16-Year-Old Girl Is Told to Lose Weight to Be Accepted by the Gypsy Community! | Gypsy Brides US
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- Опубликовано: 25 дек 2020
- Mona Lisa is worried about what the Gypsy community will think of her.
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For a culture that supposedly centers around “family” there sure are a lot of absent gypsy fathers in this show.
Right!? Lol smh
It’s because this show does nothing to show to genuine gypsy community. It’s all staged. There are real gypsy family’s on here that expose them and tell what the real Gypsy families are like and say it infuriates them that they are associated with these fake shows 🤷🏼♀️
In a lot of them they say that its because the husbands spend most of the year traveling around working to bring money back home.
I’ve noticed that too
Lol fr
She doesn’t look emotionally well. The daughter looks depressed and she admitted that she has very low self esteem. All that should come first. Yes being overweight can kill you, but you know what can end your life sooner? Depression.
If she lost weight she would probably feel better about herself
You are so right !
@@smileybat28 true but the way her mom was going about her losing weight wasn’t okay or helpful whatsoever
@@smileybat28 maybe. But those two things (being happy and losing weight) are not mutually exclusive. She might also feel better about herself with some therapy and fixing her sense of self worth. Guaranteed the mom is doing nothing to raise her daughter up unless it relates to her losing weight
@@MegC1015 but she did say that she was emotionally not up for it because of her appearance, not any other factor, so encouraging self worth isnt going to actually help her long run cause it will only last temporarily and when she gains more weight she will naturally revert back into her state of depression. having the experience of losing weight and looking beautiful could most possible be one of the best experiences for her, she liked exercising and she felt great losing the weight. so in the future if she does gain weight she wont feel bad about it cause she knows she can work out have fun and lose the weight.
I was overweight as a child. My mother didnt bother sugarcoating anything. She literally told me to lose weight, signed me up on the gym and counted my calories. I lost weight. It boost my confidence which affected both my social and career life. I am actually grateful that my mom did not enable me.
For every one of you, there are another 10 that got an eating disorder from it. Saying 'all kids should be treated this way cause it worked for me' is very short sighted.
@@serenalynn22 Eating disorders are usually overstated. In modern America, any form of discipline or dieting is referred to as an eating disorder now. Just literally dont be a pig, and you'll likely save yourself all the disease and sickness that typically comes from increased weight. You dont have to literally starve yourself. Overweight people always act like not eating 1400+ calories a day is "starving them" and its BS. Just an excuse. Her mom did the right thing and so did the mom in this video.
@@serenalynn22agreed. I’m unsure how one could find the most effective way for each child. It worked for her but I feel in this situation the shame she feels about her body fuels bad eating to cope
Same.
That little girl has dead eyes
I cheered out loud when she said "I love everything about myself". Go girl!
I'm more concerned about the child's emotional health. She honestly looks depressed 🙁
frrr
Forgot the 'e' in Sham I assume?
Forgot the 'e' in Sham I assume?
Ikr
Being fat makes one depressed. Lots of fat cells will cause lots of bad things
“You have to look your best.”
Wears blue lipstick.
What's wrong with blue lipstick? It doesn't look great on everyone but some people can pull it off
🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂
@Venezia Yezzi Blue lipstick isn’t inherently bad. It’s the fact that many people end up looking bad/tacky in blue lipstick. That’s not the lipstick’s fault 😞.
Right up there with blue eyeshadow....It's a huge NO-NO🤣😂🤣😂
@@ItsAllLove4Real yes lol when I see blue eyeshadow, I just think of MIMI From the Drew Carey Show
The best looking gypsy makeup and dress so far. This girl is GORGEOUS just the way she is
so unnecessary ^
The best looking gypsy makeup and dress so far. girl is GORGEOUS just the way
she is
Thank you I’m the girl in that video 💗
That personal trainer looks like she'd be so much fun to train with because she's enthusiastic, she's motivating and seems like she makes even the most boring of exercises fun xxx
Your 15 year old daughter is blatantly telling you she suffers from depression and has incredibly low self esteem. You respond by continuously body shaming her so she can get a man?
Top notch parenting.
EXACTLY! THANK YOU!
Ugh!!!!! She’s disgusting. I don’t understand how she could be so blind
It's upsetting to see. And why did she let her daughters weight get to that point in the first place? Wasn't she worried about her health? She could have made an effort to clean up their diets and be active together. But it seema like she didn't care until it came to the point where she needs to be "shown off to the community". She doesn't even care about her healthy and happiness, it's just about how she looks. So awful.
