Bride Wants A Dress Triple The Cost Of Her Father's Budget! | Say Yes To The Dress Atlanta
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- Bride Jennifer and her mother are in paradise looking through the hundreds of wedding dresses available for fitting. Meanwhile, her father watches in panic as each suggested dress comes in way above his preferred budget.
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"I like expensive things." Yeah, because you're not paying for it! See how much she likes to shop once she needs to be responsible for herself.
I'm sure she married a rich man. Just listen to how she speaks of him. Of what he's done for her.
Then her hubs will pay for it
But wears blue eyeshadow! Yikes!
Well, I like expensive things, too. I just don‘t buy them. 😂😅
Hopefully the husband is rich 😂
Why do some people think expensive is equal to the best. That's not always so.
I think that a seamstress could make a beautiful, simple dress for $2000. A wedding dress is only going to be
worn for a few hours and then boxed up. Another dress will be worn for the next wedding...
@@paulaltman9751 there are some women who actually have found ways to recycle their wedding dress to get their money’s worth.
So true. Some of the episodes where they go with an insanely expensive dress, the dress is hideous.
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Because people are shallow, that's why.
2:29 “she sees the one dress i’ve been trying to avoid” *dress is positioned perfectly towards the door and camera*
I was looking for this comment haha
That's what I thought 😂❤
I'm laughing for this comment over and over 😭🤣
Literally same thought
Exactly what I thought lol it was so obvious
It is a completely different thing to see a dress on a model and seeing it on yourself.
yeah, i feel like a big part of the reason why she was unhappy with all those other dresses is because they didn't look the same on her as they did on the models. i tried so hard to find dresses that were specifically designed for and modeled on plus-size brides for that reason but there's just not much out there. wish i knew how to sew, i'd start my own line 😂
True! When I went dress shopping, my sister pointed to a dress on a model and said "that's your dress"....I laughed, it was AWFUL.
I tried it on to amuse her. It was like the 7th dress I tried on. The second I saw myself in it? I BAWLED. It was the dress. I was married in it. 11 years ago. It's still my dream dress after watching these videos.
touche!!!!! TOUCHE!!!!! model almost a foot taller than her, and slender, with copper skin.
@@inheritmyshoes9559 😍 WOW
Yeah especially when your more than twice the size of the model, not in a bad way but most models are very long and very not curvy
I would never ask, let alone insist that my Daddy pay for a dress out of his budget. If she wants to go over budget then she should pay the difference.
yes!!! I have always been unclear to why the bride doesn't just pick up the difference in cost?
I would never insist at all that my parents even spend a penny on my wedding. It is my and my partners wedding, not theirs
I always wonder why these brides don't offer to pay for the difference. I can understand you wouldn't be able to if you're 19, but if you're working already, be a grown up and pay.
I agree 100% Tonya
Yup. Ever since I got a job and start making my own money, I never asked anything from my parents considering how much love and money they spent on me just to grow up the way I am...Not saying you shouldn't ask for financial help from your parents but at least put a limit on it.
Mom is horrible for encouraging her daughter to disrespect her father's boundaries. He's not a piggy bank. He's your dad.
I don't think you should be proud liking expensive things if you can't afford it yourself.
THIS! Can't stand grown women acting like spoiled brats.
Nothing wrong with liking expensive things even if you can't afford them.
Just don't expect people to use their own hard earned money to just give them to you! Save up or admire them from afar. 🤷🏽♀️
@@anitachakita - It's interesting when people say _"grown_ women," when "women" means they're _adult._ It adds an extra degree of derision
to the user's opinion.
@@wholeshebang1 never thought about that... although it's kinda obvious. Good point
@@wholeshebang1 LOL it's exactly how I meant to portray it. Grown @ss women - 26 years old. She even started crying after trying on two dresses like a baby because she was afraid she wouldn't find a dress.
$2,500 is more than enough money to find a beautiful wedding gown.
That's true and if she wants more than she should be able to pay for it.
IKR!
VERY 👰♀️ TRUE 👍
I wish I would've had $2,500 for my wedding dress, if my Dad was willing to spend that much, I think I would've passed out in pure appreciation.
Unfortunately it's these wedding dress shows convincing young women that 2k is the minimum to spend. I would want to stay under 500 and then would hope for minimal alterations and a bargain veil.
