I’m a bi man, and am not the most conventionally attractive person. However I’ve never had a problem getting a date. Why? I’m not an ass, I don’t smell rancid, and I’m not 99% insecurity. I’m not amazingly confident, but I’m not so insecure that it’s sad to be around me. That’s literally all you really need.
As another bi guy, I can vouch for the fact that odor isn’t even a deal breaker if you are a good person to be around (but please for the love of all that is good still try to smell nice)
@@notme8232hey, I get it. I really do. Just try not to talk badly about yourself all the time. Not only is it a bummer to be around, but it helps you to keep believing it. Try telling yourself nice things about yourself. You don’t have to believe it at first, but it will help. Self deprecating humor can be funny, just not 24/7. I believe in you!!!
I had to learn this in my early teens. Nice doesn't always mean kind. People are nice when they expect something or have something to prove to others. Being kind is just something you are, regardless. Be kind. If you can, be good. "Nice" is for con-men.
I mean, I think it's either that OR it's like when a little kid wants to get a dog and makes all these claims of what they'll do when they get that dog, not knowing the reality of it all
i swear all the bad subreddits i can currently cluck on on the official emkay youtube channel that have been uploaded in the last 2 months there is a 99% chance it is narrated by robin
this is true even as a guy, i can't count how many times I've been described as not being able to take jokes even when the jokes in question are just straight up harrasment and verbal abuse
@@kenny_.E Yeah i always double down okay make me laugh, right now, your not funny nobody's laughing but your queer sqaud, oh just that's not even funny they usually shut up, it's seriously not actually funny they're all just bad people that i can see going to jail
Thats why you should search people that have the same comedy sense as you, you can say its her fault that the joke you did just made her feel offended you shouldve tried to find somegirl thay likes dark humor for it to work
@@sal-luvs-blood this is what Google said 'Mormons believe that Christ's church was restored through Joseph Smith and is guided by living prophets and apostles. Mormons believe in the Bible and other books of scripture, such as the Book of Mormon. They have a unique view of cosmology and believe that all people are literal spirit children of God.' Seems more like a cult at this point ngl
@@MorsHeller99If my memory isn't rusty, people hated them for polyamory and so they all left to Utah, and they also thought black people were just white people who were cursed.
This sub existing is part of why I almost never refer to myself as a "nice guy"; the other part is that basic respect should be the bare minimum expected from anyone...respecting others should be "normal" and not worthy of a special label.
I try and understand their points of view and I do resonate where they come from and some of some of the points but man, they sure do make agreeing with them an absolute, undeniable pain. On top of that, my view is if a woman acts like how they think all women act, which to be fair some women do act that way, they weren’t worth it anyways. Chase someone who wants to be chased by YOU and vice versa, kings 👑! If they don’t put effort into wanting to see YOU, why should you put effort into seeing THEM. This applies to men, women, aliens, pan fuckers, all of you!!!
@@ggexploder7705 no… the point they make that often seems good are still linked and stemmed from bs delusional cases they make… religious ppl make good points all the time but it’s still often skewed and false to a trained ear.. we are OWED another persons romantic.. platonic.. not casual relationship… period… nice guys immediately lose all validity as the very nature of “nice guy” invokes one of these which all leads to upset over no sex be it casually or romantically… we shall NEVER move this past this point.. it’s the crux of the entire thing.. every good point they might make is weaved within a whole slew of bs… being a piece of shit who does something nice makes u no less a piece of shit.. correct? So even ones good points are still u being a piece of shit with a decent point here and there .. also look at their good points.. it’s often based on a underlying narrative of entitlement.. to me it’s playing the victim card to JUSTIFY themselves.. why would u “understand” them when guys exist who are NOT like nice guys this don’t need to make this “points” to counter their other bs… as far as I’m concerned “nice guys” are like flat earthers or creationist who try to claim they understand science but don’t think they do.. 💀 even a good point is invalid as it’s part of a huge slew of bs…
This exactly!! This may be a bit TMI, but I used to get anxious about the fact that I felt like the only person in my friend group who hadn’t had sex (fwiw, “virginity” is a social construct - ask 100 people their specific qualifications for what does and doesn’t qualify as “losing your V card” and you’ll likely get 100 different answers). I’ve come to realize that it honestly doesn’t matter; sure, I’m single and would probably only feel comfortable being intimate with someone I know well rather than a hookup, but I’m fine on my own and don’t “need” to have a partner to make me happy. If I find the right person for me, it’ll be a bonus, but it’s not a necessity. This is coming from a 24 year old who hasn’t been in a relationship since 10th grade (~16 years old)
I would rather spend the entire day hanging out with my partner than having pointless sex. Idk, I may sound weird, but I really don't see the appeal of having sex.
John 3:16, "For God so loves the world that he sent his one and only son so that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life" I love yall, God bless you in Jesus's name, amen ✝️🙏
@@supermario7268 there are a lot of factors into why people choose to date someone, no gender is a monolith, and being funny alone isn't always all someone looks for in a partner
John 3:16, "For God so loves the world that he sent his one and only son so that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life" I love yall, God bless you in Jesus's name, amen ✝️🙏
Nice guys should read about the adventures of Ulrich Von Liechtenstein in his work called the Frauendienst (Service Of The Lady). It’s a 13th century satirical series of poems written as a fictional autobiographical account of his attempts to win the affections of a noblewoman through chivalric and heroic deeds, with disastrous results. It is a tongue in cheek parody of chivalry. I guess even in the 13th century they had incels.
except chivalry was always about the rules of combat between nobility, e.g. not torturing captured opponents, and romance was not involved in it at all; it was more like an early precursor to the Geneva Convention than anything else the present-day definition of chivalry comes from its misuse in 19th century fairy tales
im not even in wanting of one, and im not nice, good, cool, a rolemodel, or even acceptable, positive, marvelous, or great I'M blue dabadedabadie dabadedabadie dabadedabadie.
THEY’RE OUT IN THE WILD TOO *my friend:* Look I get you thought we were gonna last forever or something but please just grow up and move on bc the most we ever would've lasted is like a week You're hella cringy and hella clingy *guy she dated for two days:* Yea now you wanna speak the truth. Glad to know you couldn't just say it in the first place. Well welcome to being a nice guy in today's generation. I'd rather be clingy then get played but your call *my friend:* Id rather be played 100 times then be with you again. I have nothing wrong with nice guys I do have something wrong with you. Talking bout marriage and kids after being together for like a day. Nothing wrong with nice guys. Everything wrong with moving hella fast *(for the record he was a manipulator)*
if only ""nIcE gUyS"" would step outside and look at the world and how a guy 10 times uglier than them actualy manages to have a GF just for being a normal person strange how some people think that all girls are how the internet tells them they are...
I was on an incel forum the other day (yes I was in the mood to scare myself) and they actually have a name for that. I think it's called NT normies of something of the sort, it basically describes ugly men who can achieve relationships with women by having a good social capital. You'd think incels would be happy that it's possible, but no. They despise those guys even more than they despise "The chads"
yep, I used to be pretty damn unattractive (like my friends legit laugh at old photos of me) and I got hella girls, including one (IMO) incredibly attractive girl I liked. I was the class clown but like non-destructive so people just liked me in general. Also like 90% of my friends were girls cause the guys didn't wanna hang out w me lmfaoo. 100% inherited from my dad. He failed highschool but got an award for best rounded student because people liked him. I thought he was joking but it's true. Rural schools go crazy
I would love for a "nice guy" to tell me that women only like jerks, when there are a-hole guys like myself who've purposely pushed women away by being a jerk lol.
Once you have been there and you got out, you realize its actually not the "Not this fucker again" zone. Its the "hey wait he still loves me even if I dont do anything for it" zone. If you want to get out its quite simple. Wait till she does something that upsets you and make her feel it. You will see who comes running after you in a heartbeat.
@@baronhelmut2701 if she is actually friends with you, of course she'll want to preserve your friendship. If she wants you gone, she will be relieved. Source- I'm a woman who had a stereotypical "neckbeard" after me. We were "friends" (because of peer pressure) but he recently stopped incessantly texting me and I couldn't be happier he's gone. I'm not gonna even try to "get him back."
@@supermario7268 ok nothing against you, but fan you please stop complaining about how you don't get any women in the comments. Look up (not sexist) guides on how to get a date, look up a few tips, and you'll be fine👍🏾
The friend zone should be a compliment, they’re willing to keep you in the special circle where “the men I wanna date” won’t go. Personally, I may not want to be with a guy like that… but~, I want to see him in a good relationship and keep him in that bestie circle.
I want a movie starring a “nice” guy that’s played as a stereotypical romantic movie at the beginning, but quickly turns into the “nice” guy going on a journey of self improvement to learn from his mistakes (and probably go to therapy) and actually become a nice person.
9:43 The friendzone is not a thing. I genuinely believe the entire concept was made by a bunch of delusional losers who also got rejected from woman/men multiple times because they kept harassing them.
Why shouldn't this be a thing ? You find someone attractive and show your best side to woo the person over. The person is not attracted to you but still thinks you are a nice person and you end up as "friends" and do stuff together....
@blablup1214 I think the issue is it should just be called “being friends”. friendzone has some kind of connotation I can’t word but it makes friend relationships seem lesser than romantic relationships
@@yourpsychicfriendfredbearYou are right there is this connotation. Hmmm I wouldn't say one is lesser than the other. It is just the intention of the person. Call me stupid but imagine it like this. You take all you have , your charisma, your time, your status everything and you want to buy pizza. But somehow in the store it doesn't go the way you wanted and you end up with lasagna. What you got isn't bad, but it isn't what you wanted so you feel a little sad. Some may even feel cheated, because they paid "too much" for something they didn't even wanted.