Excetly
Maybe if she lost some weight that would help her low self esteem. Genius.
"You have to look your best."
Wears bejeweled "BOSS" hat
hahaha i was just thinking that
Hahaha....my thoughts as well
🤣 my thoughts exactly
Same
😂 they are all so tacky.
Kara, the trainer, is actually being really supportive and cheering her on every time she completes a task during the workout and I'm loving it lol
I pray this girl is okay. She’s absolutely beautiful! I hope her family supports her and that her mom doesn’t end up traumatizing her with her weight and give her an ED. From experience, my mother used to body shame me for being overweight and I ended up with body dysmorphia and lost a whole bunch of weight and then she started shaming me for being to skinny. Please take care of this girl, protect her!
I would want my child to lose weight so she’s healthy and happy. Not because I want men to want her 😖😔
We watch the same things lol! I see your comments all the time!
L J 💕🤗
Damn 20 lbs in 3 weeks that’s not healthy
I guess the mom knew that would work for her. Some stuff people work harder for depending on who it’s for. I’m sure her mom told her
Many times to do it for her health and her self but maybe that just wasn’t enough
or to be 'accepted' by her own people, so not good...
My favorite thing is when parent use "they're shy" as a way to dismiss mental health
Lmao my favorite thing is uneducated people diagnosing a stranger after watching a few minutes of a show. Sit down stfu and watch the show. You ain't dr. Phil
@@heidiritchie553 ikr!!! Like shit the girl may not have a mental illness but just be a genuinely shy person!!
@@heidiritchie553 I mean she did say she doesn't like anything about herself which hints at some sort of mental issue. It could be depression or anxiety due to the fact she knows her mom doesn't like how she looks.
@@skylorwiltbank5188 just about every teenager goes through a similar phase, unhappy with their looks.
She is a teenager. It is called puberty.
I literally gasped at how beautiful she looked in that dress! She’s so sweet!
She's beautiful and perfect exactly how she is. Hopefully she gets away from this toxic community.
"As a Gypsy woman, we only wear the best."
🧐You might want to inform your wardrobe of that.
ha ha...🤣🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
🤣 her wardrobe is straight out of TJMAX and Ross
@@pirateloveification Hey, I wear TJMaxx and Ross too, but unlike this gypsy mom, I'm definitely NOT bragging about how I wear the best or even look the best....SMDH LOL...she should've kept that to herself.
@@KaliKali-hv9bt same! I love getting my clothes from there. They are very affordable but it's definitely not something to brag about.
She literally said she has low self esteem and doesn’t really like anything about herself. That is SO depressing
The poor girl should focus on school and not worry at her age to find a man
With a toxic narcissist momster like that she has to have low self esteem
her mom isn't helping
@@reginagrobosz8807 exactly
So do somthjng about it , nit wait for some one to do it for u , you'll mumma is right ✅
"I love everything about myself" ..every woman/girl should feel like that atleast once in their lives
I'm so proud of her and i loved how the trainer was with her, energetic and kind to make her more comfortable :)
I can’t wait to have my own daughter and NOT treat her like this 😀
😂😂😂
Basically
Lmao Periodt
I don’t even want kids but same 😭
Same. I have a son and I would never belittle him like this
"we don't leave the house unless were dressed the best" she says while wearing low rise jeans, flip flops and dollar tree shirt and jewelry
😂
Wait. When did the dollar tree sell clothes?😂 Now u got me wanting to go look. 😂
@@stephaniebiggerstaff8424 I found out on RUclips I was like whaaattt
I was thinking the same thing!! Maybe their best and my best are different
that's probably her definition of look the best😶
All she needed was POSITIVE motivation and POSITIVE reinforcement, which the dress and the trainer was and she looked gorgeous at the end
exactly!
There is nothing wrong with wanting your child to lose weight she is a very beautiful young lady her mother wants her to get healthy. Losing all that weight will help her self-esteem!
I disagree, when I was 18, my already overweight mother told me she wanted me to lose 20 lbs, and it made me feel like shit. Fast forward, a month later, and I find out she has been dating a man who is now my stepfather of 17 years; I put two and two together and realized she was ashamed of her new man meeting her fat daughter; that made me feel even worse. Fast forward; 3 and a half years later; and I took off 60 pounds at the age of 21, and NOT because it was my mother's decision, but my OWN. Moral of this story; it is NOT OKAY to tell someone else what to do with their own body. Period.