My friend went to a bridal salon to buy a wedding dress. Her parents offered to pay for it. She didn't want her parents to pay for it because the father was later off & had some trying times. The dresses she saw in the bridal salons were all too costly . She found a wedding dress at a Salvation Army that was really really GORGEOUS, she bought it w/out even trying it on. She took it home and put it on. Showed her parents, they were shocked cause they knew it was an unaffordable designer dress w/ a big ass hefty price tag. This left the parents speechless. When she told them the price, again, they were speechless. Grand total of $ 49.00. Then it was a pink tag which made it half off. Total price was $24.50. And WHAT A GORGEOUS DRESS it WAS...Everybody at the wedding remarked about that dress. She told the groom at the reception and he spit his white wine across the room. (FUNNY)....groom told her previously that her dress was quite expensive looking. Veil came from a bridal salon. The designer dress,.........compliments of Salvation Army !!!!!!!! A portion of money she would have spent went to animal sanctuary. She did right by her parents. Not so THIS bride.
When my sister got married there was a wedding dress shop in our town that was going out of business and she got a beautiful dress for $25 too. SHe looked amazing
I did theatre for a very long time, and the things I could find at a Goodwill when the costumer was stuck on what to put me in would shock you. It's the place where all disgruntled newly divorced women dump their dresses. I've found more than one designer wedding dress there, the best one being a Vera Wang for $30.
That is why I donated my wedding dress to a donation store also. I knew there had to be someone that would be able to use it.
I was in a charity shop the other day and they had some really beautiful wedding dresses. I would be more than happy to buy from there if a dress happened to fit me perfectly. I actually saw the identical dress to the one my sister paid £1000 for in a local charity shop. It was £25! It needed the big petticoat underneath but apart from that it was perfect. I do hope someone bought it and had a wonderful day.
Where do I find this place....? Im a single Pringle but I want a wedding dress to look pretty🥲
I really was ready for the most beautiful dress when they talked about it being $7,000…..it looks like a fantastic cake
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It was quite hideous
I literally said to myself it looked like a cake lol
I was thinking it looked like a bedspread.
The second dress looks hideous and the bride isn't really helping the dress be beautiful, she looks like payton's mom from dance mom, but younger, and the third dress it was okeish, and what was the dress she chose?
As a middle-class indian girl, It's disheartening to see this daughter slautering her dad's budget like this. I feel bad for him! Girl ! If you like expensive things , make yourself capable of buying it 🙃🙃
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I don't know why you said you were an Indian (as if that matters). I watched a video the other day of an American Indian girl who slaughtered her father-in-law's budget. It was their retirement money. I was abhorred.
@@amyblack9251 because a middle class Indian girl d appreciate the value of money and hardworkmanship: I worked with Indians in my construction sites, tough lives .
@@seda161 that didn't really answer my perplexion.
@@amyblack9251 the answer is not with me : she is highlighting the tough background: your comprehension is not my interest ; this bride is slightly 27years old (as she states if am not wrong): over budged dress /at least pay 💰 the half of it . As for Ms.Agarwal : she could bring up her ethnicity as much as she d like 👍🏻 as it’s relevant to define the degree of thoughtfulness & appreciation level: end of conversation.
She's lucky enough her dad is willing to pay that much for a dress my dad would straight up be like well that's what your new husband is for 😂🤣
Ya, betcha‼️👍🍷🎉
Literally or he would say no or pay the difference🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
She doesn't like her reflection in the mirror. She is inconfident. She dreams of looking like models, but it's impossible. That's why she hesitated so much
Good comment.
Yes, I think she'd have been happier to find a dress shape that suits her curvy figure better.
She looked like Lil Bo Peep in the first gown.
I was thinking the same thing that she lacks confidence and her appearance.
The sales people should always bring bride dresses better suited for her body shape ( sale commission 101), along with the bride's fantasy one's she's picked out. The bride on her own will discover the sales person one's are the best suited & look fantastic on her ( if the sales person knows their job).
☆These sales people have to step it up.
Mom doesnt even respect dad's budget "I think if we find the perfect dress, dad will cave." Daughter (bride) "I don't CARE if we go over budget " Sickening. So disrespectful.
Both are disrespectful of him.
That’s OK just put it on a charge card🥴 I felt bad for her Dad but in the end they always cave.
Spoiled Brat!!!
look at the father's face throughout this whole ordeal. he was sweating. not literally. but, he was concerned and uncomfortable. he did not enjoy the experience, because he was afraid for his pocket.
shows are edited, but sometimes we read between the lines. mom was eager to get the $7,000 dress, even though she knew the budget. she and daughter totally disregarded it while going through the racks. mom was clearly disappointed that daughter did not like the dress, but couldn't put up an argument. this is not the first time they did this to dad. my feeling is, they truly wanted to hurt his pocket. ALL of them would know why.
Dad should have not caved!!!
