Saving A Relationship With Kids | Breakup Recovery With Children Involved

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  • Опубликовано: 17 сен 2024

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  • @boyshadowsuited
    @boyshadowsuited 5 лет назад +15

    Awww man finally the best topic for seperated family's . Thanks Adrian.

  • @christianochoa793
    @christianochoa793 Год назад +2

    I’m mind blown at the moment because I am going through this with my girlfriend and we have a daughter together and I was just talking with my mom about how I’m wanting to approach her about “ break up recovery” and then I go onto RUclips and search for advice and as I start listening to you I started putting everything together and you literally said everything I had already planned on doing. This video here proofs to me that it’s for the best and that I’m thinking in the right way and on the right path. 🙏🏽 thank you

  • @SilverGirlAu
    @SilverGirlAu 5 лет назад +8

    Really appreciate this one- I am a year into separation (and have a child)... listening to Adrian kept me sane in the early days!! But I really see the logic in this advice- we have been through periods of distance and closeness even while separated... and sometimes that is around child activities and family times... I am still working on restoring my family and relationship...

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  5 лет назад +4

      Thank you for tuning in and continuing to tune in! We really appreciate it. Keep going! The struggle and the work will never end. There is no finish line when it comes to keeping your relationship and your family happy :) - Coach Adrian

  • @stonerbob8097
    @stonerbob8097 Год назад +2

    As a man who's currently going through a separation this has been what I've been looking for. Some insight on jow to manage the relationship because I have kids. Thank you much 🙏

  • @marcusworlord1368
    @marcusworlord1368 5 лет назад +11

    Adrian!! This is exactly what Ive been needing until I can pay for our private sessions! Please... More info on this topic! If all of what you have said has happened... I begged I cried I got super emotional.. And still feel that way.. Also we are still married just seperated.. She is allready in a physical and seemingly emotional relationship...aka re-bound. And is flaunting it in my face..Please touch on what i should do in the scenario you touched on in this video...and take into consideration the quickness of the rebound and also me having trouble implementing the "no contact" rule for seperated with children.. She has also been focusing alot more on flirting, friends and this new guy...and less on the kids! Please share wirh me some of your amazing insight on this!
    Marcus W.
    Also... She has been sending out mixed signals... I try no contact rules and message for the kids... Aka video calls so they can see daddy.. And then she is wanting me to bring her a coffee... Telling me that I can sleep on the couch in our room so I dont have to sleep in my truck.. Wanting to take the kids out together. And then when I dont respond... To things like coffee... Or things to do with her... She gets angry.. And then I fold to whatever she wants.. Thats when I break and try getting through to her that we love each other and should do anything and everything to fix our marriage.. Last night she then told me that she was getting angry.. And said that there are times when she misses me and wants me back.. But me pushing and trying for marriage counseling.. And "begging" for our family is pushing her further away... Please Adrian.... Save my marriage! Help me bring the love of my life back into my life!

    • @realestateblondy4313
      @realestateblondy4313 4 года назад

      Marcus , your situation is exactly the same , im trying no contact ( unless it s for the kids ) and she started texting me for random reasons and when I dont answer she get pissed at me , and then i break down and try to talk sense into her that we need to save our familly and show our kids that were strong persons that doesnt give up , and then she tell me all the time its over and she doesnt love me and that now she's happy since im out of her life. Why is she texting me random stuff , why is she trying to get my attention? and then when i show her that im willing to get in the game she goes away...

  • @Itsacamlife
    @Itsacamlife 5 лет назад +9

    Plz more video about this topic plz! What if I don’t want to get back with my ex’s but we shared a child together....would this apply the same? Can u do a video more specifically on moving on and don’t want their ex’s back but shared a child together? What rules applies etc and how to heal and let go while have a child together thank you so kucb💜💜💜💜💜

  • @jerryjones957
    @jerryjones957 3 года назад +3

    Real shit 💯💯💪🏾💪🏾 I needed to hear this

  • @dinomorell5163
    @dinomorell5163 4 года назад +2

    Yup more videos like this! PLEASE!!!

