+Jason Hunter Sounds more like a secret, occultish, feminzai criminal organization determined to rule the Earth. Kind of a cross between Cobra and Vagina Monologues and Hydra. "I am the CLIT Commander!" - Jay hehehehe
I think that the problem here is that she separates the act of masturbation from pornography. For men, rarely does one come without the other. The damaging effects of pornography and the addictive nature of it can have an impact on psychological health and intimacy in relationships.
I really like how relaxed and comfortable people in these fields are with topics like sex, and I mean this is how everybody should be. It doesn't make sense to feel bad about it or guilty, everybody does it, people in the past did, it people in the future will continue to do it so? If it wasn't meant to be done you wouldn't have discovered it alone!
Masturbation is good and even healthy but chronic porn use as a means to masturbate can be hugely detrimental to overall mental health and lead to erectile dysfunction. I think she hurt her presentation not to underline or even address that point especially since, for most men, porn and masturbation goes hand in hand... no pun intended.
Of all of the masturbation videos on the internet, this is the only one I have found that is actually helpful, and doesn't feel a person full of some false sense of shame. Thank you for sharing!
Kami Sama Careful, I had many who pretend to be egalitarian, until they realize they can use the law to steal your house and income. For money they stop being egalitarian pretty quick...
@@agent-eg8mb I saw your comment and out of morbid curiosity I decided to randomly google "nofap suicides". Much to my surprise I came across a plethora of results. I'm not trying to suggest there's an inherent correlation between the practice of nofap and intrusive thoughts but I just wanted to get your perspective on that particular subject. Do you think there's any demographic that might be more susceptible to suffering adverse effects while on nofap?
@@knowledgeismyrock nope. Its like drugs. If you dont do it, youre not addicted, and you feel normal. But once you start, you feel like you cant stop, which is probably you.
Masturbation neutralizes the desire to interact with women sexually and can lead one to living with one's hand rather than with a woman (if masturbation is used frequently enough).
+humanyoda Just a guess because I'm not who you are questioning, but I'd say a decrease in libido would be hugely beneficial for men because we do some really stupid things and make some really terrible decisions based on attraction. We settle for the wrong woman, we quit great careers to move to be with someone who isn't right for us. The list is pretty extensive. There's a reason for the saying "you used the wrong head" in decision making.
+Amadon Faul Makes sense, but I view this method as a double-edge sword. It is possible to settle on living with one's hand rather than with a woman. That's what I meant.
Watch the whole video or another Ted talk about porn. It is pornography that has this effect not masturbation. Why do you think such a large majority of men watch porn? Because... Simple masturbation isn't enough we want a woman. Porn becomes the substitution not jacking off. You're essentially knocking something because most people do it wrong.
he brings down blood pressure. Reduces stress. there's nobody you have to deal with afterwards except yourself. and it will keep your ass out of prison.
She's two standard deviations above average in looks, pretty enough to be noticed, yet not so beautiful as to seem unapproachable. Actually the best condition.
I love the sheer amount of comments here that boil down to "YOU'RE WRONG! YOU'RE TWISTED!" that offer _no actual evidence or counterpoint,_ just disagreement.
You are amazing Teesha! Thank you So much for talking about this in such a cool, entertainingly relaxed, casual, and non smutty way. VERY much appreciated.
This was a good presentation! I admire her confidence and humor while talking about this. I loved her message about shame and how we need to be able to accept ourselves and not feel guilty about it.
Well said. She amazed me of how she delivered her message effectively. The way talk was calm and smooth. Her visual presentation was a good way to present her ideas coherently. The way she moves and the way she uses her hands were also a good way to convey every points of her message. Overall, her communication skills were pretty impressive and if I would to rate her speech then it would be 9/10.
Well, I partly agree with her, but she uses the "I'm saying the truth, trust me" speech, without any reference to any study whatsoever. That's just awful.
Some speakers find that citing constantly tends to bog down the speech, especially if there is a time limit. Also a quick google search proves that she has a doctorate so I think she knows what she is saying.
