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Story 22: I walked in on my Girlfriend saying some pretty ugly stuff about me to her friend!
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- Опубликовано: 20 мар 2024
- I returned home from work unexpectedly and walked in on my girlfriend talking trash about me to her friend.
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Once the respect is gone, then it's over.
She has no respect for you. Time to get the hell out of this relationship.
I was extremely happy when he let John listen to the recording.
I like the saying trust is gained in drops but lost in buckets
Dump her now. She has always lied behind your back.
Never let them move in with you. Don’t let them know where you live.
A woman who's wife material wouldn't engage in such disrespect, nor keep such "friends" who encourage such disrespect.
I don't recommend keeping this one. However, if you do consider keeping her, she has to do a LOT of "making up the damage done" for like a year. She has to really EARN your trust back, slowly, painstakingly, so as to impart the seriousness of her error. Cutting out "friends" like Jen is only a start, because that's an action to stop the bleeding. Rebuilding and healing are slow processes because trust is the foundation, and trust is on life support, if it's there at all.
Honestly, a woman willing to disrespect you to that degree is a high risk for cheating in the future. Disrespect and lack of responsibility are a key elements in cheater behavior, and Brie has demonstrated both in spades.
Oh, she cleaned the house and made a good meal? That should be routine, standard. Not make up for forgetting to pay the electric bill, let alone disrespecting her partner to the point she's cutting him down the way an enemy would.
Stand up and be a man. She is NOT the only girl in the world for you. But the fact that she openly disrespected you to a ‘friend’ shows that she is DEFINITELY not the woman who will stand side by side with you when things get tough.
It can never be the same again. You now know what she really thinks and feels. You’ll constantly be questioning yourself and wondering what she’s thinking. It’s a disaster.
Separation is mandatory
Butt stuff only for one full year.
ok, that made me laugh. =)
LMFAO 😂😂😂
If I was this dude and I wanted to continue with her. I would have her agree that I could post this on social media and have her tell everyone and I mean everyone in social media and verbally that this was all a lie. Then I would have her explain to everyone why she was choosing to lie about me.
This is the answer. “Taking responsibility” and “sorry” means more than mouthing the words.
I think it was too personal in its disrespect. And the lying bit shows a serious character flaw. If I had already been married I would want to see a third party expert, so-to-speak, to get an objective analysis of what should happen between the two of us before I made any serious and permanent decision. But not being married, I think I would be forced psychologically, in my "gut" actually, to end the relationship. A tough one though, I'll admit. For some it wouldn't be.
If you stay with her, use this incident as leverage to get a prenup heavily in your favor.
She was definitely not joking but even if she was joking that is still not a something someone should do if they actually love their spouse.
No relationship will ever be perfect, but this is a breach far too large to put up with. He should be done with her.
Time to leave bro
Its over. Its just a question of time. The disrespect and the dishonesty are signs that she can do it again any time things are not perfect in the future. Things can go well for a while and then a bit of strain will bring out all the negative emotions you can think of. Getting caught is not enough to make her grow up. The man will always have the suspicion in his mind and it will not stop until she is gone. The relation ship is poisoned beyond repair.
People, even good people, some times make bad choices and break your trust. Whether you can rebuild depends on a lot of personal factors. However, I will say that if someone takes full responsibility for their actions and is remorseful and wants to atone, that’s one important step toward the possibility of rebuilding.
This would be illegal in many states to record a conversation with 2 other people. Check the law before you do something rash. Always protect yourself first.
she's materialistic. its only gonna get worse
What else is she doing behind your back? She showed her true colors
So OP is a waiter… not much future here.
OK, please don’t be a Simp and stay with her. Dumper and move on. If you stay with her, you deserve every bit of karma and drama you’re going to get from her…
My opinion is this is salvageable. If you want to. You are justified in either direction, but if YOU choose to try and recover the relationship, I do think Brie's taking responsibility indicates she might be teachable about the correct order of respect in a marriage (air laundry ONLY between the two of you, never to friends). Do you expect to earn more than Brie in the future? If you don't will that bother either of you? Needs an honest answer.
