I feel this. I just broke up with someone who wasn't good for me. It has made me into a better person in many ways. I know now what I truly want and won't settle for! I've even started doing things I was to lazy to do before- I'm becoming my best version again. I don't want to ever go through such a toxic relationship ever! I'll rather be single and keep my peace.
Praise Jesus, I concur When a person is not for you, you will feel it in your spirit, but folks refused to heed and continues to collect red flags and fight against principalities that's not of God Thank you
8 years he didn't change for me. I was ok leaving because i know i loved him to the fullest and ok with him being better for the next ( I pray) lesson learned.
Thanks for the man who wrote in and told his truth. Great advice to him. I ain't looking to be no builder for not another woman though. I'm done helping men get better for the next woman. I'm ready for my healed, secure, supportive, but providing man to come into my life and help me keep pushing to be the best that I can be. Happy for my ex from years ago that's now engaged because we discussed what he did and he grew. He learned. I don't need more exams though. No #strugglelove over here no mo'! Come stable or I'll stay single enjoying me. Time is too precious to waste or practice, especially in my 40's.
I ve been looking for this comment. Everything you said is the truth! This is what we should be teaching our young girls. If an individual is toxic, she/he needs to see a therapist. We aren't obligated to fix nothing. Becuase that means you have to lower yourself.
I believe this video popped up as a reminder as I was just telling my sister and cousin this last Tuesday that my 11 year relationship (since 15 years old) was a learning curve for me and him and I was telling them he is not my husband and I am not his wife and I was put in his life to teach him how to become the man he is growing into and although he try to stay cause he thinks he's in love but I believe it was just comfortability talking and I had to finally walk away as my duty as his test dummy was over, itll be hard but I truly believe we'll both find our happily ever after fairytales❤
Mine was 15 years...I said the same as we got engaged in the last 3 years before I realized I just couldn't see myself doing this with him for a lifetime...it was toxic and he was delusional it wasn't love! I'm so proud of u and I hope u stayed strong it is very tough but when the relationship is broken and all respect is gone its just over...took a long time but somebody had to do it....🙏🏽
@@lala5061 I did...it was toxic teenager stuff but as we got older I became more wise about my role as to why I felt I didn't fit or never would in his life or future we were on good terms when it ended
Wow, I went through that test dummy season to get here. Although I am homeless right now, God has me. That form of toxicity is not welcome in my future. Here is to my destiny, the corporate sponsors and Angel investors who are interested in my vision, Amen.
Yes we are and I hate it...but I am truly bless....my ex told me that it took to lose me to get it right...I am thankful that I have God to help me stay kind and understanding to him and his new wife...our children are grown...when we have family gatherings...he still let me know...he is still sorry..❤...I promise myself as a young lady...that I would never carry that hate...EVERYONE is not for EVERYONE...🙏...thank you.
I just got out of being a test dummy. Never want to go back to it again. Hoping for a healthy, loving, genuine, supportive relationship soon in the future. My championship season is coming!
As a woman who is coming off the end of being used and abused, I DO want to hear this. It makes it easier to move on to know that the man that loves me is out there some where. Yes it hurts to know that one day the man of this 26 year relationship is gonna move on, but I'm good! I tried to make this a lifetime relationship but it's so obvious that wasn't meant to be. This was good AS USUAL. Thank you Tony!
Feels like I've been the test dummy for a few men I've dated and they moved on to be married but here I am left being very cautious and skeptical of dating due to my history of being hurt. I read my Bible here n there and I'm humble to others. Been single for years and I'm at the point where I think this is what G-D has destined for me, even though I would love to be with a G-D fearing, monogamous, loyal, driven, happy man. I haven't lost hope but I'm not making it a top priority to be with said man. I love myself enough to be comfortable by myself.
Hi, I was the same way resorting back to my old Behavior at times; however I learned that even with prayer you will have to get tired of the situation enough that you let it go. One man hurt me so bad and put the fire to me until it made me get to a point where I thought I never wanted to deal with men again, but that's when you learn you have to go into healing and then you will see yourself watching your behavior and ways more. Sometimes some women cannot move on because they haven't been hurt bad enough yet, don't let yourself get to that point where you have to get hurt bad enough to move on. Enjoy your life.
