It suck’s because I don’t want to get into details because just imagine how many eyes will see it and how many hands will touch it, it’s like getting violated all over again
Don’t give up and get as many buddy letters. I waited 30 years before seeking counseling thru the VA and putting in for a claim for PTSD/MST. Ended up getting p&t 100% and I feel the Buddy letters were the biggest evidence. Thirty years ago they didn’t keep records. God bless all you are doing for veterans and hope you know Jesus loves you ❤️✝️💛
Thank you I started the Army in 90 and exited in 14 with most in the guard but I didn't seek help until I really could not function anymore. Then the doctors only told me they couldn't help me because I had Hashimoto's
I’d love to dialogue with you more. I am going for a C&P exam on 6/7 PTSD w/MST. Really anxious. Want to tell my story and be honest about my triggers and difficulties. Any pointers?
I got my CO to write a letter. I'm having a really hard time right now. It seems the older I get the harder it is to function. It happened to me 33 years ago, started getting help at the va a few years ago. People just don't understand.
This doctor seems very down to earth and compassionate. Yes, MST is a very difficult topic to talk about. I am going to my C & P exam in a few days. My first MST claim submitted after I left the Army in 1996, 26 years later. The anxiety is definitely building.....wish me luck.
I am a victim of MST. I am currently watching your video. I can only watch a little bit at a time as what I went through is still too traumatic even after more than over 30 years. I am still fighting for my benefits. I want to thank you both for your compassion, understanding and helpful information.
Sooo true!!! I am going to my MST PTSD tomorrow and I am through the roof! Just thinking I have to tell the story is torture!! Hope he was my examiner!!
I repressed my 3 man MST assault for 29 years. As soon as I won my VA disability claim for 100% P&T, then memories came. Like movie clips in my head. 💔🥺😔💔
Many older veterans never got help addressing MST on their way out. Grown men have heavy hearts and zero tears from the numbness they model. I know, I'm a Caregiving spouse. Thank you VA and you fine people for sharing the CARING helping these folks get HELP.
I had all these things, inpatient, STD and pregnancy test, which they mentioned IN THE CLAIM, but said they are denying my increase because I didn’t report it…. So what do I do?
Thank you for making this video. It’s very helpful as I write my statement. I had a question though. You mentioned that abuse prior to service could make service connection hard but what about a STR that says I told my psych I was depressed as a child and my parents had a history of MH problems. My mom died when I was a child so of course I was depressed for a short time afterwards, and years before I even joined the army. Will that make it hard to get service connection for the ptsd (due to mst) I was just diagnosed with? Should I explain the service treatment records notes the psychiatrist made in my lay statement or just not mention it at all and hope they don’t care?
Liz, that's certainly a tough situation. You'll likely want to explain those lay statements because they may come into play. Like we talked about in this video, the VA turns down many veterans for MST claims. Most C&P Examiners will write down what you tell them and the context may not be included. We've seen people get turned down, in part, because they said "they're doing good" when asked "How are you doing?" at the start of the exam. We did film a video last year regarding VA claims and non-military trauma / existing issues here: ruclips.net/video/f_Ye9plEhQQ/видео.html
Just had a operation at the VA and was released today. Until i got home all seemed well. Then the PTSD kicked in full power. Closed down again. Want to quit my job and just lock the doors. They did a aortic stint. Someone shaved my privates while i was out. As you can see that set me on edge. I had one of those counselors that wanted me to relive the event. He did not give a crap. How do i contact you.?????????
Really really really hard to watch this. But very glad I did. I put this off since 1981... tried in 2005... then 2014... and would get so anxious and upset... just couldn't push through. This video gives me hope to try again. Thnx.
It's been so awful just trying to fill out the paperwork. I can't imagine what I'm in for with trying to prove it, but I'm trying to get the help I need.
❤watching this the day before my c&p. Filed in 2014/2015. Got the MST packet asking for proof…police records..etc. I freaked out and fid not finish. Filed again (intent to file 2023) filed 2014. I feel like I am going to throw up. They just called this afternoon with the appointment..tomorrow morning.🥺
I was overseas when assault was committed, the person had a court martial and convicted but I don't have the paperwork. How do I get this to support my claim? Believe I was denied 2x before, because I didn't have this.
