Thanks for watching. Keep a positive objective mindset when viewing content that opposes views that you don't agree with. That's what separates but also joins us in this world. There are plenty of youtubers with content that you can view with glowing, milky, "best of" highlight reels that you can watch. This is just one opinion. Relax. Cheers
And while we're on the subject, enough with the ALL CAPS responses. You sound silly. That's not the type of legacy you want to leave your children. They will be removed. I don't do hangry. Including comments clouded by emotions. Stay tuned. Cheers
@@icantbelieveya @Antoine Perkins IT'S ME-RI-DA. Both my parents were born there and my whole family is from there. Merida is one of the most safest, most beautiful and welcoming city in all of Mexico. The people there are of Mayan descent and are super humble and embracing. 48 hours is definitely not enough time to come up with such a conclusion. It actually makes me sad that you feel like that. It's one of the most magical and mystical cities if you researched it. Amazing culture and history. And it's sad that the ex pats are ruining the city's reputation. One of my cousins who lives there told me about the ban, but it's because of Covid. People were getting publicly drunk and being irresponsible so they banned drinking. You have no idea how lucky you are to be in the region. Youre just not with the right people. If you knew the beautiful places that are just hours away from you, you would be amazed. I've never ever heard anyone describe the Yucatan this way. Ever.
@@rosasinegal7991 Thanks for the reply. I said in the video that those who choose to watch are not going to like my opinion at the very beginning yet... continue to. Perhaps you care to explain the history of the abandoned plantations scattered all over the region? Maybe even the Nazi magazine I spotted in the OXXO store next to the crossword puzzles and childrens coloring books? That's a whole nother video, video, clearly. Covid has been a damper, but it not an excuse for everything. Just not feeling the place. This is just one video... out thousands. Cheers
@@markm3362 I prefer to fly. Border crossing by vehicle can take hours for entry. Unless you are familiar with the roads and tolls especially at night, I recommend a cab or bus service. Thanks for watching
I used to live in Hawaii which has a very high Japanese population. The Japanese tourist used to be so upset I didn’t know any Japanese. I always thought that was backwards bc they came to America expecting me to be knowledgeable of Japanese
It seems as if you haven't tried to adapt well enough. You don't even say the city name properly. Try Spanish in a Spanish speaking country. Your skin says Black man but your mindset says entitled American. I'm a Black woman doing all the research and every place isn't for everyone. Even your interaction in these comments are rude. That's NO BUENO!!
It seems that your channel could use some adaptation as well. Try adding your own content since you clearly have the time to play clinical psychologist. Judging people by their physical characteristics and their right to opinion is also no bueno. Start chopping. Thanks for watching.
You don't do a very good job of discribing your experience you sound very privileged black you been in a place for 2days and you act like you been there for a month if you don't like go back to your USA comfort zone and don't travail you suck!
NO KIDDING. Just listen to this clown at the 8:22 mark; Its no wonder this guy is so full of himself... yipping away in front of a recording video for all to see 🤦♂.
First of all, it's Merida Not Meridia. You complain that people don't speak English? Why should they speak your language? Don't you think that you have to speak their language? You need more than 2 days to learn and form an opinion about the people and culture. With all due respect, I think You are made to live in LA.
Blame my public schooling on the mispronouncing. You'll get over it. My video. My opinion. Secondly, I been here twice this year... Service sector and hospitality industry should speak or hire bilingual considering customer base. Reality. All due respect I LOVE LA. Thanks for watching the video
Antoine Perkins you couldn’t pay me to live in CA. It would turn me into a Republican. 😳 nothing but bad memories in CA. Everyone there screws you cuz they know you can’t afford a $400 an hr CA lawyer and the police are useless. I’d rather deal with the cartel. Lol.
@@TruthSeeker30_ No one said anything about moving. Now go lecture someone else online. Better yet, stop typing, book a ticket, and show RUclips how it's done.
Now you know what being an immigrant feels like. Constantly feeling like an outsider and never truly fitting in because you don't speak the language well. That's exactly what immigrants feel like when they move to America. It's a struggle, but you have to try to learn the language and adapt to a new culture. Being adaptable is key
There's a difference. I'm on vacation. I'm not trying to live permanently. As a matter of fact you can't even be a resident without proof that you can bring income in from outside the country. Not where I'm from....Period. Lastly, Google translate is life. Thanks for watching
I know that you're trying to address the elephant in the room. But this isn't the video for that. Nice try. I look forward to watching your content when you get around to creating some of your own. Cheers
I lived in LA for 5 years. Anyone who calls that place home is kidding themself. The traffic alone makes it impossible to want to spend your life there. I miss the weather but it doesn’t justify the cost of living and fake people you have to deal with. So where’s a better spot in Mexico to reside than Merida?
Lived in Los Angeles for 13 years and counting (without a car) I'm from a flyover state in the Midwest. I don't miss seasons or winters. There's phony people everywhere. Just because something is cheap doesn't make it better. You get what you pay for. Thanks for watching
Born and raised in l.a. and I can tell you most douchbags live on the west side. Those are the people who complain about anything and are the most self entitled people on the planet. There’s the west side of la and there’s everything else.
@@travelfam423 Drinking water is considered as a private good not a public good in Mexico.Its not as convenient as community managed water in other counties but this is why drinking tap water is not part of Mexican culture and is seen as strange behavior. There are companies that deliver clean filtered water to your house and it’s very cheap. This is why its not a priority, or a measure of quality of life in Mexico.
I do think merida is over hyped but you can’t call it Miami, that’s Cancun with out a doubt but your going to pay American prices so you get what you pay for. And about gringo prices you must not know that everywhere you can negotiate. Seem like chill dude but if your single I can tell why lol imagine dating someone who wants praises for leaving a tip lmao
Every time you said “Meridia” it made me quiver, no joke. I hope you do another video after your trip, to see if your view has changed. Maybe it’s too late and you’re too jaded to enjoy it. You say you are visiting this place from a practical standpoint, but what does that mean? Learning the language, and not “Americanizing” words would definitely open you up to better engagement with locals. As a person who lives in Japan, I don’t like engaging with most American tourists (unless they need help) because they seem to want to nothing more than to find something “American”. Whether that’s fast food, English language, something stereotypically Japanese, etc, it’s super closed minded and annoying.
So you're telling me that you actually had a physical reaction over mispronounced verbiage. You must be joking. Or lying. You'll live. You don't like engaging "most American tourists"who are at least willing to be curious about other regions and attempt to get out of their comfort zone? I'm not one that's jaded, brother. Thanks for watching Cheers
The pronunciation of Merida is "meh-ri-duh" Spanish is actually one of the easiest languages to learn for native English speakers, and just a few phrases will open up another world in Latin America for you. If you like the climate, the food and the Mexican people and want a place that is less of a cultural shock, then try Puerto Vallarta. In any case, Mexican culture is rich and deep, and I urge you to keep trying. Best wishes.
Thanks for the reply. You aren't first to correct my pronunciation...and you probably won't be the last(insert laughter here.) I'm a product of inner-city public schooling but I won't get into that. While we're exchanging historical culture topics See: José Maria Morelos Cheers
@@icantbelieveya you are too old to still be blaming the school system for your mispronunciation of words, specifically of a city that you’ve said you’ve visited at least three times. Your comments and this video show that you like to be the victim a lot. 🙄
Dude, you are homesick. You don't speak Spanish, that's got to be overwhelming, it's Mexico. People speak Spanish in Mexico, since the 1400's. Soooo...two days?? Two days??!! Maybe start by saying it " Mer-E-da", not Meridia. I don't know, maybe that's offensive to people who are from that city.
Okay then. Now watch the video again. While you're at it, watch my other videos which are actually pretty flattering in relation to Mexico actually. But you probably didn't bother to watch those. You'll get over it. My video my opinion. Make your own. Or better yet,find someone in the area with the intestinal fortitude to show me around instead typing angry responses on a crappy device. Thanks for watching.
@@icantbelieveya I wasn't & am not angry. Sorry for you out there alone. You came up on my feed, which is why I watched. Yeah, my phone is pretty crappy, lol. I guess Merida is not your vibe. At least you only have a couple of more days to go-😁
im an imigrant my self and i really understand,learning another language is hard.and it takes some cojones to adapt to a different culture trust me i when tru that, may be you need to stay in the USA.
@@icantbelieveya So we need to make content to comment on your videos?! Just because he’s not a content creator doesn’t mean he can’t comment on your videos. If you don’t want feed back on your content then turn comments off. This comment really showed how immature and hurt you are from his feedback.
You are a stranger there and you have to relax sir. Try to get a hold of yourself. Make the best of stay if you can and it seems that no one is trying to harm you so that's an A+. Well, ATLEAST you found that every place has a difference of how people and the environment can be. Thanks for sharing.
Some places aren't for everyone so it's always good to hear a honest good and bad perspective. I'm from the South love the heat and the food in Mexico. I just traveled back to Cancun last month. I wanted to visit Merida just to get my own perspective but the drive was about 3 hours. I couldn't fit it into my itinerary. It's grown so much in popularity I wanted to see if the hype was real. I also wouldn't mind living off the grid so to speak. It works for me but not for everyone we're all different. Also it's a shame nowadays you can't have an opinion about anything especially if it a difference of opinion. Thanks again for sharing.
Lol. I moved to Merida and love it. Lived in Denver, Colorado for 37 years. I love this city! But, I speak Spanish like a native, am Latina in culture, run around socializing with Mexicans, and get involved with others here. Everyone here does small business. I don't like California. People are moving out en masse out of that state. Probably because of the homeless issues in Los Angeles and the high cost of living. I have traveled for about 40 years over many states. Each has its charm. Merida is influenced by Mayans. The Mayans are not really into trusting foreigners. Why? The history of the place. But once they know you are interested in their culture, life and traditions? Very sweet people. Stay in LA. I think everyone should have the right to live in the place they most feel comfortable in. The Cold in Colorado is not for me. It never was. I prefer the heat and the coast and the old colonial style of the buildings downtown. I love the people above all else. To each their own eh?
I'm seeing this video 2 years after you made it. However I totally agree with just about everything you said. I visited July 2022. I found other expats, to not be friendly at all. I crossed paths with other Blacks who knew I was approaching and never even looked up. Very rude. Also, they do speak very little English. It almost seems on purpose. I had to constantly use Google translate and Google lens. And there is the Gringo Tax for sure. I think a lot over Black people definitely over hyped the place. If I decide to move I'm sure it won't be there. Its like the Black expats there, especially the women, want to keep their little group private. Which is cool. I don't socialize with people who aren't social.
Appreciate the video bro. I’m going in October to explore retirement there and in surrounding beach towns like progreso. Your vid was the first one that shed a negative light on it, and I’ve done extensive research. Thanks for your candor and openness. Is PV much more expensive and do the people speak more English there? Where would you recommend a single black man explore for retirement? Thanks again!
