STOP Trying To Get Closure. Do This First. | Jocko Willink
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- Опубликовано: 5 окт 2024
- Jocko Willink delivers a 2-minute masterclass on Conflict Resolution.
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Unaddressed conflict leads to resentment.
Obfuscation and refusal to say the issue is a very common reality. Pulling the string is good SOP but the issue above requires deft leadership skill at times.
What is the dichotomy of this scenario such as where a resolution cannot be attained to your liking or a mutually beneficial result? Where questioning inflames the situation or complicates it further? Where is it resembles or is a sugar cookie situation?
Yes and no. Family can be the most difficult. I had a vision and she another. She (my daughter in this instance) kept saying "I don't like it." I kept probing, "I don't like it" About the raised flower bed design. We had worked all day, in the sun, we were getting tired and cranky, behind schedule. I said this is not helping me "I don't like it." I cannot work with that - not enough information. What exactly do you not like? I purchased and brought lumber for enough to do three levels she was at two, which meant the lower level was not raised. Silly reason - she did not want to step into the bed. Shaking head. Okay then. I have a couple of extra sticks. We went round and round. "I don't like it." I got that. Now it is funny but in the heat of the moment we were not communicating on the same frequency. Just a little shift and the puzzle solved it's self. Sometimes we have to put our self in the subordinate position. See through their eyes, RFI ? Request for information. A lot like a dog chasing his own tail. Fun to watch but not so much fun for the dog. This was a good episode thank you. Put enough of these out there and once in a while we are bound to get lucky. At a minimum not screw it up any worse than it already is. Okay pat on the back, kick in the pants and back to work.
The Dead tell no tales, right?
The Dead don't type letters on the computer, steal ashes and engrave headstones, either.
I'm coming fully loaded.
I object.
hubby doesn't let me ask questions--he is afraid of himself