Well, I knew how to cook, clean, balance a checkbook, early childhood development, and I had been working by the time I was 16. I was paid to babysit for my neighbors. Our society is dropping population. Theres a lot of ghost towns across the USA.
@@amandab8433 yeah that would be interesting. In most of these videos there’s young sassy traveller girls in the backgrounds who show no intention of marrying young, but I wonder if the culture gets to them and they change their minds. I wonder if some of the girls that do get married young also felt the same way when they were kids. Traveller culture is so fascinating to me.
I was floored by her! And wondered why I was not as determined as she is . Amazing young girl I wish I can follow her life and see what she does with it
Not gonna lie, this was kinda horrifying to watch. The young girls being dressed in the revealing clothes and a some 10 year old boy talking about how he wants to take a girl into a dark corner and essentially pressure her into kissing him. This shit is disturbing
I love how every girls and women in that party are dressing fabulously, and the boys and men looks like they're attending a different event altogether 😂
At 20 years old or younger I suppose girls would think that no matter what culture they are from. Luckily there is a lot more to life then trying to look pretty.
Unfortunately they are removed from school because they travel from England to Ireland, and are just lost in the system, they have no education and can hardly read and write
@@lamsy1 Can the kids that want to study join the education system? I mean if their parents approve or on they own if they apply? I understand that this is a different community with its culture is unique but it must be sad for them to watch other girls develop in carrier and be independent and them just married at a very young age.
Then they move away and leave there family is hard on the cousin. They follow the husband family not my hubby he want to be close to my hubby as my mom is sick so he wants to be by her to take care of her. Which is awesome.
other cultures are not like ours. To them- the 18 year old is the weird one. Would've been like that for us a couple hundred years ago. Still disturbing tho
Yes her little 8 year old sister is very wise for her age. But i feel like she probably won't want to get married young like her sister. But if she does i wouldn't be surprised.
@@rachelmiller5076 The episode is from 2013, it'd be interesting to see what's become of them. Most of the marriages on these shows don't last, but not surprising since they are just teens. My daughter is 18 and I've told her to get an education, travel the world, find out who you are before even thinking about marrying someone.
@@amandab8433 oh wow 2013! That is definitely a long time. And yeah i also wonder what's become of them also? And i wonder if that 8 year old is still set on not getting married young. And i just have alot of questions. But anyways yeah, your daughter is lucky to have a parent like you, is awesome that you encourage her to travel and do education or something that she loves to do and enjoy her life first, and everything else can wait for a little.
Sad to know she’ll likely end up just like them. In this modern world, a women without an education is absolutely worthless. She will marry, her husband will fuck her and he will burden her with children so that she may never leave. It makes me so goddamn furious but I doubt this girl has a chance, but maybe we can hope
@@user-jl7kd1rc3p No, but it's simply not her dream. The girl may want to be an astronaut, princess, etc. I'm sure she's not thinking about cleaning someone else's house.
I can't get over how sad these girls sound when talking about their culture. It's like they know it's oppressive but don't feel like they have a choice
It's like the gypsies elsewhere, called Sinti and Roma. They deliberately marry off their daughters at a young age (talk about 14 ...) so they are bound in marriage, with little children, before they can develop a mind of their own, and become strong enough to protect their independance. It's a way of imprisoning them. They know it, but feel helpless to do anything about it. If the marriage is unhappy, and they are beaten, they still can't get out, because they have absolutely no education, can't read or write, and wouldn't be able to support themselves (let alone their children) financially. So they remain trapped, and often beaten for their whole life. Others call it culture, I call it oppression.
I think I heard / read somewhere that if they don't marry young as is expected of them or follow their culture closely the family could basically cut them off and they can't return
It's so sad to see all these girls crying because a marriage means the end of them spending time together. I don't understand why these women allow themselves to be locked away from everyone they love
They are not women. They are girls. And they're being forced to move into the next phase of a lifestyle that they don't have enough power to get out of. Sad.
Them crying in the dress shop made me cry. It’s always hard to see such beautiful young ladies throwing their lives away and talking hopelessly about their future.
@john wayne He would be working anyway.The men choose to.If they didn't like work why would they go? Why not just do something they want instead? If they do like work then why don't they do it 24 hours a day? It's their choice and they have no right to complain 🙄.
@john wayne we all have to work unless we win lotto. They can choose their job and go out and see people. The wife has to be a housewife 24 hours a day, seven days a week. All the household chores and child rearing is done by her. She has to have sex when her husband wants her to and pop out babies. There are probably very few penalties for him cheating either or leaving her high and dry if he wants out and domestic violence is common
@john wayne in these cultures women don’t have the choice to have a career. They are raised to be wives and mothers. Also being a wife and mother is work. Do you think keeping a house and raising kids is easy. It’s a job these women do 24hrs a day 7 days a week and they can’t just clock off. So no, the women do not get the easier life.
I don’t know why they’re taking it that deep though like they can’t be married and still see their family that shits weird I don’t care if it’s their culture shits weird
@john wayne Do you think these people just live in there trailer all day and never have kids? These people have big families with a lot of kids that they then take care of in a freaking RV. I have worked the 12 hour days and I have kids and at least with a job you know there is an end to the day. Being a housewife that is not an option and it is even more true when you have kids until about age 4 the will need you 24 hours a day. That's just the kids the men don't know how to do any of the house hold work they can't even do there own laundry let alone cook, clean and take care of kids all at the same time. I have 4 kids and I love my kids but if you asked be what was easier working long days with an hour drive each way or staying home with my kids working was way easier than staying home with my kids. Also I live in an area in the US that has a lot of Gypsy and Travellers and trust me those guys aren't working that hard most of them are scammers and do a whole lot of construction fraud.
Wow, her little sister is much wiser than her age. And the sparkle in her eyes & the truth in her words were incredible to listen to from such a young little lady. She’s gonna be someone when she’s older
Too bad she could get cataracts or something if she keeps opening her eyes in that tanning bed; besides the skin cancer risks of artificial light tanning.
The travelers heritage goes way back hundreds of years ago. They originated in India and then traveled to Ireland. That’s why they all have dark hair and blue eyes
17:43 Makes me sick seeing those little boys causally explaining the proper” way to grab a girl and drag her into a corner for a kiss They were even talking over each other like it was a regular conversation their parents should be ashamed of themselves. How can anyone want their son to think like that 🤢
@@ladyjmarie5569 they don’t just do that, in some of these they don’t always show but boys grabbing the brides and “kidnapping” her and the screams are horrifying.
@@idfwy_ylsabiafwy182_GiGi They aren't "too young" they shouldn't be thinking of dragging girls away period! Not ever! Doesn't matter how old they are that's a down right disgusting rapist like thing to do.
I think this is the only traveler wedding dress I've actually liked! Such a shame she was so uncomfortable on her wedding day but the fabric did look stunning!
She had it made of WALLCOVERING fabric, not of wedding gown material! Utterly ridiculous choice of fabric, especially given its necessary weight on her slender frame. Stupid vanity, always trying to outdo the last girl's gown!
Yeah when they said that material is usually used as wall paper, I was shocked! I would love my walls to sparkle like that. I wish it was a real fabric so it didn’t hurt her so much.
Gorgeous dresses. The thing I’ve noticed is that 9 out of 10 gypsy girls are stunning with fantastic figures!!! Unfortunately the same usually can’t be said of the men they’re marrying
@@Totalchaos0228 Exactly. Because all the mothers look super old and worn our whenever you see them. They don't age well. And because of how young they were when they got married, you know they can't be more than 40 -45 but look much older.
There was a Swedish politician in the European Parliament where her social media posts became viral and a scandal, as her daughter was a child bride (16), strongly encouraged by her mother. The mother seemed genuinely surprised by the criticism, because "it's their culture"
In today's world, children are sleeping around even as young as 13 and exposing themselves to adult matters and we have the "woke" parents even encouraging it and giving them "stay safe tips", I am not even surprised by this culture I'm seeing because the world itself is just so gross and becoming darker by time.