Dad should have just not paid at all and just let her pay it herself since she wants an expensive dress sickening selfish brat
“I like detail. I like rich... fabrics. I like expensive things” 🙄 Then save up your own money to pay for the dress
The difference of someone having no taste but liking big price tags
How can someone spend their parents money without feeling guilty at all?
Everyone who wants to get married should have their own savings.
Very easily. I mean I've seen people having no problem spending the money of people they don't even know, lol.
Or be willing to have a very simple wedding
Because they are our parents, that's their duty, tf is wrong with you ??? where are you from ???
She is used to do it for sure. The parents did not teach this air head the real cost of money.
@@lawtraf8008 it's not your parents duty to give you whatever you want with no limits. That's called bad parenting.
That is a big budget, I don’t get how any bride can’t respect whom ever is willing to pay, if it’s not enough pay it yourself….
… and there are a lot of beautiful wonderful fantastic gowns around without a big price
She was taking cues from her mom. The mom had no respect for dad's budget so why should the bride.
@@Suzu777 very true
It did look the best on her. I do blame the mom too. She was pulling some expensive dresses herself. But really, its the moms money too.She should know what they can afford. But, i also think she should have some respect for the dads budget.,
$2500 is not a big budget. We just bought my daughter's dress with that same budget and there was maybe 6 dresses in that price range. We walked out with a $7k dress. It us what it is
@@eringarcia5532 wow, it's so funny when i look at my wedding dress from 1975 . It was 80 dollars. Real nice too. My daughter in law was married in 2010 and her dress was beautiful and it was less than 500 dollars. I would never spend 7,000 in a dress. I don't care if i was wealthy or not. Weddings in general for the whole thing are outrageous! You can have a great wedding for a fraction of the cost if you want. I've been to many.
Dad's choice was actually perfect for her shape and looked fabulous on her
Ikr?! That one was my favorite too
Dad is paying for everything?!? Im guessing the entire wedding. Poor dad but they both raised her to be a brat 🙄
Like mother like daughter
I wouldn't do this to anybody that is so disrespectful you never do that to someone you love especially your parent And honestly if my parent was paying for my wedding dress I would stick to the budget and not do this kind of crap that isn't right
Totally agree.
@@sowmyaaxoxo 😩😂🤣🤣🤣
and poor groom, he's in for a lot of debt.
As a middle schooler I felt bad asking my dad for $60 shoes. Now that I’m grown I still wouldn’t ask my dad for anything like this woman!! What’s wrong with her!?!
It's how they're raised. Daddy's probably caved all her life.
Bringing up by her parents! The same ones you feel sorry for
I'm 19 and I feel bad when I ask my dad to get me a pack of gum at the Grocery store.
You can tell that this girl has been SPOILED and her mom was too.
@@DreamMakeup-h4k You have a sane sense of duty and responsability. They are not spoiled, because it would take the whole responsability off of them and place it on whoever raised them up. But every man and woman, after reaching the age of maturity, which is 12, according to Jewish Torah and vonsequently the Bible, of a sane, responsible reasoning, owes it to him/herself to guard and guide their own person in the best possible conduct regarding their own being and the people around them!
Therefore, I would not call it spoilt, just plain "slavery to their sinfulness".
No respect to father or spouse that we whitness here is the essence of the mayor lack of reapect towards God Creator and Redeamer, which is the sole reason of ALL our SUFFERING here on Earth! So, to summarize - they are just very very IGNORANT. The lack of knowlege is the root of EVERY sin/crime!!!
If those people knew better, they would have acted upon it! Even if that father himself knew better, he would have been the cornerstone, not the mere vallet of the family! And his voice would be heard, cherished and RESPECTED!
We reap what we saw.
But thank you for preserving your sanity and sounding it loudly in this insane, wrathful society lacking direction. You will be a leader in your community!
Normally the parents pay for half the wedding and couple pays for the other half or brides fmaily and husbands family pay for half
What’s wrong with that mother? She should put her child in place, tell her to stick to the budget, and tell her to be grateful she doesn’t have to pay for things herself like so many others have to do. Brats.
I get the impression that Dad has plenty of money, however, you can understand his hesitation in buying a dress over the budget he set, because poor Dad is paying for the whole wedding.
You can have plenty of money, but not waste it.
You are only wealthy if you earn more money than you spend.
The dress is for one day, and she isn't playing for it.
I thought the same.
You can also save money elsewhere in the wedding.
Dad could be in serious debt. We don't know.
Especially considering so many marriages end in divorce..
Tell me you're spoiled without telling me your spoiled.
