Mum Kicks 16-Year-Old Daughter Out Of The House After Finding Out She Is Pregnant | Unexpected
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- Опубликовано: 16 фев 2021
- Myrka and Ethan are 16-year-olds and she is 19 weeks pregnant. While Ethan's parents are being supportive, Myrka's mum kicked her out of the house. Now, she is trying to win back her mother's affections while living with Ethan's family.
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Sheesh. No wonder Myrka ran straight into the arms of the first guy who said he loved her. She's obviously not getting any love or affection at home.
Maybe because She had another kid and divorced and had to support the whole family she can’t be there 24/7
@@toxicgammer2008 still that is not even an excuse for not being loving towards their child. I have a mom that works 24/7 in both jobs but she shows affection toward me and my brother. I get that people are not affectionate but give them atleast some attention
@@toxicgammer2008 However, a simple hug and an I love you won't take more than a second of her life.
Same.
@@mxlahpta fr human children need affection to be okay mentally and emotionally even if you’re provided for physically, but you don’t get affection/love you’ll be really sad
Wait is no one going to talk about how that 12 year old didn’t get dinner cause he didn’t clean the kitchen...
@@janellephillips9477 not feeding your child isn't discipline its abuse full stop.
@@janellephillips9477 I've never spanked my kids or punished then by not feeding them but here they are 14 and almost 18 wonderful, intelligent, respectful teens, who have never been in any trouble. My kids respect me because I'm respectable not because they fear punishment. My kids make good choices because they're smart enough to know that's whats best for them, not because they fear repercussions from me. Discipline means to teach and guide not to punish.
@@janellephillips9477 thats not how you discipline children they shouldnt ever GO WITHOUT EATING.
@@janellephillips9477 eating is not a LUXURY its a fucking NECESSITY.
Janelle Phillips bruh do you have kids?
“She kicked herself out” That’s a manipulative tactic. Honestly, it’s no wonder that she went looking for love. If her mom refused to hold her as a young child, what did she think was gonna happen when she got older? I’m just glad that she’s with someone who seems to love her genuinely
No. Mom had rules, daughter didn’t take them serious.
You got that right that is a perfect example of a horrible Mom
No no no no that's a bad mom and if you agree with that don't have kids because honey you are not meant to have children that mom should go to hell I am sorry but it's true
She did break the rules so understandable that the mom is mad but she should still be there for her even if she isn’t living with her and like they said it’s better for her to live with the boyfriend but her mom is being to harsh honestly she should want to be there because even if her kid is young and should’ve waited to get pregnant this is still her grand baby and she would love it
Seems like mom has rules for the but not for me her mother can be abusive not listen be controlling & manipulative but if the kids start to have autonomy she'll end up alone thats her fear thats why shes turning her son into her new husband to take care of her in her later years because she cant find a partner
I just want to thank Ethan’s parents for being as supportive as they can be 🙏🏽
Fr
For treating Ethan like a spoiled baby His whole life lol.
@@ClarkKent-tg6ls I bet he is gonna survive on his parents money ha ha ha!
Unfortunately I think Ethan's parents ended up kicking them out too :/ Ethan was in a Jubilee video and mentioned that
ethan doesn’t see his fucking kid anymore
"abortion is wrong"
*Proceeds to kick a pregnant woman out of the house*
What does that have to do with abortion
@@trillmixedtj1572 ikr
@@trillmixedtj1572 Because you don’t punish someone for keeping the baby when you’ve taught them abortion is wrong. It’s hypocritical.
@@natalieh8023 But she said, myrka, ethan and his mom decided that. That mean she's not against it, she wanted her to get one .
@@Jaypouchie Her mom taking her to church has taught her daughter otherwise though so it’s still contradicting to expect her to get an abortion.
She won’t raise a child that’s not hers but her daughter raised her son. Make it make sense🤷🏽♀️
She watched him while her mother worked. She physically didn’t change him, bath him, pay for his clothes or food. She wasn’t responsible for him. Big difference.
@@datpsychobytch I mean the girl did say that she was the one who raised her brother in the confessional while sitting next to her mother & her mother didn’t correct her...so what point are you trying to prove?
@@JozelleRenia her mother literally shook her head no, her brother also stays quiet and shakes his head no when it’s mentioned again later on. The point I’m trying to make is taking care of your daughter child after having to work your as off to care for both your kids is not ok. The mother payed her dues she did her job her daughters 16 she made the choice to get pregnant she’s old enough to get a job and take care of her own life. If she wants to do adult things she can move out and start acting like an adult
Please.
She was busy working .... she was a single mother
This mother is abusive not only to her pregnant daughter but her son is starving and she doesn't care. The two parents who are helping both these kid's are amazing.
Actions have consequences.
It's just dinner, he'll live. He chose to disobey so....
Her mum worked hard to give them a good life yet the one thing her mum warned her about, the one thing.
She intentionally chose not to use protection. How wise was that? She exposed herself to the possibility of pregnancy and STDs.
We should learn to accept the consequences of our actions. The mum will come around eventually.
Her daughter will now understand what her mum had to go through.
@Peoplepease but she's NOT that's the problem. She's a bad parent.
@@ChukwubuDike girl, she is young, young people make mistakes. Kicking out your child is not being a parent and endangering them to the outside world, 2) starving your child cause they didn’t clean the kitchen is again abuse and the fact you can’t see that is crazy, those are enough reasons for a person to get their kids removed from them.
@@ChukwubuDikeI hope u don’t and will never have kids
@@hansadaan9865😂😂😂 Y’all is so fragile he didn’t obey so he have the consequence of is act one meal is not a bit deal y’all really don’t know what abuse is poor thing 😂. And having sex without condom is not a mistake IS A CHOICE! She choice to have this baby knowing exactly what her mom will do it’s he problem!!! This mom look like a hard working woman with 2 stupid kids!
