Did ya’ll listen to the story, while I’m not excusing him, they were friends with the guy for a very long time. So of course you’d believe your friend for much longer than a new kid
The first thing I will teach my son is to never assume, that relationships work like in movies. I think big part of this disappointment when they get rejected are these unreal expectations of relationships.
@@Ehud-lc6vvbefore that there was a number of movies like American Pie, I love you Beth Cooper, and many others where a Hopelessly romantic nerd gets their dream girl. I feel like a lot of those movies gave folks like me a lot of unfulfillable expectations on how relationships happen and the worst ended up on this list!
First thing imma teach my son is how shallow, deceptive and overall depressing dating w women is. 1. Never set any expectations. Be kind, but don't ever be nice with the intention of getting something back. This goes for every human you encounter. 2. Improve your appearance as much as possible. Despite what women say, this matters way more than they lead on. 3. Women say things and do different things. 4. Leave before she takes your things if you get a bad vibe from her. 5. Do not initiate intimacy. Never been more of a risk than it is now, even when you ask, insist that she's fine with it, as you could be accused of anything, even after the act is done nowadays. If she likes you, she'll ask or initiate herself. 6. If she lays hands on you, you don't do *anything* to her. And other stuff like that. Please teach your sons that, no matter how sad it may be, dating is severely difficult.
8:38 _"Of course, I'm the bad girl in that situation and he's just cliché, hopelessly in love, best friend, good guy, finishing last as always. Someone even boo'd me"_ Can you fucking imagine booing someone you know absolutely NOTHING about merely because you think you're somehow entitled to seeing a romantic little fairytale ending?? And you feel that because of this, these two strangers are somehow in need of YOUR input?? Because you think you, grand witness of like 0% of their life, know better somehow?? *_Fucking wild_*
I honestly think Adam is a great name, even if biblical. I’m personally not religious but I feel there’s a correlation between people with religious names and being problematic. Their parents are likely religious, so they would be, too. No offense to you, though, I wouldn’t treat you differently if I didn’t know who you were except for your name. I’m just saying that it seems to be a correlation.
@@Boogeyman134 'nice' is good behavior, but not exactly from a good heart/intention. 'kind' is good behavior from good heart/intention. basically being kind for the sake of being kind.
when nice guys snap, they call you what they wanted you to be for them. when you disappointed their false perception, they are offended to the core and let it all out.
And then girls will sleep with, pine over and endlessly forgive guys that treat them like dirt, proving that the nice guys are in fact right, the girls just fon't want to think about how trashy they are.
To the girl’s “friends” in the second story: If you think that guy is so sweet and wonderful, why don’t YOU try him out for yourselves, instead of pressuring your friend, who clearly wasn’t important enough to check up on throughout that whole ordeal?
They were no friends of hers. "Normal" friends wouldn't suddenly end a friendship and be offended just because I (supposedly) stood someone up. If anything, they'd find it borderline entertaining, and rush to me to find out the deets. Their reaction was weird. Sounds like the trash took themselves out!
First story: you wanna unalive yourself? Okay tell me where you are right now. Okay got it... Now you get to talk to emergency dispatch. Where I live as a security guard we're classified as "Mandatory reporters" the same as a doctor, teacher, gym coach, laywer, social worker. ETC, so by law you tell me that you have plans to unalive yourself I'm mandated by law to report it.
These kinds of guys really don't see women/girls as human or independent individuals with their own standards and wants. Parents, please raise your kids to understand and accept rejection.
Something girls don't understand about being male is how much rejection average men have to put up with. Imagine that no man ever saw you as attractive. Not even one. Not even slightly. Worse, even though they were polite, you could see that you disgusted them. What would that do to you? Cos that is what many women expect below average guys (50%) to just accept with good grace. For year, after year, after year, till they either become attractive or die.
Also there’s never a reason to continue or start a relationship. My mother doesn’t understand that “I don’t want to be friends anymore” is a complete sentence
Honestly, some people are just wired that way. 100% non synthetic asshole. No amount of good parenting can change them. I've seen angels for parents have satan for child.
