This is helping me at 25 , I'm still young but Im going through co parenting but I know starting today I'm growing and can make a difference . Whether I'm with her or without her :)
Just listen to your video now brother. After tonight I really want to get over my sons mother. We both are not good for each other but I keep dragging out hoping it’ll work. We love each other but I just think it’s really time to move on. Tryna stay positive. Cheers bro.
Thanks man. Im so lost in how to navigate these treacherous waters. That last part about respecting her is a hard pill to swallow especially how soon and betrayed one can feel.
This is the advice i needed for my situation. I needed to go through this for me to grow. Its not easy but it all comes down to one thing and that is me helping her with my child and that she is at least financially stable so she can be independent. All i wish is for her to prosper now. Its not even about me wanting her back anymore. I deserve what i got. All that matters is the kids well being.
This is a great video and you are so correct all ties must be cut. This is so hard to do especially when you've been with the person 20 plus years. I wish I had this advice 3 years ago.
She never gave me a real chance, she dumped me for another man but, i wil move on and my kid will always be in my top priority so i will listen to you i will stop talking to her circles and i will be a great single parent
This hits deep thank you for the positive words its not easy but its possible im goint thru it right now i love my daughter but its crazy how her mother is but i have to deal with it love my child true blessing
God work in mysterious ways. I had so many plots in what I was about to do and not gon do but this video just changed my whole view of everything. Needed this bro. I’m on them books now.
Some good and non bias straight up information for fathers dealing with a difficult ex or baby mom.. acceptance is key, up until last week I was irate with the fact she was making my life hard and withholding my Child. Now I’m just focusing on him putting mysel on CS and letting it go to be the best father and live in peace moving forward
My baby mom that I've been in a 8 year relationship In is leaving me I didn't give her the attention I promised her when we got back together in 2020 I just can't see her with another man fucking him kissing him etc everytime I think about it I get sick to my stomach and just don't wanna be here anymore we have 2 kids my son is super close to me and has separation anxiety my daughter we don't have a great relationship I love both just as much. But if it wasn't for my kids I would have been gone 3 years ago I want to end it but everytime I start really thinking about doing it I pussy out I don't wanna leave my kids but what do I have if she leaves me I can't go about seeing my kids every now and then I'm so used to waking up for work and they are laying their sleep . I'm obsessed with my baby mother and I jut don't understand how to let her go
I’m in the same boat too. 6 years and she left me for her co-worker on Halloween. It’s difficult to move on when you have a child with that person. We have 50/50 custody though but I have to see the mother every day
Shit man. I’m in the same damn boat. Got two kids as well with her. I’m sitting here right now in her apartment watching my boys while she out there with her guy that’s a “friend”. I don’t have a place of my own so I gotta stay at my moms house until I can get my own place. It’s so damn hard and have had thoughts about ending it all but that’s not the answer man. That’s the worst answer. Life is beautiful and having kids makes it all better. I’ve been in long relationships before her and time heals the wounds but I’m back in the same boat again with the mother of my children. Time will make it better brother. It will. Don’t give up.
Ima listen to this later on today I’m going through it we had a kid at 17 but i put her through a lot and she loved me so much till she left and it’s been five years now and I’m still In love with her yet she tells me she just wanna be friends but I just can’t let go at all it hurts me a lot because she only hits me up when she needs something and whenever I finally feel like I’m about to let go she comes back then leaves I need help I’m 23 and just can’t let go it’s so hard for me even after many years …
Your gonna have to let her do her. That's the hard part and maybe she gives you another chance well the second you get that you better be on point and changed or else it will just happen again and this time will most likely be permanent good luck to you
October3074 I was young inexperienced, stupid. I want to add value and never be a burden. I want to marry her, but sometimes you do need to learn, heal, know what you want and what is true value. I had to balance myself in a big way and reflect on my many mistakes, what I done, what I want and take time out to learn how to treat a woman I love. We all make mistakes intentional or unintentional but thank you for your time & input though. I’ll work on myself and leave the rest to God.
@@DejiJoshua Good thing you see where you went wrong. But why do you want to fix it with her. She probably have some major trust issues with you and may even silently resent you. Why not just take what you've learned and do better by another woman who you haven't mistreated and hurt continuously? That young lady is possibly still recovering from all she went through with you, so it would be selfish for you to approach her about rekindling things. Now if she is to ever approach you about getting back together then that's another story, but just do right by people period and you won't have to experience such guilt if things so happen to don't work out.