I’ve never heard of a more selfish mother. I’m Mexican and my family would NEVER talk to us like this. I feel so bad for her. Like it actually hurts my heart that she has a mom like that.
I feel so bad for Myrka. Honestly.
🙄
Real Mexican parents don't but American Mexican parents do... 😂😂😂 they toxic asf and swear it's the child fault
@@Sasha75995why that face🤨
You should see Muslim moms
“Im not gonna raise a child that isn’t mine” yet she made her daughter take care of his brother when they were younger and that wasn’t her job to do. Her mom is religious,goes to church but treats her daughter like this? That’s bs
Ikr
What do you expect from a single mother who has to take care of 2 kids and work all day long?
Religion doesn't make someone a good person
Literally. and saying she got herself kicked out, like please stop😂. kids aren’t the end of the world. I understand disappointment but to not be there for your kid? especially when she’s never experienced this before.. I’m not all parents are like that but damn
She's religious, catholic, yet wanted the daughter to abort??? BS on the religious part lol
His parents look exactly like him and his girlfriend in 15 years
Exactly what i said also
Was thinking the same thing
exactly their the spitting image of his parents
Yes, and both moms look alike 😰
he looks💅
The idea of kicking out your child in one of the most vulnerable situations they could possibly be in, a situation where they need more support than ever, is fucking psychotic.
💯
It is child abuse... She is a minor and the mother needs to be charged.
If the child wants to act grown then be grown.
@@celinemara565 That doesn't mean they're grown tho
@@NanaFauziyya they are not but they are acting like it
My family and I are Mexican, and my mom would *never* kick me out like that. Yes, she would be disappointed that I didn't wait for marriage, but she would still support me in every way, even now that I'm 25. Her mom shouldn't be like this. Her mom needs to *support* her and help her! For crying out loud! She made a mistake, but gained a beautiful blessing out of it! Why can't her mom see that?! My mom's always taught me and my brothers that we can come to her for everything; even if we're considering sex. We have the relationship where we can tell her every and anything. That's what her mom needs to do. She's probably scared and really needs a mama, like Ethan's, that wants to help her through this.
I’m Indian, having kids out of marriage isn’t even a possibility 😂. Let alone teen pregnancy
This is why kids in the West are so screwed. They know they can do whatever and get away with it. No discipline, no morals. Western family system is dead
“I’m not lovey dovey” and “I don’t cuddle my kids” that’s not being a strict parent, that’s showing your children you don’t love them.
my parents are the exact way
@@chandlermayo2563 same with mine and they still love me
Which is technically emotional neglect
Its sad but that s the mexican culture .
My parents are the same way it’s weird but we know that we all love each other very much.!
So this woman didn’t feed her child dinner because of chores and then kicks out her pregnant daughter....yeah she’s a horrible mother
I was made to stay at friends for a few days but I was never kicked out just think they needed time to think but when I came back there was a playpen
@@Thatgirlcodes wtf They most likey wanted to surprise you🤦😂
Exactly
Right She shoul just have let her son get away with it and let him do whatever he wanted. And even though she spoke to her daughter over and over again about not ruining her life and getting pregnant she should just work ANOTHER job and pay for her daughters kid too. By the the way the daughter has giggled her way through this whole video aside from when she was playing the victim I would probably not have kicked out my kid But give me a break you people are acting like she is amonster because she is trying to teach her kids to be good reliable human beings.
Ikr but the pregnant one seemed pretty responsible to
I’m so glad she’s not living in a narcissistic household anymore. She is so blessed to have Ethan’s parents❣️
I dont understand how a mother can lack compassion, love and support towards her own child.
her mom is right tbh id be angry af i wouldn’t kick her out, but id be so mad she asked for 1 thing. don’t get pregnant and she did. she’s a dumb child who is irresponsible.
@@420blazeeee key word “child”. Why would you expect a 15 year old who’s brain isn’t even fully developed to make smart decisions smh. I would be somewhat angry and disappointment as well but this mom took it to a heartless extreme with no empathy towards her own child imo
@@summerfatima2525 she shouldn’t have been having sex til she was a damn adult. i didn’t have any sexual encounters since i was 18. able to be a adult. id be the same way as a mother, strict rules. finish high school focus on school then be a adult you can have sex. she’s irresponsible dumb child who didn’t listen to her moms rules.
@@summerfatima2525 not even old enough for a damn job. it’s bs
Not feeding her child because his room isn't clean is abusive.
That mom is clearly a narcissist
@@thiccredgyal3404 that’s what I was thinking. the mom said “my world was ending” and “getting pregnant is the worst thing you could do to me” as if she was having the baby. I can understand why a parent might think they’d need to help with childcare, but the daughter was practically already a mom. she was cleaning the house, cooking food, raising her brother, all while in school? the mom needs to get a grip.
It’s how she was raised
Oh brother.. One meal? She is trying to teach them. Better the parents I see today A bunch of spoiled losers who want everything handed to them.
@@jademay9047 my dad was raised by a father who would hit him with whatever he could get his hands on whenever he did something wrong but he was never like that with me that fact that was how she was raised is not an excuse
She never cuddled her kids. Believe me that’s gonna get a huge impact on the kids when they grow up. They will start looking for love from another people.
She said that she didn't coddle her kids. They learned how to do certain things because she couldn't be there.
right, the way you raise your kids is the way they’re gonna treat you when they’re older. my grandmother was the same to her kids and now they barely visit her. if they do they act like its a burden to them.
@@pjm7243 she said that she didn't coddle her kids, she didn't spoil them. She's had a rough life and did her best. If her ungrateful kids cannot see that, then she's better off.
@@pjm7243 also Ethan's mom kicked them both out with the baby too. Myrka said that they made out her mom to be a villain, but she is a loving grandmother. Ethan's parents are getting a divorce. Being together since 15, rarely works out. People are judging by seeing this video alone, they are not right.
