Win Every Argument With This Simple Tactic | Jocko Willink

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  • Опубликовано: 22 дек 2024

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  • @Mystic_Paths
    @Mystic_Paths 2 месяца назад +11

    Keep your emotions in check. Staying calm helps you think clearly and makes you more persuasive.

  • @PhillyEaglesFanatic
    @PhillyEaglesFanatic Месяц назад +4

    Besides the possibilities Jocko talked about on why it's not sinking in with subordinates/superiors when you are presenting something, another possibility is not that your idea isn't good, it could be that your idea is good, but that you aren't doing a good job communicating it. Still a good reason to check the EEM, though.
    Thank you for this Jocko, this is solid!

  • @maxdavies5776
    @maxdavies5776 Месяц назад +3

    It's not what u know it's who u know.

  • @dosesandmimoses
    @dosesandmimoses 3 месяца назад +3

    Thank you gentlemen.. i enjoy your discussions.. and I thank you so much for your continual service in protecting my freedoms. Gratitude

  • @andrewkim6037
    @andrewkim6037 3 месяца назад +34

    Smooth-brained = low drag. Get some.

  • @Naiuhz
    @Naiuhz 2 месяца назад +3

    Excellent advise for people who have EGO problems with poor communication skills.

    • @koborkutya7338
      @koborkutya7338 14 дней назад

      that's the good thing with us: we don't have any flaws so these things never relate to us.

  • @TITO-d7i
    @TITO-d7i Месяц назад +1

    I'm listening for sure..

  • @danielmiller2886
    @danielmiller2886 3 месяца назад +3

    Another thought: They didn't fully listen to what you said, OR you didnt communicate it well. Happens a lot. Use the EEM to see if they understood your idea by asking them questions. Frequently, I explain my thought or plan, only to have them suggest the same idea in different words. That shows me that i am not communicating effectively.

  • @rubberuke
    @rubberuke 3 месяца назад +6

    I sometimes ask questions like "what am i not getting" or "what am i forgetting?"

    • @danbaumgardner1192
      @danbaumgardner1192 3 месяца назад

      Yes! I like to use, “I may have forgotten/misunderstood…”

    • @lowings848
      @lowings848 2 месяца назад +2

      Same. My default setting is offering solutions to problems that accommodate my personal bias and how I would solve it - which doesn't fit into or agree with the context or the other person's preference or what their problem actually is. I forget to factor in that their rituals and preferences are not the same as mine.

    • @koborkutya7338
      @koborkutya7338 14 дней назад

      another good one: "OK now I'm gonna learn something. What makes you say this?" Super intro line for this.

  • @mooseheadbear1775
    @mooseheadbear1775 3 месяца назад

    Brilliant 1,2.
    Thank you for the great guidances.

  • @LosKimos-sf7bt
    @LosKimos-sf7bt Месяц назад

    I'm sure you have something I just haven't got to it yet this is only the second video I've seen but yes very good

  • @chrisjb310
    @chrisjb310 2 месяца назад

    Self-awareness, prior to expressing your feelings or insights during communication, is key. (COMMUNICATION)

  • @leftseat30
    @leftseat30 3 месяца назад +1

    Jockos too damn good.

  • @WilkoLV
    @WilkoLV 2 месяца назад +1

    Wanting to "Win" an argument is all ego, you should find out if they have or can come up with the same ideas as you by asking questions and listening that may lead them to the same conclusions as you and then it feels like you both came up with the idea together and there was no individual winning, just a team win 👌

  • @andres.biarge
    @andres.biarge 3 месяца назад +2

    I'm doing the free courses, and I've got to say that the quality is incredible. Thank you, truly.

  • @FINALLYOUTAFTER7
    @FINALLYOUTAFTER7 3 месяца назад +1

    Subscribed.

  • @thewarlordscalling6537
    @thewarlordscalling6537 3 месяца назад

    Smooth as a bawling ball

  • @MrTreraygibson
    @MrTreraygibson 3 месяца назад +3

    There is also a chance the person explaning their plan is a smooth brain

  • @TITO-d7i
    @TITO-d7i Месяц назад

    I agree to stop talking and listen..

  • @thewarlordscalling6537
    @thewarlordscalling6537 3 месяца назад +1

    There some people that hate innovation.its fairly impossible to introduce a new idea to such people, because by default they are predisposed to criticize any new idea.

