The first 6 things girls notice about guys
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- Опубликовано: 30 июн 2024
- Have you ever wondered what women really notice when they first set eyes on you? Watch this video if you want to be more intentional about your appearance and sex appeal.
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01:05 - Number 1
02:28 - Number 2
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First 6 things women notice:
- Appearance
- Appearance of wealth
Where's the rest of the list?
@@Blaqmench That's the joke. They only care about 2 things.
@@jakejake7289 🎯 You absolutely correct sir🤭
Here's my list of things Most Women notice on the opposite sex first: 1. Jewelry 2. Clothes/Shoes 3. Smile 4. Skin 5. Breath/Body Odor 6. Vehicle he's driving
@@Blaqmench To get eye contact or whatever... your physical appearance is the first.. how sexy or beautifull your look... A woman will notice a lot of your things but they are not getting attracted..
Successful people don't become that way overnight. What most people see at a glance- wealth, a great career, purpose - is the result of hard work and hustle over time. I pray that anyone who reads this will be successful in life! ~ ❤️ Nat
Thanks for this it’s encouraging 🙏🏼
Exactly right...
Amen
Nathalie I disagree with you.
Most girls I know Don't care about wealth, because we make our own money OK, great career no non no , career is a temporary thing and can be changed, purpose is subjective.
@@thefamilybasics79 wow... while this looks good in theory I found it hard to see it in real life... can you introduce me to one of those girls you know that don't look for wealth and understand that career can be a temporary objective in life??
I think holding up a conversation is something we'd like to know more of. Shyness is also another one you could cover. How to be bold the right way.
Conversation comes with how widely informed you are and how quickly you can think on your toes. Sometimes however, not talking can win you the woman you want. Gauge the situation. For instance, if there is a guy or guys in the table who are too talkative to an irritating level, you shut your beak for the most time, come out as different from him/them and you will win the woman hands down
If you ask questions that require more than a yes/no, you won't have to speak as much. Then ask good follow up questions.
Dont cover shyness work on in but dont cover it :D
I like the way you speak, very clear, precise, in what you are talking about. Well spoken.
You crushed it for us yet again... Thank you Jessica
I agree totally. The best thing for people to do is get comfortable in their own skin. Don't stress it you are who you are. There is a lid for every pot.
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@@JessicaOS my pleasure. You are great, I enjoy your videos and I appreciate your sharing
You are really giving us amazing content...... keep up the fire
I absolutely love this woman. If I were a man living in Ghana, she would be my wife! Seriously, it is so rare to hear a Black woman express herself so well without being insulting or overly exaggerating in her discussion.
You must talk to the wrong women
@@champfromla6162 I address the real world here. I live in Prince George's County, MD, NOT California. Lol!
@@briankeiththomas15 you killin my sistas in Prince George....LOL....give them some TIME to turn into women...hey...if true....you gotta find the real ones in libraries...restaurants....Jazz spots....comedy stores...grown ass women talk different, esp if they think you got $$$
I think she's already someone's Wife
U talk to the wrong women. And sound extremely ignorant
Well said madam.
Thanks a million for imparting knowledge. Keep it up.
8/10
The way a person speaks in relation to who they are talking too. This is very true, maybe the first thing I would notice in a woman after speaking to her. I know instantly if I would like to learn more about her. Great video!
I would listen to your voice all day🔥🔥 I have been watching these videos back to back
Listen to Jessica and you won't fail in your relationship.
P.S: Key word here is LISTEN!
This is nice, keep it up Jessy
Greetings Precious: Your comments are helpful. Thanks! KEEP UP THE AWESOME WORK!
Wilson
Wow, your ease of communication, articulation and vocabulary is way up there
I love all your videos , courage you are improving my life greatly
Beautifully put together.
Manly: 10. Thanks for sharing Jess. I love the content you always channel out here. I have been your fan since 2007 and my utmost desire is to see you face to face some day.
I adore the way you speak and the tone of your voice. It is so eloquent… great vidéo by the way. I will watch the rest…
Guys be yourself a woman wants you to give 100% whiles that same woman can never and not ready to even sacrifice 1% of what she's telling you to do don't let anyone fool you be yourself and focus on your hassle one love
Real Talk! Put Your Best Foot Forward but don't Jump threw Hoops For Some Woman who's Superficially Judging you acting like her 💩 Don't Stink!
Jessica.. how can I duplicate you? Your voice, energy and vibe.. addictive!
Keep it up.. 😇
Be yourself
Great information, Thank you Jessica O!