Pedro Luque She is wrong in many things... there other videos here that says almost the opposite!! when masturbation becomes an adiction, we have a problem. Men loses LOTS of energy in masturbation. (I don't need any video to know this!!) and if you practice alone, you'll play alone... when you practice football, soccer, etc you play with others... you don't practice alone
What she is not talking about is that masturbation can lead to lost of motivation, social anxiety, lost of confidence and can be trap that prevents you from pursuing your passions and life goals. Conscious celibacy can help with these issues. Also, excessive masturbation can prevent you from looking for real life partner. Combined with porn can mess up with your perception of sex and relationships between sexes. I would argue that in moderation it will not kill you, and conscious celibacy can bring you some benefits. BTW I am not advocating becoming priest.
Social anxiety / loss of confidence: I bet the stigma that masturbation carries doesn't help. Are you sure it's masturbation causing these and not the stigma?
You may be right. Propably porn is more dangerous than masturbation alone. But I still believe that you can get some benefits from not masturbating. There are some theories as to why that can happen. One tells that when you dont do it, your body recognize that you are not reproducing and give you extra energy to improve yourself, your confidence and motivation. Also, masturbation gives you huge dopamine kick, and when you overdose over time, you can become depleted. Thats my thoughts.
Bernd jendrissek IKR... centures of sexual repression was bound to do humanity some good... it's not like it goes against everything we know about biology right? or dosen't lead to prostaid cancer. -_-
@@ejdemih Your going down the wrong path bud, seriously it doesent get pretty. If basic human activity causes you to feel shame and anxiaty, thats because you view it as shameful, The fact someone told you its bad is why you feel bad, not because it is. You should apply that line of thinking to alot of things im sure your reading
She is right about some things but I believe it DOES teach me instant gratification which makes my life feel harder than it is.. I get more distracted because I tend to search for a stimulus that gives me similar feeling more often.. I did experience worse performance at a gym after doing it (I'm talking day or two before).. I'm not sure about immunity improvement, I only notice brief improvement when I'm sick and then I feel even more tired and overall worse.. I don't tell anyone what to do but for me it seems helpful. I don't have religious reasons, I'm not ashamed of it and I don't care about going against mainstream.. Maybe it helps only certain types of people, who knows, I'm probably one of them.. For anyone who looks down on this, I encourage you to stay open minded.. give it try for several days.. If then you decide It's utter nonsense, it's ok..
I completely agree to this. The speaker does not seem to have real experience about it.masturbation is wrong. It weakens you physically as well as mentally.
I've been doing it since I was 17 and say it makes me go blind and grow hair on my hands and a lot of religious people say things that God hates us doing it and also a stress reliever as a fact as what you say.
When the tiger roars at the door, don't open the door. Don't even sneak a look at the tiger out the small window upstairs. If you want to increase will power.
WHEN MY MOM CAUGHT DOING THE DASTARDLY DEED SHE TOLD ME IT WOULD CAUSE ME TO GO BLIND! I THEN ASKED HER IF I COULD JUST DO IT UNTIL I NEEDED GLASSES!!! GO FIGURE !
It lowers your stress, gives happy chemicals, feel relaxed, but the only thing is don't overdo it, Anything in excess has its negative effects, cardio for 20 to 30 min will get you in shape, but cardio for 10 straight hours nonstop will kill you for sure, do it, but don't overdo it
sean wilde Exactly. Obviously the Mental state of some who jacks off once or twice a day vs someone who collects large galleries or video columns of pornography videos. Will differ drastically. natural masturbation has many physical and physiological benefits.
0:32 not to nitpick or be overly pedantic but "infertile" is a term reserved for women's reproductive ability, or lack there of. The correct term for men is "sterile".
This is such a wonderful speech on a very serious topic within current society with intelligent humors, and it contains a lot of facts as well. I am a big believer in communication and trust are key to successfully relationships (particularly sexuality part of the relationship) , and masturbation can really help in those two areas, because if you don't know your own body, your own sexual pleasure, then how would you expect anyone else to know better than yourself. Only when you know yourself well enough, you can guide your partners and communicate clearly with your partner to allow him/her to give you pleasure, and trust in him/her to allow you to receive great pleasure.
The most eloquent and mellifluous speaker I've ever heard. I just want her to keep talking 😄 and such immense intellect and wit ! Wow! But surprised that Ted has spelling mistakes :P
An old man in nursing home was caught "pleasuring himself". A very conservative nurse tells him "Stop that; you'll go blind." The man asks "Can't I do it until I just get cataracts?"
