why do asian girls ONLY date white guys? (EXPLAINED)

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  • Опубликовано: 27 дек 2024
  • why asian girls prefer white guys in dating.

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  • @cozzihoffmaann
    @cozzihoffmaann 8 месяцев назад +38

    As black dude . I see this more common with Filipinas .

    • @bobbyschannel349
      @bobbyschannel349 7 месяцев назад

      Most Asian girls are into white guys, especially koreans.

    • @Josemarieonichan
      @Josemarieonichan 5 месяцев назад +11

      Grass is always greener on the other side of the fence, but american green card is greener😂😂, that is why!

    • @Wolf741000
      @Wolf741000 5 месяцев назад

      Koreans and Japanese as well but it’s not for money since they’re all easy rich. But you have to be a decent looking and intelligent white guy to get them. Those women are attracted to intelligence

    • @ceesay3842
      @ceesay3842 4 месяца назад

      @@Josemarieonichanoh my fuck 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @lowkeyconvert8971
      @lowkeyconvert8971 3 месяца назад

      developing country.

  • @matty6878
    @matty6878 8 месяцев назад +37

    i worked with all sorts of asian girls and noticed this right away. my friends and i chalked it up to "getting back" at their parents, particularly the moms lol

    • @official_awei
      @official_awei  8 месяцев назад +2

      interesting, hadn't thought abt it that way

    • @finback2005
      @finback2005 6 месяцев назад

      That is a weak excuse to marry a yt male. If you do 100 percent you should have gone with a black male. So you are not honest.

    • @CoolNumber1
      @CoolNumber1 2 месяца назад

      @@official_awei Asian men most masculine according to google. Have you seen Mongolian men? They have the highest testosterone in the world according to google. Genghis khan. Also mongolian is asian men.

  • @abdurazizsautos7178
    @abdurazizsautos7178 8 месяцев назад +37

    This is quite common in west coast cities like San Francisco. But I think the point is that the ABC's prefer men who are unrestrained and open everywhere so they have an easier time with them rather than someone who is tied up to just studying / schoolwork, and basic, yet productive lifestyle (sighhhh).

    • @official_awei
      @official_awei  8 месяцев назад +6

      makes sense, and nice to see u again

    • @lotusjumpingspider8761
      @lotusjumpingspider8761 6 месяцев назад

      Thats nonsense, ABC's dont really date black guys they are unrestrained lmao

    • @fixedit8689
      @fixedit8689 5 месяцев назад

      As an Asian male (ABC). Note to Asian women, look at yourself, a majority of you aren’t that attractive. Far and few in between comes a pretty one. Mostly homely, no boobs or booty. Built like a 13 year old boy (unless you’re into that) . Legs like two chopsticks. It doesn’t bother me one bit that the White dudes are taking you.

  • @jlau04
    @jlau04 8 месяцев назад +17

    Honestly it’s that a lot of asian guys have a lot of stigma from the internet, but i feel like a lot of it’s starting to change thanks to Kpop and etc. Plus, a lot of asian guys are heavily focused on their studies and don’t gym much, but once they do they’ll probably have decent options. I see this happening a lot to asian men in the States but im from Canada and since we have a fairly high asian population I don’t see this as much as a problem. So it could also be that there’s less asians around where you are too.

    • @official_awei
      @official_awei  7 месяцев назад

      ahh interesting take

    • @DirectingSven
      @DirectingSven 7 месяцев назад

      As a white man with an Asian partner (which by the way is the most challenging rollercoaster ride, honestly, and I've been with pretty much every ethnic and body type under the sun...fat girls know how to have fun, too)...I used to work at the Aquarium as souvenir photo guy, I would see lots of nerdy white tech bros in their early to mid 20s with super fine Asian ESCORTS...obviously these women were not dating them for their hunter eyes...but their meekish nerdy Asian fetish and boat loads of cash. The tell was by the sea anenomie touch pool. If a short skirt bent over and all you see is ass crack down the line...yea they an escort. I think lots of Asian men look masculine in their own ways. I would rather have a Bruce Lee body any day over a John Cena bod.

