When she says she has a boyfriend | The Truth | How to still get her to like you
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- Опубликовано: 9 июл 2024
- When a girl tells you she has a boyfriend just give up right? Wrong! This video will take you deeper into the psyche of a woman and how to still land the girl you want.
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00:00 - Intro
01:12 - Why they tell you they have a boyfriend
02:51 - How to deal with that
05:08 - How to get her to like you
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When she saids "I have a bf" the conversation comes to a complete halt. And she is Automatically in the friendzone. Gotta have RESPECT for yourself besides their as plenty of fish in the sea.
90% of '' I have a bf'' statement from most girls is a test of resilience! I have had girls tell me this; I withdraw only to have them chasing me and most end up denying ever saying that of faking a recent break up. Being in the friends zone is an opportunity to find out if this is an endurance test or a true state of affairs.
Cap 🧢 if she said she have a boyfriend keep shooting your shot loyal girl’s don’t respond 💯
Facts!!!
amen😂
Real or true love, call it what you may, is patient, compassionate, and kind, regardless. 🙌❤️‼️
You’ve literally been helping my heart for the past couple months I wanna say thank you sincerely from the bottom of my heart. Thank you for doing what you do like I appreciate you wholeheartedly and I pray that you’re protected and at peace as well as your loved ones.
This is why you don't take relationship advice from women. As a man, you only deal with high interest women. No time lurking around in the name of friendzone and wishing her relationship fails so you take over. That's what losers do. You have to begin escalation right at the point of contact and move a step further anytime she complies till it hits the bedroom. When she does not comply you next her. It's that simple. I pity guys these days, always inviting drama into their lives
For Real, and if she leave her guy for me she'll eventually do me the Same.
@@jeromechung8221 exactly 😂😂
100% correct
I am a woman and this is insane to me. Like seriously. This is crazy AF.
That being said... watch out from the high interest woman. That simply translates to a woman with no self respect and boundaries. That could be the point of course....
@@ineedhoez No, a high interest woman can be manipulative or have a secret agenda, but she's NOT with no self respect and boundaries. Quite the contrary, she's an independent, mature, outgoing woman with high self respect who knows what she wants and makes an effort to make a man's life easier. If a woman in fact likes a man but shows low interest, it's a sign of OVERLY high or low self respect, which means she will always put her feelings first, not her man's feelings. The kind of "high interest woman" you need to avoid is the woman who shows high interest to a lot of men at the same time, which is the sign of zero self respect. Same advice goes to women when you meet high interest men
Jessica be spitting facts back to back!!
If she’s having a boyfriend, respect yourself just leave her be, so she focuses on her relationship. Why do something to someone that you wouldn’t like done to you🤷🏾??
If you are scared of breaking people's relationships you will remain Single📌🚩🚩🤣🤣🤣
@@tuhafeni2000 😹😹😹😹🤣🤣🤣
@@madmax7965 True Brh🤣🤣🇳🇦
@@tuhafeni2000 gotta stop being soft
I hear ya - Afotey! Great tips - by Jessica. And speaking of Test…
Women will always test you until the day you die - so get used to it! Lol
She’ll test you from the moment she meets you - until the relationship is over, and even after that, she’s going to find ways to keep on testing you.
It’s your job as a man to never let her make you lose your composure - because the minute you do, she wins, and you lose!
Anyway, that’s my two cents.
-Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
Most women lie about having a man. She either wants to see how competitive you are, or she's not interested. But I feel that's childish, especially if she refusing the opportunity of us seeing each other again. We could've been meant to be, but she wanna make an impression, instead of receiving the Blessing
I'm a sharp looking dude at the age of 38. I work out for over 20 years. I never had problems with meeting and dating girls growing up. It was easy for me because girls are attracted to me all the times. I didn't have to do any leg work. Tonight, I decided to talk to this hispanic chick at my gym for the first time and asked for her number. She told me she has a bf!! I have never been rejected before when asking a girl's number. I asked for this girl's number at the bar for the first time, and she gave it to me! But this hispanic chick rejected me! My gym buddy told me she is single! I know she lied to me. I want to know if she is testing me or not interested in me. My ego is hurting right now! lol.
