Masturbation Myths | Teesha Morgan | TEDxStanleyPark

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  • @pratyushjha5961
    @pratyushjha5961 4 года назад +610

    RIP to the one who just watched the first 30 seconds, lost his hope and left the video thinking that now he is DONE !

  • @cloroxlavenderscent4307
    @cloroxlavenderscent4307 5 лет назад +3901

    I feel like there's like a ted talk for everything

    • @TheCoachRC
      @TheCoachRC 5 лет назад +90

      It sure seems that way. This channels videos have been going on for years. Plus, everybody wants to take the stage to conduct a lecture.

    • @mladendelic7284
      @mladendelic7284 5 лет назад +17

      ... and everyone.

    • @saxier1838
      @saxier1838 5 лет назад +10

      I love your profile pic

    • @dtm934
      @dtm934 5 лет назад +4

      It’s 2019 and you’re still rockin’ bleach smh

    • @JonBandMiley
      @JonBandMiley 5 лет назад +3

      There is

  • @lagaman11
    @lagaman11 6 лет назад +70

    Of all of the masturbation videos on the internet, this is the only one I have found that is actually helpful, and doesn't feel a person full of some false sense of shame. Thank you for sharing!

  • @paris466
    @paris466 5 лет назад +2032

    "... improves immune functioning"
    I ought to be goddamned immortal by now.

  • @amanbhatia4262
    @amanbhatia4262 5 лет назад +556

    *_THEY HAD US IN THE FIRST HALF NOT GONNA LIE_*

  • @nishchalpriyadarshi1520
    @nishchalpriyadarshi1520 5 лет назад +667

    I was about to become depressed in starting ... I got a feeling of relief when she said all are lies

  • @graxthewanderer6043
    @graxthewanderer6043 9 лет назад +4935

    Clitoral hood sounds like a some place in downtown, where women rule the situation

    • @chrismeadows1187
      @chrismeadows1187 9 лет назад +28

      +Jason Hunter Sup....my femey! LOL

    • @lesliedavidson1003
      @lesliedavidson1003 9 лет назад +10

      Funny, Jason. Humor is good! ;)

    • @Tsujanryo
      @Tsujanryo 9 лет назад +39

      +Jason Hunter
      Sounds more like a secret, occultish, feminzai criminal organization determined to rule the Earth. Kind of a cross between Cobra and Vagina Monologues and Hydra.
      "I am the CLIT Commander!" - Jay
      hehehehe

    • @visho8979
      @visho8979 9 лет назад +16

      +Jason Hunter HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
      Dude, that's the best line I've read since I learnt what is a clitoris

    • @TheKenjoje
      @TheKenjoje 8 лет назад +2

      +Jason Hunter feministic dream place :)

  • @not_your_kareshiiii
    @not_your_kareshiiii 5 лет назад +336

    Wonder how many parents brought their children along to hear her talk.

    • @dubbingsync
      @dubbingsync 5 лет назад +20

      At a Ted talk? I don’t think kids would be there... think being the key word as I don’t know the rules behind guests or audience members.

    • @richmondmawuli9265
      @richmondmawuli9265 5 лет назад

      Yh

    • @babysenpai3883
      @babysenpai3883 5 лет назад +1

      @@dubbingsync yes I think so too

    • @markchip1
      @markchip1 4 года назад +11

      Actually , I suspect it would be every bit as likely the other way round - "See Mum... It's not just me!".

    • @thelegoonurfloor5347
      @thelegoonurfloor5347 4 года назад +2

      probably none

  • @varolussalsanclar1163
    @varolussalsanclar1163 5 лет назад +2358

    Dont watch this on day 20 of nofap.

  • @extremeorigami
    @extremeorigami 8 лет назад +551

    I think that the problem here is that she separates the act of masturbation from pornography. For men, rarely does one come without the other. The damaging effects of pornography and the addictive nature of it can have an impact on psychological health and intimacy in relationships.

    • @brontiq
      @brontiq Год назад +32

      She literally talked about it AND explained it...

    • @uubee4443
      @uubee4443 Год назад +24

      Particularly damaging to the magazine if you not a straight shooter

    • @psijicassassin7166
      @psijicassassin7166 Год назад

      I blame my Jesus Christ church for spreading the myths about pleasuring myself. This Jesus guy and his priests have lied to humanity.