Thank you for the comment and viewing this clip objectively. Puerto Vallarta is one of Mexico's most affordable costal regions that's also minutes from beautiful beaches. Most locals speak English as well. If you are a first time traveler looking to reside, start with Ajijic, Guadalajara, Cabo San Lucas, or Mexico City to wet the appetite. You'll find plenty of friendly locals and expats. As always, please conduct your own independent research online. Safe travels, brother. Cheers
This guy was only there for a couple of days. Not sure I would take his opinion. Merida is nice, but really hot. Querétaro, México is nice too. Its safe, low cost of living. It also has cooler weather. Check it out. Also, if you want an option from a single black man in Mérida, try SPK Lifestyle's page. He actually lives there and has lots of info posted. Good luck!
Thanks for watching and the comment. Out of Mexico City, Guadalajara, Monterey, Merida, and Puerto Vallarta: I personally enjoy Puerto Vallarta.(video clip posted on my channel ) Cheers
Thanks for the video good to hear another opinion on a place I have seen lots of other videos on this city seems like an interesting place but I'm sure it does like most places have its drawbacks good parts etc that's anywhere you go Thanks for your open and honest view you posted we all have Opinions and should be open to hearing each other objectively and have mutual respect for each other no matter where we are from or choose to live visit etc
This is your video...but you can't give your opinion and then say shame on anyone that enjoys living there. Sometimes when you travel outside of the US, you can't expect what you would get in the US. True it is your opinion, and your entitled to that...thanks for the video!
People say the same about Los Angeles...and I enjoy living there. I can expect people to respect my opinion even if they don't agree with it. Thanks for watching.
So, lots to unpack - but first - need context - are there scouting the place out? Are you living there? Are you visiting? That would help me understand your POV better. Next, I'm someone who lived in Germany for over 3 years, and the one thing I've learned about languages is this, just like you and me, a non-native english speaker is hesitant to use english out of fear of doing it incorrectly, or they just don't know it. However, the expectation that english be used is confusing to me, you are in a spanish-speaking country, I think it's unrealistic to expect english anywhere beyond a hotel checkin or airport. And I get it, this can add up to a bad experience. Complaints about heat and mosquitos will get you nowhere with me, I lived in south Florida for 15+ years. And unable to drink, yes, that's a restriction put in place by the local government during a pandemic to minimize gatherings, no issue for me there - I happened to be in Costa Rica once during their Presidential election, no alcohol served for 3 days prior and 5 days after the election. Every place is different, and it's on the visitor to adapt as much as is reasonable. And even with all that, yeah, a place can still be 'bad', but I don't think matches what I've seen here on YT.
It may sound that way however, I've been to this region and city twice this year, including Mexico City, Guadalajara, Monterey, and Puerto Vallarta. So I've spent quite a bit of time to form my opinion. Hopefully you'll watch those videos as well. Thanks for watching.
Bear in mind that you went there during a pandemic. People are desperate to make a buck everywhere in the world. That's probably why you thought they saw you as a walking wallet. These are indeed hard times. For the short time that you spent there, you really can't make a judgement like that about the people not being appreciative. One bad experience is not enough to judge everyone. When you travel you have to go with an open mind, and a good attitude. Nevertheless, there are places that are just not for you. The more you travel, the more it opens your mind. I do appreciate you being candid, though. Your expectations are just different for you, than for others.
Thanks for watching. Please note or bear in mind that this is not my first time in this region. Actually this was the second trip this year...assuming you will be watching my other videos, I'd be interested to get your thoughts on those clips as well. Cheers
Thank you for your honesty. I have to agree that generally RUclipsrs seem to paint a fairy tale image of Merida and it is misleading. I have been here for over two weeks and it took me one week to recover from the disappointment I was feeling. I had a lot of confidence in my ability to speak Spanish but it quickly dissipated when I realized that their accent and fast speech is challenging to adjust to, and so any Spanish you have is only good for survival. It's not that you expect all the locals to know English. That wouldn't be fair. It's that you expect communication to be less daunting than it turns out to be. Merida has a charm of It's own, and wonderful people but I have to agree that if saving money is your intention for moving here, you might be sorely disappointed. I was hoping to get new glasses but I was told I won't save any money if I try to get an English-speaking optometrist. I thought the opposite would be the case. Without Spanish, you feel like you're more likely to be overcharged. Not all locals are like that but you need to know who you can trust and that is tough to know.
I was there in February for a week. There a tons of things to do. I am Panamanian living in America. It's paradise. There are tons of black Americans there. I am moving there in June 2022
Luckily I speak Spanish, so I hope that helps once I get to Merida. Is there another Mexican city that is modern, cheap, safe and not far from the beach that you would recommend?
If you care to view my other recent travel related clips, you'll find one unlikely region that I enjoy. I've traveled there many times since this video was uploaded. Thanks for watching
Although my family and I are planning to visit Merida, I am always glad to hear the experiences and perspectives of others. I also appreciate how you have articulated your experiences without being disrespectful or completely negative. Keep it real, and whoever doesn't like it will get over it.💪✊😊❤
Thanks for this video. Honestly though, after two days, you expect to be embraced by the locals and by expats? Seems like an over-the-top expectation. I would think that it would take at least a couple of weeks if not longer to make friends of locals and expats.
Thanks for watching. For a bit of context: this *was not* my first trip to this region. This was my *third*. Therefore, my expectations were more than valid given prior experience and visit to the area.
Don’t get discouraged in every country there are people who are friendly and people who are not u just haven’t run into your crowd once u find some friendly people u might feel better
Idk y there are so many dislikes. I never been but there always has to be someone who has another perspective. Merida is definitely on the list of places as even though I live in America and I am an American citizen, I am from the English Caribbean and it seems Merida is similar to what I am used to back home.
Thanks for watching. #1 The people commenting negatively are already *triggered* by opinions that they *don't agree with* and can't manage individuals who have them. #2 Probably couldn't point out the region *on a map* until this video was posted..or *Googled* it. #3 Using this video to *levy typical, dated, tired, Anti-American tropes* to justify insults, trolling, strawman arguments, gaslighting, and *xenophobia.* Bottom line: There were circumstances there that I didn't enjoy and I recorded it for others who have the same expectations and mindset when traveling. *Cheers*
Thank you. I love cool Queretaro I have been coming to Mexico for 60 years, mainly Acapulco. I always hang with local families. I do speak Spanish as a second language since age 14. I am aware, and I am 80. I do not loan or give money, but I am generous, but I must decide and God. Merida was too hot.
It’s a very difficult time all over the world. Covid has made socializing very difficult. Perhaps the standoffish you experienced was more Covid fear (people are limiting their bubbles). I have visited Mérida many times and have enjoyed every visit. Don’t forget you are in Mexico and it’s is the visitor who needs to adapt to the local culture. I look at the Meridians as spanish speaking Canadians.
Good points. However I hear the echoing when Americans demand visiting foreigners "speak English" in the states. Double standard. Covid has put a damper on travel for sure. Cheers
@@icantbelieveya its true. When traveling no one should expect the locals to understand a foreign language. There are individuals who will understand the visitors language and that usually comes at a premium.
@@robinmanser Let me be clear, I shouldn't have to be anything but lawfully respectful to the laws of that or any region. Anything besides that is a premium. Period. When I walk into a 7-Eleven with my foreign friends who are visiting and we purchase the same items, we are charged the same price. Not one price for them and another for me. We can agree to disagree. I didn't post this video to be lectured to. Quite the opposite. Thanks for the chat. Cheers
Those who may have been standoffish probably was afraid of catching covid. That's real. Also, after 2 days, you barley tried. Brother, you said it. You should of did some research and learned a few bits of Spanish before going to Mexico and expecting to hear people speaking English. That's just wrong.
Two days is not enough to criticize a place.... Plus LA it’s horrible Has he’ll... now There is many Black people and I haven’t heard complaining about things But of course it’s not for everyone .
Let's be clear: I've been there for two weeks. Second visit to Merida. Including Mexico City, Guadalajara, Monterey, and Puerto Vallarta (going in a few days). I can have an opinion that others don't appreciate. Black, white, yellow, or polkadot. I love LA. I know you're late to the party, but I'm tired of repeating myself. Proofread please. Thanks for watching
You are so right. However, I have to disagree with English speaking. I mean you're in their country they’re not entitled to speaking your language. Then on another note, I don't understand why a lot of Americans flock to Merida. There's so much better and your money can still go far elsewhere. In my opinion, coming from USA, then living in Europe for some years; Merida really feels like the slums. Europe has a lot to offer from safety, clean drinkable water, and beautiful, clean cities. I lived excellently and my USD went very far. I regret leaving Europe and trying out Merida after listening to all the hype... I'll definitely be leaving soon. Hope more americans will venture out more to other parts of the world other than Mexico.
As a person who has visited 45 countries, and I am from Florida but never had ANY interest in going to Mexico. The culture is ugly, the food is ugly, yuck
Thank you for your honesty, and views of other countries.. some of us just wish to journey the travel an see other dimensions of life are not afforded an opinion of our experiences , and how we may be viewed in the light of passerby’s, you have a right to your opinion of your experiences good luck on your endeavors.
You will always pay the gringo tax when in another country anywhere in the world where the dollar is stronger than their currency. Not just Americans, Europeans pay extra too. Brazil, Colombia, South Africa, Ghana, all over the world its the same. Maybe you’re not a world traveller and just learning, I dont know. You sound very entitled that people should have to speak english. You cant even pronounce the name of the city. No, you should speak their language at least the basics as a sign of respect. Also seems like you’re looking to drink and party and socialize. I get your video and its at least honest on how you feel about the place. Some people get homesick and need more comfort or similarity to their hometowns I guess.
Thanks for watching the video. So you're also tired of being bled dry when traveling abroad as well. If I understand you correctly. Agreed then. Nunca me siento nostálgico amigo. Cheers
Antoine Perkins Its not that I’m tired, its just that I know the deal and I dont take it personally. It usually doesnt bother me. Unless they ate really trying to get over over, like charging double or something like that. Here in Brazil, I’m fluent in Portuguese and know everyone in my neighborhood, so I dont pay any gringo tax. I suggest to travelers all the time, to learn the local language and things get much easier and more opportunities open up for you. Good luck next trip!
@@thebrazilshow Funny you should say that. On my trip Portugal, Brazilians weren't treated well by the locals. Even though they spoke the same dialect...but we both know why. Another topic. Another video. Obrigado
Antoine Perkins I do know what you mean. The Portuguese have a snobbish attitude towards Brazilians in general, and racist towards black Brazilians. But if you’re black American they will treat you better. (classism) But the Brazilians dont like the Portuguese either and its the same when they come to Brazil
I'm sorry you didn't have a good experience in Merida. Some places aren't for everyone. I hope you have a better experience somewhere else. Also, it seemed as if you did not do your research before you moved there and always learn the language of the country that you are going to visit or live. Good luck with your move back to the US.