Yes! One of the girls had a Blackberry phone that I had when I was in high school around a decade ago. I wonder how many of them have gotten divorced since then because they married so young.
So we just gone ignore the little boy planning to SA someone?😭”take her into a dark room and ask for a kiss and if she doesn’t kiss you SQUEEZE her finger and it should make her give you a kiss “
Exactly what I was thinking, she’s probably seen so many couples in their community miserable, probably even her parents. She put two and two together that the reason they’re so unhappy is because they got married so young. Of course not all of them are completely unhappy I’m sure, especially because a lot of them are brainwashed into believing they have a certain purpose as a woman. So yeah, she’s a very wise little girl to notice those things
"it's the last time you have your freedom, then that's it, then you're married" It's a beautiful way to inspire your wedding-as a goodbye to your youth.... But also so heartbreaking to sincerely feel this way. Like you're not celebrating a union with your partner but a farewell to your childhood and friends.
@@christinebutler7630 that's not her point. These females don't have any freedoms after marriage. They only cook and clean for their husbands and kids. She's only 16 and has to say goodbye to her parents and whole life.
8year old Theresa is wise beyond her years-these little girls with makeup and dress so much more mature-basically all the kids are born and raised from day1 to marry young and what ?cook and clean?leave their families?!It is their culture-these weddings must cost a fortune does the Brides family pay for it all-I wish them well-❤️🙏🥂
This was from 2013, so she's of marriagable age now. It'd be interesting to see what's become of her, and her older sister. Sadly a lot of the marriages on these shows don't last. Although not surprising considering they are teens.
@@amandab8433 A marriage as a teen is way more common in the gypsy communities, but they can work. The couple just has to be committed to each other and have the desire to make it work. I was married at 17 in Texas, where the age of consent was 18, so my parents had to sign for me to get married. My husband was 22 at the time, and a college student. That was almost 36 years ago, and our marriage is stronger now than ever! We only knew each other a total of 7 months before marrying. I knew he was the one for me, and he knew I was the one for him. We are dedicated to each other and to God. That's the key. I hope these youngsters are still going strong, and the little sister is only married if she is ready!
@@julianokleby1448 Congratulations on your wonderful marriage. We will celebrate our 27th wedding anniversary, and our 35 anniversary of being together this April and June. I'm aware of the tradition of teen marriages in the Gypsy/Traveler community. Statistically in the US teen marriages are 48% more likely to end in divorce in the first ten years, as apposed to only 10% for those who marry after the age of 25. The numbers are similar in the UK. I've looked into the success rates of the marriages for the teen couples on these shows, and there is a very high rate of divorce in the first five years. Mostly due to spousal abuse. While the shows are entertaining to watch, and we all hope for the best for the couples, unfortunately most don't end well. Also that most of the young women have no education beyond the 8th grade or high school they end up back with their families, which is wonderful that they have that to fall back on.
I can’t imagine getting married at 16!! I look back at that age and I was learning to drive and worrying about what was happening on the weekends etc!! No………absolutely NO way I would have been grown up enough to be a married “girl” it’s crazy to me!! Our ways of living are so different for sure! She’s a beautiful girl!!
You learn way too much, way too fast without a doubt! By the time everyone else around you marries, you will be learnt life lessons they haven't even began to comprehend! It will either break you or make you stronger!
I’m 16 and could never imagine getting married now, I’m too young and have so much life to live. It’s so sad that this is the norm for them and they never get to experience a “normal” life.
I do agree with that, and I am absolutely against this marriage, but we also do not know what the man she's marrying is like. He may be a better guy than what we think. I'm PRAYING that he is so
@@sin3358 it’s still such a young age to marry. She may turn around at 19 and wish she’d had the chance to experience life as a free woman, not tied down to a husband and kids before even hitting 20 years old. However, the good thing about starting out young is that when her kids are grown she’ll still be relatively young so maybe she’ll get a second chance at living the life of young adult
So they happily accept that their ‘men’ can sleep around up to the day of the wedding but the girls must be pure and untouched. Disgusting behaviour on the part of these so called men.
Lots of traveller girls i know accept that they can't sleep around and don't want to... they believe in self respect, respectful of their family honour and worst thing in the world to be known as a sexually disease infected dirty show!
This is the first one I've ever seen where the dresses are absolutely gorgeous. Aside from it weighting probably as much as she does it's really stunning. And the bridesmade dresses are just a beautiful. Well done to her for not having ridiculous and gaudy wedding.
I have to agree with kitty tonic, though less in a bad way. I think it's perfect for Them, their style and their personalities. Maybe it's not traditionally elegant, and even what some might call tacky, but by God, they're FUN! To be truly "tacky" you have to take yourself seriously and believe you're not tacky--but these families are enjoying their "tackiness" and having a lot of fun with it, loving the bright colors and attention. They're saying, We're over the Top, we're deliberately tacky and we Love it, this is who we are....and that's amazing and wonderful. Edited to also say, I think it's amazing that the bride and others have no issue with All the women being over the top. No one is whinging about how a bridesmaid or cousin or mom wore a dress that tried to compete with the Bride. Everyone is dressed to the 9's and everyone's loving that with no sense of competition or jealousy. Hell, IMO, more weddings should be like this one! LOL
I like the blue dresses but I’m an ex dancer lol. I think the brides dress should have been made of different material it’s just way too hard to walk in the heels and get to where she needs to go…. Can’t dance in it….
They always talk about how they don’t want to be judged and shamed upon by others if they feel they made one tiny mistake but yet they will do exactly that to someone else who is in the same position, hypocrites!
I have no idea how this video came up on my feed, but can you please explain to me what this culture is? I thought this whole things was extremely tacky. I'm also American too lol. So maybe that's why I don't understand all of the mismatch colors and textures
@@epifan3_ Irish travelers and also English ones. What us Americans call gyspy and it IS tacky as hell but that's the point! I just love learning about different cultures.
Ypu are such a fundamentally different person at 21 than 16. There is a lot of growing and maturing that occurs in those 5 years. I hope her husband is able to grow and mature with her.
A travelling company did all the work on my new home and we became good friends. Last year, I was invited to one of their huge weddings. I had an absolutely fantastic day and I was made to feel so welcome. The bride looked incredible!
Wow. The faces of the bridesmaids look upset, and I wouldn't blame them. Getting married at sixteen, imagine devoting your life to someone at the age of sixteen. Ina is gorgeous, she's a lovely girl, but I really hope she doesn't regret the early marriage :)
She was so lucky to have such an understanding priest. I know a lot of people in his position would have just have left after an hour of waiting with no information.
As a designer you also have the responsibility to tell clients what is suitable and don't use fabric that is potentially hazardous. She's 16 after all.
I do wonder if part of the problem is that she was starving herself, tight lacing, and then wore a dress that was ridiculously heavy. So she was essentially weightlifting with no fuel and no air.
@@daniellescrochet The starving is definitely the problem. I've worn a relatively light tulle dress for a pageant but I didn't eat all day and fainted on stage. The dress wasn't the issue, it was how hot the dress is + not eating.