    • @himansusekhardas9749
      @himansusekhardas9749 Год назад +3

      I can say nothing

    • @cnajerald
      @cnajerald Год назад +2

      Well said

  • @arjunprs
    @arjunprs 6 лет назад +4798

    Indians have the most spicy foods and they also have one of the highest populations in the world... Myth broken in a sentence... 😂😂😂😂🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳

    • @mashuto
      @mashuto 6 лет назад +32

      😂👌

    • @SnipFred
      @SnipFred 6 лет назад +138

      The Chinese as well lmao 😂

    • @thewormholetv7228
      @thewormholetv7228 6 лет назад +16

      @@SnipFred yes!!! They have noodles.

    • @ravishankarpandey9498
      @ravishankarpandey9498 5 лет назад +15

      Yes you're right.. Spicy food specially more use of onion and garlic

    • @shan_singh
      @shan_singh 5 лет назад +5

      *China!!

  • @tovopro
    @tovopro 4 года назад +9

    Clicked on this TED Talk as a simple man. Left feeling intrigued by her intellect.

  • @sunpreetsinghchahal7656
    @sunpreetsinghchahal7656 5 лет назад +2122

    Heart attack in beginning 😂

  • @caleboop1814
    @caleboop1814 5 лет назад +1079

    Damn the infertile myth at the start made me say to myself “okay maybe not today”

    • @dirtydan9856
      @dirtydan9856 5 лет назад +17

      caleb just do it on ur own pace.dont be addicted

    • @jitendra-ke5lb
      @jitendra-ke5lb 5 лет назад +2

      Hey loona

    • @Nephibis
      @Nephibis 5 лет назад +14

      Idk...I thought maybe being infertile could have its benefits...

    • @arbaazjamadar3720
      @arbaazjamadar3720 5 лет назад +14

      It made me say to my self "never again".

    • @shivamchoudhary9522
      @shivamchoudhary9522 5 лет назад +2

      @@arbaazjamadar3720 same bro 😂🤣

  • @selfdiscipline296
    @selfdiscipline296 5 лет назад +17

    As soon as she said it will grow hair on your palm ... I was relieved

  • @orawal
    @orawal 5 лет назад +9

    The most eloquent and mellifluous speaker I've ever heard. I just want her to keep talking 😄 and such immense intellect and wit ! Wow! But surprised that Ted has spelling mistakes :P

  • @quantum_OP
    @quantum_OP 9 лет назад +3832

    damn she got me for a second there

  • @4684peter
    @4684peter 8 лет назад +1534

    I really like how relaxed and comfortable people in these fields are with topics like sex, and I mean this is how everybody should be. It doesn't make sense to feel bad about it or guilty, everybody does it, people in the past did, it people in the future will continue to do it so? If it wasn't meant to be done you wouldn't have discovered it alone!

    • @jaredlapierre1304
      @jaredlapierre1304 6 лет назад +22

      Yeah, but I don't like what other people do with their bodies that doesn't effect me at all whatsoever! It makes me uncomfortable hurr durr.

    • @kiradot8071
      @kiradot8071 6 лет назад +13

      Say it louder for the people in the back

    • @raworthyel3786
      @raworthyel3786 6 лет назад +1

      Peter Tzonis that's a trained lecturer she's doing. All Memory!

    • @carlostejada1479
      @carlostejada1479 6 лет назад +16

      Peter Tzonis
      but she's missing a looot of points, and she's wrong in many things...

    • @wx..
      @wx.. 6 лет назад +3

      NoFap belief?

  • @iblokeversion1
    @iblokeversion1 6 лет назад +64

    You are amazing Teesha!
    Thank you So much for talking about this in such a cool, entertainingly relaxed, casual, and non smutty way.
    VERY much appreciated.

  • @Aydee2020
    @Aydee2020 3 года назад +322

    "Too much self-loving can cause you to grow hair on the palms of your hands"
    *checks palms*

    • @AtomicDiesel4100
      @AtomicDiesel4100 3 года назад +10

      Been washing my hands with Nair all these years for nothing!

    • @nasreenakhuda
      @nasreenakhuda 3 года назад

      @benightedstxrmz hey by ma****bating did u have speech problems?

    • @Akrazzyy
      @Akrazzyy 3 года назад

      Spiderman

    • @Thenakedfinisher
      @Thenakedfinisher 3 года назад

      Really? Is that what she said and did? Thanks for letting me know, I was on toilet,🙄

    • @yourkingorginal3286
      @yourkingorginal3286 2 года назад

      thats litteraly me LOL

  • @itsxerxes6754
    @itsxerxes6754 8 лет назад +2355

    You already know what people did after watching this video ;)

  • @Tanjman_
    @Tanjman_ 8 лет назад +925

    When someone asks what I did last night I usually say "I netflix and chilled with myself"

    • @alarj8341
      @alarj8341 7 лет назад +49

      That's what a girl on Tinder replied to me. Now it makes sense.