CODDLED
“Why won’t me daughter come visit me?” Is a sentence this mom is going to repeat in the future if she doesn’t shape up.
I admire Myrka for wanting to keep her harder classes even though she was pregnant and would be a mom soon. I hope your baby is doing great!
Parents, who deprive their children of a loving family environment and neglect their emotional needs, put themselves in the position for a teenager to look for love, affection and understanding elsewhere.
A lot of the women in the comment section have no empathy.
I agree 100 percent
Facts
Why is not condoning something you told your child about a neglecting situation? It’s just so preventable and they openly said we just didn’t wanna have say sex. She shouldn’t be kicked out but Jesus Christ everything is always a parents fault. I knew what I was thinking at 14 15 and 16. They know better. She didn’t spill milk she had a baby. Don’t kick her out tho but sheesh no one has any idea how moms might be feeling? She seems more disappointed than anything
you can find love and affection that doesn't involve sex.
“I didn’t kick her out she kicked herself out” “oh he didn’t get dinner because he didn’t clean the kitchen” “oh when she got pregnant it was so hard for me” wow what a toxic parent. Shame on her.
It’s called teenage pregnancy for a reason. It’s not a great thing.
@@lillyadu2874 nobody said it was but kicking her out wasn’t gonna make her not pregnant
@@random.raw1214 my mom said she would kick me out but ig it is bad but being pregnant as a teenager is bad too
@@asiyyahmullen8777 its not gonna help because you're just kicking out your child that you said that you loved and not even help them. Teen pregnancy isn't the best but kicking your kid out doesn't help either.
Right coming from a person behind a cartoon profile who believes in vampires I see why they canceled vampire diaries on Netflix🤦♂️
i started crying watching myrka crying as ethans mom talked about about how they were always going to love their son unconditionally even though they were disappointed he and myrka got pregnant. it is truly so sad to watch other parents show their children the type of love you know you will never get from your own parents. i hope myrka knows that even though ethan and his family arent blood related to her, their love for her can be that type of familial love that shes lacked from her mother
Props to Ethan and his family for taking responsibility and taking care of myrka when her mom kicked her out. The parents raised Ethan well
“In Mexico the culture is different the parents are very strict, and not loving”... okay so continue the generational trauma, instead of handling it and ending it...🤦🏼♀️
Her mom is so toxic and narcissistic!
Sadly that's how it is with the older generation of Mexicans, my family is the exact same way as well a lot of my friend's family, we cant really do anything about it bc if we speak our mind we're obviously just gonna be torn down by them, at least the current and younger generation of us mexicans will never treat our future family like that especially with all the trauma we've gone through
You put my feelings into words
@@ashleyimaginee8134 if you don’t mind me asking, why is the teen pregnancy rate higher for Hispanics/Latinos even though the families are super strict?
@@mariamacruz107 yes I wanted to ask it as well. No hate, no judging just wanted to know please
@@emotionaldamage9894 yes same, I don’t want to sound judgemental either
Myrka is really lucky she got pregnant to Ethan and a family like his.
Yeah Ethan and his family seems very nice
NO, Myrka is not lucky she got pregnant. She was either naive and not educated on sex and preventing pregnancy. Nothing lucky about being a teen mother.
You’re right. Teen pregnancy isn’t ideal. I’d be pissed if I were me. But it could be worse. She could be homeless and have a dead bear daddy. At least in her not so ideal situation she has a supportive baby daddy side. Hope they last and she won’t be another statistic.
@@51Saffron GIRL! Tf?! 🤦🏽♀️
@@51Saffron they never said she got lucky by getting pregnant. they said that even though she so happened to get pregnant, she was lucky to have a baby father who actually wants to help raise their child instead of a dead beat who wants her to figure it out herself. calm down karen
I hope Myrka is doing okay. This is incredibly painful… I just don’t think there’s truly words to describe how disgusted I am of her birth giver; calling her mother a “mother” is downright disgusting.
She’s no longer with Ethan
@@nathaliasanchzwhy
@@nathaliasanchzwhy what happened??
Teenage pregnancy shouldn’t be applauded either.
The mother is gonna regret not being a part of her daughter's life.
Her mother must already regretting to have a daughter like this one.😒
seriously, why does she think this will help? does she think the daughter is going to go back in time and not have sex? what’s the benefit of abandoning your child in a time of need? Especially since the daughter has basically already been doing things motherhood would entail this whole time. she’s cooking meals, cleaning the house, and raising/taking care of her brother. this is needlessly cruel.
@@nidhitapan3046 there's nothing wrong with the daughter, but there is something wrong with the mother. She's disgusting!
Why children want to pop a child when they are still immature no job no support from partner both literally babies themselves and act grown up. Mother is single parent just getting by herself knows the consequences of excepting her first grandchild she will continue doing that burdening her poor mother, her mother maybe setting a good example for her son not to get anyone pregnant while your stiil a minor yourself and no support. PARENTS SHOULD NOT BE FORCED INTO EXCEPTING THERE CHILDREN'S MISTAKES, AS SHE DOSENT WISH TO EXCEPT THE CHILD SHES CLASSED AS A BAD MOTHER. WHEN SHES A PROVIDER FOR HER KIDS!!
@@zenatkhan8702 Yea these people are tripping. They're the type to let their kids walk all over them smh. If my 16 year old daughter wants to be old enough to go out and make babies well then she's old enough to get out my crib and go raise them. In the comments all I'm seeing is excuses with no accountability....and by the way making a baby isn't just a simple (mistake), that's a life altering decision lol. You can't fault the parent for being mad about some stuff like that.
The mom is a narcissist, she’s just talking about herself ...