How do these people live with themselves?! I'm 22, getting married next year at 23. Had £1500 saved out of my hard earned money for my dress. Found my dream dress for £2000, went back to save and found THE dress in a thrift/charity shop for £150 dry cleaned in my size!! I'd rather pay for my own wedding than guilt family into paying more than they can afford!
You have a great head on your shoulders! It blows my mind how so many brides are incredibly out of touch/ unappreciative. Wishing you and your SO many years of happiness in your marriage. 💕
How convenient that the $7000.00 dress was just sticking out on the racks. Such a set up.
I mean yeah most of these are staged
LOL
That shouldn't matter. When I am looking to buy a new car I know I can't afford the $60,000.00 Corvette that's in the showroom. I look at it, sigh, and ask them to show me something in my budget.
Exactly 😂
I noticed that too 😆
The dad is such a sweet heart, and the daughter seems like a pain in the ass
She needed to be stood naked in front of a mirror with her eyes propped open for a while, so she could see all the pounds of flab that she has and the models don't. That's why the dresses don't look like she wants them to.
SEEMS LIKE? She IS a TOTAL PAIN IN THE ARSE.
"He was constantly opening up doors for me" is the highlight for me.
It's extremely disrespectful of her and her mom to not respect the budget. If she wants something so expensive she should pay for it.
not their 1st rodeo
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Or let him pay 2500 and pay the difference herself 😭
at this age, you really should pay the difference, we aren't children
Right! Either stick to the budget or pay the difference
Honestly how I would probably do my wedding is buy asking how much they will pay towards the entire wedding overall and add that to my entire wedding budget I can pay. To me that would just overall make me feel a lot more in control because they can’t say anything about what I chose to spend more on. That may also just be because I know I won’t care about pretty much anything but the dress and food more specifically the cake. I’ll decide if alcohol is allowed depending on who’s coming.
That was my mum's deal. She gave me a budget of 1.5k and if I wanted something more then I had to pay the difference.
I am surprised at the way these parents give in so easily. My dad had a huge problem with my sister’s $1000 wedding dress and she was the one paying for it! He did contribute to the wedding but only partially and she paid fully for the dress.
Working in customer service is already difficult, but working as a wedding dress consultant would be next level stressful 😳
Why? You have an amazing FUN with fools every day trying to proove their folly - to you, themselves, relatives and the entire world! That is like your own, personal psychology study group!!!
My daughter works in a Bridal Shop that is so popular they come from out of state--boy does she have stories but loves her job.
I actually want to be a wedding dress consultant. I think it would be so fun.
I've been there, done them both and still loved both jobs.
I wouldn't dare ask my parents to pay a sum like that out of sheer guilt. I understand the need to look the best on your wedding day but you also got to be a bit practical.
I love ur show but my? Is r u marrying the dress or him / & besides will the marriage last / I got married in a very simple dress & was married 37 1/2 yrs till he died / was truly happy ! Good luck with ur wedding ! DJ
It’s ridiculous
But mom gave her the ok at home to the 7000 dress
Dad's pick was the most flattering. Elegant and glamorous, it was slimming and added height.
"I just don't like being a hassle" - Gurl, you hassling your dad hard core saying you don't care about spending all his money.
you people, it seems to be your money she's spending, not her dad's!!! you care more about money, dad cares about her daughter!!
She didn't come across as a hassle to me. There have been much more bratty brides on this show. The mom seemed more of the problem.
Especially w it being on TV.
@@gittaraichmann2533 and she cares more about the dress than her dad
@@gittaraichmann2533 Yet his daughter doesn’t seem to care about him. Considering how her and her mother is talking
Lol Lorri needs to start serving beers for the dads, she’ll make more of a fortune 😂
For sure 🤣
Imagine if a drop gets on a dress tho😭😭😭
Forget the beer and go with the hard stuff 😂
I think there should be a rule that says unless it is in the budget, you can not soil this dress. Every women who tries an a dress will leave herself as a part of that dress. If the budget is $2500, don't soil a dress that costs $7500. Its ridiculous. Of course if there's more than one daughter, you've got to build a relationship with that family, with hope that they will return for the next dress!!!
This dad was a hoot! My father passed away over forty years ago, but I can hear him saying the same thing this dad did, especially wondering if they had any beer!! LOL!!🤣🤣
Dad has good taste, the dress he pulled was the most elegant one
"She sees the one dress, I've been trying to avoid"
>Dress sticking out on the racks intensifying
I know right!!
This is exactly what I thought! It looked like it was made to stick out on purpose. 🤔
I was searching for this comment
Lmao
They totally pulled it out for her
"She says she likes one thing but every dress she pulls says another." yeah, that's bc she was looking at the price tag, not the dress.
