I AM an 89 year old Granny and by golly never in my Life did I ever believe Woman would finally Hear THE TRUTH…OMG SO GRATEFUL…ALL WOMAN SHOULD HEAR THIS…I MEAN ALL …I SO APPRECIATE THIS VALUABLE INFORMATION…❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤.
She makes a few good points, but there is one glaring issue with her assumptions. Biology and evolution don't give a single, cross eyed, red headed damn about 'social constructs' and 'gender roles'. Men orgasm easier than women becuase if men don't orgasm, they don't reproduce. Women can reproduce without orgasm, so the selective pressure of orgasm is not a factor. So yes, it's absolutely possible, and even probable, that women have a harder time reaching orgasm due to biology. But it's not that women are hard to bring to orgasm, but that it's so comparatively easy to bring a man to orgasm. Want to get off more often? Tell your partner what you like and need. Help out, even. You're adults. Take responsibility for yourself.
Rick Cutshall .. Disagree. The assumption that a guy's orgasm is easier than a girl's is a complete myth. It's exactly the same time. Please listen to the video again.
Talking about equality of pleasure is significant. I think the first barrier to get across this inequality is communication. Speak to your partner - your likes, your dislikes and all that make you feel happy and content. The act is for both to enjoy - that is what all of humanity does.
What she did really well in this talk, unlike many other equality discussions in today's day in age, is she was very open about saying that this wasn't all just because of men or a certain group of people. She did an excellent job in pointing out that as a collective society, men and women, we should change how we look at this issue not to take away the benefits that it already gives but rather add more benefits for the other party involved. Greatly worded and put together talk.
I didn’t see it like that. It’s not ever been something I’ve thought about. If I’m there to have a good time, so is she and if the job doesn’t get done one way you step it up and do something else. To some how insist that there’s a systemic problem of men being lazy goes a bit far. It’s certainly not been my experience.
Most of the complaints come from having a bad partner or lack of experience. Don't sleep around with randos that only care about themselves, that's a huge start.
"Today, I'm gonna be talking to you about sex". I'm genuinely surprised no one in the crowd yelled "YES!" after that bold statment DISCLAIMER: I have no idea why this video was recommended to me. Honest.
@@Nimrodel84 You must realize that it's your life your needs your body. You have the right to speak your mind. It is not sinful or wrong but it's your right.
You said it! I don't see this as a Big social problem as she puts it, like if you and your partner communicate properly then this doesn't exist. I still find the talk interesting and very useful.
Men are not mind readers, generally speaking, women need to speak up, and let men know what they want, different women like different things, I think most men would be happy to oblige!
I'm so tired of hearing about how we're victims of ideas that exist. Take responsibility for your own life and fulfillment. It's not a competition, it's a collaboration. Collaborate with someone who's good to you and it's probably going to be good.
All she is saying is for people to be more aware of others, if you really care for a person this should be instinctive. Yes we should take responsibility for our own happiness, and like she said, a woman should feel empowered enough to ask, but the reality is, a lot of women feel awkward. We don't live in a perfect world, and it takes communication and a little bit of empathy to move in that direction
MrRedwingsfan16 or to hit the same idea from the other direction, buck up and stop thinking of yourself as a victim. It's incumbent upon you to pursue the happiness you desire. It's not incumbent upon others to provide it. But they might provide it if you ask.
Robert Johnson that's a very good realization, but unfortunately not everyone's brain works the same way. That's why people like you that have realized that, can only do the best they can to help others realize that. Hence my point of empathy and awareness go a long way.
Very well said and very well put . Extremely well delivered on a subject least talked about ,and least demanded by wemen. Hats off to her for making the awareness of equality of this commodity for both sexes. Hurrah to her.
U need a manual well ur partner is the manual listen and explore together she knows what she wants just read the signs just like treasure hunt hot and cold
When it comes to that pressure to have vaginally orgasm, believe me there is pressure on men to make that happen as well. If we are wanting to change societal expectations on women to have a vaginally orgasm we need to change the expectation on men to give her one. A man who fails to do so is typically viewed by society as not being much of a man, even by women.