I've watched many a gypsy/traveler/all-kinds-of-cultures wedding and bride, but it has been genuinely refreshing to see such a cute, loyal, and even-tempered girl. She didn't lose her composure even though she had to contend with a painful dress, she really loved the boy she was going to marry, and it seemed to have been more love than money that wooed her. Best wishes!
gypsy is a slur, so dont ever use that word if you want to get punched by a romani person just say romani not gypsy. A Gypsy is a member of a race of people who travel from place to place, usually in caravans, rather than living in one place. now dont ask why i said gyspy when its a slur its cause im romani myself, calling someone a gypsy is like the N word for us, we dont like it only we each other call ourselvs that for jokes and laughs @@Nai7547
hi this is what writes on wikipedia about them: "Irish Travellers (Irish: an lucht siúil, meaning the walking people), also known as Pavees or Mincéirs[3] (Shelta: Mincéirí)[4] are a traditionally peripatetic indigenous[5] ethno-cultural group originating in Ireland" and "The Romani, also spelled Romany or Rromani and colloquially known as the Roma , are an ethnic group of Indo-Aryan origin who traditionally lived a nomadic, itinerant lifestyle. Linguistic and genetic evidence suggests that the Romani originated in the Indian subcontinent, in particular the region of present-day Rajasthan"@@Nai7547
Theresa is incredibly wise for an 8 year old girl god bless her. I think 16 years old is too young to get married, but each to their own. Got to say that these gypsy women are really stunning.
This is my favorite gypsy wedding dress I have EVER seen. Youthful and fairytale but not at all tacky or obnoxious. I LOVE the material as well! Too bad it was so heavy she couldn’t enjoy her special day :(
Not only travellers marry young I married at 16 celebrated our 53 anniversary on Valentine's day. But unlike the travelers I completed my education, went on to university gained a double and had a full career until I retired. My husband was 19 when we married he to went to university h he became a university lecturer. And yes I'd marry him again tomorrow in a heartbeat
My parents were 17 and 21 when they were married. They were together 49 years before my mom passed and had a beautiful marriage. When the divorce rate in America is pushing 60%, age doesn't guarantee a forever marriage, the couple through hard work does. Congrats to you and your husband.
My grandparents met and fell in love when they were fourteen, but they did wait to get married until their twenties. She became a successful chiropractor, and he an engineer. They were married over forty years, and together in general for over fifty. Their marriage has on,y ended because of her death last year…and he still loves her very much. He wears his wedding ring still everyday ❤️
Not really. When the daugther marry she suppose to not see her parents and siblings as her family any more and most likely just see them on weddings and simular her husband want to attend. Thats not care about family first. Daugthers are also that
Yeah when the little girl said “it’s not my dream to cook or clean” I know the bride truly understood what she was saying but she’s brainwashed to tradition
I love how all the girls at the wedding/after party/reception are dressed up like they are in a full glitz beauty pageant and the boys are literally in t-shirts and flannel button downs (like the guests not the people in the wedding but all the guests)
She needs to get some wedding photos taken asap to immortalize that gorgeous dress...and then immediately change into something more practical, so she can dance, relax, and really enjoy the reception!
The really light eyes and black hair is often called ‘the black Irish’. Very common among travellers and in the West of Ireland. Different to the Celtic look of freckles and light hair.
@@boosterbox3607 the roma/romani come from northern india yaa so i get what you mean but since irish travellers (pavees) and roma are different groups in origin and ethnicity [though both can be referred to as travellers due to their traveling associations], i think those two are being confused here haha!
@old man strength Almost :) They came from the Indian subcontinent, but because people thought they were nomadic Egyptians they called them gypcian, short for Egipcien.
@old man strength Originally they would have, but bear in mind as travellers they would have mixed and matched and bred with other ethnicities too over hundreds of years.
Contacts? How sad... What do you mean by boys eyes are different? PS: Seriously, I'm genuinely curious.... and a wee bit confused (which is not unusual for me 🤪)
I’m fascinated with these Gypsy weddings, the girls are absolutely stunning. I may not agree with the age that they marry and some of the rules within the culture but I’d still love to be friends with one of these families! I’d never be bored at their events 😆
Watching this again a year later & I must say, I absolutely adore Estella. I sincerely hope she found herself "a good person" to settle down with & who she doesn't have to "argue with lots".
All these girls are so nice, they genuenly seem like really kind and warm people. On top of that almost all of them are children. I can't believe a 16-year old child is getting married. How can a parent let their kid marry at such a young age? I feel like ever since they were little these girls were taught that their only worth something as brides, and super you at that. Ina is like almost 10 years younger that me in this video. but she looks and gives off this vibe like she's older than me. And i need to say this again, all of them really seem like great girls. Such a shame they were brought up as literally a "market meat". I don't believe every Traveller Woman is and was happy with her marriage and yet they still put their girls into the same situation. Often times the grooms are like 10 or more years older than girls. If you look at this like that: a 16 year old with a 26-30 year old. Doesn't it sound like pedophilia? On top of that Ina talking about the wedding day being the last time a girl is free - that's just fucking sick and very sad. I have mixed feelings. She kinda seems happy, but she's also really sad. I kinda feel like this wedding is the doing of her uncle and then her parents, because of "honour". IDK people can say what they want, but no one in the universe is able to convince me this is culture. This is a system comfortable for men, who just want to use their strenght to literally take advantage of children and women in general. For me that's sick. Even more sick than what is happening to women overall. And also it's scary that even those super young boys are taught such shit baisically sorry for such a long text BTW love her little sister
I kept waiting for someone else to notice this too! And why did she have it open still?! I can only assume because of the camera but literally she did everything wrong 😑
I was thinking the same thing too. I just hope she doesn’t develop an early case of macular degeneration. Eye protection when in those beds are mandatory!
Having seen many of these episodes, I'm struck by how beautiful the girls and women are. But it never seems to translate to the men. The way the women in this family look, I'd expect the men and boys to look like Elvis, but nope. What I don't understand with these dresses, is why they choose dresses that hurt, that they can't walk, dance, or even get into the car with. Also, in the days when women actually wore dresses that were heavy with material, hoops and petticoats, they wore layers between themselves and the shapewear and outer garments. This took away direct pressure and contact with the skin. Why wouldn't modern dressmakers understand this concept?
Couldn't help but to giggle when I saw the group of girls in the church wearing the polka dot dresses. Automatically my mind went into the theory that's a gang of rival bridesmaids who didn't make the cut out to claim their spot 😂😂😂😂😂😂🤷🤷🤷🤦🤦🤦
I worked with alot of gypsy brides in dublin, if I was with you I would of dressed you at the ceremony so you'd be happy and pain free, you spent soooo much money on this fabulous dress, u should be able to enjoy it xxx
I have to say that this was probably the prettiest Gypsy wedding I have seen. I LOVED the dresses! And I am not a fan of blue! But that little girl, Theresa, stole the show with her wisdom. Good on her for thinking for herself!
if you say that to a gyspy person on the street imma tell you this but you gonna get cussed out and get yo ass whooped, do research its not that fucking hard to learn about my people, and dont ever say or use gyspy its offensive and racist towards us, its pretty much the N word for us gypsies we dont fucking like it and we only use it with each other for laughs and jokes.@@emeraldgreen2001
Awe the love her cousin and best friend has for her! If only they knew if they stay single together until they are older how much fun and memories they would have together!
her little sister is such already a little young woman I love her but her sister the choice of fabric she chose this is honestly the most beautiful dress I've seen on any of these gypsy weddings I love it I would so want one just like it or at least made out of that same fabric it's so sparkly and beautiful and poofy
The times I thought I was in love as a teenager and even young twenty something were with people so ill matched to who I am in my thirties… I couldn’t imagine living in a culture where I probably would have jumped at the chance to marry one of those guys at a young age. I would be so unhappy now. Luckily, my parents have always pushed me and my siblings to spend time being single, getting to know ourselves, working on improving ourselves, and living life before getting into a serious relationship. I come from the opposite influence of cultures where people marry young. There was a strong influence to not even seriously date until it least mid twenties.
I got married really young....(19). I will make sure my kids know they have options, and encourage them to get to know themselves before they settle down. Being married as a teenager was really hard. Luckily we worked out, but we definitely are in the minority of young marriages!
I'm older than you and am still figuring out who I am and what I like in others. I can tell a bully from a narcissist and a narc from a psychopath and I've met plenty of them all. I could have ended up married to one as a teenager if I was a traveller because the detection skills at that age wouldn't have been great... Having said that, at least these gypsy girls don't have to worry about age related infertility etc.
