It is such a male model thing to say that he likes women that’s gonna be their provider, male models and people in this industry are such red flags unless they’re passionate rather than about their image. I’m glad you stood your ground, major respect to you!
i don't think being a muse to anyone is a flex. as an artist who has had her fair share of muses (though I've never been one myself), its more or less the fantasy or idea of the person you admire rather than them. at first, they seem like a wonderful and beautiful person, then once the fantasy wears off you no longer feel the same. you realise they're not special - they're just like everyone else. thus the fantasy is gone. in reality, you're far more in love with your own imagination than anything else. instead of realising this, the muse continues to be a distraction to what you're actually in love with. its also a derealisation process in many ways. thats not to mention in some extreme cases, you're channeling your self worth through someone else, which is NEVER a healthy thing to do. pedestalising anyone to the degree where they have that much power is unhealthy. which is why its so important to become your own muse, especially as an artist - fall deeply in love with yourself first, so you can love others just as deeply.
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It is such a male model thing to say that he likes women that’s gonna be their provider, male models and people in this industry are such red flags unless they’re passionate rather than about their image. I’m glad you stood your ground, major respect to you!
@@Choompam thanks! Yea he’s trying the wrong one.
i don't think being a muse to anyone is a flex. as an artist who has had her fair share of muses (though I've never been one myself), its more or less the fantasy or idea of the person you admire rather than them. at first, they seem like a wonderful and beautiful person, then once the fantasy wears off you no longer feel the same. you realise they're not special - they're just like everyone else. thus the fantasy is gone.
in reality, you're far more in love with your own imagination than anything else. instead of realising this, the muse continues to be a distraction to what you're actually in love with. its also a derealisation process in many ways.
thats not to mention in some extreme cases, you're channeling your self worth through someone else, which is NEVER a healthy thing to do. pedestalising anyone to the degree where they have that much power is unhealthy.
which is why its so important to become your own muse, especially as an artist - fall deeply in love with yourself first, so you can love others just as deeply.
@@slavafricanpersephone yass! This is so true. It’s a way of projecting in a sense.