Thanks for watching and the comment. To be clear, (please watch the video again for clearer context) I'm not here to reside. In addition to Mexico City, Guadalajara, and Puerto Vallarta I've been here twice. Sorry that you and others don't appreciate my difference of opinion but I have one. Lastly, I done enough research on the 14+ countries I've traveled to in the last three years Morocco, Germany, Portugal, Vietnam, and Spain. Cheers
Just asking a question: how in the world is a tourist going to learn the language of every nation they visit?how many american tourists know the language every country they visit? Not many.... I think what this guy is saying is that english is the most studied language in the world. Most countries teach their children english as a second language so it wouldnt be a stretch to think that in the tourist areas , that english would be spoken by the locals who serve the tourists like in other countries.
@@ertfgghhhh Thanks for the response and watching. As a matter of fact your comment is what I tried to articulate in this video. However, the snarkiness and collective bias is flowing in droves from defensive expats/apologists who respond emotionally which can be quite exhaustive.
It’s awesome to get the negatives. Yes he’s only been there for 2 day but, it’s also another perspective. Why ppl are being rude because u have an opinion is beyond me.
Please don't make a decision about Merida based on one person's opinion. I suggest you visit Merida (and any other city you're considering), and draw your own conclusions. I just got back to the US after 3 weeks in Mexico. I had originally planned to spend 4 days in Merida, but ended up staying 8 because I liked it. It's not a place I would want to live year-round because of the heat. However, this time of year (February), I did not find the heat at all oppressive. I am not going to dispute Antoine's perceptions point-by-point because I think the core issue is that Merida simply doesn't resonate with him. It happens. I have traveled extensively over the past 30+ years, and there were cities that others raved about that I could take or leave (Brussels, Vienna, Bangkok, Buenos Aires), and places that others talked trash about that I really enjoyed (Guatemala City, Bratislava, Cairo, Rio de Janeiro). I think most travelers have experienced this. No matter how much research you do or how many videos you watch, until you have YOUR feet on the pavement you are not going to know whether you will like a particular city. You may like the vibe in Merida or you may not. Either way, I think it would be a mistake to let one negative video about the city dissuade you from checking it out.
Once you are retired and have a guaranteed AMERICAN CHECK it might be OK to move there. Maybe. I was on a vacation and rode the local bus CHEAP and the locals were mean. They wanted me in those pricey taxis.
I didn't like the place after the *second time* I visited as explained in *this clip and others* on the topic. *Plantations, heat, and Nazi publications* on every newstand in Oxxo. So no, not feeling the place. Thanks for watching. Cheers
@@icantbelieveya I stayed a week 3 years ago. The local bus wouldn't stop until a white lady flagged him down. Locals murmured she should be in a uber paying higher prices. In the airport I was roughed up for sitting in the wrong area eventhough I was sick. I could go on and on. All that in a week.
That's crazy that you say no one speaks english there because all the other video's I've watched have said that A LOT of people there do speak English and will speak it with you if you ask them too.
@@realoneamariyanna3282 I have. Thank you. Feel free to view my *other videos* of other destinations I've traveled.. including Mexico City, Puerto Vallarta, Da Nang, Morroco, Thailand,.....
@Real one Amariyanna My experience was that some people speak English, some don't. It depends. I stayed at a little budget hotel on the edge of the historical center my first few days, and all of the front desk staff spoke good English. The rest of the staff spoke limited English or none at all. I then moved to an old historic hotel right off the main plaza. The desk clerks there spoke excellent English. The housekeeper who cleaned my room spoke no English, so I spoke to her in Spanish. I spoke to 4 or 5 employees at Walmart, none of whom spoke English, so I switched to Spanish. The vendors in the stores near my second hotel all seemed to speak at least a little English; some were fluent. The staff at two cafes near my hotel did not speak English. Neither did the clerks at two Oxxos I went to. I took a one-hour bus tour of Merida, and one of the ticket sellers spoke excellent English, the other spoke none. Neither of my two Uber drivers spoke English. I didn't find that "a lot" of people in Merida speak English or that "nobody" does. The truth is somewhere in-between. If a traveler doesn't speak Spanish, they may encounter a few frustrating situations, but overall they should be able to manage just fine.
Appreciate your honesty. We recently took a road trip from LA via Mesa AZ, Albuquerque to Denver for 2 weeks. All the good places were closed due to the pandemic. We did visit a brewery In Mesa. Less masks in Mesa. Albuquerque had just opened up the areal tram. Coors brewery was closed. Came back via Aspen but 75% of the stores and restaurants were closed. Last 2 days in Las Vegas. It was hard to find dinner on a Tuesday night. All but 2 restaurants were close (in the vicinity of our resort). If it wasn’t for the pools at the Mandalay Bay resort we may have said the same thing about Vegas as you say about Merida. COVID-19 has really put a damper on vacations of every sort. No shows, no live music and no people in one of the livelyest places on Earth.
Thank you for the comment and watching the clip. Very much appreciated. I agree completely Covid impacted nearly everything. This was my second trip to the area this year which was a lot more festive compared to this trip. But I had to be honest overall. I'll be in Phoenix in December. I love Taos btw. My next stop is Puerto Vallarta. Stay tuned! Safe upcoming travels. Cheers
I haven't been so I can't say you're right or wrong, but I CAN say that "gringo prices" are a thing everywhere and it really pisses me off! My Chicana friend and her boyfriend went. I figured they'd be okay since they're brown and speak Spanish, but NO. The locals saw them as Americans. They said one cab driver refused to give them change and another wanted money for giving them directions. The biggest complaint I've heard about Mexico is the people want money for EVERYTHING! Even at the bloody airport, the employee wanted a tip to do his job and take us to our gate. And our tour guide already got a tip than had the nerve to ask for more. Even in our 5 star hotel, we had to beg the concierge for our change. This really ruined my impression of Mexican people. Another one of my Chicano friends went and said he told some local guy that he's American, and the guy said, "So you're rich and you think you're better than me?" And wanted to fight him. Like I said I've experienced the same kind of mentality in other countries, but I think more so in Mexico than anywhere else. This is something Mexican people really need to work on if they want to earn hospitality points. But my guide told me Mexican people feel they have to be like this in order to survive. One Peruvian girl told me, "$5 is nothing for you, but a lot for them!" It doesn't matter, you don't tell someone 1 Sol, then charge them 20 Sols. The dentist thing happened to my mom in Poland. She got charged extra for being an American. Even in freakin CANADA, we got charged extra in a park for being Americans. WE don't do this to foreigners. They don't realize a lot of Americans save up for years to travel somewhere and students especially travel on a budget. I agree with you that expats can be snobbish, but I'm surprised they would act that way towards their fellow countrymen. The beer ban wouldn't bother me since I don't drink much anyways, but it just surprised me as I thought Mexico was one of the easiest places to get beer. You shouldn't expect them to speak English, but at the same time they shouldn't expect YOU to know the language of every country you visit. Some people just don't want to accept that English has become the universal language. I figured in such a popular tourist and expat destination people would know it. But yeah, this mentality really needs to change. They complain about low wages, but don't take into account what they can buy for those wages. And in Mexico you're considered "poor" if you don't own a car. But I assure you, you're not the only one who had this experience in Mexico. That being said, you could at least TRY to pronounce the name of the town right.
I have to agree with this guy. I've been in Mérida Mexico for almost 3 months. This place is full of liars, swindlers, and most of the city feels like one big slum. Except like one area. The rich area has lots full of trash and dog crap all over the roads. There are better places in Mexico than this city. Cities that are cleaner and a butt load cheaper. I have 8 days left and can't wait to leave.
Lolll Have no idea what you are referring to but as someone who lives in a luxury apartment in a private gate community/rich area it’s a whole different ballgame. Absolutely no trash and no dog poo.
I love your video, I knew it was too good to be true, I am a single mom and I am a teacher so I do make about $5,000 a month it's not too much but I knew that I could live comfortable if I had to and I my only problem is is that I do carry a firearm as a woman with the infant son I've seen too many movies and not only that I grew up hunting and with the uncertainty of the United States I don't know when the next food is coming I don't know maybe I'm being dramatic but I just don't believe in this paradise thing going on but it does look nice on camera however when I traveled from Europe I never felt better Landing back into the United States I love how sweet you are I'm just curious what other places do you suggest you keep mentioning there's other places? Why did you go there for dental work aside from the cheaper prices? Thank you so much for any advice or info take care and be safe God bless
RUclipsrs in Merida are definitely sugar coating it (I know because I’m in Merida right now). If you’re into going out to eat and feeling safe walking around, you will like it here. But forget about entertainment, you can’t even play basketball. Upside is you can get a 1br apartment close to El Centro for $250 a month or a 2br house for $500 a month. I highly recommend coming here with someone. Right now I’m trying to get someone from the states to join me.
Thanks for the comment. Not going to go into too much detail about my medical issues. But I will say that savings plays a big part of it. Secondly, please do your own research when considering life changing transition to any region. Do not take any RUclipsrs online or off at face value. Period. You see the fraction of the responses I got from this video? Imagine what their response would be if you were fully committed or in a jam being abroad! Yikes! It's up to you at the end of day. Good luck. Safe travels
@@icantbelieveya well thank you I was doing my own research that's why I actually commented on your video because everyone else seems to think it's Heaven there but I understand and respect your privacy thank you for wishing me well God bless
@@Gottigirl No. Thank you! And stay blessed. The universe is already steering your path and providing you the answers. I'm just some kid from Ohio that posted a video on a device. Cheers
@@giftedgreen2152 thanks for ur honesty. So 1. It really is cheap 2. Its is like Orlando like gifted green said. So its fairly clean and fairly safe 3. It is not a place for someone who knows no one or by urself. People are not friendly or welcoming. It would be a better experience if u go with a significant other 4. Locals try to take u for ur money and overcharge u 5. Unlike in europe, asia, africa, and canada, english isnt spoken Did i get it right?
watch Ravi Patel's Pursuit of Happiness, he. examines 4 places to retire and takes his aging parents to Merida. I think you'll see it through a different age group, but definitely the closing down of cities during a pandemic gives a different perspective when you can't enjoy everything a city has to offer.
Thanks for comment and watching. I'll consider the recommendation. For now, my opinion on Merida is pretty clear after visiting twice (once this year pre-covid) and recently. Just not my cup of tea. Cheers
Thank you for this! Very honest and brave! I can assess a place pretty quickly also but it sounds like you have been there before and traveled extensively. Covid may color the experience but I have watched many RUclips videos on Merida where as you said they make it sound like "paradise" . I think they try be positive and not so honest in order to get clicks and subscribers to keep following them while there but the repeated comments that do come through loud and clear that it is way too hot there, comments that Progreso is a cruise ship draw and is a disappointing beach destination even though it one of the closest beaches from Merida (25 minute bus ride?) and comments that Merida doesn't in general have a lot going on . Some like that - some don't but RUclipsr's should be more honest about aspect. The Yarbro's just left due to the heat and not much happening in Merida - they sounded disappointed also. Puerto Vallarta was a very welcoming place, everyone made an effort to help, talk to you, make you feel safe and appreciated you being there and being interested in their area. They were proud to be fair, friendly and also made a point to say that PV was a place where anyone could be anything and you are free be who you are and supported the LGBTQ tourists and anyone there. Yes maybe there is a scam or two or overpricing sometimes- but I think especially with Covid - they were so grateful for visitors, new and future residents and the expats were waving you over for drinks. And yes drinks...also same for Guadalajara, Mexico City.