“mY wOrLd CaMe CrAsHiNg DoWn” okay? What about the 16 yo that’s PREGNANT!? 🙄
this is literally my mom
@@annahclaire1765 mine too. She made our pregnancies about her. My sister was 18 when my nephew was born. I was 21 when my kid was born. They don't grow up or get real self-awareness.
just like my mom but my moms delusional to it
Right?' If that’s the worst thing she’s ever been through then she’s had an amazing life. I just lost my sweet Momma and THAT is the worst thing I’ve ever been through! I lost my Daddy too...she is...UGH
Let’s hope she has that same energy when she’s older and needs both her kids (whether she asks or not)
I’m Mexican. Raised by a single mother and my aunt.When I was growing up in my teens my mom always told me if I ever got pregnant she’d do whatever she could to help me be successful with my baby she’d strap my baby onto her back while she worked (has always worked from home) so I could go to school if she ever needed to. Knowing you’d have that support and love makes you appreciate and make smarter decisions for yourself so that they would never need to. Now I’m almost 25, married and being asked when her nietos are coming.
Myrka’s mother might go to church often but hasn’t learned anything about compassion. She used her daughter as a nanny and it’s unwilling to help on raising her grandchild. did jesus teach her that?
Jesus didn't teach her to give herself away before marriage either
@@alejandragonzalez5763 and Jesus didn’t teach people to judge others mistakes either.🙄
@@alejandragonzalez5763 jesus also taught you to help the sinners, damn man died for the whole world....
@@alejandragonzalez5763 well good thing he forgives sinners so bug off you religious person
@@bianca6206 he forgives sinners who repent to him. Not just saying I did a mistake or saying sorry to a person. Those that don't get their punishment in his coming. I'm not religious I'm just a Jesus freak
Her mom's 38 damn. Wickedness can really age you a lot. She looks 48-50 but she's just 38
Selon moi c'est le maquillage qui la vieillit...
right and she got pregnant young too, not as a teen but at 22?? vv close
@@muladeity may be that's why she know the problems
@@payeldasgupta2317 yea that or her mom was like that to her or shes just a shitty person
Ethan’s parents are around the same age as her mom and they’re THRIVING. Really nice looking house, great family relationship, and they’re kind enough to take in someone in need.
the fact the mom is 38 shows she had myrka as a teen herself
38-16 = 22. Not exactly a teen.
Wow the way Myrka's mom called her grandchild "That Baby" .. this broke my heart. Myrka is already the best Mother in the world 💖💞
What a terrible mother seriously, she’s a typical narcissist, projecting her failures or fears onto her daughter instead of taking some responsibility.
her life, not yours
@@eddie._.n0 that’s doesn’t make it not true ...
Bruh she is just mad that her daughter did that at that age
Edit: also concerned not just mad
@@qwertyltrewq7556 Very much mad. A concerned mother wouldn't throw her daughter out of the house and say "you go your way, I go my way". That's not concern. If she was really concerned she would have been trying to take care of her.
@@cainoipinge4266 I do agree with you she went over board but what else would she do? Keep her home and just say don’t do it again. So it does not make her a bad parent for kicking her out. On top of that she probably gives her some type of support you know.
This happened to one of my sisters friends🥺 Her parents kicked her out thinking it was gonna teach her a lesson & 1month later she killed herself💔 They had to bury their daughter & grandchild
I noticed that a lot of narcissists are siding with the Mom
That's so sad 😭 parents need to think about their actions and actually help their children in a kind and loving way
Oh my god I felt physically sick reading this. I was a teen parent. I know what I went through mentally so I can only imagine what it must be like to have no support. That's absolutely horrific :'(
Ended up teaching those parents a lesson hopefully, sickening.
My mom always said even when growing up if this happened she would be disappointed but still be there for me
The reason I abstained from sex in highschool was that I didn't want to be a statistic. I feel for both of them.
that good and all but condoms are a thing
Condoms do not 100 percent prevent pregnancy or sexually transmitted diseases 💯 only ABSTINENCE
@@himmy_turner_They don't always work. Why do so many people want teens to have sex? It's so disturbing.
@@bhazerelli7611 im a teen myself i don’t want us to be screwing around but we know it’s going to happen teach safe sex not abstinence
@himmy_turner_ Nah. Teens are capable of abstaining and they should be expected to. Lowering standards has not worked at all, it has increased teen pregnancy. Teen pregnancy happened before but nowhere near as much as it does now.
I kind of agree with the mother a little bit, because it's a child having a child, and every person's actions have consequences, if Myrka thought she's an adult who can have sex then she can take care of her own child, there's a saying "You sleep in your bed exactly how you make it".
Selfish
She's lucky to have her boyfriend and his family.
You right you don't kick your child out no matter what they dun
He's going to do it to her once she finds out that he's playing for the other team.
This didn’t age well at all
@@miyajackson9876 wait pls tell me what happened
@@usagiprincess4387 im not sure but I saw in the comments here somewhere that she got kicked out again, now from the other family
Her mother’s eyebrows look like the physical embodiment of the phrase “No Mercy”
She looks like a hard working woman.. she had standards for her daughter..
@@_____7512 As a mother of a 17 year old girl, there’s no way I would do what this mother did.
She looks like 🤨 kinda
@@sashaboo72 Lmfao I'm not even a parent, shit I'm younger than Myrka and I know that if I have kids theres no way I could just abandon them when they need me most. And don't get me wrong I would be upset that my daughter got knocked up but I would still be there for her and help her cause, thats my daughter. I also made a rant in this comment section abt this
@@cornstarch9681 Exactly. I’d be disappointed and shocked because she’s obviously aware this could happen, but that’s my daughter and my grand baby. What sort of person would it make me if i abandoned them? I’m disgusted at this mother and I feel very sad for her daughter.
I know everyone is talking about the mom. But they were only dating for a week until they had sex! At 16 I was not about that life, does anyone talk about STDs, birth controlor pregnancy anymore especially at that age.
