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@@Choompam thanks! Yea he’s trying the wrong one.

@@exoticalpersephone yass! This is so true. It’s a way of projecting in a sense.

@@maggidiy Welcome🫶🏼💗

@@ExoticalKiss 🎯 it’s like, let us live! dang.

@@Laïla-h4i first off congrats boo ✨🎉 and yes, it’s like they just can’t imagine you being more than what meets the eyes. Also, compensatory narcissism is a great way to describe this attitude.

thank you so much!

ikr! I was like, oh thats what you reallyv think huh?! Noted!

I would say so. especially if they are in America or another predominately white country.

heyyyy!!

@@LoverGirlsAnonymous Hello again!

that seems like a tough situation to be in. I get why you would still appreciate it bc at least its something.

lmaooo uno reverse!! exactly!

thank youu!!

yes, that's why its so important to define yourself for yourself.

Umm that lady went after her looks first so she has a right to come after her looks back plastic surgery or not. If you’re jealous and that you want plastic surgery but can’t afford to get it done just say that! If you see women that have had success plastic surgery as a threat and serious competition, just say that!🙄

@@tamarapowell8982 no I used to make fun of the chicks with fake boobs because my boobs looked as perky and bigger and i never got plastic surgery. It's a hierarchy those of us who have what those seek with surgery will always feel better

Ummm someone defending themselves against people that are bullying them isn’t “rage baiting”

Yes! Welcome to the channel.

@@RicoMyers-f6n do you hear anything in the video? 🎤…is this thing on?

@@LoverGirlsAnonymous I'm telling you about genes and science your not black your mix race you not dark skin ok forget the video 😈👹 is not important

@@Music45387 ikr. I was like 🥱😂

it was groundbreaking for its time. a black version of american graffittti which was a huge coming-of-age movie. these days with so much black media it would not stand out.

@@Dentsun4228 I can appreciate that perspective on it.

@@Dentsun4228 🤣 That’s your opinion and in my opinion, there’s nothing groundbreaking about a bunch of teens skipping school and trying to have sex- no matter what demographic the teens are.

@@Music45387 no there's nothing groundbreaking about teenagers being irresponsible. However the fact that this movie was made in 1970s about a group of black teenagers during a transformative period in their lives was groundbreaking, just as the movie American graffiti was considered groundbreaking for depicting white teenagers in the same stage of life. No movie before had ever examined the black experience in this way.

@@dwanacoulter604 definitely do not need their acceptance💅🏼✨

i am not a woman. but i think this whole "dsw are jealous of lsw" is really overstated at least in america. there's a lot of competition among women and its on complexion, looks, hair etc. for example, my ls aunt told me that when she was teen, she was jealous of my ds aunt who happened to be more petite with a nicer shape. the ds aunt was envious because guys seemed to be attracted to the ls aunt's complexion. but those attitudes should change over time with maturity and education. for example, my 33 yo sister is a dsw and she has friends of all complexions. i have know bw all my life and they have ds and ls friends, but they still have competition and envy based on different attributes.

@@Dentsun4228 yes the thing is, once women decenter males’ opinions and attention, women as a whole will be better off.

@@LoverGirlsAnonymous well, i wish you women luck decentering men from your lives. i hope you know it means men will respond by decentering women as well.

@@Dentsun4228 We don’t want you centered on us. We want you centered on your mental health, emotional intelligence, integrity and ya money. Then come see about us💅🏼

yea, thats definitely one take on it. She keeps herself in the public eye one way or another.

@@LoverGirlsAnonymous again a story about ice again with hairstylist don't knw what really so bad this time about her copying nicki looks I know cardi had similar experience with hairstylist for me at this point American people r sensitive I'm from south africa if ice really is disrespectful she wil go on live and swear to nicki and barbz now that will be disrespectful like latto and cardi did but now they actually want this to happend so they want to cancel ice for me just is jealous black women that's against ice spice appearance I never seen them hating on jt Normani or any other ghetto black rappers I c pattern now very clear even they say few bad things when doja was at festival performing

@@yahainHotPink welcome back love✨💅🏼

@@LoverGirlsAnonymous Thank you. This was a good video. 😊

Ayyeee🎉🎉🤣😂 They watchin👁️🧿

@@LoverGirlsAnonymous 🧿🧿🧿🪬🪬🪬

I don’t really like anything Cardi B stands for. But they just keep on focusing on her. There are so many UAB women artists who get looked over and not promoted by UABW with platforms and it’s a shame.

@@LoverGirlsAnonymous it’s why the community isn’t winning. I want the best for them so bad, and I feel so tempted to come to their defense having that I used to be in those spaces. But when I come to our space I’m always slapped back into reality about the truth: uab black women only care about being victims. No matter what they claim 😥

@@StephTheYah what do you mean her “behavior towards black women” when those same black women attack her first unprovoked and ps she doesn’t only clap back at black women so I really don’t know where this “she only comes for black women” narrative is even coming from because you must’ve have not seen her on her love and hip hop days or her ig model days because she hasn’t only clapped back at black women

@@tamarapowell8982 because the video is about black women. That’s why I said black women lol. I’m not denouncing that cardi doesn’t do this to everybody at all.