The fact that she said she has acne.. bitch where?! Your skin looks PERFECT to me 😭
Exactly lol
Right😌
Lol! Girl!!
People can have acne on their body
She Probably has anxiety
The mom named her daughter Mona Lisa Jr and she really thought she was doing something
It’s just a name. Lol.
😂😂😂
😭✋🏾
The second she can she’s changing her name for sure
😭😭
Everything about the party look from the dress, to the makeup to the hair was amazing 😍 beautiful girl!
My heart is shedding tears of joy for her!❤️
“It’s gonna be the biggest party of the year”...
20 people show up in jeans and white t-shirts
Lmao 😂
Right. I have seen their parties and this isn't anything like it. Plus those little kids need go give approval of acceptance?!? Can they even tie their own shoes and write the alphabet lol?!?!?
🤣
Her other parties must've been either bad or REALLY small.
😂😭😂😭😂
That was the ONLY nice dress I've seen in this show LMAO
and the only classy party where there was no drama ahah
Ong
Factssss
The one gypsy video that ended wholesomely
@@megansampson5445 55e5
She looked beautiful either way and I hope she learns to love herself regardless of what other people think of her. Bless her. She is amazingly strong.
I liked this episode alot.
Support sustems, acceptance, mental and physical health accomplishments.
Love seeing these clips with such supportive parents.
"You need to lose weight." And yet you take her to a burger place?
😂😂😂
Yeah
Yea I would feel so insecure and uncomfortable eating my burger and fries with her mom saying lose wait who is she to tell her that and make her do that I mean 20 pounds in 3 weeks she must have been starving herself or something
That tells you what kind of a role figure she has in her life...Worthless
That was for the last time before she started weight loss classes.
I really wanna give the daughter a hug. You could see it in her face that she was, basically depressed. I hope she realizes she's beautiful.
I know. I felt the same way.
Lets not lie to ourselves. She might be a depressed person but shes not really "beautiful."
@@vduck7354 agree. It's just a fact that so obese people don't look pretty, good, or healthy. I've never seen such a big person in my life, I mean, in person. And I cannot understand how they can said, how wonderful she was in those dresses. Then again, yeah..what else to say in this occasion..
@@vduck7354 nah I think she’s really pretty. That’s my opinion, but to me she has an asymmetrical but very natural beauty to her face. I also like larger people cause I like soft hugs haha
really i agree she is so beautiful nd her mom is making her feel horrible
First episode that didn’t make me question what’s wrong with people. So proud of this young women. Hope she continues a healthy lifestyle & is loved for being who she is.
I love that trainer. Seems like a very good trainer and makes Mona Lisa feel better.
I don’t know how parents overfeed their kids and don’t take them to the park to play or even workout with them at home but they continue to over feed. Then when their kids are overweight they want to blame them💀
It's abuse!!!!
exactly so wierd , its allways the parents fault
@@Tobi22__ in the US maybe, outside of that it's very often the childrens fault, and starts when they have the money and freedom to buy food and drinks for themselves
Absolutely right there
They also buy their child's love with food or attempt to and then wonder why their child is shy, has low self esteem, low energy and little self identity. Nutrition and mental health are far more connected than people realize.
They spend all that money on this big party, and everyone shows up in jeans and t-shirts.
Ikr
Yeah, it is a little similar to Quinceañeras in latin America, but everybody looks their best in Quinces, almost all of the guests wear elegant clothes.
@@ValeriiaJ depends on the venue. If it’s some place nice then yeah everybody gotta dress like it prom night but if it’s at home in the backyard. Dress nice but Not too nice because most likely gonna be a lot of kids who just want to run around and play and then teens who either wanna sit around, dance, or just came for cake. And then the adults who just sit, drink, eat, cook, dance, sing and then stay up all night doing the same thing all over again until their kids get tired. My neighbors had a mariachi band and a big tent with lights and they literally won’t stop dancing and playing music until like 2am. They partied all night in the rain once...