I know the mother is wrong but you guys have to understand that hurt people hurt people. She probably grew up in the same way and that’s probably all she knows. She wanted her daughter to have a better life than she did, to grow up and be successful and then have children so her daughter could be there for her kids and not live paycheck to paycheck like she was. And she was most likely afraid of having to raise another kid when she was already struggling with two of her own
She’s pregnant, it’s not like she killed somebody
Nanospark1 boy stfu
@@miminbubs litterally
She's ruining her life. You're ignorant as hell at how 16 year olds getting pregnant and keeping the hellspawn ruins their life and the family at large.
It's a taboo in Spanish culture to be pregnant before getting married. Mother's of pregnant daughters are looked down. I'm from the area Mirka is from, and statistics show these girls don't go to college. Most are on welfare with multiple children fathered by different men. It's a nasty cycle. I don't agree with Mirkas mom (my mom was identical to her) attitude, but I understand where it was coming from.
@@ederadee this is an insult to most moms because most moms that are in their 30’s and up had a child at 15+. It’s nothing new.
Her boyfriend instinctively reaches for her when she’s upset. Very loving young kid ❤️
Young lust
@@Username26425 girl stfu, let people love and comfort each other
@@logangrandstaff7129 lol
@@Username26425 I agree with you
I hope he will be a good dad
"I'm not a lovey dovey person." Then why did you have kids if you weren't going to love them?
Can we talk about how much love Ethan treats myrka with. I found it so sweet how you can see in his eyes he would do anything for her
Just because you’re pregnant doesn’t mean u can’t be successful
And i think alot of people get that shit confused !!! Cause cause you get pregnant doesn’t mean your gonna be a homeless junky on the street !!
Please say that again !!!
No but it can be more difficult especially if you’re young coming from a dysfunctional/toxic family
you cant watch a kid while youre in college, working, etc
@@rubyyy325 exactly! Why do people make it out it's easy to just become anything 🤦🏽♀️
Notice how the mom is constantly like, “I felt like this.” “It tore me apart” “I felt my world crashing.” Everything is ALWAYS about her. I know way too many moms like this.
It proper triggers me
Whewww Chile
It’s most parents who think in that way. They want more for their children to succeed than the children want it themselves. It’s quite normal for parents with culture. It’s not necessarily about the parents, more because it’s out of concern for their kids. Understand.
Definitely an NPD type situation.
Her mom is coming off really harsh but with the stereotype Mexicans have with being teen moms I can see why she’s pissed. She’s worked her ass off being a single mom trying to provide for her kids and the single rule she gave was broken. Plus more times than none the responsibility for the kid will be put on her because how can a 16 year old provide for a kid. There’s no guarantee the dad and his family will actually stick around.
His parents are amazing. They understand fully
He’s honestly such a good man to her💕 couple goals fr
The mom really thinks she’s the victim😭
Delusion
Pretty classic narcissist behavior
I bet the mom never heard Myrka say “i cannot raise a child that is not mine” while Myrka was watching her brother.
So true
This comment is extremely underrated 🗣️
What a terrible thing to say about your own grandchild.
@@robinbrown2256 no she meant when Myrka was made to clean and cook for her brother when younger. She probably never heard her said she can’t raise a child that’s not hers yet says it to her daughter and it’s disgusting
Burn 🔥 😆
Unpopular: I agree with the mom. If Myrka knew what would happen if she got pregnant she should have been safer.
However I don’t agree with abandoning part
She wasn't getting love from her mom, the girl literally raised his brother since 9. It's the mother's mistake, she needs love.
Bro this lady isn’t evil, she Warned her daughter multiple times growing up that she’s wasn’t gonna have any of that nonsense, she knows people are going to judge her for what she says because only she understands how much she warned her kid…she doesn’t care if people call her heartless she said so herself. Her lil daughter needs to learn, all she did was push her more into adulthood. When you do grown up things at 15 what makes you think your going to be treated like a kid should be treated? So she’s grown enough to pull her pants down and get busy but she’s not old enough to go from mommy’s house. Myrka please. 😅
There’s a big difference between teaching your daughter responsibility for her actions and choices and abandoning your child. You don’t have to agree with what she did or take care of the baby but your child is still your responsibility and needs your love and support. I would NEVER do that to my children
Agreed no child is grown at 15 you are living in MY HOUSE
It’s always those “religious” parents...
Edit: omg I didn’t notice the likes and to all those religious ppl in the comments pressed. If the shoe fits, WEAR IT. I never said all religious ppl. Hints why I put the quotations “””🤡
ALWAYS!
Alwaysss
Religious people suck
More like the ones that pretend they never made mistakes because religious validates their wrongdoings and give them forgiveness. And her mama needs to quit acting like she wasn't 22 when she gave birth to Myrka.
Actually not always. My Mom was the most religious person ever and when I got pregnant at 19 my Mom actually supported me. But let's say she wasn't actually religious like other people typically are, she was Christ like, not a hypocritical religious person. She was always reading her bible and always was compassionate and forgiving and merciful. Really a blessing she was in everyone's life that met her. She actually practiced what Christ preached. She passed away suddenly October 2019 and I miss her so much. I feel bad for this girl, she sadly didn't get to have a wonderful Mom like I was blessed with.
My aunt got pregnant at 15 and gave birth to my cousin at 16. She is now a doctor and head of the covid unit at her hospital, living very comfortably and happily. She came from a family of dead beats and druggies aside from my grandmother, she was told by everyone else that she would never amount to anything. She once even received a letter from her highschool principal telling her how much she wasted her life by getting pregnant. Her moms support was genuinely one of the only things that kept her going
I wish it was like that for everyone
PERIIIIOD I would jump that principle
@@slenderman-tz6tm he’s right tho she’s just one of the blessed ones
Congrats to your aunt
Your aunt is the exception. Most people live destitute lives for a while because of a teen pregnancy
The guy's family seems so warm and welcoming wow
So basically, her mum is upset that she lost her maid. She's incredibly lucky to have a boyfriend like she does and his family are beautiful. The fact she doesn't feel comfortable around her mother, says a lot about her upbringing.