    • @pulakdeyashi
      @pulakdeyashi 6 лет назад +7

      Amazing facts

    • @markanderson9123
      @markanderson9123 6 лет назад +2

      Pronhub and chill.

  • @alyssacleland
    @alyssacleland 7 лет назад +1508

    Who else checked the palm of their hands for hair

  • @InterviewRwanda
    @InterviewRwanda Год назад +2

    6:29 "The more educated you are; the more you get esposed to the it" hits hard!

  • @astromuonkuki5684
    @astromuonkuki5684 5 лет назад +53

    This is the way to do presentation. She was quite good in interacting with the audiences.

  • @yannijanmondejar7951
    @yannijanmondejar7951 6 лет назад +100

    Well said. She amazed me of how she delivered her message effectively. The way talk was calm and smooth. Her visual presentation was a good way to present her ideas coherently. The way she moves and the way she uses her hands were also a good way to convey every points of her message. Overall, her communication skills were pretty impressive and if I would to rate her speech then it would be 9/10.

    • @rideadventure3777
      @rideadventure3777 5 лет назад +1

      @Venom Hype hi how are you? is there female?

    • @Eddie-kj1zb
      @Eddie-kj1zb 3 года назад +1

      I was so depressed at the beginning untill she said it's a lie

    • @steveburns199
      @steveburns199 Год назад +1

      ​@@rideadventure3777 time to get it done before I get to the other thing that is not worth the time to talk about it

  • @davidknapp-fisher6955
    @davidknapp-fisher6955 9 лет назад +203

    Congratulations Teesha! Your talk was edgy, funny, informative - but above all, a great way to tackle a topic that many folks have questions about, but didn't know who to ask... now they do! Great job, and I'm looking forward to hearing more great stories from you in the future!

    • @psijicassassin7166
      @psijicassassin7166 Год назад

      I blame my Jesus Christ church for spreading the myths about pleasuring myself. This Jesus guy and his priests have lied to humanity.

  • @tcfmarch17
    @tcfmarch17 3 года назад +9

    The best TED talk I've ever heard. Good for you and all women.

    • @fromchopin
      @fromchopin 3 года назад

      What about men??

    • @westcijosh
      @westcijosh Год назад

      ​@@fromchopinnot good at all

  • @kenheines
    @kenheines 8 лет назад +483

    Masturbation is good and even healthy but chronic porn use as a means to masturbate can be hugely detrimental to overall mental health and lead to erectile dysfunction. I think she hurt her presentation not to underline or even address that point especially since, for most men, porn and masturbation goes hand in hand... no pun intended.

    • @lovefunkrockmusic
      @lovefunkrockmusic 7 лет назад +20

      it is not healthy at all.

    • @aliceryan6015
      @aliceryan6015 7 лет назад

      Romel Nailes Jr. , his name is Shane Idleman.

    • @euguinn9524
      @euguinn9524 7 лет назад +18

      Actually masturbation is very healthy, and can decrease sickness. Just be sure to wash your hands before and after 😉

    • @TheYoungprince01
      @TheYoungprince01 6 лет назад +2

      hand and hand. lol

    • @miyuden4118
      @miyuden4118 6 лет назад +11

      She wants to keep her Job, maybe she didn't address it because of that.

  • @fuadahmed6060
    @fuadahmed6060 5 лет назад +721

    I was shaken for the first 30 seconds. I was like I am done boy 😂🤣🤣🤣

  • @nickkanakis3469
    @nickkanakis3469 5 лет назад +713

    Masterbation is fine, just don't let it get out of hand.....

  • @mbs0710
    @mbs0710 4 года назад +23

    she won my hearts by debunking all myths

  • @C861986
    @C861986 8 лет назад +355

    it improves your immune functioning. now I know why I never get sick.

    • @kristinburton4953
      @kristinburton4953 6 лет назад +32

      Especially if you come in your own mouth. Your own creamy nectary vitamin shot would shoot straight down your throat for easy administering.

    • @pankajverma5195
      @pankajverma5195 6 лет назад

      yehh same here

    • @barnaclescum7011
      @barnaclescum7011 6 лет назад +14

      @@kristinburton4953 humanity could've just died so long ago, but this, this is the source

    • @Majestic469
      @Majestic469 6 лет назад +6

      @@kristinburton4953 wtf lol

    • @mashuto
      @mashuto 6 лет назад

      Damn 😂

  • @rosethehat2073
    @rosethehat2073 10 месяцев назад +6

    This was a good presentation! I admire her confidence and humor while talking about this. I loved her message about shame and how we need to be able to accept ourselves and not feel guilty about it.