If she wants you to compete, she is crazy and you should run
Wow this comment was spot on im dealing with that now at the moment the girl ive talked to she has a bf but still shows alot of interest towards me.
when she says “I have a boyfriend” I bring the whole conversation to an end
Exactly my brother I for me I dont want to interfare in peoples relationship👍
But we shouldnt be so selfish. Friendship is a form of a relationship and women appreciate a good friendship. I think we all need friendship. So when you cant date a girl, still respect and value her by being a good friend.
Just like that's it's that easy
Youre like me
Factz
She make some very good points, but there's other reasons as well... For instance, just because she has a boyfriend.. It doesn't mean she's in love with him.... When a woman is in love with someone, she makes herself unapproachable.. She's not gonna flirt with another man or give him any ideas that he can have her... Another reason some women tell guy's they have a boyfriend is because she may feel that she's not good enough for you... She may feel that once you get to know her you won't be interested anymore.. Another reason a woman may tell a guy she has a boyfriend is because she's afraid of falling in love with you... And you might break her heart... So she rather sabotage the situation from the gate to avoid the pain of a broken heart.... ✌️
Goshhh, the first part of this response. I honestly don't get it with these girls. I'm in the present suituation and it's driving me nuts.
You keep lowkey playing you have a boyfriend card, yet you put yourself available to me every goddam time. Like you're even texting me first and all. Agreeing to go on a date.. which I'm honestly now not getting excited for again.
Giving all the green lights. Yet you keep subtle playing you have a boyfriend Card.
I'm just frustrated.
Why would you be so much open like this to someone else if you know you're not interested in them and you're in a relationship🤦 Girls!
PS: You're not gaining any materialistic stuffs from me yet and she's not the type.
Just confused honestly
@@theSami_A bro, I found myself in the same situation. This boyfriend card thing happened for a little over one year. Yet, she was still entertaining me. Why would you still have me around, knowing that you have a boyfriend, and that you don't see any future for me? Bro, I just advised myself and gradually walked away. Even till now, she still texts me (first). I just see the messages, respond, and go my way. No need to play hide and seek.
@@paakwame6822 🤣🤣🤣 This is literally the cap advice I need. Wasn't even expecting someone would respond to this 😂
At the end, everybody will be alright.
@@theSami_A you're not alone, bro. A lot of us have been in (or are having) similar situations. I don't like to make someone who "rejected" me my enemy, NO! Just remain "normal" friends with her, like you would with any other lady. When she texts first, respond like you with with any friend of yours. When you want to text her first, do so like you would with your regular friends. No need to hate. Everyone wins. You'll find another kind someday. And when it happens, you'll know it has happened. Cheers to the "I have a boyfriend" geng😂🎊
@@paakwame6822 👍👍
If she will cheat with you, she will cheat on you...
Hi Jessica, great advice. I am a regular viewer of your videos and believe that someone with your wealth of knowledge should have and/or enjoy the best marital relationship. You are doing an excellent job in assisting men globally. Keep it up.
Dear Men,
“So far as she doesn't have a ring on her finger, you still have a chance”
~Jessica Os~
@Aisha Abubakar Take your silliness elsewhere 🛑 ✋🙄
Jessica, I must admit that you are the best.
Very true
Wow...! Thanks for such a nice lesson....i really learn alot from your channel....that's so cool.😊
This is the video that i have been waiting for ❤️ thanks Jess for this video can’t wait for more ❤️❤️❤️
Personally I’m not into chasing after females that say they have a boyfriend I will be friends but that is as far as I will go with it and I usually would ask the question if she start flirting: Why are you flirting if you already have a man? That is one of those question that is ok to ask if you know how to play around with the way you ask it to keep her from getting offended by the question
I really love the last point "be patient"...🙌
Simp move on
Jessica! I am really enjoying your show. You really is a professional. God bless
Jessica serious I’m learning so much about your comments and I don’t know how to thank you, thank you!!!👏👏👏👏
Thank you for sharing this amazing info...I really do like it
love your videos MS jessica 💪🏾💯
This was a nice one. I've so far made positive progresses from watching your videos.
Jessica your videos really guild me a lot
Jess, if I want a woman, I don't really give a hoot if she has a hubby, much less a boyfriend. I will go for her and I will get her. The friend zone? Never! Once you are in that zone you will forever be there. I will never make a friend of a woman I was interested in romantically. Depending on how much I want the woman, I might as well just let go, because, the truth is that you can't have them all. So, some you let go, just like that.