@0114mercury how many times have you heard a man bragging about "banging her so good she never came"? Or when was the last time you heard a woman talking about a guy "rocking her world so good she didn't get off at all"? The truth is you have probably never heard either of those things, and if you have you are definitely one of an astronomically infinitesimal number of people who have, like you and maybe enough others to count on one finger if that many. So, like I said, there is tremendous pressure on men to make it happen.
Teach your partner & offer positive yet constructive criticism so that you can help each other. Be vocal & if something isn't happening in real time be respectful to one another & let them know what's happening.
the audience is so dead..I could literally imagine the audience just staring at me with no interactions ,no laughs and nothing .If it would have been me ..I'd literally die out of those glares from people
See, because of the subject matter the presenter was talking about, Kirti expected, very incorrectly, to see the audience breathing faster (as not “so dead”) with lots of moaning😧
Nothing to do with content random rant warning - this college is in the middle of NOWHERE! I used to do their audit when I worked with PWC in the 00s. I spent my entire month of August in this empty college town for four years - needless to say myself and my team spent a great deal of time all alone in the bar at the Best Western. I do not miss you St. Lawerence University. I really needed to get this out I’m sorry everyone.
it was a good discussion, i would like to point just one thing. Men and women are one species not two different. Men and women are equal. These differences of gender, colour, country are just mental boundaries existentially they do not exist. we need to treat everyone equally whether it's Men , Women or any other life form. We all are equal, we all are life, we all are conciousness. Down with all the differences.
A lot of women are bad at saying what they like. For me, I always focus on the women having a good time too, because I don’t have a good time unless they do too.
This is so true. The focus and expectation is that men feel good, and many men are unwilling to put enough effort into learning what gives women true pleasure. Because oftentimes when women feel good, this isn’t as physically stimulating to men. And since women are mostly willing to accept this pleasure disparity, this just renforces the norm.
Their takeaway: women better let us know Real takeaway: men should be making orgasm an equal priority and some women won't ask because they don't feel comfortable.
Most all of the comments are spot on. The bottom line is most men are lazy and or selfish. I love to explore and have fun with my lady. Always ladies first. My second wife was very open on her expectations and what I needed to do. My ego is fine. She was great. My new wife is the same.
I thought this was incredibly well presented. I was impressed by the arguments made for aiming for equity in pleasure shared, but also by her grammar. These days, it's ever more difficult to listen to anyone speak who doesn't say "like" 500 times, but this woman did the English language proud. Very eloquent, very articulate, and indeed I would agree that irrespective of the observable truth that it is easier in general for a man to reach orgasm than a woman, the intention to please each other should be equal to intention of taking pleasure. The tryst should not be wholly satisfying to a man who only cares about his own orgasm, and vice-versa.
The issue lies largely in what Grace just briefly mentioned, letting yourself go. Women need to understand their own body and their own needs. What makes you feel good. It is also a fact that a lot less women have tried masturbation compared to same age groups as men. Explore yourself! And in the end, it boils down to communication. If you don't even know what makes you feel good or what makes your peak, then how on earth can you communicate it to your partner, let alone expect that partner knows better than you do.
Crack code for women:- Note: feed him before u drain him... 1) Stop being indirect... 2) Go to ur man when he is laughing. 3) Say "Let's do something different tonight honey, i need to feel this way and u do it this way. I was waiting for this, come on, smash it" with a smiling face... 4) Enjoy the night with him... Stop taking lectures about feminism and equality for this 1min problem... If has a very -ve response towards u after following the 3 steps... It means that you r not the love of his life, u r the headache of his life... Stop being a headache and try again it should work...
This was so well thought and spoken, not everyone likes to talk on these subjects but she did and she did it quite well, hats off to her and I hope she or other speakers will come up with more videos like this 🙌🏼🙌🏼
Bravo! Love this topic and the wonderful approach to tackling it. For me, my life partner's pleasure and her feeling safe is always the highest priority. The only small thing that didn't get addressed is men that feel embarrassed or ashamed when their female partner does not have an orgasm.. As she talked about, to me this may highlight the need for open and vulnerable communication as a key piece of orgasms for all - i.e. being able to openly tell your partner your needs and carefully listen to theirs.