@@ValeriiaJ yup planning mine now 😁ahhhhh
@@onepunch2310 💀💀 the little story about your neighbors 😭😭 my family parties until 6-7am at our quinces/birthdays/weddings any excuse of a celebration 🤷🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
This made me cry so much damn it hurts .. words hurt . She has todo it for her self and not for her mom .. it’s always hard to watch things like this.. I hope she feels amazing in her beautiful dress!
Honey you are not ugly, society is. You are stunning and I know what it’s like to be ashamed of being overweight and have acne. But now I’ve finally understood that you can never live up to the insane beauty standards and you should only change yourself for you, not anyone else
"The Gyspy community accepted her..."
You mean a bunch of stand-ins from the local community centre who were promised a free buffet?
RIGHT-
💀
😂😂😂
To be fair, I think these were legit family and friends. I noticed a few people who were in other episodes as well.
@@jael3177 it's an American reality TV show, it's painfully scripted as pointed out by others already.
Local Romani’s from the food bank line don’t count lol.
I liked the trainer. I’ll give them that. She was encouraging and hyped Mona Lisa up. That’s a positive way to help a young lady get HEALTHY, not just skinny
Honestly...watching that part made me want to find a personal trainer. I have zero motivation by myself but if someone hyped me up like that i would get ripped! Lol
Wait..wasn’t the trainer kinda out of shape too?
@@rubi-pe5vj lmfao yes
Kara the trainer was pretty crazy and I loved her. Such a positive person.
yep she just needs to be healthy, she’s really pretty
I pray she is able to break out of this toxic cycle. She is a gorgeous girl and seems so strong
glad she felt good because she worked hard for that dress! mom’s really misguided. my mom said the same thing to me growing up and i still get anxious and inadvertently starve myself before i see her even as an adult. i hope this girl grows up happy and healthy.
I liked the trainer, she motivated her and hyped her throughout.
That trainer looked some what chubby.
@@lucindajenkins8693 Maybe the personal trainer had a massive weight loss and has loose skin. You never know.
@@Stoopudjurcee1 shiddddd no she didn't!!
@@lucindajenkins8693 okay? I mean they can still have fat its human
@@lucindajenkins8693 plus they are working out and stuff so im sure they are on a health journey
I can’t believe she says she only leaves the house looking the best then went to the cafe in a “boss” hat
🤣🤣🤣
Its a different type of best lol
@@hambone4984 fact 🤣
And that "Angel" shirt 🤣
😂😂😂
So basically the mother shamed her daughter for 3 weeks so “her dress would fit” but they just altered the dress from a zip back to a lace up back?? 🤦🏼♀️
She seems so sweet. I hope she’s able to find herself cause I just know she has so much potential 😭
No joke but gypsy culture is just messed up
It sets women back like 50 years.
Agree. It's totally different from the original gypsy clans in history. It's just a cult now.
Its not just the gypsy community that won't "accept" her. Regular society doesn't accept obese people.
Yeap
Not really real gypsies, these people got nothing to hold on too.
She let her daughter eat unhealthy her whole life all of a sudden she want to implement healthy food in her life smh she should have did this along time ago if it’s so important she look good to be accepted in the gypsy community
true,,!!
Exactly! The mother is the reason the kid is fat - she provided all the food for the last 16 years! Mom is a monster forcing her daughter to be a carbon copy of herself - she even gave her the same frigging name! If you love your children, you love them unconditionally and let them develop their own style and personality.
Weight aside, maybe this girl doesn't aspire to looking like a Barbie doll and marrying young? The gypsy culture is a horrible, regressive one for females. They are taught from a young age their only value is in their looks, and their ability to take care of a man and a house. It's like feminism never happened!
This is the comment I was looking for.
U can eat junk sometimes but eat healthy but she has to keep fit go for a walk not sit on the couch playing games
Truth
She is such a beautiful young lady. I wanted to cry when she realized how beautiful she is
I'm so glad they were so good to her. God Bless her
My parents pushing me to lose weight and calling me “fat” is what caused me to develop an eating disorder at 15. I’m 26 now and I’m still struggling with bulimia. Lesson to be learned here: do not nag and name call your child if they’re overweight. You have no idea what that can do to ANYONE, mentally. Be better.
So sorry you went through that. My parents especially my mom was like that with me. I developed mine when I was 12 and now in my 30s, it's still there. Parents need to be careful how they push their kids to lose weight
Omg I'm so sorry to the both of you for having experienced that.