Jessica thankx alot for striking us ,for sure this show it was wonderful
10 being masculine💪🏽 and 1 are sissies😁
Thanks for the information & insight. Am a man who loves having conversations and reading books on the topic of relationships, so am very pleased to have come across your channel😊
Keep up the good work!👌🏽
BTW I ain't no sissy😁,I'll give myself a 7...still got a lot of work to do on me
Sending love from Kenya🖤
Stumbled on this vid and WOW such mindful and good feedback! I will say though that a lot of men shouldn't beat themselves up too bad about perfecting these attributes (as on point as they are). Because honestly, most women aren't at all that interesting or awesome. We tend to assign so much value to how good they look, that we imagine we must be perfect in order to deserve them. But the fact is, many women who look good, only look good. And not just women, this is true for men too. People born with a wealth of attraction are never tested in ways that help them to develop character. So they rarely have anything awesome beyond the face, because life has never required them to have anything more. Whereas plain looking people, have had no choice, and are typically the ones stacking on accomplishment, experience, personality, emotional work. Don't beat yourselves up, a lot of time they just look nice lol.
Best comment so far ❤
Thank you Jessica I really appreciate your efforts.
Another great video Jessica 👏❤️
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Man I don't know what to say about Jessica. She just does it. I am somebody who's extremely self aware and wants to be better as I grow. I've listened to a lot... l mean A LOT of advice and tips online for over a decade now but Jessie's (if you don't mind), tips and advice just resonates withing your soul. It's so easy to listen to and take in and remember, without even writing anything down. Also if you get to read this I apologize, I thought I subscribed a long time ago, I just realized I haven't so I have. Thank you for your tips. I have met you in person as well, a long time ago, way before YT. You're as delightful as you seem online.
Always here for the best. 💯
Me too 😊
No. 2 is quite essential, good job dear 👍
Thanks for being a good teacher to we men
Just in time!!! More 💕❤️❤️🥰
Dearest Jessica thank you once more for your wonderful hints and good advice to face the world and all its subtleties that we should get to know to get along better. I am not a person that looks too much into myself and since more I’ve had the philosophy of really showing myself as I am to women because I still think that when the right woman is coming to me I have to really be myself to her so that if we click it will be forever. Thank you so much for your wonderful hints once more!
Cosmic Blessings and lots of Love and Light to you always!
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never seen such a woman with alot of wisdom and knowledge in her specialty field.... simple, clear and direct best youtuber i have come across so far in terms of relationships advices i get my answers from watching your videos a day cant go by without listening to your videos... well done keep it going
So nice of you
Thank you for breaking this down for us jessy much love
Another educational video ❤️❤️
On this occasion Jessica is spot on about love and sex in the 21st Century.
I am impressed because for once she understands female Psychology,
You Always Educatively Amazing
Thank you
Thank you you mentioned something I was doing already!!!
I’m not even dating and somehow the RUclips algorithm had one of Jessica’s videos on my feed. Intrigued, I watched one. I think this one was maybe my fifth. What a fantastic woman. Subscribed, and yet I have no reason to. 🙂
🤣🤣 I'm here thanking the RUclips gods 🙏🏾
Your wisdom 🙌 has lead me back to the woman who is going to be my wife
Nice to always hear your voice and watch your eyeballs thank you Jessica
10/10 - Very well informed, read, abreast with current affairs, great sense of humour, romantic and sometimes ladies mistake my pleasant auro for flirtation but I'm right straight.
gather here if you agree she just dropped another banger😊❤️...
How many imperfections do all the single mothers have?
You're the best , I have been watching your sister sister program ❤️🌹💋
More tips with Jessica this channel is addictive
I would not hang myself on these standards. All you need ever be is to be your true self. If some person has an eyer on you, but wishes your imperfections away - they must move on to find their Mr. or Miss. perfect. These pedestals are just for the wannabies.
Well said. Jessica also does not represent all women, so men need to keep that in mind as well. I spent 20 years with somebody that I was not a good fit with and will not repeat the same mistake. I was not happy with myself because my woman wanted me to be somebody else. Trying to fit a mold was not sustainable or healthy, for me anyway. Now I'm alone, but happier than ever because I've learned to like myself for who I am, and change the parts I don't like to the best of my ability. If I attract a suitable match, great! If not, also great!
those imperfection are bit of a test.. as a men u should not bother them.. the woman will goalong.. if u bother it, the woman wil also bother it..