Because those vloggers A, are either PC Liberals who don't wanna sound "culturally insensitive" and lose subscribers or God forbid get demonatized. Or B, are getting paid by the local tourism board to promote their city. But I partially blame RUclips for threatening to ban vloggers who post even something remotely "offensive". Only seen a handful of honest vlogs. But travel shows do the same thing. Bizarre Foods was able to make dangerous impoverished countries look like welcoming paradise. They portray a false image than people show up and end up disappointing. That's why I miss Anthony Bourdain and Todd Carmichael. They showed the truth. A lot of vloggers don't want to let their bad experiences define a particular location. This is problamatic, because then when you DO post about a negative experience, YOU end up being the bad guy. But from my personal experience, most people on this planet are liars and cheats. And no, people are NOT the same everywhere. Two neighboring countries can have two completely different cultures and mentalities.
"and comments that Merida doesn't in general have a lot going on" I guess it depends what you're looking for. For someone like myself who loves history and authentic culture, I would probably enjoy Merida. But if you're more of a beach/night life/party person, then Merida might not be for you.
@@briantravelman Thanks for watching and the comment. People mispronounce my name ALL the time and I don't trip. I'm a product of a public school system...(Insert laughter here ) The root canal treatment I had the day I recorded this footage is also a factor perhaps? My other videos briefly address additional historical topics related to this area that no one going to bother to watch. Their loss. Shout out to Anthony Bourdain! Cheers
Thanks for your input on this matter as you have first hand knowledge about and I tend to take the trendy tourist information with a grain of salt because they are repeating the same narrative and the agenda is probably money. I get sick of controlled media. Organized liked everything by mankind to do one thing. That is to make as much money as possible. People want to hear what they believe to be true and get defensive when it contradicts. They prefer the echoes of their own perspective. So thanks for just being yourself and from your perspective it doesn’t have to match anyone else. Lol
Antoine, apparently you didn't do much research and had a bad experience. It is not a good time to visit the area or experience Mexican hospitality. American expats don't smile anywhere you go, Latinos do. Not everyone wants to learn English and if you have a language barrier, the experience is even worst. Try saying Buenos Dias with a smile. Also, when covid 19 restrictions are lifted hopefully in January or February, it will be much better. Merida is not for everyone. Better luck next time amigo Gringo.
Thanks for watching and the comment. My Spanish is rudimentary at best. And what I couldn't communicate google translate played a sufficient tool. American expats are grumpy, yes but they're first to make comparisons about their adopted region. I'll be in Puerto Vallarta in a week. Buenos tardes, amigo.
@@icantbelieveya Puerto Vallarta is nice. Make sure you go to Ibiza restaurant. They make the best lobster spanish paella and also try their home made tequila. Have a good time.
@@mr.b6226 Thanks brother. I've been a vegetarian for a while, but I'll try the homemade tequila. Gonna hit up your recommendations on my way to Planeta Vegetariano. Cheers
Mr. B I have to agree with you that A lot, but not all Americans are more serious, don’t smile when the speak and are not considered “warm, friendly” people especially in Latin American countries. I used to do tours in Rio de Janeiro and Bahia Brazil. i would have groups of 10 to 20 people, and there’s always the trouble maker(s) in these groups and 9 out of 10 times it was the Americans. People would comment that the Americans always appeared angry at something. Being an expat myself I understood that Americans can come off as entitled, centered and guard their privacy and would explain this to my Brazilian staff and family. Many Americans live a solitary life, based on “work” and earning money, whereas in South America/ Mexico/ Central America - more value is placed on family and friendships,
As a Mexican your comment was racist bro, this dude didn't like my city that's ok bro everybody thinks differently maybe he needs to travel more to find his best spot which he can feel more comfortable with Stop being a butt-hurt merida citizen 🤣🤣
Thanks brother certainly the most honest review of Merida that I've heard let's be honest majority of reviews are about selling something painting a positive picture typically. That said I am still planning to visit Merida and see for myself not sure where I will end up in Mexico but huge country and very diverse going to remain open minded so we'll see. Again thank you for a very raw, honest review we need more of this...Tom
And thank you brother for watching and commenting. Much appreciated. Mission accomplished. Hit El Lucero del Alba when you go. Great place. Safe travels
C'mon man...this was my *second trip* totaling a whole month in this region. You actually think I uploaded this content after only *two days* of being there? Get some *context* before *you* make judgments and start typing.
It was just too hot for me. Acapulco was great for 60 years..but earthquakes were the deal breakers. I hang with locals. Querétaro works for me. People please leave. I left at 79. Excellent No problems in Querétaro Move out of the USA. Relocate. The people. $75k direct deposits. God is in control. 50 -80's best music Move to Querétaro folks, and be safe,clean.cooland
I think his opinion is non-bias. I see an LA transplant saving 1000s on dental bills in Merida. Soon as he said “hot as Haiti” I scratched Merida off the list.
Folks just remember, Mexico is NOT the US. Our culture is way different and its not for all. Merida is still a very tiny town. Some people will adjust, but many wont. That is the reality.
(Folks) Just remember, the (United States) is not (Mexico). Our culture is *way* different. It's not for all. Los Angeles is a company town. *Some people will adjust, but many won't.* That is the reality.
If the hype isn’t for you then move on to something you like. No need for a diatribe video against the people or city of Merida. It makes you look like every aggrieved American tourist. Entitled
Antoine Perkins exactly what I said on my message. With the information you gave on your video, if the hype isn’t for you (within the realm of "you opinions" well very simple, just like you said move on... otherwise your rants make you sound entitled (like many aggrieved Americans). Cheers better yet find your happy you deserve it.
I don't want to go to any place where English isn't the primary language. There are still cheaper states in America to go to, so leaving America for cheaper living is unnecessary in my opinion, and are just walking into traps to be ripped off in other countries.
I'm sorry but you need to go elsewhere. When you don't speak a language it's very hard to maneuver around. Like negotiating, engaging the natives, getting around, etc. You expect people to kiss your behind because their providing a service, well maybe thst means that their really not starving. I'm going out there in February, with an open mind, knowing there are pros and cons. There is no such thing as paradise. Good thing I speak fluent Spanish.
I'm sorry but you need to proofread your comment. And while we're on the subject, I can travel anywhere I like. Period. Thanks for watching and safe travels. Cheers
I just finished watching another video that made Meridia sound like paradise. I was thinking that there was probably another side to it. Thank you for the information.
Thanks for watching. Keep a positive objective mindset when viewing content that opposes views that you don't agree with. That's what separates but also joins us in this world. There are plenty of youtubers with content that you can view with glowing, milky, "best of" highlight reels that you can watch. This is just one opinion. Relax. Cheers
To add: Mérida is not the only place in Mexico to live or visit. Contrary to what you see on RUclips.
And while we're on the subject, enough with the ALL CAPS responses. You sound silly. That's not the type of legacy you want to leave your children. They will be removed. I don't do hangry. Including comments clouded by emotions. Stay tuned. Cheers
@@icantbelieveya @Antoine Perkins IT'S ME-RI-DA. Both my parents were born there and my whole family is from there. Merida is one of the most safest, most beautiful and welcoming city in all of Mexico. The people there are of Mayan descent and are super humble and embracing. 48 hours is definitely not enough time to come up with such a conclusion. It actually makes me sad that you feel like that. It's one of the most magical and mystical cities if you researched it. Amazing culture and history. And it's sad that the ex pats are ruining the city's reputation. One of my cousins who lives there told me about the ban, but it's because of Covid. People were getting publicly drunk and being irresponsible so they banned drinking. You have no idea how lucky you are to be in the region. Youre just not with the right people. If you knew the beautiful places that are just hours away from you, you would be amazed. I've never ever heard anyone describe the Yucatan this way. Ever.
@@rosasinegal7991 Thanks for the reply. I said in the video that those who choose to watch are not going to like my opinion at the very beginning yet... continue to. Perhaps you care to explain the history of the abandoned plantations scattered all over the region? Maybe even the Nazi magazine I spotted in the OXXO store next to the crossword puzzles and childrens coloring books? That's a whole nother video, video, clearly. Covid has been a damper, but it not an excuse for everything. Just not feeling the place. This is just one video... out thousands. Cheers
@@markm3362 I prefer to fly. Border crossing by vehicle can take hours for entry. Unless you are familiar with the roads and tolls especially at night, I recommend a cab or bus service. Thanks for watching
I used to live in Hawaii which has a very high Japanese population. The Japanese tourist used to be so upset I didn’t know any Japanese. I always thought that was backwards bc they came to America expecting me to be knowledgeable of Japanese
It seems as if you haven't tried to adapt well enough. You don't even say the city name properly. Try Spanish in a Spanish speaking country. Your skin says Black man but your mindset says entitled American. I'm a Black woman doing all the research and every place isn't for everyone. Even your interaction in these comments are rude. That's NO BUENO!!
It seems that your channel could use some adaptation as well. Try adding your own content since you clearly have the time to play clinical psychologist. Judging people by their physical characteristics and their right to opinion is also no bueno. Start chopping. Thanks for watching.
we don't say Arrroyo Grande properly or New Orleans, happens all the time in every country -give people a break - black man, black woman - all human
Well said!
You don't do a very good job of discribing your experience you sound very privileged black you been in a place for 2days and you act like you been there for a month if you don't like go back to your USA comfort zone and don't travail you suck!
NO KIDDING. Just listen to this clown at the 8:22 mark; Its no wonder this guy is so full of himself... yipping away in front of a recording video for all to see 🤦♂.
First of all, it's Merida Not Meridia. You complain that people don't speak English? Why should they speak your language? Don't you think that you have to speak their language? You need more than 2 days to learn and form an opinion about the people and culture. With all due respect, I think You are made to live in LA.
Blame my public schooling on the mispronouncing. You'll get over it. My video. My opinion. Secondly, I been here twice this year... Service sector and hospitality industry should speak or hire bilingual considering customer base. Reality. All due respect I LOVE LA. Thanks for watching the video
Antoine Perkins you couldn’t pay me to live in CA. It would turn me into a Republican. 😳 nothing but bad memories in CA. Everyone there screws you cuz they know you can’t afford a $400 an hr CA lawyer and the police are useless. I’d rather deal with the cartel. Lol.
@@angiegracie6954 Wonderful. Good luck with the cartel.
@@TruthSeeker30_ Maybe you should do the same...I have no idea what your trying to say with this comment. But thanks for watching.
@@TruthSeeker30_ No one said anything about moving. Now go lecture someone else online. Better yet, stop typing, book a ticket, and show RUclips how it's done.