In middle school, I was stalked by a nice guy. We used to be pretty chill, were friends since early elementary, I think I even knew him as early as preschool. Both also being in the same TheBoys™ friend group. Suddenly one day, he just got noticably weird, or I guess weirder than usual. He started always finding excuses to be as close to me as possible, eventually also sending the standard issue nice guy love letters that boil down to "date me or I'll harm myself" I kinda just endured it for a few months, just actively avoiding him however possible, when I finally had the courage to just flatly tell him Ive already got a gf. He actually took it well, but things between us were never quite the same. The 2020 lockdown eventually unceremoniously pulled the plug fully, haven't seem him since... or any of the other TheBoys™...
A man bought me 1 shot at a bar. I didn't want it. He kept forcing me until I took it lol He said I owed him a kiss now! I told him no no no noooo. He said he wasted his money now. I told him he should learn how to manage his money then lol I have waaaaaaaayyyy more stories omglol
im out as trans formerly gay and i have had one experience with a nice guy. it was the same thing for straight people. he tried to manipulate me and was very clingy. he wouldnt leave me alone and i had to block him and he left me alone finally
I had a "nice" guy hit on me at work and one of his lines was to tell me how and why he got fired at his last job. Thankfully I was bar certified and he wasn't so I could hide in the bar area and the managers understood why. He also didn't last too long afterwards.
I think its safe to say that my guy friend is an actual nice guy and not a Nice Guy. I know this because he's in a relationship with his boyfriend and I'm a girl.
I was kind of a nice guy once. Once in middle school, I was in the production of a school play, I got bored and decided to ask this girl who I thought was cute if she was single. She laughed and said no, but her friends said yes and kibd of encouraged her to go out with me. I kind of followed her for a few minutes, giving her compliments. I never did anything like that again. Cherry on top, one of the friends who encouraged her, became her boyfriend for a time. We became acquaintances in high school when we both worked in the school's news class. Not friends, just friendly. Even after 6 or 7 years since that I still cringe at myself.
For that Frank story, OP shouldn’t have been called to the principal regardless. Even if he was telling the truth and she did break up with him, she’s not responsible for his actions. She shouldn’t be questioned like it was her fault.
@@Markoscool1 Internet slang, sarcastic, derogatory) A man who pretends to be kind and polite with the goal of attracting women, often becoming hostile and misogynistic when their advances are rebuffed; someone affected by nice guy syndrome” Basically they’re ”nice guys” because they want to appeal by being nice
Had my own experience with a gay nice guy, when we initially met he talked about trying a start a DnD group and I was interested so I gave him my number. After a few days of some texting he started to flirt with me, I told him I wasn't gay or bi but he insisted I try but I was stern on my decision. In reality I'm actually somewhat bi but I absolutely didn't find him attractive and a bit weird, and his hygiene was poor. I blocked him after he said something about crying and wanting to kill himself. Thankfully he never showed up to the group I met him at ever again.
@@rubenbigbro9005 Probably you. A “nice guy” in 2024 is usually referring to someone who thinks they deserve something for doing acts of kindness or basically acts super self centered and thinks that they can do no wrong and the reason they’re being treated badly is for no reason. So basically it’s not actually being a nice guy. Also sorry for lack of punctuation I just don’t really wanna think that hard right now.
Story #10 Good of Op calling that creep out. The kid has some serious problems. Story #11 I would have already been out the bedroom window Story #12 Way to get out of that situation OP
The first lesson I will teach my son is to never assume that relationships work the way they do in movies. I believe much of the disappointment from rejection comes from these unrealistic expectations about relationships.
A real nice guy won’t pressure you, he’ll respect you. That what I live by. I don’t need to say I’m nice, I just try to actually be nice. And even then, you don’t want a “nice” guy. You want a guy who is “kind”. Nice guys just want one thing, so ladies respect yourselves and find someone who will be kind and love you no matter what and make sure you do the same for him
a guy in my class invited me to his house for food and iwas like okay but when i got there he closed his house and tried to kiss me not even 1 minute in i gently pushed him off me and noped the f out of there immediately note i used to think he was a nice guy through out our interactions in class
"Nice" people are entitled. That's the definition of a "Nice guy" or that of a "Crazy girlfriend". They feel like no matter what, just because they offer something, that being gifts, money or even love they have the permission to act like absolute menaces
3:25, if this person had any real friends, they would understand when they tell them that they never agreed to go on a date. Make important friendships, not just as many friends as you can.