Jessica Os you deserve an award well done Keep it up.
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@@JessicaOS Hello,Miss Jessica I have something to discuss with you🙏
Kudos my Sister's, i av bn watching many of ur videos it s bn helpful for me!!!
Wow I love this stuff keep up
This video is eye opening as it exposes human nature. It still baffles me why ladies like testing men. Why be in a relationship if you think it is not serious at all? There is also the fact that you can potentially destroy someone else's relationship in the process of wooing her. Be that as it may, I now know that the world is not fair and not for the faint of heart.
Now I know why someone will tell you they are in a relationship and the next day they say they miss you 🤷
Love your set up...so beautiful. Hope I found love in your community
I hope so too!
Lol literally happened to me. But as a man don't try to make a girl like you if she don't especially if she has a man it's a waste just walk away bro.
Great video man no hate to you
I love this blue top you have on. Good background lighting also.
Good morning Jessica. One love Straight from Jamaica
i felt that.... sheeeeesh your good
Jessica my favorite. I'll always watch your videos. From Kenya.
awesome talk
Love Jessica ♥️♥️♥️♥️
Beautiful woman with Beautiful speak's...it amazing and that's recently happen to me..
This topic is really ' how to steal Simone's girlfriend" 🤣😅
Yep! i Yes you Jessy.
It is very interesting dear i really enjoying your talk
I know if you say you have boy friend J , I would want it to be a test babe ,you do know that right . Honestly I wouldn't even know where to start just because I'm assuming you already seen and heard it all. So in terms of you ,a person really need to keep an open , spontaneous mind and still stay within the moral basics. It's a challenge ,but thinking deeply is how we expand our thoughts , so hope you have a great day Jess stay safe and it was nice seeing you again 🍯 .
You're a genius ☺️
1:55.."women are interesting creatures "😂....every moment feels new with Jessica
hey Jessica how are you doing tonight.i caught your last viedo about the texting and you taught me something and she is a co worker and i have moved on from her thank you for showing me the light and also you are very actractive happy easter to you and your family
You are top notch👍👍
I love the way you talk. Crushhhing 😊
Where have you been all of my life? Had to subscribe after stumbling upon your channel. I was like let me hear this sistas BS. Anyways you got me. Keep it 100
Interesting 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔
My first time watching your content
Massive work goes into your videos, Great work....
I have subscribe
Thanks for the support
Tanx Jesse, currently am dealing with such a situation right now, the lady seems to give me all the attention I needed but still saying the boyfriend hasn't done anything for her to leave him for me... And she keep saying you are a oood man.. Tanx.. I will patient as you said.. 🙏
If she can't choose you today, I don't think you should wait for her. This is more like you're wishing for her to break up with that guy; it's not fair. She doesn't see you as someone worth leaving the boyfriend for, and so you should advise yourself accordingly
When she says that I move on! That too me turns into chasing and I don't chase I replace
Very good point..lol
I am me. I don't need to convince any woman to like me. I really focus on what I do. If she likes me, she'll give me a signs/ green light. I don't chase! Don't get me wrong...
This might be the channel i been looking for, i have been failing for a long time to get a lady, i hope this time I’ll get my first lady🥺
Have patience. Be the best friend that you can be… such words of wisdom.
🏃🏽♀️📺 how to escape any friend zone. 😀
😂😂
wow I'll continue i wanted to stop Thanks Jessica
Early bird here jessica a
My adorable Jessica, personally if you tell me you have a boyfriend I am gone. I feel like that’s like snatching another man’s wife which will be unfair. Why would I try working too hard to convince someone who didn’t like me so much?
Great lesson! Thanks, Jessica!
I hope you don't have a boyfriend yet.. 'cos me & the other guys are interested! Lol😊
I never ask a girl if she has a boyfriend. She’s either married or not married. If you don’t see a ring, shoot your shot.
Fight for what you want, the best things don't come easy, either that or settle for what you have and be miserable.
Nothing but the truth 💯💯*Venda Queen*💥💥💥
Quite controversial video! A Blessing in disguise! If a girl is willling drop her current relationship chances are it wasn't working for both of them otherwise you wouldn't get any attention, so win-win. Also if a girl is willing to drop her boyfriend do you think the same won't happen to you?