Now you know what being an immigrant feels like. Constantly feeling like an outsider and never truly fitting in because you don't speak the language well. That's exactly what immigrants feel like when they move to America. It's a struggle, but you have to try to learn the language and adapt to a new culture. Being adaptable is key
There's a difference. I'm on vacation. I'm not trying to live permanently. As a matter of fact you can't even be a resident without proof that you can bring income in from outside the country. Not where I'm from....Period. Lastly, Google translate is life. Thanks for watching
I know that you're trying to address the elephant in the room. But this isn't the video for that. Nice try. I look forward to watching your content when you get around to creating some of your own. Cheers
This guy sounds dumb
One correction the United States is not America, the entire continent is, we are just a country without a name hogging the name of a continent.
@@PatsyC57 obviously north America and south America are continents.
I lived in LA for 5 years. Anyone who calls that place home is kidding themself. The traffic alone makes it impossible to want to spend your life there. I miss the weather but it doesn’t justify the cost of living and fake people you have to deal with. So where’s a better spot in Mexico to reside than Merida?
Lived in Los Angeles for 13 years and counting (without a car) I'm from a flyover state in the Midwest. I don't miss seasons or winters. There's phony people everywhere. Just because something is cheap doesn't make it better. You get what you pay for. Thanks for watching
LA turned me into a functioning alcoholic. I blame the traffic.
@@giftedgreen2152 Congratulations on your sobriety
@@icantbelieveya you get a lot more than you pay for in Cali, but it ain't good anymore :(
Born and raised in l.a. and I can tell you most douchbags live on the west side. Those are the people who complain about anything and are the most self entitled people on the planet. There’s the west side of la and there’s everything else.
Méxicos awarded best area for overall quality of life
Glad you liked the video. Thanks for watching.
but the water isnt drinkable so how is this the best quality of life
@@travelfam423 Drinking water is considered as a private good not a public good in Mexico.Its not as convenient as community managed water in other counties but this is why drinking tap water is not part of Mexican culture and is seen as strange behavior. There are companies that deliver clean filtered water to your house and it’s very cheap. This is why its not a priority, or a measure of quality of life in Mexico.
@@fcplop98 got thanks for knowledge... can you suggest a cheap company that delivers?? Thanks
I vomited 3 times drinking local water from from mexico bathrooms are different overthere
I do think merida is over hyped but you can’t call it Miami, that’s Cancun with out a doubt but your going to pay American prices so you get what you pay for. And about gringo prices you must not know that everywhere you can negotiate. Seem like chill dude but if your single I can tell why lol imagine dating someone who wants praises for leaving a tip lmao
Okay. Thanks for watching and the random, online relationship advice. (Insert laughter here) Cheers
Every time you said “Meridia” it made me quiver, no joke. I hope you do another video after your trip, to see if your view has changed. Maybe it’s too late and you’re too jaded to enjoy it.
You say you are visiting this place from a practical standpoint, but what does that mean? Learning the language, and not “Americanizing” words would definitely open you up to better engagement with locals.
As a person who lives in Japan, I don’t like engaging with most American tourists (unless they need help) because they seem to want to nothing more than to find something “American”. Whether that’s fast food, English language, something stereotypically Japanese, etc, it’s super closed minded and annoying.
So you're telling me that you actually had a physical reaction over mispronounced verbiage. You must be joking. Or lying. You'll live. You don't like engaging "most American tourists"who are at least willing to be curious about other regions and attempt to get out of their comfort zone? I'm not one that's jaded, brother. Thanks for watching Cheers
HE DOES NOT HAVE TO SOUND LIKE A LATIN PERSON, HE DOES WHAT HE CAN, IF I CAN UNDERSSTAND HIM EVERYBODY ELSE WILL UNDERSTAND HIM FOR SURE.
The pronunciation of Merida is "meh-ri-duh" Spanish is actually one of the easiest languages to learn for native English speakers, and just a few phrases will open up another world in Latin America for you. If you like the climate, the food and the Mexican people and want a place that is less of a cultural shock, then try Puerto Vallarta. In any case, Mexican culture is rich and deep, and I urge you to keep trying. Best wishes.
Thanks for the reply. You aren't first to correct my pronunciation...and you probably won't be the last(insert laughter here.) I'm a product of inner-city public schooling but I won't get into that. While we're exchanging historical culture topics See: José Maria Morelos Cheers
@@icantbelieveya you are too old to still be blaming the school system for your mispronunciation of words, specifically of a city that you’ve said you’ve visited at least three times. Your comments and this video show that you like to be the victim a lot. 🙄
@@icantbelieveya Thanks for the video! Like you I am always struggling with Spanish pronunciations !
@@icantbelieveya I make mistakes also. So I practice
@@wendishaver9520 they struggle with English words.
Dude, you are homesick. You don't speak Spanish, that's got to be overwhelming, it's Mexico. People speak Spanish in Mexico, since the 1400's. Soooo...two days?? Two days??!! Maybe start by saying it " Mer-E-da", not Meridia. I don't know, maybe that's offensive to people who are from that city.
Okay then. Now watch the video again. While you're at it, watch my other videos which are actually pretty flattering in relation to Mexico actually. But you probably didn't bother to watch those. You'll get over it. My video my opinion. Make your own. Or better yet,find someone in the area with the intestinal fortitude to show me around instead typing angry responses on a crappy device. Thanks for watching.
No siento nostalgia. Pero estoy harto de estos comentarios desagardables. Dude.
@@icantbelieveya I wasn't & am not angry. Sorry for you out there alone. You came up on my feed, which is why I watched. Yeah, my phone is pretty crappy, lol. I guess Merida is not your vibe. At least you only have a couple of more days to go-😁
@@perlazehetner4143 I've been here for two weeks. Cheers
@@icantbelieveya After two weeks has your opinion changed?
The great thing about Mexico as a whole is there are many other cities to visit. Hope you find a more suitable place.
Already ahead of you, brother. Puerto Vallarta next month. I'll be taping footage of that visit. Cheers
im an imigrant my self and i really understand,learning another language is hard.and it takes some cojones to adapt to a different culture trust me i when tru that, may be you need to stay in the USA.
Thanks for watching. Maybe I should actually travel more and tackle those challenges you are referring to. That's how we learn. Hit or miss
Btw: No content. No subscribers on profile. Seems legit. I appreciate the effort. Cheers
@@icantbelieveya So we need to make content to comment on your videos?! Just because he’s not a content creator doesn’t mean he can’t comment on your videos. If you don’t want feed back on your content then turn comments off. This comment really showed how immature and hurt you are from his feedback.
You are a stranger there and you have to relax sir. Try to get a hold of yourself. Make the best of stay if you can and it seems that no one is trying to harm you so that's an A+. Well, ATLEAST you found that every place has a difference of how people and the environment can be. Thanks for sharing.
People vacation *to relax* so I don't really understand what you're getting at. However, I appreciate your concern. Thanks for watching. *Cheers*
Some places aren't for everyone so it's always good to hear a honest good and bad perspective. I'm from the South love the heat and the food in Mexico. I just traveled back to Cancun last month. I wanted to visit Merida just to get my own perspective but the drive was about 3 hours. I couldn't fit it into my itinerary. It's grown so much in popularity I wanted to see if the hype was real. I also wouldn't mind living off the grid so to speak. It works for me but not for everyone we're all different. Also it's a shame nowadays you can't have an opinion about anything especially if it a difference of opinion. Thanks again for sharing.
Lol. I moved to Merida and love it. Lived in Denver, Colorado for 37 years. I love this city! But, I speak Spanish like a native, am Latina in culture, run around socializing with Mexicans, and get involved with others here. Everyone here does small business. I don't like California. People are moving out en masse out of that state. Probably because of the homeless issues in Los Angeles and the high cost of living. I have traveled for about 40 years over many states. Each has its charm. Merida is influenced by Mayans. The Mayans are not really into trusting foreigners. Why? The history of the place. But once they know you are interested in their culture, life and traditions? Very sweet people. Stay in LA. I think everyone should have the right to live in the place they most feel comfortable in. The Cold in Colorado is not for me. It never was. I prefer the heat and the coast and the old colonial style of the buildings downtown. I love the people above all else. To each their own eh?
Agreed. To each their own: ruclips.net/video/4d7u-rFbXA4/видео.html
*Thanks for watching.*
I'm seeing this video 2 years after you made it. However I totally agree with just about everything you said. I visited July 2022. I found other expats, to not be friendly at all. I crossed paths with other Blacks who knew I was approaching and never even looked up. Very rude. Also, they do speak very little English. It almost seems on purpose. I had to constantly use Google translate and Google lens. And there is the Gringo Tax for sure. I think a lot over Black people definitely over hyped the place. If I decide to move I'm sure it won't be there. Its like the Black expats there, especially the women, want to keep their little group private. Which is cool. I don't socialize with people who aren't social.
Appreciate the video bro. I’m going in October to explore retirement there and in surrounding beach towns like progreso. Your vid was the first one that shed a negative light on it, and I’ve done extensive research. Thanks for your candor and openness. Is PV much more expensive and do the people speak more English there? Where would you recommend a single black man explore for retirement? Thanks again!
Thank you for the comment and viewing this clip objectively. Puerto Vallarta is one of Mexico's most affordable costal regions that's also minutes from beautiful beaches. Most locals speak English as well. If you are a first time traveler looking to reside, start with Ajijic, Guadalajara, Cabo San Lucas, or Mexico City to wet the appetite. You'll find plenty of friendly locals and expats. As always, please conduct your own independent research online. Safe travels, brother. Cheers
Hello Richard. I’m doing the same soon; considering driving. Not sure if safe to drive alone but looking at videos to get a feel of locales.
@@cpark801 sadly enuff, i dont think its safe for any of us to drive south of thd u.s. border with someone or by ourselves
This guy was only there for a couple of days. Not sure I would take his opinion. Merida is nice, but really hot. Querétaro, México is nice too. Its safe, low cost of living. It also has cooler weather. Check it out.
Also, if you want an option from a single black man in Mérida, try SPK Lifestyle's page. He actually lives there and has lots of info posted. Good luck!
@@ms.andrea172 I am subscribed to his page and you’re right, he has a wealth of knowledge and information. Thanks for the tip.
Thanks for the insights Antoine Perkins, of all the places you been in Mexico which one is the most pleasant to you?
Thanks for watching and the comment. Out of Mexico City, Guadalajara, Monterey, Merida, and Puerto Vallarta: I personally enjoy Puerto Vallarta.(video clip posted on my channel ) Cheers
Hi, i am interested in doing dental work can you please help with info as where to go and dentist name
Thanks for the video good to hear another opinion on a place I have seen lots of other videos on this city seems like an interesting place but I'm sure it does like most places have its drawbacks good parts etc that's anywhere you go Thanks for your open and honest view you posted we all have Opinions and should be open to hearing each other objectively and have mutual respect for each other no matter where we are from or choose to live visit etc
Explain to me why theres a ban on purchasing alcohol????