Mark, truly enjoyed your commentary re this Ted Talk. Agree as well that there should be open and honest communication between partners without judgment, disdain or disrespect. I was fortunate enough to have a boyfriend many, many years ago a truly great listener when it came to all things in our relationship. My only regret was it only lasted 2 years. He was offered a teaching position in the UK he could not pass up. He had many great ideas, thoughts etc. that we discussed on this very subject before we were intimately involved with one another. I can remember the conversation as though it happened yesterday. The 1st thing he asked was," What did I like in a man?" I was at first surprised by this, confused by this, because no one had ever asked me before. My 1st answer to him was a man that goes out of his was to make me feel safe. 2nd was a man that goes out of his way to make me feel special. 3rd was a man that was attentive. 4th was a man that was very thoughtful. 5th a man that was filled with chivalry. I got all of the above and so very much more with this amazing man. And my now partner (of 15 +) years does the same.
@@martinamitchell7612 Sorry to bother you I just want to ask, about your past boyfriend, it seems you loved him very much, you said your regret is that it didn't last more than two years, so, would you have liked to stay with him till now if you had the chance?
@@martinamitchell7612 Okay, so will you leave your current boyfriend for him? And if you love him this much, why didn't you try to pursue the continuation of the relationship with him?
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When you're single and still watch this.
Lol 😂
Glad to know I'm not alone
I feel attacked 😅🤦♂️
So you guys are single?
@@mubangachisha3041 why?
One moment of silence for those who came with their parents to this tedx without knowing topic
lol
See, that's the problem.
@@amrt7755 you are samjhdaar👍
😂😂😂😂 Khatam
@@danial3192 finish😂 satyaanaas hui gayo
I AM an 89 year old Granny and by golly never in my Life did I ever believe Woman would finally Hear THE TRUTH…OMG SO GRATEFUL…ALL WOMAN SHOULD HEAR THIS…I MEAN ALL …I SO APPRECIATE THIS VALUABLE INFORMATION…❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤.
Yho, the silence in this room was of another level.
IT IS NOT POSSIBLE TO DO CLAPPING WITH ONE HAND
Clap them cheeks with no hands
🤣🤣🤣😂@@michaelmelamed9103
I'm going to single handedly fix this problem.
Till when ??
😂
Lol
you might want to use both buddy
Nice one lol
The reason people are quiet is because They are so so focused in taking mental notes
Exactly, like what's the point of this
ARE you from south africa
She makes a few good points, but there is one glaring issue with her assumptions.
Biology and evolution don't give a single, cross eyed, red headed damn about 'social constructs' and 'gender roles'. Men orgasm easier than women becuase if men don't orgasm, they don't reproduce. Women can reproduce without orgasm, so the selective pressure of orgasm is not a factor.
So yes, it's absolutely possible, and even probable, that women have a harder time reaching orgasm due to biology. But it's not that women are hard to bring to orgasm, but that it's so comparatively easy to bring a man to orgasm.
Want to get off more often? Tell your partner what you like and need. Help out, even. You're adults. Take responsibility for yourself.
Well said!
Rick Cutshall
Agree...
Cannot Agree more!
Rick Cutshall .. Disagree. The assumption that a guy's orgasm is easier than a girl's is a complete myth.
It's exactly the same time. Please listen to the video again.
Praneet Joshi TRUST me lady, it does NOT take a man 4 minutes. THAT is not science lmfao
Singles give attendance here
😁
😛😛
Ok RUclips, I've watched it. You happy?
you dog，me too
The first rule of fight club ...............
@@aadityaacharya5902 is you don't talk about fight club
@@kartikeyatiwari8661 you just talked about fight club
@@jayantchaudhary177
You just talked about them talking about fight club. Which is technically talking about fight club.
Not me,I never fake anymore!
The longer you live the more brave and stay true to yourself always! Just tell him! Lol.
IKR lol
You go girl! Be a part of the solution and not the problem.
I wonder if this was all secretly directed at her boyfriend.
@ Infidel Heretic
I wonder if you watched this whole thing thinking "She's hot, what did she say?"
@Waterlec lol it probably was detected to her boyfriend lol. Good one.
@Waterlec The front row was empty. He must have got embarassed and fled the scene!
Kkkkkkk
Infidel Heretic I don’t perceive this girl as straight?