I used to smoke weed with my buddies at night at my local middle school. But I was 16, went to that middle school for 3 years, and was currently going to the town's highschool literally across the street lol im assuimg the first guy was an adult? 😂😂😂
The story at 17:58 sooo… it sounds like “nice guys” must really and truly believe that most men are going around SAing women any chance they get, as a norm, so by default for them to not do that, despite any other glaring flaws, it makes them a superior dating candidate.
He's appropriate, because a lot of these people, in their twisted minds, think they're just like him: a swell, nice guy that girls "just won't give a chance".
"Wow, I talked to a girl!" Probably because of that. But to me thats funny, not creepy, he was a teenager boy and he didnt act badly, its just his inner voice.
One time a "nice guy" or at least a guy that SEEMED nice (he was not. He was a creep.) When we were in middle school said to me i had "a nice hourglass figure" WE WERE THIRTEEN. (He also SAed me throughout the year and harrassed me for pics over text but thats beside the point)
These have to be fake I refuse people like that exist. Idk what defines a “nice guy” because so far these individuals all sound like sociopaths. I don’t think even “mean guys” act like these types of people. By “nice guy” modern terms people use nowadays I’m assuming they’re actually the “mean guys”? Idk I’m looking too much into it now
I think I may have been the nice guy, there was a female coworker who started working at my job when she was 17 (I had no interest in her and didn’t do anything while she was 17) (I was 22 at the time) but she got close with another coworker I was close with and this other coworker told me the two of us were a good match still I didn’t pursue anything with her because she was 17, two months later she turned 18 and almost right away she started flirting with me and following me around at work, and I even flirted back a handful of times, well after a bit there’s these fake flowers at work and I jokingly give her a pink one where she replied “it’s broke and blue is my favorite color” before asking me to promise to get her a new one… so I did, I got her a nice preserved blue rose in a glass case and give it to her as a gift for Valentine’s Day, admittedly a bit overboard but she was really laying it on thick she was interested so a couple days later I straight up asked her on a date that she agreed to only to find out a week later she had a boyfriend the entire time and all this time she was talking behind my back about me so I apologize and stopped talking to her only for her to go to HR and write me up
If women just clearly communicate, what they find creepy or why they don't want to meet anymore, at least the guy would have a chance to improve himself
Don't have anything to say about the stories, just wanted to say I show my mum the video, and she got REALLY upset with the whoever is player Spyro in ya background, she's such a backseater lmao 👌
Now do the "nice girl version" there's nothing wrong with being nice and respectful the problem is that these people were pretending to be that and ruminate for guys that actually show women and other people respect you have to be okay with rejection that's part of the game if they don't like you accepted and move on but honestly I also believe how a person is rejected matters too a simple no I'm not interested or I have a boyfriend would be great the bottom line if you are rejected move on you cannot force people to be attracted to you if it's NO then it's NO! But I also believe that these stories kind of sound like people who were just socially awkward who may not have experience with being around a lot of people but they still have to understand that rejection is rejection move on
Thats why i try a perfect balance. Ill hold door for somone right behind me but id somone is 10 second awag i wont. Even if a girl i find attractive and could use it as a excuse for a quick small talk. Onle exseption is if the person arms are full. Then nust hold it open long enough for thrm to be able to hold it open with there body and leave.
the problem isnt the actions themselves, it's the motive behind them. as long as you're being genuine and not just trying to make someone date you there's absolutely nothing wrong with holding the door for somebody who isnt right behind you, attractive or otherwise. dont let the actions of these nutjobs discourage you from actually being nice
@mztweety1374 i'm a man so that already breaks your premise. Lol. Nah, the exception to the ruling doesnt break the ruling but only further exactritates the ruling :/ Boys pretending to be men are attrqcted to flashy lifestyles like dating coaches and anything else that allows them to be misogonost to women just because the single target of theirs wasnt intereseted and instead of moving on they act out of bitterness to all women just because they liked somebody who wasnt interested in them at all. Most humans are so easy to read. The things i would do for coffee
Well if you don't have any bad or malicious intent then you don't really have to worry about someone mispotraying your kindness. All of these "nice" guys have that.