I don't think it's necessarily a requirement to be single for a long time before a relationship. Just do whatever feels right, you can still live your life and be young and mature whilst in a relationship.
Theresa is 8 years old but one of the wisest and most determined travellers I’ve seen on this show
Well, I knew how to cook, clean, balance a checkbook, early childhood development, and I had been working by the time I was 16. I was paid to babysit for my neighbors.
Our society is dropping population. Theres a lot of ghost towns across the USA.
This was from 2013, so she's of marriagable age now. It'd be interesting to see what's become of her.
@@amandab8433 yeah that would be interesting. In most of these videos there’s young sassy traveller girls in the backgrounds who show no intention of marrying young, but I wonder if the culture gets to them and they change their minds. I wonder if some of the girls that do get married young also felt the same way when they were kids. Traveller culture is so fascinating to me.
I was floored by her! And wondered why I was not as determined as she is . Amazing young girl I wish I can follow her life and see what she does with it
I agree with her lil mama and I am 43 😂
Is no one else absolutely horrified by the little boys and the way that they were talking about getting a girl!? I was speechless!
Yes! The boys are abusive foul mouthed,
Horrendous manners, they so cocky, look at her 16 she has no idea
What's ahead.😢
Appalling.
Whilst it’s not right. That’s their ‘normal’. They don’t know any different.
which part was that? I didn't even notice them saying anything.
@@cindy77777 17:44
Not gonna lie, this was kinda horrifying to watch. The young girls being dressed in the revealing clothes and a some 10 year old boy talking about how he wants to take a girl into a dark corner and essentially pressure her into kissing him. This shit is disturbing
I thought I was the only one like why isn’t no one saying anything
Super disturbing
whcih minute is that ?
Its 17:43 @@marvin2678
@@marvin2678 almost at the ending 17:45
Are we all gonna ignore that one lady walking into the wedding with one foot in a medical boot and one foot in a high heel pump…like what an icon-
exactly!!!!!!!!!!!
That’s what I was saying! It didn’t stop her glam and I’m here for it 😂
I thought the same thing when I saw her limping across the screen! There's the real MVP...
Omg that had me rolling 🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣
I love how every girls and women in that party are dressing fabulously, and the boys and men looks like they're attending a different event altogether 😂
I know I'm surprised it's not absolutely shameful. Except for the grooms party they're all in street clothes!
They look like circus characters
I noticed the women dont expect alot from the men.
@@JLo691 yes, it an extremely gross, misogynistic culture
@@JLo691Getting raised and see that they don't deliver anything...so there never were and never will be any expectations...
“You spend half your life playing with Barbie dolls and the other half trying to look like one” damn that was deep
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Sure is. Truly scary.
At 20 years old or younger I suppose girls would think that no matter what culture they are from. Luckily there is a lot more to life then trying to look pretty.
So true.
Hence the cosmetic surgery craze.
@@mzkittym.5450 no surgery in this video
I love how the little girl said she won't be getting married young. Good for you girl!!!
But the sad part is she too will probably marry young like so many others its their ways.
Unfortunately they are removed from school because they travel from England to Ireland, and are just lost in the system, they have no education and can hardly read and write
@@lamsy1 Can the kids that want to study join the education system? I mean if their parents approve or on they own if they apply?
I understand that this is a different community with its culture is unique but it must be sad for them to watch other girls develop in carrier and be independent and them just married at a very young age.
she wont have a choice
They don't usually. A lot of the time they leave asap.
Her cousin made me sooo sad when she said "we werent supposed to leave each other till we were grey, that was the deal" 🥲
Then they move away and leave there family is hard on the cousin. They follow the husband family not my hubby he want to be close to my hubby as my mom is sick so he wants to be by her to take care of her. Which is awesome.
@@saramartinez1296 Jesus Christ it took me so much unnecessary time to understand wtf you’re trying to say. Very illiterate.
you're Latina who went with a traveller? @@saramartinez1296
That’s what happens when you get married to young
She says the cousin is "still 18 and single" like, she isn't the weird one here.
No fr & how is 16 “young” but 18 is “old” lmao
I felt as if I were a guest at this sweet wedding. You felt like a ??????
other cultures are not like ours. To them- the 18 year old is the weird one. Would've been like that for us a couple hundred years ago.
Still disturbing tho
These young girls look like a cross between Cher, mafia daughters & the Kardashians.. the ultimate Gypsy girl!
Her choice, if she wants to get on with her life before embarking on married life then good for her
Her little sister is wise for her age. And omg the girls are always gorgeous and have the most striking eyes.
Yes her little 8 year old sister is very wise for her age. But i feel like she probably won't want to get married young like her sister. But if she does i wouldn't be surprised.
Exactly! 👌🏽💯💯💯
It's the recessive genes
@@rachelmiller5076 The episode is from 2013, it'd be interesting to see what's become of them. Most of the marriages on these shows don't last, but not surprising since they are just teens. My daughter is 18 and I've told her to get an education, travel the world, find out who you are before even thinking about marrying someone.
@@amandab8433 oh wow 2013! That is definitely a long time. And yeah i also wonder what's become of them also? And i wonder if that 8 year old is still set on not getting married young. And i just have alot of questions. But anyways yeah, your daughter is lucky to have a parent like you, is awesome that you encourage her to travel and do education or something that she loves to do and enjoy her life first, and everything else can wait for a little.
6:08 “I won’t get married when I’m young, like her! It’s not my dream to cook, not my dream to clean up!” Shakes her head no! Wise little girl!
Sad to know she’ll likely end up just like them. In this modern world, a women without an education is absolutely worthless. She will marry, her husband will fuck her and he will burden her with children so that she may never leave. It makes me so goddamn furious but I doubt this girl has a chance, but maybe we can hope
I love that girl lol
Yeah, that one seems clever and perceptive, good luck to her, I hope she grows up to be an independent young woman.
Nothing wrong with having a dream to cook and clean up though
@@user-jl7kd1rc3p No, but it's simply not her dream. The girl may want to be an astronaut, princess, etc. I'm sure she's not thinking about cleaning someone else's house.
I can't get over how sad these girls sound when talking about their culture. It's like they know it's oppressive but don't feel like they have a choice
It's like the gypsies elsewhere, called Sinti and Roma. They deliberately marry off their daughters at a young age (talk about 14 ...) so they are bound in marriage, with little children, before they can develop a mind of their own, and become strong enough to protect their independance.
It's a way of imprisoning them. They know it, but feel helpless to do anything about it. If the marriage is unhappy, and they are beaten, they still can't get out, because they have absolutely no education, can't read or write, and wouldn't be able to support themselves (let alone their children) financially. So they remain trapped, and often beaten for their whole life.
Others call it culture, I call it oppression.
I think I heard / read somewhere that if they don't marry young as is expected of them or follow their culture closely the family could basically cut them off and they can't return
It's so sad to see all these girls crying because a marriage means the end of them spending time together. I don't understand why these women allow themselves to be locked away from everyone they love
Because they are idiots.
They don’t know any better sadly, it’s how they are brought up
There not locked away. They move to be with the husbands family.
@@coloradogirl5390 they move away from there friends for this guy.
They are not women. They are girls. And they're being forced to move into the next phase of a lifestyle that they don't have enough power to get out of. Sad.
Them crying in the dress shop made me cry. It’s always hard to see such beautiful young ladies throwing their lives away and talking hopelessly about their future.
@john wayne He would be working anyway.The men choose to.If they didn't like work why would they go? Why not just do something they want instead? If they do like work then why don't they do it 24 hours a day? It's their choice and they have no right to complain 🙄.