I was a virgin when I joined the Army at 18 years old. My virginity was taken away from me and I received the gift that keeps on giving. I was promptly dumped when I brought this up to my partner.I am already service connected for 50% ptsd.
I'm apprehensive because I don't have any buddy letters and my attacker was transferred out of the unit plus when I reported it, my command swept it under the rug. Plus I blocked it out since I am a previous rape survivor. I'm just sick of feeling broken.
Hi Toni, that's definitely understandable. We speak to many vets who have gone through MST and you're not alone in that. It can be an uphill battle but it is possible to get your rightful compensation due to a service connected condition. Have you checked out our other video on MST with Attorney Melanie Williams? ruclips.net/video/bPsM9lsXCzc/видео.html
Hi Nichole, some victims, understandably, would rather move on as quickly as possible and try to get back to their normal routine or try to forget it ever happened. So many MST incidents go unreported.
I have all the evidence. All they have to do is look back in the records. They call mine anxiety and give me 70 percent after all these years. Yet I have never been with a man again and i turned to drugs and alcohol. I'm sober now but still have all the symptoms of PTSD. I just went through another C&P exam and they said they didn't want to hear it because all the MST cases are being sent somewhere to be dealt with.
The sad part is that the VA sends you to an "examiner" for an impartial opinion, but the VA argues with these doctors. Both of my C&P examiners have told me that the VA fights them on diagnosis.
I told a chaplain when a drill sergeant pulled my hair in 1985. And, I was kidnapped by a MP for about 30 minutes just because. That was reported also. There’s more. I don’t know where to start.
Sadly they see not getting treatment as an equivalency to you’re better. What they don’t care to realize is if we have issues working we cannot pay for treatment and that some of us still have issues going due to the symptoms of our ptsd/mst.
You should go to a VA doctor. It's free care for any military veteran who has gone through sexual trauma regardless of your discharge status. Get your medical records documented for treatment and file your claim again.
I reported the last MST but it was still put in as adjustment disorder vs PTSD & the police & command blamed me...I was so messed up I had forgotten I'd been diagnosed with PTSD by a civilian dr before I separated
I was denied, even with an attempted suicide, inpatient psych care, and SARP while I was active duty, along with an offical PTSD diagnosis, therapy l, and medications. THE GOVERNMENT DOESNT GIVE A CRAP ABOUT YOU.
No disrespect, but soldiers who sleep with people to get out of work or deployments or for promotions is not sexual trauma. It's quid pro quo and should absolutely not be compensated as trama. It's punishable but not trama.
It suck’s because I don’t want to get into details because just imagine how many eyes will see it and how many hands will touch it, it’s like getting violated all over again
The fact that as veterans that we even have to go through any of this for benefits is absurd
Absolutely! It made me realize that the VA is an office creater FOR the government, AGAINST you.
Don’t give up and get as many buddy letters. I waited 30 years before seeking counseling thru the VA and putting in for a claim for PTSD/MST. Ended up getting p&t 100% and I feel the Buddy letters were the biggest evidence. Thirty years ago they didn’t keep records. God bless all you are doing for veterans and hope you know Jesus loves you ❤️✝️💛
Thank you I started the Army in 90 and exited in 14 with most in the guard but I didn't seek help until I really could not function anymore. Then the doctors only told me they couldn't help me because I had Hashimoto's
@@talinataylor676 thanks 🙏 for sharing and sent out a prayer 🙏 for you. Jesus will walk with us and if needed carry us till Heaven ❤️✝️💜
I’d love to dialogue with you more. I am going for a C&P exam on 6/7 PTSD w/MST. Really anxious. Want to tell my story and be honest about my triggers and difficulties. Any pointers?
@@billyjackjr how did your C&P exam go? I'm going through the same thing
I got my CO to write a letter. I'm having a really hard time right now. It seems the older I get the harder it is to function. It happened to me 33 years ago, started getting help at the va a few years ago. People just don't understand.