But we as women blow through the stop signs in life that a person is no-good for us and live with our head in the clouds. That is why we as women need to move on quickly. Stop wasting our time.
Wheeww Lord!! Absolutely true. You have to understand when the relationship has run its course. That pain was necessary to usher you into your purposeful relationship!
It hurts that I loved him and he never changed. He became busy and would always give me fake promises. I still love him and i want him back but i had to walk away and i know we may never get back together. I dont know why men are like this
So needed this message to reinforce my decision. I finally left. I just wish he would stop contacting me and coming by. I just really want to be left alone by him. Definitely a lesson learned.
Everybody that comes into your life is not an accident. They are there to MAKE or BREAK you into the person that we ought to be,I am looking at life from this angle going forward hoping that i learn all the lesssons that iam taught so I can GRADUATE into my true DESTINY.
This is so true for me , my ex was so toxic and he's trying his best to get me back , which it ran it coarse- i don't like him relationship wise - i learned the lessons- and he. Turn me off so bad ' i still have redure of pain and know in my heart i will never go back - i see a man in a different way now . it's another person i like - thanks for your talk .
It is the harsh truth I definitely don't support it especially when that test dummy stuff happens in a marriage. That's in my case, I came in ready ,the other person I believed was ready also but his actions along the way showed the opposite. Now I've accepted that he won't improve for me and that me leaving is best and it may be his chance to change through learning from our situation. It's a harsh reality but it's a lesson learnt.
Well usually when u leave a relationship or someone leaves u.. You heal, Ur ex is no longer your the man of Ur dreams even if he changed. So realize that it will not work and simply let it go
HALLELUJAH!! This message has given me peace and comfort for what I'm going through. I left the marital home just shy of 3 months ago and although there is a 6 yr. old daughter, who loves her daddy, he and I were too toxic!! After 15 years together (5 dating and 10 married), it made NO SENSE to stay, as there was too much arguing which my daughter experienced daily. We have completed the custody portion of the divorce, but I can't file until next year because the Commonwealth of Virginia doesn't have a "true" separation order. So the spouse who vacates must be away from the home for a FULL year before proceeding with the divorce! Despite us both being believers, the relationship and later marriage wasn't the best thing for us in the beginning. We faced many challenges and obstacles that never really went away. I thank God for imparting wisdom to understand true value and worth, and to know that staying in a bad marriage is NOT healthy, even if children are involved!! Thank you Mr. Gaskins for all that you're doing and may God continue to bless you and your family!!
It took me a long time and a few bad relationships to actually learn and grow out of putting up with mess. At 40, I have forgiven all past and I am excited to see what is next. My patience is a new peace. I'm not in a rush anymore and God is still in control.
Hey newsflash, everybody sucks and everybody has issues. Eventually, you’re going to have to learn how to deal with your own and take accountability rather than blame every man you’ve ever been with.
Thank you so much Tony Gaskins for this video. For facing your truths and allowing yourself to be vulnerable and always keeping it 💯. And for speaking and saying what's needed to be said. I thank you and am most grateful for you doing so. I was one of those test dummies and I can say now that it was good for me. I've grown to love and respect the person I've become. The lessons I've learned and how I've grown because of it. Thank you so much again for the videos and all your hard work. You be blessed! 🌞☕
The 2 relationships that I was im, after the break up, the men married the women they dated after me... both times... and after a while they both came back to me, I guess they though I was waiting for them? Even though I've been single many years, I didn't go back, I took the time to learn myself and to build a relationship with GOD... I get lonely sometimes but I LOVE MYSELF AND LIFE TODAY... GOD IS GOOD... GOD BLESS YOU...
