@@valcaldwell3867 it depends on who you are, and what you’re capable of, how jail is going to go down for you as an individual. For some people jail is a death sentence, for some people they rule it from the inside out. The fact that we’re even having this discussion just proves how broken the system is.
@@ChrisCom. So what were her options? Get forced married or go into the system in some way. Getting arrested takes less time than a welfare investigation.
Lol I'm gonna guess the mom doesn't wanna deal with her daughters crazy ass anymore so shes tryna pass her off on some dude like well shes your problem now lol
UPDATE: chelsey didn’t marry her cousin, she moved away and got married to a man that she chose and had kids. her mom and two brothers got arrested for a shooting and drug trafficking. karma is a bitch 😻😻
I don't think it's lazy parenting in this case. I think the mom just thinks this is the only way. Her views are going to be so warped form how she was raised. She genuinely thinks this is what is best, and even though it may work, it could also do the complete opposite and make her act out even more.
Peachgames it’s really a sad ass existence, they all live in trailer parks with other Gypsies and most of the men become independent contractors, landscapers, construction workers etc..,
UPDATE: chelsey didn’t marry her cousin, she moved away and got married to a man that she chose and had kids. her mom and two brothers got arrested for a shooting and drug trafficking. karma is a bitch 😻😻
It's so weird this guy said "marry her CHILD" instead of saying something like "marrying this woman". He basically called her a child & who tf marries one?
Even if your child does want to marry you should always make them wait unless they have known that person for years and you have to and they are way older than enough
Even if the child wanted to be married, she shouldn’t be allowed to. Her cousin is 23, a full grown man!!! Her mom is one some crack thinking it’s all fine.
I actually got chills from the conversation with her daughter and the cousin. Mom is saying she's wild, and the older cousin can basically control her and tame her... This is a very disturbing culture...
The wild one with a level headed calm person is a good match. But not in the sense of calming down the wild one. They are opposites which makes it good but only when it’s mutual attraction
See she’s just 16 years old she doesn’t know what she wants and her mother doesn’t want her to make more trouble or mistakes that will tarnish her reputation and her mind I like the idea of arrange marriage bcs parents know what their kids needs and guess what if she would keep going with this behaviour she would end up dead, the more women have sexual partners or even just partners the more they won’t be able to connect with her partner and she would always compare the guy she with with her exs which and she would start slowly drift away from the guy on top all that women with a big body count have a lot bad experiences from other guys she was with and it usually then a current guy needs to deal with which is unfair
@@graciekaeri no you should disrespect the tradition, when they are forcing someone to get married and he’ll probably force her to have sex with him because she’s very clear she doesn’t want him
@@Suchwerewolf Unfortunately, this is true. Several states don't have a limit on how young the child can be. Parental and/or judicial consent is all that is needed.
@@Ikajo that’s so fucked up. I live in Australia and so far as I know, legal age for marriage is 18, or 16 with parental consent and lots of people consider THAT to be messed up
@@Suchwerewolf I live in Sweden 🤷🏼♀️ my country have steadily closed every loophole possible to protect people. No marriage under 18 for one thing and it is illegal to force someone into a marriage. There used to be a grey area if people arrived already married with one party being underage but I'm pretty sure that has also been addressed. But yeah, it is messed up that it is legal in the USA.
they all end up divorced pretty quickly because they were too goddamn young, inebriated, or stupid to know what they were doing was a really IDIOTIC MOVE.
You're right, as a non-gypsy I DON'T understand abusing/cheating on your wives, marrying your blood family, selling your daughters off, and dressing your toddlers like hookers. Don't understand it one bit.
Mama crystal and 2 of her boys got arrested recently for a shooting that left 3 people injured including a 7 year old. they also found meth, heroin, and weed in the house. But chelsey was the problem????
The whole family was under investigation for drug trafficking. Chelsey was arrested in 2019 and sentenced to 2 yrs in jail plus probation. She was already serving weekends when she was arrested for having heroine laced with fentanyl. www.pressreader.com/usa/cecil-whig/20190823/281771335847801
Wait... it's her third cousin. Humanity doesn't have much genetic diversity due to several bottlenecks. Nobody on the planet is more genetically distant than fifth cousins. If you're not black, it's a lot closer than that. (Most human genetic diversity is sequestered in Africa.)
It's a backwards brainwash culture, how can any man want his teenage daughter to marry and have kids before she reach 18, only to be trap in a trailer with multiple kids before she reach 21, no education no skills..
When someone says “there is no other way” to keep controlling their 16 year old child than to force her to get married the law should intervene. At that point, culture and tradition can’t excuse abuse
“ she’s angry and confused “ she isn’t confused ! She just doesn’t want to get married . The more you push someone into doing something they don’t want to do the more they’ll push back 🤦🏼♀️
Exactly! She was saying that she shouldnt fight it. Then her mom told her that she had already picked out her wedding dress for her and she was like nope
This mother claims to love her kids more than anything else but is forcing her daughter to become a child bride to her 23 year old cousin that she doesn't even know... how maternal 🙄
This culture is so oppressive to these young girls. It baffles me watching these mothers force their daughters to do things they don't want to do. I wish there were extensive laws against arranged marriages. Absolutely awful.