  • @xppp3021
    @xppp3021 8 лет назад +36

    he brings down blood pressure. Reduces stress. there's nobody you have to deal with afterwards except yourself. and it will keep your ass out of prison.

  • @joerogaine3093
    @joerogaine3093 5 лет назад +65

    Humans have a way of talking themselves into negative behavior. In all honesty we should practice self control.

    • @agent-eg8mb
      @agent-eg8mb 5 лет назад +6

      Nofap proves her wrong

    • @enisnizzy
      @enisnizzy 4 года назад +1

      She did a comparison between sports and masturbation... ugh women.

    • @icydeath1993
      @icydeath1993 4 года назад +3

      @@agent-eg8mb yup nofap is really good.improves confidence and conserves energy.

    • @vukcevu5854
      @vukcevu5854 4 года назад

      facts.

    • @YouTube_gets_dumber_every_year
      @YouTube_gets_dumber_every_year 4 года назад +4

      @@agent-eg8mb I saw your comment and out of morbid curiosity I decided to randomly google "nofap suicides".
      Much to my surprise I came across a plethora of results. I'm not trying to suggest there's an inherent correlation between the practice of nofap and intrusive thoughts but I just wanted to get your perspective on that particular subject.
      Do you think there's any demographic that might be more susceptible to suffering adverse effects while on nofap?

  • @rosty2
    @rosty2 6 лет назад +285

    I'm still thinking about those 5% of men who have never masturbated.

    • @ifexki
      @ifexki 6 лет назад +7

      Me too. Wish I never had. 😁😁

    • @knowledgeismyrock
      @knowledgeismyrock 6 лет назад +28

      do their balls eventually just explode?

    • @andisandean5340
      @andisandean5340 6 лет назад

      @@knowledgeismyrock hahaha

    • @Majestic469
      @Majestic469 6 лет назад +32

      @@knowledgeismyrock nope. Its like drugs. If you dont do it, youre not addicted, and you feel normal. But once you start, you feel like you cant stop, which is probably you.

    • @lincolndunstan3057
      @lincolndunstan3057 6 лет назад +25

      they are liars!!

  • @likaself
    @likaself 9 лет назад +337

    "Romance the hell out of yourself", great line Teesha, you too.

    • @likaself
      @likaself 9 лет назад

      +sri ram According to who?

    • @tapask09
      @tapask09 9 лет назад

      I love that line too... :)

  • @valken666
    @valken666 9 лет назад +477

    If masturbation makes you avoid marriage, then go for it!

    • @neilmcintosh5150
      @neilmcintosh5150 9 лет назад +40

      +Valken That would explain why Iv'e never married, Iv'e been a wanker all my life!

    • @option-sh9yd
      @option-sh9yd 9 лет назад +1

      he's like " I recommend it sir" jajaja

    • @Kami-Sama197
      @Kami-Sama197 8 лет назад +1

      LMFAO wanking me to go for marriage even more. I would never ever want a feminist wife but rather an Egalitarian one even if they are hard to find XD

    • @valken666
      @valken666 8 лет назад +9

      Kami Sama Careful, I had many who pretend to be egalitarian, until they realize they can use the law to steal your house and income. For money they stop being egalitarian pretty quick...

    • @Kami-Sama197
      @Kami-Sama197 8 лет назад +1

      Valken yeah bro i know but i'll marry contractual

  • @LynnRedwine800
    @LynnRedwine800 3 года назад +8

    If you want something done right, do it yourself.

  • @faustus5481
    @faustus5481 8 лет назад +50

    If masturbation _did_ make you go blind, would you....
    a: stop
    b: slow down
    c: take your chances

    • @joesixpack8166
      @joesixpack8166 8 лет назад +3

      Lol. Definitely take my chances.

    • @justinebeaver1419
      @justinebeaver1419 8 лет назад +1

      Hmm.....decisions, decisions.

    • @jaykerouac2
      @jaykerouac2 8 лет назад +19

      If you went blind, the good news is that you'd still be able to beat your meat😅

    • @dannygjk
      @dannygjk 8 лет назад

      I may be wrong but I'll guess you are a woman?

    • @jackoroni4609
      @jackoroni4609 6 лет назад

      C

  • @toyocarter4651
    @toyocarter4651 8 лет назад +10

    i was scared at the beginning but then i realized she was empasizing a point and the statements were myths.

