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Believing zodiac is "shirk", you can't believe stars determine fate, Allah SWT the only God, determines all luck and bad luck. All celestial bodies are just unliving objects, rotating and doesn't care about you. God created the laws of universe. Why whole universe spin just to make you sleep at night? the dense earth knows no sleepy human, sleepy human does not make the earth turn the sun into night. all because God created human. Praise be to Allah the lord of this world. Allah SWT is not willing with any shirk. Shirk is cautious. Many kind and small. If you die in a state of shirk, you will be in hell forever. 'Shirk' not a sin, shirk is a way of associating partners (not figuring God the most one god) the only God, to be worshiped, hoped for, fate, worship, prayer, and reasons for deeds (rewards - sins). Then the claim of creator of the world, as the nature of the most almighty, and the nature of the most praiseworthy. Then those reasons make a kind of shirk. Like drawing animate creatures (rivalling God in creating living creation), may we be safe from all polytheism/shirk, then repent from sins (some sins are bleached in hell first) but after giving creed, converting to Islam, it is important to worship God, fulfill the (iman)believing pillars, and islam pillars. May our life not be missed, may our life fulfill it all. We hopefull we dont end up in the hereafter with not enough. Trying to find, study, do good deeds for a safe afterlife. May we always ask Him for guidance, take refuge in Him from going astray, and ask Him for forgiveness from all our mistakes. Hadith: [Prophet Muhammad said: "Whoever bears witness that there is no god but Allah, alone with no partner, and that Muhammad is His slave and Messenger, that 'Isa is the slave and Messenger of Allah, and His word which He communicated to Maryam, and a spirit from Him; and that Paradise is true and Hell is true, Allah will certainly admit him into Paradise, regardless of the deeds which he has done." Sahih/Authentic. - [Al-Bukhari and Muslim] ______________________________ Islamic Prohibition in Drawing Cartoon Animation (Living Being) So, all of you Muslims must know about this Prohibition, (or maybe some don't know yet...?) OK, here's the hadith. •"from [Ibn Abbas] he said, 'Rasulullah shallallahu 'alaihi wasallam said: "Whoever makes a picture, then on the Day of Judgment he will be tortured until he breathes a soul into the picture, even though he will not be able to." (HR Nasai no. 5624)" bro, don't you guys read carefully "He will be tortured until he breathes a soul into the image, even though he will not be able to." this means doom forever, eternal in hell forever. Drawing animate creatures is also one of the branches of shirk (associating partners with Allah) in terms of competing Allah in creating creatures. and very often we hear that Allah DOESN'T FORGIVE the sin of shirk (meaning that at the reckoning it is not forgiven, but in the world it is forgiven if you repent) No matter how much they argue about the meaning of this ban, going back and forth about takwil here and there, or this ustad's opinion... But actually the hadith is very clear, right? this is not just about statue, and not only for worship (meaning those who are afraid the image being worshiped) based on this audition of hadith "I heard the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wasallam say: "Allah 'azza wajalla said; Who is more unjust than the one who "creates like My creation" means "Create as I create" and God's prohibition to make pictures by threatening to blow the spirit not because of the image, worshiped besides Him but because those people compete Allah in create being so that it is challenged to breathe in the spirit Don't narrow your life with excuses, "I don't have any hobbies other than drawing" "I'm already talented here" "already have a lot of followers" GOD'S EARTH IS WIDE, Insya Allah, if you leave something because of Allah, Allah will replace it with something better. "Isn't Allah's earth wide, so you can emigrate on that earth?" (annisa: 97) "And whoever migrated (hijrah) of Allah, surely they will get this earth migration wide and (provision) a lot." (annisa: 100) "Indeed, if you leave something because of Allah, surely Allah will give you something better" (hr.ahmad) ___________________________ The Ruling of Drawing Pictures or Cartoons The original ruling for this problem can be found in a hadith of the Prophet PBUH: مَنْ صَوَّرَ صُورَةً فَإِنَّ اللهَ مُعَذِّبُهُ حَتَّى يَنْفُخَ فِيهَا الرُّوحَ وَلَيْسَ بِنَافِحَ فِيهَا أَبَدًا "Whoever makes pictures, will be punished by Allah till he puts life in it, and he will never be able to put life in it." Sahih al-Bukhari (2225) In another narration, it states: كُلُّ مُصَوِّرِ فِى النَّا يَجْعَلُ لَهُ بِكُلِّ صُورَةٍ صَوَّرَهَا نَفْسًا فَتُعَذِّبُهُ فِي جَهَنَّمَ "All the painters who make pictures would be in the fire of Hell. The soul will be breathed in every picture prepared by him and it shall punish him in the Hell," Sahih Muslim (3945) and Imam Ahmad in his Musnad Right after that, Ibnu Abbas said: إِنْ كُنْتَ لا بُدَّ فَاعِلًا فَاصْنَعْ الشَّجَرَ وَمَا لَا نَفْسَ لَهُ "If you have to do it at all, then paint the pictures of trees and lifeless things;" Drawing creatures is the most heavy 'shirk', "Allah said, 'Who are most unjust than those who try to create something like My creation?" (Sahih al-Bukhari 7559) That is mean drawing is "shirk" to rival God in creating creation (living creature) Shirk in islam means ascribing a partner/ rival to Allah in lordship. Al-'Aini said: "Drawing any living creature (carving of idols) is prohibited, for it is worshipped in the times of the Jahiliyyah. It is prohibited even if it has no shadow or do not consist of matter (referring to drawings and paintings), to close the doors of misdeeds." Refer 'Umdah al-Qari Syarh Sahih al-Bukhari (18/162) All these prohibitions are in the form of Sad al-Zari'ah (closing the doors of misdeeds) in fear that it could be an object of worship and harming our belief. Whoever died in shirk will be in hell forever “indeed, Allah does not forgive the sin of syirk, and he forgives the sin other than that for whom he wills” (annisa 48)
Believing zodiac is "shirk", you can't believe stars determine fate, Allah SWT the only God, determines all luck and bad luck. All celestial bodies are just unliving objects, rotating and doesn't care about you. God created the laws of universe. Why whole universe spin just to make you sleep at night? the dense earth knows no sleepy human, sleepy human does not make the earth turn the sun into night. all because God created human. Praise be to Allah the lord of this world. Allah SWT is not willing with any shirk. Shirk is cautious. Many kind and small. If you die in a state of shirk, you will be in hell forever. 'Shirk' not a sin, shirk is a way of associating partners (not figuring God the most one god) the only God, to be worshiped, hoped for, fate, worship, prayer, and reasons for deeds (rewards - sins). Then the claim of creator of the world, as the nature of the most almighty, and the nature of the most praiseworthy. Then those reasons make a kind of shirk. Like drawing animate creatures (rivalling God in creating living creation), may we be safe from all polytheism/shirk, then repent from sins (some sins are bleached in hell first) but after giving creed, converting to Islam, it is important to worship God, fulfill the (iman)believing pillars, and islam pillars. May our life not be missed, may our life fulfill it all. We hopefull we dont end up in the hereafter with not enough. Trying to find, study, do good deeds for a safe afterlife. May we always ask Him for guidance, take refuge in Him from going astray, and ask Him for forgiveness from all our mistakes. Hadith: [Prophet Muhammad said: "Whoever bears witness that there is no god but Allah, alone with no partner, and that Muhammad is His slave and Messenger, that 'Isa is the slave and Messenger of Allah, and His word which He communicated to Maryam, and a spirit from Him; and that Paradise is true and Hell is true, Allah will certainly admit him into Paradise, regardless of the deeds which he has done." Sahih/Authentic. - [Al-Bukhari and Muslim] ______________________________ Islamic Prohibition in Drawing Cartoon Animation (Living Being) So, all of you Muslims must know about this Prohibition, (or maybe some don't know yet...?) OK, here's the hadith. •"from [Ibn Abbas] he said, 'Rasulullah shallallahu 'alaihi wasallam said: "Whoever makes a picture, then on the Day of Judgment he will be tortured until he breathes a soul into the picture, even though he will not be able to." (HR Nasai no. 5624)" bro, don't you guys read carefully "He will be tortured until he breathes a soul into the image, even though he will not be able to." this means doom forever, eternal in hell forever. Drawing animate creatures is also one of the branches of shirk (associating partners with Allah) in terms of competing Allah in creating creatures. and very often we hear that Allah DOESN'T FORGIVE the sin of shirk (meaning that at the reckoning it is not forgiven, but in the world it is forgiven if you repent) No matter how much they argue about the meaning of this ban, going back and forth about takwil here and there, or this ustad's opinion... But actually the hadith is very clear, right? this is not just about statue, and not only for worship (meaning those who are afraid the image being worshiped) based on this audition of hadith "I heard the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wasallam say: "Allah 'azza wajalla said; Who is more unjust than the one who "creates like My creation" means "Create as I create" and God's prohibition to make pictures by threatening to blow the spirit not because of the image, worshiped besides Him but because those people compete Allah in create being so that it is challenged to breathe in the spirit Don't narrow your life with excuses, "I don't have any hobbies other than drawing" "I'm already talented here" "already have a lot of followers" GOD'S EARTH IS WIDE, Insya Allah, if you leave something because of Allah, Allah will replace it with something better. "Isn't Allah's earth wide, so you can emigrate on that earth?" (annisa: 97) "And whoever migrated (hijrah) of Allah, surely they will get this earth migration wide and (provision) a lot." (annisa: 100) "Indeed, if you leave something because of Allah, surely Allah will give you something better" (hr.ahmad) ___________________________ The Ruling of Drawing Pictures or Cartoons The original ruling for this problem can be found in a hadith of the Prophet PBUH: مَنْ صَوَّرَ صُورَةً فَإِنَّ اللهَ مُعَذِّبُهُ حَتَّى يَنْفُخَ فِيهَا الرُّوحَ وَلَيْسَ بِنَافِحَ فِيهَا أَبَدًا "Whoever makes pictures, will be punished by Allah till he puts life in it, and he will never be able to put life in it." Sahih al-Bukhari (2225) In another narration, it states: كُلُّ مُصَوِّرِ فِى النَّا يَجْعَلُ لَهُ بِكُلِّ صُورَةٍ صَوَّرَهَا نَفْسًا فَتُعَذِّبُهُ فِي جَهَنَّمَ "All the painters who make pictures would be in the fire of Hell. The soul will be breathed in every picture prepared by him and it shall punish him in the Hell," Sahih Muslim (3945) and Imam Ahmad in his Musnad Right after that, Ibnu Abbas said: إِنْ كُنْتَ لا بُدَّ فَاعِلًا فَاصْنَعْ الشَّجَرَ وَمَا لَا نَفْسَ لَهُ "If you have to do it at all, then paint the pictures of trees and lifeless things;" Drawing creatures is the most heavy 'shirk', "Allah said, 'Who are most unjust than those who try to create something like My creation?" (Sahih al-Bukhari 7559) That is mean drawing is "shirk" to rival God in creating creation (living creature) Shirk in islam means ascribing a partner/ rival to Allah in lordship. Al-'Aini said: "Drawing any living creature (carving of idols) is prohibited, for it is worshipped in the times of the Jahiliyyah. It is prohibited even if it has no shadow or do not consist of matter (referring to drawings and paintings), to close the doors of misdeeds." Refer 'Umdah al-Qari Syarh Sahih al-Bukhari (18/162) All these prohibitions are in the form of Sad al-Zari'ah (closing the doors of misdeeds) in fear that it could be an object of worship and harming our belief. Whoever died in shirk will be in hell forever “indeed, Allah does not forgive the sin of syirk, and he forgives the sin other than that for whom he wills” (annisa 48)