This is your video...but you can't give your opinion and then say shame on anyone that enjoys living there. Sometimes when you travel outside of the US, you can't expect what you would get in the US. True it is your opinion, and your entitled to that...thanks for the video!
People say the same about Los Angeles...and I enjoy living there. I can expect people to respect my opinion even if they don't agree with it. Thanks for watching.
So, lots to unpack - but first - need context - are there scouting the place out? Are you living there? Are you visiting? That would help me understand your POV better. Next, I'm someone who lived in Germany for over 3 years, and the one thing I've learned about languages is this, just like you and me, a non-native english speaker is hesitant to use english out of fear of doing it incorrectly, or they just don't know it. However, the expectation that english be used is confusing to me, you are in a spanish-speaking country, I think it's unrealistic to expect english anywhere beyond a hotel checkin or airport. And I get it, this can add up to a bad experience. Complaints about heat and mosquitos will get you nowhere with me, I lived in south Florida for 15+ years. And unable to drink, yes, that's a restriction put in place by the local government during a pandemic to minimize gatherings, no issue for me there - I happened to be in Costa Rica once during their Presidential election, no alcohol served for 3 days prior and 5 days after the election. Every place is different, and it's on the visitor to adapt as much as is reasonable. And even with all that, yeah, a place can still be 'bad', but I don't think matches what I've seen here on YT.
Okay. Thanks for watching. The painting/video is already complete. Interpret how you like. I love Dresden btw.
Sounds like you've only been there 2 days. Not a lot of time to give a thorough review
It may sound that way however, I've been to this region and city twice this year, including Mexico City, Guadalajara, Monterey, and Puerto Vallarta. So I've spent quite a bit of time to form my opinion. Hopefully you'll watch those videos as well. Thanks for watching.
I think that you might find Cancún more to your liking due to your perspective. It might be more of what your looking for as a traveler.
I'm more of a Puerto Vallarta type. Feel free to watch that clip also. Thanks for watching. Cheers
Bear in mind that you went there during a pandemic. People are desperate to make a buck everywhere in the world. That's probably why you thought they saw you as a walking wallet. These are indeed hard times.
For the short time that you spent there, you really can't make a judgement like that about the people not being appreciative. One bad experience is not enough to judge everyone.
When you travel you have to go with an open mind, and a good attitude.
Nevertheless, there are places that are just not for you. The more you travel, the more it opens your mind.
I do appreciate you being candid, though. Your expectations are just different for you, than for others.
Thanks for watching. Please note or bear in mind that this is not my first time in this region. Actually this was the second trip this year...assuming you will be watching my other videos, I'd be interested to get your thoughts on those clips as well. Cheers
I totally agree...
It's HIS experience, he's allowed to express his opinions.
Thank you for your honesty. I have to agree that generally RUclipsrs seem to paint a fairy tale image of Merida and it is misleading. I have been here for over two weeks and it took me one week to recover from the disappointment I was feeling. I had a lot of confidence in my ability to speak Spanish but it quickly dissipated when I realized that their accent and fast speech is challenging to adjust to, and so any Spanish you have is only good for survival. It's not that you expect all the locals to know English. That wouldn't be fair. It's that you expect communication to be less daunting than it turns out to be. Merida has a charm of It's own, and wonderful people but I have to agree that if saving money is your intention for moving here, you might be sorely disappointed. I was hoping to get new glasses but I was told I won't save any money if I try to get an English-speaking optometrist. I thought the opposite would be the case. Without Spanish, you feel like you're more likely to be overcharged. Not all locals are like that but you need to know who you can trust and that is tough to know.
my wif and I were considering moving to Merida, we don't know what to think because it looks so affordable and such a convenient place to live
I was there in February for a week. There a tons of things to do. I am Panamanian living in America. It's paradise. There are tons of black Americans there. I am moving there in June 2022
Congratulations. *Still* not my cup of tea. Thanks for watching.
Thank you for this.
Learning the language is super important.
More paying people, and they want more,
Which other cities in Mexico you like more?
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Luckily I speak Spanish, so I hope that helps once I get to Merida.
Is there another Mexican city that is modern, cheap, safe and not far from the beach that you would recommend?
If you care to view my other recent travel related clips, you'll find one unlikely region that I enjoy. I've traveled there many times since this video was uploaded. Thanks for watching
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Hi, what the title of that other video? I will look to see if I can find it, thanks 🙏
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Although my family and I are planning to visit Merida, I am always glad to hear the experiences and perspectives of others. I also appreciate how you have articulated your experiences without being disrespectful or completely negative. Keep it real, and whoever doesn't like it will get over it.💪✊😊❤
*Obrigado,* brother. And thank you kindly for watching.
Safe travels.
*Cheers*
I appreciate you sharing your knowledge!
Thanks for this video. Honestly though, after two days, you expect to be embraced by the locals and by expats? Seems like an over-the-top expectation. I would think that it would take at least a couple of weeks if not longer to make friends of locals and expats.
Thanks for watching. For a bit of context: this *was not* my first trip to this region. This was my *third*. Therefore, my expectations were more than valid given prior experience and visit to the area.
Good looking out oG!
Now I know what to expect form the locals
I’m gonna give them the benefit of the doubt
But with you in mind all the time.......
in my case I just want to go to Merida for a week enjoy the weather, the food and the atmosphere
Bring an umbrella, a towel, and mosquitoe repellent. Hope you like OXXO and Walmart. Otherwise order out and tip generously for delivery.
@@icantbelieveya lololol hohoho bro
Don’t get discouraged in every country there are people who are friendly and people who are not u just haven’t run into your crowd once u find some friendly people u might feel better
Wow good to hear this I'm close to cancelling my trip.
Idk y there are so many dislikes. I never been but there always has to be someone who has another perspective. Merida is definitely on the list of places as even though I live in America and I am an American citizen, I am from the English Caribbean and it seems Merida is similar to what I am used to back home.
Thanks for watching. #1 The people commenting negatively are already *triggered* by opinions that they *don't agree with* and can't manage individuals who have them. #2 Probably couldn't point out the region *on a map* until this video was posted..or *Googled* it. #3 Using this video to *levy typical, dated, tired, Anti-American tropes* to justify insults, trolling, strawman arguments, gaslighting, and *xenophobia.* Bottom line: There were circumstances there that I didn't enjoy and I recorded it for others who have the same expectations and mindset when traveling. *Cheers*
*Edited* only for clear "in da face" context and Google's sloppy *keyboard correction software.*
This video is facts. I’m experiencing a lot of this now.
Thank you. I love cool Queretaro I have been coming to Mexico for 60 years, mainly Acapulco. I always hang with local families. I do speak Spanish as a second language since age 14. I am
aware, and I am 80. I do not loan or give money, but I am generous, but I must decide and God. Merida was too hot.
It’s a very difficult time all over the world. Covid has made socializing very difficult. Perhaps the standoffish you experienced was more Covid fear (people are limiting their bubbles). I have visited Mérida many times and have enjoyed every visit. Don’t forget you are in Mexico and it’s is the visitor who needs to adapt to the local culture. I look at the Meridians as spanish speaking Canadians.
Good points. However I hear the echoing when Americans demand visiting foreigners "speak English" in the states. Double standard. Covid has put a damper on travel for sure. Cheers
@@icantbelieveya its true. When traveling no one should expect the locals to understand a foreign language. There are individuals who will understand the visitors language and that usually comes at a premium.
@@robinmanser Let me be clear, I shouldn't have to be anything but lawfully respectful to the laws of that or any region. Anything besides that is a premium. Period. When I walk into a 7-Eleven with my foreign friends who are visiting and we purchase the same items, we are charged the same price. Not one price for them and another for me. We can agree to disagree. I didn't post this video to be lectured to. Quite the opposite. Thanks for the chat. Cheers
"Spanish speaking canadians" 😂😂😂😂, the comparitions you americans use 🤣😂, but actually it's accurate, "yucatecos" are, in general, very polite people.
Those who may have been standoffish probably was afraid of catching covid. That's real. Also, after 2 days, you barley tried. Brother, you said it. You should of did some research and learned a few bits of Spanish before going to Mexico and expecting to hear people speaking English. That's just wrong.
Two days is not enough to criticize a place.... Plus LA it’s horrible Has he’ll... now There is many Black people and I haven’t heard complaining about things But of course it’s not for everyone .
Let's be clear: I've been there for two weeks. Second visit to Merida. Including Mexico City, Guadalajara, Monterey, and Puerto Vallarta (going in a few days). I can have an opinion that others don't appreciate. Black, white, yellow, or polkadot. I love LA. I know you're late to the party, but I'm tired of repeating myself. Proofread please. Thanks for watching
You are so right. However, I have to disagree with English speaking. I mean you're in their country they’re not entitled to speaking your language. Then on another note, I don't understand why a lot of Americans flock to Merida. There's so much better and your money can still go far elsewhere. In my opinion, coming from USA, then living in Europe for some years; Merida really feels like the slums. Europe has a lot to offer from safety, clean drinkable water, and beautiful, clean cities. I lived excellently and my USD went very far. I regret leaving Europe and trying out Merida after listening to all the hype... I'll definitely be leaving soon. Hope more americans will venture out more to other parts of the world other than Mexico.
Good points. However if a region entitled to commerce from a foreign customer base, hiring bilingual locally is not a lot to ask. Thanks for watching.
As a person who has visited 45 countries, and I am from Florida but never had ANY interest in going to Mexico. The culture is ugly, the food is ugly, yuck
Meridia?
No..but you know what I'm talking about. So did the Airplane and airline that flew me here. Cheers
I lived in Merida and hated it! Back in Baja and loving it. Merida is not worth the hype.period.
I love your honesty, you crack me up.
Answer my question please.
Thank you for your honesty, and views of other countries.. some of us just wish to journey the travel an see other dimensions of life are not afforded an opinion of our experiences , and how we may be viewed in the light of passerby’s, you have a right to your opinion of your experiences good luck on your endeavors.
Thank you for your comment. I also appreciate the time you took to watch and share your thoughts and fair-minded feedback. Cheers
Thank you for speaking your truth.
You will always pay the gringo tax when in another country anywhere in the world where the dollar is stronger than their currency. Not just Americans, Europeans pay extra too. Brazil, Colombia, South Africa, Ghana, all over the world its the same. Maybe you’re not a world traveller and just learning, I dont know. You sound very entitled that people should have to speak english. You cant even pronounce the name of the city. No, you should speak their language at least the basics as a sign of respect. Also seems like you’re looking to drink and party and socialize. I get your video and its at least honest on how you feel about the place. Some people get homesick and need more comfort or similarity to their hometowns I guess.
Thanks for watching the video. So you're also tired of being bled dry when traveling abroad as well. If I understand you correctly. Agreed then. Nunca me siento nostálgico amigo. Cheers
Antoine Perkins Its not that I’m tired, its just that I know the deal and I dont take it personally. It usually doesnt bother me. Unless they ate really trying to get over over, like charging double or something like that. Here in Brazil, I’m fluent in Portuguese and know everyone in my neighborhood, so I dont pay any gringo tax. I suggest to travelers all the time, to learn the local language and things get much easier and more opportunities open up for you. Good luck next trip!
