not falling into the defensive mode which always made me shut up and just swallow (giving me stomach ache). We're healthy and with luck we may have a good 10 years left. One cannot change the past but we can look and learn. Apologise when called for, cry for the misunderstanding, accept the unchangeable and move on.
    And yes I could do with a neighbour like Gina and all the 263 who agreed with Jenna.

    • @ginaniederhumer6914
      @ginaniederhumer6914 Год назад +1

      I am really glad, you and your husband are talking...one is so grateful when at last that door opens a bit, and real connection is possible. I wish you both all the best.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Год назад +1

      Good to read your story Willeke and to realize what all can develop after years of marriage. Lovely that you start communicating. Wishing you both many more happy years. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @willekefarrington3020
      @willekefarrington3020 Год назад

      Thank you Gina, thank you Justine and Michael. I have acupuncture sessions and started Qi-gong and although I did yoga for many years, doing this opened up a lot in me. I'm dragging my husband along and he is willing. We walk a lot in the woods near by, talk and cry (me, my husband is English 😊). Btw I'm posting from The Netherlands). Love to you all.

    • @willowmoon7173
      @willowmoon7173 Год назад

      Beautiful

    • @joyceconnolly1065
      @joyceconnolly1065 9 месяцев назад

      What an uplifting message and congratulations on your excellent progress. So happy for you! ❤️

  • @MrsDellamar
    @MrsDellamar 10 месяцев назад +11

    Your videographer is stellar. Thank you for sharing these exceptional moments and inspirational people.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  10 месяцев назад

      Thank you for your words of encouragement, it means a lot to us. We are glad that we can share these videos with you. Sending you warmest of hugs. Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @In_time
    @In_time Год назад +19

    *”I have loved you. I have had to deal with that.”*
    The quote by Salma Deera has stuck in me since I read the words and felt them to be true. When I was younger and the heartache very fresh, I couldn’t fathom how _dealing with that_ could ever look anything like “living”. As I’ve gotten older and had the chance to sit with my grief it has become more bearable and I realize how true this woman’s message is that really we must take it one day at a time.
    She also gives me such hope for the future: that there is still so much beauty and happiness to be had in _the dealing._
    Many thanks to Green Renaissance and to this dear woman for sharing with us❤

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Год назад +1

      Lovely comment, quotation and thoughts. Thanks for sharing it with all of us, it invites us to ponder. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @MrsBumbulina
    @MrsBumbulina 6 месяцев назад +4

    "A beautiful life, well lived." That is the meaning of life ❤

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  6 месяцев назад

      So happy you appreciated the message Gina shared. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @user-mm1zd3kz8q
    @user-mm1zd3kz8q 5 месяцев назад +6

    💗💗where she has arrived. I have many of the same thoughts and conclusions. It's wonderful to enjoy my own company and live at my own pace. What a blessing!!!

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  5 месяцев назад

      We are glad that Gina's story resonated with you. Wishing you all the best for life's journey. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @sundari555-f2g
    @sundari555-f2g 11 месяцев назад +6

    Such a beautiful message about living. Thank you for sharing. It is so important to cultivate a good relationship with oneself, that “we” are good no matter what happens in our lives. Living mindfully everyday “being in the moment” allows us and our minds to not be in the past, in the future or in the what if’s of life. We can be present in our lives at peace🦋🧿

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  11 месяцев назад +1

      So happy her message resonated with you. Thank you for sharing some thoughts with us. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @nickhornfeck
    @nickhornfeck Месяц назад +2

    As a 40 year, I yearn for these types of conversations. However, it is so rare among my age demographic. Love you ALL ❤️

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Месяц назад

      So glad you enjoyed listening to Gina. Sorry that you so seldom have the chance to have talks like this. Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @lisamarielindenschmidt649
    @lisamarielindenschmidt649 Год назад +14

    Beautiful. Her message about needing to be patient enough to let yourself come out on the other side... poignant. And much needed. Thank you.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Год назад

      So happy we could share this valuable story with you Lisa. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @michellecastignani6283
    @michellecastignani6283 11 месяцев назад +4

    Thank you. Your comments are so useful in my time of grieving. I havent given myself time , as I am sorting out the logistics of life, raising my two beautiful children. They are grieving too, so any free moment from admin is spent on them.
    Precious, as well as laughable, frustrating memories, have helped me through these past 2 weeks.
    Although I miss my beloved husband, I see many if God's mercies. His relatively quick passing was a blessing, mostly to him, as he didn't have the stress of knowing he was dying. He would have been so worried about us. So your comment about not dwelling on negatives or regrets, was just what I needed to hear.
    With God's help and those friends who genuinely say, "call on me", we will be fine.
    Bless you.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  11 месяцев назад