You're absolutely right ✅ Jessica but the one biggest thing I have noticed is, a man's confidence is really what knocks a woman off her feet. I have seen a lady fall for a not so attractive guy. The guy was dressed simple, he was not what ladies will see as handsome (atleast in my opinion), but the dude was radiating self confidence in his speech, the guy will often strike jokes that often got ladies laughing their lungs out. I saw ladies getting drawn closer to him and that showed me that one may not have much but if they have self confidence, they have everything.
I don't consider myself as overly confident, but have always take losses to cocky assholes that didn't have to be well dressed, handsome, employed, or even in good physical shape.
No. The ugly guys are security for women because they know they ain't going anywhere. The good guys are rare, which is why most women pick up schitty guys and then become bitter later in life because thie checklist didn’t work out. Personally, I don't give women a second glance. I'm too busy admiring myself.
I always love your contents🔥🔥 RUclips and TikTok
Teaching good Jessica! In response to your question strong 9!
Its all about the looks, and sexual chemistry. I always apply the 3 second rule.
Jessica Rate 9 #6 Interesting or adventurous the ladies are lacking. Also, hobbies being a part of something she does regularly and not just personal hygiene or shopping.
Thanks for the tips Ms Jessica. It's something worth knowing for we, the guys.
I appreciate you.
Thanks for the tip I'll keep them in mind ✨✨✨✨✨
When it comes to being manly, I'll give myself a 5/10 . I'm shy at first and soft spoken so ladies don't perceive me as manly enough at first but I'm well versed in many topics and take my time to educate myself and most people find me to be relatively smart ..... The shyness and lack of confidence is the problem
It seems like am in your shoes dude😒
If you build up ur communication skills the shyness will disappear
Put some gum in your mouth. It will make it easier for you to talk. Chewing a flavorful gum can make the words flow easier and quicker off your tongue. Make it a gum with FLAVOUR!!! I keep a pack of Trident Watermelon Twist with me, to help turn on gift of gab mode!!!
@@some3sharks Really? I don't think so... I'll consider myself as a well skilled in communication, but I still get shy talking to individuals as oppose to addressing the public... Shyness is a problem of composure rather than words
Gentlemen, like many things we as men have to face in life, shyness is something we have to be intentional about. Some of us have to work on our boldness and confidence every second, and some have to be mindful that we walk into rooms and conversations shy and you may just need a mindset change. But we all have the power to overcome it. Mine was my mindset that needed to change. I used to be the youngest and smallest kid in the room growing up, so I always saw myself as being inferior. But once I grew up, and gained knowledge and identified the shyness, I faced it, I'm veeeery confident and have been able to dominate even against opponents at work who unfairly attacked me. I did it, you can too. Stand strong. Our battlefield is in our minds nowadays more than a physical one. Arm yourself w your courage and fight for your future self. The ULTIMATE YOU!!!💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿
Not bad at all but how about this -
1 height
2 face
3 Sense of style
4 personality
5 money
6 social life
🤧🤧🤧money
💯 %
$$$$$$$$$$$$$🤔$$$$$$$$$$$$😉😎
Put 💰 at the top of the list. If you have enough its makes the other items on the list less important.
@@chumps7974 Actually, she has to be sexually and physically attracted to you otherwise she'll definitely be Attracted to the money rather than you. She can be with you and fuck the one she is actually sexually attracted to. Her relationship with you would simply be Transactional. 💯 💯 💯
Great info, Jessica. I'm a recent convert to your ways.
I enjoy seeing and listening to you.
This is a lot of effort to go through just to end up with a headache.
If you judge me negatively because of my appearances then that's your choice and its not my fault because you only met me once so it's your loss. not mine and as men we don't go around judging women besides looks are deceiving
I strongly agree. So if I go out my home to do some rough work and I girl see me in my dirty clothes. She judge me saying am not looking clean
U only get one time to make that 1st impression
@you’re missing the point.
Your totally right but guess what women don't care and will continue this way
You get xpoints for your level of deception. It's what they like 🤷♂️
Thank you Jessica😎💪🏽
I love you Jess I watch you from Kenya and your show is very educative I appreciate your effort.
Wow. Such a nice combination of good looks, real personality and direct logic . Lol I wanna go to Ghana more than ever!!!
The most important factor is being able to hold conversations..that alone covers about 60 percent of the work.
