The ONLY 6 Things Women Notice About Men (First Impressions)
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We cannot change our age, height, IQ, DNA-embedded features,/flaws, or personality; all we can do is make the very best of what we have, how we present ourselves and how we behave.
In other words, hide your negatives and accentuate the positives.
I disagree that we can’t change our personality. I’ve changed my personality quite a lot over the years. Obviously some things remain constant over time but some of my best strengths I would have considered weaknesses 5-10 years ago
Don’t be fat. Solves almost all your problems.
I'm not sure about IQ. I think one can train the brain just like a muscle, basically by being curious. And by creating instead of consuming.
I often get the feeling that for some people thinking ist hard and they won't make the effort to exercise it.
@@prosaschleuder Changing one's IQ can be achieved by reading.
1: Physical attributes
2: Clothing
3: Non verbal/body language
4: How you intersect socially
5: Personality traits
6: Interest and lifestyle choices
1 place - money you have
These are also the 6 things she will notice in the Next guy. A loyal modern woman is like a Unicorn. Good luck.
He says "atTRIButes" funny. So point 1 jumps to point 5, his odd accent. American women, esecially in the Deep South, often think that I am from England or Europe, simply because I enunciate and speak proper American English. (I speak very few British English words.)
@@pavliga Money is in number 6, that you enjoy alpine skiing, polo, yachting, and summering in the South of France. Money will buy a good personal trainer at the gym and plastic surgery for No. 1.
Antonio, your channel has been wonderful. I'm going through a peaceful divorce(very thankful it's amicable) and have two boys. I'm 42 and just in the past three months, have leveled up my entire wardrobe. New shoes, watch, bracelet, skin care, I don't wear my gym shoes to every place I go, and I actually cut my nails more often. Since February, I've had two random people comment on the shoes, noticed women blatantly giving me the "head-to-toe" movement, and I'm just more confident. Men, quit being stubborn. This stuff really does work.
100%
Congratulations on your new journey MAN.
It does work! I could talk about my personal encounters but it’d be a few long paragraphs. I started back dressing nice again after Kevin Samuels pushed it and I just knew I had to up my style again, I’d fallen out of wearing nicer clothing. Since then yes, people seem to notice and treat me nicer and confuse me for management, etc. get the occasional nod and head to toe look. It’s nice.
On you brother 💪🙏
Honestly, confidence is a lot. And just levelling up a bit more than others
I started positive self talk and got into basic skin care and fragrances. I do acknowledge that I'm a bit more blessed genetically but I'm pretty short (5'6 but asian).
And I notice other guys around me don't even shave, wear the same clothes in a party, slouched and standing in the corner.
Just doing that extra bit that most people don't do and being confident goes a long way. It really supplements some complexes you have.
I was noticed a lot during the last party I attended. Good luck gents.
Started balding/thinning in my early twenties. Bald + beard is the way to go! And it works well with a suit or a rocker/punk look.
They notice all🙌
Big facts
Literally everything
Love this advice for men! It’s all so true. In general, the ATTITUDE of wanting to better yourself is super attractive.
I’m really enjoying your videos Antonio. They’ve inspired me to update my wardrobe and I even splurged for a very nice watch this week.
Awesome! thanks for sharing this.
There’s this thing I like to call “the equator of style”. The closer something is to the center of your body, the less important it is. The farther something is (ie shoes/socks, face hair) the more important it is
What about my sweet cowboy belt buckle?
Firstly great video Antonio, I think when someone is more “intelligent” or “knowledgeable” than the person they’re interacting with, it’s good to expose gaps in your own knowledge (as we all have them), especially if they are very knowledgeable about a topic, don’t pretend to loosely know everything (even if you know a little) but instead ask questions and learn from them. The old saying nobody likes a “know-it-all” couldn’t be more important in a dating scenario I think.
Also never trash talk other people or put others down - “ahhh the guy at my work was definitely born with a silver spoon blah blah blah…” that honestly, is suicide, we all do it but never when making a first impression. Trash talk comes later on when your relationship becomes boring and you both need to make yourselves feel better than the other couple 😂
I found so much value from your videos , the tips are so well resumed and applicable.
Thanks for the great list, Antonio!
FYI, the way you pronounced "attributes" in this video is for the verb that means to regard something as being caused by (someone or something). "He attributed the firm's success to the efforts of the managing director."