I always thought offering friendship in lieu of a romantic relationship to someone you don't know that well was baffling. I value friendship, it takes me a lot of time to develop enough emotional intimacy with someone to call them my friend. How can you expect someone you just rejected to fit in your life as a friend ? You should be able to tell someone you don't want to be their partner or their friend, you want to stay strangers.
To be fair, (obligatory i am not a guy), one of my exes also left me when she started to love herself. But that's because she was already cheating on me with a guy and I stopped being a useful cash cow. She was abusive AF, the girl version of a "nice guy", and I'm much happier with my current gf. I genuinely hope my current GF doesn't also do that once she learns to love herself, though i believe in her enough to know she's better than that. ^_^
You can't be friendzoned if you value having women as friends. You don't have to be in a relationship with every womean you meet. Best dating advice i got.
It's very rare for men to view women as friends ,they can't relate to women in any way other than sex or ' romantic ' ,which is basically sex to them . Platonic friends do exist but that's rare ,sad but true . I do agree with your comment though
@LakiguKugali I think you need to get out more. That’s certainly not true. Women are not objects. This is not a gacha game, you don’t need to collect them all. Plenty of men are able to make friends with women and maintain platonic relationships with them. If you don’t know any men capable of that, I think that says more about them or the types of men you spend time with.
@@JH-no8sy pls read my original message again . I said "it's very rare " . I didn't say it cannot happen . You don't know me ,but I appreciate your opinion on my having to get out more . There are all sorts of people out there , including great mature and emotionally and psychologically and socially developed people - they are not the majority . Perhaps you'd like to dome some research on scientific evidence regarding typical male minds and how they typically relate to females . Its basic biology.
I'm short, poor and sick and I have never had any problems finding relationships or sex. I was engaged for over 8 years and am currently in a relationship, so I genuinely don't understand what these people are talking about. They must be such spectacularly bad people and delusional. So much that people avoid them out of a pure negative vibe/aura/stank
I used think I wasn't good looking, but going from 290 pounds to 230 pound at a 6 ft 5 height, good haircut, and getting sober from drugs made me made " look better".
Sounds like a fairy tale fantsay. Im poor, handsome, and healthy so idk how you got dates and not i so idk. Im not blaming women but i think im just unlucky and you stole all the luck for yourself
@supermario7268 It might very well be a culture thing, depending on where you live. America seems to be in a very confusing and toxic era of dating, so if you live there, I can understand your situation. It's different in Europe etc. I think the best you can do is be active and social. Be true to yourself and prioritize being friends first, establish a bond with whomever you have feelings for or want to get to know. More often than not, women prefer the safety of a caring person who sees them, instead of someone who looks like a gym-bro. That's all the advice I can give. Hope it helps.
6:19 That’d actually make a good book. I’d read it. Edit: To clarify I’m polyamorous, and have a friend who falls easy for people, one after the next. It’d be nice to see a story about the struggle of being in love with more than one person.
@@minestar2247I think group s*x is illegal under certain circumstances, but it's not illegal to have s*x with different people at different times. Of course, it's illegal under God's law. And it's a bad thing to do if you don't inform all your partners.
The nice guy that can't seem to get a lady needs to hear this: There are so many creeps out there that start out as nice, respectful dates. You get to talking, things go well, and you think -oh okay, this is looking good. Then you miss one date, or ask to change plans one time and they blow up on you, calling you all sorts of names and start being general jerks. Too many women have had this happen, so do you blame them for being cautious when it appears it is too good to be true? We fully expect for this 'gentleman' to turn into a raging maniac. Keep looking, and you'll find someone who will respect you and want to be with you. Forgive us if we seem a little reserved. A lot of seemingly nice guys really aren't.
It's very much understandable. A little tip to know when someone seems too nice, is to observe their actions towards others and notice if their nice tendencies fade over time
All these NiceGuys claiming how they'll treat their woman like a queen and listing out all these things he'd do just reminds me of when a little kid is begging their parents for a dog, and claim they'll wake up at 5am to walk it every day and spend three hours after school grooming and playing with the dog, and pick up all the poos etc, and you know by the end of week 2, they're not going to be doing any of that.
This is nothing new. Western culture is all look at the world from the view of these so call "Nice Guys". For example, what about the story of Dracula and bride of Dracula. Isn't it the same as those modern Nice Guys bitching about girls picking those so call "Toxic Chad"? Another stereotype, "Asia is a society where the husband is the King and wife is like a servant and the west treat women as equals." Put the stereotype regarding Asia, whether it is correct or not. Let's just go to the west and look at the west. For example, that recent Netflix series set in Japan. First, let's be realistic and think of the 17th century western value regarding the treating of women. And if we are going to create a movie set in 17th century Europe and to be historically accurate regarding how the social and culture value of the time believe a woman should be treated And then compare it to that Netflix series set in Japan that describe how women are treated in Europe, we see some very obvious contrast. It is the same story. And most white people that lived in Asia will also tell you the idea of "Asia is a society where husband is like a King and wife is like a servant" is complete none sense, and in addition they will tell you "If you believe in this living in the west that is understandable, but those after living in Asia for a few years and still believe in it. Those white guys are often the ones that are the actual wife beaters" And I've seen the same myself. Those that are firm believer in the idea of "A wife should serve and honor her husband" and the ones that are firm believer in the idea of "The west treat women as equals and the East treat women as second class citizen" are the same. What is actually going on is the same reason why those so call Nice Guys believe they are nice gentleman treating women right, while those so call "Bad Boys" "Chad" or "Fuck Boy" are the ones that are toxic and mistreating women, yet women always choose them. The reason those so call Nice Guys see themselves to be treating women well and the Bad Boy to be treating women badly, is due to how they see women. Just go on record Bad Boys actually make up 85% of the male population, Nice Guys only 10%. Nice Guys see women as if fine art piece in an art gallery to be possessed and purchase as property. Bad Boys see women as human with rights and independent autonomy. This is why Nice Guys felt they treat women better. The code of chivalry regarding "How you should treat a lady" is about treating women as if fine art and the more she is a goddess level hot girl (aka she is a 10) she is seen as more of the prize collection in the fine art gallery, contrast to if she is a 1. But, they also treat women as property to be possess. Bad Boys treat women as human. Therefore, on one hand, they won't treat women as fine art. How they treat a girl that is a 10 be very different from the Nice Guys. How they treat girls that are 1 also be different. So, the Bad Boy usually treat girls that are 1 as a platonic friend or acquaintance. If she is a 10, well, if they are friends, so she won't be scare knowing he won't hurt her, he probably be blowing wolf whistlle every time she enters the room. But, always show the respect you give a friend. The Nice Guy treat women as property to be possess, as if art work in a fine art gallery. If she is a 1 he be treating her like trash, if she is a 10 he might put her on a pedastal, but also treating her as if property to be possess. It is why they want to be boyfriend/girlfriend all the time getting very serious, exclusive and committed ASAP
5:35 "The female equivalent of a gooner. A female who is so addicted to porn and masturbation. That it takes over her life and takes too priority over everything including family and friends." -Urban Dictionary
The whole "99% of women go for 2% of men" thing is so funny because it implies that only like 2% of people are, or have ever been, in relationships. The 0-10 scale makes no sense. Like attractiveness is so subjective and your opinion on someone's looks can literally change with how they behave. My type is so specific and kinda the opposite of most people but I find all of them incredibly attractive compared to people my friends call attractive.
That's kinda how it is tho. I've seen numerous people by them self and a few couples. People in dating are like the top 1%. I have no clue why they are so lucky but so goes the world of however the saying goes
My 29th birthday was a couple days ago, and I'm still a virgin. That really says something about our society: That there are people like me who like being single.
Damn guy any tips I am not a nice guy but socially awkward guy so yeha (my inability to speak causes quite annoyance for many people. So I decided i am dying alone already have enough stress ) any stress reduction tips
@@Genshin_7708 I know I’m not the original commenter, but my #1 tip is to try being a bit kinder to yourself. Self loathing won’t change much in your life other than making you feel miserable, nor will it make people want to reach out to you more. Valuing yourself apart from a relationship is a big step but it’s the best choice to make. I used to be insanely self conscious and awkward, and hell I still am, but it gets easier. Being single as long as I have has gave me a lot of time to work on myself and figure out A) what I want in a relationship and B) what I contribute to the world whether or not I have a spouse. Find hobbies that make you feel good about yourself, join clubs, make an active effort to push yourself more into social situations (which is fucking terrifying, I know, but trust me on this one) Recognize that you have skills and a future regardless of any romantic relationships, and even if you *never* get a partner (unlikely if you build confidence!), forming platonic friendships is also incredibly fulfilling and having a support team works wonders. Being single isn’t a crime, nor are you really “missing out” on anything. And finally, you have time. You have all the time in the world to build social skills and meet new people, there’s no rush for you. I’m not sure how old you are, you sound maybe in your teens, but people will try to keep rushing you into a ton of shit throughout your life. DONT LET THEM. YOU HAVE TIME. Ultimately, the only person who decides what you do with your life is you. And life is stressful as hell for sure, but with time you’ll figure out how to get validation and love from yourself I promise
How to get any woman u want: Be confident, groom yourself well, take care of your skin, smell good, get in shape, Have good hygiene, Stop looking at every girl like shes a potential wife/girlfriend/hookup. Try making some female friends first, itll help u understand them better, Have a good career path/status Its literally that simple You got this kings👊 Edit: everything ive mentioned are thing you should be doing anyway, so no these are literally simple and the bare minimum
Might want to include "learn to listen" as well It's basic but often forgotten, that paying attention and actually finding interests in conversations makes all the difference.