I feel so sorry for the dad especially since he is paying for THE WHOLE WEDDING
The whole wedding wow that's crazy, like it's his hard work, crazy, I feel bad for her husband ,
Again, this is learned behavior. She has two parents. They taught her to be selfish.
My Mom paid for my wedding dress, and I told her I didn’t want anything expensive. I tried to stay under $1000, and I found my dream dress on sale for only $500! It was also the first dress I tried on🥰
that's pretty cool ☺️
i am the kind of person that even if my dad offered to give me $7000 for a wedding dress i would feel guilty spending that kind of money on a dress i will only wear once. i would probably spend around $1000 on the dress and put the rest of the money towards something useful like a new car or down payment on a house, or maybe buy myself a new gucci or prada bag that i really like. at least of if you buy a really nice high quality bag you really like you will get lots of use out of it for many years to come. i have gucci and prada bags that i purchased 20 years ago and i still use them and they are still in very good condition.
You go girl.....👈❤😎
Mine was $500 but on sale for $400 and I paid for all of it by working for it. So I understand what you mean.
@@makemyday5920 what, because the lazy brat got her way.
Dad should give her the money and then she should pay the rest herself!
Exactly.He should have handed her a check for $2500 and let her go shopping.
I completely agree. Its only fair for her to pay the difference. She wearing it not her dad.
… I’ll never understand why so many girls think they’re entitled to an outrageously expensive dress when it’s ONE day
My best friend rented her wedding dress. Just makes more sense. Unless you are looking up hand down your dress, it seems silly to shell out so much money.
Her dress was 150 to rent and 75 to clean. That covered the temporary alterations too.
girl i think marriage is over rated. i am a senior level executive and paramount picture, and own 3 houses that i purchased all by myself. why would i need a man? not only is this girl a spoiled brat but she is not very smart from what i can see. i am the kind of person that even if my dad offered to give me $7000 for a wedding dress i would feel guilty spending that kind of money on a dress i will only wear once. i would probably spend around $1000 on the dress and put the rest of the money towards something useful like a new car or down payment on a house, or maybe buy myself a new gucci or prada bag that i really like. at least of if you buy a really nice high quality bag you really like you will get lots of use out of it for many years to come. i have gucci and prada bags that i purchased 20 years ago and i still use them and they are still in very good condition.
@@breebartkowiakova OMG I say the same thing about a purse. Because you can use it DAILY. I think people should only get married to encourage a unity between 2 people, all that superficial stuff is old
@@lexoxoxoxoxo169 OMG I have a girlfriend who is always telling me that it's ridicules to buy a Gucci or Prada bag, and be spending $2-4K on a purse. But when she was getting married she spent $8400 on a dress she only wore once, and her marriage didn't even last. She got divorced 10 years later. Where as a nice Gucci or Prada bag you can use regularly, and the quality of them is so good they last for decades. I have Gucci & Prada bag I purchased over 20 years ago and I still use them every month and they are still in great condition.
People can value different things. If someone thinks it's worth it to buy an expensive dress to wear for just one day, that's their choice. Also, it's not just any one day, it's their wedding day. It's a day that they'll always remember and cherish. So, there's nothing wrong with them wanting to look and feel their best, and if that's wearing an expensive dress, then so be it.
I really liked her dad's first pick. Those drop waists are 🤮
For a girl built bigger, the drop waist usually masks it.
AGREED! It takes a really specific body type to pull off a drop waist
I liked the first dropped waist dress best. I really didn't like Dad's choice. But, yeah, the whole process was disrespectful of Dad.
Good for you
I don't get why they only showed her trying on strapless dresses, when one with straps or cap sleeves might've looked better.
Dad's pick was the best and it suited her more than any other.
But it still did not look great. I do not like bare shoulders for wedding dresses ….
@@dianneanderson216 well it isn’t your wedding but it is yoru opinion and i will respect that
I agree. She’s lucky to have had this day with her dad so I was actually saddened a bit when she hesitated to go out in his first pick. She looked pretty.
True however it is her wedding and she should wear what she has been wanting for years, however she should pay the difference if it goes over budget
@@dianneanderson216 her pick was also bare shoulders
Can we talk about how mom absolutely didn’t care about the budget… she isn’t coming out of left field with “liking expensive things” this was a taught and encouraged behavior
That’s why you save and buy your own dress or at least put a couple thousands to it
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Yesss!
That these brides are never offering to contribute the difference tells you they have either no shame or no money put aside.