If you mean the noun meaning a quality or feature, the stress should be on the first syllable of the word.
Love your videos, keep up the good work!
Thanks for bringing that up! The way he pronounced "attributes" caught my ear too!
Bald (shaved clean) with a good build no problem, first started shaving my head to be safer at work but many women have told me it is kind of intimidating and shows confidence which intrigues them so I have shaved it ever since.
Antonio, the only physical attribute you need is money, if you got the coin, then you got the woman. Its all about the coin man. I have been single for a very long time, I have been out here for awhile.. If you are a blue collar working stiff like me, and cannot offer her security or a good life, well then, you are dead, your dead bro. You can forget about getting a 9. Unless you making decent money and can afford to finance dating , then forget it. Yes, I know that money is not everything, this is correct, money is not everything, it is the only thing.
No matter what your mother, your favorite fairytale, Hollywood or some dating coach tells you. MONEY TRUMPS ALL.
In your twenties I’d disagree but after 35 I think you are right
Since i shaved my thining and balding head and grew out my beard ( which was surprisingly an impressive one) i went up in dates drastically. Rocking it now. Great Video as usual
"You never know when youre going to be making your first impression" is extremely powerful advice. When I go out with my friends and they dress like they found their clothes in the trashbin behind wendys; I always rip on them lol
The only impression I care about giving women these days is that I don’t give a flying F what they think about me I’m so tired of women’s antics these days I genuinely do not even ask for numbers these days I run my business to take care of my son and that’s it. No woman no cry.🎉
LOL!
That's smart. Women these days are after one thing, your MONEY.
Good for you....I agree😊
Not all Women are like that..
@@ookapelirekkars6156 That's silly! As if women don't earn their own money.
I just found your channel a few days ago, and im glad i did :) you gibe 10/10 solid advice that everybody can follow. I dont exactly have the income to afford what i want to wear, so I'm stuck with t shirt and jeans for now, but with the knowledge from your channel I know that when I upgrade my wardrobe that I will be making the right choices!
It is important to remember that EVEN if a man has all those attributes and is considered a 10/10, MOST women will still not approach you because 1) she fears being rejected (women take rejection emotionally harder than men) 2) she expects you to do the approaching 3) she will automatically think you are a player and have more options to beautiful women which means having to compete which would be exhausting for her (which is why they tend to go for less attractive men).
Is it also, going for someone who looks real.
The last woman I want, is dressed up at a club. (If we are talking about a long term partner).
I can only talk for myself - but it’s so much more attractive that a guy is dressed sharp, fresh and showing effort than being some giga chad/male model.
Always spitting knowledge
Started losing hair so i just shaved it off! And more people found it attractive.
That is what I would do if I was losing hair. Do you get women wanting to touch your bald head, like a fetish?
@@alwayspooh1588 like George Costanza ? Lol😂
@@bulldawg7232 I had to look up who he is! Her should shave it all off - no silly side bits!
@Always Pooh no, there was a Seinfeld episode where he was dating a girl that liked bald men because she loved rubbing oil on their head
i'm in my late 30's with all my hair, but i can't grow a full beard.
I appreciate this format.
Short outline of the video and then diving right in to every point. No extra useless talk. Thank you for being considerate of your audiences time 👍
Thank you!
Antonio could you do a show focusing on going grey. I.e should you cut it dye it or style it. I think it would be really useful
I love this channel. Hearing a male voice is much needed. Keep it up RMRS!❤
be the better you
thanks for the guidance mate
Well I noticed that graded Wolverine comic back there. 🤘🏻
Good stuff!
60 percent don't care about dating or women anymore.😮
THANK YOU!! The Casio G-Shock IS my daily go-to... Economical, stylish and (most of all) BOMB proof!! Can NOT recommend Casio brand enough!!
Regarding the Watch topic I have got to give you guys a easy tip go to Walmart and go pick up a 20 or $30 Casio yes there are $30 Casio‘s that are divers with a metal band as well. I understand this isn’t a High end brand but it at least looks the part until you can save up for a nicer watch I want a Rolex explorer two eventually but this $20 Casio Forrester works excellent for work. The back light on it is an absolute torch at night and can be used as a flashlight as well the dim feature is super relaxing it reminds me of a campfire too
so much great advice
Great Video!!!
