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Short men just gotta realize that theyre genetic dead ends and no vvoman or tall man respects them

I honestly strongly dislike WeChat groups. In case some of you didn't know, there's this tutoring group apparently titled "One of the best tutoring schools in the country" called Dr Du. This was only a few weeks ago. I just did my entrance test for next year and got put in A3 (I MADE SO MANY DUM MISTAKES). A few days later, my mother's WeChat group which had other asian mothers and stuff showed a message that their child scored a perfect 100 in the test. (lets just say my parents were talking about this to me so much I kinda have doubt in myself for everything now lol) Edit: As I say "talking", I mean the accusing type lmaoo it's overwhelming but I'm doing okay, considering people here have it a whole lot worse so I shouldn't be talking😅

You're the best man!

Nahh bro rlly using ai to make his pictures like at least put stock images so it will be less soulless i am not hating on you ai is fine as long you dont overuse it

Hi Alex. My late son Alexander looked exactly like you at 22. He was a computer science grad. His mum was from Taiwan, me, dad, UK. He got sick too, developed psychosis and took his own life, in Hawaii. But life goes on for me and for you. Stick with it “son”. Good.

I'm done also. One more year of work, and I might be able to get some freedom and travel for 3 or 4 years. I don't plan on coming back to these shitty countries.

I'm bi but I don't tell everybody but EVERYONE knows I'm short (I'm almost 16 and I'm a bit over 5'6 which is around average but my classmates are all early bloomers with stubbles and I can't even grow a damn mustache yet) and they judge me for being short because nobody knows about my sexuality because why would they? Plus, I'll probably be taller and more successful than them anyways. Screw 'em. From my experience, short guys are way more judged and discriminated for being short than being LGBTQ+, but I'd like to hear other people's thoughts.

isn't 23 like just past puberty, you still have a long life ahead lol

Thanks for the video! It helped me understand the appeal of the “manosphere”. For a while, I’ve seen that many young men are struggling but didn’t understand why they turn to the “manosphere” for help. As a woman, I associated it primarily with misogyny. Hearing all the ways these influencers advocate (at least in part) for physical and mental help was eye opening. Also subscribed! Love to see a fellow recent physics grad living their best life :)

You have patreon don't you?😅

Brave of you for sharing. Thank you. It took me 15 years to get my BS in Physics. I was interested in learning but not motivated to study. Being poor also forced me to work during college and that was draining. And I craved change which resulted in a fits and start experience with relocations and transfers. Looking back, it was an irregular path full of disappointments, heartaches, and discoveries, but I would not change the road taken. Now in my 50's, I can still relate to your college struggles. Afterall, it was a defining period. Approaching retirement, my Physics degree has served me well. Whether in the corporate world, or investing, or making things, I feel like I have a cheat code to the world. Life finds a way, just keep moving and trying. You will do well!

THIS IS SOOOOOO RELATABLE AS A CHINESE GUY FROM CANADA!! I am so glad that someone posted this online, it helps a lot! Lucky me, we are a family of 6, so my parents are getting tired of parenting so they loosen up the "work harder or you are worthless" method of parenting, and because they realize the cons of parenting like this.

Same

Your parents might have let you know that no one cares about your academics if those don't translate into money. At some point in life, you will realize that the guy who succeeded his parents' flooring business and now lives in the biggest house in neighborhood did much better in life than the guy who went to Harvard or Stanford is still worried about paying a mortgage and funding 529 plans.

I am just happy that all that pressured did not make you do something evil and hurt innocent people. 😢

Omg, you are a freaking Kid. Chill out

Are you autistic?