    • @DirectingSven
      @DirectingSven 7 месяцев назад

      However, it was the temporary mask mandate being lifted and "hot girl summer" these women not getting laid for over 18 months really sets the mood...

    • @avI4439
      @avI4439 7 месяцев назад

      Kpop isn't changing anything. Asian men are still less des!rable.

    • @lowkeyconvert8971
      @lowkeyconvert8971 3 месяца назад

      just say it brah, western MSM propaganda including hollywood hasn't done the asian image any favours.

  • @Xje2-jk3dg
    @Xje2-jk3dg 7 месяцев назад +22

    As a Korean, I don't understand why people say Asian men are unpopular. To be honest, while traveling the world for 15 years, I received a lot of love, thankfully. It's not just me, my friends have all gone through it too.
    Can't all Asian Americans just live with more confidence and self-esteem?

    • @caioalmeida4139
      @caioalmeida4139 5 месяцев назад +1

      I agree, Even in Brazil Teenagers loves K popers

    • @davidpark2509
      @davidpark2509 4 месяца назад

      This is a western phenomenon. If you actually travel the world it's not how the western media portray it to be.

    • @lowkeyconvert8971
      @lowkeyconvert8971 3 месяца назад

      i would say asian men is a niche in terms of other countries viewing them as attractive. It's gotten better over the years.
      but in the west, i hear they are consistently ranked the lowest along with indian men and it also extends to the gay comunity.

  • @omari2306
    @omari2306 5 месяцев назад +22

    2:34 Asian guys are not less masculine Alex, most martial arts come from Asia and they have a strict warrior code inclulcated into them. Examples: Thai Boxing, Karate, Taekwondo, Sanda, JiuJitsu, Judo. We must be thankfull as westerners for the beautiful arts you shared with our community. Masculinity doesn't come from the size you have, surely at any height you can train unto a certain degree to get strong for a specific athletic activity, but true masculinity comes from the heart, it comes comes from the personality and mindset.
    God Bless Alex keep posting your content is natural and comes from genuine intentions of good for others.

    • @chrisjackson8151
      @chrisjackson8151 4 месяца назад

      @@willr1796Except that Omari’s most wasnt about which martial arts are effective vs. less effective. He’s just talking about some of the martial arts that exist in Asia and that masculinity comes from the heart, but here you are, extrapolating conclusions that dont exist.

    • @lowkeyconvert8971
      @lowkeyconvert8971 3 месяца назад

      in the sense that you don't really see asian men intervene when it comes to defending their woman or other people...that could be seen as more passive and less masculine.

  • @martinjr9199
    @martinjr9199 7 месяцев назад +9

    Am mexican but I grew up being shy or nerdy , i kinda relate, so in a country like mexico most people are extroverts and it's almost more about drinking, parting all night, and my personality isn't like that at all, I don't drink or smoke, but yeah I am in a similar condition but it's like you say, it's about doing our best to improve ourselves

    • @official_awei
      @official_awei  7 месяцев назад +1

      absolutely

    • @harshsinghforu4
      @harshsinghforu4 6 месяцев назад

      Why always black guys have to prove her, his masculanity?

  • @Brunoag1256
    @Brunoag1256 8 месяцев назад +24

    Culturally Asian woman are different to the western born Asian my firend....

    • @official_awei
      @official_awei  8 месяцев назад +8

      yep that's the point I made abt the international students vs Asian Americans

  • @amxdd6658
    @amxdd6658 8 месяцев назад +30

    Bro as a Korean/Mexican who is more asian looking than hispanic, I can relate. But it’s funny because I actually prefer latinas, I’ve only ever dated latinas. Idk if thats because no korean or asian girl has never been interested or because I got no game with them 🤷‍♂️

    • @official_awei
      @official_awei  8 месяцев назад +9

      yessir latinas ftw

    • @SBahamondes
      @SBahamondes 8 месяцев назад +1

      Asian girls often price themselves out of a relationship. Keep your head up bro

    • @PauloBerni699
      @PauloBerni699 4 месяца назад

      The fact that you started your comment with “Bro” already tells me that culturally you are more Mexican American than Korean…am I right? 😂(I’m of Mexican/Italian heritage but culturally from the barrio.)