  • @josevictormiranda5854
    @josevictormiranda5854 3 года назад +6

    Thanks for being so open, I highly appreciated.

  • @becreative7072
    @becreative7072 5 лет назад +3

    don't know but she is amazing talker i mean speaker on stage and she has the guts to touch such topic wow

  • @Muuip
    @Muuip 9 лет назад +22

    Very well spoken.Finally and open, intellectual and factual approach to sexuality/masturbation.

  • @jo-anneweiler4756
    @jo-anneweiler4756 9 лет назад +66

    What a delight it is to hear this important topic covered in such a playful and inviting way. Love your presentation style, humour and your joy is infectious! I can't wait to refer my clients to your RUclips!

    • @anthonymuco154
      @anthonymuco154 9 лет назад +1

      +Jo-Anne Weiler Just for her presentation?

    • @tapask09
      @tapask09 9 лет назад +4

      I love the way she delivered the entire presentation on such a sensitive topic. kudos!

    • @jo-anneweiler4756
      @jo-anneweiler4756 9 лет назад

      Yes she's terrific. You can tune into her on the Shine In 2016 webinar. Sign up app.webinarjam.net/register/23623/b8a4305988

    • @avisgabbidon351
      @avisgabbidon351 7 лет назад

      Tapas K. Chowdhury m

  • @TXP9
    @TXP9 5 лет назад +29

    I love things like this that support my existing beliefs.

  • @SuryaPrakash-ld9cb
    @SuryaPrakash-ld9cb Год назад +8

    It lowers your stress, gives happy chemicals, feel relaxed, but the only thing is don't overdo it, Anything in excess has its negative effects, cardio for 20 to 30 min will get you in shape, but cardio for 10 straight hours nonstop will kill you for sure, do it, but don't overdo it

  • @shashijaiswal17
    @shashijaiswal17 7 лет назад +7

    VERY factual and real explanation of what we are in disguise. Indeed the term makes much difference Masturbation and changing this would really be something we ought to do earlier.

  • @Africa893
    @Africa893 6 лет назад +12

    I love the sheer amount of comments here that boil down to "YOU'RE WRONG! YOU'RE TWISTED!" that offer _no actual evidence or counterpoint,_ just disagreement.

  • @dr.jodyschmidt250
    @dr.jodyschmidt250 9 лет назад +22

    Great lecture Teesha! You make me proud. Keep up the great work.

  • @liemdrake
    @liemdrake Год назад +3

    I've been doing it since I was 17 and say it makes me go blind and grow hair on my hands and a lot of religious people say things that God hates us doing it and also a stress reliever as a fact as what you say.

    • @ferguson8143
      @ferguson8143 Год назад +3

      Yes and that God kills a kitten everytime you do it

  • @edwardmclaughlin7935
    @edwardmclaughlin7935 5 лет назад +44

    Supposed to make you go blind but, somehow I can't see that.

  • @ming0917
    @ming0917 8 лет назад +70

    This is such a wonderful speech on a very serious topic within current society with intelligent humors, and it contains a lot of facts as well. I am a big believer in communication and trust are key to successfully relationships (particularly sexuality part of the relationship) , and masturbation can really help in those two areas, because if you don't know your own body, your own sexual pleasure, then how would you expect anyone else to know better than yourself. Only when you know yourself well enough, you can guide your partners and communicate clearly with your partner to allow him/her to give you pleasure, and trust in him/her to allow you to receive great pleasure.

  • @SanjayKumar-of9ze
    @SanjayKumar-of9ze 5 лет назад +27

    Thanks for explaining one of the most confusing question.

    • @GauravSingh-js3vm
      @GauravSingh-js3vm 5 лет назад +1

      but why our baba's are against thhis bhai...

    • @beliver468
      @beliver468 5 лет назад +7

      This poor lady has NO idea what she talking about. Masturbation is the worst thing for mind body and soul.

    • @harlenneroxanne3811
      @harlenneroxanne3811 4 года назад +3

      @we see the ligh it’s being proven that masturbation clears the mind

    • @user-hi2fp1he5g
      @user-hi2fp1he5g 3 года назад +2

      @@beliver468 you've got "soul" in your sentence, so we know it's gotta be true!

  • @tanakritdd8223
    @tanakritdd8223 4 года назад +225

    9:05 ladies and gentlemen, we finally found the cure for the coronavirus

  • @humanyoda
    @humanyoda 9 лет назад +203

    Masturbation neutralizes the desire to interact with women sexually and can lead one to living with one's hand rather than with a woman (if masturbation is used frequently enough).