@john wayne we all have to work unless we win lotto. They can choose their job and go out and see people. The wife has to be a housewife 24 hours a day, seven days a week. All the household chores and child rearing is done by her. She has to have sex when her husband wants her to and pop out babies. There are probably very few penalties for him cheating either or leaving her high and dry if he wants out and domestic violence is common
@john wayne in these cultures women don’t have the choice to have a career. They are raised to be wives and mothers. Also being a wife and mother is work. Do you think keeping a house and raising kids is easy. It’s a job these women do 24hrs a day 7 days a week and they can’t just clock off. So no, the women do not get the easier life.
I don’t know why they’re taking it that deep though like they can’t be married and still see their family that shits weird I don’t care if it’s their culture shits weird
@john wayne Do you think these people just live in there trailer all day and never have kids? These people have big families with a lot of kids that they then take care of in a freaking RV. I have worked the 12 hour days and I have kids and at least with a job you know there is an end to the day. Being a housewife that is not an option and it is even more true when you have kids until about age 4 the will need you 24 hours a day. That's just the kids the men don't know how to do any of the house hold work they can't even do there own laundry let alone cook, clean and take care of kids all at the same time. I have 4 kids and I love my kids but if you asked be what was easier working long days with an hour drive each way or staying home with my kids working was way easier than staying home with my kids. Also I live in an area in the US that has a lot of Gypsy and Travellers and trust me those guys aren't working that hard most of them are scammers and do a whole lot of construction fraud.
Wow, her little sister is much wiser than her age. And the sparkle in her eyes & the truth in her words were incredible to listen to from such a young little lady. She’s gonna be someone when she’s older
She won't get to live it! A culture of female child abuse
She has some of the most crystal blue eyes I have ever seen. She's so beautiful... I wish she could just be free to live her own life.
Too bad she could get cataracts or something if she keeps opening her eyes in that tanning bed; besides the skin cancer risks of artificial light tanning.
Pretty sure they're fake.
They could be contacts and it looks like she is is freely living her own life
@@PanicGiraffe they’re not fake, most of the little cousins they showed at the wedding had the same eye color. Children don’t wear colored contacts
The travelers heritage goes way back hundreds of years ago. They originated in India and then traveled to Ireland. That’s why they all have dark hair and blue eyes
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Makes me sick seeing those little boys causally explaining the proper” way to grab a girl and drag her into a corner for a kiss
They were even talking over each other like it was a regular conversation
their parents should be ashamed of themselves. How can anyone want their son to think like that 🤢
I have seen videos on here where they do this!! ugh!
Rape culture at its finest, it's gross tbh
@@ladyjmarie5569 they don’t just do that, in some of these they don’t always show but boys grabbing the brides and “kidnapping” her and the screams are horrifying.
For real they're too young to be thinking of how to grab up other lil girls and it's disrespectful to them!!
@@idfwy_ylsabiafwy182_GiGi They aren't "too young" they shouldn't be thinking of dragging girls away period! Not ever! Doesn't matter how old they are that's a down right disgusting rapist like thing to do.
“Everyone has cancer just takes something to set it off” what an amazing woman in STEM
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Idkr!!! 😊
It’s called lack of education-a lot of traveller girls and women where I live, can’t even read.
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I think this is the only traveler wedding dress I've actually liked! Such a shame she was so uncomfortable on her wedding day but the fabric did look stunning!
She had it made of WALLCOVERING fabric, not of wedding gown material! Utterly ridiculous choice of fabric, especially given its necessary weight on her slender frame. Stupid vanity, always trying to outdo the last girl's gown!
Agreed gorgeous dresses
Yeah when they said that material is usually used as wall paper, I was shocked! I would love my walls to sparkle like that. I wish it was a real fabric so it didn’t hurt her so much.
I think there are more shames when marrying a child than an uncomfortable dress
The dresses are nice but to be 16 and torn away from friends and family like an object sounds terrible
Gorgeous dresses. The thing I’ve noticed is that 9 out of 10 gypsy girls are stunning with fantastic figures!!! Unfortunately the same usually can’t be said of the men they’re marrying
Because they are still very young and haven popped 5 kids yet!! They marry girls who have barley just matured.
They’re very young and definitely not in love it’s very sad how these girls have to live
@@Totalchaos0228 Exactly. Because all the mothers look super old and worn our whenever you see them. They don't age well. And because of how young they were when they got married, you know they can't be more than 40 -45 but look much older.
@@mlledj22 what do you expect they go on sun bed constantly and live off red bull.
I had a fantastic figure, too, when I had this age. The fat came in my 30s, when I gave birth.
Marriage before 18 should be illegal and prosecuted. This should qualify as child abuse. It's horrifying.
There was a Swedish politician in the European Parliament where her social media posts became viral and a scandal, as her daughter was a child bride (16), strongly encouraged by her mother. The mother seemed genuinely surprised by the criticism, because "it's their culture"
thats insane, I'm swedish and it is defenitly not in our culture. Most people here get married in their 30s. @@ellabrodin2788
In today's world, children are sleeping around even as young as 13 and exposing themselves to adult matters and we have the "woke" parents even encouraging it and giving them "stay safe tips", I am not even surprised by this culture I'm seeing because the world itself is just so gross and becoming darker by time.
I'd love to see a 'how they are now' some of these were over 10 years ago. I remember watching the first ones on tv shortly after I got married.
Are you still married?
@@richardturner5703 well she said married, not “married to my ex”
Yes! One of the girls had a Blackberry phone that I had when I was in high school around a decade ago. I wonder how many of them have gotten divorced since then because they married so young.
Oh, so the show is old and I was wondering why they r dressed up like this 😅
Not likely they're divorced as it's heavily uncommon in their community. And some of the groups will even shun you for it too.
She's such a pretty girl and it's so sad watching them get married so soon. I'm 24 and boy, has my mindset changed since I was 16. It's sad.
Exactly. I’m sorry but I find a lot of this “culture” disgusting. I had tears in my eyes at 17:46, that’s not how children should be raised.
It’s child abuse
100% agree with you! I was saying the same thing throughout the clip
how did you change ?
If I married who I was with at 16 my life would, most likely, be absolutely miserable.
So we just gone ignore the little boy planning to SA someone?😭”take her into a dark room and ask for a kiss and if she doesn’t kiss you SQUEEZE her finger and it should make her give you a kiss “
thats not SA
@@Interestinggirl-in2ne that’s literally sexual coercion with physical violence, a form of rape. That’s sexual assault love
i dont think thats rape@@serenityrobinson6634
Such a spectacle and too much revealing by all the ladies!
@@serenityrobinson6634 that's so insulting to victims of actual rape.
The 8 year old has more sense than all the others put together 👍👍
Estella is pretty good too
Exactly what I was thinking, she’s probably seen so many couples in their community miserable, probably even her parents. She put two and two together that the reason they’re so unhappy is because they got married so young. Of course not all of them are completely unhappy I’m sure, especially because a lot of them are brainwashed into believing they have a certain purpose as a woman. So yeah, she’s a very wise little girl to notice those things
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In a few years they retrained her unfortently
"it's the last time you have your freedom, then that's it, then you're married"
It's a beautiful way to inspire your wedding-as a goodbye to your youth.... But also so heartbreaking to sincerely feel this way. Like you're not celebrating a union with your partner but a farewell to your childhood and friends.
Well, it's taking on the serious work and responsibilities of adulthood, and raising children of your own; playtime and fun and games is over now.
@@christinebutler7630 that's not her point. These females don't have any freedoms after marriage. They only cook and clean for their husbands and kids. She's only 16 and has to say goodbye to her parents and whole life.
"The pain looks beautiful“
-The 5 yrs girl said with a smile
Can we just give a thumbs up to the quality and look of the corsets made by this dress designer! 👩🍳 chefs kiss 💋 magnifique! étonnante!
Yes.
Agreed.
Need her info ASAP!!