VERY factual and real explanation of what we are in disguise. Indeed the term makes much difference Masturbation and changing this would really be something we ought to do earlier.
She did not speak of real health issues that men feel after too much masturbation. Don't fall for the beauty of the lady. What I've experienced, I will tell you. Masturbation makes you weaker, lessens immunity, feels dizzy sometimes, weakens nerves like shaking hands, shortens your ejaculation time, lessens powers of concentration, leads you to find a stimulus every now and then. Never go with what is told to you. If you really do masturbation, you will have some problems. So not for God's sake, but for yourself you should try to get rid of it to enjoy a healthy life. At least you can decrease it.
Congratulations Teesha! Your talk was edgy, funny, informative - but above all, a great way to tackle a topic that many folks have questions about, but didn't know who to ask... now they do! Great job, and I'm looking forward to hearing more great stories from you in the future!
What a delight it is to hear this important topic covered in such a playful and inviting way. Love your presentation style, humour and your joy is infectious! I can't wait to refer my clients to your RUclips!
I can’t believe people used to believe the lies. Thank god I know everything about masturbation. It’s natural. You can do it how ever many times you want. It’s that simple.
An open question: May masturbation improve self-esteem, confidence? so you live a temporarily dream and plays to create a reality in your mind. As you think in possibilities when dating, or after breaking a relationship, then you create a happy ending in your mind?
I feel like there's like a ted talk for everything
It sure seems that way. This channels videos have been going on for years. Plus, everybody wants to take the stage to conduct a lecture.
... and everyone.
I love your profile pic
It’s 2019 and you’re still rockin’ bleach smh
There is
RIP to the one who just watched the first 30 seconds, lost his hope and left the video thinking that now he is DONE !
Lmao
:(
😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
Rest in peace ⚰️
Clitoral hood sounds like a some place in downtown, where women rule the situation
+Jason Hunter Sup....my femey! LOL
Funny, Jason. Humor is good! ;)
+Jason Hunter
Sounds more like a secret, occultish, feminzai criminal organization determined to rule the Earth. Kind of a cross between Cobra and Vagina Monologues and Hydra.
"I am the CLIT Commander!" - Jay
hehehehe
+Jason Hunter HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Dude, that's the best line I've read since I learnt what is a clitoris
+Jason Hunter feministic dream place :)
"... improves immune functioning"
I ought to be goddamned immortal by now.
LOL
Ahahaha....that's where Highlanders came out from! LOL
😂😂😂😂💪🏻💪🏻
TMI! LOL!
You just made cry of laughter
Indians have the most spicy foods and they also have one of the highest populations in the world... Myth broken in a sentence... 😂😂😂😂🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳
😂👌
The Chinese as well lmao 😂
@@SnipFred yes!!! They have noodles.
Yes you're right.. Spicy food specially more use of onion and garlic
*China!!
I think that the problem here is that she separates the act of masturbation from pornography. For men, rarely does one come without the other. The damaging effects of pornography and the addictive nature of it can have an impact on psychological health and intimacy in relationships.
She literally talked about it AND explained it...
Particularly damaging to the magazine if you not a straight shooter
I blame my Jesus Christ church for spreading the myths about pleasuring myself. This Jesus guy and his priests have lied to humanity.
I can say nothing
Well said
Damn the infertile myth at the start made me say to myself “okay maybe not today”
caleb just do it on ur own pace.dont be addicted
Hey loona
Idk...I thought maybe being infertile could have its benefits...
It made me say to my self "never again".
@@arbaazjamadar3720 same bro 😂🤣
Wonder how many parents brought their children along to hear her talk.
At a Ted talk? I don’t think kids would be there... think being the key word as I don’t know the rules behind guests or audience members.
Yh
@@dubbingsync yes I think so too
Actually , I suspect it would be every bit as likely the other way round - "See Mum... It's not just me!".
probably none
I was about to become depressed in starting ... I got a feeling of relief when she said all are lies
He'll yea lol
Mi too lol
What if it's true :s
Hahaha!
Give us
damn she got me for a second there
+Quantum op Same here.
+Quantum op me too
It was enough for me to rethink my whole life, lol.