There are, and they're called human rights and the rights of the child laws which I'm pretty sure the USA is a signatory to. Chelsea and other girls in her situation need to seek out a human rights lawyer. They could also go to a woman's shelter or reach out to a domestic violence organization. She was smart to get herself arrested, which is a sad thing to say. I hope she got access to a lawyer and spoke up about her evil mother and pedophile cousin.
You are absolutely right 💯 This is not the BEST for their daughters! These are children being married off to these less than desirable men! It's not right!
UPDATE: chelsey didn’t marry her cousin, she moved away and got married to a man that she chose and had kids. her mom and two brothers got arrested for a shooting and drug trafficking. karma is a bitch 😻😻
UPDATE: chelsey didn’t marry her cousin, she moved away and got married to a man that she chose and had kids. her mom and two brothers got arrested for a shooting and drug trafficking. karma is a bitch 😻😻
Just watching all of these videos about gypsy children who want to get with the times and modern society makes me want to start a business of running a rescue sanctuary where they can come and stay, much akin to a boarding school, and be protected from overbearing parents trying marry them off in this manner. SAVE THEM!!!
What I can’t get over is how negative this tv show us perceiving the gypsy family and traditions. In all honesty the gypsies I know don’t act like this and the other families at all
@@shykur i also dont know families who act like this.. or arrange marriages.. hell, they start "homedating" at 16, wich means the guy only gets to chill with the girl, at her parents house.. and it doesn't have to be a gypsy guy.. can be anyone, but no cousins allowed 😂
A good start would be changing the laws. 12 states have no no minimum age for " marriage" and others are as low as 12. At least one religion considers 9 year old girls fully " women" and able to be not only married but have carnal relations. They become trapped as they can't even take legal action to get free as they are children. Once they have children of their own, their fate is forever liked to their " husbands".
candy sanchez nope, a lot of people agree on an arranged marriage. And ofcourse they meet the person before marrying them. Happends a lot in asian culture. You can also just divorce. In case you cannot divorce, or ur forced to stay in an unhappy marriage, it is called “forced”
An arranged marriage is a marriage that your parents arrange for you while you are under the age of 18 and it doesn’t matter whether you want to marry the person or not the mass majority of arranged marriages are forced
Lucy Ziegler stating from which facts? Unless you have statistics it’s based on your own opinion which is not valid. However in India, most couples get married through arranged marriages which most of them actually prefer. Cbsnews states that 90% of marriages are arranged. . A 2013 IPSOS survey found that 74 percent of young Indians (18-35 years old) prefer an arranged marriage over a free-choice one. Proof me wrong please with facts.
Idk how it never clicked in my head until I read your comment that majority of the moms that appear on this show trying to marry off their daughters are either single moms or are on their 2nd or 3rd husband.
I dont know if I'm more concerned about her being 16 and him being 23, The fact that they're cousins, Or the idea that this shit is LEGAL in Maryland....
Daniel- it actually seems the daughter is more intelligent and a lot classier than her own mother. I think her mother trained her to be trash and if she can get away from her mother completely, i have i feeling shed grow up into a much better person. I think jail is actually going to save her and thats just goddamn sad.
I plan on marrying my daughters off once their baby teeth fall out I thought fuck it I can't be selfish I must make sure my daughters have great futures
The fact that the cops arrested her and are addressing the fact that her mother is forcing her to marry somebody she doesn’t want to marry is insane. Children are not objects like property their human beings and this is so messed up.
@@Skyler_Momoko no, that's actually the original tradition believe it or not...in my country they marry them off when they're 8 ..the boys are 11 or 12..crazy...absolutely crazy..but the saying makes sense if you think of 7-8 as the age your feet might touch the floor when sitting down in a chair.
“Crystal came up to me to marry her child.” Okay I get tradition......way back then!!! Now I just can’t even fathom marrying off my kid at such a young age!
dat1 Dude9229 Yes....that just adds to the craziness! If you think about it. It is what many people did back in the days. It wasn’t “taboo” it was just that...the thing to do even now but I hear ya. I’d kill myself lol before my family trying to marry me off to any cousin!!!!
Liz M that’s so triflin I could never ever ever just settle with a family member idc where they fall in the family if we are raised as family we are family that’s how I see it
She's like: ill die for my kids, ill protect them with everything in my being Also mom: I'm marrying my 16 year old daughter to her 23 year old cousin because she's out of control
I love how her mother picking out her dress was the straw that broke the camels back, not marrying her cousin or getting an arranged marriage at 16, no, it’s the DRESS!!