Talking about equality of pleasure is significant. I think the first barrier to get across this inequality is communication. Speak to your partner - your likes, your dislikes and all that make you feel happy and content. The act is for both to enjoy - that is what all of humanity does.
Hey, man, I'll do my best, but if she can't get there in 2.5 minutes, that's why Jesus invented vibrators.... 🥺
What if my partner says "I haven't heard any complaints from others "?
@@likad.5156He should be with others. What is your partner doing with you?
What she did really well in this talk, unlike many other equality discussions in today's day in age, is she was very open about saying that this wasn't all just because of men or a certain group of people. She did an excellent job in pointing out that as a collective society, men and women, we should change how we look at this issue not to take away the benefits that it already gives but rather add more benefits for the other party involved. Greatly worded and put together talk.
I didn’t see it like that.
It’s not ever been something I’ve thought about. If I’m there to have a good time, so is she and if the job doesn’t get done one way you step it up and do something else. To some how insist that there’s a systemic problem of men being lazy goes a bit far. It’s certainly not been my experience.
Most of the complaints come from having a bad partner or lack of experience.
Don't sleep around with randos that only care about themselves, that's a huge start.
That's how many equality discussions are
1st
2nd
"Today, I'm gonna be talking to you about sex".
I'm genuinely surprised no one in the crowd yelled "YES!" after that bold statment
DISCLAIMER: I have no idea why this video was recommended to me. Honest.
Rayan A, they yelled inside their heads.
They recommended this to me also, Idk
Yeah...recommended to me also...lol...wtf!
😂😂
Lmao, same here 😥😥😥😐😐😐
Dear youtube, i am single,why am i being recommended this? Is universe sending me some type of signal?
Me too😂😂😂
😂😂
Yes
Depend upon your activity
Elon musk sent you the signal🤣
If this is recommended to you, there is high chance that you are single or long distance relationship 😂😂
No
How do you know.? 🙄 i am in long distance
Hahahhaa
How the f you know
long distance here
I don't have interest in the video but now since RUclips has recommended me 10 th time. The universe is wanting me to watch this video.
Nepali jasto xau ta
@@GutsXGriffith Haha without doubt
same
You know you got recommended this cuz you’re watching something similar to it. 😅
@@jonnymcgrath4816 no i watch ted talks sometimes that's why this got recommended to me
Bottom line ladies take control and tell your partner what you want. If he listens he is a wise guy.
Haha if the women take control of her man she will never have orgasm from him
@@hamzamoussaid4347 what?
They often don't so that's that.
It's not very easy to say what you want when everything in your life told you that you are not allowed to ask those things.
@@Nimrodel84
You must realize that it's your life your needs your body. You have the right to speak your mind. It is not sinful or wrong but it's your right.
It's a simple case of lack of communication & understanding of the the men & women involved.
Ramon Vargas pretty much
Or lack of concern by the male party
Sounds terrible, maybe you need to treat them better.
You said it! I don't see this as a Big social problem as she puts it, like if you and your partner communicate properly then this doesn't exist. I still find the talk interesting and very useful.
Jac Debaires I agree as long as everyone communicates and properly then things should be fine.
Hey guys: If you treat a woman like a queen, she will treat you like a king.
lol
🤣🤣
Men are not mind readers, generally speaking, women need to speak up, and let men know what they want, different women like different things, I think most men would be happy to oblige!
Most. But some would call it a complaint...
Wait till you grow older... Not knowing is formidable excuse ;).
Why I am seeing this ? I don't even have a gf .
It will be helpful in the future.
@@notgayatall5454 Might Be. 😂
Just in case
to stay at safer side ; )
go get one
Is my girlfriend working at RUclips secretly? This was recommended to me!
Lmaoo the best comment ahahah
You just confessed something 😅😂😂😂
Gahaha
Oh, may be fit on this.
I don't know about anyone else, but for me, the woman's pleasure was always the main goal. They deserve all the pleasure we can give them.
Simp
Of course shes wrong
Simp
Simp
Simp
People don’t quite understand when someone says “It’s hard to satisfy a woman”. I only ask them to watch this video - just once.
She actually quotet, that by themselves women and men need approx. equal time amount to reach orgasm. So what are you saying ?
@@fluttersheesh8884 I think he's agreeing and saying that he shows people this video to set them straight :')
In my opinion, my girlfriend's pleasure is more important than mine. without her, I don't get the pleasure.