      We are truly sorry to read about the sudden passing of your husband. It's never easy to lose a loved one but we are glad you can also see a blessing. Wishing you all the strength you need to carry on with what you need to do, organize, raising your children, etc. Glad that Gina's message was helpful.
      Maybe this video can also be a help - ‘Through The Storm’ - (ruclips.net/video/tB98ldnUcTE/видео.html). Sending you much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @janetstonerook4552
      @janetstonerook4552 10 месяцев назад

      Your message touched me so much. I am so sorry you lost your lovely husband. But inspired that you'd had such a wonderful man in your life. He left you with beautiful memories.

  • @dustjacket_fullofmonsters
    @dustjacket_fullofmonsters 8 месяцев назад +4

    This is exactly what I needed to hear. I’m going through something similiar at the moment and if I end up where this wonderful lady is when I’m her age, I’ll be so thrilled. She said it all. ❤

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  8 месяцев назад +1

      We are so happy that this was the right message for you. May her words help you along the way and give you strength. Wishing you all the best. Sending you warmest of hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @lesleystolp1145
    @lesleystolp1145 Год назад +9

    I love the way she explained everything I was also married for almost 40 yrs and like Gina says you need to talk about it because it's grieving the loss the company the ups and downs you grieve about everything. Now I am happy and content even though I don't have anyone in my life, if it happens it happens if it doesn't well then that's life. Next time around I will hopefully do better 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Год назад +1

      So glad her message resonated with you Lesley. Nice that you are happy and content, wishing you all the best for your further journey through life. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @a.watching5299
    @a.watching5299 Год назад +19

    I'm waiting for a diagnosis and if it comes positive then I will need to grieve a lot of things and let go.. and here the green renaissance uploaded a video about letting go ❤ the same thing happened when I moved from a toxic relationship.. Please continue to share all this love and wisdom coz believe me you're saving souls

    • @ΕΛΕΝΑΘΕΟΔΩΡΟΠΟΥΛΟΥ-ξ5υ
      @ΕΛΕΝΑΘΕΟΔΩΡΟΠΟΥΛΟΥ-ξ5υ Год назад +1

      Hope you are doing well...

    • @annettenoga6182
      @annettenoga6182 Год назад +1

      Wishing you all the best. I know that waiting for a diagnosis can be very unsettling...think positive things and know you will overcome anything.

    • @a.watching5299
      @a.watching5299 Год назад

      @@ΕΛΕΝΑΘΕΟΔΩΡΟΠΟΥΛΟΥ-ξ5υ thank you so much ❤️ .. hope you're doing well too

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Год назад +3

      We are very touched to read that this video reached you at this time of uncertainty. May Gina's words help and encourage you. Whatever the diagnosis is, stay strong; we wish you all the best. Sending you much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @a.watching5299
      @a.watching5299 Год назад

      @@ReflectionsofLife thank you so much ❤️

  • @nilepearl1997
    @nilepearl1997 Год назад +13

    "I've done a lot of good loving and good living and I'm grateful for the time we had together" !

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Год назад

      Glad these words spoke to you. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @todrapayne
    @todrapayne Год назад +20

    Beautiful message. Her peace with life is tangible.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Год назад

      So happy you enjoyed the message she shared Todra. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @lynnewillette2654
    @lynnewillette2654 11 месяцев назад +4

    This was so timely for me. I loved listening to her soft voice and accent. I loved seeing her surroundings and how she spent some of her time. I very much liked her message. Thank you for doing this film.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  11 месяцев назад

      You are welcome. We are so glad this video reached you at the right time and that you enjoyed it. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @louisianarainwater
    @louisianarainwater Год назад +4

    She is such a beautiful, lovely and wise woman 💚. She talks about her former husband with such grace and love. Wishing her a wonderful life😊

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Год назад

      Thank you for your kind words and wishes Carly. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @patrickswan4537
    @patrickswan4537 Год назад +11

    The people and their wisdom you feature on your films never cease to amaze me. This lady says so much about life in just a few minutes. May she continue to be blessed.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Год назад

      Thank you for your lovely and kind message Patrick. So glad you enjoyed listening to her. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @terrilowe3530
    @terrilowe3530 Год назад +12

    So encouraging. I want to grow in the way I spend my quiet days. Dare to try more art and find beautiful places to spend time in. Especially now that the summer heat is going away. I identify with so much that she said about this single older lady life. Such calm wisdom.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Год назад