Nice to look at but clearly uncomfortable
Their built looks really good too, they don't look cheaply made.
8year old Theresa is wise beyond her years-these little girls with makeup and dress so much more mature-basically all the kids are born and raised from day1 to marry young and what ?cook and clean?leave their families?!It is their culture-these weddings must cost a fortune does the Brides family pay for it all-I wish them well-❤️🙏🥂
Oh trust me she get grabbed be married 16
@@kerrypeters4724 I hope not because "grabbing" can get really rough, it's blatantly sexual assault.
This was from 2013, so she's of marriagable age now. It'd be interesting to see what's become of her, and her older sister. Sadly a lot of the marriages on these shows don't last. Although not surprising considering they are teens.
@@amandab8433 A marriage as a teen is way more common in the gypsy communities, but they can work. The couple just has to be committed to each other and have the desire to make it work. I was married at 17 in Texas, where the age of consent was 18, so my parents had to sign for me to get married. My husband was 22 at the time, and a college student. That was almost 36 years ago, and our marriage is stronger now than ever! We only knew each other a total of 7 months before marrying. I knew he was the one for me, and he knew I was the one for him. We are dedicated to each other and to God. That's the key. I hope these youngsters are still going strong, and the little sister is only married if she is ready!
@@julianokleby1448 Congratulations on your wonderful marriage. We will celebrate our 27th wedding anniversary, and our 35 anniversary of being together this April and June. I'm aware of the tradition of teen marriages in the Gypsy/Traveler community. Statistically in the US teen marriages are 48% more likely to end in divorce in the first ten years, as apposed to only 10% for those who marry after the age of 25. The numbers are similar in the UK. I've looked into the success rates of the marriages for the teen couples on these shows, and there is a very high rate of divorce in the first five years. Mostly due to spousal abuse. While the shows are entertaining to watch, and we all hope for the best for the couples, unfortunately most don't end well. Also that most of the young women have no education beyond the 8th grade or high school they end up back with their families, which is wonderful that they have that to fall back on.
This is a nightmare. 2 hours of sleep, painful and uncomfortable dress, wedding starting almost THREE hours late… Yikes.
I can’t imagine getting married at 16!! I look back at that age and I was learning to drive and worrying about what was happening on the weekends etc!! No………absolutely NO way I would have been grown up enough to be a married “girl” it’s crazy to me!! Our ways of living are so different for sure! She’s a beautiful girl!!
Yes. Seems utterly crazy to me too. I married at 25, which I also consider too young.
You learn way too much, way too fast without a doubt! By the time everyone else around you marries, you will be learnt life lessons they haven't even began to comprehend! It will either break you or make you stronger!
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I’m 16 and could never imagine getting married now, I’m too young and have so much life to live. It’s so sad that this is the norm for them and they never get to experience a “normal” life.
@@love_is_happyiness3172 who are you to define what a "normal" lifestyle is
That was sad when she said it’s the last day when your free. You should never feel locked up after getting married.
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I do agree with that, and I am absolutely against this marriage, but we also do not know what the man she's marrying is like. He may be a better guy than what we think. I'm PRAYING that he is so
@@sin3358 it’s still such a young age to marry. She may turn around at 19 and wish she’d had the chance to experience life as a free woman, not tied down to a husband and kids before even hitting 20 years old. However, the good thing about starting out young is that when her kids are grown she’ll still be relatively young so maybe she’ll get a second chance at living the life of young adult
@@Mysteriuminiquitatis1998 True. Some people enjoy their freedom period starting in their 40s or 50s if they had kids young.
okay but her wedding dress is absolutely STUNNING im obsessed
So they happily accept that their ‘men’ can sleep around up to the day of the wedding but the girls must be pure and untouched. Disgusting behaviour on the part of these so called men.
Usually only allowed if the man cheats or is abusive, or at least that’s how it used to be. Has maybe and hopefully changed!
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I fear what this women go through
Lots of traveller girls i know accept that they can't sleep around and don't want to... they believe in self respect, respectful of their family honour and worst thing in the world to be known as a sexually disease infected dirty show!
@@natashalafontaine2807 lol so men can't catch an std? they don't believe in being pure?
Stay strong Theresa!! There’s so much more to life than what you’re seeing.
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Like what?
@@susjf8644 😂whats wrong with my profile?!
@@lanis57 u just sound stupid wym what it's life u can be what u rlly want to be if u try hard enough 🤦♀️
and not a single smile was smiled that day
This is the calmest gypsy family ive ever seen! Absolutely precious ladies full of wisdom!
This is the first one I've ever seen where the dresses are absolutely gorgeous. Aside from it weighting probably as much as she does it's really stunning. And the bridesmade dresses are just a beautiful. Well done to her for not having ridiculous and gaudy wedding.
I have to agree with kitty tonic, though less in a bad way. I think it's perfect for Them, their style and their personalities. Maybe it's not traditionally elegant, and even what some might call tacky, but by God, they're FUN! To be truly "tacky" you have to take yourself seriously and believe you're not tacky--but these families are enjoying their "tackiness" and having a lot of fun with it, loving the bright colors and attention. They're saying, We're over the Top, we're deliberately tacky and we Love it, this is who we are....and that's amazing and wonderful. Edited to also say, I think it's amazing that the bride and others have no issue with All the women being over the top. No one is whinging about how a bridesmaid or cousin or mom wore a dress that tried to compete with the Bride. Everyone is dressed to the 9's and everyone's loving that with no sense of competition or jealousy. Hell, IMO, more weddings should be like this one! LOL
I like this one too. I could see it looking really cool if the girl wearing it was modeling with a checkered background.
I like the blue dresses but I’m an ex dancer lol. I think the brides dress should have been made of different material it’s just way too hard to walk in the heels and get to where she needs to go…. Can’t dance in it….
They always talk about how they don’t want to be judged and shamed upon by others if they feel they made one tiny mistake but yet they will do exactly that to someone else who is in the same position, hypocrites!
Theresa is an old soul in a 8 year olds body. She’s just lovely! 💜
A lot of the dresses they choose are gaudy as hell but this one is actually exquisite
I have no idea how this video came up on my feed, but can you please explain to me what this culture is? I thought this whole things was extremely tacky. I'm also American too lol. So maybe that's why I don't understand all of the mismatch colors and textures
@@epifan3_ Irish travelers and also English ones. What us Americans call gyspy and it IS tacky as hell but that's the point! I just love learning about different cultures.
@@epifan3_ they’re fake gypsies.
@@epifan3_ ... think circus...
@@epifan3_irish gypsies aka travellers, nomadic families
Ypu are such a fundamentally different person at 21 than 16. There is a lot of growing and maturing that occurs in those 5 years. I hope her husband is able to grow and mature with her.
A travelling company did all the work on my new home and we became good friends.
Last year, I was invited to one of their huge weddings. I had an absolutely fantastic day and I was made to feel so welcome. The bride looked incredible!
Nice to hear a settle person being positive about Gypsies for once 😊
@@lah1667 , wonderful friends!
@@paigeleigh2554 glad to hear it....! It would be my dream to go to a traveller wedding so count yourself fortunate to have been invited!
@@lah1667, I am really grateful and we will remain friends for life. X
So lucky! I can imagine how much fun it was.
Wow. The faces of the bridesmaids look upset, and I wouldn't blame them. Getting married at sixteen, imagine devoting your life to someone at the age of sixteen. Ina is gorgeous, she's a lovely girl, but I really hope she doesn't regret the early marriage :)
And leaving your family for a stupid boy that’s probably a pig.
I get so worried about the young boys talking about grabbing girls so casually 🙁 It really instills dangerous ideals in their heads.
Most of these traveller videos the girls always have the most beautiful eyes
Dark haired blue eyed are the most beautiful Irish.
@Jen Agrippa Their hair is dyed, not at all natural.