October3074 i just feel a real man always takes the blame. She did things to so many lies. Cheated on me behind my back just because I see my flaws doesn’t make people perfect. Life and relationships about forgiveness. A relationship without God is doomed. It was my first ever girlfriend so yeah I’m hard on myself because I look back and regret but you need to chill
This is helping me at 25 , I'm still young but Im going through co parenting but I know starting today I'm growing and can make a difference . Whether I'm with her or without her :)
Same boat
Rheem Harris
I don’t do everything that people say to do cause I run my own life but just do what’s best for you in your situation.
Chris Clark I’m in the same boat
Just going thru it y’all pray for me , she just told she let a dude hit today... I’m hurt but I gotta get on
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I really needed to hear this.. going through it now it's a process but I know I'll get over it and come out stronger than ever
Just listen to your video now brother. After tonight I really want to get over my sons mother. We both are not good for each other but I keep dragging out hoping it’ll work. We love each other but I just think it’s really time to move on. Tryna stay positive. Cheers bro.
Thanks man. Im so lost in how to navigate these treacherous waters. That last part about respecting her is a hard pill to swallow especially how soon and betrayed one can feel.
That's true bra, betrayal triggers despise
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Thank you so much man.. I truly needed to hear this .
Man I wish I had somebody to teach me this shit before I had a baby
This is the advice i needed for my situation. I needed to go through this for me to grow. Its not easy but it all comes down to one thing and that is me helping her with my child and that she is at least financially stable so she can be independent. All i wish is for her to prosper now. Its not even about me wanting her back anymore. I deserve what i got. All that matters is the kids well being.
This is a great video and you are so correct all ties must be cut. This is so hard to do especially when you've been with the person 20 plus years. I wish I had this advice 3 years ago.
She never gave me a real chance, she dumped me for another man but, i wil move on and my kid will always be in my top priority so i will listen to you i will stop talking to her circles and i will be a great single parent
It's tough. I know. Me too.
She broke up me the day after birth. She was young n she wants to go ride the CC. It's cool though
Very similar situation....how are you coping now 2 years on? We split 2k17 and I’m still 💀😖
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He was the one who helped me restore back ex 3 days ago without delay
Ive been looking for support and i found it. Thank you.
This hits deep thank you for the positive words its not easy but its possible im goint thru it right now i love my daughter but its crazy how her mother is but i have to deal with it love my child true blessing
Solid solid words my man. Thank you.
Thanks man I really needed to hear this
God work in mysterious ways. I had so many plots in what I was about to do and not gon do but this video just changed my whole view of everything. Needed this bro. I’m on them books now.
I needed to find this today bro! Thank You 💯💪🏾💪🏾
Some good and non bias straight up information for fathers dealing with a difficult ex or baby mom.. acceptance is key, up until last week I was irate with the fact she was making my life hard and withholding my Child. Now I’m just focusing on him putting mysel on CS and letting it go to be the best father and live in peace moving forward
Thank.. you.. brother. You helped me see how to move on and take responsibility for what and who is more important in my life.
11 years together one child. Broke up 2 weeks after shes seen someone else. Hard to detach emotionally.
This is my issue to but 4 years
@@TheMenMontage same here man. Smh
Edimar 10 same here
Same here. 4 years together our kid is 14 months. Won’t get 2 see her first walk or talk or her actually first thanksgiving or Christmas 😪🥺🥺🥺🥺
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Amen! Thank you. I'm in this process. I just have to trust the process
This is the 1st thing ive heard today that gave me the hope n motivation I need to stay strong amd focused. Ty bro
Thank you for your solid advice. This video was amazing
I needed this! Thank you so much!
Thank you man! This has helped me so much.
I know of a man who can help you manifest whatever and whoever you wanna manifest within two day
He was the one who helped me restore back ex 3 days ago without delay
message him on WhatsApp
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This helped me immensely, thank you
My baby mom that I've been in a 8 year relationship In is leaving me I didn't give her the attention I promised her when we got back together in 2020 I just can't see her with another man fucking him kissing him etc everytime I think about it I get sick to my stomach and just don't wanna be here anymore we have 2 kids my son is super close to me and has separation anxiety my daughter we don't have a great relationship I love both just as much. But if it wasn't for my kids I would have been gone 3 years ago I want to end it but everytime I start really thinking about doing it I pussy out I don't wanna leave my kids but what do I have if she leaves me I can't go about seeing my kids every now and then I'm so used to waking up for work and they are laying their sleep . I'm obsessed with my baby mother and I jut don't understand how to let her go
Feel you homie.