Edit: Ever wondered how some not so good looking dudes get most of the pretty girls? It’s because their convo game strong 😂
Omo no be lie
Bullshit. If you are good looking, convo is not even needed. Women hit on me without me even opening my mouth. Why should I care if a woman can even hold convo? FOH
@@mediacenterman8583 you too damn lie
@@mediacenterman8583 good looks actually has a role to play of course everybody wants a good looking partner..but women are looking for someone they can be able to establish a genuine connection with,,someone who is willing to hear them and offer them support and good advice,,and as a man you can only be able to establish that connection if you are a good conversationalist.
Um, or sex🤔🤔. There's no talking in bed, unless you're not doing it right!
Sister thank you..... I wish you the best and good health... A sanity and Prosperity
You do present yourself with grace and glamour.kudos
In reality attraction is everything👍👍
The reality is that even if men check all the 6 boxes, the divorce rate is still the same.
Nothing is guaranteed! Not saying that the topics she'd mention aren't legit! Take myself for instant, it was a point in time that I was notoriously shy! But it made women even more intrigue and interested in me! Eventually I gotten over those issues.
@@donovanredmond8050 From my experience with women, I began to not even try to holler at them. I've had repeated issues with not being exactly who they complain about.
u have to understand that the dating phase is not the same as the courting phase.. they are different.. u can slip thru the dating phase, bc u are looking good and having fun with her.. but into a relationship u will be faced a lot more complicated things and its the way u handle these to still get the woman attracted.. lazyness is the first thing men underestimate..
May God bless this channel
Strong 💪 8 but full of wisdom. I examine and evaluate too long.
Odd thing is, i see relatively a lot of non-alfa males with more dominant women. I also see lots of masculine and more dominant guys, being single. Because they are dominant and women dont want that? May be the 'ideal world' vs the 'every day life world'? U are absolutely right about presentation, teeth etc.
Being dominant masculine uncompromising 😂 🤷♂️ take it or leave it ladies
i think thats not the case.. the sexual polarity will never change it is a biology thing.. A lot of men are acting dominant, but are deep down insecure, a woman will sense that further on in a relationship..
@@Arvidje no that IS the case. These women go for 'weak guys' so they, women, are in control. In my culture, no one 'acts dominant' a man either is or isnt. What u say is untrue; I see lots women fall for men whom I consider 'mediocre'. Nothing wrong with them. Lotta women want to be the diominant one in their relationship, look around, u see that all the time. Not us men have changed so much, u women have changed a lot.
@@bartschiebroek a beautifull woman has always 2 guy in her backup to call if it goes wrong with the other lover.. a woman always goes for the most dominant men. Acting weak with a woman results in a a cold and warm behaviour. U have woman who like to control. In most cases this lead towards a relationship full of drama
@@Arvidje i am not intrested in oppertunistic women u just described....2 other options? She is not worth my lov, nor anyone's.. 'Acting weak' ...i am not acting, u sound like one should have tactics...i dont do tactics i am real, authentic, and have no respect for the 'lady' u describe. Keep following your tactics....
Those who fails the test don't worry too much .There are those looking for low score partners to have as convenience,meaning everyone will get picked.
if u dont worry about these test.. u already pass them..
@@Arvidje Definitely. Every one has the ability to pass a test .Each person sets their test differently depending on who they wants to attract. " There is a stick in the bush to fit every hoe ".
Thanks Jessica 😊. Simply fabulous.
Thank you, Jessica, I know what I have to do now
This a great video. Men, you must have it all going for you. There is way to much competition when searching for a woman. Be the best you can be. "Every woman wants a good man, until she finds one that requires her to be a better woman."
I disagree. THERE is more competition for women looking for a good man. That is because most women are shallow and judge men based off their looks. Many women go for flashy guys only to realize in the end that they were dealing with a pookie or Ray 🤣🤓🤣🤣😅😅🤣😅🤣😅🤣
You are absolutely right💯
@@coachobispersonalworkoutti2223 Or a serial killer in the suburbs or the one that lives in a high-end top floor residential building.
@@coachobispersonalworkoutti2223 lol. Yep. And by that time it's too late.
On a masculinity scale from 1 to 10, I feel that I'm maybe a 8. I don't "beat my chest". I don't demand attention when I walk into a room, however I command it at will sometimes. I feel that I would be what they define as a sigma male.
Hah
woman give u automatically attention if they find your appearance sexy..
And your modest lol sure youre not mixing up the idea of a narcissist being a sigma. Im being serious a sigma WOULDNT feel the need to say that.
Narcissist? Nah not these days. When I said I can coand the room at will, it's mostly in a business situation where I have to be "on". Outside of that, I don't desire attention.