  • @futoxygin4557
    @futoxygin4557 3 года назад +1

    wow. i cannot believe how spot on this advice was.

  • @siphiwemcbridges3843
    @siphiwemcbridges3843 5 месяцев назад

    Here you were talking to me straight. Thank you my brother, I'll try to apply these strategies you have shared.

  • @RomeoEditz
    @RomeoEditz 5 лет назад +2

    Learned a few things in this, so thank you very much

  • @Arivera41682
    @Arivera41682 5 лет назад +1

    Good vid dude. You guys are something special. Especially when natalie is in the videos.

  • @brookefreeney6673
    @brookefreeney6673 11 месяцев назад +1

    You read me like a book! And helped me thank you

  • @jasonstimson7765
    @jasonstimson7765 4 года назад +2

    I appreciate what you do.

  • @amoralaniz9725
    @amoralaniz9725 5 лет назад +1

    Thank you for this video!

  • @lathamrowe
    @lathamrowe 5 лет назад +1

    I could relate to this video. Much appreciated.

  • @jaimeebrooks7167
    @jaimeebrooks7167 4 года назад +1

    Thank you.

  • @jovan1220
    @jovan1220 4 года назад

    Thank you Adrian

  • @eddiemorgado3073
    @eddiemorgado3073 5 лет назад +4

    Question? Separated with children ( 2 months now ) doing modified no contact (only talk about children). But her birthday is Friday do I text happy birthday? My birthday just passed and she texted me happy birthday. Not sure if I should.

  • @devonbelill8075
    @devonbelill8075 Год назад

    I’ve been trying this because our two children just started sports for the first time. Our daughter 4yrs old just started soccer and our son 7yrs old just started basketball and I ask her about us going to watch them and not that we have to go together but we both be there and she doesn’t think we should go at the same time. She said I could go one week and her go the next and so on.

  • @chuchotron7967
    @chuchotron7967 Год назад

    Thank you

  • @tvm-growthisunlimited9023
    @tvm-growthisunlimited9023 3 года назад +1

    Nice ... informative

  • @alexrota9468
    @alexrota9468 3 года назад

    Would love a topic on her& her ex kids how I fit in? Great channel& advice overall from Australia 🇦🇺.

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  3 года назад

      Thank you for reaching out. Please take a look at this article. www.withmyexagain.com/blog/how-do-i-give-my-ex-space/
      Coach Natalie

  • @alexisaguilar4971
    @alexisaguilar4971 5 лет назад

    Hey Coach Adrian, It’s been 7 months that me and my ex broke up( She broke up with me) I miss her when I remember her because of the things we did when were together she was like my best friend and we have talked here and there but I went to no contact so she can see herself without me & The last time she texted me she wanted to talk to me of things that were happening to her and also she told me she still trust me because I know her & Her family has seen me around and has seen my changes but all of that she has seen my changes got very shocked & This time alone has helped me to change and know what went wrong in our relationship & She is in a rebound relationship right now but she still sees things they post about me literally the first one to see it & I still have faith that I would have her back in my arms & The day we broke up she told me in the future we can get back together & I just want to thank you love advice tv for helping me out when I was down & Your videos inspired to never give up and got my associates degree because this breakup was not going to let me down for what I wanted all my life and once again thank you!🙏🏻

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  5 лет назад +1

      You're welcome, Alexis :) We're here to help when you need www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ - Coach Adrian

    • @alexisaguilar4971
      @alexisaguilar4971 5 лет назад

      Thank you so much Coach Adrian!😊

    • @lilmachine26
      @lilmachine26 4 года назад

      How is going in a similar situation

  • @1BCHRIS
    @1BCHRIS 11 месяцев назад

    Need more on this topic

  • @qamarzia2374
    @qamarzia2374 5 лет назад +1

    Excellent. I wish you are in Pakistan. You could save millions of marriages.

  • @Chris-fv8kc
    @Chris-fv8kc 2 года назад +2

    What would be a good sign to start to reach out to her after spending some time doing family activities and keeping your emotions on lock?