I disagree with "any woman u want". That seems to be a problem with these weirdos. They seem to think EVERY woman should be available for them. They need to understand that they can do all you mentioned and still get many rejections. The important thing, over everything else, is to learn how to take rejection and not have it crush them and turn them into these freaks.
Way to get a girl, treat every woman you meet like a friend and dont expect from meeting her that shes going to be your girlfriend, that way it feels like way less pressure, if i doesnt work out you still have a new friend and you dont jump into a relationship based only on looks. I met a really beautiful and friendly woman years ago, really glad i got to know her first cuz after a week i found out that she started drinking every day at 10am and had been in prison for several counts of assault
"nice guys" are the reason i'm geniunely scared to date anyone because you can never tell if they are actually nice or if they are just putting on a show to use you like a toy to feel less lonely
Damn, I think if even just an acquaintance was begging for company at their birthday dinner, especially if no one else jumped at a free meal, I might grab a quick gift and go. I'd hate to end up alone in that scenario myself
If you get so mad about being “Friendzoned” that you have to go on a stupid rant about it, I’m surprised you even got the privilege to be *considered* a friend in the first place 😭
If you are over 20y/o, there is no such thing as a "friend zone". Ain't no grown ass adult should be wooing, sexing, or loving on someone who ISN'T their friend. Think about it. You think your significant other ISN'T also your best friend? The only context in which a "friend zone" is a thing is in high school. Girls who are insecure (like most teenagers are) may be too afraid of introducing romance/sexuality into a friendship, for fear of ruining that friendship, and will find other outlets for their budding sexuality/romance. Some insecure men also do this too, see "you belong with me" by Taylor swift. It just seems to be more common with girls, possibly because society teaches them so much of their worth comes from being attractive to men, so they are more sensitive to rejection. (Not that boys/men aren't sensitive to rejection, but society doesn't teach boys they have to be with a partner or they are worthless) If they aren't stupid, they will realize that the person they confide in about their feelings on the phone is more valuable to them than the person they kiss in the hallways but doesn't mean anything else to them. In other words, the friend zone is temporary. If you have been stuck "in the friend zone" for years on end, or you are over 21, sorry, you were never in the friend zone. She likes you as a person but has no romantic or sexual interest in you. Her preferences are not your punishment.
I really like this comment, especially the part about the reason why the ‘friend zone’ exists. Literally every single friend who ever asked me out/I asked them out was destroyed. I hated it and quickly learned that it was simply not a good idea. I’m 19 y/o now and I STILL haven’t fully recovered from it, but I have matured a lot, and it’s a lot better than it was a few years ago
I don't think society teaches anyone that their value is derived from having a boyfriend/girlfriend, but rather that having a boyfriend/girlfriend is derived from your value. For example, "I'm so smart/pretty/friendly/funny that guys/girls like me." Or at the other end of the spectrum, instead of "You're worthless because you don't have a boy/girlfriend", it's more like "You don't have a boy/girlfriend because you're worthless". Of course, this doesn't apply to the voluntarily celibate. Like me. So "nice guys" try to justify their lack of girlfriends by pretending girls are the problem, and they're all looking for the wrong qualities.
I was with a nice guy for 4 years and yeah...he was most of the time, very nice but looking back....he actually did made a hole into a wall and even mistreated one of our cats. Left me saying I was too "emotional", are we playing uno or what ?
I’m pretty sure concerts would be a more chill equivalent (even some of the heavy metal ones w/ the pits) bc most have a no drugs rule for the audience to follow. The only reason I say this is bc my dad met one of his really good friends at a Slipknot concert years ago and they’re still in touch.
this is something i learned the hard way when i was younger: there’s a difference between being nice and being kind. in the context of “nice guys” it just means they’re being polite as a way of manipulating women. if you have to let people know you’re a good person, you probably aren’t a good person.
To clarify The dating environment sucks right now, there's no doubt about it. Is that women's fault? Absolutely not. You'd be surprised how many women _desire_ a relationship but don't have much luck. Single people, male and female, have a choice. Being angry and bitter, or choosing not to let it hurt their ego. F*ck what society thinks, your self worth isnt measured in your body count (or lack thereof).
I think a lot of it boils down to trying to find someone online instead of irl (not saying it’s a problem bc many people have healthy online relationships) I wouldn’t know about it since I’ve never been in a relationship before, but wouldn’t someone have better luck meeting irl at a convention or concert or something?
6:32 but if 8-10 women chase 8-10 guys and "nice guys" are 4-7, why won't they chase 4-7 women? I mean, they are interested in women's personality, not their appearance, right? Right?
I'm dating a genuinely nice guy, who is slightly shy, super respectful, and kind. Genuinly nice and respectful men get women, it's so cringe many self proclaimed nice guys don't realize this.
"Women these days are so used to being treated like shit so when a good guy comes along they are so brainwashed so they can't see past their rose-tinted glasses..." Dude couldn't even get the expression right. Rose-tinted glasses are metaphorically worn by people who see everything in the most postitive light, not by the ones who are cynical and assume the worst. He's thinking of JADE-colored glasses. Then again, even the women who frequently wear rosy glasses would see past this guy and steer clear of him.
17:36 The first historical yeeting of the child could be Odysseus yeeting (more like dropping) Hector’s son, Astyanax (who was just a baby) off the walls of the city to kill him, which happened in the Trojan War which was around 3000 years ago, but there was probably another yeeting before that. This is just the first that comes to mind.
"Men are calmer" me glancing at our cursed family heirloom on the wall that the previous owners (all men) use to decapitate their enemies with: yeah... Calm...
@@BlooMonkiMan it's less of an enchantment but more of a curse from the grudge of my ancestors' dead enemies. Since it's used in tribal wars for generations, it accumulated some sort of bad aura. The village elders said that very time one of my ancestors used it they go into a berserk state and their face look almost inhuman. And one of my ancestor used to cut a tree that rolled down a hill and killed and injured dozens of enemies before chopping them with the sword. I heard that if anyone other than the head of the family that inherited the sword touches it, their soul will be shaken from the interaction and either faint or go insane then you have to get a shaman/elder to help them stabilize their soul. It's iron but it never rusts and the scabbard have traditional carvings that makes you wanna touch them. Fortunately, it got handed down to my uncle so we don't have to take care of that creepy sword. I still do see it in the hallway if i go to my uncle's house because you have to put it somewhere you can see it in case someone takes it. Also, you can't put it in a room where people sleep.
i actually had a run in with a "nice guy". he was calling so many other women sluts and whores when they didn't believe he was nice over rude comments he made that were posted by a twitter account who posts a lot of r/niceguys and a lot of r/amitheasshole. he tried to convince me he was nice but i kept saying didn't think he was for how he was treating women. he even harassed the bf of a women because he was flirting with the gf and bf told him to stop. surprised he didn't call me a slut for not believing him
Just saying I’m aro ace and hate romantic movies but I would watch the hell out of a love story between 2 “nice guys” finding love in each other and realising what douches they actually are.
@@aaronjames3228 Aro ace? It means I’m Aromatic Asexual! Aromatic means I don’t feel any romantic feelings hence the A-Romantic part of it. And believe it or not Asexual means I don’t feel any sexual feelings hence the A-sexual part of it! So basically it means I don’t have a lot of feelings when it comes to love! Hope this helped!
4:52 I have one of those partners. Y'know, the ones who love their partner unconditionally even when shes still trying to love herself? Every day I am thankful for that, because I know how many aren't that lucky.
I absolutely hate that I use the same vocabulary as these “nice guys.” I say things like madam and sir because I think speaking fancy is funny but seeing these “people” use them too kinda ruins them for me.
17:38 The Spartans man. They yeeted babies off cliffs if they weren't "manly" enough. One of the stories I've heard is that they poured cold water on a baby (already some months old), and if it cried, YEET THE CHILD
“When was the first yeeting of a child” I don’t know but when I was like 12 my big brother was swinging me around in circles by my arms (I hope my family wasn’t the only one who did that) and I guess our hands slipped so I got launched like 10 feet it was both scary and fun (but would not recommend it hurts lmao)
Why would you get a match on a dating site and immediately open by *insulting her!?* I remember how much effort it took to even get a match let alone a response and these morons are out there wasting perfectly good opportunities for no reason.
I'm physically grimacing and this makes me glad I'm a hermit so I never got the chance to meet many guys like this while somehow ending up with the love of my life
5:15 see and this is the thing, the standards are so off and not comparable to reality, that's why many mean go to Asia or eastern Europe because the women there are way more grounded to reality Can speak from experience here
This video has made me realize i have problems and demons I've ignored for far too long, Im going out on an adventure of self discovery, if you don't hear back from me, I've died. Love, M
@@mobcrusher99 better than I expected, still go a long way to go though, but I'll leave this gem I made, it have a set meaning for me personally but it's open for interpretation, The me within you, The you within me, For we are one, For we are three. ~M
@@masterm8840 I’ll tell you what I got from that poem This is something you wrote about or for a friend or lover. You are two separate people, yet you are each other as well, which is the third person. There’s 3 of you, and yet you’re all the same
@0:29 um, I think your potential partners prefer you know your way around their bodies if looking for a hook up & your way around a healthy relationship if looking for long term. Saying you know your way around a home depot isn't that impressive considering that they have signs on the aisles & item locations/maps on their website. 9:17 I bet this guy is also one of those who answers questions about Amazon products he bought with "I don't know" for their FAQ section, too!