I'd like to remain positive but I believe most men don't change. Might temporarily change but for the most part they are repeated offenders. Tough to teach old dogs new tricks. Most are not trustworthy - Playing control games in lack of communication & dishonesty. Relationships are not for everyone. Never pursue any man. Find strong self love & inner peace. Stay beautiful in ur feminine energy, & develop your prayer life. Know GOD will keep u, protect & cover u.✌🏽
Why do people get together just to be together for years and then tear each other apart leaving looking for greener pastures?? how about just not hook up in the first place!! 1 million excuses. Make it work people. If you’re not happy that has everything to do with yourself, not the person you’ve been lying to for probably years.
Amen, Sometimes you have to walk away for him to grow& wake up. If it's meant to be Actions speaks louder then words amen. Pain birth purpose!!!🗣👂✍👑💃💪👏👏👏👏
God has never called us to be bed hoppers. God has to bring a person into your life. None of that sleeping around, dating, looking around, and shacking and stacking up. Wait upon the Lord! Seek ye first the Kingdom of God and he will add to your life what he wants for you. Read: Matthew 6:33
@Robin D.Not all men have good hearts like him. After 19yrs marriage ,together 20yeara I decided to finally leave my husband. I know IF he decides to change, it will only be for the next female who comes into his life OR he will just end up finding someone more like him. Either way, if I stay nothing will change.
The real tragedy is for their child and hopefully, they won’t make the mistakes of their parents. This is yet another of many reasons why it’s better to not have sex out of wedlock and instead save sex for true loving marriage between a husband and wife and don’t have sex outside of marriage. Otherwise, even pagans can practice self responsibility and accountability and work on abstinence. It’s not easy at all, but if you can overcome its temptations, the rewards are worth it and numerous.
I feel this. I just broke up with someone who wasn't good for me. It has made me into a better person in many ways. I know now what I truly want and won't settle for! I've even started doing things I was to lazy to do before- I'm becoming my best version again. I don't want to ever go through such a toxic relationship ever! I'll rather be single and keep my peace.
Amen to that
You must be a female!
Praise Jesus, I concur
When a person is not for you, you will feel it in your spirit, but folks refused to heed and continues to collect red flags and fight against principalities that's not of God
Thank you
So true
I believe this is my story. I’m glad he reached out to you for guidance. Many blessings to him.
Amen
When a person is right for you, you can also reject them, even if God brings them together. He gives people that choice.
I know so many couples who broke up then came back together stronger and married today solid...
This is the best yet. There are so many people that are hurting and staying in failing relationships. Thank you for making this plain.
8 years he didn't change for me. I was ok leaving because i know i loved him to the fullest and ok with him being better for the next ( I pray) lesson learned.
You have an ego problem.
@@EmilyGloeggler7984 My situation had absolutely nothing to do with Ego
I’m glad he reached out and was honest and accountable. Yesssss 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Inga04 me too
Thanks for the man who wrote in and told his truth. Great advice to him.
I ain't looking to be no builder for not another woman though. I'm done helping men get better for the next woman. I'm ready for my healed, secure, supportive, but providing man to come into my life and help me keep pushing to be the best that I can be. Happy for my ex from years ago that's now engaged because we discussed what he did and he grew. He learned. I don't need more exams though. No #strugglelove over here no mo'! Come stable or I'll stay single enjoying me. Time is too precious to waste or practice, especially in my 40's.
So true!
Period!
What you mean getting better for the next person? You mean if u build them up they leave?
I ve been looking for this comment. Everything you said is the truth! This is what we should be teaching our young girls. If an individual is toxic, she/he needs to see a therapist. We aren't obligated to fix nothing. Becuase that means you have to lower yourself.
Being single is better
I believe this video popped up as a reminder as I was just telling my sister and cousin this last Tuesday that my 11 year relationship (since 15 years old) was a learning curve for me and him and I was telling them he is not my husband and I am not his wife and I was put in his life to teach him how to become the man he is growing into and although he try to stay cause he thinks he's in love but I believe it was just comfortability talking and I had to finally walk away as my duty as his test dummy was over, itll be hard but I truly believe we'll both find our happily ever after fairytales❤
@@October3074 thank you I appreciate it!