@@stevengoodman1814Believing zodiac is "shirk", you can't believe stars determine fate, Allah SWT the only God, determines all luck and bad luck. All celestial bodies are just unliving objects, rotating and doesn't care about you. God created the laws of universe. Why whole universe spin just to make you sleep at night? the dense earth knows no sleepy human, sleepy human does not make the earth turn the sun into night. all because God created human. Praise be to Allah the lord of this world. Allah SWT is not willing with any shirk. Shirk is cautious. Many kind and small. If you die in a state of shirk, you will be in hell forever. 'Shirk' not a sin, shirk is a way of associating partners (not figuring God the most one god) the only God, to be worshiped, hoped for, fate, worship, prayer, and reasons for deeds (rewards - sins). Then the claim of creator of the world, as the nature of the most almighty, and the nature of the most praiseworthy. Then those reasons make a kind of shirk. Like drawing animate creatures (rivalling God in creating living creation), may we be safe from all polytheism/shirk, then repent from sins (some sins are bleached in hell first) but after giving creed, converting to Islam, it is important to worship God, fulfill the (iman)believing pillars, and islam pillars. May our life not be missed, may our life fulfill it all. We hopefull we dont end up in the hereafter with not enough. Trying to find, study, do good deeds for a safe afterlife. May we always ask Him for guidance, take refuge in Him from going astray, and ask Him for forgiveness from all our mistakes. Hadith: [Prophet Muhammad said: "Whoever bears witness that there is no god but Allah, alone with no partner, and that Muhammad is His slave and Messenger, that 'Isa is the slave and Messenger of Allah, and His word which He communicated to Maryam, and a spirit from Him; and that Paradise is true and Hell is true, Allah will certainly admit him into Paradise, regardless of the deeds which he has done." Sahih/Authentic. - [Al-Bukhari and Muslim] ______________________________ Islamic Prohibition in Drawing Cartoon Animation (Living Being) So, all of you Muslims must know about this Prohibition, (or maybe some don't know yet...?) OK, here's the hadith. •"from [Ibn Abbas] he said, 'Rasulullah shallallahu 'alaihi wasallam said: "Whoever makes a picture, then on the Day of Judgment he will be tortured until he breathes a soul into the picture, even though he will not be able to." (HR Nasai no. 5624)" bro, don't you guys read carefully "He will be tortured until he breathes a soul into the image, even though he will not be able to." this means doom forever, eternal in hell forever. Drawing animate creatures is also one of the branches of shirk (associating partners with Allah) in terms of competing Allah in creating creatures. and very often we hear that Allah DOESN'T FORGIVE the sin of shirk (meaning that at the reckoning it is not forgiven, but in the world it is forgiven if you repent) No matter how much they argue about the meaning of this ban, going back and forth about takwil here and there, or this ustad's opinion... But actually the hadith is very clear, right? this is not just about statue, and not only for worship (meaning those who are afraid the image being worshiped) based on this audition of hadith "I heard the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wasallam say: "Allah 'azza wajalla said; Who is more unjust than the one who "creates like My creation" means "Create as I create" and God's prohibition to make pictures by threatening to blow the spirit not because of the image, worshiped besides Him but because those people compete Allah in create being so that it is challenged to breathe in the spirit Don't narrow your life with excuses, "I don't have any hobbies other than drawing" "I'm already talented here" "already have a lot of followers" GOD'S EARTH IS WIDE, Insya Allah, if you leave something because of Allah, Allah will replace it with something better. "Isn't Allah's earth wide, so you can emigrate on that earth?" (annisa: 97) "And whoever migrated (hijrah) of Allah, surely they will get this earth migration wide and (provision) a lot." (annisa: 100) "Indeed, if you leave something because of Allah, surely Allah will give you something better" (hr.ahmad) ___________________________ The Ruling of Drawing Pictures or Cartoons The original ruling for this problem can be found in a hadith of the Prophet PBUH: مَنْ صَوَّرَ صُورَةً فَإِنَّ اللهَ مُعَذِّبُهُ حَتَّى يَنْفُخَ فِيهَا الرُّوحَ وَلَيْسَ بِنَافِحَ فِيهَا أَبَدًا "Whoever makes pictures, will be punished by Allah till he puts life in it, and he will never be able to put life in it." Sahih al-Bukhari (2225) In another narration, it states: كُلُّ مُصَوِّرِ فِى النَّا يَجْعَلُ لَهُ بِكُلِّ صُورَةٍ صَوَّرَهَا نَفْسًا فَتُعَذِّبُهُ فِي جَهَنَّمَ "All the painters who make pictures would be in the fire of Hell. The soul will be breathed in every picture prepared by him and it shall punish him in the Hell," Sahih Muslim (3945) and Imam Ahmad in his Musnad Right after that, Ibnu Abbas said: إِنْ كُنْتَ لا بُدَّ فَاعِلًا فَاصْنَعْ الشَّجَرَ وَمَا لَا نَفْسَ لَهُ "If you have to do it at all, then paint the pictures of trees and lifeless things;" Drawing creatures is the most heavy 'shirk', "Allah said, 'Who are most unjust than those who try to create something like My creation?" (Sahih al-Bukhari 7559) That is mean drawing is "shirk" to rival God in creating creation (living creature) Shirk in islam means ascribing a partner/ rival to Allah in lordship. Al-'Aini said: "Drawing any living creature (carving of idols) is prohibited, for it is worshipped in the times of the Jahiliyyah. It is prohibited even if it has no shadow or do not consist of matter (referring to drawings and paintings), to close the doors of misdeeds." Refer 'Umdah al-Qari Syarh Sahih al-Bukhari (18/162) All these prohibitions are in the form of Sad al-Zari'ah (closing the doors of misdeeds) in fear that it could be an object of worship and harming our belief. Whoever died in shirk will be in hell forever “indeed, Allah does not forgive the sin of syirk, and he forgives the sin other than that for whom he wills” (annisa 48)
I love that her mother allows her to "mother" her son and not take over. That is so important because her daughter has a proper nurturing attachment to her son. Love conquers all.
@@ifykyk679 the baby is already here what do you want her to do? I can’t support the idea of a teen getting pregnant but if the baby is already here I can’t jump all over the mums chest about it… it already happened I just have to support
I know I was like look at those juicy little cheeks and luscious baby hair! You know, I’d never want my boys or girls to have children at that age. However, if that did happen I would NEVER abandon my babies. My mom was around her same age when she had me. And not to toot my own horn but I believe I turned out pretty good and was born with purpose just like him. I think that by my mom being a young troubled teen with little to no genuine support, she didn’t really have time to really invest in me. So I had some hardships like sexual assault, bullied, abandonment issues ect. But now I use that as the staple in my testimony and help others heal from their traumas! I’m sure that her story will help another young mothers out there. Maybe a new mom won’t be so afraid to tell their parents and be brave like she was. God bless this lovely family!
@@gabbycraft7035sure do and some award them to the state. A guy I use to know was given away. His mom said that she did it to save her other babies as she didn’t want him influencing the others. Bc he was unruly and disrespectful. She told me one apple was not about to spoil the bunch!
This girl is a better mother than a lot of mothers out there that have their babies at an 'accepted' age...she's really risen to the challenge, she's amazing.
Yes, laying down and letting a dude get off in you, getting pregnant and living with your parents is truly amazing… yep… Not to many WM out there would make it raising a child with 99% of the financial obligations removed. So amazing….
How much of it is a challenge when you do it to yourself? That’s called a consequence to your actions lol. She’s supposed to be a good mom that’s her job.
I applaud these parents for being there for their daughter and not allowing the opinions of others to influence their decision to be there for their daughter. This young lady has wonderful parents. She will remember for the rest of her life how good her parents were to her. She is fortunate. Not many teens have such good and loving parents. May God bless this family richly!
@@Harsh_Singh1111 that's a total lie doesn't matter if you have good or bad parents still make bad choices heck there are even kids who had great parents that went off to be murderers
When Destiny’s mom Leilani started to cry about not abandoning her daughter I felt that. I hate teen pregnancy but not the young moms who are trying to figure it out. I am glad that Destiny is trying to do better because her family seems lovely and trying to make her life better
@@JulieDeuxFois oh shut up! She can’t go back in time and change what happened things happen and don’t always go as planned shut up and stop being negative! Always in black people business go find you sum to do KAREN!
Applause for the parents. My mom and dad also did not abandon me when I needed them the most when I had an unexpected pregnancy at 22.. I just graduated from collge and no income yet. They provided for everything until my husband (my boyfriend then whom i eventually married) landed his first job when our daughter was 1yr old. I sooo love my parents. Now fast forward to now---14yrs later, still together with my husband. I love my parents. 🥰🥰
@@falaknazmayeda5747 yeah. 22-year-old is fully adult. She was a college graduate. 22-year-olds can vote, drink alcohol etc. A 14-year-old can’t even drive, can’t work and may have not even started highschool yet. A 14-year-old is closer to an 8-year-old in terms of what they are allowed legally, basically a whole child themselves but with reproductive ability.
I'm not gonna promote being pregnant at 14 but now that you are a Mother I'm wishing for you a good life full of joy and accomplishments. Finish school and get your education. You will need that diploma. You can do it if you believe in yourself and a little help from your parents would be awesome. Take care and may God bless you and your family.
@@zaizainiyah6460 it wasn’t an negative comment she just doesn’t agree with getting pregnant at that age. She even wish her the best at the end and encouraging messages too please people read carefully
Ugh…such a beautiful family man. Ofc it’s not ideal and not the right thing for a 14 year old to get pregnant, but what’s done is done and I’m so happy that she has the support of her family to help her and to allow the baby to also have a beautiful safe life. Such a sweet fam
I was living with my dad when it happened. He told me if I kept it I wasn't staying in his house but if I didn't keep it he would never forgive me. My mom and stepdad stood up like this. He drove 3 hours in one way to pick me up. My mom didn't come because when I started high school she wanted to put me on birth control because mom was 17 with me in her stomach when she walked across the stage for her high school diploma. My dad was 19. He told her he did not want me on birth control. They fought over it. I had no clue they had even talked about this. When I told my mom about the pregnancy she asked to talk to my dad and that was when all hell broke loose. She told him "I told you so" I was 15. Had sex the first time and pregnant. Outsiders always have something to say. I got called all the stereotypical stuff. Almost raped by guys at school because they knew I was easy and "I wanted it" I could not have male friends in fear that they would try something if given the chance to despite me not being interested and only nice to them. The females didn't like me because they thought I was going to steal their boyfriend and adults thought I was a bad influence. Moving 3 hours away from TBD we grew apart. Everyone who knew me as the girl who only ever had 1 boyfriend and was a good person was gone. New life, New 1st impressions. The new school wouldn't accept me while I was pregnant. This was back in 1994. I went back after i had him. Times have changed some. I'm glad you didn't go through what I did. Stay safe and make good choices is what I tell my kids everyday.
It’s a bit disappointing but not “sad”. This was actually quite normal a some decades ago. Girls were married with children by the time they were 16 in some countries.
@@abeeromesele4331 yes you do you need all of those things to raise a kid in a stable household this LITTLE GIRL has a good support system financially,mentally,physically a lot of “older moms” don’t have that this girl is privileged what y’all need to stop doing is talking down on older mothers who can’t control the fact that they don’t have a support system that’s not their fault y’all keep screaming this CHILD Is a good mother but y’all not mentioning how much harder motherhood would be on her if she had to DO IT ON HER OWN….
I’m really glad that her parents didn’t just leave her and her baby on the streets, like some parents do. Part of being a parent is helping your children during the difficult, and scary, moments of their lives instead of throwing them away just to keep up appearances.
@BeatDaBlock you guys are lucky to have supportive parents... Meanwhile me who was been raised by strict parents, whenever i don't want to study they yell and yell😔they also don't let me drawing or do whatever I want.. They force me to become sci stud. Which is i hate the most and thanks to them i am stuck with science class! I really don't like to be in there but had to keep and force to be ok😔😫
To all the young girls out there please do not follow this example, having a kid is a serious situation not a game. They're human beings that we have the responsability to take care of. The way her parents reacted may not be the same yours will do so protect yourself during sex time.
@BeautyQueen2023X14 is when you enter HS… I remember being in middle school (11-13) and students were getting caught in the stairwells. Do you really think HS students aren’t doing the same?
@@doomdecepticon933 no I'm def not alright, but I'm alive, I have some health, and I'm hopeful, and eager to one day prayfully some time soon be alright
Yep. Now the financial responsibility is on her parents as his are not involved. She won't be capable or able to provide proper support until she has the education and job until she's in her mid twenties.
Let's not normalize CHILDREN getting pregnant at 13/14. She's lucky to be in the position of having loving parents, where I'm from, your life could literally ruined completely. Parents, do better, teach your children protected sex or to wait till maturity before sex.
I don’t think they want to normalize it, just show how important support is if a teen does become pregnant. Especially now, when so many girls are forced to give birth even if they don’t want to.
There is an age limit for giving birth because it's a traumatic event & a girls body isn't mature. I'm amazed there isn't more deaths with kids having kids
Her parents are such big supporters, they may have been disappointed in the unexpected pregnancy but they supported her all the way through and seem like such doting grandparents
I absolutely do not condone teenage pregnancy, but massive respect to this young girl. I’ve heard of so many bad mothers (of all ages, come to think of it) who’ve neglected and abused the children that they had never wanted in the first place… but she rose to the challenge and clearly cares deeply about her son from what is shown! I went to highschool with a bunch of girls who got pregnant in their teenage years and 9 times out of 10, it was their parents who ended up raising their children while they went out partying or whatever. Didn’t even make any effort to bond with their children in the slightest. At least this girl seemed to care a lot more, and because of that, the kid is loved. Which is important!