@@kanyebreast6072 I have black hair and blue eyes (all natural) Irish ☘️
@@gypsyloutruecrimetoo3783 I'm not saying Irish people don't have natural dark hair and blue eyes. I'm just saying these girls here dont.
@@kanyebreast6072 Exactly. Many of them are blonde and dark blonde i think
She was so lucky to have such an understanding priest. I know a lot of people in his position would have just have left after an hour of waiting with no information.
The Irish traveler girls are all so beautiful! They are all great dancers and those eyes! Omg! They’re eyes r gorgeous!!
As a designer you also have the responsibility to tell clients what is suitable and don't use fabric that is potentially hazardous. She's 16 after all.
Yeah, she’s a 16 year old child who shouldn’t have been taken out of school to be married off
I do wonder if part of the problem is that she was starving herself, tight lacing, and then wore a dress that was ridiculously heavy. So she was essentially weightlifting with no fuel and no air.
@@daniellescrochet It just feels like these little girls are seen like eye-candy…
@@daniellescrochet The starving is definitely the problem. I've worn a relatively light tulle dress for a pageant but I didn't eat all day and fainted on stage. The dress wasn't the issue, it was how hot the dress is + not eating.
estella seems like such a good, soft, gentle soul. i hope she's doing well now
I would love to see these couples 5 and 10 years after they wed.
I’m thinking the same thing- like where is this couple now? 😅
I clicked on this to see an update. I saw this wedding years ago online. How many kids do they have now!
The dress maker seemed so wonderful and helpful, glad to see they have such a good person on their team.
I've watched many a gypsy/traveler/all-kinds-of-cultures wedding and bride, but it has been genuinely refreshing to see such a cute, loyal, and even-tempered girl. She didn't lose her composure even though she had to contend with a painful dress, she really loved the boy she was going to marry, and it seemed to have been more love than money that wooed her. Best wishes!
Oh fuck off. The dudes gonna be cheating in her the whole marriage and shell be trapped at home.
Could you please explain what is gypsy or traveler?
gypsy is a slur, so dont ever use that word if you want to get punched by a romani person just say romani not gypsy. A Gypsy is a member of a race of people who travel from place to place, usually in caravans, rather than living in one place. now dont ask why i said gyspy when its a slur its cause im romani myself, calling someone a gypsy is like the N word for us, we dont like it only we each other call ourselvs that for jokes and laughs @@Nai7547
hi this is what writes on wikipedia about them:
"Irish Travellers (Irish: an lucht siúil, meaning the walking people), also known as Pavees or Mincéirs[3] (Shelta: Mincéirí)[4] are a traditionally peripatetic indigenous[5] ethno-cultural group originating in Ireland"
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"The Romani, also spelled Romany or Rromani and colloquially known as the Roma , are an ethnic group of Indo-Aryan origin who traditionally lived a nomadic, itinerant lifestyle. Linguistic and genetic evidence suggests that the Romani originated in the Indian subcontinent, in particular the region of present-day Rajasthan"@@Nai7547
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I think this is the most beautiful dress I have ever seen on this how…it’s clean, not scandalous and honestly the bride looks very beautiful in it.
first people who didnt say gypsy in the comments 👍 ( dont use it, its racist and offensive we like being called romani)
@@lusandorithat isn’t a race….
Theresa is incredibly wise for an 8 year old girl god bless her. I think 16 years old is too young to get married, but each to their own. Got to say that these gypsy women are really stunning.
What women? All I see are girls 💀
The fact that she says she loves him and knows he is the one but also connotates marriage with loss of freedom is scary
Her eyes are so beautiful. Seriously is like looking at opals
Most underrated comment, “ We are all like diamonds!” To everyone girl out there remember what that little wise young girl said!
I hope she remembers it too when choosing her husband. Get her a man who treats her like a diamond
yeah rough as a badger ass and hard as nails
That was wonderful. What a charismatic kid.
Im blown away by the cultural difference. Like the clothes, wedding, everything. It’s cool but also mind blowing.
This is my favorite gypsy wedding dress I have EVER seen. Youthful and fairytale but not at all tacky or obnoxious. I LOVE the material as well! Too bad it was so heavy she couldn’t enjoy her special day :(
just say romani, the word gypsy towards us is offensive and racist, we dont like it at all.
This is the best one I’ve seen and I love how classy, no trash talk, no drama, and this young bride is VERY smart, very smart indeed. 💕💅🏻💋❤️💯
The Dress designer should have her own youtube channel! She amazing at knowing how to create sewing Art!!♥️
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I think the dress designer made a spin off Show called "Thelma's Gypsy Girls" where she teaches Gypsy girls how to make dresses.
@@covenawhite4855 that's another dressmaker! I love her too but that's not this lady
@@kandylandtarot142 Ok now I know
That wedding dress was stunning!! But I got a chuckle seeing a bridesmaid texting on her phone during the vows 😆
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Not only travellers marry young I married at 16 celebrated our 53 anniversary on Valentine's day. But unlike the travelers I completed my education, went on to university gained a double and had a full career until I retired.
My husband was 19 when we married he to went to university h he became a university lecturer.
And yes I'd marry him again tomorrow in a heartbeat
Awe I love that 💕 congratulations to you both 💕😙
That's precious. So happy for you both.
My parents were 17 and 21 when they were married. They were together 49 years before my mom passed and had a beautiful marriage. When the divorce rate in America is pushing 60%, age doesn't guarantee a forever marriage, the couple through hard work does. Congrats to you and your husband.
My grandparents met and fell in love when they were fourteen, but they did wait to get married until their twenties. She became a successful chiropractor, and he an engineer. They were married over forty years, and together in general for over fifty. Their marriage has on,y ended because of her death last year…and he still loves her very much. He wears his wedding ring still everyday ❤️
Most of yall have groomer gpas and dads 😢
What I respect about the travelers is their family VALUES. They take care of each other. They stick together. Family is everything. Love it.
Not really. When the daugther marry she suppose to not see her parents and siblings as her family any more and most likely just see them on weddings and simular her husband want to attend. Thats not care about family first. Daugthers are also that
Yeah when the little girl said “it’s not my dream to cook or clean” I know the bride truly understood what she was saying but she’s brainwashed to tradition
I love how all the girls at the wedding/after party/reception are dressed up like they are in a full glitz beauty pageant and the boys are literally in t-shirts and flannel button downs (like the guests not the people in the wedding but all the guests)
All so they can be those lazy guys' mommy bang maids. I hate this culture, the women are so amazing and get taken for granted as a rule.
She needs to get some wedding photos taken asap to immortalize that gorgeous dress...and then immediately change into something more practical, so she can dance, relax, and really enjoy the reception!
The really light eyes and black hair is often called ‘the black Irish’. Very common among travellers and in the West of Ireland. Different to the Celtic look of freckles and light hair.
I could be wrong but don’t the original travelers come from India? So that would make sense
@@boosterbox3607 the roma/romani come from northern india yaa so i get what you mean but since irish travellers (pavees) and roma are different groups in origin and ethnicity [though both can be referred to as travellers due to their traveling associations], i think those two are being confused here haha!
@old man strength Almost :) They came from the Indian subcontinent, but because people thought they were nomadic Egyptians they called them gypcian, short for Egipcien.
@old man strength Originally they would have, but bear in mind as travellers they would have mixed and matched and bred with other ethnicities too over hundreds of years.
@old man strength That much inbreeding over hundreds of years would be really bad.
I'm sure she's heard this a million times, but my God her eyes are gorgeous! Poor thing though, couldn't even enjoy her wedding being in so much pain
OMG!!!!! I can't stop focusing on Ina's eyes! Her eyes are stunning!!!!
Enhanced by coloured contact lenses, it's a must for celebrations, even for the little girls. The little boys have different eyes.
Contacts? How sad... What do you mean by boys eyes are different?