I know this hurts right now but, a man that will treat you like the Queen that you are, will soon find you.
@@Cutegirl8614 I sincerely appreciate and thank you for your encouraging words and I too believe it as well with all my heart😊
Mine was 15 years...I said the same as we got engaged in the last 3 years before I realized I just couldn't see myself doing this with him for a lifetime...it was toxic and he was delusional it wasn't love! I'm so proud of u and I hope u stayed strong it is very tough but when the relationship is broken and all respect is gone its just over...took a long time but somebody had to do it....🙏🏽
@@lala5061 I did...it was toxic teenager stuff but as we got older I became more wise about my role as to why I felt I didn't fit or never would in his life or future we were on good terms when it ended
This message is amazing
Wow, I went through that test dummy season to get here. Although I am homeless right now, God has me. That form of toxicity is not welcome in my future. Here is to my destiny, the corporate sponsors and Angel investors who are interested in my vision, Amen.
Jasimine stokesoliver-brown I wish you the best moving forward. 😊
Yes we are and I hate it...but I am truly bless....my ex told me that it took to lose me to get it right...I am thankful that I have God to help me stay kind and understanding to him and his new wife...our children are grown...when we have family gatherings...he still let me know...he is still sorry..❤...I promise myself as a young lady...that I would never carry that hate...EVERYONE is not for EVERYONE...🙏...thank you.
Keep your dignity to
avoid being his test
dummy!
I just got out of being a test dummy. Never want to go back to it again. Hoping for a healthy, loving, genuine, supportive relationship soon in the future. My championship season is coming!
Dang, this one hurt my soul 🤕
Too much
Awesome. I love the way you explained this.
As a woman who is coming off the end of being used and abused, I DO want to hear this. It makes it easier to move on to know that the man that loves me is out there some where. Yes it hurts to know that one day the man of this 26 year relationship is gonna move on, but I'm good! I tried to make this a lifetime relationship but it's so obvious that wasn't meant to be. This was good AS USUAL. Thank you Tony!
Great video! I love the way you summed up by stating that the Bible is the best teacher. Thank you! All praises to The Most High!🙏🏾
Yet he speaks against what the Bible actually says. So he’s a false teacher and the Bible is clear on false teachers.
Feels like I've been the test dummy for a few men I've dated and they moved on to be married but here I am left being very cautious and skeptical of dating due to my history of being hurt.
I read my Bible here n there and I'm humble to others. Been single for years and I'm at the point where I think this is what G-D has destined for me, even though I would love to be with a G-D fearing, monogamous, loyal, driven, happy man.
I haven't lost hope but I'm not making it a top priority to be with said man. I love myself enough to be comfortable by myself.
So true. When I was on vacation I healed, now I'm back at work 💼 I'm resorting to old behavior at times. Have to catch myself and increase prayers 🙏.
Hi, I was the same way resorting back to my old Behavior at times; however I learned that even with prayer you will have to get tired of the situation enough that you let it go. One man hurt me so bad and put the fire to me until it made me get to a point where I thought I never wanted to deal with men again, but that's when you learn you have to go into healing and then you will see yourself watching your behavior and ways more. Sometimes some women cannot move on because they haven't been hurt bad enough yet, don't let yourself get to that point where you have to get hurt bad enough to move on. Enjoy your life.
But we as women blow through the stop signs in life that a person is no-good for us and live with our head in the clouds. That is why we as women need to move on quickly. Stop wasting our time.
Wheeww Lord!! Absolutely true. You have to understand when the relationship has run its course. That pain was necessary to usher you into your purposeful relationship!
It hurts that I loved him and he never changed. He became busy and would always give me fake promises. I still love him and i want him back but i had to walk away and i know we may never get back together. I dont know why men are like this
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Good perspective on break ups.
Tears beautifully said.
So needed this message to reinforce my decision. I finally left. I just wish he would stop contacting me and coming by. I just really want to be left alone by him. Definitely a lesson learned.