      So happy you enjoyed what she shared Terri. May her words inspire you. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @schmideb
    @schmideb Год назад +13

    Ich finde so schön wenn normale Menschen über normale" Sachen" reden so wie das Leben eben läuft. Weil so viele von uns genauso fühlen und manchmal fühlt man sich doch sehr einsam und dann siehst so was schönes und denkst Aha ich bin doch nicht die einzige die so denkt oder fühlt. Danke😊

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Год назад +1

      It's lovely to read your thoughts, glad her message resonated so much with you. In some way or another many of us do and think the same, struggle with similar issues, etc. - no matter where we live. May her words inspire and carry you. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @schmideb
      @schmideb Год назад

      @@ReflectionsofLife thank You for all this work and time. A little but stil so important piece of Hope in such a bad time.

    • @marliesyanke4580
      @marliesyanke4580 11 месяцев назад

      It is hard to overcome loneliness in old age.

  • @samilovee
    @samilovee Год назад +6

    I cried when she spoke of her treasure now I can’t stop crying bless her grateful heart happy to hear she feels there’s nothing missing in her life❤

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Год назад

      Nice that you could allow yourself to let her message touch you so deeply Samantha. Sending you warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @Bobbikay33
    @Bobbikay33 10 месяцев назад +2

    I love her. How peaceful and happy she is

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  10 месяцев назад

      So happy you enjoyed the video. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @christina117
    @christina117 11 месяцев назад +7

    “Regardless of the outcome, this will always be my treasure…” - you have just cleared up a fundamental question I had been carrying with me for a long time. Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom! Truly!

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  11 месяцев назад +1

      That is wonderful that these words were so helpful. 💚

  • @jacquelinemcgowan8164
    @jacquelinemcgowan8164 Год назад +22

    Jesus said do not worry about tomorrow it has enough troubles if its own ❤❤❤
    This lady says such simple things but they are often with the deepest meaning ❤❤❤

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Год назад +2

      We are so happy her message resonated with you so deeply, glad we could share her story with you. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @violetsintherain0297
    @violetsintherain0297 2 месяца назад +1

    Had saved this video to watch later. Today was the day, was feeling overwhelmed and clicked on this. Thank you, Gina for showing us glimpses of your life, your pain and the beauty in acceptance. I’m no where near there but it sure is comforting to know what to expect. Every culture has a semblance of what you’ve said, the small and little joys. How easily we overlook that universal message. These small and ‘insignificant’ moments are the clusters around which human experience revolves and evolves from. I’ll be sure to remember that.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  2 месяца назад +1

      We are so happy that Gina's message meant much to you. may her words carry and inspire you in the days to come. We hope you are doing better again. Sending you warmest of hugs. Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @RobinZiemacki
    @RobinZiemacki 11 месяцев назад +3

    There isn't an emoji, or words, that can express how wonderful this film is. Thank you for sharing.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  11 месяцев назад +1

      It's a pleasure, we are glad the video meant so much to you. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @vio_vivonatalia405
    @vio_vivonatalia405 Год назад +7

    I am so happy to see, that more and more people are choosing to live a simple life and enjoy it. It's so beautiful ❤

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Год назад

      Thank you for sharing these thoughts. So happy her story resonated with you. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @humbles19
    @humbles19 Год назад +5

    Wasting energy robs you of valuable living time!! How true.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Год назад

      So happy her message resonated with you. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @nattyophelia7879
    @nattyophelia7879 9 месяцев назад +6

    I’ve been searching for this. My little sister died in 2019 and it turned my life upside down. I’m in a constant state of grief. I can not seem to emotionally move forward, though life keeps evolving around me. I turn 36 next week, and I am thankful I have had 9 long years beyond what my beloved sister got to experience. Hers was cut short. Sometimes my grief prevents me from living. I need to listen to this video again and again until I feel it. Thank you for this. ❤

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  9 месяцев назад +1

      Your words go deep, so sorry to read what happened. We can imagine that the passing of your sister put your life upside down. If Gina's message can help you in any way to find a way to live again, to heal in some way and move forward, that would be wonderful.
      Maybe this video can also be a help: ‘Through The Storm’ - (ruclips.net/video/tB98ldnUcTE/видео.html). We wish you all the very best and strength for every day. Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @johndean958
      @johndean958 9 месяцев назад +2

      I am certain that your sister would tell you to live your life, as not living it wont do you any good. Thats what my Mother told me when she was passing away. I said to her " I wish you wouldnt say that to me", however, she would then say" I know what I am talking about, and it wont do you any good being upset". I remind myself and tell people I know to help them what Mum said to me.