Beautiful, brave and benevolent. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 Good
👍
On ya
That's what a hero do
Simp
Is there anyone single listening to this?
🤦♂️🤦♂️Here
let's make a group of singles 😂
😁
@@jessicaascano9381 true😂😂
Me I'm 16
Its a matter of educating and listening each other.
I'm so tired of hearing about how we're victims of ideas that exist. Take responsibility for your own life and fulfillment. It's not a competition, it's a collaboration. Collaborate with someone who's good to you and it's probably going to be good.
Couldn't say it any better
All she is saying is for people to be more aware of others, if you really care for a person this should be instinctive. Yes we should take responsibility for our own happiness, and like she said, a woman should feel empowered enough to ask, but the reality is, a lot of women feel awkward. We don't live in a perfect world, and it takes communication and a little bit of empathy to move in that direction
MrRedwingsfan16 or to hit the same idea from the other direction, buck up and stop thinking of yourself as a victim. It's incumbent upon you to pursue the happiness you desire. It's not incumbent upon others to provide it. But they might provide it if you ask.
Robert Johnson women dont get it.. Somehow they believe that men are mindreaders..
Robert Johnson that's a very good realization, but unfortunately not everyone's brain works the same way. That's why people like you that have realized that, can only do the best they can to help others realize that. Hence my point of empathy and awareness go a long way.
She reminded me of the young girl in “ The Incredibles” movie. 🤗🤗
Violet. Oddly enough, her parents first super suits were red and blue... which makes violet.
Haha 😂
@@thomaswhite4231 hey Googleqqaqa~~￦
Damn bro! That's right
Hahahaha
First 3 minutes sounded like a lawyer's disclaimer
yes
True
Sadly you pretty much have to do this before you speak about pretty much anything nowadays..
@@dzfattnutz woke, cancelled, social justice, yadda yadda...
She didn't want to be attacked by the lgbt community
This was much needed!
Thank you for opening up a conversation about it!
3:33 me in every presentation
That damn true for me too
😂
3:36 That was weird. Did she sneeze or something? It appeared to me as if she was laughing for a second
Because No One is Laughing or Cheering. She feels awkward bcoz no one is giving any sign of emotion.
she had an orgasm
@@ivanbreak
Thank you kind sir. For making me laugh.
She forgot what she was about to say
@@hondedtij6761 Agreed. She panicked on stage for a split second before recovering gracefully.
I like how everyone is so silent.
Yaaa i love that
This lady is absolutely first class. She really is.
Hi Akira how are you
@@sajjadahmad9792Ola hu Uber
Very well said and very well put . Extremely well delivered on a subject least talked about ,and least demanded by wemen.
Hats off to her for making the awareness of equality of this commodity for both sexes. Hurrah to her.
Good talk but it would be better if she prepared visuals of what she was talking.
thats what she said
Love this comment
I know, what you did there ;)
U need a manual well ur partner is the manual listen and explore together she knows what she wants just read the signs just like treasure hunt hot and cold
Doodle Master watch it on cornhub
Nice session of SEDx...😅
😂😂😂👍
Creativity level 💯🤣
@ABHISHEK AWASTHI Simp 😂🤣
She has put out all her anger to her husband in this presentation 😂
GODD
When it comes to that pressure to have vaginally orgasm, believe me there is pressure on men to make that happen as well. If we are wanting to change societal expectations on women to have a vaginally orgasm we need to change the expectation on men to give her one. A man who fails to do so is typically viewed by society as not being much of a man, even by women.
"A man who fails to do so is viewed as not being much of a man" - who said that? Never heard of this before.
@0114mercury how many times have you heard a man bragging about "banging her so good she never came"? Or when was the last time you heard a woman talking about a guy "rocking her world so good she didn't get off at all"? The truth is you have probably never heard either of those things, and if you have you are definitely one of an astronomically infinitesimal number of people who have, like you and maybe enough others to count on one finger if that many. So, like I said, there is tremendous pressure on men to make it happen.
@@0114mercury r u kidding???? This is a historic standard. And a man who cant, it so looked down upon. Really?
Completely imaginary. There is no more pressure on men than there is on women.