Her son is next to go with that kind of attitude.
It's all about her
Keep in mind, we are only seeing a fraction of what’s going on and what the tv network is portraying.
Yup! I came to the comments to say just this. I got pregnant at 21, and my mom had the same reaction because she knew it wasn’t going to be all about her anymore. Thankfully she’s come around.
lol
I am in shock how cruel the mother is. For being such a strong Catholic… Maybe she should open her Bible and read about forgiveness and read about how God is love.! Children are a BLESSING. NOT The ultimate sin we can commit. May God change her heart and restore their relationship
I'm annoyed by the hags that are siding with the Mom
Strong Catholic but wanted an abortion for her daughter?
AMEN AMEN AMEN!!! 🌹
Rite. For so called catholic she needs to open her heart, mind, and eyes
Agreed!
Anyone else feel like that after the baby's born Myrkas mom is going to suddenly want to see the baby?
this honestly made me sad, the fact ur daughter took care of ur son for almost her whole childhood but you won’t be there for ur granddaughter? nor ur daughter?
Well the Daughter did work and payed the bill too right?
Its not easy to be a single mother with kids and ofc the mom needed to work to pay bill and have food on the table and buy them things.
@@hentai142 then her ass should’ve paid for daycare a child should NOT raise a child.
Exactly!!!!! That doesn’t make sense like girl she went beyond just being a sibling. She was basically a second mom to her brother and she took care of him but she can’t do even the smallest thing for her daughter. All she did was kick her out? That woman’s mentality is just crazy🤦🏽♀️
@@isabels33 The mother did not kick her daughter out the daughter kicked herself out cause she thought her mom was gonna be crying for her back but no things don’t work like that
@@jeonggukculture9237 nah her mom kicked her out and said that she kicked herself out by getting pregnant
The mom doesn’t believe in birth control , iud , pills , nexplanon but, does believe In abortions - . 🤦♀️
Yeah seems weird especially if she is catholic because I would think abortion is a big no no for them.
That’s how most Catholics are. The Catholic Church is against all forms of birth control. BUT If a situation comes up where an abortion is needed, or required most Catholics turn a blind eye to it.
An abortion is not a form of bc
ABORTION is not birth control!!!!
@@s.w.d4010 i didn't know that wow seems really odd doesn't it.
I understand the mother. The mother had to work really hard to teach her daughter, prepare her daughter, but the one thing she taught her and what not to do, both her and the baby daddy did. Now the daughter needs to learn the outcome.
Agreed, it was something that could've been avoided easily
@evvvz8486 yes it's something that is easily avoided but she still shouldn't have kicked her out! Imagine what would have happened if Ethans parents wouldn't or couldn't take her in? She'd be 16, pregnant and homeless! That's a very scary possibility and her mum never stopped to think about that! What if because of her actions Myrka was (heaven forbid) sexually assaulted or beat up or even murdered? Would Myrka still be the one at fault? Or would her mum step up and take the blame? Coz I'm guessing she wouldn't!
I will always be here for my kids. No matter what!
"I believe you need to let them suffer so they can learn" this woman is just vile. Instead of ending such a toxic cycle, she decided to carry it out. I hope he daughter breaks this
Breaks this what? I am not telling mrkra what you should have done, (cause pass is the pass) but theres other options.
@@mocha8322 breaks the toxic cycle. Her mom is the way she is cause of her parents. Shes fucked up! All she cares about is herself.
The fact that she can say these things on TV. She must be way worse in person
@@mocha8322 forcing your trauma on your children is abusive as fuck
@@KiDDSOMfRADD10 "she only cares about herself" yet worked her ass off as a single mother for them to have a home, clothes and food.
I cried when Myrka said that even though she hasn’t even met or held her baby she already has a strong bond to it and can’t understand how any mother could’ve abandoned their child
She's going to have to be stronger when the dad comes out. My gaydar is never wrong
@@Gaetano.94 uh oh 😰
@@Gaetano.94 I got the same vibe…
@@Gaetano.94 fun fact: gay people can still be good parents. My SIL came out when my nephew was 2. My SIL and her ex-husband are amazing at coparenting and my nephew knows nothing but love.
@@XC21ALiSoN I didn't say that they wouldn't be good parents. I hope I am one day
Damn judging by the comments I must be the only one that understands the mother's logic and point of view. I don't disagree with her and I don't think her putting her daughter out is an indication that she doesn't love her.
It so tho. She has no emotion towards her children.
I could’ve understood IF she let her daughter have birth control. She’s cool with abortion but not birth control?
@@jasmineartis5754 idt BC would've made a difference for her daughter. She wanted to get pregnant despite her mother telling her what would happen if she did. That's why I don't disagree with the mother.
@@itsnotmeitsyou717 I understand it’s just super harsh. If you were the mother would you have let your daughter have birth control? To prevent this?
@@jasmineartis5754 please re-read my last comment to you abt this birth control thing.
Honestly, the connection between her and the father is so cute. They're for sure best friends, i hope they can support each other through this hard part of their lives
HER BOYFRIEND IS SO KIND AND RESPECTFUL I HOPE EVERYTHING GOES WELL FOR BOTH OF THEM 🤍🤍🤍🤍
@@beigeturtleneck7511, huh?
@StephanieDotDot umm tf that make no sense they both agree to do it I…..
Beige Turtleneck LMFAOO IKR
@StephanieDotDot girl i don’t think you know how pregnancy works
@StephanieDotDot well if she actually didn't want it then she wouldn't have gotten pregnant. There's no point of him being respectful or disrespectful.
So the brother didnt do the dishes on time so he doesn't get to eat? And this is the next day and hes still not eaten? This mom is such a narcissist and this is abuse. His parents love and treat her better than her own!