Ur none of those things please take care of urself raise ur baby please no more kids go back to school if ur not go 2 college and focuse on being the best u can be. Learn from ur mistakes
@@johnglow7845 I have a couple friends who were taught that during our early teens, yet they still had pregnancy scares from not using protection at times. Even though parents discuss safe sex with their children, they can still be hard headed and get caught up. Some just don’t always listen. 🤷🏾♀️
@@stophavingkidsoutofwedlock2981 Many parents do, or some don’t have the heart to and basically let them stay while being pissed. What sucks is that at 14 yrs old, they can’t even get a job unless it’s under table pay or a family member’s owned establishment.
I love how your parents were mature enough to realize that you needed support during such a challenging time and they stepped up and didn't allow their beliefs to get in the way of that. Know that you are very blessed cuz a lot of us didn't have that!
I was a teen mom also …a little older at 18 but it’s still the same amount of feelings that happened with myself & parents …but having that support really helps tremendously! Idk how other young moms do it without that …I give this girl credit she seems like she’s doing the very best she can …and can we all just stop and appreciate her sons cuteness! And those cheeks! 😍😍😍
I’m glad this young mother has strong family support. I’m grateful to see that she hasn’t taken her situation lightly and has no plans to have anymore kids until she’s grown. Sincere has a ton of strong, loving family behind him for whatever life holds in the future. He’ll be alright ❤️
I don't condone teenage pregnancy but I still congratulate her on how well she's going through being a teen mom. 14 is definitely too young but she's done quite well. And her parents too for supporting her instead of kicking her out. I knew someone who got pregnant at 15 and her parents kicked her out once they found out. Lucky enough she had her boyfriend's parents to take her in. They're still married to this day with three kids (she's 4 months with her third). Some teen pregnancies don't come out well while others, like her story, does.
As a victim of teenage pregnancy, my mom literally turned her back on me. Life was really rough and at 40 her lack of support still affects my life today. I sought my way through college and graduated at age 30. You have such wonderful parents and I just want to tell them thanks. I hope your story encourages other parents to support their daughters despite the circumstances.
I got pregnant at the age of 17. My mom was disappointed. I kept the baby. I graduated from high school. At the end of the day. She was supportive through it all. You have a good family 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@NARIT0 2.0 Well, I'm 37 years now. Back then, We wasn't thinking about it back then End up being a single mom. Now my Daughter she's 18 We are doing good
Sincere is such a blessing....my youngest daughter who was 14 at the time made that same mistake but I am momma bear so I protected my baby as well....here we are 22 years later with that bouncing baby boy she had and he is just the most....(PROUD NANNA!!) Thats when I truly learned God won't put more on you than you can bare...Good job momma bear I fought for mine the same way... baby girl I hope to see your graduation pics on your channel as well as what college you choose....God bless family❤🙏🏼
Kudos to her mother! Accepting responsibility and stepping up. Her baby having a baby doesn't mean her baby doesn't need help anymore. It doesn't mean her daughter is grown enough to face the world alone. I'm glad she didn't leave her alone
@@kaylanetanya very true! Very very true! Her story is more of a lesson than a flex though. Parents and young girls should learn from this. It's important to take proper care of our girl children till they are able to make important decisions on their own.
@@hiiii2069 this doesn't apply to all mothers. I've heard of different stories where the girl is thrown out of the house to fend for herself. Only good parents would step up. Unfortunately, not everyone in the world are good parents. There are thousands of cases. You can google and investigate more.
People need to stop normalizing this sh*tty behavior. Yes I feel bad for her but at the same time she had a choice to not have sex and control herself. Having sex at 14 isn't something to be bragging about, it's shameful. If she's that desperate, she could've at least used a condom. Smh🤦♀️ the parents r enablers too.
Sex at 14 with a boy you met 3 months earlier is super reckless…Good that she has supportive parents but the lack of fully understanding the difficulties ahead just make this all the more a terrible decision.
That sentence "my child is having a baby" makes me sad as it happens too often in our society... I am however happy that you and your little baby and your family are happy and I love how supportive your parents have been. I know that was a hard pill for them to swallow and so many other parent abandon their kids in situations like this so I'm happy your parents handles it well. thank you for sharing your story. that takes a lot of courage. and ty for being an amazing parent❤️ sending much love to you and your loved ones.
1; If No one hates the baby how come their are mean comments around saying nasty things about the child? 2; Just because someone had a child young doesn't mean they have thrown their future away.
I got pregnant at 14 also. I'm 42 now. My children grew to be beautiful functioning adults. I also had help from a few supportive adults. Press forward and keep your head up.
We was the same age . I’m 45 now. With 2 grand kids. My boys are grown now with a child of there own my 31 year old has no kids yet. My 25 has one & my 24 year old has one.
@@bangchansrubberducky8244 no fr. People need to stop normalizing this sh*tty behavior. Yes I feel bad for her but at the same time she had a choice to not have sex and control herself. Having sex at 14 isn't something to be bragging about, it's shameful. If she's that desperate, she could've at least used a condom. Smh🤦♀️ the parents r enablers too.
I’m so glad her parents reacted like that!!! I know plenty of girls who didn’t have their child based off of societal fears and no support !! I’m glad this story was told and she has an adorable son. Plus young grandparents are fun!!! I had them
It's fun when you have the money to take care of everyone people react negatively because unexpected pregnancies can be a absolute burden it's 18 years of spending thousands each day on some one who cannot take care of themselves. So yeah people freak out over it.
As the mom of a 14 year old I just got ice cold.😪 My worst fear is that my daughter will struggle to have or never have a bountiful youth full of adventures with friends, studying abroad, travelling to foreign countries, working on a cruise ship during a gap year, staying in a college dorm with only exams and skipped classes to worry about, partying and hitchhiking Europe because of a baby when She's still a baby. I can only pray that she will enjoy her childhood and youth and then someday once she's establish a career and her own way and finances, (without the hardship of being a child parent at the same time ) be with the man or woman of her dreams and start a family when she's emotionally and financially ready to do so. You can say what you want but children having children is always sad. I admire the parents because I would be gutted for everything my child will never get to experience or will have to experience low key because she has a baby to worry about. All the best.
@@xx-rr3ug she never said she doesn’t want her daughter to have a family! She just wants her to wait until she is financially secure before making that commitment
I've never understood why or how any mother would think it wise to kick their child out at a time like this. Yes it's hard but if you love your child you would never punish her in such an unloving way. A mistake was made that has a long-lasting impact but what we do with it is what matters most. I applaud her parents and this teenager girl for making the most of this situation 👏🏿
Don’t kick her out, just guide her and make her help out with bills since she’ll be running them up. Teach her responsibility hopefully birth control and abstinence till marriage if someone will marry her with a kid. She thinks the pregnancy is cute, you can tell she’s proud.
Me being 18 years old now even I know why some parents kick their kids out. It’s hard and nobody wants to care for an extra child why should they have to suffer the burden of your own mistake? Make that make sense? Yes, they should have sympathy, but they are not obligated.🤷🏽♀️
We shouldn't normalize being pregnant at such age coz its literally a tough job for someone who isn't matured herself. Its amazing that she handles it well but still there are lots of woman who lacks in handling and aren't aware of such situations so please don't see this as an example and do the same thing. Its your life do the best of it and take care of yourself❤
I love how they all understood the assignment and that’s a beautiful family working together and taking care of each other. I see a healthy and strong mother raising a healthy and happy child!❤
Aww she has the best mom ever! Super supportive parents. You could tell her mom had her kids young too. They all look like sisters. I’m so proud of the new mom and her son, even though you’re figuring it out, you raising your son with a happy family is so important. ♥️👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@@AneirinRPG Nearly every healthy 14 year old woman has the ability to get pregnant. There is nothing extraordinary about it. Extraordinarily irresponsible, perhaps, but not extraordinary in nature whatsoever.
As a person who doesn't have kids I would totally blame myself if my 14 year old child male or female was having a baby you have to monitor your kids and raise awareness give them hope let them know they have a choice help them develop critical thinking I always ask my 13 year old and 15-year-old niece is it smart to have children at this age it allows them to think don't just say don't have children allow them to question themselves I also tell them watch what a person do never listen to what they say cause us guys are known for love bombing women to get what we want peace and love everyone
My mom had me at 16. My grandma wanted my mom to give me up. She chose to keep me and always said she loved me from day one. My friends when I was a kid/teen was always surprised that my mom was so young. Though my mom was definitely my MOM and did a great job. You are a beautiful mother and your son is very lucky to have you as his mom ❤ wish you all the best! ❤️
Absolutely! Our brains aren't fully mature until 25, she's a child having a child. I really hope that she gets the support she needs for herself as well.
What else could they do? The child was there so they have to take care of the baby. They weren’t happy. They’re not gonna hate the baby 🤷🏻♀️ Something similar happened to my neighbour, a bit older but not married and young. She has a lovely little girl now. I think she still sees the father but not married yet! I hope they do.
At least they didn't bring out a poster condemning her, ridiculing her, or shaming her!!! Quite frankly, I wish I had such a supportive family. But no.
dont really care she got pregnant at 14 and the mom isn't helping by congratulating her she is a minor also where's the father? last point, we hate on a video because YOUR 14 AND PREGNANT!
"I glad that I had my baby because I wouldn't be the person that I am today." What does that even mean? You're 16. Your life wouldn't be much different. Please, girls. Value your childhood over these boys (who dip as soon as you get pregnant, and motherhood. You have your whole life to be a mother, and not just that but a partner, spouse, or wife if you choose. Children deserve fulfilled parents you how not just physically, emotionally and financially ready to support a child.
She’s 16, she’d probably be out partying like most teens do. She probably meant that having a baby so young forced her to be more mature and grow up (mentally and emotionally) bc she now has an entire human being to care for. But I agree that you should value you’re childhood.
Wow, wow, her parents exude strength and love, I would have lost it in their shoes. Most of the time, people focus on the child and forget the pains the parents go through, especially when they are good parents. Girl, go get your diploma and educate yourself in the things you want to do in life. You have such an amazingly supportive family. You are blessed.
Nope ur not responsible her choice and her body u can only direct education and encourage her to follow a positive direction all u can do now is support her. She has 2 protect her body and take all the needed prevention not 2 get pregnant or a disease abstinence she should follow at this point so she can focuse on her sons get a job.finish.school.get a career.
I was Very strict as I was told my daughter got pregnant at 15 years old. I supported her with her baby she’s awesome. With a mom like yours you will be awesome also you have a beautiful baby and wonderful mom🙏🙏❤️
It's never GOOD when such young girls end up pregnant but she and her family have certainly made the best of it . Good parents for stepping up to make sure she and their grandson are in a supportive environment until mommy is ready to be on her own . And good for her for realizing her son needs a mother and not using her age as an excuse to not be a parent like a lot of teen parents do. Good parents, all of them
I'm sitting here clapping. Well done for supporting your daughter and your grand baby people, at the end of the day that child is part of the family. I hope the child's Daddy is in the picture too or at least helping with the cost of the bub so it doesn't fall all to her parents and her. I am an adopted person, my mother was pregnant at the same age, times were different and society was too. Well done guys I'm glad you have all stuck together for the sake of your daughter and the baby.
I wish the world would stop glorifying teenage pregnancies. Besides the fact that it's a huge strain on her body, she should be out there figuring out who she is and pursuing her dreams without a child. Some of these videos are not honest about the sacrifices she is having to make to be a mom at such a young age. She is 14 and can't work now the burden falls on her family to have another mouth to feed.
This family has come along way. I'm proud of Destiny. I've watched her grow into a beautiful young lady and loving mother. I love the whole family. And Lolli had me me tears.... Much love to you all❤️❤️❤️🙏🏾
Wow man. This is amazing. I love this. You don’t see this too often. Many parents judge their children and leave little to no room for mistakes with minimal guilt. I’m so happy she has this support system.
Her family is everything a family should be. Wishing them the best. And this is why o think a sec education for girls and boys should be taught separately because the outcomes are worlds a part
U guys saying nice comments well let me break the news to u she got pregnant at 14 so when ur family were thinking u be good u were loosing ur virginity why u guys supporting her what she did was just wrong and she needs to know every action has consequences good day
We need more comments like yours. People are really saying “good mama”? Yeah, because she’s a child. She’s expected to. Why can’t parents just buy them reborn baby dolls? The ones that look realistic? Why do you wanna go through labor for a baby who’ll hardly be even accepted into a family? She’s very lucky.
@@0malicha People are seeing good mum because of her actions actions and she's taking on the responsibility of responsibility of looking after her child while there's so many mums teenager and adult who teenager and adult who don't give a hoot or neglect. Your age does not make you a good mum nor a bad mum it's your actions there are plenty of women in their thirties who are bad mums and good mums. Same goes for teenagers.
Support teen mums not teen pregnancy If it sounds like she's a bad mother because she got pregnant young your age does not make you a bad or a good mum your actions do. She knows the consequences that's why she's taking responsibility for her child while you're just sitting there making her look like a bad mum she's not.
