Story 5: My girlfriend makes fun of me to her friends while I'm taking a shower

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  • Опубликовано: 6 дек 2023
  • My Girlfriend tells her friends that being with me is like being attacked by Sasquatch.
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Комментарии • 73

  • @unclelink
    @unclelink 7 месяцев назад +45

    "Show me your friends and I'll tell you who you are."
    Faith is gold! 😂😂😂

    • @Joe-lb8qn
      @Joe-lb8qn 7 месяцев назад +3

      Yep. Crabs in a bucket.

    • @Trig188
      @Trig188 2 месяца назад +1

      I'm an old Navy corpsman. Serving with Marines was an honor and I can honestly say was the highlight of my life. I wouldn't trade it for anything. While Marines and Sailors don't always get along, as a corpsman I would, without hesitation, give my own life for one of my brothers. Semper Fi

  • @maxxstarrdom6816
    @maxxstarrdom6816 5 месяцев назад +10

    Everyone needs a sister like Faith.

  • @thesandero2454
    @thesandero2454 5 месяцев назад +11

    This was a good story,really liked it. If your spouse is talking crap about you behind your back,that is their true colours coming out and you better believe it.

  • @theScytheofGod
    @theScytheofGod 3 месяца назад +7

    When your parents apologize for you online, you know you messed up.

  • @marknesemeier3882
    @marknesemeier3882 7 месяцев назад +33

    Green hair and purple hair, yea that says it right there.

    • @MrModaman
      @MrModaman 5 месяцев назад +8

      Having friends like that is a huge red flag. Another huge red flag is that she still hangs around her ex's. This is someone you don't want to date, let alone get serious with.

  • @chrisd7775
    @chrisd7775 5 месяцев назад +10

    Dude this guy's sister is fantastic. A major red flag for anyone is who they surround them selfs with. Granted there are people out there that have unsavory friends. But that's what's lacking today big time.

    • @rapsack7058
      @rapsack7058 3 месяца назад +1

      YEa many do not take the closer friends into account. They are an clear indicator about the hide true nature. And they will still have a stron ginfluence on your partner and the relationship. The new partner will show you only the goode side if the not just act. Thats why will have a false picture of your new partner. The rel one you will just see mirrowed by the friends.

  • @rons3634
    @rons3634 Месяц назад +4

    If I was a lot younger I'd ask if Faith was available. What a great sister!

  • @McAnik-uo1ol
    @McAnik-uo1ol 7 месяцев назад +21

    It's not just how your SO treats you. It's also about how she treats you when you are NOT around.
    This woman, fresh from declaring her love for the first time, did not have any compunctions about trashing OP for a few giggles with her toxic, neon haired gal pals and man bun Beta orbiters.
    Imagine if it had been him laughing with his friends that her lady parts smell weird, that she is like a corpse in the sack and that she eats her boogers.
    Anyway... misery loves company so whether she cuts them out of her life or not her "friends" have achieved undermined her relationship to the point that it ended. They will chalk that up as a win.

  • @YourHineyness
    @YourHineyness 7 месяцев назад +10

    Concerning the lady Marine: Never move to be near a woman. It shifts the power dynamic in her favor and she loses respect for you. If she leaves say "bye, call me if you get in town" and move on and stay where you're at.

  • @robertchristner4510
    @robertchristner4510 7 месяцев назад +10

    What a great sister

  • @russellkeeling4387
    @russellkeeling4387 5 месяцев назад +4

    Once said words can not be unsaid.

  • @Rune-Thorne
    @Rune-Thorne 5 месяцев назад +5

    Exes are exes for a reason...I am friends with none of my exes. I believe keeping an ex around hampers the health of the next one.

    • @BikersDoItSittingDown
      @BikersDoItSittingDown 2 месяца назад +1

      I am the same. Clearing the decks for the next relationship means your new lover will have no concerns over past relationships and understand what will happen to her if she breaks up with you.

    • @JacobPosey-lk1jr
      @JacobPosey-lk1jr Месяц назад

      I'm the same, I once tries to be a friend to an ex but all it did was turn our conversations I to a fight and argument over why we broke up. So I went off on her, blocked the number and never looked back. I'm the same way as this marine, I'll be respectful till given a reason, once I have that reason I'll cut ties harshly and without warning... it's amazing at how many people think you are joking until they find out too late.