This doctor seems very down to earth and compassionate. Yes, MST is a very difficult topic to talk about. I am going to my C & P exam in a few days. My first MST claim submitted after I left the Army in 1996, 26 years later. The anxiety is definitely building.....wish me luck.
Same! Applied in 96 and was denied. Trying again now and finally getting some therapy. Ignoring it for 28 years didn't work.
I am a victim of MST. I am currently watching your video. I can only watch a little bit at a time as what I went through is still too traumatic even after more than over 30 years. I am still fighting for my benefits. I want to thank you both for your compassion, understanding and helpful information.
Sooo true!!! I am going to my MST PTSD tomorrow and I am through the roof! Just thinking I have to tell the story is torture!! Hope he was my examiner!!
Wishing you all the best, Luis. We know it cannot be easy.
It has taken me 50 years to face my MST.🥺🥺😥😥😥
Hug!!!
It took you 50 years to realize it was wrong. Looks like $ to me.😢
I repressed my 3 man MST assault for 29 years. As soon as I won my VA disability claim for 100% P&T, then memories came. Like movie clips in my head.
💔🥺😔💔
Thank you for making this video. I hope you're able to help as many people as possible.
I hope so too
I’m currently 70% for PTSD. I have filed and intent to file for MST in December 2021. I am terrified to complete it and have to go through the exam.
Hang tough you can get through it
Very insightful. Does the Dr. Do medical reviews & Nexus Letters in regards to mental health?
Thank you. Im gonna replay this driving to my exam this week for the exact same claim
Best of luck!
What did you end up getting?
@@nicholehernandez1955 still awaiting decision 😩
I got 70% thanks again 🙌
@@igotthis6529 Boom 💥
Many older veterans never got help addressing MST on their way out. Grown men have heavy hearts and zero tears from the numbness they model. I know, I'm a Caregiving spouse. Thank you VA and you fine people for sharing the CARING helping these folks get HELP.
Also an MST survivor, this is an awesome video.
Do the letters from family members clergy and chaplains need to be signed or do contact information just need to be listed on the supporting letters?
I had all these things, inpatient, STD and pregnancy test, which they mentioned IN THE CLAIM, but said they are denying my increase because I didn’t report it…. So what do I do?
Thank you for making this video. It’s very helpful as I write my statement. I had a question though. You mentioned that abuse prior to service could make
service connection hard but what about a STR that says I told my psych I was depressed as a child and my parents had a history of MH problems. My mom died when I was a child so of course I was depressed for a short time afterwards, and years before I even joined the army. Will that make it hard to get service connection for the ptsd (due to mst) I was just diagnosed with? Should I explain the service treatment records notes the psychiatrist made in my lay statement or just not mention it at all and hope they don’t care?
Liz, that's certainly a tough situation. You'll likely want to explain those lay statements because they may come into play. Like we talked about in this video, the VA turns down many veterans for MST claims. Most C&P Examiners will write down what you tell them and the context may not be included. We've seen people get turned down, in part, because they said "they're doing good" when asked "How are you doing?" at the start of the exam. We did film a video last year regarding VA claims and non-military trauma / existing issues here: ruclips.net/video/f_Ye9plEhQQ/видео.html
How does a Vet get ahold of thier Alcohol/Substance abuse records from service?
Just had a operation at the VA and was released today. Until i got home all seemed well. Then the PTSD kicked in full power. Closed down again. Want to quit my job and just lock the doors. They did a aortic stint. Someone shaved my privates while i was out. As you can see that set me on edge. I had one of those counselors that wanted me to relive the event. He did not give a crap. How do i contact you.?????????
Really really really hard to watch this. But very glad I did. I put this off since 1981... tried in 2005... then 2014... and would get so anxious and upset... just couldn't push through. This video gives me hope to try again. Thnx.
It's been so awful just trying to fill out the paperwork. I can't imagine what I'm in for with trying to prove it, but I'm trying to get the help I need.
❤watching this the day before my c&p. Filed in 2014/2015. Got the MST packet asking for proof…police records..etc. I freaked out and fid not finish. Filed again (intent to file 2023) filed 2014. I feel like I am going to throw up. They just called this afternoon with the appointment..tomorrow morning.🥺
@sherrimiller450 I hope it went OK. Just that big blank section that I have to write details in, is sending me into anxiety.