Exactly. I mean, if you're able to get help, then get it.🤷🏻♀️ I've been married twice and bought my dress both times by myself. I'm sure if I had asked my parents for help, they might have given me *a little bit* but that's it. I definitely wouldn't have assumed that from them.
"The dress I've been trying to avoid" says Robin when the dress is VIRTUALLY BEEN SHOVED OUT OF LINE IN EVERYONE'S FACE
I always hated this saying but it fits her perfectly: "She is like that because of her mother."
I wouldn't be surprised if her Mum is a trophy wife and also shops for the most expensive thing with his card
Unless she was willing to pay the difference.. that is heartless and she is trying to use her Dad. My Dad died when I was 18.. I'd have been happy to even have him show up at my wedding and be proud of me. Some people need to grow up.
I’m so sorry, I’m sure he would be proud of you, and your right. Some people really do need to grow up.
Use her dad ??? Y'all need to chill, it's her dad
@@lawtraf8008 Yes. She was using him and yes family can and does take advantage of each other and it's wrong to do so.
You said it right Victoria!
Sorry for you loss.🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
How do all these ungrateful creatures find husbands? Do I have to act like that? No wonder I’m single….. glad she found something that made her happy but wow. How does a parent child relationship get to the point where she thinks that behaviour is ok, and he thinks giving in is ok?
i don't think the groom sees that side of her... yet
I think maybe dad's aren't as involved in their daughter's upbringing so they compensate with gifts. Eventually they can't stop so they give into everything
Right
Hate to say it, but look at the mother's behavior. The mother completely disregarded the budget. I'm surprised the mom and her husband are still married.
Say it again oo my dear but our time will surely come 🇬🇭🇬🇭
I can't justify paying for any wedding dress to wear for only several hours.
I really don't understand why, in this day and age dad is expected to foot the bill.
We paid for our own wedding and that was 31 years ago.
It never crossed my mind to ask my dad to pay for the dress or any part of my wedding.
It's part of an ancient tradition, called a dowry. Where parents host (pay for) the wedding, and give the groom, and his family items of value. Look it up.
It's important to some dads. Also, some families just like the tradition of it and want to provide a big event to send the happy couple on their way without them having to worry about the bills so early in a marriage.
My parents paid for their own and I always expected to pay for mine (am still single). I am fine with parents who want to be traditional but don't appreciate brides (or grooms) who take advantage of their parent's generosity or who expect to get whatever they want. I don't think this bride overstepped. The dress was not twice the budget unless maybe the sash put it over. My budget would be nowhere near hers, so it's a lot, but some wiggle room was probably approved off camera.
Good for you some parents want to
I love how her “dream dress” was total opposite of the look she stated. That 7000 dress was not “simple with detail” at all lol
I swear it doesn't look like ots worth that much, you can find plenty of dresses within the budget
The dad’s pick was amazing. It was so elegant and modern!!
"I like rich fabrics". I bet if I checked her top and cardigan's label it would say 100% polyester!!
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@Na No Velvet, silk, linen, wool. Velvet can get up to over 100 Dollars a yard really quickly. There is no limit when it comes to expensive fabrics.
You can tell who is the selfish parent that spoiled their child!
I think she imagines herself with a different figure than what she sees in the mirrror. It is not a matter of "more expensive, looks better". The main point is to chose what is appropriate for her body type.
Dress no.1 - it's official - mum and daughter both have shockingly bad taste in dresses. As for the one she chose - there obviously WAS something she didn't like about it because she ended up with a pink belt on it instead of a grey one. (The grey one looked better).
@Stellar Studios i can agree 🙁
Right! It looked tacky
YES.
she looked like a tree topper
nah cause i thought she looked like a decorated cake😟
I like things expensive.
Well damn pay it urself and see if you still want expensive things
lol right, lotta brides in for a rude awakening when they set out on married life independent from mom & dad and suddenly gotta foot their own bill for their expensive tastes.
Truth
Right! Like my mom says "You can't have filet mignon tastes on a hamburger budget."
They clearly weren't hiding the dress. It was splayed out front and centre.
I can't take to the bride's who pressure their parents to pay more. It's selfish and spoilt, they should pay the difference themselves.
Dad's pick was gorgeous! Classic silhouette and different from normal cookie-cutter dresses.
When Dad was silent when Mom and Daughter were combing through the racks, I knew he was going to cave on whatever his daughter wanted! What a wonderful Dad! Hope this girl knows how lucky she is!
Not a wonderful dad. Look at what he is teaching her. Whine just a little bit and daddy caves. Will anyone be surprised when she does the same to her husband?