Lena Jones thank you so much
Oh beautiful read some books to help you feel great for yourself be you love you
Girl, I've been there. My grandma told me at 13 years old "you'll never be skinny, you'll always be fat" I made it to 200lbs down to 103lbs my lowest weight ever and now i have seizures and a life time of medication :D I want to be able to say I'm over it but I still feel bad about myself...
Her happiness should come first and her mum should do something with her that's fun to lose weight, not just dictate it to her
I agree!!!
She literally gave her the option. Plus what she was doing before wasn’t working. Your idea of ‘dictating’ is hilarious.
@@Xeno-Sapien exactly and honestly whether my child is in favor of loosing weight or not I’m going to give them a diet I’m focusing on their health not if they want to loose weight
@@ayyitzbaee4106 That's true, but if her mom really cared about her weight for her health, and had been trying to help her for that reason for a while it would be different. But, her mom just talks about being attractive enough so she's accepted. That's where I see the issue.
100%
What an awful mother. Hopefully that smart girl will leave!
That poor beautiful girl. She seems genuinely sad and upset. I hope her mental health will improve and that she’ll realize that she is beautiful
Lost over 20 pounds in 3 weeks?? Poor girl I hope she wasn’t starving herself. That’s a. Great accomplishment for her self esteem but I wonder if It was more then just working out every day
The more overweight a person is the easier the fat/weight comes off of them
@@c.c7606 that is inaccurate information, idk who told you that but the more overweight it’s actually harder to keep weight off
I was looking for this comment, that’s 7lbs a week of weight loss... definitely way more than is healthy (or sustainable). The usual recommendation is 1-2lbs a week, maybe a little more for her because she was heavier, but 7lbs a week is insane. I wouldn’t be surprised if she starved herself for this party and gained the weight back afterward
@@c.c7606 false actually. For someone to lose over 20 pounds in 3 weeks is so unhealthy like that is not possible unless she was forcing herself to throw up or starving herself.
@@thekalenichannel1812 how?
“We don’t leave the house unless we look our absolute best” *dressed like Kat Von D at the grocery store*
🤣😂🤣😂my thoughts exactly
LMFAO spot on 😂
Well, there’s no accounting for taste ..
Lmfao
I was like “That’s her best?” Well damn🥴
Awe I love how she felt so good about herself at the end
Amazing work
The mother over here worrying about a dress instead of her daughter depression
Girl you ain't dressing "the best of the best" unless the best is a hybrid of hot topic and Claire's in 2002.
Also, shes 15. Who's been feeding her up till now? The mom. The kid isn't buying her own groceries 🙄 she's going to grow up with so many insecurities all because of her mom.
Thwnk yku for saying it was going to comement this
Thought the same if lady wont leave unless shes dressed the "best" nobody has informed her she should stay at home and focus on being beautiful on the inside also..
@@christinalove6344 PREACH SIS 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
I thought that as well! (Who's been feeding her, comment)
Thank you!! Their dress sense is different... not the best
it put a smile on my face seeing her all shy but ik she felt extremely happy abt the way she looked🥺she is beautiful
Hearing her say that she doesn’t like anything about herself is heartbreaking... I have a daughter and couldn’t imagine allowing my baby girl to have such low self confidence. Her mama would be a wonderful asset to improving the way she sees herself if only her mother would care more about her daughter than she does herself
I'm happy for your daughter.
I've seen this a lot from women in communities/environments that encourage competition in women. Those environments are ones that pretty women fall into. Then guys want babies with them. But if those guys want daughters they better get to know the women first because...
With moms like that there can be a double edged sword.
She hates it when you look better than her. If your skinny, she will brings you down and only be happy when she fills you with food.
So you give in and destroy yourself before you even know why your doing it.
Then you're bigger and (even though she's constantly belittling you), she's happier with herself because she looks better than you.
That mom is probably so self absorbed, she doesn't even notice how much her daughter really loves her.
God forbid a parent is concerned about their childs weight problem. If your daughter was on heroin would you react like a loving mom and not scold her for being an addict? Which by the way is a disease and on the same level as obesity, anorexia, and bulimia. That mom loves her daughter, stop buying into click bait titles and use your eyes and brain to see what really going on in the video.