+TheIcanntspel me to
+Quantum op I was so scared haha
*_THEY HAD US IN THE FIRST HALF NOT GONNA LIE_*
😂😂😂
Haha
Yo I was so scared 🤣🤣
"Too much self-loving can cause you to grow hair on the palms of your hands"
*checks palms*
Been washing my hands with Nair all these years for nothing!
@benightedstxrmz hey by ma****bating did u have speech problems?
Spiderman
Really? Is that what she said and did? Thanks for letting me know, I was on toilet,🙄
thats litteraly me LOL
Heart attack in beginning 😂
True
😂
🙌🏽🙌🏽😂😂😂😂
😂😌😌
True, i went pale 😑
Dont watch this on day 20 of nofap.
Tacitus Kilgore y
More than Correct
Its too late bruh XD
damn i was exactly on day 20 you saved me lol
@@tanaypandey1771 lol
I really like how relaxed and comfortable people in these fields are with topics like sex, and I mean this is how everybody should be. It doesn't make sense to feel bad about it or guilty, everybody does it, people in the past did, it people in the future will continue to do it so? If it wasn't meant to be done you wouldn't have discovered it alone!
Yeah, but I don't like what other people do with their bodies that doesn't effect me at all whatsoever! It makes me uncomfortable hurr durr.
Say it louder for the people in the back
Peter Tzonis that's a trained lecturer she's doing. All Memory!
Peter Tzonis
but she's missing a looot of points, and she's wrong in many things...
NoFap belief?
As soon as she said it will grow hair on your palm ... I was relieved
You already know what people did after watching this video ;)
+Bladesmen420 ate a yam, happens everytime, to everyone
Hahaha
😂
Lolll
✊👉💦💦
Masturbation is good and even healthy but chronic porn use as a means to masturbate can be hugely detrimental to overall mental health and lead to erectile dysfunction. I think she hurt her presentation not to underline or even address that point especially since, for most men, porn and masturbation goes hand in hand... no pun intended.
it is not healthy at all.
Romel Nailes Jr. , his name is Shane Idleman.
Actually masturbation is very healthy, and can decrease sickness. Just be sure to wash your hands before and after 😉
hand and hand. lol
She wants to keep her Job, maybe she didn't address it because of that.
Of all of the masturbation videos on the internet, this is the only one I have found that is actually helpful, and doesn't feel a person full of some false sense of shame. Thank you for sharing!
Clicked on this TED Talk as a simple man. Left feeling intrigued by her intellect.
If masturbation makes you avoid marriage, then go for it!
+Valken That would explain why Iv'e never married, Iv'e been a wanker all my life!
he's like " I recommend it sir" jajaja
LMFAO wanking me to go for marriage even more. I would never ever want a feminist wife but rather an Egalitarian one even if they are hard to find XD
Kami Sama Careful, I had many who pretend to be egalitarian, until they realize they can use the law to steal your house and income. For money they stop being egalitarian pretty quick...
Valken yeah bro i know but i'll marry contractual
Who else checked the palm of their hands for hair
✋😜
IM NOT ALONE
Alyssa M. How are you?I wish to be your friend
✋😄😄
🤣🤣🤣
When someone asks what I did last night I usually say "I netflix and chilled with myself"
That's what a girl on Tinder replied to me. Now it makes sense.
Amazing facts
Pronhub and chill.
Humans have a way of talking themselves into negative behavior. In all honesty we should practice self control.
Nofap proves her wrong
She did a comparison between sports and masturbation... ugh women.
@@agent-eg8mb yup nofap is really good.improves confidence and conserves energy.
facts.
@@agent-eg8mb I saw your comment and out of morbid curiosity I decided to randomly google "nofap suicides".
Much to my surprise I came across a plethora of results. I'm not trying to suggest there's an inherent correlation between the practice of nofap and intrusive thoughts but I just wanted to get your perspective on that particular subject.
Do you think there's any demographic that might be more susceptible to suffering adverse effects while on nofap?
I'm still thinking about those 5% of men who have never masturbated.
Me too. Wish I never had. 😁😁
do their balls eventually just explode?
@@knowledgeismyrock hahaha
@@knowledgeismyrock nope. Its like drugs. If you dont do it, youre not addicted, and you feel normal. But once you start, you feel like you cant stop, which is probably you.
they are liars!!