@@far6311 I swear!! So many have opened in my city and closed down before a fiscal quarter even passes.

@@far6311 trying to throw some sort of shade out there. And for what reason?!

@@AnneJoseph-qk2ns yeah you’re clearly new here 😂

you could say that.

I know an UAB man who (from the history I know about him) has a propensity to date only mixed and light skinned women. He complained to me that some of them told him he’d be a good husband but they don’t want to have kids with him bc they want their kids to look MGM like they do. He was deeply offended by this but I don’t feel it was wrong of her to say that. The only thing I can see is it may have indicated that he has internalized colorism and an inferiority complex.

@@LoverGirlsAnonymous that’s the thing I don’t get about Ian proplr and men. They’re offended when mgm people would prefer to be with their phenotype but they like to justify why they don’t like their own phenotype.and I believe this is another reason they one drop rule is because they want us to them. I have a biracial mom, a mixed grandfather and native grandparents on both sides but because my skin is a deeper brown there are black people who will attack me for preferring what actually matches me lol.

@@LoverGirlsAnonymous idk what happened to my other comment but: I believe this is why uab black people like to one drop rule us. Because when we prefer to be with our own, now they're "deeply offended" lol. I have a biracial mother and a mixed grandfather with native on both sides of my family. But I have a deeper skin tone. so if i say I prefer an MGM, I know some black people will call me self hating just because of my complexion. I know nothing about the experience of a person with full features and kinky hair. I have small plump-medium features and loose curly hair. Yes I would prefer to keep that in my bloodline because I want to be with what I relate to. There are black friends I had that get angry with me for dating other MGMs because they're lightskin. I get pursued by MGM's alot so whats the problem? lol.

it is so dysfunctional and it shows who actually has the real identity issues.

@@telljoyce388 it’s so lame 😒

@@c0deinebrxt that’s terrible. I’m sorry you’ve experienced that. This sounds like exactly what you said it was- projecting and jealousy that you’ve decided to live a multicultural life and not just stay in the black “community”.

I also have experienced being called Oreo, wannabe white etc It became a constant criticism from black people so much that most of my friends are white. Some of my family harassed me for having so many white friends but when I hang around them they don't sit there and tease and harass me. So I am more comfortable with them than black people who tend to tease and bully me..I don't care anymore because I have dealt with this all my life and I refuse to hang around mean hateful people just because we're the same race

@@c0deinebrxt why are you dating a white guy though? I mean given the state of race relations in America it's a good question. And your family knows you, perhaps better than you know yourself, so maybe there's something to what they say.

@@Dentsun4228probably because said white guy is an individual and so is she? them being in an interracial relationship doesn’t automatically mean there is something wrong with their dynamic. two individuals from different races can be in a loving healthy relationship, even in america. also saying her family knows her more than herself so there’s automatically some truth to what they said is crazy. you don’t know her or her family. stop rage-baiting and invalidating her story when her family clearly has very little regard for her multicultural identity and they’re just as ignorant as you.

@@divinebeaute yes, it is entirely possible for people of different races to fall in love w each other. no question about that. that said, its valid to ask "why a white guy?" there's men of aa, asian, hispanic, arab, african, caribbean origins all over america. the only guy she could find just happens to be white? especially when you consider the power dynamics of race in america, there should always be some question about what is the true basis of the attraction. and if i were you, i would never dismiss the family as "ignorant." the family is the unit that raised her. they love her. they know her far better than you and me. if they have concerns about the relationship, they have a right and responsiblity to express their concerns. if i were the white guy, i would never want to be in a relationship with a bw whose family didnt accept me. those relationships are doomed to an ugly death.

I feel this so much.

I gave up too😌 This is exactly what I’m talking about. Been going through this since a child. And it happens especially with MGMs bc we don’t have a parent that’s not partially Black so we are thrown in and quickly out of Blackness constantly. Happy this resonates with you✨💗

people actually tell youj youj're not black enough?

@@Dentsun4228 all the time believe it or not, especially in conversations around things that affect the black community. I’m not black enough to have an opinion apparently lol.

I hate people with this mentality. Trying to erase the original black image of black people. You are not black you are multiracial. Claim the other race. Leave black people alone. Stop targeting us because you see us as the weaker race and easier to manipulate. Claim the other races.

Im sitting pretty and perfectly comfortable. You, on the other hand, sound extremely bothered. Get a grip.

@@TimXMan1000 it surprises me every time I encounter it. Like, “oh. This again😑”

@@InfatuationFaze thanks for listening! Yes, it’s a dated mentality and I hope it gradually phases out.