How do you get food and drink in arizona? Do you hunt/scavenge, buy food, or ask people?

the manosphere has fallen, billions must soy

Your outlook may not be that unusual for Gen Z. In fact, it may not be that rare for anyone in their early 20s at any time in the last 60 years. ruclips.net/video/Hf0Dm-OaTNk/видео.html

(Hoeflation and DAMP) killed me 🤣 Lmao FACTS 👌

Have you everdone the MBTI/16 personalities-Test? You are giving me big ISFP Vibes. And yeah, I'm a student of Chemistry in Germany and even though I love science and all the stuff, I won't be destroying my life just to get a slightly better job. I'm studying as good as I can, but not beyond my natural limits

Take Vitamin C.

I feel you man. I went through the same as you.

quite enjoy listening to this while studying, hearing your stories gives me perspective, almost calming stops me from stressing about my studies

Asian parents can make a child feel like their in slavery where they got to work so hard just to surpass childerns that are not studying for some time and the main child will sometimes will be depressed because their parents make it a living hell and when it gets so bad they just use abuse just for him to get on track. Asian parents also brag about their child for a reason. They always want to get the first place they believe that harder means better but they don’t know we have feelings this is why china has a problem with the school system because they always want to be the top and the homework is so much that children can’t even in enjoy the hoildays I think and summer , thanksgiving, and chirstmas breaks and it also causes parents to go super strict with their child because chinas schools are very strict from grades. This is why people almost get meltdowns just from a piece of paper . If you have an Asian parents I hope you will get better from the pain that they are giving you .

"parents only want their child to have a better future but some parents took it seriously to the point where their children will treat the same way that they treat their children"-me

goat posted again

Are you a protestant or roman catholic?

Haven't watched the video yet but if the thumbnail isn't clickbait and it is implying what I think it is implying then that would be considered child abuse.

I'm an Asian aswell but fortunately, I'm not pressurised at all, my parents let me be the person I want

Great title, great video. I'm in a very similar situation (third year of university). I used to work and study as much as I could because I assumed being the top student would somehow lead to a better life. Things kept getting harder and harder, and I didn't know why I was doing any of it. There was never really an 'end goal,' so I stopped hoping that anything would change. After being mad and depressed for a while, I figured out that I actually really enjoy learning. School was never really the problem, it was just my attitude towards it. I always expected to get something in return for my efforts, but the efforts were actually the reward in the first place, if that makes sense. Learning for the sake of learning is pretty nice.

Dont have goals, goals arent caring about you so why care about them. Im CS, done all the hussle culture, its self slavery. Everything has flipped, there was a time when hussle was fun and it paid off but its over now. The teachers have the kids on farm. The universities have the students on farm. The corporations have the workers on farm. We are at a new point, 2020s will have to change, this current way of living is unlivable.

Good job, thank you for posting this video

I think I really like the mindset you have of just trying to enjoy nature rather than compare yourself to others. I think what I also like about your philosophy is you don't consider yourself better or worse than others because of your decisions. Many people I know, when they make non-standard decisions, they make it sound like they're better than the rat race. I feel like you have a whole lot less ego than those influencers..

I’ve felt a lot of the things you’re saying. But why do you feel as though if you use your degree you will be stuck on a hamster wheel for 40 years? You seem like a very intelligent person with a prestigious degree and with smart investing and planning you could achieve financial freedom early in your 30s. Then be free to pursue your passions full heartedly. Depending on where you get employed you can still enjoy outdoor hobbies outside of your job as well. I’m 30 working as a head software engineer and I’m an avid biker and hiker. My coworkers buy expensive cars and pay massive rents but I’m set up where I’ll be out of the office for good on my 32nd birthday. Believe me the temptation to “Keep up with the Joneses” is strong but you’ll definitely never leave if that’s what you do. Not to say what you’re doing is wrong, just letting you know the typical “work until 65 then retire” isn’t your only option. Also, personal anecdote - I struggled greatly with motivation to excel at my job before I met girlfriend of 8 years. Us men are hardwired to be providers. On my own I would be content to sleep on the floor with nothing but a TV and a fridge. Find someone that makes you happy and the universe will make a lot more sense. And don’t be afraid to strike out a lot, you’ll thank yourself later. You echoed back my early 20s thoughts almost exactly. I was jaded, thought I was working for nothing, depressed. But then I found the beauty in the outdoors much like you, started living for the weekends and my PTO. Met my girlfriend, enjoyed long hikes and camping with her. Life brightened to the point where I even started enjoying work again. My point is don’t neglect the possibilities your hard work has afforded you. And don’t feel as though that path makes your goals of enjoying the outdoors impossible. Make an informed decision.