@@thebrazilshow Funny you should say that. On my trip Portugal, Brazilians weren't treated well by the locals. Even though they spoke the same dialect...but we both know why. Another topic. Another video. Obrigado
Antoine Perkins I do know what you mean. The Portuguese have a snobbish attitude towards Brazilians in general, and racist towards black Brazilians. But if you’re black American they will treat you better. (classism) But the Brazilians dont like the Portuguese either and its the same when they come to Brazil
I'm sorry you didn't have a good experience in Merida. Some places aren't for everyone. I hope you have a better experience somewhere else. Also, it seemed as if you did not do your research before you moved there and always learn the language of the country that you are going to visit or live. Good luck with your move back to the US.
Thanks for watching and the comment. To be clear, (please watch the video again for clearer context) I'm not here to reside. In addition to Mexico City, Guadalajara, and Puerto Vallarta I've been here twice. Sorry that you and others don't appreciate my difference of opinion but I have one. Lastly, I done enough research on the 14+ countries I've traveled to in the last three years Morocco, Germany, Portugal, Vietnam, and Spain. Cheers
*I've done...Nice name btw
Just asking a question: how in the world is a tourist going to learn the language of every nation they visit?how many american tourists know the language every country they visit? Not many....
I think what this guy is saying is that english is the most studied language in the world. Most countries teach their children english as a second language so it wouldnt be a stretch to think that in the tourist areas , that english would be spoken by the locals who serve the tourists like in other countries.
@@ertfgghhhh Thanks for the response and watching. As a matter of fact your comment is what I tried to articulate in this video. However, the snarkiness and collective bias is flowing in droves from defensive expats/apologists who respond emotionally which can be quite exhaustive.
It’s awesome to get the negatives. Yes he’s only been there for 2 day but, it’s also another perspective. Why ppl are being rude because u have an opinion is beyond me.
Thank you my brother. I will not be moving there after seeing your video so thank you for saving me
Please don't make a decision about Merida based on one person's opinion. I suggest you visit Merida (and any other city you're considering), and draw your own conclusions.
I just got back to the US after 3 weeks in Mexico. I had originally planned to spend 4 days in Merida, but ended up staying 8 because I liked it. It's not a place I would want to live year-round because of the heat. However, this time of year (February), I did not find the heat at all oppressive.
I am not going to dispute Antoine's perceptions point-by-point because I think the core issue is that Merida simply doesn't resonate with him. It happens. I have traveled extensively over the past 30+ years, and there were cities that others raved about that I could take or leave (Brussels, Vienna, Bangkok, Buenos Aires), and places that others talked trash about that I really enjoyed (Guatemala City, Bratislava, Cairo, Rio de Janeiro). I think most travelers have experienced this.
No matter how much research you do or how many videos you watch, until you have YOUR feet on the pavement you are not going to know whether you will like a particular city. You may like the vibe in Merida or you may not. Either way, I think it would be a mistake to let one negative video about the city dissuade you from checking it out.
Once you are retired and have a guaranteed AMERICAN CHECK it might be OK to move there. Maybe. I was on a vacation and rode the local bus CHEAP and the
locals were mean. They wanted me in those pricey taxis.
TWO DAYS..........REALLY GET TO KNOW A PLACE.................IN TWO DAYS.
Stop shouting. I've been here two weeks. Second visit here. Thanks for your time.
Thanks for your opinion.
Why are you having such troubles with Merida when I hear nothing but good thing's about this place 😍
I didn't like the place after the *second time* I visited as explained in *this clip and others* on the topic. *Plantations, heat, and Nazi publications* on every newstand in Oxxo. So no, not feeling the place. Thanks for watching. Cheers
@@icantbelieveya I'm sorry for your experience in beautiful Mexico.
@@realoneamariyanna3282 No worries. It's not all of Mexico, thankfully. Just that region.
@@icantbelieveya I stayed a week 3 years ago. The local bus wouldn't stop until a white lady flagged him down. Locals murmured she should be in a uber paying higher prices. In the airport I was roughed up for sitting in the wrong area eventhough I was sick. I could go on and on. All that in a week.
That's crazy that you say no one speaks english there because all the other video's I've watched have said that A LOT of people there do speak English and will speak it with you if you ask them too.
Do me a favor: Go online and book yourself a round-trip ticket. Stop taking these high production RUclips travel videos as gospel. I did. *Cheers*
@@icantbelieveya Thank you and hope you have better luck elsewhere
@@realoneamariyanna3282 I have. Thank you. Feel free to view my *other videos* of other destinations I've traveled.. including Mexico City, Puerto Vallarta, Da Nang, Morroco, Thailand,.....
@Real one Amariyanna My experience was that some people speak English, some don't. It depends.
I stayed at a little budget hotel on the edge of the historical center my first few days, and all of the front desk staff spoke good English. The rest of the staff spoke limited English or none at all. I then moved to an old historic hotel right off the main plaza. The desk clerks there spoke excellent English. The housekeeper who cleaned my room spoke no English, so I spoke to her in Spanish.
I spoke to 4 or 5 employees at Walmart, none of whom spoke English, so I switched to Spanish. The vendors in the stores near my second hotel all seemed to speak at least a little English; some were fluent. The staff at two cafes near my hotel did not speak English. Neither did the clerks at two Oxxos I went to.
I took a one-hour bus tour of Merida, and one of the ticket sellers spoke excellent English, the other spoke none. Neither of my two Uber drivers spoke English.
I didn't find that "a lot" of people in Merida speak English or that "nobody" does. The truth is somewhere in-between. If a traveler doesn't speak Spanish, they may encounter a few frustrating situations, but overall they should be able to manage just fine.
I think you'd like Cancun more
More of Mexico City type. But my upcoming trip to Puerto Vallarta might change that perspective. Thanks for commenting.
Appreciate your honesty. We recently took a road trip from LA via Mesa AZ, Albuquerque to Denver for 2 weeks. All the good places were closed due to the pandemic. We did visit a brewery In Mesa. Less masks in Mesa. Albuquerque had just opened up the areal tram. Coors brewery was closed. Came back via Aspen but 75% of the stores and restaurants were closed. Last 2 days in Las Vegas. It was hard to find dinner on a Tuesday night. All but 2 restaurants were close (in the vicinity of our resort). If it wasn’t for the pools at the Mandalay Bay resort we may have said the same thing about Vegas as you say about Merida. COVID-19 has really put a damper on vacations of every sort. No shows, no live music and no people in one of the livelyest places on Earth.
Thank you for the comment and watching the clip. Very much appreciated. I agree completely Covid impacted nearly everything. This was my second trip to the area this year which was a lot more festive compared to this trip. But I had to be honest overall. I'll be in Phoenix in December. I love Taos btw. My next stop is Puerto Vallarta. Stay tuned! Safe upcoming travels. Cheers
10 minutes of my time that I’ll never get back 😣
Welcome to RUclips. Thanks for watching! Cheers
😂😂😂😂
Are there a lot of spiders in Merida?? I have arachnophobia BAD!!!!
You might see *a few* to be honest.
Tell the truth. Thank you from Querétaro.
it was hard to sit through this whole thing he takes forever to get t the point and repeats his points far too much I bet this guy is fun at parties
I'll take that as a compliment, sunshine. Thanks for watching. *Cheers*
If you can survive in the US as a black man hell you can live anywhere.
I haven't been so I can't say you're right or wrong, but I CAN say that "gringo prices" are a thing everywhere and it really pisses me off! My Chicana friend and her boyfriend went. I figured they'd be okay since they're brown and speak Spanish, but NO. The locals saw them as Americans. They said one cab driver refused to give them change and another wanted money for giving them directions. The biggest complaint I've heard about Mexico is the people want money for EVERYTHING! Even at the bloody airport, the employee wanted a tip to do his job and take us to our gate. And our tour guide already got a tip than had the nerve to ask for more. Even in our 5 star hotel, we had to beg the concierge for our change. This really ruined my impression of Mexican people. Another one of my Chicano friends went and said he told some local guy that he's American, and the guy said, "So you're rich and you think you're better than me?" And wanted to fight him. Like I said I've experienced the same kind of mentality in other countries, but I think more so in Mexico than anywhere else. This is something Mexican people really need to work on if they want to earn hospitality points. But my guide told me Mexican people feel they have to be like this in order to survive. One Peruvian girl told me, "$5 is nothing for you, but a lot for them!" It doesn't matter, you don't tell someone 1 Sol, then charge them 20 Sols. The dentist thing happened to my mom in Poland. She got charged extra for being an American. Even in freakin CANADA, we got charged extra in a park for being Americans. WE don't do this to foreigners. They don't realize a lot of Americans save up for years to travel somewhere and students especially travel on a budget. I agree with you that expats can be snobbish, but I'm surprised they would act that way towards their fellow countrymen. The beer ban wouldn't bother me since I don't drink much anyways, but it just surprised me as I thought Mexico was one of the easiest places to get beer. You shouldn't expect them to speak English, but at the same time they shouldn't expect YOU to know the language of every country you visit. Some people just don't want to accept that English has become the universal language. I figured in such a popular tourist and expat destination people would know it. But yeah, this mentality really needs to change. They complain about low wages, but don't take into account what they can buy for those wages. And in Mexico you're considered "poor" if you don't own a car. But I assure you, you're not the only one who had this experience in Mexico. That being said, you could at least TRY to pronounce the name of the town right.
I have to agree with this guy. I've been in Mérida Mexico for almost 3 months. This place is full of liars, swindlers, and most of the city feels like one big slum. Except like one area. The rich area has lots full of trash and dog crap all over the roads. There are better places in Mexico than this city. Cities that are cleaner and a butt load cheaper. I have 8 days left and can't wait to leave.
Do u have recommendations?
you should try chicago with all the africans
Lolll Have no idea what you are referring to but as someone who lives in a luxury apartment in a private gate community/rich area it’s a whole different ballgame. Absolutely no trash and no dog poo.
I love your video, I knew it was too good to be true, I am a single mom and I am a teacher so I do make about $5,000 a month it's not too much but I knew that I could live comfortable if I had to and I my only problem is is that I do carry a firearm as a woman with the infant son I've seen too many movies and not only that I grew up hunting and with the uncertainty of the United States I don't know when the next food is coming I don't know maybe I'm being dramatic but I just don't believe in this paradise thing going on but it does look nice on camera however when I traveled from Europe I never felt better Landing back into the United States I love how sweet you are I'm just curious what other places do you suggest you keep mentioning there's other places? Why did you go there for dental work aside from the cheaper prices? Thank you so much for any advice or info take care and be safe God bless
RUclipsrs in Merida are definitely sugar coating it (I know because I’m in Merida right now). If you’re into going out to eat and feeling safe walking around, you will like it here. But forget about entertainment, you can’t even play basketball. Upside is you can get a 1br apartment close to El Centro for $250 a month or a 2br house for $500 a month. I highly recommend coming here with someone. Right now I’m trying to get someone from the states to join me.