@@CairistianaMorgan Why are you spamming me with your rubbish replies? I don't care about your little hurt feelings. You ought to be a shame for support teen pregnancies. You support little girls wanting to be 304's and acting like they're grown women? Notice how their boyfriends eventually always leave them because they want nothing to do with that child.
I understand I don't support teen pregnancy at all she needs all the help she can get nw imagine ur 14 and u allow some boy to touch u and shees sayn its not a purpose when she was do n it she didn't remember I'm disappointed off what she did 😮 I m not tryn to insult anyone here some teens if they were in this situation their lover will leave she's lucky but she should face the consequences of it 😅😅
You don't know her personal life or anything about her life, neither what happened to her in her personal life. Shut your mouth and mind your business.
I think if my daughter told me she was pregnant, I’d cry and hug her. Tell her I’m glad she told me, and tell her there’s a lot in front of her. I’d support her and make sure when she isn’t in school, she will be getting certifications so when she’s 18, she and her child will be in the position to live on their own
He's so precious! You can't change the past, as long as he's loved and she learns from it, and to not do it again until she's a full-grown adult is all that matters. She seems mature for her age, from what I'm seeing.
@@Merebaby72 and you know that how? You live with them or know them personally? Maybe she could parents with baby's dad or something happened don't be quick to be a judgement Jordan or Judy
A friend of mine (22yo) got pregnant at (21yo), the baby is almost two months old now, she didn't get married, she stills living at her mom's house and continue her studies. I went to see her baby is so adorable, when I left hers house I realized something: the huge impact the huge difference when parents support their children in this kind of situation, she has help and is doing well. It was something new to me cause I'm used to see the opposite happening since I was young
@@anahla1546 My mom had my older brother at 20 but at that time she had already finished her studies and had a job, but I can look at myself with 21 and still in college, the life that I have it's different you know?
@@shellpeters4046 I have aunties and cousins that had babys at ages of 15, 16 and 17, so I choose to talk about my friend for a reason only I know what happened to them and I couldn't stop wondering how everything could be different
I'll be honest with you, the boys were stupid and immature. Most of them never reach spiritual or emotional maturity. It's hard to believe that smart/mature girls would allow what amounts to as a toddler to have sex, unprotected with them. If these girls don't stop this madness...
I respect this mother and father the ideology of how and why they supported their daughter my parents did the same thing I was 15 turning 16 and finished Highschool went too become a nurse my daughter is a college grad 👩🏽🎓 6 yrs later my son he’s grown college 👨🏽🎓 it was rough I in no way advocate for teen pregnancy I’m thee opposite DO NOT GET PREGNANT YOUNG WAIT U HAVE TIME TRUST ME U MAY FIND U DO NOT WANT KIDS!!!!!!! Finish school see the 🌎 it makes ur life and the support system much stronger if u wait.
"I was staying at my boyfriend at the time..." at 14? I have so many questions. 😩 they are making the best of the situation which is great but I can't help but wonder if the parents dropped the ball a little...
Teen pregnancy is horrible and shouldn’t be glorified AT ALL. GET YOUR HEAD OUT OF LA-LA LAND AND COME DOWN TO EARTH! Teen pregnancy is traumatizing and can cause issues between the mother and the child for a very long time
Stop promoting teen motherhood. It's nothing to be glorified. it's nothing to be happy about it's nothing to be proud of. it's nothing to brag about. Let these children be children. Signed a real teenage mother
Yea i dont condone getting pregnant at 14. And i am so happy her family is so supportive. She sounds like she has a good head on her shoulders. My niece got pregnant at 13 had her daughter at 14 and my brother and sister in law...not her mom....they supported her. The father was there thru all of it and she had 2 more by him before she left him. He was getting abusive with her. But the man she met afterwards they have 3 kids together and are married. They just bought their first house. Thats what these kids need when they end up pregnant. Family is everything.
It's not a good idea at all you can see the frustration on the parents face because she's not getting it genetically it's her baby but financially it's there's which is unfare to them, then like you said the BFs who are just as clueless if some times abusive.. It's a mess and apart of why things can get ugly in the streets.
Destiny, you have a great parents like mine. I was pregnant at 15 and my mom was there for me to beginning until the end. Now I have four beautiful kids, I have two successful businesses, Also I have three homes. Destiny you can do it. Do not doubt yourself because you got pregnant very young. You can come back anytime and build your empire for your son. My grandma always said to me your dreams Is in your own hands.
@@johnglow7845 Her parents did not mess up. They were good and supportive and LOVING parents. Very hard to find. Life doesn't always go the way we want. Sometimes there are bumps in the road. This family seems to be handling this just fine. They love their daughter AND their grandchild. IMO, they are great.
Very sad I wish truly could explain why this isn't something to be proud of a lot of the madness out in the streets happen because of teens getting pregnant.
It's not sad. It's just a part of life sometimes. Being a teen mother is not the end of the world. I wish that more parents were like this young woman's parents. Supportive of her, even though she made the mistake of having pre-marital sex. I say God bless this young woman and her parents. She will finish school and be just fine.
that’s cute and i’m glad this young woman is finally taking care of her baby and not neglecting her child. she is not like any teenage mother ❤️🥺 what a responsible and mature loving mother she is.. i’m 3 years old than her and i cannot imagine myself getting pregnant at 14. i’m not mentally, financially and emotionally fit to be a mom at this age 💀
I feel bad for the teen girls watching this and thinking this is what it's like... Sipping tea by a pool... So aesthetic. Many teen mothers regret their children. Hate the child's father. Most end up living in poverty their entire lives.
Would it be right for the daughters parents to refuse to raise another child? Having unprotected sex isnt really an accomplishment. Bringing a child into this world, especially without support is cruel.
What really should have happened before was better education for her daughter. Properly learning about sex and getting the tools needed to be a responsible person. The parents should have done this. But refusing to help probably scared them
@@jinchuriki7022 Yes and no. It's always easy for Adults to say this because they forgot what being a teenager feels like. Having sex at 14 is very common in the US, this is why talking about sex with ALL of our children is so important. Just telling our children "don't do it" is asinine, and unrealistic. Hormones are normal, so many parents pass down their own generational trauma and generational insecurities when it comes to sex.
@@jinchuriki7022 youd be surprised at how many people dont know and at 14 we dont learn about sex in school.. and health ed classes which are usually OPTIONAL and not even given everywhere only help so much. I am 18 and I recently found out about all of the side affects with pregnancy. The risks are not talked about enough and everyone just acts like its easy to give birth so yea no people dont talk about it..
Things happen, even to the best of us. Love and support is needed, not criticism and shame. It's okay to express disappointment because that's understandable. It was awesome to see the love and support of her parents. ❤
No child should be pregnant at 14 however, I’m glad she has supportive parents. No surprise the child’s father’s last name is Houdini. 🙄I do hope she doesn’t plan to have any more kids until she’s older, stable and in a committed relationship.
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You're a beautiful attractive young woman u have your whole life ahead of u you will excel and prosper
I love how to spell your baby
Believing zodiac is "shirk", you can't believe stars determine fate, Allah SWT the only God, determines all luck and bad luck. All celestial bodies are just unliving objects, rotating and doesn't care about you. God created the laws of universe. Why whole universe spin just to make you sleep at night? the dense earth knows no sleepy human, sleepy human does not make the earth turn the sun into night. all because God created human. Praise be to Allah the lord of this world. Allah SWT is not willing with any shirk. Shirk is cautious. Many kind and small. If you die in a state of shirk, you will be in hell forever. 'Shirk' not a sin, shirk is a way of associating partners (not figuring God the most one god) the only God, to be worshiped, hoped for, fate, worship, prayer, and reasons for deeds (rewards - sins). Then the claim of creator of the world, as the nature of the most almighty, and the nature of the most praiseworthy. Then those reasons make a kind of shirk. Like drawing animate creatures (rivalling God in creating living creation), may we be safe from all polytheism/shirk, then repent from sins (some sins are bleached in hell first) but after giving creed, converting to Islam, it is important to worship God, fulfill the (iman)believing pillars, and islam pillars. May our life not be missed, may our life fulfill it all. We hopefull we dont end up in the hereafter with not enough. Trying to find, study, do good deeds for a safe afterlife. May we always ask Him for guidance, take refuge in Him from going astray, and ask Him for forgiveness from all our mistakes.
Hadith: [Prophet Muhammad said: "Whoever bears witness that there is no god but Allah, alone with no partner, and that Muhammad is His slave and Messenger, that 'Isa is the slave and Messenger of Allah, and His word which He communicated to Maryam, and a spirit from Him; and that Paradise is true and Hell is true, Allah will certainly admit him into Paradise, regardless of the deeds which he has done." Sahih/Authentic. - [Al-Bukhari and Muslim]
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Islamic Prohibition in Drawing Cartoon Animation (Living Being) So, all of you Muslims must know about this Prohibition, (or maybe some don't know yet...?) OK, here's the hadith.
•"from [Ibn Abbas] he said, 'Rasulullah shallallahu 'alaihi wasallam said:
"Whoever makes a picture, then on the Day of Judgment he will be tortured until he breathes a soul into the picture, even though he will not be able to." (HR Nasai no. 5624)"
bro, don't you guys read carefully "He will be tortured until he breathes a soul into the image, even though he will not be able to." this means doom forever, eternal in hell forever.
Drawing animate creatures is also one of the branches of shirk (associating partners with Allah) in terms of competing Allah in creating creatures.
and very often we hear that Allah DOESN'T FORGIVE the sin of shirk (meaning that at the reckoning it is not forgiven, but in the world it is forgiven if you repent)
No matter how much they argue about the meaning of this ban, going back and forth about takwil here and there, or this ustad's opinion...
But actually the hadith is very clear, right? this is not just about statue, and not only for worship (meaning those who are afraid the image being worshiped) based on this audition of hadith
"I heard the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wasallam say:
"Allah 'azza wajalla said; Who is more unjust than the one who "creates like My creation"
means "Create as I create"
and God's prohibition to make pictures by threatening to blow the spirit not because of the image, worshiped besides Him but because those people compete Allah in create being so that it is challenged to breathe in the spirit
Don't narrow your life with excuses,
"I don't have any hobbies other than drawing" "I'm already talented here" "already have a lot of followers"
GOD'S EARTH IS WIDE,
Insya Allah, if you leave something because of Allah, Allah will replace it with something better.
"Isn't Allah's earth wide, so you can emigrate on that earth?" (annisa: 97)
"And whoever migrated (hijrah) of Allah, surely they will get this earth migration wide and (provision) a lot." (annisa: 100)
"Indeed, if you leave something because of Allah, surely Allah will give you something better" (hr.ahmad)
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The Ruling of Drawing Pictures or Cartoons
The original ruling for this problem can be found in a hadith of the Prophet PBUH: مَنْ صَوَّرَ صُورَةً فَإِنَّ اللهَ مُعَذِّبُهُ حَتَّى يَنْفُخَ فِيهَا الرُّوحَ وَلَيْسَ بِنَافِحَ فِيهَا أَبَدًا
"Whoever makes pictures, will be punished by Allah till he puts life in it, and he will never be able to put life in it." Sahih al-Bukhari (2225) In another narration, it states: كُلُّ مُصَوِّرِ فِى النَّا
يَجْعَلُ لَهُ بِكُلِّ صُورَةٍ صَوَّرَهَا نَفْسًا
فَتُعَذِّبُهُ فِي جَهَنَّمَ
"All the painters who make pictures would be in the fire of Hell. The soul will be breathed in every picture prepared by him and it shall punish him in the Hell," Sahih Muslim (3945) and Imam Ahmad in his Musnad Right after that, Ibnu Abbas said:
إِنْ كُنْتَ لا بُدَّ فَاعِلًا فَاصْنَعْ الشَّجَرَ وَمَا لَا نَفْسَ لَهُ "If you have to do it at all, then paint the pictures of trees and lifeless things;" Drawing creatures is the most heavy 'shirk',
"Allah said, 'Who are most unjust than those who try to create something like My creation?" (Sahih al-Bukhari 7559) That is mean drawing is "shirk" to rival God in creating creation (living creature) Shirk in islam means ascribing a partner/ rival to Allah in lordship. Al-'Aini said: "Drawing any living creature (carving of idols) is prohibited, for it is worshipped in the times of the Jahiliyyah. It is prohibited even if it has no shadow or do not consist of matter (referring to drawings and paintings), to close the doors of misdeeds." Refer 'Umdah al-Qari Syarh Sahih al-Bukhari (18/162) All these prohibitions are in the form of Sad al-Zari'ah (closing the doors of misdeeds) in fear that it could be an object of worship and harming our belief.