For Americans, the worst part about this is getting into debt. You study in college, and you acquire ridiculous amounts of debt that push you into the “job/career” hamster wheel because it would be so hard to pay off that debt from freelance/contract work/small gigs. I am european(so no debt at all), so it was quite easy for me to get out of that(and no sunken cost fallacy as i payed exactly 0 usd for my education), but i actually said “screw it” to education when i was 19, and started working as a junior dev(2017, so it was easy back then), i barely finished my bachelors degree with horrible marks but i didn’t care. In the end, i’m now 27 and have much more freedom/chill life than my peers(partially because they only start their career because they started after finishing degree, and i’m senior dev with lots of experience already, so much more financially independent), although i had to move to Japan because of situation in my country(i’m ukrainian)

As a young Asian male similar to you I can empathize. But keep your chin up, most of us are not passionate about our jobs, in the end it’s about putting food on the table. Just enjoy the simple things in life like nature, reading, and take care of your health

I am in 12th grade. I took a step back from taking multiple AP classes and honors classes this last semester, and I have literally never been happier in my entire life. I took more time to ride my bike, I slept more, and I stopped having that feeling of perpetual sickness like you mentioned. I got admitted to the college of engineering at my university, and I am worried that taking up engineering is only going to bring that back. Sigh.

You've settled in Arizona?...Do you get a chance to interact with native amricans there in your outdoor life? (Im australian do i maybe have romantic notions of that neck of the woods)

You're smart way to smart. That's your problem. You see the BS.

I started smoking weed when I was 15, and have been smoking everyday until i was 20. Now its been a week since I stopped. Currently in the middle of pursuing my math/cs degree. I always hated school. All i crave is artifical dopamine and drugs, probably because its my only escape. A hike sounds nice right now, but I think I might just kill myself. I’m sick of this shit man. I don’t know how else to make money, i need money. What the fuck am I supposed to do?

100% relate. I studied engineering initially in college not because I had any interest but because society respects engineering as a degree with higher pay. Big mistake. Brutal courses and it sent me into a spiral of depression until I left and went back for a different degree. Our culture is one that pushes people relentlessly to just be another cog in the wheel next to the other people who did the same thing. It is not worth it. Not everyone is meant to do this - yet society will push you and also brainwash your thinking to do it anyways. Glad that you found a way out of it because that is a very miserable road to be on. Great video and extremely useful lesson. There's many out there like you.

u can switch up the content by telling storytime vid from ur childhood , dont say the same shit again and again those thumbnails be weird as fuk all in all , not hating just critizing

It kinda sounds like you picked the wrong major but you still succeeded that’s enough for me 🎉

Good for you bud for taking ownership of your life. Respect.

Dude, your young. Take your time and do what you enjoy.

The grind is real. Academia is brainrot especially in stem and engineering. Engineering especially, Its a game of endurance and even after graduating u have to constantly learn new skills or else u get pigeon holed or replaced by a younger more naiive intern by the time ur time is up. People like the above average salaries, but ur not “making” money, ur trading ur life energy for it, emotional, physically, and socially so nothing is really made.

Sorry you had to go through that man.

Seeking external validation has been the single greatest weakness in my life of 64 years. I spent 40 years in software engineering and honestly a lot of that was seeking an identity as someone “important in tech“ because I came from a rural culture and didn’t have the ideal education for what I wound up doing as a career. Just keeping it real and appreciate the fact that you are Alex!