Good stuff, brother.
Thank you!
Antonio, sorry to do this, it’s not “a tributes” it’s “at tributes”. Love ya, brother!! Your channel is one of my favorites.
I like all these points you've touched on. I had two older sisters, so I understand dress, and some of the finer points. However, naturally I'm shy but due to my religious upbringing I used to give talks often and know how to make eye contact when talking. Also I'm short (5'2" thin hair on top). I went on a blind date about a month ago, got there pretty darn early (I had to drive over an hour and a half to be there so I left considering accidents/unexpected events). Anyways, she ran late and she told me her order. I refused until she got there, for her safety. Even though I'm not the most confident person, I can be confident when I need to and our date went very well. We've had a couple others since then, and I just want to appreciate your timely reminders and advice.
This video is amazing
WOW!!!! This advice is priceless i now have a new favorite channel. This advice is also given in the movie The Devil wears prada.i was an officer in the Air Force we were taught to own the room when we walk in. This video is Awesome!!!!
Hey Antonio, I've been loving your videos lately.
One piece of feedback is when you mentioned taking to women as a two way interview, I think calling it an interview can give some men the wrong impression. Lots of people are going on really bad "interview" style dates which can get really boring. Just something to keep in mind when giving advice about taking to women.
Keep doing what you're doing 👍
I like it whenever he says "Gents"
Just as an unsolicited product endorsement, that Vitaman hair food is the best smelling hair product I’ve ever used. Makes my hair look and feel great and frankly I’d pay twice as much for the scent alone.
Reall takkk i lovee ur videoss
Thanks Benjie!
If you have hair, a professionally cut and well kept hair makes a big difference. Its a big part of your head and crucial in first impressions.
Love VITAMAN products! They do work and smell great.
Damn you just got into the video! Nice.
BRB, I gotta return the hair retaining products I bought this morning. I guess there's better ones in that link above!
You're like my RUclips Dad - I listen to your videos daily and enjoy listening to you telling me and other men how to act and behave like a man. Thanks!
Thanks for the video Greetings from Tokyo Japan 🇯🇵👋🏼😊
Okay Sir so just asking , Does Vitaman work on African hair as well , i have been following up this channel for long but the only thing letting me down is hair now. Please help us find out a solution for tge African hair. 💆👌
💛 all your videos mate👍
Thanks mate!
@@RealMenRealStyle Your welcome mate👍
So true about watches. I have worn semi expensive watches like Rolex and Omega and to date the only two watches that have received compliments by the opposite sex was my humble Seiko SKX 009 Pepsi on a tan driving-rally strap about 3 times and once while wearing a strange little watch by Mr Jones Watches: The King on a bright red alligator strap. They both cost about $150 each.
Similarly, the Seiko 5 Automatic that I wore for over a year never got any notice from the ladies (and my workplace is mostly female), but they noticed when I replaced it with a $35 Timex sportwatch.🤷🏻♂
I am a gal. And I think this is one of your best info utubes
single?
@@muhammadahsan3380 I think this counts as putting your hat in the ring lqtm Way to apply concepts from the video.
@@tysonfromearth
@@muhammadahsan3380 SIMP?
New subscriber here, Antonio. I've gotta admit, excellent content, something we all(men) need.
I'm in doubt as to wearing turtlenecks in colder seasons and how current are they in today's fashion. Could you please clarify that whenever possible? Thanks in advance.
“If anything stinks, don’t wear it” lololololo the algorithm is buggin’ this morning
Something an uncle of mine said to me was “You will always look neat if your hair is groomed and your shoes are clean.”
I can do all of these except working out. I don't have the energy or stamina to do so. I know that's a terrible attitude to have about it. It's just something that I don't think I could ever change about myself. Fortunately everything else mentioned in this video I more or less already incorporate in my daily life.
Perhaps shift some of the energy/time from the current things you do to light exercise? Simply a suggestion, good luck, my man!
Your body gets used to it if you stay consistent. The first month of working out is the hardest.
I'm 72 and was diagnosed with diabetes a year ago. I'm lucky because I can control it with diet and exercise.
The point I'm making is I NEVER thought I could exercise. Even when young I didn't exercise because I got so tired. But now, with a disease hanging over my head, I decided to try to drop some pounds and get more energy!