    • @amxdd6658
      @amxdd6658 4 месяца назад

      @@PauloBerni699 actually ngl I’m more korean cuz I lived there for a few years in my childhood. But I tend to attract more hispanic dudes than korean dudes as friend go. Korean guys just don’t vibe w/me as much but then Mexican dudes will say I’m not a real latino so idk man.

  • @trukeloop9354
    @trukeloop9354 8 месяцев назад +16

    bros posture is crazy

  • @louistourneur6113
    @louistourneur6113 8 месяцев назад +67

    I'm white and in recent years I started to notice that asian women seemed to be more attracted to me than white women. It's weird.

    • @krispyseller4031
      @krispyseller4031 8 месяцев назад +17

      me wen i lie

    • @jlau04
      @jlau04 8 месяцев назад +2

      💀

    • @MrKennet224
      @MrKennet224 7 месяцев назад +6

      White fever

    • @bobbyschannel349
      @bobbyschannel349 7 месяцев назад +9

      Knock it off, the reason why I don't believe you, is because it seems that people who are interested in interracial relationships always say that. Black men say that all the time about black women. And I just don't believe it

    • @CYCLOPS1994
      @CYCLOPS1994 6 месяцев назад +6

      Stop lying

  • @official_awei
    @official_awei  8 месяцев назад +17

    asian kings (or anyone really)... drop a comment ⬇

  • @jackmiddleton2080
    @jackmiddleton2080 4 месяца назад +5

    I think it has to do with the mental image of the American dream and how we see Asian countries historically and politically in America.

  • @myungkim7241
    @myungkim7241 5 месяцев назад +3

    Btw, wondering if this guy can talk if his hands are tied.

  • @mathewg5884
    @mathewg5884 8 месяцев назад +19

    Asian women in the west prefer white guys because they're the dominant race there. But Asian women in Asia prefer their own race because they're more dominant there and they have similar culture. It depends where you live.

    • @chrisjackson8151
      @chrisjackson8151 4 месяца назад +2

      I have seen videos where Japanese women were interviewed and most of the time, they picked the Japanese guy over the western guy. Reason being is in the different culture’s beauty standards.

    • @jdelorenzod2725
      @jdelorenzod2725 4 месяца назад +1

      Sure but how come you almost never see Indians with other races?
      It’s almost exclusively Asians.

    • @Cole_438
      @Cole_438 10 дней назад

      @@chrisjackson8151 bro, do you trust these women? Because I don't

  • @theblockyinkling3889
    @theblockyinkling3889 8 месяцев назад +18

    as a white guy, I've genuinely always been super jealous of asian guys. Maybe it's because I'm on the east coast and they're a lot less common here, but in my experience they're always just doing really well. They all have a ton of money and are smart and skilled, and are never really out of shape or closed off. They've always seemed to have EVERYTHING sorted out here and it was really weird to me to see an asian guy talking about the downsides of it.

    • @official_awei
      @official_awei  8 месяцев назад +3

      interesting to hear ur perspective. guess everyone has their own strengths and difficulties

    • @avI4439
      @avI4439 7 месяцев назад +1

      You must be blind. White guys have the most developed countries, and can pull alot of Asian girls in Asian countries. People should be jealous of you, not the other war around.

    • @merrittpalmer4349
      @merrittpalmer4349 Месяц назад

      aw thanks bud

  • @shefk7325
    @shefk7325 8 месяцев назад +13

    There's this weird attempt to "assimilate" in the American society too ig. Asian girls in Asia/international students are more rooted in their Asian identity, and don't have that insecurity - so they are happy to stick with Asian guys more.

    • @official_awei
      @official_awei  8 месяцев назад

      that makes sense

    • @ActionJackson-tc3dy
      @ActionJackson-tc3dy 7 месяцев назад

      ​@@official_aweiwhite looking latina? Asian guys got a massive fetish for latinas. U americans when it comes to latinas. U guys get emotional

  • @jackkim2708
    @jackkim2708 4 месяца назад +1

    Although I did not go to Umich but I had a gf there so I visited there numerous times and as an Asian international student, I realized there were so many Asian females and white male couples. Thank you for making a video about this topic

  • @SBahamondes
    @SBahamondes 8 месяцев назад +16

    To be fair, Asian men like white women too, particularly the Koreans.