I don't understand how people think her "tough love" is ok. This isn't tough love... this is ABUSE! She's mad because she's losing control & like you said she's a narcissist.
I see your point but I also see that he is old enough to cook at least an egg or get cereal by himself and I can see why the mom is mad with her... she told her daughter to be careful and she admitted to only using protection the first time the had sex. I sure hope the mom stops being that nasty...but I am not surprised or shocked at her attitude.
@@cjrg2779 yeah he should be able to make himself food but i think she wouldnt let him eat. Im assuming that means anything. Thats not cool.
@@cjrg2779 everyone seems to forget that part. they only used protection the FIRST time. that is irresponsible and both the daughter and her boyfriend should have known better. my mom would have done the same if that was how the cookie crumbled.
The mother is right
If my kid got pregnant at 15, I’d be pissed too
But I doubt you’d kick your daughter to the curb like a bag of trash.
I honestly would do the same thing. Her mom has a life too and probably wanted to be done raising children. She probably doesn’t want to restart. She’s not a terrible person. Why don’t we call her daughter selfish for only worrying about falling head over heels , laughing and giggling about a serious situation, and getting pregnant and bringing another mouth to feed when she KNOWS that they’re already broke.
PLUS her mom has ALREADY told her that if she got pregnant, she wouldn’t want to deal with the child. The fact she would know this and then do it ANYWAY is her fault. WHY does everyone feel so bad for this person??? Actions has consequences.
I don’t like the mother, she seems cold. Not everyone is meant to be a mother
KIMCHI DOLL, but she warned Myrka ahead of time on what will happen if she got pregnant. Hey, I'm not taking sides. I'm simply just saying what I heard in the video.
Not everyone is meant to be a mother but the whole world pressures women to have children no matter what
That’s just how Hispanic mothers are they come off cold hearted and selfish but it’s called TOUGH LOVE
Liana Soares why are u saying this everywhere
I don’t think she’s cold at all. She clearly LOVES her daughter and has standards for her daughter, like all parents do.
Myrka, I just want you to know that you deserve the best. We all make choices that we’re not the proudest of. It’s no excuse for your mother to act the way she does. The good thing is you have others who love and support you. You’re a strong woman, you’ll be just fine!
As sad as it might be, her getting kicked out is pretty…realistic.
in a lot of these the boyfriends don’t actually love or care about their girlfriends once they were pregnant but he genuinely does, i feel like he will always support her with their child and it’s nice to see.
Yeah I saw that too like the way he describes her was so loving. Kinda refreshing
Yeah now he’s not even in the baby’s life
He has a good example in his father. I completely agree with your comment girl. 👍
“In my culture, we didn’t love” is basically what she’s saying.
It's a real thing, but it's so good to see the guy's parents have a totally different response. They learned from their environment and Myrkas mom is just perpetuating it.
That's how my hispanic parents were
Unfortunately that's how it is a lot of the time
Just because that’s usually how it is, doesn’t mean it’s right or that it should continue. Remember that.
There's a difference between being more strict and less physically affectionate as a parent versus being abusive like this mother
I have a cousin that had a very similar upbringing as Myrka and also got pregnant really young. My aunt was mad as cussed her out at first but then she supported her. She even had her and her bf move in with her. She’s such a loving mother and grandmother. Just because you struggled doesn’t mean you should put your kids through it as well. The mom seems so vindictive. My parents had a similar childhood. All work and no play/cuddles but my parents instead of passing that down to us they did their best so we didn’t suffer like them
I can imagine how disappointed her mom was when she found out her daughter was getting pregnant at the age of 16.
I mean she worked hard for the family she did everything to fulfill her kids’s need
Myrka and Ethan are just a splitting image of Ethan's parents 😳
And not in a good way
@@moho873 oh stfu stop being rude
@@livelife3719 honesty isn't being rude, but taking time out to @ someone and tell to "stfu" is 😂🤣
@@moho873 why be rude “
Not in a good way “ stfu
@@livelife3719 🤣😂 ok kiddo
Obviously, they were just being extra studious with their biology assignments.
They passed the pregnancy test too
😂😂
😂😂
@@coconuthead8616 - Well, yeah. They studied extra hard.
🤣🤣
She has a stone heart.The baby is her grandkid not somebody else's kid as she said.I think she found a lovely family who will love her.❤
Her mom is 38??? She looks SO OLD she looks wayyy older than 38 I’m shocked
Ethan's parents is like a look-a-like couple of them in the future.
I know holy shit she looks like their child haha
For real when his dad and mom were on screen I had looked away at first and was so confused why Ethan was talking about himself in the third person lol
Poor girl seems so heartbroken, I'm glad she has a good family with her boyfriend
@@abigailarmstrong6280 omg noo :,(
@@Chillikilli lol 💀 now you know why her mom is pissed 🤣 just another single teen mom
That's absolutely right, she kick herself out of the house. She's a great mom, some rough edges, but she stuck to the rules. If you don't stand for something, you'll fall for everything.
You can clearly see Ethan's parents are loving people.
I grew up in a strict Mexican, Catholic household like hers. But my parents never treated us or spoke to us the way she does to her kids. My sister and I are in our 20s now but when we were teens, our parents said that while they would be disappointed if we got pregnant, they would be supportive and always love us unconditionally. And I’m actually shocked that she would have preferred she got an abortion. No que muy santita? Damn.
Exactly! She's a faithful Catholic but suggests an abortion for her underage daughter? Like, what???
An abortion is literally like a huge no no in the catholic faith. No que muy catolica es? Ya porque vas a la misa ya cree que eres una Santa! Thank Goodness she did not have the abortion. Cannot believe a mother not even a person like this!
I am not a very religious person but I was like 'wtf' when they mentioned that she would have preferred her daughter to get an abortion. Like??
First of all, religion aside, you shouldn't force anyone, let alone your DAUGHTER, to get an abortion 😐 It can scar someone mentally FOR LIFE. But especially since she is catholic, isn't that against her religion??