It's surprising what 20-30 minutes of fast walking on a treadmill or outdoors will do for a person's stamina and how they feel. I started with ten minutes of slow walking and slowly brought it up to a fast pace and a longer time and I feel great afterward! I've lost 35 pounds too! I feel much more energic at 72 then I did at 42! Just from walking a half hour or less! (And of course I have to be very watchful of what I consume!) I tell people "If I can do it, anyone can!" 🙂
@@garmtpug wow! That's awesome to hear. I will make more of an effort to at the very least do something like you did
a walk around the block is maybe your work-out. Twice a week is maybe a good first target? :-) Forget the media standards of what a "work out" must be - every person's body is different
This made me laugh. I fell in love with my wife from the moment I met her. My wife also thought I was good looking, I was in good shape and even wearing a nice suit. I thought I was friendly and open. She hated me, thought I was arrogant. Two years later and she wanted to know why I hadn't made a move yet! 🤔
EDIT: Shoes are so important. Clean polished shoes is what I have told my sons for years and now finally they are taking my advice as they started work in high end law firms.
Oh yeah, bald and beard/facial hair definitely works. Even if you have the chiseled jaw line; having a contrast will work wonders.
I cannot wear clothes. I have a mental condition. However, I can, and often do, wear shoes. The money I save not buying clothes I use towards shoes, so I have some really nice ones, and the women’s compliment them quite often. Especially the black ones. Good luck, y’all. May the chickens roost and the turbos boost.
what do you mean you cant wear clothes? do you walk around naked?
Women pick up on confidence and effortless presence. They have a sixth sense for guys who appear as they are trying too hard.
I love it lol He used the term "Giga Chad". The red pill terminology is mainstream now.
Yup, Chad and Tyrone.
It's so important to have sex appeal. People are who we are. Some people don't have it , and they never will.
What about a citrus smell?
Using every thing to my advantage ty Antonio
This!
0:50 damn Antonio... cold
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To many good points in this vid to count
I'm a guitarist so my nails have to stay long on the picking hand. I am thinking of painting them black though.
Get a watch from Stauer. Great selection very affordable.
Actually, the very first thing she notices (if she is mature enough) is facial expression--not arrogant, not dismissive, but welcoming, admiring, and with a promise of intelligence and fun. This means more than physique, although physique is important, as well as clean and smelling good. But facial expression--don't forget it. And don't lie about anything. Most men tell a lie within 10 minutes of first meeting, and it is not a good start.
I do most of these things, everything but social media .. It's annoying to me and sucks up too much time I can be using to better myself .. Read a book, start a course, be creative, anything! Just don't be boring or subscribe to the trappings of modern societal weapons
Just wanted to share with the guys here on a rebuttal that guys can use when a girl uses the line, "I have a boyfriend"; MOST of the time, girls use this line as a way of brushing the guy off because she doesn't want to be approached or she wasn't seeing what she likes and most of the time it's not true that she has a boyfriend. Keep this in mind.
So, I've come up with a good rebuttal to the "I have a boyfriend"; When a girl says this use, "Well, I don't see a ring on your finger so I guess he's not that serious about you?" OR "I don't see a ring on your finger, so I guess the relationship isn't that serious?"
If the girl comes back with the response, "No, that's not it, we just haven't dated that long (or something to that effect), then respond with, "well, then you guys really are not that serious anyways, but if you were with me, I wouldn't be wasting your time making you wait for that ring!"
Then you can take the next step based on however she responds. Many times, one of these responses squashes the "I have a boyfriend" comment and the girl will most of the time, either stick to her conviction about having a boyfriend (which usually could me she was telling the truth) OR she will change her mind and give you the time of day.
This was how I was able to always weed out if the woman was being truthful of just trying to brush me off.
When a woman says she has a boyfriend, tell her you have one too and walk on.
Bald with stubble here. Owning it!
Let me just warn you, Antonio: You're getting popular among us "gents" and so the alphabet community + femishts might just notice you all of a sudden... Thanks for your good work
what Wolverine comic is that?
I must have great DNA, as I'm in my mid 50's, have plenty of head hair! Am I eating right, exercising etc.?
Quick question, do you use/own a fountain pen? If so I would like to see a video from you, your point of view, as people say when a man uses a fountain pen, he is more of a gentleman, that including how he dresses, treat others _(both genders),_ like his shoes etc.!