  • @aspebb
    @aspebb 2 месяца назад

    I've noticed this (maybe I'm generalising) but it seems that Asian guys only ever talk about white girls or white passong girls when they talk about dating outside of their race.
    Is it just a thing in Asian communities to prefer/require a potential partner to have white (lighter skin)?

  • @bobbyschannel349
    @bobbyschannel349 7 месяцев назад +9

    I think that a lot of Asian women are extremely disrespectful towards Asian men. there's a RUclips channel called not your Asian women, the title comes from the fact that she's telling Asian men they don't belong to Asian men, that's what she said in one video

  • @wmj246
    @wmj246 5 месяцев назад +3

    Overall positive message. Wish you all the best young man.

  • @ryanwashington7262
    @ryanwashington7262 5 месяцев назад +7

    As a black native American I've have seen this alot and need answers to this.

  • @MT-xu7dh
    @MT-xu7dh Месяц назад +1

    These days I’ve noticed it’s a lot less so. Looks seem to be more important.

  • @ambersaura9988
    @ambersaura9988 8 месяцев назад +15

    😆 when you said “I see a lot of black couples” I laughed because guess what… we got this trend in our community too. More of black women *usually prefer black guys. Black guys usually prefer non black. Black guys are the Asian women in our community basically.

    • @official_awei
      @official_awei  8 месяцев назад +1

      haha that's interesting

    • @whiterabbit8243
      @whiterabbit8243 8 месяцев назад

      the difference is the black guy is doing the replacing. black ppl arent going anywhere if black guy decides to mate non black, whereas asians will disappear if asian girls all mate with non asian.

    • @tobiasgriffin
      @tobiasgriffin 5 месяцев назад

      But the black guy will date black girls

    • @chrisjackson8151
      @chrisjackson8151 4 месяца назад

      Interesting! I had this conversation with some black guys and received common responses in that black women told them that they arent “black enough.”

  • @kauaiboy5o
    @kauaiboy5o 4 месяца назад +1

    I am Asian who grew up in a white environment who is used to white girls and happily married to one. As far as Asian girls, I have not known one and can't say much about it.

  • @Janger82
    @Janger82 7 месяцев назад +5

    The advantage and disadvantage of being asian men, this is my opinion as an asian men. We advantage is, a lot of asian dudes earn more more money than other race and asian men are more educated, fashionable, and smart, but? We're disadvantage as an asian is dating, size, and cnfident is a bad luck for us asian men except to filipino men, they're more desirable and most westernized asian bacause of their culture compared to other asian men because of our culture us asian, most of filipino men are into white, latina, and hispanic. So this is my opinion and observation as an asian men.

  • @alfredhitchcock45
    @alfredhitchcock45 4 месяца назад +3

    Ethnic Chinese are ethnocentric
    American Chinese are white centric

  • @clintdavis7434
    @clintdavis7434 8 месяцев назад +5

    When i was in Asia i knew some really good looking and masculine men. If you ask me its for whatever reason you are not projecting the confidence women want. Lift weights. Learn to be more outgoing. I had to do this myself.

    • @ambersaura9988
      @ambersaura9988 8 месяцев назад +4

      The dude is jacked already 😭

    • @harshsinghforu4
      @harshsinghforu4 6 месяцев назад

      White girls treat us like fun & as a last option for their lil only. She never ever try to make normal friend. Not at all they us to stay around. White or black girl all girl of whole earth demands only white(rich,strong) guy.

  • @theinternational397
    @theinternational397 7 месяцев назад +9

    If you’re getting all those White women because Asian women won’t swipe on you then is that really a problem?

  • @PHTraining
    @PHTraining 5 месяцев назад +1

    I have never had a white girl look at me the way an East Asian or Indian girl has!