Whoever died in shirk will be in hell forever
“indeed, Allah does not forgive the sin of syirk, and he forgives the sin other than that for whom he wills” (annisa 48)
Believing zodiac is "shirk", you can't believe stars determine fate, Allah SWT the only God, determines all luck and bad luck. All celestial bodies are just unliving objects, rotating and doesn't care about you. God created the laws of universe. Why whole universe spin just to make you sleep at night? the dense earth knows no sleepy human, sleepy human does not make the earth turn the sun into night. all because God created human. Praise be to Allah the lord of this world. Allah SWT is not willing with any shirk. Shirk is cautious. Many kind and small. If you die in a state of shirk, you will be in hell forever. 'Shirk' not a sin, shirk is a way of associating partners (not figuring God the most one god) the only God, to be worshiped, hoped for, fate, worship, prayer, and reasons for deeds (rewards - sins). Then the claim of creator of the world, as the nature of the most almighty, and the nature of the most praiseworthy. Then those reasons make a kind of shirk. Like drawing animate creatures (rivalling God in creating living creation), may we be safe from all polytheism/shirk, then repent from sins (some sins are bleached in hell first) but after giving creed, converting to Islam, it is important to worship God, fulfill the (iman)believing pillars, and islam pillars. May our life not be missed, may our life fulfill it all. We hopefull we dont end up in the hereafter with not enough. Trying to find, study, do good deeds for a safe afterlife. May we always ask Him for guidance, take refuge in Him from going astray, and ask Him for forgiveness from all our mistakes.
Hadith: [Prophet Muhammad said: "Whoever bears witness that there is no god but Allah, alone with no partner, and that Muhammad is His slave and Messenger, that 'Isa is the slave and Messenger of Allah, and His word which He communicated to Maryam, and a spirit from Him; and that Paradise is true and Hell is true, Allah will certainly admit him into Paradise, regardless of the deeds which he has done." Sahih/Authentic. - [Al-Bukhari and Muslim]
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Islamic Prohibition in Drawing Cartoon Animation (Living Being) So, all of you Muslims must know about this Prohibition, (or maybe some don't know yet...?) OK, here's the hadith.
•"from [Ibn Abbas] he said, 'Rasulullah shallallahu 'alaihi wasallam said:
"Whoever makes a picture, then on the Day of Judgment he will be tortured until he breathes a soul into the picture, even though he will not be able to." (HR Nasai no. 5624)"
bro, don't you guys read carefully "He will be tortured until he breathes a soul into the image, even though he will not be able to." this means doom forever, eternal in hell forever.
Drawing animate creatures is also one of the branches of shirk (associating partners with Allah) in terms of competing Allah in creating creatures.
and very often we hear that Allah DOESN'T FORGIVE the sin of shirk (meaning that at the reckoning it is not forgiven, but in the world it is forgiven if you repent)
No matter how much they argue about the meaning of this ban, going back and forth about takwil here and there, or this ustad's opinion...
But actually the hadith is very clear, right? this is not just about statue, and not only for worship (meaning those who are afraid the image being worshiped) based on this audition of hadith
"I heard the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wasallam say:
"Allah 'azza wajalla said; Who is more unjust than the one who "creates like My creation"
means "Create as I create"
and God's prohibition to make pictures by threatening to blow the spirit not because of the image, worshiped besides Him but because those people compete Allah in create being so that it is challenged to breathe in the spirit
Don't narrow your life with excuses,
"I don't have any hobbies other than drawing" "I'm already talented here" "already have a lot of followers"
GOD'S EARTH IS WIDE,
Insya Allah, if you leave something because of Allah, Allah will replace it with something better.
"Isn't Allah's earth wide, so you can emigrate on that earth?" (annisa: 97)
"And whoever migrated (hijrah) of Allah, surely they will get this earth migration wide and (provision) a lot." (annisa: 100)
"Indeed, if you leave something because of Allah, surely Allah will give you something better" (hr.ahmad)
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The Ruling of Drawing Pictures or Cartoons
The original ruling for this problem can be found in a hadith of the Prophet PBUH: مَنْ صَوَّرَ صُورَةً فَإِنَّ اللهَ مُعَذِّبُهُ حَتَّى يَنْفُخَ فِيهَا الرُّوحَ وَلَيْسَ بِنَافِحَ فِيهَا أَبَدًا
"Whoever makes pictures, will be punished by Allah till he puts life in it, and he will never be able to put life in it." Sahih al-Bukhari (2225) In another narration, it states: كُلُّ مُصَوِّرِ فِى النَّا
يَجْعَلُ لَهُ بِكُلِّ صُورَةٍ صَوَّرَهَا نَفْسًا
فَتُعَذِّبُهُ فِي جَهَنَّمَ
"All the painters who make pictures would be in the fire of Hell. The soul will be breathed in every picture prepared by him and it shall punish him in the Hell," Sahih Muslim (3945) and Imam Ahmad in his Musnad Right after that, Ibnu Abbas said:
إِنْ كُنْتَ لا بُدَّ فَاعِلًا فَاصْنَعْ الشَّجَرَ وَمَا لَا نَفْسَ لَهُ "If you have to do it at all, then paint the pictures of trees and lifeless things;" Drawing creatures is the most heavy 'shirk',
"Allah said, 'Who are most unjust than those who try to create something like My creation?" (Sahih al-Bukhari 7559) That is mean drawing is "shirk" to rival God in creating creation (living creature) Shirk in islam means ascribing a partner/ rival to Allah in lordship. Al-'Aini said: "Drawing any living creature (carving of idols) is prohibited, for it is worshipped in the times of the Jahiliyyah. It is prohibited even if it has no shadow or do not consist of matter (referring to drawings and paintings), to close the doors of misdeeds." Refer 'Umdah al-Qari Syarh Sahih al-Bukhari (18/162) All these prohibitions are in the form of Sad al-Zari'ah (closing the doors of misdeeds) in fear that it could be an object of worship and harming our belief.
Whoever died in shirk will be in hell forever
“indeed, Allah does not forgive the sin of syirk, and he forgives the sin other than that for whom he wills” (annisa 48)
@@stevengoodman1814Believing zodiac is "shirk", you can't believe stars determine fate, Allah SWT the only God, determines all luck and bad luck. All celestial bodies are just unliving objects, rotating and doesn't care about you. God created the laws of universe. Why whole universe spin just to make you sleep at night? the dense earth knows no sleepy human, sleepy human does not make the earth turn the sun into night. all because God created human. Praise be to Allah the lord of this world. Allah SWT is not willing with any shirk. Shirk is cautious. Many kind and small. If you die in a state of shirk, you will be in hell forever. 'Shirk' not a sin, shirk is a way of associating partners (not figuring God the most one god) the only God, to be worshiped, hoped for, fate, worship, prayer, and reasons for deeds (rewards - sins). Then the claim of creator of the world, as the nature of the most almighty, and the nature of the most praiseworthy. Then those reasons make a kind of shirk. Like drawing animate creatures (rivalling God in creating living creation), may we be safe from all polytheism/shirk, then repent from sins (some sins are bleached in hell first) but after giving creed, converting to Islam, it is important to worship God, fulfill the (iman)believing pillars, and islam pillars. May our life not be missed, may our life fulfill it all. We hopefull we dont end up in the hereafter with not enough. Trying to find, study, do good deeds for a safe afterlife. May we always ask Him for guidance, take refuge in Him from going astray, and ask Him for forgiveness from all our mistakes.
Hadith: [Prophet Muhammad said: "Whoever bears witness that there is no god but Allah, alone with no partner, and that Muhammad is His slave and Messenger, that 'Isa is the slave and Messenger of Allah, and His word which He communicated to Maryam, and a spirit from Him; and that Paradise is true and Hell is true, Allah will certainly admit him into Paradise, regardless of the deeds which he has done." Sahih/Authentic. - [Al-Bukhari and Muslim]
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Islamic Prohibition in Drawing Cartoon Animation (Living Being) So, all of you Muslims must know about this Prohibition, (or maybe some don't know yet...?) OK, here's the hadith.
•"from [Ibn Abbas] he said, 'Rasulullah shallallahu 'alaihi wasallam said:
"Whoever makes a picture, then on the Day of Judgment he will be tortured until he breathes a soul into the picture, even though he will not be able to." (HR Nasai no. 5624)"
bro, don't you guys read carefully "He will be tortured until he breathes a soul into the image, even though he will not be able to." this means doom forever, eternal in hell forever.
Drawing animate creatures is also one of the branches of shirk (associating partners with Allah) in terms of competing Allah in creating creatures.
and very often we hear that Allah DOESN'T FORGIVE the sin of shirk (meaning that at the reckoning it is not forgiven, but in the world it is forgiven if you repent)
No matter how much they argue about the meaning of this ban, going back and forth about takwil here and there, or this ustad's opinion...
But actually the hadith is very clear, right? this is not just about statue, and not only for worship (meaning those who are afraid the image being worshiped) based on this audition of hadith
"I heard the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wasallam say:
"Allah 'azza wajalla said; Who is more unjust than the one who "creates like My creation"
means "Create as I create"
and God's prohibition to make pictures by threatening to blow the spirit not because of the image, worshiped besides Him but because those people compete Allah in create being so that it is challenged to breathe in the spirit
Don't narrow your life with excuses,
"I don't have any hobbies other than drawing" "I'm already talented here" "already have a lot of followers"
GOD'S EARTH IS WIDE,
Insya Allah, if you leave something because of Allah, Allah will replace it with something better.
"Isn't Allah's earth wide, so you can emigrate on that earth?" (annisa: 97)
"And whoever migrated (hijrah) of Allah, surely they will get this earth migration wide and (provision) a lot." (annisa: 100)
"Indeed, if you leave something because of Allah, surely Allah will give you something better" (hr.ahmad)
___________________________
The Ruling of Drawing Pictures or Cartoons
The original ruling for this problem can be found in a hadith of the Prophet PBUH: مَنْ صَوَّرَ صُورَةً فَإِنَّ اللهَ مُعَذِّبُهُ حَتَّى يَنْفُخَ فِيهَا الرُّوحَ وَلَيْسَ بِنَافِحَ فِيهَا أَبَدًا
"Whoever makes pictures, will be punished by Allah till he puts life in it, and he will never be able to put life in it." Sahih al-Bukhari (2225) In another narration, it states: كُلُّ مُصَوِّرِ فِى النَّا
يَجْعَلُ لَهُ بِكُلِّ صُورَةٍ صَوَّرَهَا نَفْسًا
فَتُعَذِّبُهُ فِي جَهَنَّمَ
"All the painters who make pictures would be in the fire of Hell. The soul will be breathed in every picture prepared by him and it shall punish him in the Hell," Sahih Muslim (3945) and Imam Ahmad in his Musnad Right after that, Ibnu Abbas said:
إِنْ كُنْتَ لا بُدَّ فَاعِلًا فَاصْنَعْ الشَّجَرَ وَمَا لَا نَفْسَ لَهُ "If you have to do it at all, then paint the pictures of trees and lifeless things;" Drawing creatures is the most heavy 'shirk',
"Allah said, 'Who are most unjust than those who try to create something like My creation?" (Sahih al-Bukhari 7559) That is mean drawing is "shirk" to rival God in creating creation (living creature) Shirk in islam means ascribing a partner/ rival to Allah in lordship. Al-'Aini said: "Drawing any living creature (carving of idols) is prohibited, for it is worshipped in the times of the Jahiliyyah. It is prohibited even if it has no shadow or do not consist of matter (referring to drawings and paintings), to close the doors of misdeeds." Refer 'Umdah al-Qari Syarh Sahih al-Bukhari (18/162) All these prohibitions are in the form of Sad al-Zari'ah (closing the doors of misdeeds) in fear that it could be an object of worship and harming our belief.
Whoever died in shirk will be in hell forever
“indeed, Allah does not forgive the sin of syirk, and he forgives the sin other than that for whom he wills” (annisa 48)
Hey that’s me 😅 I really appreciate all the kind comments ❤️
💕💕💕
😁😁😁
Go girl!!!! 👏🏻☺️
You are a good mum to sincere ❤
Change that child's name. He will be prejudged his entire life with such a stupid name.
I love that her mother allows her to "mother" her son and not take over. That is so important because her daughter has a proper nurturing attachment to her son. Love conquers all.
Totally, beautifully put.
Ur supporting this?
@@ifykyk679 Yes I support teen moms, but not teen pregnancy, but if it happens I support this people.
Loving your child is a prerequisite for proper parenting, not equivalent to proper parenting.
@@ifykyk679 the baby is already here what do you want her to do? I can’t support the idea of a teen getting pregnant but if the baby is already here I can’t jump all over the mums chest about it… it already happened I just have to support
Her baby is so freaking cute!🥰
And she’s so mature beyond her years. I’m also glad her parents also didn’t kick her out.
@BeautyQueen2023Xsome people do. It’s awful.
I know I was like look at those juicy little cheeks and luscious baby hair! You know, I’d never want my boys or girls to have children at that age. However, if that did happen I would NEVER abandon my babies. My mom was around her same age when she had me. And not to toot my own horn but I believe I turned out pretty good and was born with purpose just like him. I think that by my mom being a young troubled teen with little to no genuine support, she didn’t really have time to really invest in me. So I had some hardships like sexual assault, bullied, abandonment issues ect. But now I use that as the staple in my testimony and help others heal from their traumas!