It'd be nice if all these stories weren't 2-5 years old & actually new, but I guess it's easier to copy everyone else's vids & reread all the same old stories
Don't waste your time. Its the pathology of the victim. They'll either work their way through it or succumb to it. Just focus on the normal people in life for the sake of your own health.❤
The second one is her own fault lol, everyone even the girls, talked good about him and she still didn't want to because she was looking for you know what Ofc that makes guys snap that are pure at heart but get treated like shiat
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The second story was scary.
How delusional and narcissistic do you have to be, to do any of this.
They were never her "friends" to begin with if they just sided with this guy automatically and forever.
Tbh, I was more angry about her so called friends. Didn't they think to check over their friend before this guy?
Did ya’ll listen to the story, while I’m not excusing him, they were friends with the guy for a very long time. So of course you’d believe your friend for much longer than a new kid
Pro Tip: If you have to tell people you're nice, you probably aren't.
69th 👍
Pro Tip: let others decide whether you are pretty, smart or nice.
My 0.02 euros.
I know right, every time I have ever heard someone say they were a nice person they were yelling at someone
That's not how that works, are you a child?
@@Kingcobra6699This is so true. Way too many arrogant people with huge egos from believing they’re something they aren’t.
The first thing I will teach my son is to never assume, that relationships work like in movies. I think big part of this disappointment when they get rejected are these unreal expectations of relationships.
I believe Jim Halpert ruined a generation of men. He was the “Patient 0” of our current Nice Guy Pandemic.
@@Ehud-lc6vvbefore that there was a number of movies like American Pie, I love you Beth Cooper, and many others where a Hopelessly romantic nerd gets their dream girl. I feel like a lot of those movies gave folks like me a lot of unfulfillable expectations on how relationships happen and the worst ended up on this list!
@@Ehud-lc6vv It happened long before then, and Pam was into him anyway. Not a good example.
First thing imma teach my son is how shallow, deceptive and overall depressing dating w women is.
1. Never set any expectations. Be kind, but don't ever be nice with the intention of getting something back. This goes for every human you encounter.
2. Improve your appearance as much as possible. Despite what women say, this matters way more than they lead on.
3. Women say things and do different things.
4. Leave before she takes your things if you get a bad vibe from her.
5. Do not initiate intimacy. Never been more of a risk than it is now, even when you ask, insist that she's fine with it, as you could be accused of anything, even after the act is done nowadays. If she likes you, she'll ask or initiate herself.
6. If she lays hands on you, you don't do *anything* to her.
And other stuff like that. Please teach your sons that, no matter how sad it may be, dating is severely difficult.
@@toongamer2810well said!
I truly admire the girl from the second story, you don't owe anything to no one, that type of friends aren't friends but hidden enemies
8:38 _"Of course, I'm the bad girl in that situation and he's just cliché, hopelessly in love, best friend, good guy, finishing last as always. Someone even boo'd me"_
Can you fucking imagine booing someone you know absolutely NOTHING about merely because you think you're somehow entitled to seeing a romantic little fairytale ending?? And you feel that because of this, these two strangers are somehow in need of YOUR input?? Because you think you, grand witness of like 0% of their life, know better somehow??
*_Fucking wild_*
3:31 Holy crap, I've only heard of this level of evil from TV shows. That guy is a legit psycho.
My name is Adam and this video makes me want to legally change my name
Don't were are not all cunts
I honestly think Adam is a great name, even if biblical. I’m personally not religious but I feel there’s a correlation between people with religious names and being problematic. Their parents are likely religious, so they would be, too. No offense to you, though, I wouldn’t treat you differently if I didn’t know who you were except for your name. I’m just saying that it seems to be a correlation.
Respect to all real nice guys, the world needs people like them
There is a difference between "nice guys" and "kind guys" .
@@Seth-MAD-manwhat the difference ?