    • @humanyoda
      @humanyoda 9 лет назад +2

      +Nerian For whom?

    • @humanyoda
      @humanyoda 9 лет назад

      +Nerian How have you arrived at that thought?

    • @AmadonFaul
      @AmadonFaul 9 лет назад +38

      +humanyoda Just a guess because I'm not who you are questioning, but I'd say a decrease in libido would be hugely beneficial for men because we do some really stupid things and make some really terrible decisions based on attraction. We settle for the wrong woman, we quit great careers to move to be with someone who isn't right for us. The list is pretty extensive. There's a reason for the saying "you used the wrong head" in decision making.

    • @humanyoda
      @humanyoda 9 лет назад +4

      +Amadon Faul Makes sense, but I view this method as a double-edge sword. It is possible to settle on living with one's hand rather than with a woman. That's what I meant.

    • @Carcolo679
      @Carcolo679 9 лет назад +11

      Watch the whole video or another Ted talk about porn. It is pornography that has this effect not masturbation. Why do you think such a large majority of men watch porn? Because... Simple masturbation isn't enough we want a woman. Porn becomes the substitution not jacking off. You're essentially knocking something because most people do it wrong.

  • @amitrawat1440
    @amitrawat1440 5 лет назад +849

    I don't know if anyone noticed but she is amazingly attractive 😉

  • @Kojogh
    @Kojogh 6 лет назад +160

    She scared me the first few minutes 😂

  • @jamestarmac3365
    @jamestarmac3365 2 года назад +2

    I like how she is so knowledgable and still blushes when talking about these things

  • @krishalienz9696
    @krishalienz9696 6 лет назад +175

    She was saying stop watching me and just do it.😁...

  • @Paul-gz5dp
    @Paul-gz5dp 5 лет назад +26

    She is quite attractive, and I am glad that she is helping couples to solve their problems.

  • @jillnachtsanger4205
    @jillnachtsanger4205 5 лет назад +16

    She's two standard deviations above average in looks, pretty enough to be noticed, yet not so beautiful as to seem unapproachable. Actually the best condition.

    • @Meandgenevieve
      @Meandgenevieve 3 года назад +1

      I think she's gorgeous myself, but i still agree with you, and well thought out.

  • @davidburns6284
    @davidburns6284 2 года назад +54

    Very well done. Articulate and informative. We need more women like Teesha breaking down barriers to our happiness.

    • @frederickloucks4865
      @frederickloucks4865 Год назад +2

      You aren't going to find many women like her in this country.

  • @donaldswift
    @donaldswift 5 лет назад +40

    Single most impactful video for me. I started a new category on RUclips cause of her fabulous video. You go girl!

  • @kallagodglobals.e5813
    @kallagodglobals.e5813 4 года назад +31

    I think this video and it’s author is very inspirational 💯🔐

    • @einundsiebenziger5488
      @einundsiebenziger5488 5 месяцев назад +1

      ...this video and its* author (it's = it is) are* inspirational.

  • @herosheller7656
    @herosheller7656 9 лет назад +321

    3:18 - Vsauce moment

  • @jeremyseligson2220
    @jeremyseligson2220 5 лет назад +177

    She needs to distinguish between men and women. Women gain strength but men get exhausted.

  • @Jmrmna7012
    @Jmrmna7012 5 лет назад +38

    I watch the whole video for the 1St time in my entire RUclips career

  • @jenniespaghetti
    @jenniespaghetti 9 лет назад +58

    You are a wonderful speaker Teesha! Keep spreading the word

  • @granand
    @granand 5 лет назад +26

    I am over doing it..I need to see you immediately

  • @TheMsjohn99
    @TheMsjohn99 5 лет назад +96

    "If you don't use it, you loose it" words to live by

  • @bobjacobson858
    @bobjacobson858 4 года назад +7

    An old man in nursing home was caught "pleasuring himself". A very conservative nurse tells him "Stop that; you'll go blind." The man asks "Can't I do it until I just get cataracts?"

  • @jimbyrdiii1503
    @jimbyrdiii1503 5 лет назад +51

    Wonder how she feels about the NoFap Movement? 🤔

    • @Bayo106
      @Bayo106 3 года назад +1

      don't worry about what some random thinks

  • @tonyoliver4920
    @tonyoliver4920 4 года назад +6

    It’s a lot more common at a young age than people think. It’s just that they will be told to “stop that” before they realise what they are actually doing. Do you remember your first years of school, teacher telling someone in class “stop fidgeting...” (other coded phrases are used “day dreaming” or just “back to work”)

    • @therideneverends1697
      @therideneverends1697 Год назад

      Absolutely, the reality is humans start touching their genitalia basically the second they figure out that its got nerve endings. Its very common in toddlers and even infants.