3:39 this guy thinks being 33 and a virgin is a reflection on society and not on him. THATS the problem with these dudes in a nutshell. 7:15 and this guy doesn’t know what “allegory” means 😂
6:59 I love how this dude is whining about 8-10's chasing each other and those 4-7 are ALSO wanting to chase the 8-10's. Like hey dumdum, you just proved why leveling people is stupid: you're whining for the higher numbers to notice you while ignoring the numbers you're part of. Are the 4-7's women not good enough for you OP? No? Then why the hell do you think an 8-10's woman would think you're good enough?
OMG that's what im saying! My brother in law considers women as nothing else but meat. Constantly this incel talk, constantly crying about how no women want to sleep with him, all women are b!tches blablabla If using their number system,he's basicalls a 3 or 4 (extremely overweight and not groomed at all). But he constantly talks nasty sh!t about women who are not conventionally attractive. I told him to his face "Dude, you're literally the same. You need women to be supermodels to just acknowledge their existence. Not once have i heard you list a CHARACTER TRAIT you look for in a woman. But then you turn around and cry that the same women who put A LOT of work and thought into their looks basically expect the same of you and don't just look at your inner values, wich btw are also toxic AF? If looks are important to me, why would i date you? If a good character is important to me, why would i date you?" Left him speechless for a week or two just to go right back to it. Insane, really
4:10 Honestly, I think this kinda hits the nail on the head. A lot of the time, this kind of behavior comes down to a combination of insecurity and not having a solid support group, so they easily fall prey to niceguy, incel, and "alpha male" groups that give them an easy scapegoat for their loneliness. The bitterness of those groups rubs off on them, meaning nobody wants to deal with them (rightfully so), which pushes them further into isolation except from those echo-chambers telling them that it's just the fault of the "females." It's pretty similar to the alt-right pipeline, which is probably why many incel and alt-right groups have such a huge, if not total, overlap. The solution is, of course, touching grass, therapy, and making some well-adjusted friends, but unfortunately most of these people are so deep in the delusion that it's hard work to break them out, so unless a trusted friend or family member steps in, they're just going to be stuck in that cycle of loneliness and hatred. It's sad, really.
dawg, nice guys dont say their nice....because they dont know they are nice, i have a nice friend, and i have to tell him hes nice because he thinks hes a bad person, i love him so much
Are these people aware women can have families without being a housewife or even a wife ? With the divorce rate these days at least half of women will raise their child alone, let's normalize being a single mother.
A for real nice person never needs to claim it, they simply SHOW it on a consistent regular basis. Same is true with respect...if you have to demand respect or call people who don't just blindly go along with you "disrespectful", then you're probably not worthy of it. Bottom line, don't claim to be "nice" or "honest" or worthy of respect or what not...SHOW it through your ACTIONS on a consistent regular basis.
I actually love being a lesbian cause it means I don't have to deal with shit like this. I don't necessarily mean that there's no such thing as women who pull this kind of thing, but at the very least there's no blaming one gender or another for what are individual problems.
I love the begging and simping and compliments at first and then if the girl isn’t interested it changes to nothing but bruised ego rage insults and emoji’s. It’s funny as h3ll.
6:19 what’s wrong with a male best friend and 2 exes? Like, HUH?! I might not get it because I am a boy who mainly dates other boys but I feel that saying a girl’s status is lowered because of a male best friend is very odd. Also I have had more than 2 exes and I don’t think I’m THAT bad.
Nothing wrong with either, but some people are more hesitant to date someone with a body count because it tells them that the person either might sleep around with people, or is bad at relationships. Personally, I wouldnt date a girl with a bodycount above 5 within the last few years (2 or 3). Its a risk to yourself.
You might be uncomfortable wih a girl that had a lot of relationships and meets regularly and with another man and they do "close" stuff together (naturally in private) ?
@@ChipsofShrimp ... Having exes is a bodycount, are you slow? Bodycount does not specifically refer to sexual relationships, Im referring to relationships in general. So yes, you did say shit about bodycounts when you brought up having exes, lmao.
I’m a bi man, and am not the most conventionally attractive person. However I’ve never had a problem getting a date. Why? I’m not an ass, I don’t smell rancid, and I’m not 99% insecurity. I’m not amazingly confident, but I’m not so insecure that it’s sad to be around me.
That’s literally all you really need.
Do you get bitches tho?
Shit. That last one is going to be hard.
As another bi guy, I can vouch for the fact that odor isn’t even a deal breaker if you are a good person to be around (but please for the love of all that is good still try to smell nice)
@@notme8232hey, I get it. I really do. Just try not to talk badly about yourself all the time. Not only is it a bummer to be around, but it helps you to keep believing it. Try telling yourself nice things about yourself. You don’t have to believe it at first, but it will help.
Self deprecating humor can be funny, just not 24/7.
I believe in you!!!
@@nobody5333 yeah, it’s not a 100% no, but it definitely helps lol. Especially with women. Less so men.
What I want to know is how 99% of women can be chasing 2% of guys when like 10% of women aren't even interested in men...
Now that I think about it.. I need to know this
Math is hard
100th like!
@@pinkie5963CP 1 first like on yours
Because non cis-straight people are not considered human by the average nice guy
I had to learn this in my early teens. Nice doesn't always mean kind. People are nice when they expect something or have something to prove to others. Being kind is just something you are, regardless. Be kind. If you can, be good. "Nice" is for con-men.
Nice and kind are synonyms so yeah they kinda do mean the same thing just like either one can be faked.
"Nice" should be reserved for the funny numbers only.
@@filthycasual6118only talk to me if you're a 6.9 out of 10
@@alex_runarinWell, I'm a 4.20, does that count?
@@notme8232 I'll allow it
I think all the “nice guys” saying they will treat their woman like a Queen are just in denial of their dominatrix kink.
Nah, they probably want slaves because theg don't know how people work
Sir, this is a Wendy's...
@@Combes_ no it's a RUclips comment
I mean, I think it's either that OR it's like when a little kid wants to get a dog and makes all these claims of what they'll do when they get that dog, not knowing the reality of it all
I’d rather treat em like a princess not a queen
Please give robin the wholesome subreddit he deserves them 😭😭😭
Wrong
i swear all the bad subreddits i can currently cluck on on the official emkay youtube channel that have been uploaded in the last 2 months there is a 99% chance it is narrated by robin
@@Mernon4ym6661 Emkay gives the strongest robins the angyest subreddits
You mean--- ALL OF THE CUTE SUBS?!
@@GamerguldHey thats kinda mean :(
"she can't take a joke" is a code for "I harassed her and she didn't laugh"
this is true even as a guy, i can't count how many times I've been described as not being able to take jokes even when the jokes in question are just straight up harrasment and verbal abuse
@@kenny_.E Yeah i always double down okay make me laugh, right now, your not funny nobody's laughing but your queer sqaud, oh just that's not even funny they usually shut up, it's seriously not actually funny they're all just bad people that i can see going to jail
Thats why you should search people that have the same comedy sense as you, you can say its her fault that the joke you did just made her feel offended you shouldve tried to find somegirl thay likes dark humor for it to work
I will try to search for an girl that likes dark humour so that she doesnt feel offended by me.
real
"He's a Mormon?" Robin said calmly
whats a mormon?
@@sal-luvs-blood this is what Google said 'Mormons believe that Christ's church was restored through Joseph Smith and is guided by living prophets and apostles. Mormons believe in the Bible and other books of scripture, such as the Book of Mormon. They have a unique view of cosmology and believe that all people are literal spirit children of God.'
Seems more like a cult at this point ngl
isnt every religion kind of culty at one point LMAO @@MorsHeller99
@@MorsHeller99If my memory isn't rusty, people hated them for polyamory and so they all left to Utah, and they also thought black people were just white people who were cursed.
As someone who was raised Mormon, it was definitely a cult
As someone who desperately strives to be a genuinely kind person, this subreddit makes my brain bluescreen from sheer toxic stupidity 👍
Best way to avoid is to see, am i right?
This sub existing is part of why I almost never refer to myself as a "nice guy"; the other part is that basic respect should be the bare minimum expected from anyone...respecting others should be "normal" and not worthy of a special label.
I try and understand their points of view and I do resonate where they come from and some of some of the points but man, they sure do make agreeing with them an absolute, undeniable pain.
On top of that, my view is if a woman acts like how they think all women act, which to be fair some women do act that way, they weren’t worth it anyways. Chase someone who wants to be chased by YOU and vice versa, kings 👑!
If they don’t put effort into wanting to see YOU, why should you put effort into seeing THEM. This applies to men, women, aliens, pan fuckers, all of you!!!
@@ggexploder7705 no… the point they make that often seems good are still linked and stemmed from bs delusional cases they make… religious ppl make good points all the time but it’s still often skewed and false to a trained ear.. we are OWED another persons romantic.. platonic.. not casual relationship… period… nice guys immediately lose all validity as the very nature of “nice guy” invokes one of these which all leads to upset over no sex be it casually or romantically… we shall NEVER move this past this point.. it’s the crux of the entire thing.. every good point they might make is weaved within a whole slew of bs… being a piece of shit who does something nice makes u no less a piece of shit.. correct? So even ones good points are still u being a piece of shit with a decent point here and there .. also look at their good points.. it’s often based on a underlying narrative of entitlement.. to me it’s playing the victim card to JUSTIFY themselves.. why would u “understand” them when guys exist who are NOT like nice guys this don’t need to make this “points” to counter their other bs… as far as I’m concerned “nice guys” are like flat earthers or creationist who try to claim they understand science but don’t think they do.. 💀 even a good point is invalid as it’s part of a huge slew of bs…
This entire thread is correct. So I'll join in. Dudes explicitly like "no fatties" don't deserve what they want.