  • @cmiss2724
    @cmiss2724 3 года назад +1

    Can you please do more video on what to do during separation with kid ? He is so angry and stop communicating completely except about kid and also still in emotional affair

  • @manuelecocca5774
    @manuelecocca5774 5 лет назад +1

    Please do more

  • @alansaydon2525
    @alansaydon2525 3 года назад +2

    Excellent advice however, 3:49 has anyone see the "plane" in the back ground, is it a plane cause I saw it a million times and looks round not like a plane. Can anyone confirm if there is an airport in that area?? I don't wanna change the nice comments, however can someone tell the that doesn't look like a UFO and that there is an airport in that area...

  • @otarian2747
    @otarian2747 2 года назад +2

    What if you have kids together an ur ex has the kids living in another country and ur only contact is by phone and she hardly lets u call them?very tough

  • @randymatsonmatson9156
    @randymatsonmatson9156 2 года назад +2

    Does this work if you’re in your second separation? Both times different reasons

  • @sheylacordero1583
    @sheylacordero1583 4 года назад +1

    Hi adrian I have 2 babies with my ex we have a 2years old a month an half aways from turning 3years n a 5months old baby we got separated 2 months ago we have been together since middle school we were together for almost 13 years we separated because i found out that he cheated on me while i was still pregnant with a co worker i tried to take to him about it but he always tried to avoid the conversations so I went on n called the girl n I got all my answers so the next day I went on n gather some of my things n the babies n left to my moms with out telling his parents any because i use to live with them wen he got home he told his parents everything wat had happened the same weekend he went to my moms house to see the kids n I told him that we needed to talk we did n after I got some answers but not all he told me that he wanted to have his family back but he needed time to forgive him self I dont know if its true but he told me to move back with my parents I wanted to go back home n fix everything but he said not for now for the pass 2 months I have beening going to his house with my kids to make sure der safe because he dosen't have patience with them neither his parents. I have been trying to see if he says that it's okay to go back with him again n that we could work on anything that we need to work out but he keeps telling me that it still hurts that he doesn't want to hurt me again like that what should i do i want to be a happy family but how could i help him if he doesn't want my help.... what should I do????????
    Should I give up on my family or keep trying to put it back together

  • @Loulou14256
    @Loulou14256 3 года назад

    Thank you brother

  • @jeremybolton6407
    @jeremybolton6407 3 года назад +2

    My wife said she is numb to me. We are now in the divorce process but she continues to call me daily to chit chat. I’m so confused because I am still deeply in love with her and she has a new love interest at work that she communicates obsessively with daily. I just want to know how to let go of an 11 year relationship.

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  3 года назад +1

      Thank you for reaching out, Jeremy. ⭐ Want To Tell Us More About What You Are Going Through? Call Our Hotline Now 👇:786.635.8373
      Coach Natalie

  • @janekaibe4081
    @janekaibe4081 7 месяцев назад

    So helpful

  • @jymiv7640
    @jymiv7640 2 года назад +1

    What about separation after 5 years & shes sense moved on into two different relationships.

  • @Kooza002
    @Kooza002 18 дней назад

    Is it smart to text them good morning and see how they are all doing? I left the family 2 months ago and broke up with her 5 months ago. I have been struggling with this and patience hasn’t been my virtue. The relationship was ok for 9 years and my anger got the best of me for the 4 months.

  • @elijahwillie6265
    @elijahwillie6265 2 года назад +1

    Me and my lady broke up we had a fine relationship but my anger got in the way and we had a house together we first bought I couldn’t stay there cause it’s just brought up so many memories so I left and she blames me for leaving when clearly she said she doesn’t want to be with me anymore so why live in a house of memory’s and too Thai day I still love her and my kids but she just won’t let me call them or visit them

  • @zeravammah4144
    @zeravammah4144 5 лет назад +3

    We have have son together we brake up 8 month ago my son he’s 13 month old she’s tray come back I did build my slef mazing car and I have best life ever and always look after myself when she see me she just say wow and she’s almost every day take my son at my work to see me but I’m steal don’t know did I should go back to her or not I’m scare go back to her Bcz she hurt me to much ?????