  • @Zacklibirton456
    @Zacklibirton456 2 месяца назад +2

    Be proud for being asian bro fuck what the girls said bro i agree with you focus on your goals not on holes 😂😂🎯💀 good content anyway 🗿

  • @abaznman2463
    @abaznman2463 7 месяцев назад +1

    SO, is there any SOLUTIONS to this ????!!!!!

    • @kevinkevinkevin1909
      @kevinkevinkevin1909 5 месяцев назад

      Don't feel bad. These Asian females are not exactly the one you want to marry and have families with. White dude have no issue with divorce, while Asian dude will be very careful to filter out the undesirseable. So there are many leftover Asian female liar who will not admit they are lefovers, but lie by saying they only date white dude. Very sinister, and for thus reason Asian men reject them. Asian men are smart.

    • @chrisjackson8151
      @chrisjackson8151 4 месяца назад

      The solution is to work on yourself and not beg nor chase anyone that doesnt want to be with you. You dont need validation from such people anyway.

  • @livelifejessica
    @livelifejessica 8 месяцев назад +7

    I don't Asian men because I hate the sandwich culture wherein you have to support your family financially even if you have a family of your own. I am never marrying into that culture again. I suffered enough. I don't want to marry into a culture where my husband's family is financially reliant on him while his loser siblings are unemployed or ingrates.

    • @nakamiyonemura2001
      @nakamiyonemura2001 8 месяцев назад +15

      You're good to reference your own experience and entitled to live a life you want, but please don't lump us all together just because you've gone through generational trauma from your side of Asian men. Personally every Asian women deserves a clean slate from me, because they're all individuals with diverse experiences just like everyone else

    • @livelifejessica
      @livelifejessica 8 месяцев назад +2

      @@nakamiyonemura2001 It's my preference, I'm not saying Asian men are bad, I just don't want that cycle to continue with me. Some asians might not have this, but I aint taking a risk

    • @nakamiyonemura2001
      @nakamiyonemura2001 8 месяцев назад +5

      ​@@livelifejessica I can definitely agree that breaking the trauma cycle is a must. My slight contention is that when you don't see your culture from a majority POV, you won't ever find positive figures in your community, and usually that's detrimental for the rest of us. Of course this change can only come from you/within, nothing I say/do externally will make a difference, I just think it's important for us to always check our biases

    • @livelifejessica
      @livelifejessica 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@nakamiyonemura2001 I'm not sure what the majority has to say about it in terms of POV, I don't have the statistics. I can only base on the community I grew up in. An entire village suffering from Sandwich Generation. But I can understand where you are coming from, that you don't want to be put into the same category as I or even some have experienced. We all have our own biases and preferences and I do believe many people feel the same as me, as well as you do.

    • @nakamiyonemura2001
      @nakamiyonemura2001 8 месяцев назад +4

      @@livelifejessica You can find out majority POV when you readjust how you're seeing your culture, because if you're just looking at your own experience that's only one POV. An appropriate analogy from me would be; does every Japanese family universally suffered from pachinko addiction like mine? See, if you're consciously holding to your bias, you will ALWAYS get confirmation-bias. You may understood my experience, but since you don't accept it you'll perpetuate stereotypes. Like, how can you tell me in good faith that you don't hate Asian men if your reference of them were losers and ingrates? This is what saddens me. I hope someday you'd care to see nuance and differences beyond cultural trauma/attachments

  • @madbug1965
    @madbug1965 3 месяца назад +1

    Asian girls consider it dating/marrying up.

  • @Josemarieonichan
    @Josemarieonichan 5 месяцев назад +3

    If you always consuming chocolate icecream (and only chocolate ice cream), and suddenly you're introduce to a new flavoured ice cream will you still choose chocolate if you have the opportunity to try different flavour.
    Thats the best analogy I can think of 😂😂.

  • @historyfactsshorts22
    @historyfactsshorts22 5 месяцев назад +1

    Never met an asian in person as a german in a rural area.they are quite rare here so i cant really say something to this topic

    • @alphapony_563
      @alphapony_563 5 месяцев назад

      i had korean gf in CZ but she left me after4months :( :D

    • @historyfactsshorts22
      @historyfactsshorts22 5 месяцев назад

      @@alphapony_563 thats sad

  • @boxingforlifemfs9095
    @boxingforlifemfs9095 8 месяцев назад +9

    For big white packages dangling down there. Asian girls are into tall white guys with blue eyes and pretty okay packages where as Whites and Latinas are more into tall hunky black Tyron dudes with even bigger ginormous packages. And this is coming from a fellow Asian brother. We can lie to ourselves with saying it's about being more introvert, timid, shy and personality thing but aww come on let's be honest, really????