My husband and I paid for everything ourselves. I bought my own bridal gown. Prices are just too high these days to expect parents to shell out. They were there supporting us all through our childhood emotionally and financially. Weddings should be parents' time to celebrate the couple as the bride and groom enter into a new journey in life together.
Good for y'all! I had always assumed I would pay for my own wedding but I'm middle aged and still single. My parents would have wanted to help out, but I would have been pinching pennies as much as possible. They gave my brother some money for his wedding and he put it toward whatever he chose.
They payed emotionally and financially during your childhood becauss they HAVE to.
My parents got together when my mom was 22 & they waited till she's 30. They paid for the entire wedding & earned all the money! Will do the same. I don't want to put this burden on my parents
In my country, the couple pays for everything. If the parents want to help that is up to them, but the wedding is on you. The couple usually save money for it the moment they get engaged.
I love this.... good for you 👍👍👍 times have changed, people aren't getting married in their late teens very early 20s anymore, a lot of people these days get married older where both partners are working and earning steady incomes
“I like expensive things” is the talk of a girl with zero self esteem
Exactly! She didn't say she liked quality things. Expensive can be tacky as heII.
I'm so lucky that my daughters were able to find a wedding gown within my budget & never even dreamed of trying on a dress double or triple my budget. They got what they wanted within budget & never complained.
That shows they were raised to have good values. Good job, mom!
@@patirvin-bz9pg - Well thank you! What a sweet compliment. You made my day. 😊😊❤❤
The bride’s eyeshadow is giving me 1974 Covergirl vibes.
My thoughts exactly !
She can just dab some Love's Baby Soft on and go scampering out the door in her platform shoes...
I love blue shadow, and I did a double take on hers, because it does look beautiful on brunettes with maroon eye colour, however NOT applied up to the brow...very '70's and hopefully not a trend that is back ( yet!) gulp.
Thank you! I wanted to say that, but never wearing makeup myself, wasn't sure if that trend was "in" again.
I would NEVER do this to my parents. I still apologize for them buying me Calvin Klein jeans in the 90’s.
She’s 26 and her father is “paying for everything “. Miss “I like expensive things” needs to go and pay for her own wants. As her mother is encouraging all this, I can only imagine that Daddy is very well off and let’s them get away with this sort of thing. I wonder if her fiancé knows what he’s getting.
If she knew she wanted a dress that expensive she should have started saving the extra or rebudgeting other items for the wedding so she could pay for it
I just went to try on wedding dresses last Sunday, and my dad and sibling were willing to pay for the almost 2k dress they liked on me, but I couldn't let them pay for that, so I chose the one I had on my mental budget, and it gave the bridal feeling. I could not in my heart allow my family to pay that much for my dress; knowing there were other expenses to pay, even the bridal consultant encouraged me to decide on the expensive gown. I am so happy with my choice; the dress I saw online that I thought I wanted was 400 bucks more than the one I chose. I am thrilled with the dress I chose. I cannot wait until it arrives and I will get to marry my man in that dress. Hehe, sorry, I just wanted to share one of the best moments of my life. ❤️
If you bought it online and haven't actually tried it on yet I hope you don't get let down. Because lots of times the picture and the actual item are two COMPLETELY different things! Hoping for the best for you.
@@sueparras6028 read her post again, she DID NOT go with the one she saw online. She said the dress she saw online was what she thought she wanted, but she chose another dress and she is thrilled with it.
Diana Celaya I hope your wedding is beautiful and magical and I wish the same for your marriage
Well done Diana!!! And congrats!
Wedding dresses are magical, no matter how long it takes to find the one, if you got it on, your face lights up and the tears start falling ❤❤❤
Love the dress she picked out, but she and her mom both need to actually act like adults. When there is a budget, there is a budget and you need to respect that budget, ESPECIALLY if someone else is paying for you out of the kindness of their own heart.
It's mom's money too. Why doesn't she get a say?
@@purpleorchid9183 if she’s paying the difference then she gets a say but she’s not-
I'm glad I grew up understanding & respecting a budget. I can't imagine taking advantage of someone's generosity like that, parent or not. So distasteful.
As a recent bride, I can say you only wear the dress for one day/ a few hours. Then you are hot and the dress is really heavy and you want to change out of it! And it's bulky to store in the closet. It didn't help that mom was enabling the situation. My guess is that the same things happened when planning and paying for the wedding. Probably daddy's budget was just a pipe dream lol Seriously!