@@thapoppyman first off I said the way she talked to her about her weight was unnecessary.. didn’t say that you shouldn’t correct the behavior but you should also do it in an uplifting manner not in a way that would kill the child’s self esteem.. secondly the heroin shit has nothing to do with this topic.. and yes I believe that addiction is a disease but you can’t scold and demean an addict either that just makes them wanna do it even more.
@@thapoppyman there is a difference between honesty and being bitchy..idk whats ur issue and u need help..you shouldnt scold anyone if anything u should help them get thru it like a NORMAL human would do it..what ur gonna do for a person going thru a smoking issue ur gonna scold them and be rude or are u gonna walk them thru and help them get thru it
@@thapoppyman I agree with you. Mature people understand… kids just attack in the comments
This is the mother's fault raising her with unhealthy eating habits. As a young child she DID NOT buy or prepare her own food. Kids eat what the parents provide.
Right, kids arent the ones to blame for their eating habits
I have a 7 year old who refuses to try anything that isn’t grilled cheese, McDonald’s, yogurt, granola bars or sweet cereal. The food I throw away and time I waste making food she refused to eat is frustrating
And yes it’s starting to show in her weight
Cristina Richart look up some recipes for healthy “fun” looking food. Make changes now! Wish you the best ☺️
@@cristinarichart1118 please help your child find love in healthier foods, but not in a way that's demeaning or teaches that your weight is all that matters. This is coming from an 18 year old who has struggled with eating disorders for the past 5 years because she grew up on microwave meals in a household that couldn't afford to feed their entire family healthier meals. My life is a cycle of starvation and binging and even though i don't blame my mom, I wish she could've taught me healthy eating habits when I was a child.
The daughter is such a beautiful person, who seems like such a kind and gentle soul. I really hope she learns to love herself because she’s quite beautiful inside and out, 🥰
“We always dress the best” looking like she literally shops at the Salvation Army. 😂😂😂😂😂😂
thats where i buy most of my clothes recycling & reusing is good for the environment & its affordable nothing to b laughed and made fun of
@@donnyreiss1180 congratulations I didn’t ask.
@@PeddyKrueger how rude
Okay wait. Hold on now. You can shop at thrift stores and have amazing style.
@@SnapszDuhh u right tho!
"She has been under so much pressure"
Yeah bish pressure that YOU put on her
Umm she also wanted to fit in her dream dress. She would of have to put in the work if she wanted to wear it. Happy ending and she was looked very happy to achieve her goal
Exactly
@@dreamiet I doubt healthy though. The mental effects that can be left…don’t even get me started
@@VoiceDivine lol she's overweight and you think that's healthy?
She was incredibly devastated when she couldn't fit her dream dress. That's why she was incredible happy to fit her dress, after all her hard work. She should be congratulated. It's a great achievement, but instead of it being an inspirational story. It's over shadowed by Negativity. That's sad.
Losing weight is incredibly hard. She worked hard. It shows. It should be congratulated. You could see how happy she was on her night.
My cousin was obese. Her prom dress had to be custom made. She was devastated. I'm sure she wanted to lose the weight to fit her dream dress but she didn't have the determination. You honestly think that was a better outcome??? Like that didn't leave any mental effects??
Right?! This should have never been aired to the public, this is fat-shaming and irresponsible parenting and once the cameras are gone and the trainer and the “Encouragement”, it is an invitation for a severe relapse into depression. I don’t know what network decided to show this, but shame on them.
"No more of this junk" I would've stopped eating right there. It takes a HARD mental toll when your parent is lecturing you on weight and food WHILE you're eating. My mom still does this and it just makes me lose my appetite entirely and feel fat. I don't know what goes thru their minds thinking that it isn't toxic as shit to do that.
That's how I lost a LOT of weight. My ex always scolded me on how unhealthy I ate and how fat I'm becoming so I started to slowly lose my appetite to the point looking at food made me sick.
Not sure why she bought it for her in the first place..
It used to bug me until I realized the problem was my mom and not my eating
@@Thebigdogg123 how is it your moms fault they YOU'RE fat???
The word toxic is being used for anything and everything nowadays🤣🤣🤣
She looks so beautiful! Her moms attitude was horrible but the dress was definitely a great confidence boost and motivator to care for herself the way she deserves.
“We wear our best.” Ma’am that is a Ross clearance rack top from 1998…
I love the trainer. Kind, energetic, encouraging, considerate, you can just see how she’s trying her hardest to make the girl more comfortable and make it for fun for her. She wants her to enjoy it and not dread it💞
I also loved that she was for the most part average size which makes her less intimidating for a young and insecure girl.