  • @mmw5649
    @mmw5649 2 года назад +5

    Teesha, Thank you. You speak freely and openly about topics that tongue tie most of us. Your presentation was very refreshing and enjoyable.

  • @aiman_sings
    @aiman_sings Год назад +5

    Stop reading the comment focus on the video

  • @janetmorrison1378
    @janetmorrison1378 8 лет назад +27

    Thank you for this absolutely fantastic talk about self- pleasuring! The world NEEDs this message:)

  • @dann.iboislime
    @dann.iboislime 2 года назад +24

    i love this topic. masturbation is safe. we all need it.

    • @brianpinion5844
      @brianpinion5844 2 года назад +2

      I raised it from a pup ! ill beat it like a dog!

  • @indianedupsychic9477
    @indianedupsychic9477 3 года назад +4

    Love you so much not for your speech but your clerity of mind . And also your purity of heart❤️

  • @chromecannon2536
    @chromecannon2536 4 года назад +15

    "alone time" "self love"

  • @bch5513
    @bch5513 Год назад +7

    It's wonderful how people laugh at the men's problems, and nobody thinks anything bad about it.

    • @tbillyjoeroth
      @tbillyjoeroth Год назад

      And ED is always the man's problem, too. And men have to wear condoms or get a vasectomy.

  • @tylerarmitage7913
    @tylerarmitage7913 8 лет назад +8

    Anything can be good in moderation.

    • @thedarkmaster4747
      @thedarkmaster4747 8 лет назад

      middle ground fallacy. also child rape XP also extreeme sports arn't a thing. jesus... the things i have achieved through extreemes and abstinances. i have spent litterally hours masturbating to the most depraved porn above the squeamish line most websites wont go under... feel asleep and woke up the next day virtually glowing with energy and ideas. i have abstained from sleep on regular occasions just to train my self to ressist and indure tiredness. i can even hold it back for hours and.... lol! look the stupid is just rediculous. sexual abstinance messes you up... big time, it wont kill your body. but it corrupts your mind. i can't do the stuff that wolf guy can do from the second narnia film lol! but i am very "intune" with my body. resource mannagement and the appropriate attitude. practical knowledge... nobody wants to end up like a catholic priest. and the Iphal tower was not built by no damn modderate.

    • @ericscaillet2232
      @ericscaillet2232 5 лет назад +1

      @@thedarkmaster4747 obviously being a primitive man seems to help you in that department.

  • @Akajeyjey
    @Akajeyjey 5 лет назад +57

    She is right about some things but I believe it DOES teach me instant gratification which makes my life feel harder than it is.. I get more distracted because I tend to search for a stimulus that gives me similar feeling more often.. I did experience worse performance at a gym after doing it (I'm talking day or two before).. I'm not sure about immunity improvement, I only notice brief improvement when I'm sick and then I feel even more tired and overall worse.. I don't tell anyone what to do but for me it seems helpful. I don't have religious reasons, I'm not ashamed of it and I don't care about going against mainstream.. Maybe it helps only certain types of people, who knows, I'm probably one of them.. For anyone who looks down on this, I encourage you to stay open minded.. give it try for several days.. If then you decide It's utter nonsense, it's ok..

    • @infernoisreal
      @infernoisreal 2 года назад +14

      You might wanna ask yourself why you are constantly looking for stimulus, for me it was because of my ADHD but it could be different for many people.

    • @hellomumbo
      @hellomumbo Год назад

      I completely agree to this. The speaker does not seem to have real experience about it.masturbation is wrong. It weakens you physically as well as mentally.

  • @rumana3211
    @rumana3211 9 лет назад +6

    Congratulations Teesha!

  • @vishnusawant2562
    @vishnusawant2562 3 года назад +21

    Very calmly and in simple words she explained everything... 👌 awesome

  • @JackyAYenga
    @JackyAYenga 9 лет назад +60

    Well done Teesha! Your presentation was both entertaining and informative, and I learned a thing or two... What a great way to talk about this topic! I wish you great success on your journey to support people with better sex education, you are definitely needed.

  • @firenzarfrenzy4985
    @firenzarfrenzy4985 2 месяца назад

    I get the message. Everything from 14:45 to 15:42
    "Change the connotation of the word masturbation."
    That's the one-sentence sum-up.