@@pokerfacetv4644 well credit to you, you have responded maturely where as a narcissist would've most definitely reacted. Your initial comment came across slightly arrogant whereas in reality i don't believe that did you justice. Anyway its a positive vibe take care 👍👍
I just love looking at her appearance wise and how she talk but overall she's amazing
Jessica you have a wonderful voice. I wish I had a radio station I'd extend an opportunity to you to hire you offering you the highest salary to anyone currently on radio any where in the world. As for my manly scale, it depends on the situation. No one wants to be around a guy that's always on 10 or always at 1. Keep bringing the great content.
Dark skin beauty 🖤🖤🖤
I don't think that you speak for all women in all cultures.
Different cultures different way of looking at men.
Good advice. I literally started adopting the phrase. “Text this if you’re life gets more boring than it is”. And I give her my number.
Per your question I would characterize myself a 9 out of 10. However when I give all honor, glory and praise to my redeemer I am a 10 because that is the place of perfection for those who have studied to show themselves approved and cannot be ashamed rightly dividing the word of truth. This means practically that I have done my work inside and out in what matters most and I can hold my own in every area significant to me because I know the truth and am covered by grace. Good looking out Jessica, your description of yourself fit me; keep up the good work and thanks for looking out for the brothers!
Thanks for your teachings madsm
When women look at me, they don't notice a thing
Damn
I picked up a girl last weekend and it was a challenge for me because the day before I got in a fist fight with my cousin and he knocked out a front tooth haha! So I was proud of myself I still brought one home with a missing tooth.
Nah, it was the chevelle. Prolly woulda got her sister too if it was a real 138vin SS. I drive a' vette these days, only room for one kitty.
@@paulmoss7940 lol.. Thats a 69 charger with a 383 in it. I've smoked alot of cars around here in Seattle. You're probably right too about it being the car, still a home run! Good times.
My gal Jessica O....loving ur video sis.
Truly insightful video. Kudos Jess! 👍 Regarding your question, I'm 8/10
At my age I hope to avoid attraction. I know that at the end of the day, I will have nothing to show for interactions with women other than heartburn and an empty bank account if I ever chose to date again.
u never had attraction, but friendship only i quess and they are pleasing u only to get some money or free dates..
I'm the type of guy that's would treat a woman like the queen that she truly is...I'm willing to go the distance in order to make her happy, like working on my appearance, be kind to her and be sensitive to her feelings as well...🙂😊
You'll be wasting your time bro
@@godwinbeny1271 😂😂😅.. Stop it
@@godwinbeny1271 oh great...😑😑
Bro'... with all due respect, I really have no intention to offend you or others like you, but we call this type a man "pussy"
and because this type of man exists the feminist movement was successful and spoiled the entire American society...
Man up... treat only your woman as a queen, assuming you are the king of your domain and you wear the pants, not her...
But be careful who's riding who... and don't mistake all women with queens... wake up bro'... there is plenty of fish - aka good pussy - in the water... don't be a pussy slave and fall under pussy control...if you do that you undermine the real men...
That’s not bad but play safe bro. Especially when the connection between you two is strong. Even that one you have to be careful 😅
You real and I appreciate you
I cannot watch your videos often because you are so beautiful, smart, and intriguing. I’m old, married, and happy but I had to be honest. I would assume this is a very common sentiment. You’ll be at 1M subscriber before 2023!
It's funny cuz when I was younger I was engaging get the women now I'm 28🤦🏾♂️ not too old, now! I'm the shy guy in the corner after life strip me of some of my women and some of myself 😑 it's annoying
My life experiences made me quit wasting my time trying to get anywhere with women.
@@rgw1380rw big facts G
I’m here first 😊.
Second person always, love you from Gambia Jessi, you tips are motivated to me
This was a good video. I appreciate this and I'm sure other men do too
Here we go another one👍🔥💕
1st Things a Woman notices...
1. Your Appearance. The whole package. Clothes, etc. "Dress the way you want to be addressed."
2. How easy you are to talk to. Proper grammar, being able to hold up your end of a conversation.
3. She notices your imperfections.
4. How manly you are. Don't be a doormat.
5. How interesting you are. Be well read. Learn the art of conversation
Can you tell me exactly why a woman would be trying to see if you're a so called door mat in the first place?
@@rgw1380rw
I don't personally think most men are doormats.
SOME women want Hyper Masculine men and are wary of men who are not
LESSON #1 !!! ......NEVER EVER EVER take dating advice from a woman!
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I think I am a 7.5/10 miss Jessica...love your content! much love here from the PHILIPPINES
Jessica, you're the bomb 💥