I parent like her and used to get the same looks from my kids lol
@@annasamuelson7212 she was fat lmaoooo if it’s even a she
The pt was lovely but she was too loud for me
@@greenmanlll looking at all your other comments you seem to have a complex regarding weight. Get help.
She lost over 20 pounds in three weeks?! That's crazy!
Can't believe I had to scroll this far to find your comment. 20 pounds, under 1 month is insane. Let alone for a teen under high stress to pull off. Kiddo got chops but it's painful to watch this young beauty being constantly berated over her weight.
I hope I'm wrong but the only way she could have lost 20lbs in 3 weeks is through water fasting. I've done before. Its dangerous, gives temporary results and leads to developing eating disorders plus you gain the weight back and more once you break the fast.
When you’re larger you tend to lose weight faster. Especially with added exercises cause your body isn’t use to that movement. A change in diet also helps.
@@thEb3stEzt i agree but not that fast, I used to weigh 210lbs height 5'3 my freshmen year of hs. I wrestled in high school and even went to nationals. I would work out twice a day. In the beginning I lost about 15-20lbs in my first year but not a month. It slowed down after that. I lost a total of 50lbs but it took me 4 years. After hs I gained weight which led me to water fasting.
@@thEb3stEzt if u look it up u should not louse more then 10lbs in a month and she not that big
Wow!!! All 3 dresses looked fire on her. 🔥 The third was my fav though.
Just breaks my heart seeing all these horrible traditions in 2021 humans literally can’t evolve.
ALTHOUGH the daughter gives me some hope when she starts thinking for herself about not having to loose weight to please other people
Awe I actually loved the personal trainer and how encouraging she is
The trainer was fat
@@calisongbird she could of been bigger and loss tons of weight and now wants to help others…it worked and she seemed great at her job
@@calisongbird that’s not fat. You definitely gotta be WAY more than that to be considered fat.
IKR!! LOVE HER ENERGY
@@estela_agbegninou8337 ya if ur a woman maybe
“i want her to be confident and happy” *proceeds to body shame her*
I wish YALL would quit with that term. It’s not shaming it’s honesty.
@@Laoriginal718 the daughter is depressed and has no self esteem and the mom is saying you’re fat and you need to lose weight ya that’s honesty and definitely not gonna make the daughter suicidal 🙄
She’s her mom she obviously what’s the best for her
3:17… woah woah woah hold up.. you aren’t supposed to remove the toothpick?! 🤯
Who is this magical trainer? I love them, I praise them!
The poor girl looks so depressed, I hope she gets help
And...who's been feeding her all her life? "I know I've fed you a horrible diet your whole life and have spent almost 16 years not teaching you a healthy relationship with food, but it's about to reflect on me in a couple of weeks so I'm going all in hardcore to make it your problem." A+ parenting there /s
Couldn't agree more. My son put on weight during lockdown so when he went back to school he lost it all coz he has lots of sports I never once said anything to him about his weight coz I am the one who buys the food and cook so it's my fault not his. But now he is back into sports he can eat the same but work it off if he kept gaining it would be my job to change the diet never would I tell him he is fat ever. (He isn't) but even if he was I just could never say that to my child.
Seriously! She literally taught her disordered eating, and now wants her to flip on a dime? Terrible mom.
I sincerely hope her coming out boosted her confidence and self-esteem ❤️
*I've struggled with my weight for years, and this program has given me hope. The personalized meal plans and workouts made all the difference. I've lost 25 pounds, and i'm loving the new me!*
She has a beautiful face, but she's so sad, I can feel how low confidence she has. SHE MUST feel comfortable. And she must lose weight when she's mentally prepared for it and she WANTS to, not because of community acceptance. I think this poor girl feels trapped because her present and future is in community's hands not her :/
Nah she just has droopy eyes cause shes fat. Youre mistaking that for “sadness in her eyes”.
I hope that's the case.
By the way we call beautiful people "maral" in my country :3
@@bloomfire1998 oh wow where are you from 😂
In Armenia, we use it in literature to describe mostly an elegant, slim and beautiful girl, just as graceful as a deer. I'm not sure what language it came from, Wikipedia says it's in Mongolian, I personally believe it's in Persian. If you know more please tell me, I'm interested :3
@@bloomfire1998 im persian and it means deer in azari. Thats all i know. 😂
I hate that the mom didn’t say “she needs to find confidence in herself” instead flat out “she needs to lose weight”
Agreed
But she doesn’t need to lose weight. Once she’s at a healthier weight her confidence will soar.