@@Boogeyman134 'nice' is good behavior, but not exactly from a good heart/intention. 'kind' is good behavior from good heart/intention. basically being kind for the sake of being kind.
@TBHWHOKNOWS ah I see thanks for explaining ❤️
@@Boogeyman134 glad to help!
Some of these are assault and kidnapping. These are horrible.
when nice guys snap, they call you what they wanted you to be for them. when you disappointed their false perception, they are offended to the core and let it all out.
And then girls will sleep with, pine over and endlessly forgive guys that treat them like dirt, proving that the nice guys are in fact right, the girls just fon't want to think about how trashy they are.
To the girl’s “friends” in the second story: If you think that guy is so sweet and wonderful, why don’t YOU try him out for yourselves, instead of pressuring your friend, who clearly wasn’t important enough to check up on throughout that whole ordeal?
They were no friends of hers. "Normal" friends wouldn't suddenly end a friendship and be offended just because I (supposedly) stood someone up. If anything, they'd find it borderline entertaining, and rush to me to find out the deets. Their reaction was weird.
Sounds like the trash took themselves out!
Yea those were no friends, those were losers.
theres a vip section in hell for the 2nd guy.
First story: you wanna unalive yourself? Okay tell me where you are right now. Okay got it... Now you get to talk to emergency dispatch.
Where I live as a security guard we're classified as "Mandatory reporters" the same as a doctor, teacher, gym coach, laywer, social worker. ETC, so by law you tell me that you have plans to unalive yourself I'm mandated by law to report it.
These kinds of guys really don't see women/girls as human or independent individuals with their own standards and wants. Parents, please raise your kids to understand and accept rejection.
Something girls don't understand about being male is how much rejection average men have to put up with.
Imagine that no man ever saw you as attractive. Not even one. Not even slightly. Worse, even though they were polite, you could see that you disgusted them.
What would that do to you? Cos that is what many women expect below average guys (50%) to just accept with good grace. For year, after year, after year, till they either become attractive or die.
Also there’s never a reason to continue or start a relationship. My mother doesn’t understand that “I don’t want to be friends anymore” is a complete sentence
Nice guys need to ditch the fedora, Doritos and Mountain Dew, leave their parents' basement, touch some grass and realize that women are people too.
Honestly, some people are just wired that way. 100% non synthetic asshole. No amount of good parenting can change them. I've seen angels for parents have satan for child.
Mind you that one of the listed was gay too
First guy sounds like a sociopath.
as a sociopath, no, just a really creepy guy without boundaries
Nah a real one would be much more charming. He’s someone who gets obsessed easily and doesn’t have boundaries, nothing more than that.
Man don't do my boy Izuku like that
I hate when gay “nice guys” make it hard for straight and gay people to be friends because straight people hear these stories and get scared.
8:14 people cheering for something like this is such a real life moment
And it just fueled his delusion of this being like a movie moment even further, I'd bet. Some stander-by calling out "say yes!".
Nice guys are the reason why regular guys can't pick up dates
If something feels off or makes you uncomfortable, it’s okay to distance yourself or say no. Your feelings are valid.
Most of these dudes are the type to make multiple accounts to try to stay in contact after being ghosted tbh
In middle school, I was stalked by a nice guy. We used to be pretty chill, were friends since early elementary, I think I even knew him as early as preschool. Both also being in the same TheBoys™ friend group. Suddenly one day, he just got noticably weird, or I guess weirder than usual.
He started always finding excuses to be as close to me as possible, eventually also sending the standard issue nice guy love letters that boil down to "date me or I'll harm myself"
I kinda just endured it for a few months, just actively avoiding him however possible, when I finally had the courage to just flatly tell him Ive already got a gf. He actually took it well, but things between us were never quite the same.
The 2020 lockdown eventually unceremoniously pulled the plug fully, haven't seem him since... or any of the other TheBoys™...