My advice is if she says she has a boyfriend you move on and look for other fish in the sea, there's plenty. Trust me. You want to build a relationship with a decent human being, not with someone who is willling to cheat or is too much of a coward to stick around when things aren't going as good waiting until next branch to hold appears.
exactly my point
Bro, please advice me
I got along with this girl I like her alot but she loves money tooo much .. anytime I don't give her she's angry n will be giving attitude..one day I asked her if she has bought me recharge card ..she blocked me n unblocked again and sent plenty voice note telling me that all the relationship she's been taking care of her boyfriend n she get nothing in return so she wanted to try something new with me..at the point she was in debt n asked me to help her out I gave her.. after then she gave me attitude again..and asked for another money..I told her I don't have at that point I tried having sex..she refused meaning been paying her for the sex..texted her one weekend I'll be coming to her place she replied she's traveling when she's back she will call.. after a day I called twice no response n shut down I lost interest I moved on. After a week plus she called Early in the morning I refuse to pick till now.. she's calling now every minute n m tempted to respond I don't know what to do ..but I really like her
Solid advice
You've said it all
Willing to join your private convo Madam Jessy 🙏🏿
Aww, Jessica we miss you
Thanks a lot Jessica! This video helps me a lot! I’ve gain much much more confidence in myself now! I’m going to give it a shot and see how it goes! Jessica I just wanted to say that your the best advice giver I’ve ever seen. Love all of your videos! New subscriber here too! Josh! That’s me! But yea anyways thank you so much! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thanks jess. It's really inspiring
always speaking facts thank you for all the valuable facts you dish out Love from Nigeria
You are so welcome
Great video,First, In my opinion don't make a move with this if you cannot take her to an overall better place than where she is now, Also avoid married women unless the man is having an affair with another woman.
Secondly, You do not need to hang out with her as a friend if she is someone you see regularly at work, gym, neighborhood or college. When she is in your presence during purposeful conversations of work/school/gym etc, she has to see your masculine and leadership sides and at least you have shown your intention at least once to be romantic with her(get to know her further). Once you have these in place, your fun smooth communication(non-sexual) to her and having other women matter for it to work because the guy who has been sleeping with her no longer worries about smooth fun communication that much in 90% of the time.
guys would you want someone doing any of this to your girl?. then why do this to another guy? 3.6 billon women in the world
Women these days are so worldly conditioned and programmed it's sad. If a decent guy approaches you regardless of his status ,pay attention to the vibes and how he makes you feel at that moment. If she not able to recognize or appreciate authentic good energy from a God sent man, then I just smile to myself and thank God as I walk away. That would be her lost at a perfect man for HER, not the 🌎and God's way of telling me He has someone much better for me🙏🏾😇
@jessicaOs you are some sort of wizard! I swear on my life that the second you said "hopefully no other lights turn off" the light in the room (powered by a motion sensor light switch) turned off... Like, right on cue😳... I was lowkey shook😂😂😂
I'm haunting you tonight 👿👿
You are sweet Jessica
Well this girl is a friend Jess.. I screaming right now... Idk what to do..
these tips are all great, until you are the boyfriend😂😂😂😂
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I've been the cheated on husband,nothing new
Hahaaha
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You should have posted this yesterday 😂😂I was in that situation and I don't know if my response was any good
Jess, you should have let any potential 'flirter' know: 'My man, if you are determined NOT to look for someone unattached, keep this one thing in mind: if your flirting manages to kindle a relationship, know that down the road someone else will try the same tactic. If she was weak enough to give into your flirting, it can happen again. Be ready for that.'
Interesting hmm!! #100%
"its the tap that and drop it" part nu ....
I,ve missed u dear lagos Nigeria 🥳
Once I hear that, I let you be!
Once a very beautiful girl I liked told me she had a boyfriend. So at 19, I was still young to understand.So I left her friendly. Turned out it was a test! A close friend of her hinted that to me, but it was rather late.
I'd say you were lucky to escape such unnecessary drama, don't waste your time on such immature girls
What was such test supposed to mean?
I think.... probably... the best thing is to just move on
nah if someone wants to play hard to get let them play by themself. just trust the no and walk away.