Teach your partner & offer positive yet constructive criticism so that you can help each other. Be vocal & if something isn't happening in real time be respectful to one another & let them know what's happening.
the audience is so dead..I could literally imagine the audience just staring at me with no interactions ,no laughs and nothing .If it would have been me ..I'd literally die out of those glares from people
That's what you call emotional attention, cause it's all about equality!
See, because of the subject matter the presenter was talking about, Kirti expected, very incorrectly, to see the audience breathing faster (as not “so dead”) with lots of moaning😧
yeah how are you?
They are relating the talk to themselves 😁
Yeah
0:24 How did she not laugh at that pun in front of all those people?
I’m wondering why the audience didn’t laugh? 😂
lol
I need these types of students(Audience) when i teach about reporoductive system
Asking for what you want is a great way to get it. :)
She's been dating the wrong men.
Jason G no doubt about it! 😉
Jason G she is not talking about herself. Have you missed all the statistics she mentioned?
She wasn’t talking about herself
then why do so much research and spend the time talking like this,, some how someway her wrong men affected her...
Frustrations u know
I'm just here because I'm looking for my pet garry, anyone see him?
Yeah, I found him in this video suprisingly at 9:11
Spongebob, It has been one year you wrote this comment, I'm worried, have you found your Garry? Lemme know, Thanks.
Hes in the third row and he said this was his problem for a long time coz you were negecting his needs. 🤣
He’s under a rock
Did you find it mate?
That's a voice that needs to be heard on repeat. Thank you.
Hi keyla
this video's especially recommanded to singles -youtube
😂😂😂
Nice one Johnny ..nice one 👌👌 😂😂
Haha. . .my girlfriend stood up really tall and TOLD me. There’s something more you’re going to have to do down there. . .
Hahahah she is just awsome
Hahahah she is just awsome
Hahahah she is just awesome
Hahahah she is just awesome
Hahahah she is just awsome
Nothing to do with content random rant warning - this college is in the middle of NOWHERE! I used to do their audit when I worked with PWC in the 00s. I spent my entire month of August in this empty college town for four years - needless to say myself and my team spent a great deal of time all alone in the bar at the Best Western. I do not miss you St. Lawerence University. I really needed to get this out I’m sorry everyone.
M...
Eomrning
I hope it's ok to share, because more people need to hear this.
Some of the comments here are just weird. Reality has always been hard to intake anyways so i am not surprised😒
maryam muazu I’m just as surprised
frustrated males they are...
THERE IS NO WORD "ANYWAYS." IT'S ANYWAY. NO S.
I agree
So I am basically collecting theoretical knowledge before practical... 💘💘💘
lol
lol
😂😂😂😂
Nothing wrong with that
three words, stamina excitement and the "magic touch" finding the fulfillment satisfaction point.
it was a good discussion, i would like to point just one thing. Men and women are one species not two different. Men and women are equal. These differences of gender, colour, country are just mental boundaries existentially they do not exist. we need to treat everyone equally whether it's Men , Women or any other life form. We all are equal, we all are life, we all are conciousness. Down with all the differences.
*LGBTQ HAS LEFT THE CHAT*
You forgot 50 extra letters.
You forgot to add the I and A. 😂
It's LGBTQABCDEFHIJKMNOPRSUVWXYZ
James Jucutan Keyboard smash doesn't get you anywhere. Just say LGBT+, done.
LGBTQIA+ for long. Tadaaaa, magic.
@@lelexoxo303 it's not keyboard smash..it's alphabetical
This can be summed up by the movie "Chasing Amy."
With my Peter Griffin's voice "Go on..."
LoFi Hiphop Channel With my Quagmire voice "giggidy giggidy giggidy".
I approve of this message.
Hahahaha right. I wish she put her email up.
LOL
A lot of women are bad at saying what they like. For me, I always focus on the women having a good time too, because I don’t have a good time unless they do too.
Sir join MGTOW it's for the greater good for true sanity in this dysfunctional world.
I agree 👍 bro, best of luck 🤠🤞 to everyone, for better Fun
Women doesn't know what they want.
@@Andre-hm5voI agree. How has it improved your life overall ?
@@Andre-hm5voAgreed
Awful silence in room whole time😅😂
I was about to comment on that then I saw this.