A man bought me 1 shot at a bar. I didn't want it. He kept forcing me until I took it lol He said I owed him a kiss now! I told him no no no noooo. He said he wasted his money now. I told him he should learn how to manage his money then lol I have waaaaaaaayyyy more stories omglol
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im out as trans formerly gay and i have had one experience with a nice guy. it was the same thing for straight people. he tried to manipulate me and was very clingy. he wouldnt leave me alone and i had to block him and he left me alone finally
I had a "nice" guy hit on me at work and one of his lines was to tell me how and why he got fired at his last job. Thankfully I was bar certified and he wasn't so I could hide in the bar area and the managers understood why. He also didn't last too long afterwards.
What was the reason?
I think its safe to say that my guy friend is an actual nice guy and not a Nice Guy. I know this because he's in a relationship with his boyfriend and I'm a girl.
Second story: is anyone else picturing Eric Cartman?
I was kind of a nice guy once. Once in middle school, I was in the production of a school play, I got bored and decided to ask this girl who I thought was cute if she was single. She laughed and said no, but her friends said yes and kibd of encouraged her to go out with me. I kind of followed her for a few minutes, giving her compliments. I never did anything like that again. Cherry on top, one of the friends who encouraged her, became her boyfriend for a time.
We became acquaintances in high school when we both worked in the school's news class. Not friends, just friendly.
Even after 6 or 7 years since that I still cringe at myself.
Giving her compliments to a girl that reject you gives other vibes
That's alright man we all have cringey phases
Were they genuine compliments from the heart or were you just saying shi to try to win her over.
For that Frank story, OP shouldn’t have been called to the principal regardless. Even if he was telling the truth and she did break up with him, she’s not responsible for his actions. She shouldn’t be questioned like it was her fault.
These guys don’t sound like nice guys at all, more like creeps
Idk the exact definition but I think nice guys aren't actually nice or something
@@real_yunicellular bruh then the title should be rude guys or sum
@@Markoscool1 Internet slang, sarcastic, derogatory) A man who pretends to be kind and polite with the goal of attracting women, often becoming hostile and misogynistic when their advances are rebuffed; someone affected by nice guy syndrome”
Basically they’re ”nice guys” because they want to appeal by being nice
Had my own experience with a gay nice guy, when we initially met he talked about trying a start a DnD group and I was interested so I gave him my number. After a few days of some texting he started to flirt with me, I told him I wasn't gay or bi but he insisted I try but I was stern on my decision. In reality I'm actually somewhat bi but I absolutely didn't find him attractive and a bit weird, and his hygiene was poor. I blocked him after he said something about crying and wanting to kill himself. Thankfully he never showed up to the group I met him at ever again.
0:44 bruh that’s not a nice guy that’s a dud pretending to be a nice guy 😑
That’s literally what a nice guy is. They aren’t actually nice they’re just munipative and cruel. There’s only good men no real nice guys.
Bro is unaware of the term nice guy in 2024
@ sorry i must be dumb but is that sentence targeted at me or the person who made the video im a bit slow lol
@@rubenbigbro9005 Probably you. A “nice guy” in 2024 is usually referring to someone who thinks they deserve something for doing acts of kindness or basically acts super self centered and thinks that they can do no wrong and the reason they’re being treated badly is for no reason.
So basically it’s not actually being a nice guy. Also sorry for lack of punctuation I just don’t really wanna think that hard right now.
@@rubenbigbro9005 targetted for you.
Story #10 Good of Op calling that creep out. The kid has some serious problems.
Story #11 I would have already been out the bedroom window
Story #12 Way to get out of that situation OP
The first lesson I will teach my son is to never assume that relationships work the way they do in movies. I believe much of the disappointment from rejection comes from these unrealistic expectations about relationships.
You literally copied this comment and tweaked a couple words bro you are not slick
A real nice guy won’t pressure you, he’ll respect you. That what I live by. I don’t need to say I’m nice, I just try to actually be nice. And even then, you don’t want a “nice” guy. You want a guy who is “kind”. Nice guys just want one thing, so ladies respect yourselves and find someone who will be kind and love you no matter what and make sure you do the same for him
14:20 if this is you playing this game in the background you’re starting to piss me off by missing the stupid target
this guys voice is so amazing
Story 8: Being a fan of Hazbin Hotel, this is hilarious. 😂
The people in these stories certainly think of themselves as dickmasters
Remember fellas, be kind, not nice
He punched a hole in my screen door, just because I wouldn’t go to a movie with him.