If you think you're a "nice guy" but then you refer to people based on their attractiveness out of 10, you aren't a nice guy.
If you think you’re a nice guy, you’re not a nice guy
@@minaashido518I think I'm a stupid idiotic person, so does that mean im not idiotic?
@@ITSTIMETOSAYGOODBYE no as the qualities of idiocy don’t relate to those of niceties
@@minaashido518 aw
@@ITSTIMETOSAYGOODBYEdon’t sell yourself short, I’m sure you’re very smart 🥳
Maturity is when you realize having sex doesn't really matter compared to just enjoying yourself with another person.
This exactly!!
This may be a bit TMI, but I used to get anxious about the fact that I felt like the only person in my friend group who hadn’t had sex (fwiw, “virginity” is a social construct - ask 100 people their specific qualifications for what does and doesn’t qualify as “losing your V card” and you’ll likely get 100 different answers). I’ve come to realize that it honestly doesn’t matter; sure, I’m single and would probably only feel comfortable being intimate with someone I know well rather than a hookup, but I’m fine on my own and don’t “need” to have a partner to make me happy. If I find the right person for me, it’ll be a bonus, but it’s not a necessity. This is coming from a 24 year old who hasn’t been in a relationship since 10th grade (~16 years old)
sometimes teens don't grow up, and they corrupt their succesors into the same dirrection, such edge
I would rather spend the entire day hanging out with my partner than having pointless sex. Idk, I may sound weird, but I really don't see the appeal of having sex.
@@FiatUno2003 Not weird it's called being asexual and it's a normal thing that some people are.
@@AIHumanEqualityhe might not even be asexual. I'm not and I'm not really that excited by sex
It’s insane how often their reasoning of why they are entitled to date someone boils down to “I don’t intend to physically abuse you”
John 3:16, "For God so loves the world that he sent his one and only son so that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life" I love yall, God bless you in Jesus's name, amen ✝️🙏
@@ox3eeyour "god" behaves Just like the Nice guys in the video
Everyone says they want someone with a “sense of humor” but sometimes it means “makes me laugh” & sometimes it means “laughs at MY jokes”
Hmmm, yeah,
Its really dumb too because im really funny and yet still havent gotten a date. Strange isnt it
@@supermario7268 there are a lot of factors into why people choose to date someone, no gender is a monolith, and being funny alone isn't always all someone looks for in a partner
John 3:16, "For God so loves the world that he sent his one and only son so that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life" I love yall, God bless you in Jesus's name, amen ✝️🙏
@@ox3ee idk if you're a bot, but I left Christianity for a reason... Appreciate the sentiment, though. Happy thanksgiving
Nice guys should read about the adventures of Ulrich Von Liechtenstein in his work called the Frauendienst (Service Of The Lady). It’s a 13th century satirical series of poems written as a fictional autobiographical account of his attempts to win the affections of a noblewoman through chivalric and heroic deeds, with disastrous results. It is a tongue in cheek parody of chivalry. I guess even in the 13th century they had incels.
Main issue is, would they see it as the satire it is?
@@yourpsychicfriendfredbear No they'd worship it and use it as evidence, it's happened with other satire.
@@ectothermicjust like fight club and american psycho. These dudes are too dumb to understand satire.
@@ectothermicvery true
except chivalry was always about the rules of combat between nobility, e.g. not torturing captured opponents, and romance was not involved in it at all; it was more like an early precursor to the Geneva Convention than anything else
the present-day definition of chivalry comes from its misuse in 19th century fairy tales
I love this sub because it just makes be feel better about myself that I don’t act like this
As someone who got a gf from being a good guy, I'm glad I'm not nice
Wait you actually got a gf?
im not even in wanting of one, and im not nice, good, cool, a rolemodel, or even acceptable, positive, marvelous, or great
I'M
blue dabadedabadie dabadedabadie dabadedabadie.
@@elliottpak 😲😲😨😨😬😬🤫🤫😏😏😘😘😊😊
@@elliottpak 🐔👍
I very much agree with this
Robin yelling so loud at 13:55 that there is no sound is so good
0:01 I type in a weirdly formal style online, so when someone asks I just say it's an eccentricity of mine and keep going.
Matthew?
THEY’RE OUT IN THE WILD TOO
*my friend:*
Look I get you thought we were gonna last forever or something but please just grow up and move on bc the most we ever would've lasted is like a week
You're hella cringy and hella clingy
*guy she dated for two days:*
Yea now you wanna speak the truth. Glad to know you couldn't just say it in the first place. Well welcome to being a nice guy in today's generation.
I'd rather be clingy then get played but your call
*my friend:*
Id rather be played 100 times then be with you again. I have nothing wrong with nice guys I do have something wrong with you. Talking bout marriage and kids after being together for like a day. Nothing wrong with nice guys. Everything
wrong with moving hella fast
*(for the record he was a manipulator)*
if only ""nIcE gUyS"" would step outside and look at the world and how a guy 10 times uglier than them actualy manages to have a GF just for being a normal person
strange how some people think that all girls are how the internet tells them they are...
I was on an incel forum the other day (yes I was in the mood to scare myself) and they actually have a name for that. I think it's called NT normies of something of the sort, it basically describes ugly men who can achieve relationships with women by having a good social capital.
You'd think incels would be happy that it's possible, but no. They despise those guys even more than they despise "The chads"
yep, I used to be pretty damn unattractive (like my friends legit laugh at old photos of me) and I got hella girls, including one (IMO) incredibly attractive girl I liked.
I was the class clown but like non-destructive so people just liked me in general. Also like 90% of my friends were girls cause the guys didn't wanna hang out w me lmfaoo.
100% inherited from my dad. He failed highschool but got an award for best rounded student because people liked him. I thought he was joking but it's true. Rural schools go crazy
@@IOwnKazakhstan you sound like a blast to be around ngl
If a pretty girl is with an ugly dude I’m sure he’s paying/spoiling her
I would love for a "nice guy" to tell me that women only like jerks, when there are a-hole guys like myself who've purposely pushed women away by being a jerk lol.
If you say you're in the friend zone, you aren't in the friend zone. You're in the 'Not this fucker again!'-zone.
Once you have been there and you got out, you realize its actually not the "Not this fucker again" zone. Its the "hey wait he still loves me even if I dont do anything for it" zone. If you want to get out its quite simple. Wait till she does something that upsets you and make her feel it. You will see who comes running after you in a heartbeat.
Or maybe people stay friends 🤔🤔
@@baronhelmut2701 if she is actually friends with you, of course she'll want to preserve your friendship. If she wants you gone, she will be relieved.
Source- I'm a woman who had a stereotypical "neckbeard" after me. We were "friends" (because of peer pressure) but he recently stopped incessantly texting me and I couldn't be happier he's gone. I'm not gonna even try to "get him back."
@@UselessGoddess378 obviously if there never was any attraction to begin with, what I am saying isnt going to work.
Glad he left you alone in the end.
@@supermario7268 ok nothing against you, but fan you please stop complaining about how you don't get any women in the comments. Look up (not sexist) guides on how to get a date, look up a few tips, and you'll be fine👍🏾
The friend zone should be a compliment, they’re willing to keep you in the special circle where “the men I wanna date” won’t go.
Personally, I may not want to be with a guy like that… but~, I want to see him in a good relationship and keep him in that bestie circle.
I want a movie starring a “nice” guy that’s played as a stereotypical romantic movie at the beginning, but quickly turns into the “nice” guy going on a journey of self improvement to learn from his mistakes (and probably go to therapy) and actually become a nice person.
😅 It would be labeled in the fantasy section.Not romantic the delusional illusional Non self reflecting zone Adjacent from the corn hub 😅
9:43 The friendzone is not a thing. I genuinely believe the entire concept was made by a bunch of delusional losers who also got rejected from woman/men multiple times because they kept harassing them.
Why shouldn't this be a thing ?
You find someone attractive and show your best side to woo the person over.
The person is not attracted to you but still thinks you are a nice person and you end up as "friends" and do stuff together....
@blablup1214 I think the issue is it should just be called “being friends”. friendzone has some kind of connotation I can’t word but it makes friend relationships seem lesser than romantic relationships
I think it was actually made by a television show.
@@yourpsychicfriendfredbearYou are right there is this connotation.
Hmmm I wouldn't say one is lesser than the other.
It is just the intention of the person.
Call me stupid but imagine it like this.
You take all you have , your charisma, your time, your status everything and you want to buy pizza.
But somehow in the store it doesn't go the way you wanted and you end up with lasagna.
What you got isn't bad, but it isn't what you wanted so you feel a little sad.
Some may even feel cheated, because they paid "too much" for something they didn't even wanted.
I always thought offering friendship in lieu of a romantic relationship to someone you don't know that well was baffling. I value friendship, it takes me a lot of time to develop enough emotional intimacy with someone to call them my friend. How can you expect someone you just rejected to fit in your life as a friend ? You should be able to tell someone you don't want to be their partner or their friend, you want to stay strangers.