“Crystal came up to me and asked me for my hand in marrying her child” ... emphasis “CHILD” , woooooow how are these people not mythical beings of the old already 🤦♂️
"If you sit your child down and her feet touch the floor, she's ready to get married" Babygirl my feet were touching the floor when i was like 10 what kind of saying is this
🤣🤣🤣 can you really take a parent seriously when they say: "you gotta get your life together, you gotta start a family" to their 16 yr old? Lol omg. When my daughter turns 16 she better NOT be thinking about marriage lol. Go to college girl, get your degree -it'll last longer
I mean at 16 I could see myself getting married at 25, I wanna study, travel and get a job. For now I’m focused on getting through my studies and one day having my own veterinary surgery.
@@JeSsLoVeZ1817 in the U.K. it’s illegal to tattoo anyone under 18 even with their parent’s consent. I got tattooed quite heavily between the age of 14 to 19. I’m now in my 40s and it cost me over £7000 to get them covered up especially the inappropriate ones that are funny at 16 but cringey once you’re out of your teens.
Most of the time they dont even pursue predators who go after 16 year olds cus of how the consent in most U.S. states is 16. Thats why the oldest you will see is a 15 year old decoy.
Im so upset for her and everyone forced into a marriage esp at a young age. Especially. Hes 23 . he rly is like tryna marry this girl who is 16 and HIS COUSIN.
Your daughter literally went and got arrested so she won’t have to marry him if that doesn’t tell you something idk what will
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When going to jail sounds better than an arranged marriage to your cousin.... 😬
Yep
🤦🏻♀️😂😂😂
Shittt true
Sweet home Alaba- @-@
It's almost like she did it on purpose 🧐
This girl is incredibly smart, she intentionally got herself arrested so she could stay safe in the system.
Sadly this is not a safe option, jail is dangerous. I agree though that she got arrested on purpose in hopes of staying a while to escape.
@@valcaldwell3867 it depends on who you are, and what you’re capable of, how jail is going to go down for you as an individual. For some people jail is a death sentence, for some people they rule it from the inside out. The fact that we’re even having this discussion just proves how broken the system is.
Idk if smart is the word I would have chosen. But she’s something alright
@@ChrisCom.
So what were her options? Get forced married or go into the system in some way. Getting arrested takes less time than a welfare investigation.
@@NotoriousBroadcasts You must have inbreeding in you’re family too. It’s not your fault you are slower then the rest of us. Cousin loving weirdo’s
i’m 16 and i cannot imagine marrying, let alone marrying a cousin?!
Who’s 23!!
Same i am to I would run away anything’s better than that 🤢
@@mummypig9414 omg I knor right?! I'd run away too.
I'm 18, in uni, and STILL figuring out life. I can't imagine being forced to marry, with a COUSIN especially- yikes.
“It’s about time to settle down”. She’s freaking 16 years old!!!
And he’s 23....that’s very illegal
Welcome to the South, my friends
@@YeahitsMeSylvia They were in Maryland, so that would be New England area. Not the South.
Lol I'm gonna guess the mom doesn't wanna deal with her daughters crazy ass anymore so shes tryna pass her off on some dude like well shes your problem now lol
@@potterfan201 Maryland is a mid-Atlantic state...definitely not New England.
"Chrystal came up and asked me to marry her child, I'm honored." Go to jail, sir.
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Its time for ✨therapy ✨
I literaly shouted "Oohhhnnoooaaawssno"
also said I'm "excited"
so gross.
“Getting her married is going to settle her down.” No it’s not.
pitbullfiend5 no she is amazing and don’t body shame people you horrible human
@@pumpkinpaws2363 she is technically obese though, you can't deny the fact.
The other replier is just an idiot.
Wtf why are people being a$$holes in here. Like seriously get a life...
UPDATE: chelsey didn’t marry her cousin, she moved away and got married to a man that she chose and had kids. her mom and two brothers got arrested for a shooting and drug trafficking. karma is a bitch 😻😻
@@tlclookism Oof we did not ask for the opinion of a bottom feeder on what qualifies as obese. 😂
So her child is out of control and instead of parenting her she thinks it is best to go marry her off to a cousin. Talk about lazy parenting.
Thank u!!!!
I think that's the reason why the daughter is so wild because she doesn't want to end up like her mama.
She's not wild! She just wants a normal life!
I don't think it's lazy parenting in this case. I think the mom just thinks this is the only way. Her views are going to be so warped form how she was raised. She genuinely thinks this is what is best, and even though it may work, it could also do the complete opposite and make her act out even more.
@@tyffaneelavely8087 yeah its not lazy parenting, she is parenting w all her strength, just has some peculiar beliefs ab the right way to do that
You really want your 16 year old to marry a 23 year old smh crazy
And he is so for it lol he sounds so creepy when he talks about the 16 year old
Who looks forty
And to her cousin no less!