  • @chrisavila1822
    @chrisavila1822 2 месяца назад +4

    I used this tactic against my girl friend and now I don’t have a girlfriend

    • @qbaninja
      @qbaninja 21 день назад

      You didn’t call her smooth-brained, did you???

  • @H00v3r
    @H00v3r Месяц назад

    Website doesn't work

    • @EchelonFront
      @EchelonFront  Месяц назад

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  • @vidcollect74Ed
    @vidcollect74Ed 3 месяца назад +3

    so, if i don't get a push back, i wouldn't know the problem with my plan.

    • @vidcollect74Ed
      @vidcollect74Ed 3 месяца назад

      if people feel in charge, they themselves are taking part in the responsibility.

  • @Fynn-Victus
    @Fynn-Victus 22 дня назад

    Explanation- Demonstration- Repetition- 😮

  • @HomeshighlandPark
    @HomeshighlandPark 2 месяца назад

    When I explain something but I’m explaining it in a way that I’m really bitching, it not as receptive. Had a Isreali military guy explain set expectation from the start. However, how can you be like that in a get go military type mentality towards subordinates? Especially 20
    Year old females.

  • @someguyusa
    @someguyusa 3 месяца назад

    Maybe, but this explanation omits that some people are less educated or have lower critical thinking skills while not just being dumb. His 99% estimate is a bit much, but sure. Always be open to revisit your plans.

  • @LosKimos-sf7bt
    @LosKimos-sf7bt Месяц назад

    My husband is stupid they are a smooth headed

  • @LosKimos-sf7bt
    @LosKimos-sf7bt Месяц назад

    My plan is very good all smooth headed. No one wants to get on board. And it could get very bad for you know legally and my mom is the most important thing and that is the absolute priority. Unfortunately no one takes that and treat her as a priority and it's getting to be area code yeah sweetheart and I'm trying I've done everything you said so far still I stay back and get it try to do it your way call me I do listen to everything and they my way is just they don't even hear me

  • @thatomofolo452
    @thatomofolo452 3 месяца назад +2

    Mad respect 💪💪💪

  • @aaronwhite3298
    @aaronwhite3298 2 месяца назад +3

    I'd rather watch the boss fail than try to convince them I'm right

  • @danielashman1753
    @danielashman1753 Месяц назад

    If people used this logic w bitcoin 10 years ago where would we be? Would steve jobs have made the iphone? Would elon musk have made rockets that land back on earth?

  • @Atjayvang21
    @Atjayvang21 Месяц назад

    I don't get it. Try again

  • @koborkutya7338
    @koborkutya7338 14 дней назад

    Very bad title, it's not what the video is about. Great video anyway. Just a comment: they say there are three sources of resistance: 1) I don't get it - they resist because they don't understand your idea. Then you keep explaining. 2) I don't like it - they understand completely but they have counter arguments or counter emotions. Then you have to LISTEN - even if you don't change your plan ultimately, you have to listen and understand what they have to say.
    And then the third one: I don't like YOU. That kind of resistance is a bit trickier to overcome. But that still starts with honestly listening to them.

  • @Empire_Tales
    @Empire_Tales 3 месяца назад

    Pipeline is better you dont have to do so much work. Guys in delta force wish they were in the pipeline.

  • @x2oChannel
    @x2oChannel 3 месяца назад

    Too long…

  • @nickdline
    @nickdline 3 месяца назад

    Bot ⬆️

  • @CarnageJesterX
    @CarnageJesterX 3 месяца назад +1

    Or.... everyone pushing back is too stupid to understand the brilliant idea.
    Quentin Tarantino couldn't sell his Screenplay to anyone at first. Why? He didn't want to bend or corrupt his ideas to fit into Hollywood.
    People always oppose me & never have facts to debate, they have opinions that oppose me that aren't justified or valid with any rational facts.
    Sometimes, there is a minority person who is the smartest in the room. Your logic is flawed here. You need rational feedback & push back. Not stupid ideas as push back.

  • @frankthetank3342
    @frankthetank3342 3 месяца назад

    Sounds like politics. Everyone seems to be cemented in their beliefs. No amount of statistics, history or facts will change the other's mind.

  • @lowings848
    @lowings848 2 месяца назад

    I listened to it twice just to hear "alignment with evil again🤣🤣🤣. Lissencehpaly causes cognition impairment?🧠🎳

    • @Chris-fn4df
      @Chris-fn4df 2 месяца назад

      Based on your writing, the problem with your communications is you, not your audience. That smooth brain might as well be your name.