That's it hahaha
imagining the scenes perhaps
I think they sometimes turn down the audience in the videos
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Maybe I’m just an old dude at this stage, but I knew all of this already
What are we supposed to learn from some kid anyway?
@@Freakazoid12345 That kid is a woman, with woman parts. Maybe you should have taken some notes.
@@sattyre6892 tell me more about these, "woman parts".
@@Freakazoid12345 Google it
@@gusidichaitanya176 I did and I regret it.
I’d be curious to see how Grace’s presentation evolves over the 40+ years. Hopefully she keeps her notes.
I dont care what shes talking about but I like the way she's explain.
Simp
Cant watch this in november
i am watching
december is here
💪🏿
@Complilation videos LMAO😂😂😂
lol
End of Third-wave feminism and beginning of fourth! Lot to learn though!
Didn't it already start in 2012
Riwaj Chalise and the white knights aren’t leaving either lol
I dont care which wabe it is. I still dont gas.
Def Operator lol they are next year!
Probs still 3rd with a hint of insight. Nothing new here
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August Lane 🤣😂
this topic is not discussed much but it is very very important. thanks for speaking up on this. i really learned a lot today.
This is so true. The focus and expectation is that men feel good, and many men are unwilling to put enough effort into learning what gives women true pleasure. Because oftentimes when women feel good, this isn’t as physically stimulating to men. And since women are mostly willing to accept this pleasure disparity, this just renforces the norm.
Your are right dear
''...COMING OVER THE NEXT FEW MINUTES''
was that no pun intended?
Bruh exactly what I thought
Exactly I thought of that as a pun straight away ha ha!
It was but she noticed that the audience was hella dry and silent
it's so sad that the majority of the comment section is literaly from guys that should've learned something from the talk but didn't give a f
Im trying to understand it because i think shes making good points.
Maybe you're wrong
Their takeaway: women better let us know
Real takeaway: men should be making orgasm an equal priority and some women won't ask because they don't feel comfortable.
her boyfriend is the luckiest! she will be the commander during the act!
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The pressure on the husbands who went home with their wives after this seminar. 😂
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It’s sad that so many men don’t know that the greatest pleasure is giving pleasure.
Ja na I couldn't agree with more on that!
Lmao spoken by a man I'd bet a million dollars is circumcised
50% of men don’t last for more than 2 minutes
10 minites possible
Talk for your self 😂
moi je dure 15s un peu + que les LIONS!
je suis fière
Most all of the comments are spot on. The bottom line is most men are lazy and or selfish. I love to explore and have fun with my lady. Always ladies first. My second wife was very open on her expectations and what I needed to do. My ego is fine. She was great. My new wife is the same.
Was rather insightful! It takes courage to talk about these topics upfront. Props to her for the lecture!
We need more discussions like this 🔥
yes!
Absolutely yes.. Where from u
And, possinly, practice and laboratory works? )
Wah re wahhh!!!
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Yeah absolutely we're educating ourselves and driven by passion for learning new ideas and deep diving into it ...🤝
@@peerzadaraies4028 india from she .
2 years later and comments here are still blaming women, because watching the entire video is still to hard for someone. 👏
Complaints and only complaints
It’s your body, your choice, your responsibility
I love this!! What a thought-provoking presentation. She’s got it figured out!
I thought this was incredibly well presented. I was impressed by the arguments made for aiming for equity in pleasure shared, but also by her grammar. These days, it's ever more difficult to listen to anyone speak who doesn't say "like" 500 times, but this woman did the English language proud. Very eloquent, very articulate, and indeed I would agree that irrespective of the observable truth that it is easier in general for a man to reach orgasm than a woman, the intention to please each other should be equal to intention of taking pleasure. The tryst should not be wholly satisfying to a man who only cares about his own orgasm, and vice-versa.
Agree about the “like”
I thought this 10 day enjoy funny tests no tests u yes pleasure Inquiry
Loved it. So true. So on point. And the confidence on stage is amazing to watch.
Hi
Your problem is you are only talking about college boys, the key word here is "boys". Have a man and this "problem" will go away.
Not necessarily unless you weren't meaning chronology
ur such a wise lady... saving pples relationships.enlighting pples future...