Never pity the guy (or girl) who has "never been loved", theres almost always a reason
a guy in my class invited me to his house for food and iwas like okay but when i got there he closed his house and tried to kiss me not even 1 minute in i gently pushed him off me and noped the f out of there immediately note i used to think he was a nice guy through out our interactions in class
"Nice" people are entitled. That's the definition of a "Nice guy" or that of a "Crazy girlfriend". They feel like no matter what, just because they offer something, that being gifts, money or even love they have the permission to act like absolute menaces
This is scary sh*t.
Some of these are horrifying, especially #12. That isnt a nice guy, thats a serial killer 😮
#4 is kind of funny though, thats just awkward flirting
3:25, if this person had any real friends, they would understand when they tell them that they never agreed to go on a date. Make important friendships, not just as many friends as you can.
A veces, ser amable no significa presionar a los demás.
I used to smoke weed with my buddies at night at my local middle school. But I was 16, went to that middle school for 3 years, and was currently going to the town's highschool literally across the street lol im assuimg the first guy was an adult? 😂😂😂
Guys with asperger can be lovely people but they can be some serious pieces of work too 😅
Yeah people like to pretend I'm not nice because I can read their dumbass minds
9:45 Adam spelled backwards is Mada so yeah that fits. You Mada, Bro?
They are called Eugenes
The REAL reason “nice” guys finish last
One told me to unhand my girlfriend in front of everyone. Then he told me to break up with her and give him a chance.
Theres a diff between nice and good remember that. Nice looks nice but good is good.
Trouble with the trolley, ay?
The story at 17:58 sooo… it sounds like “nice guys” must really and truly believe that most men are going around SAing women any chance they get, as a norm, so by default for them to not do that, despite any other glaring flaws, it makes them a superior dating candidate.
Why’s Izuku on the thumbnail?
Yeah, he's ACTUALLY a nice guy. He's not one of these nutjobs.
He's appropriate, because a lot of these people, in their twisted minds, think they're just like him: a swell, nice guy that girls "just won't give a chance".
Yeah, that's just besmirching our precious child.
Because he's more than likely a target for "nice guys" since he's too nice to everyone. Gay/bi nice guys are equally annoying as straight ones.
"Wow, I talked to a girl!"
Probably because of that. But to me thats funny, not creepy, he was a teenager boy and he didnt act badly, its just his inner voice.
One time a "nice guy" or at least a guy that SEEMED nice (he was not. He was a creep.) When we were in middle school said to me i had "a nice hourglass figure" WE WERE THIRTEEN.
(He also SAed me throughout the year and harrassed me for pics over text but thats beside the point)
The first guy was prolly Pedro Diddy
These nice guys make the rest of us guys look bad
1:46 Gotta give him respect for having the balls to ask someone out in front of their friends
14:40 FOR THE LOVE OF GOD TIME IT
These have to be fake I refuse people like that exist. Idk what defines a “nice guy” because so far these individuals all sound like sociopaths. I don’t think even “mean guys” act like these types of people. By “nice guy” modern terms people use nowadays I’m assuming they’re actually the “mean guys”? Idk I’m looking too much into it now
I think I may have been the nice guy, there was a female coworker who started working at my job when she was 17 (I had no interest in her and didn’t do anything while she was 17) (I was 22 at the time) but she got close with another coworker I was close with and this other coworker told me the two of us were a good match still I didn’t pursue anything with her because she was 17, two months later she turned 18 and almost right away she started flirting with me and following me around at work, and I even flirted back a handful of times, well after a bit there’s these fake flowers at work and I jokingly give her a pink one where she replied “it’s broke and blue is my favorite color” before asking me to promise to get her a new one… so I did, I got her a nice preserved blue rose in a glass case and give it to her as a gift for Valentine’s Day, admittedly a bit overboard but she was really laying it on thick she was interested so a couple days later I straight up asked her on a date that she agreed to only to find out a week later she had a boyfriend the entire time and all this time she was talking behind my back about me so I apologize and stopped talking to her only for her to go to HR and write me up
I was that guy one night at a party, I was drunk and don't know what I said, but she punched me in the face and cut my lip.