To be fair, (obligatory i am not a guy), one of my exes also left me when she started to love herself. But that's because she was already cheating on me with a guy and I stopped being a useful cash cow. She was abusive AF, the girl version of a "nice guy", and I'm much happier with my current gf. I genuinely hope my current GF doesn't also do that once she learns to love herself, though i believe in her enough to know she's better than that. ^_^
Happy for you bro! Glad you’re doing better ❤
@@notme8232 I’m fixing that bro, chill
@@carbs_r_delish Aight, deleted my comment
@@carbs_r_delisheh bro can be universal
@@aaronjames3228 not that, I put ‘King’ before lmfao
You can't be friendzoned if you value having women as friends. You don't have to be in a relationship with every womean you meet. Best dating advice i got.
It's very rare for men to view women as friends ,they can't relate to women in any way other than sex or ' romantic ' ,which is basically sex to them . Platonic friends do exist but that's rare ,sad but true . I do agree with your comment though
@LakiguKugali I think you need to get out more. That’s certainly not true. Women are not objects. This is not a gacha game, you don’t need to collect them all. Plenty of men are able to make friends with women and maintain platonic relationships with them. If you don’t know any men capable of that, I think that says more about them or the types of men you spend time with.
@@JH-no8sy pls read my original message again . I said "it's very rare " . I didn't say it cannot happen . You don't know me ,but I appreciate your opinion on my having to get out more . There are all sorts of people out there , including great mature and emotionally and psychologically and socially developed people - they are not the majority . Perhaps you'd like to dome some research on scientific evidence regarding typical male minds and how they typically relate to females . Its basic biology.
I'm short, poor and sick and I have never had any problems finding relationships or sex. I was engaged for over 8 years and am currently in a relationship, so I genuinely don't understand what these people are talking about. They must be such spectacularly bad people and delusional. So much that people avoid them out of a pure negative vibe/aura/stank
It really depends on the man himself. Treating women normally and not like they owe you things is a good way for them to be comfortable around you
I used think I wasn't good looking, but going from 290 pounds to 230 pound at a 6 ft 5 height, good haircut, and getting sober from drugs made me made " look better".
Sounds like a fairy tale fantsay. Im poor, handsome, and healthy so idk how you got dates and not i so idk. Im not blaming women but i think im just unlucky and you stole all the luck for yourself
@supermario7268 It might very well be a culture thing, depending on where you live. America seems to be in a very confusing and toxic era of dating, so if you live there, I can understand your situation. It's different in Europe etc. I think the best you can do is be active and social. Be true to yourself and prioritize being friends first, establish a bond with whomever you have feelings for or want to get to know. More often than not, women prefer the safety of a caring person who sees them, instead of someone who looks like a gym-bro. That's all the advice I can give. Hope it helps.
@@Empty_Moment i live in US
Let Robin read a happy subreddit next time!!
6:19
That’d actually make a good book. I’d read it.
Edit: To clarify I’m polyamorous, and have a friend who falls easy for people, one after the next. It’d be nice to see a story about the struggle of being in love with more than one person.
Same
Isn't that illegal? To be with more than one person?
Imagine being poly and happy 😂
@@minestar2247I think group s*x is illegal under certain circumstances, but it's not illegal to have s*x with different people at different times. Of course, it's illegal under God's law. And it's a bad thing to do if you don't inform all your partners.
@@me-myself-i787 yeah, we aren't like the barbariams of the olden ages marying 50 wifes
The nice guy that can't seem to get a lady needs to hear this:
There are so many creeps out there that start out as nice, respectful dates. You get to talking, things go well, and you think -oh okay, this is looking good. Then you miss one date, or ask to change plans one time and they blow up on you, calling you all sorts of names and start being general jerks.
Too many women have had this happen, so do you blame them for being cautious when it appears it is too good to be true? We fully expect for this 'gentleman' to turn into a raging maniac.
Keep looking, and you'll find someone who will respect you and want to be with you. Forgive us if we seem a little reserved. A lot of seemingly nice guys really aren't.
It's very much understandable. A little tip to know when someone seems too nice, is to observe their actions towards others and notice if their nice tendencies fade over time
All these NiceGuys claiming how they'll treat their woman like a queen and listing out all these things he'd do just reminds me of when a little kid is begging their parents for a dog, and claim they'll wake up at 5am to walk it every day and spend three hours after school grooming and playing with the dog, and pick up all the poos etc, and you know by the end of week 2, they're not going to be doing any of that.
This is nothing new. Western culture is all look at the world from the view of these so call "Nice Guys". For example, what about the story of Dracula and bride of Dracula. Isn't it the same as those modern Nice Guys bitching about girls picking those so call "Toxic Chad"?
Another stereotype, "Asia is a society where the husband is the King and wife is like a servant and the west treat women as equals." Put the stereotype regarding Asia, whether it is correct or not. Let's just go to the west and look at the west.
For example, that recent Netflix series set in Japan. First, let's be realistic and think of the 17th century western value regarding the treating of women. And if we are going to create a movie set in 17th century Europe and to be historically accurate regarding how the social and culture value of the time believe a woman should be treated And then compare it to that Netflix series set in Japan that describe how women are treated in Europe, we see some very obvious contrast.
It is the same story. And most white people that lived in Asia will also tell you the idea of "Asia is a society where husband is like a King and wife is like a servant" is complete none sense, and in addition they will tell you "If you believe in this living in the west that is understandable, but those after living in Asia for a few years and still believe in it. Those white guys are often the ones that are the actual wife beaters"
And I've seen the same myself. Those that are firm believer in the idea of "A wife should serve and honor her husband" and the ones that are firm believer in the idea of "The west treat women as equals and the East treat women as second class citizen" are the same.
What is actually going on is the same reason why those so call Nice Guys believe they are nice gentleman treating women right, while those so call "Bad Boys" "Chad" or "Fuck Boy" are the ones that are toxic and mistreating women, yet women always choose them.
The reason those so call Nice Guys see themselves to be treating women well and the Bad Boy to be treating women badly, is due to how they see women.
Just go on record Bad Boys actually make up 85% of the male population, Nice Guys only 10%. Nice Guys see women as if fine art piece in an art gallery to be possessed and purchase as property. Bad Boys see women as human with rights and independent autonomy.
This is why Nice Guys felt they treat women better. The code of chivalry regarding "How you should treat a lady" is about treating women as if fine art and the more she is a goddess level hot girl (aka she is a 10) she is seen as more of the prize collection in the fine art gallery, contrast to if she is a 1. But, they also treat women as property to be possess.
Bad Boys treat women as human. Therefore, on one hand, they won't treat women as fine art. How they treat a girl that is a 10 be very different from the Nice Guys. How they treat girls that are 1 also be different. So, the Bad Boy usually treat girls that are 1 as a platonic friend or acquaintance. If she is a 10, well, if they are friends, so she won't be scare knowing he won't hurt her, he probably be blowing wolf whistlle every time she enters the room. But, always show the respect you give a friend. The Nice Guy treat women as property to be possess, as if art work in a fine art gallery. If she is a 1 he be treating her like trash, if she is a 10 he might put her on a pedastal, but also treating her as if property to be possess. It is why they want to be boyfriend/girlfriend all the time getting very serious, exclusive and committed ASAP
5:35 "The female equivalent of a gooner.
A female who is so addicted to porn and masturbation. That it takes over her life and takes too priority over everything including family and friends."
-Urban Dictionary
And here I thought a Goon was a resident of the SomethingAwful forums.
Yes, treat me like a queen; pay me in taxes and fight to defend my fields that you toil in
The whole "99% of women go for 2% of men" thing is so funny because it implies that only like 2% of people are, or have ever been, in relationships.
The 0-10 scale makes no sense. Like attractiveness is so subjective and your opinion on someone's looks can literally change with how they behave.
My type is so specific and kinda the opposite of most people but I find all of them incredibly attractive compared to people my friends call attractive.
What's your type?
That's kinda how it is tho. I've seen numerous people by them self and a few couples. People in dating are like the top 1%. I have no clue why they are so lucky but so goes the world of however the saying goes
@@supermario7268 That is objectively not true though? If what you said was true, then the world population would have outright crashed by now
@@supermario7268 in america im pretty sure its a 60 40 ratio with people in relationships being the greater number
@SnowShadyLP that sounds lame why tf am i not in the 60%
1:31 His sende of humor reeks of “I have zero problems hurting you”.
My 29th birthday was a couple days ago, and I'm still a virgin. That really says something about our society: That there are people like me who like being single.
i’m not tryna be like you respectfully 😭🙏
Damn guy any tips I am not a nice guy but socially awkward guy so yeha (my inability to speak causes quite annoyance for many people. So I decided i am dying alone already have enough stress ) any stress reduction tips
@@Genshin_7708 I know I’m not the original commenter, but my #1 tip is to try being a bit kinder to yourself. Self loathing won’t change much in your life other than making you feel miserable, nor will it make people want to reach out to you more. Valuing yourself apart from a relationship is a big step but it’s the best choice to make. I used to be insanely self conscious and awkward, and hell I still am, but it gets easier. Being single as long as I have has gave me a lot of time to work on myself and figure out A) what I want in a relationship and B) what I contribute to the world whether or not I have a spouse. Find hobbies that make you feel good about yourself, join clubs, make an active effort to push yourself more into social situations (which is fucking terrifying, I know, but trust me on this one)
Recognize that you have skills and a future regardless of any romantic relationships, and even if you *never* get a partner (unlikely if you build confidence!), forming platonic friendships is also incredibly fulfilling and having a support team works wonders. Being single isn’t a crime, nor are you really “missing out” on anything. And finally, you have time. You have all the time in the world to build social skills and meet new people, there’s no rush for you.
I’m not sure how old you are, you sound maybe in your teens, but people will try to keep rushing you into a ton of shit throughout your life. DONT LET THEM. YOU HAVE TIME. Ultimately, the only person who decides what you do with your life is you. And life is stressful as hell for sure, but with time you’ll figure out how to get validation and love from yourself I promise
That ending, though. What a twist.