PS: Seriously, I'm genuinely curious....
and a wee bit confused (which is not unusual for me 🤪)
@@ileanamuntean7338 No, they all have pale eyes, including the children and grandma. Children do not wear colored contacts.
I think her eyes are real
I do not think they’re contacts at all. Why are you assuming it’s contacts? Weird.
Her eyes remind me of Elizabeth Taylor
It’s cute how close her and her friends are they seem very genuine. This is like the only wholesome gypsy episode I’ve seen
I’m fascinated with these Gypsy weddings, the girls are absolutely stunning. I may not agree with the age that they marry and some of the rules within the culture but I’d still love to be friends with one of these families! I’d never be bored at their events 😆
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Right!? I want to go to one of their weddings so bad! They also have the prettiest hair I’ve ever seen. I want long hair so bad. Lol
They're quite low SES families so there are a lot of fights and things as there's a lot of stress and substance abuse
@@MsJubjubbird What does SES mean?
@@lauramannyvlogs6675 socioeconomic status
Watching this again a year later & I must say, I absolutely adore Estella. I sincerely hope she found herself "a good person" to settle down with & who she doesn't have to "argue with lots".
The dresses were works of art! I wish this sweet young couple every happiness.
Those young girls are just lovely. Theresa is going to be something special with such a wise and smart personality.
All these girls are so nice, they genuenly seem like really kind and warm people. On top of that almost all of them are children. I can't believe a 16-year old child is getting married. How can a parent let their kid marry at such a young age? I feel like ever since they were little these girls were taught that their only worth something as brides, and super you at that. Ina is like almost 10 years younger that me in this video. but she looks and gives off this vibe like she's older than me. And i need to say this again, all of them really seem like great girls. Such a shame they were brought up as literally a "market meat". I don't believe every Traveller Woman is and was happy with her marriage and yet they still put their girls into the same situation. Often times the grooms are like 10 or more years older than girls. If you look at this like that: a 16 year old with a 26-30 year old. Doesn't it sound like pedophilia? On top of that Ina talking about the wedding day being the last time a girl is free - that's just fucking sick and very sad. I have mixed feelings. She kinda seems happy, but she's also really sad. I kinda feel like this wedding is the doing of her uncle and then her parents, because of "honour". IDK people can say what they want, but no one in the universe is able to convince me this is culture. This is a system comfortable for men, who just want to use their strenght to literally take advantage of children and women in general. For me that's sick. Even more sick than what is happening to women overall. And also it's scary that even those super young boys are taught such shit baisically
sorry for such a long text
BTW love her little sister
Seeing her eyes open in that tanning bed with no eye protection made me cringe. I work in a salon, and that’s the biggest no no here in the US states.
I kept waiting for someone else to notice this too!
And why did she have it open still?! I can only assume because of the camera but literally she did everything wrong 😑
@@ASMRKay_ she wor her full outfit too
I was thinking the same thing too. I just hope she doesn’t develop an early case of macular degeneration. Eye protection when in those beds are mandatory!
Having seen many of these episodes, I'm struck by how beautiful the girls and women are. But it never seems to translate to the men. The way the women in this family look, I'd expect the men and boys to look like Elvis, but nope.
What I don't understand with these dresses, is why they choose dresses that hurt, that they can't walk, dance, or even get into the car with. Also, in the days when women actually wore dresses that were heavy with material, hoops and petticoats, they wore layers between themselves and the shapewear and outer garments. This took away direct pressure and contact with the skin. Why wouldn't modern dressmakers understand this concept?
It’s almost the same thing people say about Slavic girls and men lol
IT costs too much money.
It quite literally the only day that they will be celebrated...its pretty sad actually
Women are hotter and beetle looking then most men that’s just facts
That poor preacher out of breath was probably counting the seconds until it was over
That dress is actually so beautiful and classy. I like it much more than other wedding dresses of the sort. It's absolutely stunning
I tell you what.. this is the first wedding I’ve seen from travelers that looks well done.. and I just love her 8 yr old sister..
" its not my drean to cook, not my dream to clean up " that lil girl gon be a real woman😂
So women who look after their families aren't really women? Shame on you.
Yikes what a wild take. Caring for my family makes me a fake woman.
‘It’s not my dream to cook or clean up’…….girl you better GO!
Couldn't help but to giggle when I saw the group of girls in the church wearing the polka dot dresses. Automatically my mind went into the theory that's a gang of rival bridesmaids who didn't make the cut out to claim their spot 😂😂😂😂😂😂🤷🤷🤷🤦🤦🤦
This made me crack upppp 😂😂💀💀
Dress that’s hard as a rock, falling on your wedding day, being in a stressed mood.. absolutely dumb way of getting married
I worked with alot of gypsy brides in dublin, if I was with you I would of dressed you at the ceremony so you'd be happy and pain free, you spent soooo much money on this fabulous dress, u should be able to enjoy it xxx
I don’t know why no one, in any episode, has ever done that
I have to say that this was probably the prettiest Gypsy wedding I have seen. I LOVED the dresses! And I am not a fan of blue! But that little girl, Theresa, stole the show with her wisdom. Good on her for thinking for herself!
what are gypsies ?
if you say that to a gyspy person on the street imma tell you this but you gonna get cussed out and get yo ass whooped, do research its not that fucking hard to learn about my people, and dont ever say or use gyspy its offensive and racist towards us, its pretty much the N word for us gypsies we dont fucking like it and we only use it with each other for laughs and jokes.@@emeraldgreen2001
im confused. Is she a gypsy or traveller?
Let's not ignore how beautiful she is. The eyes are glowing! And she's so sweet and loving. Or, atleast what I've seen from this. Lucky man 🙌
Awe the love her cousin and best friend has for her! If only they knew if they stay single together until they are older how much fun and memories they would have together!
her little sister is such already a little young woman I love her but her sister the choice of fabric she chose this is honestly the most beautiful dress I've seen on any of these gypsy weddings I love it I would so want one just like it or at least made out of that same fabric it's so sparkly and beautiful and poofy
Her sister is the smartest on the show bless her I hope she has a wonderful life
Everytime I see a wedding: “Where did they get all the money??!!” 😂😅
her eyes are absolutely STUNNING
Can I just say... That dress is absolutely stunning! A dress literally out of a fairtytale movie. ❤️
These women are stunning!! I love the 8 yr old, what a little diva
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So smart too!
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She's just smart and knows what she wants
Her 8 yr old sister just stole my heart ❤️❤️❤️😘😘😘
That's the nicest dress iv seen in the traveler show. Good luck to you both in your new life. X
The times I thought I was in love as a teenager and even young twenty something were with people so ill matched to who I am in my thirties… I couldn’t imagine living in a culture where I probably would have jumped at the chance to marry one of those guys at a young age. I would be so unhappy now. Luckily, my parents have always pushed me and my siblings to spend time being single, getting to know ourselves, working on improving ourselves, and living life before getting into a serious relationship. I come from the opposite influence of cultures where people marry young. There was a strong influence to not even seriously date until it least mid twenties.
that’s why she will have a big family. and you will have cats 🤗
I got married really young....(19). I will make sure my kids know they have options, and encourage them to get to know themselves before they settle down. Being married as a teenager was really hard. Luckily we worked out, but we definitely are in the minority of young marriages!
I'm older than you and am still figuring out who I am and what I like in others. I can tell a bully from a narcissist and a narc from a psychopath and I've met plenty of them all. I could have ended up married to one as a teenager if I was a traveller because the detection skills at that age wouldn't have been great... Having said that, at least these gypsy girls don't have to worry about age related infertility etc.
I don't think it's necessarily a requirement to be single for a long time before a relationship. Just do whatever feels right, you can still live your life and be young and mature whilst in a relationship.
@@deedranicolehooks that's not that young atleast you was grown
This had to be my favourite line up of dresses on the show!! The fabric on the brides dress was fabulous