  • @notyourtypicalchad6778
    @notyourtypicalchad6778 4 месяца назад +3

    The fact her ex's were still male friend orbiters was a huge red flag he should have acknowledged before getting involved with her. Sure sure, platonic friendships with the opposite sex is possible and so are friendships with prior intimate partners...but a MAJORITY of the time that "just a friend" is hovering in orbit waiting to catch your naive woman in a weak moment to hook up/try to steal her. Is what it is. Women can be orbiters, too. This Marine refuses to be one of her ex's in her orbit, and that is good because SHE wants him to come in for a landing to storm her "beaches" like the wild man sasquatch he is.
    I have ex's that are still friends...but they are so from a great distance. I don't hang out with them one on one even when we cross paths. I don't have much of a choice with one because we have a child together(and grandchildren), so I do have to interact with her to a degree. I have an ex-fiance I'm still friends with who flat out admitted to my second wife in front of me and a few of our friends at a dinner that she always thought that she(my ex-f) and I were going to going to end up back together eventually...until I got remarried to my AWESOME second wife. My ex-f straight up complemented my current wife that she couldn't even compete with her and is happy for both of us. My current wife was already a friend to both my ex-wife and ex-fiance before my current wife and I got involved. My ex's know what they lost, and my current wife knows what she has...and will growl at another woman if someone gets too close to me if I'm oblivious.

  • @jamarr27
    @jamarr27 7 месяцев назад +8

    Bruv I think he made the right move especially because of his girlfriends friends. They might be the type to tell her to make false claims.

  • @wingnut71
    @wingnut71 7 месяцев назад +6

    Its a very good one, almost human.

  • @jerrysstories711
    @jerrysstories711 7 месяцев назад +6

    At least she doesn't invite them INTO the shower to make fun of him there.

  • @rtmhrj
    @rtmhrj 3 месяца назад +2

    you can't be friends with anyone who betrays you on any level, you have to just leave them in your rearview mirror.

  • @Stefanie-jw3wq
    @Stefanie-jw3wq 7 месяцев назад +7

    I have to laugh at this whole mess. Just dump her and move on, she is not worth it in your life because she will never learn, learn to choose wisely and take your time getting to know your next new love interest. Learn from your mistake and realize your lucky you are in not a combat situation,it would of ended differently. Good luck and enjoy your next lady friend.

  • @swgraphics9059
    @swgraphics9059 7 месяцев назад +2

    Benefits-chaser? If she disrespects you to her peers, leave. Respect is lost, or she is on drugs, or an alcoholic. Privacy is respect.

  • @chazzmichaelmichaels5766
    @chazzmichaelmichaels5766 9 дней назад

    Isn't it funny that his girlfriend fought like a tiger when she thought that another women was after "her man!"

  • @tonya8984
    @tonya8984 7 месяцев назад +4

    Hello no should a Devil Dog be disrespected. I will bet those males are the same ones who would run if being challenged by an alpha male.

  • @stokeyarcanum5754
    @stokeyarcanum5754 5 месяцев назад +3

    Im so effing strange..like does anyone know any vtubers, bao in particular? The part of the story where Faith is cracking and says "come on lets go eff" yeah for some reason I pictured Bao's adorable cackle and im not sure why (yes her cackle is extremely adorable. I love it) as i said in the very beginning, im so effing strange lmao

  • @thethreeschipperkeparty1541
    @thethreeschipperkeparty1541 5 месяцев назад +2

    From an old US Navy Vet, Semper Fi Marine

  • @BW022
    @BW022 7 месяцев назад +13

    I don't see any 'alpha' here. Friends with goofy hair coloring and male friends? Sorry, both should be a non-starter for any serious relationship.

    • @ericworley4361
      @ericworley4361 7 месяцев назад +1

      What do her friends hair colors have to do with the guys potential "alpha"-ness?

    • @BW022
      @BW022 7 месяцев назад

      @@ericworley4361Goofy artificial hair colors are signs of leftists, people rebelling, anti-establishment types, etc. and in the case of women, typically those who aren't interested in settling down or don't think they have to. They aren't interested in being their best for any man, showing they are responsible, care what others think, careers, long-term planning, etc. It is rare that people hang around people if they don't share their values/lifestyle and even rarer that they might not be influenced by their friends.
      To any alpha guy, her having friends like this should be a serious red flag... certainly one serious enough to ask some serious questions. "Is this the kind of person you want to be?" , "Why are you hanging around with them?", "Did you used to be like that? What changed? When?", and probably a "Look, I don't commit to women who hang around adult women who still live and act like they are in their teens."

    • @TimothyHolt-vh2hd
      @TimothyHolt-vh2hd 7 месяцев назад +3

      Ex boyfriend male friend if I’m hearing correctly

    • @Vickzq
      @Vickzq 7 месяцев назад

      ​​@@ericworley4361
      She hangs out with leftwing weirdos... the hair is the effeminist dress code. Plus the ex as male friend? Nope.

    • @hardingryan42
      @hardingryan42 Месяц назад

      That's because alpha males don't exist

  • @We_Must_Resist
    @We_Must_Resist 7 месяцев назад +7

    Respect. You must have it from the woman you love, or else Hell happens.