  • @kilroy8989
    @kilroy8989 8 лет назад +163

    I will not be able to look at cornflakes the same again

    • @alexandergilles8583
      @alexandergilles8583 6 лет назад +3

      As long as your cornflakes have milk, they’re great ;)

  • @kiraf.9135
    @kiraf.9135 7 лет назад +15

    This was so on point. I'm showing this to all my girl friends. Every woman needs to see this.

  • @deadshxot4207
    @deadshxot4207 5 лет назад +20

    Who saw that look at 6:30 when she said more likely the more educated u are......look of self reflect

  • @evilpumpkinx8572
    @evilpumpkinx8572 10 месяцев назад

    Thats a good opening point. masturbation is usually determined on our happyness to tribute. It may feel like its self loathing, and its not. I dont find it miserable to appreciate my understanding. Its wise to feel like you want to you want to , if you dont need to just resist. Not really a mean subject.

  • @borderbioscope1180
    @borderbioscope1180 6 лет назад +74

    When the tiger roars at the door, don't open the door. Don't even sneak a look at the tiger out the small window upstairs.
    If you want to increase will power.

    • @sayyedfaizan9550
      @sayyedfaizan9550 5 лет назад +3

      Border Bioscope so well, wow amazing explanation 😂😂

    • @Jblah
      @Jblah 5 лет назад +6

      U either have willpower or you dont. U cant increase it. Now tame that tiger and become the man of the house.

    • @eddycolon1986
      @eddycolon1986 5 лет назад

      @@Jblah OHHHH OOOHHHH GET OUT THE WAY OMG HAHAHA

    • @jon3nnb646
      @jon3nnb646 5 лет назад

      @@Jblah fixed mindset I see.

    • @ximertracks-subtome9907
      @ximertracks-subtome9907 4 года назад

      wut?

  • @KineticGamingYT
    @KineticGamingYT 2 года назад +5

    i just love the way, how she started with a smile! 😊

  • @paginate
    @paginate 9 лет назад +8

    Way to go Teesha, great talk- good advice- lets hope we change perspective

  • @jerrykester7155
    @jerrykester7155 3 года назад +4

    Well if we're all being adults and we're all being honest with ourselves more than with other people she made a lot of very good points enough where even I would love a chance to sit down and speak with this woman

    • @practical3341
      @practical3341 3 года назад

      Actually first 30 seconds were true.
      Don't get confused by this video.
      Society doesn't want you to succeed.
      there are infinite side effects of masturbation. For true guidance watch Chastity108 youtube channel.
      Good luck.

  • @bhagavanfate
    @bhagavanfate 9 лет назад +252

    Well, I partly agree with her, but she uses the "I'm saying the truth, trust me" speech, without any reference to any study whatsoever. That's just awful.

    • @chrisleericardel6573
      @chrisleericardel6573 7 лет назад +13

      She is a professional just like she said

    • @Nigarj
      @Nigarj 7 лет назад +37

      Some speakers find that citing constantly tends to bog down the speech, especially if there is a time limit.
      Also a quick google search proves that she has a doctorate so I think she knows what she is saying.

    • @lovefunkrockmusic
      @lovefunkrockmusic 7 лет назад +16

      Lol, not everyone with doctorate knows what they are saying.some are just trying to push an agenda.

    • @rohanjarande
      @rohanjarande 6 лет назад +5

      At least they site the research, Instead of telling people to just believe them.
      You are naive if you think professionals can't be ideologues.

    • @carlostejada1479
      @carlostejada1479 6 лет назад +9

      Pedro Luque
      She is wrong in many things... there other videos here that says almost the opposite!!
      when masturbation becomes an adiction, we have a problem.
      Men loses LOTS of energy in masturbation. (I don't need any video to know this!!)
      and if you practice alone, you'll play alone...
      when you practice football, soccer, etc you play with others... you don't practice alone

  • @Datuksri007
    @Datuksri007 9 лет назад +144

    Eye cant help noticing the tip top points.

    • @michaelyaeger8704
      @michaelyaeger8704 7 лет назад

      Grass Horper...cant believe I missed that! Thanks for pointing that out, no pun intended

  • @JerryLee..
    @JerryLee.. 6 лет назад +11

    Another benefit is that your dominant hand gets much much stronger.

  • @klauswigsmith
    @klauswigsmith 3 года назад +3

    0:32 not to nitpick or be overly pedantic but "infertile" is a term reserved for women's reproductive ability, or lack there of. The correct term for men is "sterile".