What I don’t understand is how they keep their traditions going. Like how are they able to get a house or a proper job?
Peachgames it’s really a sad ass existence, they all live in trailer parks with other Gypsies and most of the men become independent contractors, landscapers, construction workers etc..,
The mom has the word “bitch” tattooed on her arm. The epitome of class y’all.
That's what I'm saying!
UPDATE: chelsey didn’t marry her cousin, she moved away and got married to a man that she chose and had kids. her mom and two brothers got arrested for a shooting and drug trafficking. karma is a bitch 😻😻
@@lanitaadelreyes but i saw a picture of them getting married??
😂😂😂😂😂
@@lanitaadelreyes gurrrrrl really?
It's so weird this guy said "marry her CHILD" instead of saying something like "marrying this woman". He basically called her a child & who tf marries one?
I caught that too
A pedophile marries a child in that US state clearly
If your child doesn’t want to get married then you can’t force her that’s child abuse.
It ain't child abuse it's just disgusting🤮
Its child trafficking
Even if your child does want to marry you should always make them wait unless they have known that person for years and you have to and they are way older than enough
Even if the child wanted to be married, she shouldn’t be allowed to. Her cousin is 23, a full grown man!!! Her mom is one some crack thinking it’s all fine.
“iTs A tR4d|tI0N” lol That excuse is already old with some Countries and Religion
Why is she forcing her child into something she clearly is not comfortable with? That's not cool.
Because she's the boss. Duuh😶
Grapes Keith I get it’s tradition but if they aren’t ready they aren’t ready ya know.?
i'm andji she’s supposed to be her mum
Not cool? more like flat out abusive 😭😭😭
Because her daughter will be old enough to legally run away and move out soon, so she marries her off with consent to keep control?
I actually got chills from the conversation with her daughter and the cousin. Mom is saying she's wild, and the older cousin can basically control her and tame her... This is a very disturbing culture...
you mean grom
The wild one with a level headed calm person is a good match. But not in the sense of calming down the wild one. They are opposites which makes it good but only when it’s mutual attraction
I'm with you all the way. My blood ran cold then hot, then my head started hurting like it was going to explode.
See she’s just 16 years old she doesn’t know what she wants and her mother doesn’t want her to make more trouble or mistakes that will tarnish her reputation and her mind I like the idea of arrange marriage bcs parents know what their kids needs and guess what if she would keep going with this behaviour she would end up dead, the more women have sexual partners or even just partners the more they won’t be able to connect with her partner and she would always compare the guy she with with her exs which and she would start slowly drift away from the guy on top all that women with a big body count have a lot bad experiences from other guys she was with and it usually then a current guy needs to deal with which is unfair
The fact that he’s actually excited to marry his cousin 😩😩😭😭
16 yr old cousin at that! I don’t understand. He isn’t a bad looking dude. He couldn’t find someone his age who’s not his cousin??
@@kaylao.3326 I mean its their tradition. You shouldn't disrespect other's traditions like that if you never understood them.
@@graciekaeri no you should disrespect the tradition, when they are forcing someone to get married and he’ll probably force her to have sex with him because she’s very clear she doesn’t want him
He even said that hes marrying a child
That has been a custom formally of humanity until like late 1800 and early 1900s
“ marriage is legal with parents consent”...what about her consent tho!?
Is not needed... in several states that's the case
@@Ikajo are you serious??? That’s... that’s child abuse
@@Suchwerewolf Unfortunately, this is true. Several states don't have a limit on how young the child can be. Parental and/or judicial consent is all that is needed.
@@Ikajo that’s so fucked up. I live in Australia and so far as I know, legal age for marriage is 18, or 16 with parental consent and lots of people consider THAT to be messed up
@@Suchwerewolf I live in Sweden 🤷🏼♀️ my country have steadily closed every loophole possible to protect people. No marriage under 18 for one thing and it is illegal to force someone into a marriage. There used to be a grey area if people arrived already married with one party being underage but I'm pretty sure that has also been addressed.
But yeah, it is messed up that it is legal in the USA.
It’s like she is setting her 16 year old up to get raped and pregnant, it’s sad 😞
its hard to think this is still even happening in the US..
@@jjww1 it sadly happens in very small towns all the time
My mom married my dad when she was 16 he was 25. Was kind of an arrange marriage. Was her second marriage LOL
@@GuyFromTheSouth Wtf?!?!
That's exactly what it is, and it goes against the rights of the child and other human rights as well.
Dude messed up his tattoo, incest isn’t spelt “p-r-i-d-e”
Thought he was trying to spell "pedophile"
Omg yessss
True that lol
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Lol 😂 😂
Okay where is her moms husband since she wants to force people to get married?
Or in Jail
Lol yep 👍👍
What a surprise.... her mother's single.