    • @ambersaura9988
      @ambersaura9988 8 месяцев назад +2

      Dude in the vid says he dating a Latina..

    • @krispyseller4031
      @krispyseller4031 8 месяцев назад +10

      not all asian girls.some or most asian girls usually settle in w asian dudes

    • @boxingforlifemfs9095
      @boxingforlifemfs9095 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@krispyseller4031 There is a astronomical difference between giving your best years of your fun life to some chads and Tyrones and then later after hitting the wall settling with Oppa hahah

    • @nakamiyonemura2001
      @nakamiyonemura2001 8 месяцев назад

      Y'all really think every white man has a big package? Try working as a nurse bro them averages are not far from each other between white and Asian 💀 If all your information was referenced from cornhub/internet then yes everyone not Asian seem to be packing something big but in reality they don't work like that

    • @allio3459
      @allio3459 7 месяцев назад +1

      Bro average penis size for Chinese is around 5.5-6 inches. That’s average size…

  • @fredred5037
    @fredred5037 5 месяцев назад +2

    That’s always been the case even since the post WW2 generation of Asian American women marrying white guys. “Integrating” into American culture.
    But k-pop has helped Lightskin Asian guys get with above average white women from what I’ve seen.

    • @tobiasgriffin
      @tobiasgriffin 5 месяцев назад

      Why do you care about white people so much that the problem

  • @Server_Assassinn444
    @Server_Assassinn444 Месяц назад +1

    let's be honest they go for white men because they have money, tall, muscular, and handsome 😭🙏🏻

    • @ninjapirate123
      @ninjapirate123 Месяц назад

      But according to study, Asian man gets paid more than White man in the US

    • @thhndy
      @thhndy 22 часа назад

      most of the time it’s only tall, they’ve got nothing else going for them. asian women just have white fever and those mid white guys take whatever they can get.

  • @donnatate6327
    @donnatate6327 Месяц назад

    you are experiecing the same thing that black people are going thru. Even media is pushing the white/black couple thing.

  • @Wolf741000
    @Wolf741000 5 месяцев назад +3

    I noticed Korean women usually date other Koreans 90 percent of the time, and 10 percent of them either date White or Chinese guys.

  • @garyl6561
    @garyl6561 8 месяцев назад +18

    appropriate tittle: "why do SOME asian girls"

    • @willclouded
      @willclouded 7 месяцев назад +6

      Honestly it seems like it's a growing trend , I'm a British Born Asian , and can say over here alot of the Asian woman are going for white dudes even the ones who are studying here . I would even say it's more common to see a Asian girl with a white guy than it is with a Asian guy and Asian girl.

    • @rafaelpais970
      @rafaelpais970 5 месяцев назад +3

      More like "Why do most..."

  • @annecruz7039
    @annecruz7039 8 месяцев назад +5

    As an asian living in us…im 50% guilty 🙈

  • @peaceskid
    @peaceskid 5 месяцев назад

    +1 for my porn addiction, thanks my guy biases confirmed

  • @talawanda5164
    @talawanda5164 8 месяцев назад +3

    can confirm talking to Asian woman as we speak!. i ask the same question why white woman choose black men... makes no sense but yet here we are!.

  • @tstones5187
    @tstones5187 5 месяцев назад +3

    Asian women have white fever

  • @alfredhitchcock45
    @alfredhitchcock45 4 месяца назад

    Asians are less hairy

  • @jamesvo8435
    @jamesvo8435 4 месяца назад

    Welcome to America Bro!

  • @blueshock
    @blueshock 4 месяца назад

    Brutal

  • @fakeicecream552
    @fakeicecream552 8 месяцев назад +1

    brutal
    create more ER boyos.