  • @CityBoyFloyd
    @CityBoyFloyd 7 месяцев назад +7

    Semper Fi Marine 😅

  • @graysoldier
    @graysoldier 7 месяцев назад +15

    I can understand his reaction to what was said aid about him. I am retired from the military so my only question is why would he leave the corp after having served 12 years. A move like that , in my opinion, is not a wise decision.

    • @d.wayneharbison8691
      @d.wayneharbison8691 7 месяцев назад +4

      I made the same mistake. I regretted it for the rest of my life. 8 more years, and I could have retired and still had my teaching career on top of that.

    • @jameslyons6655
      @jameslyons6655 Месяц назад +1

      Most people I talk to who did more than one enlistment but didn’t go all the way express regret. I did my initial four active (AF) and another 17 with the Air Guard. Juggling another career (USMS), wife and kids, house and everything else wasn’t easy but in the end worth it.

  • @crankyyankee7290
    @crankyyankee7290 3 месяца назад +1

    Read about Blackbeard and his shortlived foray into matrimony-slightly like this story-his wife was worse than this G F and her friends shared some charecter traits with these as well ,the wonder is that they survived annoying him !

  • @johnhollis921
    @johnhollis921 4 месяца назад +2

    So many times, cheating is a later symptom of disrespect and cruelty. I blame Jen for not bothering to guide her lover

    • @JacobPosey-lk1jr
      @JacobPosey-lk1jr Месяц назад

      Wth are you on? The guy never cheated on her

  • @mikearroyo3961
    @mikearroyo3961 7 месяцев назад +3

    Love the sister.

  • @pvajit1109
    @pvajit1109 7 месяцев назад +1

    Get rid of her alobg with her excess baggage. You are heading for horrid damage with such a woman

  • @affairsarentforever
    @affairsarentforever  7 месяцев назад +2

    Trying a new AI voice, but I'm not sure it's better. Thoughts?

    • @thesaltyrant5716
      @thesaltyrant5716 7 месяцев назад +1

      I like this new AI voice.

    • @d.wayneharbison8691
      @d.wayneharbison8691 7 месяцев назад +1

      It's better than the one I heard yesterday on another channel. It sounded so much like Emma Watson that I lost all sympathy for the OP.

    • @ericworley4361
      @ericworley4361 7 месяцев назад

      ​@@d.wayneharbison8691Oh god I absolutely can't stand that one! Honestly though i greatly miss the old regular robotic sounding voice that basically every channel used to use, or even the mildly british sounding robot would be preferable to all these new ones being used lately.

  • @rickpolidore5054
    @rickpolidore5054 2 месяца назад

    Honestly believe they were just joking around…friends having fun together…maybe somebody overreacted?

  • @paulefstathiou1819
    @paulefstathiou1819 Месяц назад

    Banter ??

  • @Leezorc
    @Leezorc 2 месяца назад

    SA'd???

  • @doubleoblit
    @doubleoblit 3 месяца назад

    Imagine believing this story.

  • @paulefstathiou1819
    @paulefstathiou1819 Месяц назад

    What does Sa' d mean ?

  • @bencrow1298
    @bencrow1298 7 месяцев назад

    What is SA'd,

  • @joehohmann6015
    @joehohmann6015 7 месяцев назад +3

    Wow, for a Marine this guy is acting like a btch. For him to not realize she was just joking around about his obvious size and looks is ridiculous. I hope this story is fake because if not...wow.

    • @greghamilton9505
      @greghamilton9505 5 месяцев назад +1

      Serious?

    • @mauriceprice3651
      @mauriceprice3651 5 месяцев назад +1

      I can't tell if you are serious, or just trolling. Your statement regarding her 'just joking around' is the perfect justification for him to leave. No one should joke about their partner in that fashion. That shows a level of disrespect that cannot be overlooked.

    • @dilvishpa5776
      @dilvishpa5776 3 месяца назад +1

      I’m not sure if this story is true or not, but your reaction shows a certain lack of self-respect. I would be outta there as well. Who needs a backstabbing girlfriend?

    • @tomhiddleston8848
      @tomhiddleston8848 7 дней назад +1

      This guy’s gotta be a troll, right? She compared them making love together to being repeatedly SA’d. I don’t care what kind of man you are, once you hear that, it’s over. Instant death of any affection and attraction toward her. Imagine your girl thinking you’re just some kind of filthy animal. This is unbelievably dehumanizing, and to top it off, he hears her say all of this on the same day where they say their first “I love you” to each other. It goes to show what her “love” looks like. Says some words to his face, but her actions reveal who she really is.

  • @markmessina7895
    @markmessina7895 7 месяцев назад +1

    She was just a GF . Big deal. Story over.

  • @markmessina7895
    @markmessina7895 7 месяцев назад

    What is SAed . ?

    • @BohabedOne
      @BohabedOne 7 месяцев назад

      Sexual assaulted