She looks like an ex wife if I ever saw one..
they all end up divorced pretty quickly because they were too goddamn young, inebriated, or stupid to know what they were doing was a really IDIOTIC MOVE.
You're right, as a non-gypsy I DON'T understand abusing/cheating on your wives, marrying your blood family, selling your daughters off, and dressing your toddlers like hookers.
Don't understand it one bit.
They use their so-called culture to excuse their behavior. Completely wrong, immoral and illegal.
Mama crystal and 2 of her boys got arrested recently for a shooting that left 3 people injured including a 7 year old. they also found meth, heroin, and weed in the house. But chelsey was the problem????
Damn!
Honestly Id find it oddly outta character if they didn’t commit foul & disgusting crimes as a family. It’s the Gypsy way of life!
@Allison Hunter www.wmar2news.com/news/region/cecil-county/deputies-heavy-police-activity-in-hollingsworth-manor-area-residents-asked-to-stay-away
Chelsey also moved away and has a different husband, with kids. So she got away from all of that at least.
The whole family was under investigation for drug trafficking. Chelsey was arrested in 2019 and sentenced to 2 yrs in jail plus probation. She was already serving weekends when she was arrested for having heroine laced with fentanyl.
www.pressreader.com/usa/cecil-whig/20190823/281771335847801
Disgusting to Marry cousin.
And to force your child to marry at 16! I meant whaaaat??? Lol
Wait... it's her third cousin.
Humanity doesn't have much genetic diversity due to several bottlenecks.
Nobody on the planet is more genetically distant than fifth cousins.
If you're not black, it's a lot closer than that. (Most human genetic diversity is sequestered in Africa.)
What in the Alabama is going here?!?!?!?!?!?!
It's a backwards brainwash culture, how can any man want his teenage daughter to marry and have kids before she reach 18, only to be trap in a trailer with multiple kids before she reach 21, no education no skills..
@@jason4275 I know, it's filth. I'm 31, single with no kids. Alot cousin marriage happens here in the UK unfortunately.
When someone says “there is no other way” to keep controlling their 16 year old child than to force her to get married the law should intervene. At that point, culture and tradition can’t excuse abuse
Agree
“Asked for my hand 🖐... in marrying her CHILD ... I’m honored “ 😷🤮🤢🤮
He made the keyword KEY HER CHILD SHE'S 16 HE'S 23
That turned my efing stomach as well. Glad I'm not the only one who gagged on that sick crap.
I was starting to wonder if I was the only one who caught that. That's so disgusting, he wants her bcuz she's so young.
@@laibasheikh6437 they both look way older than they are.
😂😂 the way he said it thow.
So basically the mother went through the family album to find her daughter a husband...
Happens more often then you think if it’s an old world group that’s xenophobic to outsiders they got to keep it in the family to keep the clan pure!
Yup
She twirled on that Rolodex 😂
The family tree is a snake eating its own tail
She really said “ girls can’t do what they want they can’t marry who they want”
Yeah like why not?
“ she’s angry and confused “
she isn’t confused ! She just doesn’t want to get married . The more you push someone into doing something they don’t want to do the more they’ll push back 🤦🏼♀️
Exactly! She was saying that she shouldnt fight it. Then her mom told her that she had already picked out her wedding dress for her and she was like nope
Thank you ren
This mother claims to love her kids more than anything else but is forcing her daughter to become a child bride to her 23 year old cousin that she doesn't even know... how maternal 🙄
He is a Distant one
Mental* 😂
Victoria Umukoro Tf? Distant or not, THEY’RE STILL COUSINS NO MATTER WHAT. It’s purely disgusting.
She knows him, they're family...Distance would at least be family you didn't know exist
Victoria Umukoro omg dont try to find an excuse for it its disgusting
This culture is so oppressive to these young girls. It baffles me watching these mothers force their daughters to do things they don't want to do. I wish there were extensive laws against arranged marriages. Absolutely awful.
There are, and they're called human rights and the rights of the child laws which I'm pretty sure the USA is a signatory to. Chelsea and other girls in her situation need to seek out a human rights lawyer. They could also go to a woman's shelter or reach out to a domestic violence organization. She was smart to get herself arrested, which is a sad thing to say. I hope she got access to a lawyer and spoke up about her evil mother and pedophile cousin.
You are absolutely right 💯 This is not the BEST for their daughters! These are children being married off to these less than desirable men! It's not right!
All imma say is thank you God for making me a “gorger”.
UPDATE: chelsey didn’t marry her cousin, she moved away and got married to a man that she chose and had kids. her mom and two brothers got arrested for a shooting and drug trafficking. karma is a bitch 😻😻
catilynn da man are you serious
@@khaliahdixon3154 yes
@@lanitaadelreyes FTW with the update!!