I’m sure that her story will help another young mothers out there. Maybe a new mom won’t be so afraid to tell their parents and be brave like she was. God bless this lovely family!
@@gabbycraft7035sure do and some award them to the state. A guy I use to know was given away. His mom said that she did it to save her other babies as she didn’t want him influencing the others. Bc he was unruly and disrespectful. She told me one apple was not about to spoil the bunch!
same, baby is cute
Yes 😊 ☺️
This girl is a better mother than a lot of mothers out there that have their babies at an 'accepted' age...she's really risen to the challenge, she's amazing.
Exactlyyyyy she really is. She’s very much more patient and mature 🙌🏾❤️
Fr
Yes, laying down and letting a dude get off in you, getting pregnant and living with your parents is truly amazing… yep… Not to many WM out there would make it raising a child with 99% of the financial obligations removed. So amazing….
@@Leonidas1014 better than a lot of kids out here doing drugs and killing people
How much of it is a challenge when you do it to yourself? That’s called a consequence to your actions lol. She’s supposed to be a good mom that’s her job.
I applaud these parents for being there for their daughter and not allowing the opinions of others to influence their decision to be there for their daughter. This young lady has wonderful parents. She will remember for the rest of her life how good her parents were to her. She is fortunate. Not many teens have such good and loving parents. May God bless this family richly!
@@Harsh_Singh1111 I think you need to understand that teenagers are gonna do whatever they want to do regardless if the parents are being good or bad.
@@Harsh_Singh1111 ikr
@@soffiesavage3241 mmmm no
@@Harsh_Singh1111 that's a total lie doesn't matter if you have good or bad parents still make bad choices heck there are even kids who had great parents that went off to be murderers
@@soffiesavage3241 exactly
When Destiny’s mom Leilani started to cry about not abandoning her daughter I felt that. I hate teen pregnancy but not the young moms who are trying to figure it out. I am glad that Destiny is trying to do better because her family seems lovely and trying to make her life better
Truth Comment
Her mother is setting the perfect example on how one should be a mother.
She wasn't setting the example on how not to get pregnant at 14!
Yep
@@JulieDeuxFois true but I guess I was talking about more so after the fact you know?
@@JulieDeuxFois oh shut up! She can’t go back in time and change what happened things happen and don’t always go as planned shut up and stop being negative! Always in black people business go find you sum to do KAREN!
@@JulieDeuxFois well you don't know what went on alot of parents have the talk with their child and they still wind up pregnant
Applause for the parents. My mom and dad also did not abandon me when I needed them the most when I had an unexpected pregnancy at 22.. I just graduated from collge and no income yet. They provided for everything until my husband (my boyfriend then whom i eventually married) landed his first job when our daughter was 1yr old. I sooo love my parents. Now fast forward to now---14yrs later, still together with my husband. I love my parents. 🥰🥰
22 is an extremely far cry from 14 but I’m glad everything worked out for you and your family.
Far cry?
@@falaknazmayeda5747 yeah. 22-year-old is fully adult. She was a college graduate. 22-year-olds can vote, drink alcohol etc. A 14-year-old can’t even drive, can’t work and may have not even started highschool yet. A 14-year-old is closer to an 8-year-old in terms of what they are allowed legally, basically a whole child themselves but with reproductive ability.
@@MsFlamingFlamer It's heartbreaking, really
Ingnorethe weirdos trying diminish your experience ❤ I definitely would have also needed help at 22
This young girl is so mature beyond her years . She seems like a fantastic mother
Because she has too be I’m sure she still has child n or teen tendencies lol
So mature beyond her years indeed and still got pregnant at 14
@@ubogutony8456 just about to say that I mean ok fine sex is all good just wear a condom dam
This is just the beginning.
Inspirations to all 14yr old
The baby is the cutest ever omg. This whole family radiates positivity and warm energy
I'm not gonna promote being pregnant at 14 but now that you are a Mother I'm wishing for you a good life full of joy and accomplishments. Finish school and get your education. You will need that diploma. You can do it if you believe in yourself and a little help from your parents would be awesome. Take care and may God bless you and your family.
She actually ended up graduating at 15.
She graduated early
She’s living a good life right now
Ion like your negative comment
@@zaizainiyah6460 it wasn’t an negative comment she just doesn’t agree with getting pregnant at that age. She even wish her the best at the end and encouraging messages too please people read carefully
I'm not too much in favor of pregnancy at such a young age
She really is, I watch her RUclips and she’s so mature and level headed
Okay....
whos u , then u shut ur mouth if u have nothing nice to say then don't talk at all
@Lily Beth ☃️🎄 how’s that toxic
@@dividingspace3720 don't worry that person just sound like they learned a new word and need to use it lol ain't nothing toxic here 🤣
Ugh…such a beautiful family man. Ofc it’s not ideal and not the right thing for a 14 year old to get pregnant, but what’s done is done and I’m so happy that she has the support of her family to help her and to allow the baby to also have a beautiful safe life. Such a sweet fam
🙄
@@Nash_14 shut up
@@Nash_14 😂
I was living with my dad when it happened. He told me if I kept it I wasn't staying in his house but if I didn't keep it he would never forgive me. My mom and stepdad stood up like this. He drove 3 hours in one way to pick me up. My mom didn't come because when I started high school she wanted to put me on birth control because mom was 17 with me in her stomach when she walked across the stage for her high school diploma. My dad was 19. He told her he did not want me on birth control. They fought over it. I had no clue they had even talked about this. When I told my mom about the pregnancy she asked to talk to my dad and that was when all hell broke loose. She told him "I told you so"
I was 15. Had sex the first time and pregnant. Outsiders always have something to say. I got called all the stereotypical stuff. Almost raped by guys at school because they knew I was easy and "I wanted it" I could not have male friends in fear that they would try something if given the chance to despite me not being interested and only nice to them. The females didn't like me because they thought I was going to steal their boyfriend and adults thought I was a bad influence. Moving 3 hours away from TBD we grew apart. Everyone who knew me as the girl who only ever had 1 boyfriend and was a good person was gone. New life, New 1st impressions. The new school wouldn't accept me while I was pregnant. This was back in 1994. I went back after i had him. Times have changed some. I'm glad you didn't go through what I did. Stay safe and make good choices is what I tell my kids everyday.
Imagine bringing your daughter in who was born in 2009 to have a baby . Idc what y’all say this is absolutely sad.
Exactly. But she is 17
Who’s 17? She’s 17 now ?
@@jordannewsom3606so she's 3 years older what's your point? Still under the age of 18 with the kids
It’s a bit disappointing but not “sad”. This was actually quite normal a some decades ago. Girls were married with children by the time they were 16 in some countries.
@@PandaHead602yeah look at the description
She seems so level headed and mature. She's gonna be an amazing mom
An amazing mom? With no income, house, car, education or husband. Ok.
@@Bert_de_Wit She has a great support system. Life isn't perfect. She may obtain all of those in time. But she isnt alone
@@Bert_de_Witshe doin better now than most parents do with they own kids 20+ so yes obv
@@Bert_de_Wit yes she is. You don't need a car, house or a husband. Lmao go off.
@@abeeromesele4331 yes you do you need all of those things to raise a kid in a stable household this LITTLE GIRL has a good support system financially,mentally,physically a lot of “older moms” don’t have that this girl is privileged what y’all need to stop doing is talking down on older mothers who can’t control the fact that they don’t have a support system that’s not their fault y’all keep screaming this CHILD Is a good mother but y’all not mentioning how much harder motherhood would be on her if she had to DO IT ON HER OWN….
I’m really glad that her parents didn’t just leave her and her baby on the streets, like some parents do. Part of being a parent is helping your children during the difficult, and scary, moments of their lives instead of throwing them away just to keep up appearances.
You are absolutely correct! I know parents who sent their children away, disowned them, etc
@BeatDaBlock you guys are lucky to have supportive parents... Meanwhile me who was been raised by strict parents, whenever i don't want to study they yell and yell😔they also don't let me drawing or do whatever I want.. They force me to become sci stud. Which is i hate the most and thanks to them i am stuck with science class! I really don't like to be in there but had to keep and force to be ok😔😫
Exactly. True unconditional love doesn't go away when times get hard.
Kudos to this family for keeping it together through a rough time and supporting their baby when she needed it most. Keep being a great mama💕💕
To all the young girls out there please do not follow this example, having a kid is a serious situation not a game. They're human beings that we have the responsability to take care of. The way her parents reacted may not be the same yours will do so protect yourself during sex time.
They shouldn’t be even having sex at that age!! Sex is safe when you married or in a serious relationship! Smh 😢
@@caramileelliott1719They shouldn't but the desire and pleasure overcomes them.
@@caramileelliott1719 frrrr like....
@@caramileelliott1719literally
@BeautyQueen2023X14 is when you enter HS… I remember being in middle school (11-13) and students were getting caught in the stairwells. Do you really think HS students aren’t doing the same?
I’m happy her family decided to support her. ❤
And is the father in jail?
Wher is his father im just asking
@randomperson94578 oh atleast she is a very very good mother ❤️
@@samarjaam3176 how can yall support this horrific thing?
@@ifykyk679 What do you want people to do? Bash her? Teen pregnancy is never good but it happens.
Same thing happened to me except i was 13 and had my son at 14. I absolutely didnt have the support she has. It was DEVASTATING!
Girl, that was too young!! That’s good you kept the baby!
In life we may get similar experiences but different outcomes
For some ppl it will be good while others may have it rough. That's just life!
13 jesus
i'm so sorry this happend to you, you deserve to be loved and supported, are you okay?
@@doomdecepticon933 no I'm def not alright, but I'm alive, I have some health, and I'm hopeful, and eager to one day prayfully some time soon be alright
No one explained to her the “boyfriend “ will continue his life while hers is interrupted 😢 smh teach your children foresight
I was wondering that too. He was nowhere in the video
I was also wondering was they using birth control.
He must have flew the coop.That's what usually happens in teen pregnancy. Hit it and then quit it. No responsibility for me he said!😔
Yep. Now the financial responsibility is on her parents as his are not involved. She won't be capable or able to provide proper support until she has the education and job until she's in her mid twenties.
You teach urs
Let's not normalize CHILDREN getting pregnant at 13/14. She's lucky to be in the position of having loving parents, where I'm from, your life could literally ruined completely.
Parents, do better, teach your children protected sex or to wait till maturity before sex.
Thank you!!
Teen pregnancy rates have been going down for decades now
I don’t think they want to normalize it, just show how important support is if a teen does become pregnant. Especially now, when so many girls are forced to give birth even if they don’t want to.
What do you mean "forced to give birth" how else do you think she's going to have the baby? 🙄
There is an age limit for giving birth because it's a traumatic event & a girls body isn't mature.
I'm amazed there isn't more deaths with kids having kids
Her parents are such big supporters, they may have been disappointed in the unexpected pregnancy but they supported her all the way through and seem like such doting grandparents
I absolutely do not condone teenage pregnancy, but massive respect to this young girl. I’ve heard of so many bad mothers (of all ages, come to think of it) who’ve neglected and abused the children that they had never wanted in the first place… but she rose to the challenge and clearly cares deeply about her son from what is shown! I went to highschool with a bunch of girls who got pregnant in their teenage years and 9 times out of 10, it was their parents who ended up raising their children while they went out partying or whatever. Didn’t even make any effort to bond with their children in the slightest. At least this girl seemed to care a lot more, and because of that, the kid is loved. Which is important!
This is HARD! The strength of her mother 💜
Fr teach kids to wear protection if they're gonna do it at least make sure they do it while protected.
Ur none of those things please take care of urself raise ur baby please no more kids go back to school if ur not go 2 college and focuse on being the best u can be. Learn from ur mistakes
@@johnglow7845 I have a couple friends who were taught that during our early teens, yet they still had pregnancy scares from not using protection at times. Even though parents discuss safe sex with their children, they can still be hard headed and get caught up. Some just don’t always listen. 🤷🏾♀️
@@mimiglamz22 that's why u kick them out and let them fend for themselves
@@stophavingkidsoutofwedlock2981 Many parents do, or some don’t have the heart to and basically let them stay while being pissed. What sucks is that at 14 yrs old, they can’t even get a job unless it’s under table pay or a family member’s owned establishment.
I love how your parents were mature enough to realize that you needed support during such a challenging time and they stepped up and didn't allow their beliefs to get in the way of that. Know that you are very blessed cuz a lot of us didn't have that!
I was a teen mom also …a little older at 18 but it’s still the same amount of feelings that happened with myself & parents …but having that support really helps tremendously! Idk how other young moms do it without that …I give this girl credit she seems like she’s doing the very best she can …and can we all just stop and appreciate her sons cuteness! And those cheeks! 😍😍😍
I’m glad this young mother has strong family support.