Happy early or late 30th birthday 🎂
It is impressive how much conversation they can have with themselves.
They practice hyping themselves up in the mirror every morning so it’s probably not a surprise
"99% of females are chasing the 2% of men"
laughs in lesbian
(what are we, the 0%?)
Those dudes don’t “believe” in lesbians or bisexual women. They think they can change that and yes they’re that delusional.
The unknown variable
To people who actually believe that whole 99% thing, it's very likely they refuse to believe lesbians or even ace women exist.
Nah, for nice guys lesbians are an invent of the goverment to thrash their plans
@@nunyabuisness-gl6cd schrodinger's constant 💀
How to get any woman u want: Be confident,
groom yourself well,
take care of your skin,
smell good,
get in shape,
Have good hygiene,
Stop looking at every girl like shes a potential wife/girlfriend/hookup. Try making some female friends first, itll help u understand them better,
Have a good career path/status
Its literally that simple
You got this kings👊
Edit: everything ive mentioned are thing you should be doing anyway, so no these are literally simple and the bare minimum
Might want to include "learn to listen" as well
It's basic but often forgotten, that paying attention and actually finding interests in conversations makes all the difference.
Creeps should wear mirrored sunglasses so women dont have ti see their eyes pointed at them 😎
I disagree with "any woman u want". That seems to be a problem with these weirdos. They seem to think EVERY woman should be available for them. They need to understand that they can do all you mentioned and still get many rejections. The important thing, over everything else, is to learn how to take rejection and not have it crush them and turn them into these freaks.
How to get any woman you want:
look good
be confident
have some goons kidnap her with a white van
be nice to her
its that simple
@@unklebelt And "don't interrupt or talk over people". Men do this a LOT.
Way to get a girl, treat every woman you meet like a friend and dont expect from meeting her that shes going to be your girlfriend, that way it feels like way less pressure, if i doesnt work out you still have a new friend and you dont jump into a relationship based only on looks. I met a really beautiful and friendly woman years ago, really glad i got to know her first cuz after a week i found out that she started drinking every day at 10am and had been in prison for several counts of assault
Okay, so according to urban dictionary, a goonette is a female porn addict. A "gooner" is a male porn addict. Hmpt.
I always thought a Goon was a resident of the SomethingAwful forums with an optional presence in EVE Online.
"nice guys" are the reason i'm geniunely scared to date anyone because you can never tell if they are actually nice or if they are just putting on a show to use you like a toy to feel less lonely
Damn, I think if even just an acquaintance was begging for company at their birthday dinner, especially if no one else jumped at a free meal, I might grab a quick gift and go. I'd hate to end up alone in that scenario myself
No one likes solitude, your empathy is strong
This video is amazing the N.I.C.E acronym is amazing and Emkay is amazing.
Incels when they Realize that Women/Men being more attracted to attractive Women/Men is a Basic Part of Human Nature: 😲
Kinda not cool tbh. I'd prefer if I was able to fall in love with unattractive people
@@dotdot5906It's the inside that counts 😊
Attraction is subjective and everyone has a different preference, but it still makes your statement correct
I'm a nice guy = I'm not like other girls
If you get so mad about being “Friendzoned” that you have to go on a stupid rant about it, I’m surprised you even got the privilege to be *considered* a friend in the first place 😭
😭😭
If you are over 20y/o, there is no such thing as a "friend zone". Ain't no grown ass adult should be wooing, sexing, or loving on someone who ISN'T their friend. Think about it. You think your significant other ISN'T also your best friend?
The only context in which a "friend zone" is a thing is in high school. Girls who are insecure (like most teenagers are) may be too afraid of introducing romance/sexuality into a friendship, for fear of ruining that friendship, and will find other outlets for their budding sexuality/romance. Some insecure men also do this too, see "you belong with me" by Taylor swift. It just seems to be more common with girls, possibly because society teaches them so much of their worth comes from being attractive to men, so they are more sensitive to rejection. (Not that boys/men aren't sensitive to rejection, but society doesn't teach boys they have to be with a partner or they are worthless)
If they aren't stupid, they will realize that the person they confide in about their feelings on the phone is more valuable to them than the person they kiss in the hallways but doesn't mean anything else to them. In other words, the friend zone is temporary. If you have been stuck "in the friend zone" for years on end, or you are over 21, sorry, you were never in the friend zone. She likes you as a person but has no romantic or sexual interest in you. Her preferences are not your punishment.
I really like this comment, especially the part about the reason why the ‘friend zone’ exists. Literally every single friend who ever asked me out/I asked them out was destroyed. I hated it and quickly learned that it was simply not a good idea. I’m 19 y/o now and I STILL haven’t fully recovered from it, but I have matured a lot, and it’s a lot better than it was a few years ago
I don't think society teaches anyone that their value is derived from having a boyfriend/girlfriend, but rather that having a boyfriend/girlfriend is derived from your value.
For example, "I'm so smart/pretty/friendly/funny that guys/girls like me."
Or at the other end of the spectrum, instead of "You're worthless because you don't have a boy/girlfriend", it's more like "You don't have a boy/girlfriend because you're worthless". Of course, this doesn't apply to the voluntarily celibate. Like me.
So "nice guys" try to justify their lack of girlfriends by pretending girls are the problem, and they're all looking for the wrong qualities.
Not true
Or maybe some people can be friends🤔
I was with a nice guy for 4 years and yeah...he was most of the time, very nice but looking back....he actually did made a hole into a wall and even mistreated one of our cats. Left me saying I was too "emotional", are we playing uno or what ?
13:53 I feel ya Robin, I feel ya
What always kills me is that these "nice guys" then wonder why no woman wants anything to do with them.
5:38 i wanna meet someone at a rave so badly, but everyone’s usually high at those so-
I’m pretty sure concerts would be a more chill equivalent (even some of the heavy metal ones w/ the pits) bc most have a no drugs rule for the audience to follow. The only reason I say this is bc my dad met one of his really good friends at a Slipknot concert years ago and they’re still in touch.
this is something i learned the hard way when i was younger: there’s a difference between being nice and being kind.
in the context of “nice guys” it just means they’re being polite as a way of manipulating women. if you have to let people know you’re a good person, you probably aren’t a good person.
To clarify
The dating environment sucks right now, there's no doubt about it.
Is that women's fault? Absolutely not. You'd be surprised how many women _desire_ a relationship but don't have much luck.
Single people, male and female, have a choice. Being angry and bitter, or choosing not to let it hurt their ego. F*ck what society thinks, your self worth isnt measured in your body count (or lack thereof).
I think a lot of it boils down to trying to find someone online instead of irl (not saying it’s a problem bc many people have healthy online relationships)
I wouldn’t know about it since I’ve never been in a relationship before, but wouldn’t someone have better luck meeting irl at a convention or concert or something?
I can only imagine that robins stress and anxiety levels double when making videos like this 😂
6:32 but if 8-10 women chase 8-10 guys and "nice guys" are 4-7, why won't they chase 4-7 women? I mean, they are interested in women's personality, not their appearance, right? Right?
I hate to break it to you... but no because they think too much of themselves and believe they deserve better because they're nice guys
I'm dating a genuinely nice guy, who is slightly shy, super respectful, and kind. Genuinly nice and respectful men get women, it's so cringe many self proclaimed nice guys don't realize this.
I like how these people start things off with sending as many red flags as humanly possible. At least that makes it harder to fall for their bs.
"Women these days are so used to being treated like shit so when a good guy comes along they are so brainwashed so they can't see past their rose-tinted glasses..."
Dude couldn't even get the expression right. Rose-tinted glasses are metaphorically worn by people who see everything in the most postitive light, not by the ones who are cynical and assume the worst. He's thinking of JADE-colored glasses.
Then again, even the women who frequently wear rosy glasses would see past this guy and steer clear of him.
Guys: don’t want to be objectified for $, height and manual labor
Also Guys: flex only those things in their bio
Cause women don't go for short fat guys who work in retail management.
It makes me happy when I hear men talk about “nice guys” too, they’re actually the worst
"the guy at 17min thinks the spam ads are real people wanting to date him"
17:40 it was Hera throwing Hephaestus down a mountain, poor guy
You're edgy because you think you're cool.
I'm edgy because I'm mentally ill.
WE ARE NO THE SAME.
I'm edgy because I grew up in the 90s and I like shitposting about toucans in Path of Exile global chat. 😂
17:36
The first historical yeeting of the child could be Odysseus yeeting (more like dropping) Hector’s son, Astyanax (who was just a baby) off the walls of the city to kill him, which happened in the Trojan War which was around 3000 years ago, but there was probably another yeeting before that. This is just the first that comes to mind.
Friendzone is so overused that it doesn’t have a red line under it
Uses middle finger emoji. "I'm not mad at all"
"Men are calmer"
me glancing at our cursed family heirloom on the wall that the previous owners (all men) use to decapitate their enemies with: yeah... Calm...
I mean they might of calmly decapitated enemies maybe? 🤔
Ooooh! Enchanted sword! What's it do?
@@BlooMonkiMan it's less of an enchantment but more of a curse from the grudge of my ancestors' dead enemies. Since it's used in tribal wars for generations, it accumulated some sort of bad aura.
The village elders said that very time one of my ancestors used it they go into a berserk state and their face look almost inhuman. And one of my ancestor used to cut a tree that rolled down a hill and killed and injured dozens of enemies before chopping them with the sword.