Agreed, Hallelujah
If it's culture, it doesn't mean it's right
I agree. Some cultures have traditions or ways of life that should be left in the past
UPDATE: chelsey didn’t marry her cousin, she moved away and got married to a man that she chose and had kids. her mom and two brothers got arrested for a shooting and drug trafficking. karma is a bitch 😻😻
Facts
Just watching all of these videos about gypsy children who want to get with the times and modern society makes me want to start a business of running a rescue sanctuary where they can come and stay, much akin to a boarding school, and be protected from overbearing parents trying marry them off in this manner. SAVE THEM!!!
Great idea!
What I can’t get over is how negative this tv show us perceiving the gypsy family and traditions. In all honesty the gypsies I know don’t act like this and the other families at all
You trying to start worldwar 3?? 😂😂
@@shykur i also dont know families who act like this.. or arrange marriages.. hell, they start "homedating" at 16, wich means the guy only gets to chill with the girl, at her parents house.. and it doesn't have to be a gypsy guy.. can be anyone, but no cousins allowed 😂
A good start would be changing the laws.
12 states have no no minimum age for " marriage" and others are as low as 12.
At least one religion considers 9 year old girls fully " women" and able to be not only married but have carnal relations.
They become trapped as they can't even take legal action to get free as they are children.
Once they have children of their own, their fate is forever liked to their " husbands".
Its not an arranged marriage when it’s forced. It’s either an arranged marriage or a forced marriage, and I’m pretty sure it’s the last one.
candy sanchez nope, a lot of people agree on an arranged marriage. And ofcourse they meet the person before marrying them. Happends a lot in asian culture. You can also just divorce.
In case you cannot divorce, or ur forced to stay in an unhappy marriage, it is called “forced”
An arranged marriage is a marriage that your parents arrange for you while you are under the age of 18 and it doesn’t matter whether you want to marry the person or not the mass majority of arranged marriages are forced
E.Z. S Incorrect actually most arranged marriages happen before the child is even born
Lucy Ziegler stating from which facts? Unless you have statistics it’s based on your own opinion which is not valid. However in India, most couples get married through arranged marriages which most of them actually prefer. Cbsnews states that 90% of marriages are arranged. . A 2013 IPSOS survey found that 74 percent of young Indians (18-35 years old) prefer an arranged marriage over a free-choice one. Proof me wrong please with facts.
@@lucyziegler A arranged marriage is a marriage that is arranged by family. Could be an aunty. It can be at any age.
I'm getting lesbian vibes from the daughter.
I see I'm not the only one who got those vibes from her!! A lesbian knows a lesbian..Lol
Definitely gay.
Yup
E. Reyes yup
That's the first thing I thought when I saw her
“Chelsey is now in the hands of the law” well better than in her cousins hands eh? 🤣
So you’d die for your children but not let them marry who the choose?
*well... okay den*
and make them marry their 23 yr old cousin
Where are the dads? Since the moms talk about how a gypsy man will take care of you, but a lot of these moms don’t have a man?🤷🏻♀️
probably working. the women aren't allowed to work
They're out scamming
@@christinarodriguez7843 lol q
There "working" all around the country and staying with there other wives and girlfriends.
Idk how it never clicked in my head until I read your comment that majority of the moms that appear on this show trying to marry off their daughters are either single moms or are on their 2nd or 3rd husband.
Why do I feel when she says “you can settle my child down” she means beat her.
SAME. That mom wants her daughter to be beat into submission, it sounds like.
There is no way on earth that I would marry my cousin 🥴🤢🤮
I couldn’t agree with you more!😳
People are weird
i smell alabama all over this video. honestly nasty 🤮
Neither would I, and I’m a gypsy meself 😂
Amelia Maguire lol 😂
1. She 16
2. He’s 23
3. THEY’RE RELATED
WTF
This is so sad
Ain't it good to be a "gorger"😂😂😂❤✋🏽✋🏽
Nasty the fuck
I feel like number 3 should be a the top of the list the age gap is disgusting but Incest is disturbing
Soooooooooo crazy 🤦🏻♀️
Daughter: Lesbian Vibes
Mom: Meth Vibes
She is totally gay.
@@Moonlava722 shit I rather be gay than marry my cousin too 🤣
Oh oh
@@chichigettheyayo7654 No cap fam.
Facts💯
I dont know if I'm more concerned about her being 16 and him being 23,
The fact that they're cousins,
Or the idea that this shit is LEGAL in Maryland....
3rd cousin is legal everywhere lol
This Mother just want her daughter far away from her. So let's go marry the child. 🙄😔
lol no
@Daniel Youngblood well the mother did raise her it's the mother's fault
Daniel- it actually seems the daughter is more intelligent and a lot classier than her own mother. I think her mother trained her to be trash and if she can get away from her mother completely, i have i feeling shed grow up into a much better person. I think jail is actually going to save her and thats just goddamn sad.
This is giving me cigarette and bed bugs vibes 🥰
Plus the hangover LOL
Hahahahahaha foreal though!!!!!!