I'm in the same boat bro . Stay strong.
I’m in the same boat too. 6 years and she left me for her co-worker on Halloween. It’s difficult to move on when you have a child with that person. We have 50/50 custody though but I have to see the mother every day
Shit man. I’m in the same damn boat. Got two kids as well with her. I’m sitting here right now in her apartment watching my boys while she out there with her guy that’s a “friend”. I don’t have a place of my own so I gotta stay at my moms house until I can get my own place. It’s so damn hard and have had thoughts about ending it all but that’s not the answer man. That’s the worst answer. Life is beautiful and having kids makes it all better. I’ve been in long relationships before her and time heals the wounds but I’m back in the same boat again with the mother of my children. Time will make it better brother. It will. Don’t give up.
@@Neat0_o I hope you are well sir
Really need this now it's so hard...
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Thank you man. It is all about My Son
Thank you so much for this my brother
Thank you for this
Ima listen to this later on today I’m going through it we had a kid at 17 but i put her through a lot and she loved me so much till she left and it’s been five years now and I’m still In love with her yet she tells me she just wanna be friends but I just can’t let go at all it hurts me a lot because she only hits me up when she needs something and whenever I finally feel like I’m about to let go she comes back then leaves I need help I’m 23 and just can’t let go it’s so hard for me even after many years …
Just focus on your kid 100 percent. Help her out. As long as she is good and safe with your kid you should be good.
Amazing advice wow.. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Be blesses
Thank you brother!
Be Blessed!!!😊😊
So me and ex have cut ties. I am finding it seriously hard as freaking out that she is not in my life. Will this get easier? as I can barely function
I know of a man who can help you manifest whatever and whoever you wanna manifest within two day
He was the one who helped me restore back ex 3 days ago without delay
message him on WhatsApp
±²³⁴⁹¹⁵⁵⁴⁵⁶¹³⁸
Forget about my wife, for my children.
Thinks god bless
Amen thank you !
This is the most pain I’ve ever been in
I swear I've heard this video at least 5 times haha i still can't help but feel for this woman my child's mom and he's not even Born yet haha
Yeeeees I NEED God
Easier said than done
This is why women skip single fathers
She cheated m i last myself she left idk how to not hate her. Because i love my kids
I’m with a girl she have 5 kids and we have 1 she use baby as tool she is crazy tear up clothes etc.. what do i do????
You stupid for getting her pregnant if she had 5 kids. Don’t date single moms homie
@@Xqvanceyeah he is
You are stupid to have a kid with her to many baddies out there man wtf
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He was the one who helped me restore back ex 3 days ago without delay
How can I win her back though? She seeing some else and blocked me. I had a million chances but she did do me a few times. People give up to easy
Your gonna have to let her do her. That's the hard part and maybe she gives you another chance well the second you get that you better be on point and changed or else it will just happen again and this time will most likely be permanent good luck to you
@@October3074 i don't think that's the right way to help someone change
October3074 I was young inexperienced, stupid. I want to add value and never be a burden. I want to marry her, but sometimes you do need to learn, heal, know what you want and what is true value. I had to balance myself in a big way and reflect on my many mistakes, what I done, what I want and take time out to learn how to treat a woman I love. We all make mistakes intentional or unintentional but thank you for your time & input though. I’ll work on myself and leave the rest to God.
@@DejiJoshua Good thing you see where you went wrong. But why do you want to fix it with her. She probably have some major trust issues with you and may even silently resent you. Why not just take what you've learned and do better by another woman who you haven't mistreated and hurt continuously? That young lady is possibly still recovering from all she went through with you, so it would be selfish for you to approach her about rekindling things. Now if she is to ever approach you about getting back together then that's another story, but just do right by people period and you won't have to experience such guilt if things so happen to don't work out.
October3074 i just feel a real man always takes the blame. She did things to so many lies. Cheated on me behind my back just because I see my flaws doesn’t make people perfect. Life and relationships about forgiveness. A relationship without God is doomed. It was my first ever girlfriend so yeah I’m hard on myself because I look back and regret but you need to chill