Thanks for the comment. Not going to go into too much detail about my medical issues. But I will say that savings plays a big part of it. Secondly, please do your own research when considering life changing transition to any region. Do not take any RUclipsrs online or off at face value. Period. You see the fraction of the responses I got from this video? Imagine what their response would be if you were fully committed or in a jam being abroad! Yikes! It's up to you at the end of day. Good luck. Safe travels
@@icantbelieveya well thank you I was doing my own research that's why I actually commented on your video because everyone else seems to think it's Heaven there but I understand and respect your privacy thank you for wishing me well God bless
@@Gottigirl No. Thank you! And stay blessed. The universe is already steering your path and providing you the answers. I'm just some kid from Ohio that posted a video on a device. Cheers
@@giftedgreen2152 thanks for ur honesty. So
1. It really is cheap
2. Its is like Orlando like gifted green said. So its fairly clean and fairly safe
3. It is not a place for someone who knows no one or by urself. People are not friendly or welcoming. It would be a better experience if u go with a significant other
4. Locals try to take u for ur money and overcharge u
5. Unlike in europe, asia, africa, and canada, english isnt spoken
Did i get it right?
watch Ravi Patel's Pursuit of Happiness, he. examines 4 places to retire and takes his aging parents to Merida. I think you'll see it through a different age group, but definitely the closing down of cities during a pandemic gives a different perspective when you can't enjoy everything a city has to offer.
Thanks for comment and watching. I'll consider the recommendation. For now, my opinion on Merida is pretty clear after visiting twice (once this year pre-covid) and recently. Just not my cup of tea. Cheers
fewer africans than the USA. USA is a toilet of gangs and guns
Thank you for this! Very honest and brave! I can assess a place pretty quickly also but it sounds like you have been there before and traveled extensively. Covid may color the experience but I have watched many RUclips videos on Merida where as you said they make it sound like "paradise" . I think they try be positive and not so honest in order to get clicks and subscribers to keep following them while there but the repeated comments that do come through loud and clear that it is way too hot there, comments that Progreso is a cruise ship draw and is a disappointing beach destination even though it one of the closest beaches from Merida (25 minute bus ride?) and comments that Merida doesn't in general have a lot going on . Some like that - some don't but RUclipsr's should be more honest about aspect. The Yarbro's just left due to the heat and not much happening in Merida - they sounded disappointed also. Puerto Vallarta was a very welcoming place, everyone made an effort to help, talk to you, make you feel safe and appreciated you being there and being interested in their area. They were proud to be fair, friendly and also made a point to say that PV was a place where anyone could be anything and you are free be who you are and supported the LGBTQ tourists and anyone there. Yes maybe there is a scam or two or overpricing sometimes- but I think especially with Covid - they were so grateful for visitors, new and future residents and the expats were waving you over for drinks. And yes drinks...also same for Guadalajara, Mexico City.
Thank you very much for the comment and the sensible viewpoint. I really appreciate that. Cheers
Because those vloggers A, are either PC Liberals who don't wanna sound "culturally insensitive" and lose subscribers or God forbid get demonatized. Or B, are getting paid by the local tourism board to promote their city. But I partially blame RUclips for threatening to ban vloggers who post even something remotely "offensive". Only seen a handful of honest vlogs. But travel shows do the same thing. Bizarre Foods was able to make dangerous impoverished countries look like welcoming paradise. They portray a false image than people show up and end up disappointing. That's why I miss Anthony Bourdain and Todd Carmichael. They showed the truth. A lot of vloggers don't want to let their bad experiences define a particular location. This is problamatic, because then when you DO post about a negative experience, YOU end up being the bad guy. But from my personal experience, most people on this planet are liars and cheats. And no, people are NOT the same everywhere. Two neighboring countries can have two completely different cultures and mentalities.
"and comments that Merida doesn't in general have a lot going on"
I guess it depends what you're looking for. For someone like myself who loves history and authentic culture, I would probably enjoy Merida. But if you're more of a beach/night life/party person, then Merida might not be for you.
@@briantravelman Thanks for watching and the comment. People mispronounce my name ALL the time and I don't trip. I'm a product of a public school system...(Insert laughter here ) The root canal treatment I had the day I recorded this footage is also a factor perhaps? My other videos briefly address additional historical topics related to this area that no one going to bother to watch. Their loss. Shout out to Anthony Bourdain! Cheers
Thanks for your input on this matter as you have first hand knowledge about and I tend to take the trendy tourist information with a grain of salt because they are repeating the same narrative and the agenda is probably money. I get sick of controlled media. Organized liked everything by mankind to do one thing. That is to make as much money as possible. People want to hear what they believe to be true and get defensive when it contradicts. They prefer the echoes of their own perspective. So thanks for just being yourself and from your perspective it doesn’t have to match anyone else. Lol
Obrigado. Thanks for watching. Cheers
What about cartels were you worried about cartels
Not at all. State and federal police are everywhere in Merida. It's the safest city in Mexico.
Wow.
Antoine, apparently you didn't do much research and had a bad experience. It is not a good time to visit the area or experience Mexican hospitality. American expats don't smile anywhere you go, Latinos do. Not everyone wants to learn English and if you have a language barrier, the experience is even worst. Try saying Buenos Dias with a smile. Also, when covid 19 restrictions are lifted hopefully in January or February, it will be much better. Merida is not for everyone. Better luck next time amigo Gringo.
Thanks for watching and the comment. My Spanish is rudimentary at best. And what I couldn't communicate google translate played a sufficient tool. American expats are grumpy, yes but they're first to make comparisons about their adopted region. I'll be in Puerto Vallarta in a week. Buenos tardes, amigo.
@@icantbelieveya Puerto Vallarta is nice. Make sure you go to Ibiza restaurant. They make the best lobster spanish paella and also try their home made tequila. Have a good time.
Also, try Isla Mujeres or Holbox Island. The Caribbean water is superb!
@@mr.b6226 Thanks brother. I've been a vegetarian for a while, but I'll try the homemade tequila. Gonna hit up your recommendations on my way to Planeta Vegetariano. Cheers
Mr. B I have to agree with you that A lot, but not all Americans are more serious, don’t smile when the speak and are not considered “warm, friendly” people especially in Latin American countries. I used to do tours in Rio de Janeiro and Bahia Brazil. i would have groups of 10 to 20 people, and there’s always the trouble maker(s) in these groups and 9 out of 10 times it was the Americans. People would comment that the Americans always appeared angry at something. Being an expat myself I understood that Americans can come off as entitled, centered and guard their privacy and would explain this to my Brazilian staff and family. Many Americans live a solitary life, based on “work” and earning money, whereas in South America/ Mexico/ Central America - more value is placed on family and friendships,
I think Mexico it's no your place you should go to Jamaica hati or places like that.
I think I can travel where I like. Period. Racist.
As a Mexican your comment was racist bro, this dude didn't like my city that's ok bro everybody thinks differently maybe he needs to travel more to find his best spot which he can feel more comfortable with
Stop being a butt-hurt merida citizen 🤣🤣
Visit Queretaro,
Merida is too hot.
Thanks brother certainly the most honest review of Merida that I've heard let's be honest majority of reviews are about selling something painting a positive picture typically. That said I am still planning to visit Merida and see for myself not sure where I will end up in Mexico but huge country and very diverse going to remain open minded so we'll see. Again thank you for a very raw, honest review we need more of this...Tom
And thank you brother for watching and commenting. Much appreciated. Mission accomplished. Hit El Lucero del Alba when you go. Great place. Safe travels
C'mon man 2 days and you are criticizing, give it at least a week before you make any judgment at all.
C'mon man...this was my *second trip* totaling a whole month in this region. You actually think I uploaded this content after only *two days* of being there? Get some *context* before *you* make judgments and start typing.
It was just too hot for me. Acapulco was great for 60 years..but earthquakes were the deal breakers. I hang with locals.
Querétaro works for me.
People please leave. I left at 79.
Excellent
No problems in Querétaro
Move out of the USA.
Relocate. The people. $75k direct deposits.
God is in control.
50 -80's best music
Move to Querétaro folks, and be safe,clean.cooland
Ok so you don’t like Merida but you don’t give an alternative???
1) Puerto Vallarta(going there next month) 2) Mexico City 3) Guadalajara 4)Ajijic.....
Thanks for watching.
I think his opinion is non-bias. I see an LA transplant saving 1000s on dental bills in Merida. Soon as he said “hot as Haiti” I scratched Merida off the list.
@@giftedgreen2152 😂 I totally agree!
You remind me of Dave Chappell!
He lives in my home state in Ohio. He has a cool farm out in Yellow Springs. He's a really good guy. Thanks brother
Folks just remember, Mexico is NOT the US. Our culture is way different and its not for all. Merida is still a very tiny town. Some people will adjust, but many wont. That is the reality.
(Folks) Just remember, the (United States) is not (Mexico). Our culture is *way* different. It's not for all. Los Angeles is a company town. *Some people will adjust, but many won't.* That is the reality.
Where should my wife and i spend 3 weeks ... in our 60s. tia
Anywhere you prefer. However, if you're asking for suggestions: Lisbon, Puerto Vallarta, Danag, or South Padre.
If the hype isn’t for you then move on to something you like. No need for a diatribe video against the people or city of Merida. It makes you look like every aggrieved American tourist. Entitled
I have confidence in my opinions, even if they are different from the way most others think. If that's entitlement to you, move on. Cheers
Antoine Perkins exactly what I said on my message. With the information you gave on your video, if the hype isn’t for you (within the realm of "you opinions" well very simple, just like you said move on... otherwise your rants make you sound entitled (like many aggrieved Americans). Cheers better yet find your happy you deserve it.
@@jflores1138 Okay. Agree to disagree. Thanks for watching. Cheers
I don't want to go to any place where English isn't the primary language. There are still cheaper states in America to go to, so leaving America for cheaper living is unnecessary in my opinion, and are just walking into traps to be ripped off in other countries.
Tell the truth and shame the devil. A mexican friend told me that he would never move back home because he's afraid of kidnapping.
Don't care for Merida, too hot.
I think he’s telling the truth. 🙏
I'm sorry but you need to go elsewhere. When you don't speak a language it's very hard to maneuver around. Like negotiating, engaging the natives, getting around, etc. You expect people to kiss your behind because their providing a service, well maybe thst means that their really not starving. I'm going out there in February, with an open mind, knowing there are pros and cons. There is no such thing as paradise. Good thing I speak fluent Spanish.
I'm sorry but you need to proofread your comment. And while we're on the subject, I can travel anywhere I like. Period. Thanks for watching and safe travels. Cheers
Good for you😒🙄
All the haters hate your honesty. God bless America
I just finished watching another video that made Meridia sound like paradise.
I was thinking that there was probably another side to it.
Thank you for the information.
This guys speaks the truth I respect that
You are a contrarian.
From day one. And *always*
I keep an *American face.*
*Cheers*