😂😂😂😂😂
the emoji sends me 💀
💯💯💯💯
That poor girl,to get arrested just to stay "free" is disgusting. I hope she's an adult doing well and loving who she wants now.
Never take advice from a woman who tries to rock the "wet hair" look.
Gag.
😂😂😂😂😂lol
Seriously. This really is a red flag.
Also, she has a lip ring.
OMG... 🤣😂💀
That’s not wet that’s chicken grease brah lmao 🤣🤣
I’d rather die alone then marry someone in my family.
🤣🤣🤣🤣 I definitely agree ! Shit, not to mention Everybody in my family is mentally unstable ! 😕
And he really be like, "She asked me to trap her underage daughter into marriage with me and I was honored."
She don’t want to marry him she literally got arrested cuz she don’t want to marry him
I notice all these mothers are single and mad as f at life.
Being arrested would be better than marrying her cousin. The mom is not in the right and should be ashamed.
WHEN THEY ZOOMED IN ON HER REFLECTION IN THE BUSTED MIRROR 💀
PLSSS💀
ISTG I J SAT THERE AND WHEEZED DURING THAT SCENE LMFAO
PUHLEASEEEEE 💀
When ur feet touch the floor ur ready for marriage ...some logic there guys
I plan on marrying my daughters off once their baby teeth fall out I thought fuck it I can't be selfish I must make sure my daughters have great futures
@@briguy9922 im going to marry off my children once they're born like im not bein selfish theyneed to stop crying it's so dramatic!
😂😂
Man I'm 19 and my feet still don't touch the ground, I've never been happier to be short
I know! I shot up in height when I was about 13, so if I was this ladies kid she would have wanted me to marry when I was in 7th grade 😑
Her reflection in that broken mirror is a great symbol as to what her life is going to look like.
The fact that the cops arrested her and are addressing the fact that her mother is forcing her to marry somebody she doesn’t want to marry is insane. Children are not objects like property their human beings and this is so messed up.
"If you sit your child down and her feet touches the floor they are ready to get married"
My six year old tall ass self back in 2011: 👁👄👁 sowwri wat?
literally same I was super tall, my feet touched the floor in like 2nd grade... I was so grossed out!
@Cyndi Rothrock LITERALLY they be on a WHOLE 'nother level of stupid!
My feet don’t touch the floor and I’m pushing 40
@@Skyler_Momoko no, that's actually the original tradition believe it or not...in my country they marry them off when they're 8 ..the boys are 11 or 12..crazy...absolutely crazy..but the saying makes sense if you think of 7-8 as the age your feet might touch the floor when sitting down in a chair.
Same i was 5 ft when i was 11
Thank goodness in New York you can't get married until you're 18, even with parental consent.
That's a rough looking 23. It just makes me feel icky to imagine being with a cousin 🤢
🤣🤣🤣 IKR???!!
23???? Yes, once upon a time!!!!!!
23 looking 35. This whole thing is gross
@@Artemis_jay years of abuse 💀
If my cousin and I are stuck together for too long WWIII would happen
*"it's either my way or no way"*
*Me: hehe my way my way or the high way*
I was hoping someone had commented this lol
@Mackenzie Stanton yesssss🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 YEET
These comments are too cringe lmfaooo
Choosing the highway.
MOM IS THE REASON WHY SHE HAS A PROBLEM WITH THE LAW.
I dont know what is more disturbingly. That they are both related or that he is so excited about getting married.
Im an adult and im not ready for marriage let alone a child
I’m 18 and I want neither of those things 🤷🏾♀️😂
"settling down" when her life barely has started is CRAZY
The imaginary when Chelsea looked into the broken car mirror is so sad. I hope you gets the life she wants
“Crystal came up to me to marry her child.” Okay I get tradition......way back then!!! Now I just can’t even fathom marrying off my kid at such a young age!
It's not the arrangement that bothers me it's the fact that she wants her to marry her own cousin lol
dat1 Dude9229 Yes....that just adds to the craziness! If you think about it. It is what many people did back in the days. It wasn’t “taboo” it was just that...the thing to do even now but I hear ya. I’d kill myself lol before my family trying to marry me off to any cousin!!!!
So true
@@briguy9922 Both should bother you.
Let alone to a COUSIN
Child abuse.........period
That’s so gross. A 23 year old wanting to marry a 16 year old.
When you call your future wife “child” there’s something wrong with you
Why would you want your daughter to follow what you did? It did NOT work for you. STOP THIS CRAP!!!
Her cousin is a good choice because they already know him?... L O L if that's the only prerequisite just go ahead and marry your brother smh
Liz M that’s so triflin I could never ever ever just settle with a family member idc where they fall in the family if we are raised as family we are family that’s how I see it
HES 23 ! WTF! Why would she want her daughter to be with him ugh. Poor girl 😣
Petition to save all of these gypsy teenagers
I’m 23 and when I sit my feet still don’t touch the floor.