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  5 лет назад +2

      Hey Zeravam Mah, here are your choices - get back the love of your life and the mother of your child and live happily ever after... OR... live in fear of love. IT'S YOUR CHOICE BROTHER! - Coach Adrian

    • @zeravammah4144
      @zeravammah4144 5 лет назад +1

      Love Advice TV I love my son more then anything in this world this way I’m confuse my son everything for me thanks soooooo much for help god bless you

  • @petelincoln9058
    @petelincoln9058 3 года назад

    Thanks so much for this informative video, I want to express my gratitude love and respect to you for who you are and what you do, I encourage you to continue with this great work you are doing, I love your batik shirt and the way you explain things at a slightly slower tempo so its clear an easier to take in, in other words I like the way you talk and your timing, much love and many thanks

  • @KyleJoseph94
    @KyleJoseph94 8 месяцев назад

    The Facebook group isn't coming up?

  • @quarryclendening9304
    @quarryclendening9304 5 лет назад +3

    My ex drop my daughter off to me, and before she left she wanted a hug, so we did and she said "see... Progress" is that a good sign?

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  5 лет назад +2

      Hey Quarry Clendening, "Progress" is ALWAYS a good sign :) - Coach Adrian

  • @Bissie_10
    @Bissie_10 5 лет назад +2

    Hello coach,My ex cheated one and left me but he came back but he is not the same,please tell me what I should do.

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  5 лет назад +1

      Hey maile di, how is he different? - Coach Adrian

    • @Bissie_10
      @Bissie_10 5 лет назад +1

      Love Advice TV I think he only wants to use me,he came back but he hides a lot of stuffs from me

  • @motivatetherevolution389
    @motivatetherevolution389 4 года назад +1

    Can I get added to the Facebook group?

  • @boipelomphaki8989
    @boipelomphaki8989 5 лет назад +3

    Hi my ex left me pregnant and moved in with another women how do I co parent and be able to trust him with the welfare of my child

  • @AAbattery444
    @AAbattery444 5 лет назад +2

    Your videos are helpful but I feel like I'm caught between choosing which direction to move in. I was in a relationship for four and a half years. We broke up because she felt like I didn't understand her after she got a new nursing job and a coworker started getting her attention. We broke up after 7 months of her new job. I did no contact and she contacted me after a week during a personal crisis where her and her new fling weren't working out and of course I reached back out and was there for her. I don't know if this was a mistake or not. But she expressed that she did miss me and liked talking to me. She was afraid that I hated her. And I said I just needed my space but that I'd talked to her if she wanted me to. But I still love her. That's the problem. I still want her back but I don't want to be her call boy. I don't want to be the person she goes to for emotional support when things don't work out in her favor. What am I to do? How can I back off while simultaneously remaining on good terms and present so that I can work on myself without feeling like I'm hoping for something that might not or won't happen?

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  5 лет назад +4

      Hey Alex Arici, you need to be ok with being in an "in between" phase with her. Be her friend, but show her that you're not waiting around for her and that you're dating other women. Make her a little jealous so that she realizes her feelings for you are stronger than she realizes or wants to admit. Once you two get back together, you need to keep her on edge and show her that she can't take you for granted and just leave you and come back because things didn't work out with her co-worker www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ -- Coach Adrian

  • @ajrobin2903
    @ajrobin2903 5 лет назад +2

    2 weeks ago my Ex blocked me online in whatsapp because we was fighting and arguing so i didnt reach out to her since then but she does not unblock me yet or contact me what should i do please help me ?

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  5 лет назад +1

      Hey Aj robin, what were you and your ex fighting over? - Coach Adrian

    • @ajrobin2903
      @ajrobin2903 5 лет назад +1

      @@LoveAdviceTVCommunity we were fighting about change in relationship she told me that i can not really change but i change alot of things about me unfortunately she cant see that she alwayes say not enoguh i give her to much love and care and she give me little lknow she hurt beacues i did big mistakes in tha past and yet she did not change or forget also she has no trust that i can change my habits and now she blocked me for 2 weeks :)

  • @dinomorell5163
    @dinomorell5163 5 лет назад +4

    When I text every morning how the kids are is it ok or smart to say something like 'Morning,How the kids? I love you guys'.Or will that just annoy her and maybe push her away somehow?