    • @joyceconnolly1065
      @joyceconnolly1065 9 месяцев назад

      I'm so sorry for your loss. My prayer is that you find peace and calm. ❤️

  • @jess-09-00
    @jess-09-00 7 месяцев назад +3

    As soon as I turned 30, I noticed some changes in my life. I became more sympathetic with other's struggles, became a better listener instead of monopolising conversations, & the best of all, is choosing what really matters most in life.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  7 месяцев назад

      That's wonderful. So happy for you that life changed for the positive. All the best further. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @nell8170
    @nell8170 Год назад +6

    Absolutely agree that the small things matter soooo much. What a wonderful woman who clearly has moved on from a very difficult chapter. Love these videos so much and never fail to get something out of them or relate in some way or another. GR you are still the best thing on RUclips!! TFS. A very grateful watcher in Suffolk England.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Год назад +1

      Thank you for your kind and encouraging message Nell. We are so happy you enjoyed the video and the films in general give you so much. Sending you warmest wishes to Suffolk, England. Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @Paradys8
    @Paradys8 8 месяцев назад +3

    This ‘was’ a beautiful life ->this ‘IS’ a Beautiful life.., continue to create happy moments🙏🏻🌷…

  • @christinaheesakacowden-wut3809
    @christinaheesakacowden-wut3809 Год назад +9

    "Das Glück der kleinen Dinge", yes, that`s so true. I can relate to your story so well Gina. When I choose to think of my past, I choose the good memories. I do not think of the past a lot, because I like to enjoy the present moment and I also love to imagine what my future will bring. The past for me is like a book, with old stories or maybe a sweater I knitted. When I am done "reading" it, or "knitting" it, I am not sad! It is not gone or lost. It is right there, in the shelf, ready for me to use or not. I am grateful and I enjoy the small things in life, reading, writing, crafting, a walk in the forest, fresh fennel bulbs, given to me by my neighbour, the once a month knitting circle and so on.....
    Huggs from Fairy Tale Cottage, Schurwald Forest, Germany. ❤🌲🌲🌲

    • @ginaniederhumer6914
      @ginaniederhumer6914 Год назад

      Danke Christina

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Год назад

      Thank you for sharing about your life Christina, very happy you enjoyed Gina's story. We are glad you found your happiness in the small things of life too. Sending you warm hugs to the Schurwald Forest, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @melaniemitchell5981
    @melaniemitchell5981 Год назад +5

    You are an extraordinary human being. Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom your truth and your life.

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Год назад

      You are so welcome Melanie, it's a joy to share her story with you. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @mrh8279
    @mrh8279 10 месяцев назад +2

    Of all the films on this channel, this is my fsvourite film and this lady, and how she talks about her life journey and gathered wisdom resonates so much with me. What a wonderful woman and whst a wonderful idea this channel is!❤ Thank you!

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  10 месяцев назад

      We are so happy that you are enjoying the videos on our channel and especially this one. Glad her message means much to you. Sending you warmest of hugs. Justine and Michael. 💚

  • @fullmoon8635
    @fullmoon8635 11 месяцев назад +2

    This channel is PURE POETRY! 🥰
    Beautiful people expressing and sharing with us all in the most inspiring, candid and genuine way their personal stories and lives… It all is a treasure VISUALLY and EMOTIONALLY and It is really a work of art which inspires not only me but so many who from time to time need some company and wisdom. GRATITUDE 🙏🏻🌸

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  11 месяцев назад

      Your message touches us greatly. We are so thankful that the various videos mean so much to you, help and inspire you. Lovely to have you with us on our journey. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

    • @fullmoon8635
      @fullmoon8635 11 месяцев назад

      @@ReflectionsofLife 🙏🏻🌸🥰💝

  • @Merbella
    @Merbella Год назад +9

    There definitely a disconnect with the heart and mind when letting go, it takes time and courage to Integrate them. ❤

    • @ReflectionsofLife
      @ReflectionsofLife  Год назад +1

      💚

    • @TheQueensWish
      @TheQueensWish 9 месяцев назад +2

      Yes it is our mind being realistic about the situation and calling time on it. While the heart suddenly gets sentimental about what was and what should of been but was not.

    • @heikestucke8964
      @heikestucke8964 8 месяцев назад

      Du bist wie eine Blume……so wunderbar mit Gefühl gesprochen, und zufrieden mit einen ausgefüllten Leben….❤️🦋🧑‍🎨