But why will you want her to like you even though she has a boyfriend?
What kind of likeness is that.
As a man, I don't want my girl liking another man beyond basic friendship.
Why would I wanna do that to another brother?
I agree....
This advice is bad this time around❗
Either she want you or she don't. Males she want, she DON'T test nor play games with❗
No guy cared when they was doing my x wife,why should i
@@dwayneneal3342 Your xwife didn't tell them she had you.
She willingly let go.
No man can consensually have your woman if she ain't willing
@@t3m185 no shit ,but some of them knew she was married
@@dwayneneal3342 Some people are plain stupid.
however, it was up to her to respect her marriage and not give herself to them.
She's the problem, not the guys despite their stupidity
I'm not gonna lie, there are some women that do have a boyfriend and there are some that have said that just to say it, mostly me, if she told me that, I would've been understanding to both but that's just me...
I’m in love with my best female friend, I literally do everything for her but she said she doesn’t feel thesame way about me and she also has a boyfriend that she made clearly to me that she will always put him before me, and I’m always hurt knowing that she has a boyfriend and she doesn’t feel same way about me despite been the one doing her everything. I always think about her, I’m literally obsessed with her, My day will never be great if I didn’t talk to her, she’s someone that you can never see her without me in school which makes everyone think we are dating, she’s somebody I’m just too attach to but the pain I’m going through knowing that she has a boyfriend and doesn’t have feelings for me is unbearable, I can’t stand seeing her with that guy but she values him more than me, I try moving on it doesn’t work, I don’t see any other girls attractive. I so much love her and I don’t know what to do, and I don’t want to stop talking and relating with her because she’s my best friend already that literally knows everything about me. I’m so in pain and I need help. What should I do please?
Nothing than to just Let her be and kills your feelings.......One thing i learnt in this Life is Love is not being Forced...she is a Good Lady for Opening up her Feelings to u by telling u she cant feel anything to u.....if u keep on presurerizing u keep on Losing urself and value, try and kill off this feelings and Move On.......
Stop giving her too much attention and talk to her less....you ll begin to find other girls
What I will tell you is try and lay back small act like u busy and don’t give her the attention I used to give her.... it won’t be easy Buh try..... and see her reaction
I've been there. my best advice is let her go, break the relationship if you haven't already and move on. Overtime you'll heal and all this energy could be used to improve yourself and meet someone who really values you!
You don’t value yourself because is very bad to love a woman that love another man
Nice
What about if she has a boyfriend but tells me “I don’t know what we are anymore”… is it ok to try and date her if her current relationship seems doomed?
Guys don’t be a simp but if you do these the facts you need
I tried this and it worked she actually likes but her boyfriend saw our conversations and i almost got my ass beat 😂 Thanks 😊
And what if she says I have bf and she doesn't have and she's from same gym how to deal with that?
I was once in that situation. She told me she have someone, but always ask me for money... I just stopped and distanced from her.!! Gold digger!?
I am trying to run away from this and then you showed up Jessica😔
I would have to dislike this video respectfully because honestly if I woman truly has respect for her boyfriend then she wouldn’t want to cheat or like another man. Why not just leave and not break a person’s heart? Ps on both sides it’s not right to cheat and that is clearly cheating which isn’t cool at all and I thought you were against cheating. Also when anybody says they have a boyfriend or girlfriend move on cause sabotaging somebody’s relationship just to get someone That’s taken to like you is messed up on so many levels.
From my experience, the chances you get to hang out with the person you like being in the friendzone since the beginning is 10%. You may end up being the friend who's available all the time for her in the bad days so she can rely on you to have a miningful conversation, overtime you will become the best friend and then is game over!
Pursuing a woman with BF is all fine and dandy until the next man snatches your chick. If she has BF and entertains you, she is cheating and cant be trusted.
Remember, you lose them how you get them
What if, she says someone has proposed and also says, she will answer you later.
This thing happen to me, a friend of mine that I like and she had a boyfriend don’t know there relationship will eventually break, I later go for her sis before there relationship break, I just shift the love to her sis but it still pain me cuz the friendship isn’t that deep like before because I go for her sis 😞😞
Same thing is happening. What should I do?
You have a video for everything 😅
I truly do. Lol