  • @jacksoncornwell1554
    @jacksoncornwell1554 5 лет назад

    We were together for 20 yrs .we have 3 kids & split 10 months ago..She was in a new relationship & it fell through so she was homeless. I have let her move in, she won't commit to me & says I haven't changed.so when I say the doors open your not forced to stay she won't leave.she says she don't want a relationship with anyone (yet talks with many on social media).is this smart to have her here if I want to save our relationship? I have told her 100 times . I want 100%in or 100% out.

  • @Izzabella-jackollen-Holden-
    @Izzabella-jackollen-Holden- 5 лет назад +1

    What if it’s been 5 months of separation 3 bad months in the beginning 2 good ones and then a blow up that has not lead to us not speaking to each other? Are things ruined? Can we ever get back to being good again? He moved in with his rebound he has been lying about for the past 5 months. All of our fights have been because I didn’t believe him his friend was just a friend. Now they live together and are openly together according to her they have been “together” for all 5 months of our separation. We have 4 kids and for the past 2 weeks only talk about the kids ands it’s very strained and uncomfortable.

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  5 лет назад +3

      Hey Steph Holden, you need to be careful and make sure that you're not looking at the situation as the "end-all, be-all." Just because you two had a spat, doesn't mean that things are done for good. Just because he is now living with his rebound doesn't mean the situation is permanent. If you two share kids, you two will be in each other's lives forever, so there will ALWAYS be hope to rekindle - Coach Adrian

    • @Izzabella-jackollen-Holden-
      @Izzabella-jackollen-Holden- 5 лет назад +1

      Thank you for replying!! I got very upset by his lies and filed papers the next day. I regret it now but that is why he is not speaking to me, that and because I said some very mean things about his rebound in the heat of the moment. Thank you again for the response, and please post more for married people with kids!!!!

  • @Joshuamiro
    @Joshuamiro 3 года назад

    What about mixed signals from your sons mother? Rebound relationship ended and our dynamic has change but then becomes distant. Please help

  • @piecesofu
    @piecesofu 5 лет назад +2

    well my ex wants to have nothing with me-even when it comes to our son!he has girlfriend now-women he cheated on me with-and when it comes to our son its 50-50 but i do not exist to him!he doesnt want me anywhere near him-no children's activities-its me there or him-no way for both of us!i feel like there is no way for me!i have changed but he just does not care-he knows i am in school again for over 6 months-never even asked me what am i studying!and thats what i get after 9 years together!i feel like all the hope is gone even i still believe that as adrian said if i believe it can be i should fight the good fight but somehow i have no opportunities to even fight anything!its been over a year and its going from bad to nothing for him....its hard!i had private session before-like 9 months ago-i just can not afford another one!pls somebody send some hope....

  • @skyecourtneyrose5184
    @skyecourtneyrose5184 Год назад

    It’s not the same but my sibling broke up with their partner and the kid is 6 and yeah they will forget everything but I won’t because I still love the kid like my niece even though it’s not by blood and I don’t know how to like get over it and forget it like I have been told to do so I need advice

  • @hyukilol1gaming
    @hyukilol1gaming Год назад

    I am crying because I break up with my girlfriend I am a kid

  • @catrionaleo2009
    @catrionaleo2009 4 года назад +1

    What if it was a blended family and the kids put a wedge? How do you get back with an ex then?

  • @jeramiematthews9143
    @jeramiematthews9143 3 года назад

    Please help I just found out my girlfriend is pregnant with my child ,which she already has as two year old son ,which is ok and has been but when I said I needed to get some air to figure out how I feel it was a judge problem..I don't understand what I did wrong in that aspect

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  3 года назад

      Thank you for reaching out, Jeramie. ⭐ Need Immediate 1-on-1 Custom-Tailored Coaching | Schedule A Call With Us 👇: happilycommitted.com/coaching/
      Coach Adrian

  • @Lyndan
    @Lyndan 5 лет назад +2

    1st

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  5 лет назад +1

      I can confirm you are 1st Lyndan Armytage! Thank you for tuning in :) Make sure to subscribe! - Coach Adrian