She's using that as an excuse for herself, not for us.
She doesn't want to admit to herself that she's a shit parent.
Literally, my parents would be so disappointed, but they would never kick me out, atleast my mom HAHA, if my dad kicked me out, she would move out to I bet HA
She really said “ I will not raise a child that is not mine” yet her daughter was raising her brother🙄
She didn't exactly raise her brother. Let's start there. You're cooking a bit and cleaning, is not raising a child. Plus her mom was not out there partying in bars, she was working to put food on the table. Could a 9 year old child do that? No.
@@mirikira8632 i agree! the mom was working and trying to support her family. if she could barely afford food on the table what makes people think she could afford a babysitter? I do think she could be more supportive to her daughter tho :(
@@mirikira8632 but you shouldn’t do it at the age of 9. Before anything else, the kid is hers. If it was an only child she would find her way through it but just because she has another kid at home doesn’t make it ok to throw these responsibilities to her
@@mirikira8632 A 9-year-old shouldn't be cooking and looking after another child. At nine, you're a child yourself. Stop defending this mom.
@@miaa1762 at 9 you are old enough to be a good kid, to do basic things like an omelet and do basic cleaning. Every kid in my generation did it. I don't know of one friend of mine who didn't do this. It taught us responsibility and structure. If my mom worked 2-3 jobs, I wouldn't be that ungrateful as to wait for her with a messy home. I made my bed every single day until I stayed in that house. Don't think that Myrka was required to do some sophisticated cooking. She chopped some salad, fried some eggs. She was required to do the dishes, which I have done since I was 6. She was required to take out the trash, not that difficult either. She learned things that will help her in life, so she should stop complaining. She is not a damn victim here.
I hate that they making her feel bad for being pregnant! And watch soon as the baby is born the grandmas are going to be wanting the baby all the time
The dad looks so nice and supportive, most men aren’t like that when there girl gets pregnant. I’m glad there’s a responsible man like that in the world, and I’m glad she has him. I wish a lot of joy and happiness for them☺️☺️ She looks like she’s capable for so much in life, I can tell she has a bright future.
I hate that she is pregnant so young, but Ethan and her are just so adorable together. I'm so glad these two have Ethan's parents. Ethan's family is wonderful! Myrka's mother is brutal, heartless and negligent! It is sad!
They are no longer together from what I’ve read.
@@bst9148 That’s the problem with teens getting pregnant, they think it’s real love, that they’ll marry and be for each other till the day they die, but reality hits quick and once you become an adult that reality can change everything
I didn’t even know they were that young
Ethan’s mum kicked them out . According to Myrka , Ethan isn’t involved in his daughters life and Myrka moved back into her mum’s house with her daughter
@@njay4399 you said the same problem with most adults today.
The worst thing that has ever happened to HER? All this mother thinks about is herself. I feel so sad for Myrka.
Yup seems narcissistic
Omg so she can’t have feelings?
@@sgiiprizz7510 not those feelings. This woman is straight abusive.
This is how I grew up we were not allowed to show emotion or give my mother a hug we got disciplined for it I feel so bad for her
Finding out your daughter is pregnant at such a young age is one of the worst feelings. It completely delays everything for them that they could’ve accomplished.
These comments are disappointing...Myrka made the decision to engage in such activity at such a young age, and even worse, ended up in a position that her mother warned her about. Her mother made it clear to her what the consequence would be, yet she still went ahead and did her own thing. It definitely is sad and unfortunate that her mother doesn't want to be apart of the picture, but once again, she did that to herself.
“Dude, you’re making me sound, like, easy or something.”
- Teenager who put out after knowing the guy for 1 week
I’m crying. All I wanna do is hug that poor girl.
“You kicked yourself out of the house.” Sweet Jesus. She’s not ugly: she’s heartless and abusive.
She's right. She did it to herself.
@@user-xe1nr6er5q yeah she did have a point but doesn’t mean she has to be heartless and a abusive like nat said.
@@user-xe1nr6er5q I agree
@@user-xe1nr6er5q at the core of the concept of what her mom said, mom kicked her daughter out
@@user-xe1nr6er5q you realize it’s illegal to kick your under age child out? Her mom did it to her and should have served time 💀. It was absolutely heartless.
Myrka’s mom is a hypocrite. “I will not raise a child that is not mine” yet her daughter has been pretty much raising her siblings... and how can you be devout Catholic and FOR terminating her pregnancy.
right?
She won’t raise a child either way is what she means
My mom is the same way. She always said she kicked me out at 15 for being pregnant because she didn’t want one more child to raise when she wasn’t even raising the children she had, I WAS! Now my older sister has my little brother and sister, I have my child, and my mom has none of us because of her cruel and selfish ways.
My mom was upset when she found out I was pregnant. She didn’t speak to me for weeks. I will never forget her words when I told her: “Thank you for ruining what should have been a beautiful moment.” But once she saw my ultrasound, she fell in love as gave the baby and me her full love and support. I am still thankful to her to this day. I couldn’t have done it without her. What’s done is done. She needs to be there for her child and grandchild. She wasn’t (and isn’t a good mother), but she has a chance to be a good abuelita and she should embrace that.
@@PerpetuallyTori how old were you? That determines the potential of “beauty” in that moment. If you were under 21 and unmarried I’d say your reasonable expectations for maternal excitement in that moment were capped at “mixed bag” at best 😂
I hate the reaction of feeling like the world is ending because your pregnant. I was a teenager as well and it wasn't easy. But I over came it and being a mother is one of my biggest blessings. It's ok to feel some type of way about wanting the best for your kids. But it's not the end of the world you can still make a life for yourself. When I see this beautiful young girl I see myself when I was her age and now I'm happily married with a house a career and 4 children. My story didn't end because I made a adult decision I grew and I learned from it. Showing love and support is a must. Praying for healing on both sides.