Just what I needed to hear. Thank you! 😊
Everybody that comes into your life is not an accident. They are there to MAKE or BREAK you into the person that we ought to be,I am looking at life from this angle going forward hoping that i learn all the lesssons that iam taught so I can GRADUATE into my true DESTINY.
ĐⱤ ₩łⱠⱠ₳₥ ₵₳₦ ⱧɆⱠ₱ ɎØɄ ₲Ɇ₮ ɎØɄⱤ ɆӾ ฿₳₵₭ ⱧɆ ł₴ ₳ ⱠØVɆ ₴₱ɆⱠⱠ ₵₳₴₮ɆⱤ. ₩Ⱨ₳₮₳₱₱ Ⱨł₥
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Thank you for your message Mr. Gaskins. God Bless you.
Thank you for sharing ! Needed to hear This
Amen to your book recommendation! Blessing to see you put more emphasis on His word and Faith. More grace to you Tony.
This is so true for me , my ex was so toxic and he's trying his best to get me back , which it ran it coarse- i don't like him relationship wise - i learned the lessons- and he. Turn me off so bad ' i still have redure of pain and know in my heart i will never go back - i see a man in a different way now . it's another person i like - thanks for your talk .
It is the harsh truth I definitely don't support it especially when that test dummy stuff happens in a marriage. That's in my case, I came in ready ,the other person I believed was ready also but his actions along the way showed the opposite. Now I've accepted that he won't improve for me and that me leaving is best and it may be his chance to change through learning from our situation. It's a harsh reality but it's a lesson learnt.
God Bless you, Mrs Gaskins and your family
Come on, Tony!!! You better preach!!! Thank you for that message.
Well usually when u leave a relationship or someone leaves u.. You heal, Ur ex is no longer your the man of Ur dreams even if he changed. So realize that it will not work and simply let it go
ĐⱤ ₩łⱠⱠ₳₥ ₵₳₦ ⱧɆⱠ₱ ɎØɄ ₲Ɇ₮ ɎØɄⱤ ɆӾ ฿₳₵₭ ⱧɆ ł₴ ₳ ⱠØVɆ ₴₱ɆⱠⱠ ₵₳₴₮ɆⱤ. ₩Ⱨ₳₮₳₱₱ Ⱨł₥
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HALLELUJAH!!
This message has given me peace and comfort for what I'm going through. I left the marital home just shy of 3 months ago and although there is a 6 yr. old daughter, who loves her daddy, he and I were too toxic!! After 15 years together (5 dating and 10 married), it made NO SENSE to stay, as there was too much arguing which my daughter experienced daily. We have completed the custody portion of the divorce, but I can't file until next year because the Commonwealth of Virginia doesn't have a "true" separation order. So the spouse who vacates must be away from the home for a FULL year before proceeding with the divorce! Despite us both being believers, the relationship and later marriage wasn't the best thing for us in the beginning. We faced many challenges and obstacles that never really went away. I thank God for imparting wisdom to understand true value and worth, and to know that staying in a bad marriage is NOT healthy, even if children are involved!! Thank you Mr. Gaskins for all that you're doing and may God continue to bless you and your family!!
This was good....I love how you are helping us become better people.
BE BLESSED Mr. Tony Gaskins...and Thank you...smile
Why does a woman have to grow and mature a man???? Why he just can't have his act together?????
Great Video Tony.....
Great message Tony,
Be Blessed!
You are awesome !
God bless you and keep working on and using you
Thanks
Be blessed bro 😊 thank you
Great message. I appreciate it
It took me a long time and a few bad relationships to actually learn and grow out of putting up with mess. At 40, I have forgiven all past and I am excited to see what is next. My patience is a new peace. I'm not in a rush anymore and God is still in control.
Hey newsflash, everybody sucks and everybody has issues. Eventually, you’re going to have to learn how to deal with your own and take accountability rather than blame every man you’ve ever been with.
Absolute TRUTH!!!
