What if I scare him off?
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- Опубликовано: 18 окт 2024
- I speak with so many of you who have concerns about any part of you scaring a man off...whether it's your beliefs, who you are, your sense of humor...today's video is a short and sweet pep talk for you to remember the TRUTH!
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This reminds me of something else I heard that stuck with me: “More communication should make a relationship better, not worse.” Too many times I’ve been worried that talking to a guy or reaching out to him (not 12 times a day lol) or bringing up something will be “too much” or “too needy” or push him away. This is just what I needed to hear!
I have had so many people tell me, "Shyanne you're running people off" and I have to remind them that if they're not prepared to be around me they're definitely not prepared to be in a relationship with me. I'm just gonna start sending people this video instead!
EVERY woman should HEAR this!!! We need to stop trying to catch the love from a man, we have to be ourselves and the man that truly loves you will embrace that! Thank you Emily as always for your deep, true, sweet and encouraging words ❤️
the posture of his heart will lean in 2:44 YES! the heart
A guy who runs away will not be a good husband.
If that ain't the truth.
Love this!!! Agree to you 100% Emily! I come from a culture if you're not married by 23 or 25 the latest there's something wrong... and I'm a bubbly/independent person and was told that I was too much and was intimidating guys ... and I believed it for a while until I gave it to the Lord last year in prayer and surrender that I'm on His timeline and He will find the guy for me that won't be intimidated... literally a few months later I met this lovely guy, who is now my fiancé and we're getting married in August! God is good ladies, and He is faithful, and trusting in His faithfulness and finding rest is honestly the biggest takeaway I have from that season ❤ hope this is encouraging
Oh how WONDERFUL! Congratulations Miriam!!
Awww so sweet you replied!! ❤🥰 thank you very much! Also wanted to say feel so blessed by your channel, have been watching your videos for about 3 years at least and you've encouraged me so much in my singleness period ❤
At this point in my life I have no problem just laying out all the things that I think would scare him off. I’ve “scared off” a couple of guys and while it sucks, it’s always been better for me in the end. I am now dating a wonderful guy who I’ve never been more scared to share things with, but who regularly fights for me and pursues me despite my fears. You ladies are worth that and more.
This is so so so important. Because if you are pretending to be something you’re not or hiding your true self you’re going to eventually be miserable in a marriage. Your true self will eventually come out and if he’s not 100% there for it all (and you for all of his unique qualities) there will be problems!
Amen, hallelujah! Be YOU ladies!
Listening to your dating advice gives me so much confidence that having high standards is good and waiting for a Godly guy is totally worth it! 🤍 Thank you for inspiring me! 🤗
He’s just not interested. Nothing to do with being scared or intimidated
I don't know if it is because of how I am but my approach to people is always honest I mean I do care like will he like this or dislike it, but there's just things in us that 'are'. What I mean is, why hide it? It, being my faith, my hobbies, my worries/insecurities (maybe the last one is for a deeper relationship). I learned that if the way I see life and future life "scares off" a man of stepping up and saying "Maybe I don't feel the same way about it but I want to understand and let's find common ground." It's just as Emily said he's NOT the one for you, and it can happen often sometimes but let them be scared because the man who knows he wants you for the rest of his life won't just see Rapunzel at the top of the tower, he will build a ladder.
Emily! I have been watching you for awhile and I just wanted to say this particular video is God's perfect timing. Also your wedding video has always represented to me the kind of relationship I want to be in: Christ-centered. I've really never seen a healthy relationship in my own life, so you are definitely like a wise big sister for me. Love you girl and love how powerfully the Holy Spirit speaks through you. ❤❤❤
I'm scared to be authentic with ANYONE besides my parents because I'm so different compared to my peers. I'm old fashioned in some respects, I have lots of health problems, I can be a bit opinionated in a bad way sometimes, I like classic music and shows/movies that have made people make fun of me for, I love sports/football ect. Also... I'm introverted. Like.... INTROVERTED..... I just have a hard time being myself with people in general let alone if being myself for a man with a mutual interest in each other.