I really appreciate you..
may u be rewarded with thenks ,love and peace
My wife has no problem asking for pleasure. Sometimes she even demands it😏
good for you
Enjoy man
Lucky you 😒
@@swiftie9006 🤣🤣
That's the way a relationship should work.
The issue lies largely in what Grace just briefly mentioned, letting yourself go. Women need to understand their own body and their own needs. What makes you feel good. It is also a fact that a lot less women have tried masturbation compared to same age groups as men. Explore yourself! And in the end, it boils down to communication. If you don't even know what makes you feel good or what makes your peak, then how on earth can you communicate it to your partner, let alone expect that partner knows better than you do.
This young woman is very brave! God Bless her.
Crack code for women:-
Note: feed him before u drain him...
1) Stop being indirect...
2) Go to ur man when he is laughing. 3) Say "Let's do something different tonight honey, i need to feel this way and u do it this way. I was waiting for this, come on, smash it" with a smiling face...
4) Enjoy the night with him...
Stop taking lectures about feminism and equality for this 1min problem...
If has a very -ve response towards u after following the 3 steps... It means that you r not the love of his life, u r the headache of his life...
Stop being a headache and try again it should work...
This was so well thought and spoken, not everyone likes to talk on these subjects but she did and she did it quite well, hats off to her and I hope she or other speakers will come up with more videos like this 🙌🏼🙌🏼
Bravo! Love this topic and the wonderful approach to tackling it. For me, my life partner's pleasure and her feeling safe is always the highest priority. The only small thing that didn't get addressed is men that feel embarrassed or ashamed when their female partner does not have an orgasm.. As she talked about, to me this may highlight the need for open and vulnerable communication as a key piece of orgasms for all - i.e. being able to openly tell your partner your needs and carefully listen to theirs.
Mark, truly enjoyed your commentary re this Ted Talk. Agree as well that there should be open and honest communication between partners without judgment, disdain or disrespect.
I was fortunate enough to have a boyfriend many, many years ago a truly great listener when it came to all things in our relationship. My only regret was it only lasted 2 years. He was offered a teaching position in the UK he could not pass up. He had many great ideas, thoughts etc. that we discussed on this very subject before we were intimately involved with one another. I can remember the conversation as though it happened yesterday.
The 1st thing he asked was," What did I like in a man?" I was at first surprised by this, confused by this, because no one had ever asked me before.
My 1st answer to him was a man that goes out of his was to make me feel safe.
2nd was a man that goes out of his way to make me feel special.
3rd was a man that was attentive.
4th was a man that was very thoughtful.
5th a man that was filled with chivalry.
I got all of the above and so very much more with this amazing man. And my now partner (of 15 +) years does the same.
@@martinamitchell7612
Sorry to bother you
I just want to ask, about your past boyfriend, it seems you loved him very much, you said your regret is that it didn't last more than two years, so, would you have liked to stay with him till now if you had the chance?
@@MA-gu2up Yes
@@martinamitchell7612
Okay, so will you leave your current boyfriend for him?
And if you love him this much, why didn't you try to pursue the continuation of the relationship with him?
@@MA-gu2up No, he has found a different life, a different love. I have done the same. We have each moved on, no regrets for either of us.
Id treat her equally fo sho
LMFAO
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LOL she is kind of cute tho
hahaha
Masticatious its slang
FANTASTIC VIDEO … I did understand everything but here I am still SINGLE 😂
I'm a guy, and my wife was about 3x more orgasms then I do. This want true when we were younger, because we both didn't know what we were doing.
Your wife goes four times more than I do
Thanks for the clear explanation .
From this I got to what it is? and why it is?
The list of studies and researches she has mentioned....i lost count. 😂😂😂
I'm waiting for my game to be updated whilst watching this , Wohooo
CHAD😂
How many teenager are there like me😁.
Chup reh
Ni oru kundan thenne
Well, my partner always got once or twice before i got mine most of the time
So she sais...
Just kidding!
But it actually happens.
Thats what your partner always says to me.
@@chuckyoneill6867 😳😳😳
@Vincen Cohan I can confirm, she indeed does that:)
I wonder how awkward the mood in that crowd got
Wonderful topic. Excellent speaker. And great invitation to consider: True gender equality.