Apparently my great-grandfather had a full thick head of hair until he became terminally ill in his 80s. I've been told my hair looks very similar so fingers crossed!
I can vouch for him saying a lot of women like bald guys. This is especially true if you take good care of your scalp
I believe it’s Attributes -accent on first syllable. Accent on second syllable makes it a verb. Just saying…
Im bold, but have my beard always perfect ,work out, do my cardio, always wear great fragance
I wear Chrome by Azzaro. It's a citric, soapy scent that goes well with all occasions, whether it's at the office or when you're going out or exercising.
I wouldn't describe the scent as masculine, it's more a cousin of the unisex fragrance CK One (while still being distinct and its own thing), but women have told me they absolutely love it.
My body language is leave me alone and it serves me well.
I’m a nail tech. I’d use clippers instead of scissors to trim your nails, scissors can cut the tip of your finger off if not careful. Then go back and file them.
Is it true you should only file your nails in one direction?
@@jsc4354 yes, nail school tells u to file one direction on natural nail to prevent damage and in short strokes.
@@alexpham2618 Huh, never heard of that and never seen it done that way. Maybe I have just never paid attention. Thanks for the info.
The noun attribute is pronounced differently than the verb. Emphasis on first syllable, the a sound is like in the word back.
I hate being the grammar police, but ya, every time he said attribute I cringed. I’ve never heard it pronounced with the wrong emphasis before. Started wondering if it’s a regional dialect thing.
Safety perspective from a woman's point of view.
I think this is very easily overlooked by men of notable physical size and fitness. Guys, be aware that a strong confident masculine protector image is very desirable in a woman. Yet I think by not being aware men can make a woman feel insecure if he's not knowledgeable of this aspect of her condition.
that CJ default dancing is really unexpected from this channel
First, they study you. Then, they throw up an impenetrable force field.
If only women my age actually cared at all about style.
I dress well for myself and the respect of my peers. I don’t care what a woman thinks.
That's 100% the correct attitude to have. Don't let women try to dictate how you live your life.
All of these first 6 attributes are under the "does he make enough money" attribute. So, really there's only one they're analyzing. Because they figure if a man makes enough money "for them" they (women) can accept most "flaws."
True. Unless you're physically and verbally abusing them, women can overlook a lot of things.
We men notice things about women on first contact too. If she is eyeing us up just for the size of our pay cheque, that is shallow and she is not for us.
Interesting point. The 5-year divorce rate (first marriage) stands around 51-52%. Now, if you take a closer look at the data, When the man makes around 250k/year, divorce rate drops to around 20%. Around 500K → drops to around 10%.
Above 500k → drops to less than 5%.
80%+ of divorces are initiated by ladies.
Put above facts together. A certain picture emerges!
Video starts at 0:01.
is there a way for me to make my extremely long hair look professional?
Yea cut it off 😂
Depending on how you wear it compared to you’re dressed. And how you act. It also depends on your hygiene and in reality how long. For example, if it’s an “appropriate” length for a ponytail that fits your body and face with clothing style then I wouldn’t see and issue. There are some “chads” with that look. However if you look sloppy or just boring, then no.
I always coordinate my watch and one ring with my shirt. I also try to coordinate my boots with the shirt too. I wear exotic leather and reptile boots. Nothing too loud. Women notice. A lot. Comb your hair. Brush your teeth. Qtip your ears. Keep your facial hair crisp. Never have bad breath. Bam.
Being self-conscious about all this stuff will just undermine your confidence. Just be great sex and all that other stuff doesn't matter.
I yell "i am gigachad" when i work out
No time waste most lovable thing about you.
Thanks!
I need to become Giga Chad thanks Antonio
Next video will be about being a Giga Chad! 😂
Here's the truth-- she will only notice your shoes if she is physically attracted to you.
As a man I always look at another man's shoes, even the poorest man in the world can afford to clean their shoes, it is an indication of attention to detail, if a person can't take care of their own shoes how will they handle what I am trusting them with.
I'm so glad i'm a Marine (Ret.) because they taught me discipline and attention to detail, even such small things as little strings on my clothes.
Always have good hygiene, Wash hands, clothes and body often.
Personally I think wearing socks makes all the difference; I always carry a pair with me, just in case.