@@bettymk1 you can do it! 🙏❤️ If you ever want someone to help or to just listen…reach out to me. We are better when we lift each other up🫶
I was overseas when assault was committed, the person had a court martial and convicted but I don't have the paperwork. How do I get this to support my claim? Believe I was denied 2x before, because I didn't have this.
I am working on a VA claim and survived two MST's from two different branches of service. It is real!
I was a virgin when I joined the Army at 18 years old. My virginity was taken away from me and I received the gift that keeps on giving. I was promptly dumped when I brought this up to my partner.I am already service connected for 50% ptsd.
I'm apprehensive because I don't have any buddy letters and my attacker was transferred out of the unit plus when I reported it, my command swept it under the rug. Plus I blocked it out since I am a previous rape survivor. I'm just sick of feeling broken.
Hi Toni, that's definitely understandable. We speak to many vets who have gone through MST and you're not alone in that. It can be an uphill battle but it is possible to get your rightful compensation due to a service connected condition. Have you checked out our other video on MST with Attorney Melanie Williams? ruclips.net/video/bPsM9lsXCzc/видео.html
So it’s rare to have had a rape kit done? I actually did get one back in 2007 and I’m just now filing. Does it really help your case that much more?
Hi Nichole, some victims, understandably, would rather move on as quickly as possible and try to get back to their normal routine or try to forget it ever happened. So many MST incidents go unreported.
Would the VA deny my PTSD due to MST claim if I tell them I was sexually abused prior to service as well as during service?
Focus on the in service incident that will get you Service Connected.
I have all the evidence. All they have to do is look back in the records. They call mine anxiety and give me 70 percent after all these years. Yet I have never been with a man again and i turned to drugs and alcohol. I'm sober now but still have all the symptoms of PTSD. I just went through another C&P exam and they said they didn't want to hear it because all the MST cases are being sent somewhere to be dealt with.
Can you claim MST if you were active duty and assaulted by a civilian but your CoC know of the assault?
Yes. The status of the perpetrator is irrelevant.
Great help 👍.
The sad part is that the VA sends you to an "examiner" for an impartial opinion, but the VA argues with these doctors. Both of my C&P examiners have told me that the VA fights them on diagnosis.
Thank you!!
Thank You 🥺
I told a chaplain when a drill sergeant pulled my hair in 1985. And, I was kidnapped by a MP for about 30 minutes just because. That was reported also. There’s more. I don’t know where to start.
I know my PTSD was denied because I stopped going to see Dr I could not afford.
Sadly they see not getting treatment as an equivalency to you’re better. What they don’t care to realize is if we have issues working we cannot pay for treatment and that some of us still have issues going due to the symptoms of our ptsd/mst.
You should go to a VA doctor. It's free care for any military veteran who has gone through sexual trauma regardless of your discharge status. Get your medical records documented for treatment and file your claim again.
I reported the last MST but it was still put in as adjustment disorder vs PTSD & the police & command blamed me...I was so messed up I had forgotten I'd been diagnosed with PTSD by a civilian dr before I separated
Did you use that ptsd to file a claim?
@@nolimitreggie1232 yes, but years later cause I was all messed up. It finally got changed in 2018
I was denied, even with an attempted suicide, inpatient psych care, and SARP while I was active duty, along with an offical PTSD diagnosis, therapy l, and medications. THE GOVERNMENT DOESNT GIVE A CRAP ABOUT YOU.
Sad to hear this should never happen but the VA is all about saving a $
No disrespect, but soldiers who sleep with people to get out of work or deployments or for promotions is not sexual trauma. It's quid pro quo and should absolutely not be compensated as trama. It's punishable but not trama.
It was very good insight., informative.
Jk.
The military accepts this as men being men. I say 10 years in Leavenworth is normal.
I'm at 90% va rating. I stabbed myself in the chest 3 times and sliced my throat. Still at 90% va rating after 6 1/2 months.
A am b v🦄🦄🦂
Mst 100% . in uk the rapist goes to jail. Everybody has PTSD articulate it
Are you saying you got 100%