Thank you so much Tony Gaskins for this video. For facing your truths and allowing yourself to be vulnerable and always keeping it 💯. And for speaking and saying what's needed to be said. I thank you and am most grateful for you doing so. I was one of those test dummies and I can say now that it was good for me. I've grown to love and respect the person I've become. The lessons I've learned and how I've grown because of it. Thank you so much again for the videos and all your hard work. You be blessed! 🌞☕
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Amen! Amen! Amen!
Great word!!!
loving your accent ALL THE WAY FROM THE BAHAMAS 🇧🇸🇧🇸🇧🇸
How are you in the Bahamas?
Good video fam.. much respect
What God puts together is the only relationship that will ever work. Ordained. If you fool around you curse yourself.
Thank you for this video.
Amen
Well said! Thank you So much!!
👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽 Tony
If he took her for granted then why was he shocked when she left...you caused it
That was rough but you spoke the truth! What did he expect?
ĐⱤ ₩łⱠⱠ₳₥ ₵₳₦ ⱧɆⱠ₱ ɎØɄ ₲Ɇ₮ ɎØɄⱤ ɆӾ ฿₳₵₭ ⱧɆ ł₴ ₳ ⱠØVɆ ₴₱ɆⱠⱠ ₵₳₴₮ɆⱤ. ₩Ⱨ₳₮₳₱₱ Ⱨł₥
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OH! That Hit Just Right (paraphrasing) You didnt see her or treat her as a wife. And you didn't deserve her!
The 2 relationships that I was im, after the break up, the men married the women they dated after me... both times... and after a while they both came back to me, I guess they though I was waiting for them? Even though I've been single many years, I didn't go back, I took the time to learn myself and to build a relationship with GOD... I get lonely sometimes but I LOVE MYSELF AND LIFE TODAY...
GOD IS GOOD...
GOD BLESS YOU...
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I'd like to remain positive but I believe most men don't change. Might temporarily change but for the most part they are repeated offenders. Tough to teach old dogs new tricks. Most are not trustworthy - Playing control games in lack of communication & dishonesty. Relationships are not for everyone. Never pursue any man. Find strong self love & inner peace. Stay beautiful in ur feminine energy, & develop your prayer life. Know GOD will keep u, protect & cover u.✌🏽
Why do people get together just to be together for years and then tear each other apart leaving looking for greener pastures?? how about just not hook up in the first place!! 1 million excuses. Make it work people. If you’re not happy that has everything to do with yourself, not the person you’ve been lying to for probably years.
But if she were to take him back next year, would he stay this "new" man?
You are such an inspiration to the Black Race. God bless you
What if when you leave and stay by yourself and he tries to kill your child and then kills himself? I still dont understand?
Amen, Sometimes you have to walk away for him to grow& wake up. If it's meant to be Actions speaks louder then words amen. Pain birth purpose!!!🗣👂✍👑💃💪👏👏👏👏
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What about a women who leaves a man who is her husband because he was toxic and refused to allow GOD into our relationship?
God has never called us to be bed hoppers. God has to bring a person into your life. None of that sleeping around, dating, looking around, and shacking and stacking up. Wait upon the Lord! Seek ye first the Kingdom of God and he will add to your life what he wants for you. Read: Matthew 6:33
Thank you.
What about when your woman took you back? You didn’t speak the same “toxic language” right?
What did your wife do that facilitated a desire for your change?
@Robin D.Not all men have good hearts like him. After 19yrs marriage ,together 20yeara I decided to finally leave my husband. I know IF he decides to change, it will only be for the next female who comes into his life OR he will just end up finding someone more like him. Either way, if I stay nothing will change.
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The real tragedy is for their child and hopefully, they won’t make the mistakes of their parents. This is yet another of many reasons why it’s better to not have sex out of wedlock and instead save sex for true loving marriage between a husband and wife and don’t have sex outside of marriage. Otherwise, even pagans can practice self responsibility and accountability and work on abstinence. It’s not easy at all, but if you can overcome its temptations, the rewards are worth it and numerous.
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Hebrews 13:4 Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.
Do guys get married to girls from poor background ?
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Well tony that why you have BITTER women , when they have been test dummies!
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