Bruh, screw the dude in story 4. Using a condition like that as an excuse to get what they want is just a-hole behaviour
0:07 okc? radiohead?
If women just clearly communicate, what they find creepy or why they don't want to meet anymore, at least the guy would have a chance to improve himself
We tell y'all all the time 😂
Don't have anything to say about the stories, just wanted to say I show my mum the video, and she got REALLY upset with the whoever is player Spyro in ya background, she's such a backseater lmao 👌
Lmao. Deku.
My gfs asian so the amount of weed nice guys she gets is unreal she's filipina not japanese 😂
Now do the "nice girl version" there's nothing wrong with being nice and respectful the problem is that these people were pretending to be that and ruminate for guys that actually show women and other people respect you have to be okay with rejection that's part of the game if they don't like you accepted and move on but honestly I also believe how a person is rejected matters too a simple no I'm not interested or I have a boyfriend would be great the bottom line if you are rejected move on you cannot force people to be attracted to you if it's NO then it's NO!
But I also believe that these stories kind of sound like people who were just socially awkward who may not have experience with being around a lot of people but they still have to understand that rejection is rejection move on
Thats why i try a perfect balance. Ill hold door for somone right behind me but id somone is 10 second awag i wont. Even if a girl i find attractive and could use it as a excuse for a quick small talk. Onle exseption is if the person arms are full. Then nust hold it open long enough for thrm to be able to hold it open with there body and leave.
the problem isnt the actions themselves, it's the motive behind them. as long as you're being genuine and not just trying to make someone date you there's absolutely nothing wrong with holding the door for somebody who isnt right behind you, attractive or otherwise. dont let the actions of these nutjobs discourage you from actually being nice
@@thesupremeduckno girl cares about you holding a door. They care if you black their eye
@@Christophercurtis22 thank you for sharing ChrisCthePervert
question missed those weren't nice guys
Guys are you paying attention.? None of this crap is okay
Since when do men listen to women?
Men only listen to other men so if you want men to listen then you got to be a man.
Grow a pair, it's easy, i got born with mine lol 😂
@youtubestudiosucks978 exactly
@mztweety1374 i'm a man so that already breaks your premise. Lol.
Nah, the exception to the ruling doesnt break the ruling but only further exactritates the ruling :/
Boys pretending to be men are attrqcted to flashy lifestyles like dating coaches and anything else that allows them to be misogonost to women just because the single target of theirs wasnt intereseted and instead of moving on they act out of bitterness to all women just because they liked somebody who wasnt interested in them at all.
Most humans are so easy to read.
The things i would do for coffee
I always get nervous to watch these stories. I feel like something I’ve done would be an example, misportraying my kindness for being some pouty incel
Well if you don't have any bad or malicious intent then you don't really have to worry about someone mispotraying your kindness. All of these "nice" guys have that.
My name is Adam 😢
These are nice guys?
18:52 ew
Meta nice gue
Thats not a chad btw
It'd be nice if all these stories weren't 2-5 years old & actually new, but I guess it's easier to copy everyone else's vids & reread all the same old stories
If they don't like nice guys, let them get cats ;-)
You’re one of ‘them’ aren’t you?
@ yeah, and married 😎
Ok , there's two kinds of nice guys, the good people, and then these guys who are basically a combo of teachers pets and yanderes. The second is bad
@@ylpea5170real husbands don't use their significant other to prove a point. Shame on you ,man, treat them better than that
These AREN'T "nice guys" These are chads and tyrones that the girls changed their minds about and are unable to take accountability for...😅😅😅
found the nice guy
Imagine outing yourself like this
With the use of "chads" and "tyrones", I'd say found the 'nice guy' incel.
Imagine being a 78-year-old incel.
Don't waste your time. Its the pathology of the victim. They'll either work their way through it or succumb to it. Just focus on the normal people in life for the sake of your own health.❤
The second one is her own fault lol, everyone even the girls, talked good about him and she still didn't want to because she was looking for you know what
Ofc that makes guys snap that are pure at heart but get treated like shiat
Women are allowed to reject men. No one has to like you 😮💨