I heard that if anyone other than the head of the family that inherited the sword touches it, their soul will be shaken from the interaction and either faint or go insane then you have to get a shaman/elder to help them stabilize their soul.
It's iron but it never rusts and the scabbard have traditional carvings that makes you wanna touch them.
Fortunately, it got handed down to my uncle so we don't have to take care of that creepy sword. I still do see it in the hallway if i go to my uncle's house because you have to put it somewhere you can see it in case someone takes it. Also, you can't put it in a room where people sleep.
13:54 THE CUTOFF LMAO
i actually had a run in with a "nice guy". he was calling so many other women sluts and whores when they didn't believe he was nice over rude comments he made that were posted by a twitter account who posts a lot of r/niceguys and a lot of r/amitheasshole. he tried to convince me he was nice but i kept saying didn't think he was for how he was treating women. he even harassed the bf of a women because he was flirting with the gf and bf told him to stop. surprised he didn't call me a slut for not believing him
4:21 ok I feel like this dude has hope of redemption and the pity I feel for him outweighs the anger.
Just saying I’m aro ace and hate romantic movies but I would watch the hell out of a love story between 2 “nice guys” finding love in each other and realising what douches they actually are.
What does that mean
@@aaronjames3228 Aro ace? It means I’m Aromatic Asexual! Aromatic means I don’t feel any romantic feelings hence the A-Romantic part of it. And believe it or not Asexual means I don’t feel any sexual feelings hence the A-sexual part of it! So basically it means I don’t have a lot of feelings when it comes to love! Hope this helped!
@@oceconda1176 I believe it. Very interesting. Thanks for explaining
aro ace sounds like a nickname of a random plane model
There is a different between a nice guy/girl and a nice person
Hope you have a good day.
4:52 I have one of those partners. Y'know, the ones who love their partner unconditionally even when shes still trying to love herself? Every day I am thankful for that, because I know how many aren't that lucky.
I absolutely hate that I use the same vocabulary as these “nice guys.” I say things like madam and sir because I think speaking fancy is funny but seeing these “people” use them too kinda ruins them for me.
17:38
The Spartans man. They yeeted babies off cliffs if they weren't "manly" enough.
One of the stories I've heard is that they poured cold water on a baby (already some months old), and if it cried, YEET THE CHILD
“When was the first yeeting of a child” I don’t know but when I was like 12 my big brother was swinging me around in circles by my arms (I hope my family wasn’t the only one who did that) and I guess our hands slipped so I got launched like 10 feet it was both scary and fun (but would not recommend it hurts lmao)
Why would you get a match on a dating site and immediately open by *insulting her!?* I remember how much effort it took to even get a match let alone a response and these morons are out there wasting perfectly good opportunities for no reason.
14:06 I'm not "99%" of girls, I'm gay
What? You gay?
I'm physically grimacing and this makes me glad I'm a hermit so I never got the chance to meet many guys like this while somehow ending up with the love of my life
ngl this might be my favorite and least favorite sub reddit at the same time
5:15 see and this is the thing, the standards are so off and not comparable to reality, that's why many mean go to Asia or eastern Europe because the women there are way more grounded to reality
Can speak from experience here
Wtf are you talking about
@korpzmarcelfranca6825 are you not able to read?
This video has made me realize i have problems and demons I've ignored for far too long, Im going out on an adventure of self discovery, if you don't hear back from me, I've died.
Love, M
How’s your adventure going?
@@mobcrusher99 better than I expected, still go a long way to go though, but I'll leave this gem I made, it have a set meaning for me personally but it's open for interpretation,
The me within you,
The you within me,
For we are one,
For we are three.
~M
@@masterm8840 I’ll tell you what I got from that poem
This is something you wrote about or for a friend or lover. You are two separate people, yet you are each other as well, which is the third person. There’s 3 of you, and yet you’re all the same
@mobcrusher99 alternatively it's the start of a Borg Collective. RESISTANCE IS FUTILE.
5:32 MY GOONS AND GOONETTES, IT IS TIME!
Goonette means strong woman btw!
My Goons, it is time to retake Delve and Feythabolis!
2:00 LMAO that was such a good post
@0:29 um, I think your potential partners prefer you know your way around their bodies if looking for a hook up & your way around a healthy relationship if looking for long term. Saying you know your way around a home depot isn't that impressive considering that they have signs on the aisles & item locations/maps on their website.
9:17 I bet this guy is also one of those who answers questions about Amazon products he bought with "I don't know" for their FAQ section, too!
3:39 this guy thinks being 33 and a virgin is a reflection on society and not on him. THATS the problem with these dudes in a nutshell. 7:15 and this guy doesn’t know what “allegory” means 😂
I was almost 30 when I had my first kiss. I wasn't a "nice guy" or an incel though, just lonely and insecure.
15:08 dude really made up a whole fanfic in his mind
15:31 whats the point of a date if you're not down to talk? thats useless af
6:59 I love how this dude is whining about 8-10's chasing each other and those 4-7 are ALSO wanting to chase the 8-10's.
Like hey dumdum, you just proved why leveling people is stupid: you're whining for the higher numbers to notice you while ignoring the numbers you're part of. Are the 4-7's women not good enough for you OP? No? Then why the hell do you think an 8-10's woman would think you're good enough?
OMG that's what im saying!
My brother in law considers women as nothing else but meat.
Constantly this incel talk, constantly crying about how no women want to sleep with him, all women are b!tches blablabla
If using their number system,he's basicalls a 3 or 4 (extremely overweight and not groomed at all).
But he constantly talks nasty sh!t about women who are not conventionally attractive.
I told him to his face "Dude, you're literally the same. You need women to be supermodels to just acknowledge their existence. Not once have i heard you list a CHARACTER TRAIT you look for in a woman.
But then you turn around and cry that the same women who put A LOT of work and thought into their looks basically expect the same of you and don't just look at your inner values, wich btw are also toxic AF?
If looks are important to me, why would i date you?
If a good character is important to me, why would i date you?"
Left him speechless for a week or two just to go right back to it.
Insane, really
@@ngotemna8875... Wow, just wow
@ngotemna8875 the real question is, what if you're a 0-2 but have an awesome personality? How do you even get anyone to notice you?
The part where he said "I see this was in 2021 so it's been a while" had me *shook* lmao
4:10 Honestly, I think this kinda hits the nail on the head. A lot of the time, this kind of behavior comes down to a combination of insecurity and not having a solid support group, so they easily fall prey to niceguy, incel, and "alpha male" groups that give them an easy scapegoat for their loneliness. The bitterness of those groups rubs off on them, meaning nobody wants to deal with them (rightfully so), which pushes them further into isolation except from those echo-chambers telling them that it's just the fault of the "females." It's pretty similar to the alt-right pipeline, which is probably why many incel and alt-right groups have such a huge, if not total, overlap.
The solution is, of course, touching grass, therapy, and making some well-adjusted friends, but unfortunately most of these people are so deep in the delusion that it's hard work to break them out, so unless a trusted friend or family member steps in, they're just going to be stuck in that cycle of loneliness and hatred. It's sad, really.
dawg, nice guys dont say their nice....because they dont know they are nice, i have a nice friend, and i have to tell him hes nice because he thinks hes a bad person, i love him so much
Are these people aware women can have families without being a housewife or even a wife ? With the divorce rate these days at least half of women will raise their child alone, let's normalize being a single mother.
The, largely, do not. To them, women exist to serve men...that man, specifically.
@@onijester56they can't tell the difference between societal pressures and actual biological facts
Let's not. I'm a single mother because my husband DIED. It's not glamorous or fun. And it's not good for the kids.
Thats kind of sad tho because children deserve both parents
normalise fatherless children?? 💀
I think the first historically accurate instance of yeeet a baby was Stan playing kick the baby
Redditors are the lowest form of internet user
😂
The entitlement of some men is mind blowing
A for real nice person never needs to claim it, they simply SHOW it on a consistent regular basis. Same is true with respect...if you have to demand respect or call people who don't just blindly go along with you "disrespectful", then you're probably not worthy of it.
Bottom line, don't claim to be "nice" or "honest" or worthy of respect or what not...SHOW it through your ACTIONS on a consistent regular basis.
I'm just waiting until someone post actual nice guy on the reddit not understanding what it's actually meant for
I actually love being a lesbian cause it means I don't have to deal with shit like this. I don't necessarily mean that there's no such thing as women who pull this kind of thing, but at the very least there's no blaming one gender or another for what are individual problems.
Your words are quite good an elegant lady of honour I see
I love the begging and simping and compliments at first and then if the girl isn’t interested it changes to nothing but bruised ego rage insults and emoji’s. It’s funny as h3ll.
6:19 what’s wrong with a male best friend and 2 exes? Like, HUH?! I might not get it because I am a boy who mainly dates other boys but I feel that saying a girl’s status is lowered because of a male best friend is very odd.
Also I have had more than 2 exes and I don’t think I’m THAT bad.
Nothing wrong with either, but some people are more hesitant to date someone with a body count because it tells them that the person either might sleep around with people, or is bad at relationships. Personally, I wouldnt date a girl with a bodycount above 5 within the last few years (2 or 3). Its a risk to yourself.
@@fxdefiancy I never said sh!t about body count
You might be uncomfortable wih a girl that had a lot of relationships and meets regularly and with another man and they do "close" stuff together (naturally in private) ?
@@ChipsofShrimp ... Having exes is a bodycount, are you slow? Bodycount does not specifically refer to sexual relationships, Im referring to relationships in general. So yes, you did say shit about bodycounts when you brought up having exes, lmao.
@@fxdefiancy that isn’t what body count means…?