I’m grateful to see that she hasn’t taken her situation lightly and has no plans to have anymore kids until she’s grown.
Sincere has a ton of strong, loving family behind him for whatever life holds in the future.
He’ll be alright ❤️
I don't condone teenage pregnancy but I still congratulate her on how well she's going through being a teen mom. 14 is definitely too young but she's done quite well. And her parents too for supporting her instead of kicking her out. I knew someone who got pregnant at 15 and her parents kicked her out once they found out. Lucky enough she had her boyfriend's parents to take her in. They're still married to this day with three kids (she's 4 months with her third). Some teen pregnancies don't come out well while others, like her story, does.
I don’t get how your own flesh and blood could just abandon you like that. It’s cruel
As a victim of teenage pregnancy, my mom literally turned her back on me. Life was really rough and at 40 her lack of support still affects my life today. I sought my way through college and graduated at age 30. You have such wonderful parents and I just want to tell them thanks. I hope your story encourages other parents to support their daughters despite the circumstances.
Not a victim
@@justkeepitanonymous419 you're so right.
How old were you? If you don’t feel comfortable with answering that you don’t have to, I was just wondering
@@gymnasticsforever110 I will be 41 this year.
You are a victim only if it was sexual assault that resulted to being pregnant
I got pregnant at the age of 17. My mom was disappointed. I kept the baby. I graduated from high school. At the end of the day. She was supportive through it all. You have a good family 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
He should’ve used safety ngl although im happy for u
@NARIT0 2.0 Well, I'm 37 years now. Back then, We wasn't thinking about it back then End up being a single mom. Now my Daughter she's 18 We are doing good
Sincere is such a blessing....my youngest daughter who was 14 at the time made that same mistake but I am momma bear so I protected my baby as well....here we are 22 years later with that bouncing baby boy she had and he is just the most....(PROUD NANNA!!) Thats when I truly learned God won't put more on you than you can bare...Good job momma bear I fought for mine the same way... baby girl I hope to see your graduation pics on your channel as well as what college you choose....God bless family❤🙏🏼
Kudos to her mother! Accepting responsibility and stepping up. Her baby having a baby doesn't mean her baby doesn't need help anymore. It doesn't mean her daughter is grown enough to face the world alone. I'm glad she didn't leave her alone
Irresponsible to put that burden on your parents who aren’t even finished raising you!
@@kaylanetanya very true! Very very true! Her story is more of a lesson than a flex though. Parents and young girls should learn from this. It's important to take proper care of our girl children till they are able to make important decisions on their own.
Awww djdjdjrnfi9r
Even if she didnt want to help she has no choice. Mothers will forever be mothers even to kids that are not theres
@@hiiii2069 this doesn't apply to all mothers. I've heard of different stories where the girl is thrown out of the house to fend for herself. Only good parents would step up. Unfortunately, not everyone in the world are good parents. There are thousands of cases. You can google and investigate more.
I was terrified getting preggo for the first time at 36 . I can't imagine at 14.
People need to stop normalizing this sh*tty behavior. Yes I feel bad for her but at the same time she had a choice to not have sex and control herself. Having sex at 14 isn't something to be bragging about, it's shameful. If she's that desperate, she could've at least used a condom. Smh🤦♀️ the parents r enablers too.
You guys can support this young lady being a mother without putting other mothers down…
Exactly! Like yes she’s a good mother, but so are most moms.
Sex at 14 with a boy you met 3 months earlier is super reckless…Good that she has supportive parents but the lack of fully understanding the difficulties ahead just make this all the more a terrible decision.
Right
Again go watch her storytime it explains everything the baby father is no good fr
@@Cyb3rNiorhe is also a child so you can’t really blame him
Yeah because teenagers don't make reckless decisions everyday
@@dec1slh they don’t🥴🫠
l feel so happy l have watched her since her pregnancy and l feel proud to be seeing how responsible she is and how sincere has grown😭❤
Samee
Your mother is so sweet and loving. I'm so glad she loves and support you. I almost cried when I saw her express how she felt ❤
That sentence "my child is having a baby" makes me sad as it happens too often in our society... I am however happy that you and your little baby and your family are happy and I love how supportive your parents have been. I know that was a hard pill for them to swallow and so many other parent abandon their kids in situations like this so I'm happy your parents handles it well. thank you for sharing your story. that takes a lot of courage. and ty for being an amazing parent❤️ sending much love to you and your loved ones.
She has the best parents in the world and I'm confident she will follow after them. Love covers everything. Beautiful family. ❤
No one hates the baby, its a fact a child can throw their future away!
1; If No one hates the baby how come their are mean comments around saying nasty things about the child?
2; Just because someone had a child young doesn't mean they have thrown their future away.
Mo one threw away there future, are u kidding me
I got pregnant at 14 also. I'm 42 now. My children grew to be beautiful functioning adults. I also had help from a few supportive adults. Press forward and keep your head up.
We was the same age . I’m 45 now. With 2 grand kids. My boys are grown now with a child of there own my 31 year old has no kids yet. My 25 has one & my 24 year old has one.
Ridiculous
Nice. Keep going
@@miajones-c2v ridiculous
how did the nut feel???
Dating for 3 or 4 months...before.....watch yo kids, folks...
No talk to your kids. Give them better education, Empowerment and Encouragement.
Your kids could be getting abortions and you don't even know, so watch your kids duhhh
Ikr
@@jenniferbates2811 same thing
Right
We shouldn’t glorify children having babies.
And we shouldn’t Shane them either
@@bangchansrubberducky8244 no fr. People need to stop normalizing this sh*tty behavior. Yes I feel bad for her but at the same time she had a choice to not have sex and control herself. Having sex at 14 isn't something to be bragging about, it's shameful. If she's that desperate, she could've at least used a condom. Smh🤦♀️ the parents r enablers too.
She could have.condoms aren't 100 percent effective.@chirosk
I’m so glad her parents reacted like that!!! I know plenty of girls who didn’t have their child based off of societal fears and no support !!
I’m glad this story was told and she has an adorable son.
Plus young grandparents are fun!!! I had them
It's fun when you have the money to take care of everyone people react negatively because unexpected pregnancies can be a absolute burden it's 18 years of spending thousands each day on some one who cannot take care of themselves. So yeah people freak out over it.
As the mom of a 14 year old I just got ice cold.😪 My worst fear is that my daughter will struggle to have or never have a bountiful youth full of adventures with friends, studying abroad, travelling to foreign countries, working on a cruise ship during a gap year, staying in a college dorm with only exams and skipped classes to worry about, partying and hitchhiking Europe because of a baby when She's still a baby. I can only pray that she will enjoy her childhood and youth and then someday once she's establish a career and her own way and finances, (without the hardship of being a child parent at the same time ) be with the man or woman of her dreams and start a family when she's emotionally and financially ready to do so. You can say what you want but children having children is always sad. I admire the parents because I would be gutted for everything my child will never get to experience or will have to experience low key because she has a baby to worry about. All the best.
All that stuff is overrated. Family is the legacy you leave when you die.
@@xx-rr3ug she never said she doesn’t want her daughter to have a family! She just wants her to wait until she is financially secure before making that commitment
Shoutout to the parents for being a strong village for her and her baby that’s amazing
She's lucky she has two parents that can help her, that's all I can say.
Very lucky and maybethat's why she did it I can see the parents frustration in the video smh.
Blessed ❤❤
Frrrr
I've never understood why or how any mother would think it wise to kick their child out at a time like this. Yes it's hard but if you love your child you would never punish her in such an unloving way. A mistake was made that has a long-lasting impact but what we do with it is what matters most. I applaud her parents and this teenager girl for making the most of this situation 👏🏿
Don’t kick her out, just guide her and make her help out with bills since she’ll be running them up. Teach her responsibility hopefully birth control and abstinence till marriage if someone will marry her with a kid. She thinks the pregnancy is cute, you can tell she’s proud.
Truth!
Me being 18 years old now even I know why some parents kick their kids out. It’s hard and nobody wants to care for an extra child why should they have to suffer the burden of your own mistake? Make that make sense? Yes, they should have sympathy, but they are not obligated.🤷🏽♀️
getting pregnant as a teen isn't a mistake, we know better at 14!
@@myahsolomon If your mom had an extra child, she wouldn't kick herself out.
We shouldn't normalize being pregnant at such age coz its literally a tough job for someone who isn't matured herself. Its amazing that she handles it well but still there are lots of woman who lacks in handling and aren't aware of such situations so please don't see this as an example and do the same thing. Its your life do the best of it and take care of yourself❤
Also, they need to stop having sex at such a young age!! 😢
True, We need Jesus
@@xapfe7139exactly!!! That's where her parents failed her. I'm happy they are helpful now and loving the grandson.
@@vastclearing yes and education on avoiding stds!!
I love how they all understood the assignment and that’s a beautiful family working together and taking care of each other. I see a healthy and strong mother raising a healthy and happy child!❤
Aww she has the best mom ever! Super supportive parents. You could tell her mom had her kids young too. They all look like sisters. I’m so proud of the new mom and her son, even though you’re figuring it out, you raising your son with a happy family is so important. ♥️👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
What a supportive family
While this is heartwarming and I am glad that mom and baby are in good health, I can’t understand what makes this extraordinary in any way.
Same.
Because of her age I guess
Yeah, I saw this all the time growing up in Oakland.
It's depressing.
@@AneirinRPG Nearly every healthy 14 year old woman has the ability to get pregnant. There is nothing extraordinary about it. Extraordinarily irresponsible, perhaps, but not extraordinary in nature whatsoever.
As a person who doesn't have kids I would totally blame myself if my 14 year old child male or female was having a baby you have to monitor your kids and raise awareness give them hope let them know they have a choice help them develop critical thinking I always ask my 13 year old and 15-year-old niece is it smart to have children at this age it allows them to think don't just say don't have children allow them to question themselves I also tell them watch what a person do never listen to what they say cause us guys are known for love bombing women to get what we want peace and love everyone
DOnt blame yourself. Kids will blame you. So you'll be in blame but still a parent can only do so much
My mom had me at 16. My grandma wanted my mom to give me up. She chose to keep me and always said she loved me from day one. My friends when I was a kid/teen was always surprised that my mom was so young. Though my mom was definitely my MOM and did a great job. You are a beautiful mother and your son is very lucky to have you as his mom ❤ wish you all the best! ❤️
I’m happy she has a support system but I would have not been saying congratulations she’s a child absolutely not.
Absolutely!
Our brains aren't fully mature until 25, she's a child having a child. I really hope that she gets the support she needs for herself as well.
What else could they do? The child was there so they have to take care of the baby. They weren’t happy.
They’re not gonna hate the baby 🤷🏻♀️
Something similar happened to my neighbour, a bit older but not married and young. She has a lovely little girl now. I think she still sees the father but not married yet! I hope they do.
@@stjohnssoup Being married is unnecessary. I just hope that she's taking care of herself mentally, physically and emotionally.
At least they didn't bring out a poster condemning her, ridiculing her, or shaming her!!! Quite frankly, I wish I had such a supportive family. But no.
Congratulations is for adults that’s all I’m saying 💯
dont really care
she got pregnant at 14 and the mom isn't helping by congratulating her
she is a minor also where's the father?
last point, we hate on a video because YOUR 14 AND PREGNANT!
"I glad that I had my baby because I wouldn't be the person that I am today."
What does that even mean? You're 16. Your life wouldn't be much different.
Please, girls. Value your childhood over these boys (who dip as soon as you get pregnant, and motherhood.
You have your whole life to be a mother, and not just that but a partner, spouse, or wife if you choose. Children deserve fulfilled parents you how not just physically, emotionally and financially ready to support a child.
She’s 16, she’d probably be out partying like most teens do. She probably meant that having a baby so young forced her to be more mature and grow up (mentally and emotionally) bc she now has an entire human being to care for. But I agree that you should value you’re childhood.
She does have the support of her family to help care for her son, and she did mention that she worked online, so she does have some money.
Wow, wow, her parents exude strength and love, I would have lost it in their shoes. Most of the time, people focus on the child and forget the pains the parents go through, especially when they are good parents. Girl, go get your diploma and educate yourself in the things you want to do in life. You have such an amazingly supportive family. You are blessed.
Nope ur not responsible her choice and her body u can only direct education and encourage her to follow a positive direction all u can do now is support her. She has 2 protect her body and take all the needed prevention not 2 get pregnant or a disease abstinence she should follow at this point so she can focuse on her sons get a job.finish.school.get a career.
Her mom is as sweet just like mine ,I got pregnant @17 I was scared to tell my mom ,but she was so happy abt everything now my son is 4
She was happy? I would not be.