I will give Brie credit for her taking full responsibility for her talking crap about her man. Props to OP for recording the conversation and holding it over Brie's head like the sword of Damocles. She has A LOT of rebuilding that trust to do. She tore down years of trust she had built up in the span of a few minutes. She is taking the first step towards rebuilding the relationship by taking full responsibility. Another good step would be to cut Jen out of her life for good; she is the one that caused all the chaos in the first place. This needs to be an isolated incident and not a pattern of behavior. IF OP decides to stay with her, she needs to be reminded frequently she's on a VERY short leash for the next year or two, to the point where she's on thin ice and any more adverse behavior/disrespect spells the end of the relationship right then and there. OP also needs to have her sleep in a separate bedroom for an indeterminate amount of time, until he feels he can trust her again.
Brie was weak for playing along with her friend. But this is very common with female friends. Her response is however very good, she took responsibility. Get yourself some butt fun, and see how you feel.
"Her response is however very good, she took responsibility." Not realy not the big important steps. She never realy explained why she did, what she did. Why did she was even able to lie. Why she was able to make fun of her partner she claimed to love. Admitting to have been wrong is only the first smal step And way not enough! There were no real consequences for her. She need to do real soul work, before i would even think about a reconsiliation.
Both male and female talk crap about their sex lives. Just part of the territory. People also invent drama in their own lives to match the other person, so they are NOT outdone. Had a guy that bought supplies from the HVAC store. He told me his wife’s name, where she worked, and showed me a pic of her and the kid. A big discussion came about the store and people were telling “ if they were getting lucky “ . You could see the sadness in his eyes when he said 3 or 4 times a year if he was lucky. Fast forward to me doing some part time work fixing Appliances a FEW weeks later. All the ladies were talking about their sex lives. Btw the woman give DETAILS in their discussions, generally. Mostly men will just indicate whether they are getting it or not. She gave a lively, detailed account of her sex every other day with her husband. Plus she told all the things they did in bed. When I left the office, I believed his story, because the sadness in his eyes was way too far real. This was confirmed a few months later when I meet them both at the mall ( before the tornado that hit the mall in Jonesboro Ar) . I started talking to the husband and when she recognized me her face lost all expressions. Wished I could have talked to her after that day and told her about the sadness in her husband’s eyes, but that’s not a conversation that would have happened any way.
Men generally d9 not talk about their sex lives........so you are lying
@@georgeallen7667 The guys most certainly do…. But they just don’t go into details. Like I said in the post. They basically talk about wither they are getting any or something close to it. At least they do around here. However, females go into details. Worked in a supply house on and off for several years and even heard a few who has the biggest decisions go on. That is it except the few exceptions to the rule. You always have those….. and they make it very uncomfortable. Now I work at a hospital….. WAY different than the supply house.
When guys get together they have a tendency to brag about work or their car, in fact about anything but never about their partners. Girls tend to gossip about their personal life like how often they did the deed, how good or bad it was, how big his member is, and so on. A quality girl doesn't do this but almost all women seem to do so. Women are often influenced by their female friends actions and opinions. I would let this one slide under the condition of never communicating with her female friend ever again.
She told her friend exactly how she really feels. Don't know what to do deserves everything he gets.
Wow... she did something incredibly stupid and took responsibility. You'd hope MC understands that people make mistakes, are genuinely remorseful, and learn from those mistakes. Imagine the emotional "debt" she will owe him. Still, if he can't get past this, she's better off without him. Being unable to forgive a person you love is a serious problem.
No disrespecting someone you supposedly love is a serious problem.
What a Simp
Why do these writers always create these men who never stand up for themselves, choosing instead to run away, hide, and ghost?
Cut and run is a better option than getting charged with a domestic crime you never committed.
You both are still young and immature. So, there is no rush for getting married or ending your relationship. Just realize that she was just playing with her friend. Jen has probably been bath mouthing Jon for a while. And Brie plays along to keep the friendship going because she gets validation from it. So, for you to grow, take your time with Brie, show her kindness and eventual forgiveness, but do not be a pushover. She will respect you more.
Girl talk, guys do it to.