@@Laoriginal718 that's not how it works
Ah well it would help
Ur disgusting for trying to normalise obesity. She NEEDED to lose that weight
This poor girl. I feel so bad for her. I wish her mom would really help her with her insecurities and depression. 😔
My parents were like that mom until one day I developed an eating disorder and then they started begging me to eat but the damage to my mental health was done. It took me 12 years to recover from that. Shame on mom for doing this to her in tv. Mona Lisa you are perfect and beautiful inside and out.
My mom was like this as well. I started drastically cutting my calories at age 12 and exercising as much as possible. I was skinny all through high school. Once I turned 18, something just clicked and now, 10 years later, I’m very overweight. I understand your pain. I’m trying to learn nutrition for myself as an adult and change my ways.
She deserves a life where she doesn’t have to lose weight “to be accepted” health is important yes but so is mental health
I hope one day she knows this and leaves
Heath is more important than mental.
Not only that but as a parent she shouldn't have been purchasing trash food knowing her daughter struggles with eating. As a parent she needed to take action quietly and not address it when it finally became a big enough problem
@@daniela-xf7kz You can't have physical health without mental health. Your mental health has a big impact on your physical health.
@@daniela-xf7kz There is a direct link between weight gain and depression
This is so abusive on so many levels. That poor girl. She is miserable.
How do you feel
“So confident” ❤ she is pure heart
That’s guy at the end had such a big smile so happy
She lost 20 pounds in three weeks?? Girrlll I’m so proud of you!!! I’m over here struggling to even get out of my bed!
Thats not healthy
That amount of rapid weight loss isn’t healthy. It’s not recommended to lose more than 1 or 2 pounds a week.
Proud? That is a dangerous amount to lose quickly.
and also the mindset she had to lose that weight is also unhealthy
I do apologize for my comment since I wasn’t aware of how unhealthy rapid weight loss is. Also how unhealthy the mindset is. Thank all for informing me about it. :)
When the mum talks about how she's happy the Gypsy community accepted her.. Like, did she really expect them to start throwing cabbages or something?
CABBAGES 😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂
My cabbages!
You’d be surprised lol
So nice to see a parent push the kid to do better
She is so beautiful 😭! She struck me so much I love that she got to see herself as beautiful too
When I saw the personal trainer I lost it 😂
I saw them right after I read this
Right?!!! Like the personal trainer was out of shape. I'm going to be nice maybe the trainer was out of shape because of the pandemic? Wait when was this taped?
I literally laughed out loud
@@solarsky3691 maybe she doesn't work out as much due to age, but still has experience with clients? But she doesn't look that old either so who knows.
😂😂 me too
She seems so kind....her mother doesn't deserve her!!!
I'm sorry but how nice is that guys smile at the end when everyone is clapping. He is absolutely gorgeous.
She’s telling her daughter to lose weight for all the wrong reasons. this culture seems so destructive
Toxic af
Very. They get married at such a young age. She should be concerned with school but we all know education isn't their thing
Its so disgusting. I couldn't imagine trying push values like this onto impressionable children. Everything about it is so backwards and dangerous.
like every culture, there are toxic views and cultural practices that are wrong, Roma's are not any different, but just know that not the whole community is like that nor agree with cultural "norms" within the community like child marriage over education, misogyny etc there are many Roma communities that value education and live moral lives, and strongly disagree with these practices and cultural "traditions", this show is just an overly dramatised stereotypical show to gain an audience, I hope you don't judge us based of this show and have a good day :D
@Flocxs - Definitely. Everything is always centered around the man's happiness. It's as if the women settle. I think what happens when the husband ever died these women have no skills. That is why I think education is very important
I think her mom cares about her, but shows it in the wrong way. When her daughter was scared she wouldn't loose enough weight, she kept saying things like "I believe in you" "you can do it, I know you can". But at the same time wouldn't seem to acknowledge her obvious depression.
You seriously think a parent telling their child they believe in them and encouraging them to achieve a positive goal is a bad thing? There's something wrong with you bro..
@@sahd0w you ignored the last part of that comment so well.