@@MegaSlimgoody1 good thing you’re not her mom🙄
@@toriandreaa Exactly, nothing to be happy about.
Congratulations!
She was _happy?!_ _...yikes_
I was Very strict as I was told my daughter got pregnant at 15 years old. I supported her with her baby she’s awesome. With a mom like yours you will be awesome also you have a beautiful baby and wonderful mom🙏🙏❤️
It's never GOOD when such young girls end up pregnant but she and her family have certainly made the best of it . Good parents for stepping up to make sure she and their grandson are in a supportive environment until mommy is ready to be on her own . And good for her for realizing her son needs a mother and not using her age as an excuse to not be a parent like a lot of teen parents do. Good parents, all of them
It’s a blessing to have a good support system ❤ Shoutout to your mom!!
I'm sitting here clapping. Well done for supporting your daughter and your grand baby people, at the end of the day that child is part of the family. I hope the child's Daddy is in the picture too or at least helping with the cost of the bub so it doesn't fall all to her parents and her. I am an adopted person, my mother was pregnant at the same age, times were different and society was too. Well done guys I'm glad you have all stuck together for the sake of your daughter and the baby.
I wish the world would stop glorifying teenage pregnancies. Besides the fact that it's a huge strain on her body, she should be out there figuring out who she is and pursuing her dreams without a child. Some of these videos are not honest about the sacrifices she is having to make to be a mom at such a young age. She is 14 and can't work now the burden falls on her family to have another mouth to feed.
True
This family has come along way. I'm proud of Destiny. I've watched her grow into a beautiful young lady and loving mother. I love the whole family. And Lolli had me me tears.... Much love to you all❤️❤️❤️🙏🏾
❤❤❤
Mom and Dad are a blessing. Such a beautiful family unit.
Wow man. This is amazing. I love this. You don’t see this too often. Many parents judge their children and leave little to no room for mistakes with minimal guilt. I’m so happy she has this support system.
Her family is everything a family should be. Wishing them the best.
And this is why o think a sec education for girls and boys should be taught separately because the outcomes are worlds a part
Facts
U guys saying nice comments well let me break the news to u she got pregnant at 14 so when ur family were thinking u be good u were loosing ur virginity why u guys supporting her what she did was just wrong and she needs to know every action has consequences good day
We need more comments like yours. People are really saying “good mama”? Yeah, because she’s a child. She’s expected to. Why can’t parents just buy them reborn baby dolls? The ones that look realistic? Why do you wanna go through labor for a baby who’ll hardly be even accepted into a family? She’s very lucky.
@@0malicha People are seeing good mum because of her actions actions and she's taking on the responsibility of responsibility of looking after her child while there's so many mums teenager and adult who teenager and adult who don't give a hoot or neglect.
Your age does not make you a good mum nor a bad mum it's your actions there are plenty of women in their thirties who are bad mums and good mums.
Same goes for teenagers.
Support teen mums not teen pregnancy If it sounds like she's a bad mother because she got pregnant young your age does not make you a bad or a good mum your actions do.
She knows the consequences that's why she's taking responsibility for her child while you're just sitting there making her look like a bad mum she's not.
@@CairistianaMorgan Why are you spamming me with your rubbish replies? I don't care about your little hurt feelings. You ought to be a shame for support teen pregnancies. You support little girls wanting to be 304's and acting like they're grown women? Notice how their boyfriends eventually always leave them because they want nothing to do with that child.
I understand I don't support teen pregnancy at all she needs all the help she can get nw imagine ur 14 and u allow some boy to touch u and shees sayn its not a purpose when she was do n it she didn't remember I'm disappointed off what she did 😮 I m not tryn to insult anyone here some teens if they were in this situation their lover will leave she's lucky but she should face the consequences of it 😅😅
Thank you mom for not abandoning her,,she will always be grateful 🥲
Kids out here worrying about sex but not worrying about them books.
So true
You don’t know what happened about her you don’t know her life and what she’s been through quit it
😂😂😂
You don't know her personal life or anything about her life, neither what happened to her in her personal life. Shut your mouth and mind your business.
Exactly 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
Love that she got a great support system ❤❤❤
That’s something that’s hard to find
💪🏾Rare
Keep doing your thing girl! Be strong for you and your family. 🙏🏽
Stop promoting single motherhood. That's the problem with black Americans today m
Being a ho?
You shouldn't support teen pregnancy, but you should support pregnant teens.
I think if my daughter told me she was pregnant, I’d cry and hug her. Tell her I’m glad she told me, and tell her there’s a lot in front of her. I’d support her and make sure when she isn’t in school, she will be getting certifications so when she’s 18, she and her child will be in the position to live on their own
He's so precious! You can't change the past, as long as he's loved and she learns from it, and to not do it again until she's a full-grown adult is all that matters. She seems mature for her age, from what I'm seeing.
WHERE'S THE DAD AT THO??!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 ANOTHER STATISTIC
He obviously doesn’t want nothing to do with her or the child😂
@@Merebaby72 and you know that how? You live with them or know them personally?
Maybe she could parents with baby's dad or something happened don't be quick to be a judgement Jordan or Judy
Shame on that young man and the daddy that didn’t raise him for not stepping up. And kudos to this young lady and her family for picking up the slack.
A friend of mine (22yo) got pregnant at (21yo), the baby is almost two months old now, she didn't get married, she stills living at her mom's house and continue her studies. I went to see her baby is so adorable, when I left hers house I realized something: the huge impact the huge difference when parents support their children in this kind of situation, she has help and is doing well. It was something new to me cause I'm used to see the opposite happening since I was young
still young but a lot of ppl get pregnant at that age !
@@anahla1546 My mom had my older brother at 20 but at that time she had already finished her studies and had a job, but I can look at myself with 21 and still in college, the life that I have it's different you know?
@@nerciiafumbanhane9709 yeah understandable
21 is a full-blown adult
@@shellpeters4046 I have aunties and cousins that had babys at ages of 15, 16 and 17, so I choose to talk about my friend for a reason only I know what happened to them and I couldn't stop wondering how everything could be different
My parents didn't allow me to have bf when I was 14
I'll be honest with you, the boys were stupid and immature. Most of them never reach spiritual or emotional maturity. It's hard to believe that smart/mature girls would allow what amounts to as a toddler to have sex, unprotected with them. If these girls don't stop this madness...
I respect this mother and father the ideology of how and why they supported their daughter my parents did the same thing I was 15 turning 16 and finished Highschool went too become a nurse my daughter is a college grad 👩🏽🎓 6 yrs later my son he’s grown college 👨🏽🎓 it was rough I in no way advocate for teen pregnancy I’m thee opposite DO NOT GET PREGNANT YOUNG WAIT U HAVE TIME TRUST ME U MAY FIND U DO NOT WANT KIDS!!!!!!! Finish school see the 🌎 it makes ur life and the support system much stronger if u wait.
"I was staying at my boyfriend at the time..." at 14? I have so many questions. 😩 they are making the best of the situation which is great but I can't help but wonder if the parents dropped the ball a little...
I thought I was the only one that heard that part
And then to turn around and say their parents are strict? Like who are they??? Whose really running this house hold..
She has a story Time on her RUclips channel on how that happened so you can check it out for clarity
She ran away cause of abuse
Ikr so much bull*hit
Teen pregnancy is not a terminal illness.
You can still be the best that you can be for you and your child.
Teen pregnancy is horrible and shouldn’t be glorified AT ALL. GET YOUR HEAD OUT OF LA-LA LAND AND COME DOWN TO EARTH! Teen pregnancy is traumatizing and can cause issues between the mother and the child for a very long time
Lol.
Stop promoting teen motherhood. It's nothing to be glorified. it's nothing to be happy about it's nothing to be proud of. it's nothing to brag about. Let these children be children.
Signed a real teenage mother
Amen. The sad part of this story is that this child and others are proud of her only accomplished , having a baby at 14.
Exactly
Agreed. It’s really such an extreme tragedy
You'll be honest with you Amber truly does show a lot of teen parents who have that support what about showing teenage parents that have no support?
I agree and my parents had me at 14 and 17 years old and got married at 16 and 19 and is still married together to this day and I am 33 years old.
Yea i dont condone getting pregnant at 14. And i am so happy her family is so supportive. She sounds like she has a good head on her shoulders. My niece got pregnant at 13 had her daughter at 14 and my brother and sister in law...not her mom....they supported her. The father was there thru all of it and she had 2 more by him before she left him. He was getting abusive with her. But the man she met afterwards they have 3 kids together and are married. They just bought their first house. Thats what these kids need when they end up pregnant. Family is everything.
It's not a good idea at all you can see the frustration on the parents face because she's not getting it genetically it's her baby but financially it's there's which is unfare to them, then like you said the BFs who are just as clueless if some times abusive.. It's a mess and apart of why things can get ugly in the streets.
Destiny, you have a great parents like mine. I was pregnant at 15 and my mom was there for me to beginning until the end. Now I have four beautiful kids, I have two successful businesses, Also I have three homes. Destiny you can do it. Do not doubt yourself because you got pregnant very young. You can come back anytime and build your empire for your son. My grandma always said to me your dreams Is in your own hands.
What do you do for a living?
The fact she is only 15 and is a mature great mother
The baby is so cute ❤
Lets pray grandma and grandpa don't mess up with him.
@@johnglow7845 Her parents did not mess up. They were good and supportive and LOVING parents. Very hard to find. Life doesn't always go the way we want. Sometimes there are bumps in the road. This family seems to be handling this just fine. They love their daughter AND their grandchild. IMO, they are great.
@@blackcanaryable she was staying over a boys house for days they most certainly did mess up.
@@johnglow7845 o yeah they did 🤦♀️
This is sad, but hopefully she will do a good job raising herself and child. Glad she has a supportive family.
Very sad I wish truly could explain why this isn't something to be proud of a lot of the madness out in the streets happen because of teens getting pregnant.
It's not sad. It's just a part of life sometimes. Being a teen mother is not the end of the world. I wish that more parents were like this young woman's parents. Supportive of her, even though she made the mistake of having pre-marital sex. I say God bless this young woman and her parents. She will finish school and be just fine.
@@blackcanaryable it's definitely sad
How is it sad💀
@@schoolgyaru how is it sad💀
that’s cute and i’m glad this young woman is finally taking care of her baby and not neglecting her child.
she is not like any teenage mother ❤️🥺
what a responsible and mature loving mother she is..
i’m 3 years old than her and i cannot imagine myself getting pregnant at 14. i’m not mentally, financially and emotionally fit to be a mom at this age 💀
This happens every day in a year! The lesson is being the BEST mother you can be! 💯💯💯
I like how she is doing her very best raising her son and with the support and help from her parents
i had my 1st baby girl at 12 & now at 13 i’m currently 6 wks pregnant . still nervous & scared this time around .
You are a victim. I pray for strength for u❤
Aw omg do you receive support?
Aww. Bless your little heart! I hope your ok & i know you’ll get through it fine like your 1st pregnancy. Sending prayers to you❤️❤️❤️
God bless your babies. I hope that life goes in your favor
thanks y’all 💕 .
I feel bad for the teen girls watching this and thinking this is what it's like...
Sipping tea by a pool... So aesthetic.
Many teen mothers regret their children. Hate the child's father. Most end up living in poverty their entire lives.
Would it be right for the daughters parents to refuse to raise another child? Having unprotected sex isnt really an accomplishment. Bringing a child into this world, especially without support is cruel.
What really should have happened before was better education for her daughter. Properly learning about sex and getting the tools needed to be a responsible person. The parents should have done this. But refusing to help probably scared them
@@jenniferbates2811 i think sex is pretty straightforward. Dont do anything and a baby wont show up. Sure get protection, but thats way to young.
@@jinchuriki7022 Yes and no. It's always easy for Adults to say this because they forgot what being a teenager feels like. Having sex at 14 is very common in the US, this is why talking about sex with ALL of our children is so important. Just telling our children "don't do it" is asinine, and unrealistic. Hormones are normal, so many parents pass down their own generational trauma and generational insecurities when it comes to sex.
Getting pregnant itself isn’t the “accomplishment” here.
@@jinchuriki7022 youd be surprised at how many people dont know and at 14 we dont learn about sex in school.. and health ed classes which are usually OPTIONAL and not even given everywhere only help so much. I am 18 and I recently found out about all of the side affects with pregnancy. The risks are not talked about enough and everyone just acts like its easy to give birth so yea no people dont talk about it..
Things happen, even to the best of us. Love and support is needed, not criticism and shame. It's okay to express disappointment because that's understandable. It was awesome to see the love and support of her parents. ❤
The worst thing you can do to your child is put them out when they're pregnant.
No child should be pregnant at 14 however, I’m glad she has supportive parents. No surprise the child’s father’s last name is Houdini. 🙄I do hope she doesn’t plan to have any more kids until she’s older, stable and in a committed relationship.
Maybe they can bond later you never know