2500 is a lot of money to spend on a wedding dress! And it’s so Kind of her dad to do that! But she of course needs the 5000$ one
I really don't understand when you don't work ,don't have money, don't appreciate the sweat of your parents just for a dress that you are going to wear just for a few hours. 😤😤😤
Exactly - makes zero sense
Yep a girl should be financially independent enough to get her dream dress .
This girl was seeing tiny models in wedding magazines and projecting the image on to herself without stopping to consider that she was a completely different shape and size. I can’t bare these brides who have no respect for their parents budget, how does anyone reach adult age and still believe there’s a money tree, or worse you do realise there isn’t one but you don’t care anyway.
Here's an idea. If you want an expensive wedding dress, save up for it yourself. No burden on your loved ones. That's what I did. X
If you want an expensive dress be prepared to pay for it yourself.
It’s one thing for the daughter to push the budget (which isn’t good) but for the mom to as well!
Likes expensive things.. Exactly how she's dressed lol
I was thinking I hope she pays an expensive makeup artist for the big day. It would be a shame to wear blue eyeshadow with a $7K dress.
😂😂😂😂😂
Lol.. Expensive makeup with blue eyeshadow. Weird eyebrow
Doesn’t look like she spends lots of money on herself
The eyebrows were bothering me.
I think most people knew she wouldn’t like her dream dress because she is too short and not a size 0. You need to be tall and very thin to pull that dress off.
My thoughts exactly
She pulled the top off, it flattered her okay, the bottom don't think it did
My whole entire wedding cost the same as that dress. Dang.
My car 🚗 didn't cost as much as that dress.....
Oh God I'd never do that to my dad. Shed a few tears in front of everyone in the boutique just so I can guilt trip him enough to go way over the budget no sir. If I want an expensive dress, I'm saving up for it. Not bc my dad can't afford, but bc I'd feel more independent and the choice will be mine a 100%
That is learned behavior. It looks like she learned that from her mom. That poor future husband.
Hope she's aligned her expectations with the future hub. I can predict issues if she likes 'expensive things' and he's a nice southern boy. Lol
Why would u want that to happen wtf
@@sharnagrayson9649 well, I haven't said I 'want' that to happen. Not sure how you read that :P. The biggest problem with marriages is that people don't have their expectations aligned which is why I'm hoping that they've talked about it. She seems bratty but good-hearted.
You serve beer in this joint or what 😩😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 dad is funny
She has no regard for her father and takes advantage of him. What is wrong with her? Selfish, self-centered -- you name it.
Poor dad.. Ofc how can he say no to her baby girl.. 🙄 She likes expensive things all i can say is goodluck to her hubby.. 😅
If I were the groom I would cancel the wedding immediately or be prepared to work 3 jobs so he can provide her with clothes/shoes she feels "good" in. What a spoiled entitled nitwit this bride is and her mother isn't any better.
@@mariedavis8242 so true like mother like daughter 😆
The lady said she was trying to avoid the bride seeing the dress but it was the one one facing outward
THAT mom raised THAT daughter. The mom doesn’t value the father’s money, she wouldn’t either.
Wow. 26, and acting like an entitled child. Why wouldn't she save up her own money if she wants a dress that's that expensive? You have to respect other people's budgets when you're not using your own money!
Her fiancé' should be on the alert...
“Wat the hell is that “
*continues to argue *
“Lalala bye y’all”
props to dad for picking a dress with pockets but it really doesn't suit her. how the HELL is the dress lori picked $3800?!?!? $2500 should've been plenty to find a dress with a (NOT) embellished skirt. i thought she looked best in the one with the princessy bling on the bodice and around the hem, that's probably my favorite dress in the shop.
I agree. The dress didn't do anything for her. It was not worth going over budget for that dress.
I didn't like the scalloped lace on the bodice framing the bust, then the drop waist _with_ the taupe, bejewelled ribbon belt. The belt shortens her body by cutting it in half, interrupting the lengthening aspect of the long, form-fitting bodice.
Both daughter and mother should respect the one paying for everything! Spoiled and entitled woman are a turn off.
Yeah I see the way her mom is and I can see they both act same way, smh, I'm so opposite,
That final choice was the best choice! She and the dress were dazzling.
Her dad’s pick was very elegant and beautiful.
The first pick^
The dress her dad picked was the most flattering on her.
"Do you think daddy's gonna have a heart attack?"
"I do tee hee!"
It’s amazing how all it takes is that one right dress to turn everything around. My husband would absolutely cave, too.
Ok theres nothing wrong on liking expensive things that you cant afford, the problem is making people pay for that expensive thing you like with their own money like gurl save up some money if you wanted that dress so bad, and it doesnt even look like she feel bad about spending her dad's money