Oofffff
Me too
Well then your jst short..good for you...I mean..I’m sorry 4 u
The 16 year old kinda looks like a female justin bieber ngl
Literally just thinking this 😂 just shows Justin beiber is a handsome boy and beautiful girl 😂
Omg yesss🤣🤣🤣
If this woman was a better mother that child wouldn't be in so much turmoil
She's like: ill die for my kids, ill protect them with everything in my being
Also mom: I'm marrying my 16 year old daughter to her 23 year old cousin because she's out of control
She should put more effort into cleaning and decorating her house give her daughter some jobs around the house like 🤢
Out of everything you are the most concerned with the house? She's marrying her 16-year-old daughter to her 3rd cousin!
@@zoewashburn4678 I think the original commenter was trying to say that instead of marrying off her child she should focus on herself and her home
AGREED. That trailer is absolutely disgusting.
absolutely. i agree.
The fact that it's discussed as something they HAVE to do as opposed to WANT to do...?
Guy: Hello how are you today
Girl: *Ignores and gets on her phone*
Mom: So I think you two are a perfect match
😂
has anyone else noticed that every time the moms say they marry at 16,17 you never see the husband anywhere??
I love how her mother picking out her dress was the straw that broke the camels back, not marrying her cousin or getting an arranged marriage at 16, no, it’s the DRESS!!
Making ur 16yr old daughter marry a 23yr old man. REALLY ISNT THAT ILLEGAL. disgusting
Nope, some states you only need to be 15 with parents permission.
@@leahmcqueen5019 PA switched to 18 no exceptions to be married.
Mom " she's angry and confused"
Literally everyone "oh she's angry but definitely not confused, she ain't getting married"
I don’t think the law says “ a 16 year old can be forced to get married because the parents say so “
When she got arrested all I could think was 'good for you'. I feel like that was the only way she felt like she could stand up to her mom
Is no one going to talk about how she’s only 16 and he’s 23?!
Disgusting. And the fact that her own mother is encouraging it 🤮
It’s disgusting and illegal
The girl's 16 (a child). The guy's 23 (but looks 35). Um...excuse me??? Is that even legal?
"called in support"
she is the mom that calls police, claiming her child as a runaway when the child was *escaping* abuse
Welllll, looks like I’m on this side of RUclips again.
He's a grown man and the fact he's excited to marry his cousin. 🤦♀️🤦♀️ Tf?
As soon as she said that her daughter was marrying her 3rd or 4th cousin I died on the inside from wheezing too hard.
As soon as she said that her daughter was marrying her 3rd or 4th cousin l died on the inside from. wheezing too hard.
“Crystal came up to me and asked me for my hand in marrying her child” ... emphasis “CHILD” , woooooow how are these people not mythical beings of the old already 🤦♂️
Exactly what I was thinking
I don’t think she’s gay I think she has a very strong character a lil tomboyish
"If you sit your child down and her feet touch the floor, she's ready to get married"
Babygirl my feet were touching the floor when i was like 10 what kind of saying is this
Most of these marriages are fake
🤣🤣🤣 can you really take a parent seriously when they say: "you gotta get your life together, you gotta start a family" to their 16 yr old? Lol omg. When my daughter turns 16 she better NOT be thinking about marriage lol. Go to college girl, get your degree -it'll last longer
Fr. I’m 16 and start college in September. I don’t see myself getting married till after UNIVERSITY and after I’ve gotten the job I want.
@@lifeofannemarie5866 thats u
I mean at 16 I could see myself getting married at 25, I wanna study, travel and get a job. For now I’m focused on getting through my studies and one day having my own veterinary surgery.
This mom really asking her 16 year old don’t you think it’s time for you to settle down? I’m almost 30 and I’m not even 😂
She’s 16, and she got tattoos and piercings? Woah
@bubble gumgirl69 some legit parlors won't do tattoos until 18.
@@JeSsLoVeZ1817 in the U.K. it’s illegal to tattoo anyone under 18 even with their parent’s consent. I got tattooed quite heavily between the age of 14 to 19. I’m now in my 40s and it cost me over £7000 to get them covered up especially the inappropriate ones that are funny at 16 but cringey once you’re out of your teens.
What would be funny is if Chris Hansen from “To Catch A Predator” shows up. Then they tell him it’s the state of Maryland and he has to leave. 😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💯💯💯💯yesssssss
Most of the time they dont even pursue predators who go after 16 year olds cus of how the consent in most U.S. states is 16. Thats why the oldest you will see is a 15 year old decoy.
This is creepy AF. You can tell she's not wit it
Im so upset for her and everyone forced into a marriage esp at a young age. Especially.
Hes 23 . he rly is like tryna marry this girl who is 16 and HIS COUSIN.