How to Stay Calm When You're Being Blamed -- or Even Yelled At
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- Опубликовано: 15 апр 2019
- One of the most challenging skill is to learn to be calm when you're wrongly blamed and can't get a word in edge-wise, as someone is angry and yelling at you.
This video offers a new mindset you can use. You'll learn how to use triads (part of HCL) to create a picture of your default approach and how you want to do things differently. Practice it to see how you feel and how it changes the way you influence others.
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i might try this bc of my horrible mental state and trying to hide it from my mother
same
staying calm is strength..
This is really helpful, thank you! ❤
I needed this so much. Thanks!
Excellent ways of calming a bad situation. Gonna try it. Thank you.
I really loved your video. Thankyou.
This is so helpful. Thank you
Thank you! This is a great advice.
This is really good, just what I was looking for. Greetings from Mexico :)
Thank you ❤❤
This was a good, video, thanks. I am ok :) I REALLY want to learn how to stay calm in any situation, learn how not to be triggered by tone of voice.
Thankyou. Great präsentation.
True
what can one do if someone does not believe in discussing such matters even after 1 day.., 2 days, whatever? what if the person hates discussion? Any thoughts on that?
You need to do this for married couples.
This is a good topic, but I can't hear no matter how much I turn it up.
RUclips can't fix your sound. I hear it just fine
Awesome advise, however compassion without boundaries leads to abuse.
Allowing someone to scream at us is not healthy. Why would we tolerate abuse instead of calmly akd lovingly implementing boundaries as to make sure we make our need to be treated with respect just as important as we are willing to meet the other persons need?
"I agree this must be a mistunderstanding and I would love to solve this together, but I am not okay with doing that while being yelled at"
Step One: Determine whether the speaker is someone you care about. If yes move to Step Two. If no, depart.
Step Two: Listen and remain non-committal. Nod and occasionally say “Okay.”
Step Three: Thank the speaker for sharing. Put your hands together and say “Namaste.” Continue about your day.
For future videos please use a mic, as the sound is very distance and low. It is difficult to hear the presenter. Thanks for sharing.
I'm having trouble hearing this.
Hi Carrie - I'll re-upload it for you, but probably in a couple of weeks. My sister just had heart surgery and I'm taking care of her and don't have all my equipment with original videos here. I hope that's alright with you, thank you.
This is fantastoc. Gives me hope and confidence for buulding and rebuilding relationships