You listing number 2 was so helpful to hear. I was dumped after an episode of crying out of vulnerability and stating a boundary. The man tells me that I’m “emotionally unpredictable.” And decided to cut things off. I really am so grateful you pointed this out that a healthy, secure masculine man would hold the emotional peace of the relationship.
@Usman Ahmad what makes you think I want this person back? A man who judges a woman during her vulnerable state of sharing and setting up healthy boundaries for herself is not a man she should be with. Especially if he is going to label her as “emotionally unpredictable” aka unstable and then break up with her. No ma’am. I have way too much self worth and self value to allow such a person into my life a second time.
I loved this! Definitely resonated with me. There was a moment when my man felt like I was interrogating him about his day when by the way I was asking questions. I’m working on staying in my feminine energy and this was helpful. That falls into me “managing him”. I’ve learned so much
1. Managing men - tell him what to do, boss him around, dressing, talking to people.. 2. Do not lead the emotional pace of the relationship - make sure youre happy - he decideds when to escalate the relationship 3. Having no life of your own - do not be too busy or too free 4. Super sensitive - walking around you with eggshells 5. Being possesive and jealous - him knowing you are checking on him, - trust that his intentions and info are true 6. Attention seeking - texting too much, nonstop communication? Long text messages, calling all the time
If I may add, don’t expect financial benefit from him until he offers it. Wealthy men have their antenna out for gold diggers. The slightest hint that you are a gold digger will send him running.
@@blackswanrelationshipacademy from the horses mouth. My very wealthy fiancé is also in the fancy color Diamond business, he told me about a woman he’d met who he was thinking of asking out - before he found me - who apparently researched him and found out about the Diamond part of his business. She phoned him and asked him whether he could spare a couple of diamonds for her! Imagine. He ended all contact with her. Some of his friends are the wealthiest in the world, he told me that they can spot a gold digger from far off.
@Usman Ahmad thank you but I’m happily engaged to a handsome, slightly younger billionaire. My ex, who I divorced, is long gone and other than shared children, no longer in my life.
M.S. congratulations, you are dating a player! The reason he gossiped about some other woman is because he wanted you to “prove yourself” to him that you’re desperate enough to accept whatever terms he sets. You will soon be proving to him that you’re not like that other woman by offering him sex for free, without serious commitment from him, and so on and so fourth. This dude is laughing at you! Real men DO NOT discuss other women with their current flame. They’re not setting up traps for their women to fall into.
Hi Chingy. I'm 58. I've been continuously working on my healing and growth for years. I've been successful in my journey. I haven't arrived yet but nowhere close to where I use to be! One of my areas that I struggle with the most is having a life. I come go and do as opportunities present themselves, outings, concerts, movies, gardening, etc Otherwise I'm one of those that go to work church, care for my mom, then home. I exercise, I can be crafty when it hits me, but there's no Consistent Passion Project. I've prayed about it, there's nothing substantial yet. Any suggestions, or can you do a video on this including ideas for my age range as well please
Hi Chengi, what if I don't text him enough? Guys always complain I seem uninterested. I just don't like texting/ or feel the need to be in touch that much
You listing number 2 was so helpful to hear. I was dumped after an episode of crying out of vulnerability and stating a boundary. The man tells me that I’m “emotionally unpredictable.” And decided to cut things off. I really am so grateful you pointed this out that a healthy, secure masculine man would hold the emotional peace of the relationship.
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@Usman Ahmad what makes you think I want this person back? A man who judges a woman during her vulnerable state of sharing and setting up healthy boundaries for herself is not a man she should be with. Especially if he is going to label her as “emotionally unpredictable” aka unstable and then break up with her. No ma’am. I have way too much self worth and self value to allow such a person into my life a second time.
Budden a man with trust...love that! It will display that you are confident ❤
I loved this! Definitely resonated with me. There was a moment when my man felt like I was interrogating him about his day when by the way I was asking questions. I’m working on staying in my feminine energy and this was helpful. That falls into me “managing him”. I’ve learned so much
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You hit every point discussed! Thank you!
1. Managing men
- tell him what to do, boss him around, dressing, talking to people..
2. Do not lead the emotional pace of the relationship
- make sure youre happy
- he decideds when to escalate the relationship
3. Having no life of your own
- do not be too busy or too free
4. Super sensitive
- walking around you with eggshells
5. Being possesive and jealous
- him knowing you are checking on him,
- trust that his intentions and info are true
6. Attention seeking
- texting too much, nonstop communication? Long text messages, calling all the time
Thank you for this!
Thank you so much big sis for educating us Swans❤
Hi Chengi 👋🏾! Thanks for sharing the valuable information!!
You are so welcome 🙏🏾 🌸❤️💕
I can’t handle those behaviors from men either 😂
Love this!
❤️❤️❤️🦋
If I may add, don’t expect financial benefit from him until he offers it. Wealthy men have their antenna out for gold diggers. The slightest hint that you are a gold digger will send him running.
Wonderful addition! Thank you 🙏🏾
@@blackswanrelationshipacademy from the horses mouth. My very wealthy fiancé is also in the fancy color Diamond business, he told me about a woman he’d met who he was thinking of asking out - before he found me - who apparently researched him and found out about the Diamond part of his business. She phoned him and asked him whether he could spare a couple of diamonds for her! Imagine. He ended all contact with her. Some of his friends are the wealthiest in the world, he told me that they can spot a gold digger from far off.
@Usman Ahmad thank you but I’m happily engaged to a handsome, slightly younger billionaire. My ex, who I divorced, is long gone and other than shared children, no longer in my life.
M.S. congratulations, you are dating a player! The reason he gossiped about some other woman is because he wanted you to “prove yourself” to him that you’re desperate enough to accept whatever terms he sets. You will soon be proving to him that you’re not like that other woman by offering him sex for free, without serious commitment from him, and so on and so fourth. This dude is laughing at you! Real men DO NOT discuss other women with their current flame. They’re not setting up traps for their women to fall into.
Hi Chingy. I'm 58. I've been continuously working on my healing and growth for years. I've been successful in my journey. I haven't arrived yet but nowhere close to where I use to be! One of my areas that I struggle with the most is having a life. I come go and do as opportunities present themselves, outings, concerts, movies, gardening, etc Otherwise I'm one of those that go to work church, care for my mom, then home. I exercise, I can be crafty when it hits me, but there's no Consistent Passion Project. I've prayed about it, there's nothing substantial yet. Any suggestions, or can you do a video on this including ideas for my age range as well please
Hi Chengi, what if I don't text him enough? Guys always complain I seem uninterested. I just don't like texting/ or feel the need to be in touch that much
Your beautiful for sure
Thank you 🙏🏾
💯👍🏽🙏🏽🙌🏾👏🏽!!
Ｐｒⓞм𝕠𝕤𝐌 😅
That second one…men these days don’t have emotional intelligence