P.S. the dinosaur part was hilarious lol
I was recently told that who I am, my personality and my character is the reason why I’m still single (at 19 lol).It’s like you got in my head because this is just what I needed to hear 😭🙏
I really needed to hear this Emily. Thank you! I have difficulty with overanalyzing my actions and every word that I say. This is something that I have become insecure about more recently. My family and friends (who are very supportive and invested in me) say that I am being too hard on myself. Ladies, let's be who God intended us to be and not overanalyze everything we say and do. You are all so beautiful in God's eyes!
amen hallelujah!!! Bringing this to Jesus in prayer right now as I’m in a new relationship 💘
A thousand percent, though the logic is late coming to most of us, unfortunately. If the person you really are scares someone off, just say nope, that wasn't the person for me. Alternatively: if you have to pretend to be other than who you are so as to NOT scare someone off....just how long are you going to go on pretending? How pointless and exhausting!
That's so encouraging! Thank you 💗 And I loved your advice to your friend. It's true, especially because when a woman likes a man, she will appreciate and be delighted with almost everything they would do for her. ☺
Emily, could you do a video talking about dating a good, godly guy but for some reason feeling like it's not the right relationship? It's confusing 😭
Dear Emily,
Thank you so much for this enlightening pep talk. I’ve always struggled with seeing the beauty in myself. However, your messages have always been a source of hope and a reminder to me of my innate worth which comes from the Lord.
I am quite a chatty and bubbly person which may be an understatement to others 😆. Because of my nature, I’ve always felt that I scare guys I’m attracted to away. Your assurance that they are NOT the person God has called for me has made my day and strengthened my belief that there is indeed nothing wrong with me.
God bless you Emily! You are raising a generation of female Catholics to become more in love with Jesus and themselves everyday ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you, Emily! I really appreciate your words of wisdom. We don't need to be afraid. ❤️
Why be with someone who can't appreciate who you are?
Thank you for this, Emily. I just chatted with a guy I met online and everything seemed to be going well. We said talk later and when I checked after two days, he had ghosted me! I was so surprised because we had seemed to connect and it came out of the blue. I started wondering if my approach (talking theology and beliefs first instead of being fun and talking about food and colors) had scared him off.
Only thing is, maybe you can scare someone a little if you do or say certain things too soon. You should be able to be your authentic self without sharing everything ever before you take time to get to know each other. But for sure, don’t hide you who you are because you need to know if they like who you really are. 🙃
Thank you, Emily! You encourage with every video. It can be so hard as a Woman of God to handle the world's rejection or relationship craziness but you really speak to everyone watching and I appreciate you.
Again, Emily, you speak to my heart! So relevant for me, especially this weekend
Thumbnail. Crazy chikita indeed 😂😂😂 love it!
we should be taught this at school . . my god . . so brilliant and so simple !!!
As always, thanks for the lovely video!
This is literally what I needed LOL
Thank you Emily... currently going through a breakup and needed to hear this
Nice reminder for ladies.
Thank you Emily i love it. 💕 it was so good and it helps me a lot. You‘re Energy was on the point today. 🌼💕😆
I would love to hear your thoughts in a video on whether men and women can just be friends, just platonic friends? There is a lot of controversy about this.
God Bless
I totally agree. But in the age of users and manipulators, the more you tell, the more they pretend to care so that they can use it against you.
Prayer and discernment are key.
Woah baby! I needed this today.
Holy cow I’ve never been the first comment. Thank Emily this was excellent.
Works in reverse too :)
This is SO true
Yesss! This is soo good❤
Perfect timing
i think this is tricky, what if the woman was toxic and the man running away was simply his way of saying yes to his own boundaries.
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I CAN DO ALL THINGS THROUGH CHRIST WHICH STRENGTHENS ME
PHIL 4:13
AMEN!
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Ughh girl!!!! Yes yes yes!!! The man that God has for you will not run from you after you have told him what matters to you!!!! I wish you were my sister!!!!
Cain hated Abel because Cain's works we're evil and Abel's we're good. Do not marvel that the world hate you. If they persecuted Jesus they will persecute you...