Masturbation neutralizes the desire to interact with women sexually and can lead one to living with one's hand rather than with a woman (if masturbation is used frequently enough).
+Nerian For whom?
+Nerian How have you arrived at that thought?
+humanyoda Just a guess because I'm not who you are questioning, but I'd say a decrease in libido would be hugely beneficial for men because we do some really stupid things and make some really terrible decisions based on attraction. We settle for the wrong woman, we quit great careers to move to be with someone who isn't right for us. The list is pretty extensive. There's a reason for the saying "you used the wrong head" in decision making.
+Amadon Faul Makes sense, but I view this method as a double-edge sword. It is possible to settle on living with one's hand rather than with a woman. That's what I meant.
Watch the whole video or another Ted talk about porn. It is pornography that has this effect not masturbation. Why do you think such a large majority of men watch porn? Because... Simple masturbation isn't enough we want a woman. Porn becomes the substitution not jacking off. You're essentially knocking something because most people do it wrong.
it improves your immune functioning. now I know why I never get sick.
Especially if you come in your own mouth. Your own creamy nectary vitamin shot would shoot straight down your throat for easy administering.
yehh same here
@@kristinburton4953 humanity could've just died so long ago, but this, this is the source
@@kristinburton4953 wtf lol
Damn 😂
She needs to distinguish between men and women. Women gain strength but men get exhausted.
*men gain shame lmao
😅🤣🤣
I beg to differ....
@@ShizzieShizz73 you must be a woman then.
@@bungangamsha3526 😂😂😂
"Romance the hell out of yourself", great line Teesha, you too.
+sri ram According to who?
I love that line too... :)
I don't know if anyone noticed but she is amazingly attractive 😉
I did!
Yes I noticed that quite readily!
I noticed her bobs
I liked her more and more as she kept talking
Nah
Masterbation is fine, just don't let it get out of hand.....
Whiskers Briarwood is that a pun😂
Bruh
snicker ...snicker
Just don't let it go to your head?
😂😂😂😂😂
This is the way to do presentation. She was quite good in interacting with the audiences.
I was shaken for the first 30 seconds. I was like I am done boy 😂🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣
I was scared to death..😅😅😅😂😂
Ahahahahahahah......
Yea man...
I thought my unborn children were only a figment of my imagination for a minute
Does she show us how its done properly on TEDxxx?
Ahahahahahahhahahahahhaha
hahahahaha she did. Visit PornHub
Abhimanyu Aryan really? where
Yo wtf im on the odd side of the comment section
She was saying stop watching me and just do it.😁...
Do whatt😁😁
Right😂😂😂😂
she won my hearts by debunking all myths
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If masturbation _did_ make you go blind, would you....
a: stop
b: slow down
c: take your chances
Lol. Definitely take my chances.
Hmm.....decisions, decisions.
If you went blind, the good news is that you'd still be able to beat your meat😅
I may be wrong but I'll guess you are a woman?
C
he brings down blood pressure. Reduces stress. there's nobody you have to deal with afterwards except yourself. and it will keep your ass out of prison.
Ever heard of Jack the Ripper
x ppP are you talking about masterbation or Jesus????
Really? Out of jail?
@@JonnieQuestsStars ... masturbation*
Who is "he"?
Thanks for explaining one of the most confusing question.
but why our baba's are against thhis bhai...
This poor lady has NO idea what she talking about. Masturbation is the worst thing for mind body and soul.
@we see the ligh it’s being proven that masturbation clears the mind
@@beliver468 you've got "soul" in your sentence, so we know it's gotta be true!
Wonder how she feels about the NoFap Movement? 🤔
don't worry about what some random thinks
She scared me the first few minutes 😂
我也是，吓死了
@@人民不需要自由-h6g tf?
@@Jblah 什么意思？what？
and then I felt so thankful for telling me lies!!
She's two standard deviations above average in looks, pretty enough to be noticed, yet not so beautiful as to seem unapproachable. Actually the best condition.
I think she's gorgeous myself, but i still agree with you, and well thought out.
I love the sheer amount of comments here that boil down to "YOU'RE WRONG! YOU'RE TWISTED!" that offer _no actual evidence or counterpoint,_ just disagreement.
6:29 "The more educated you are; the more you get esposed to the it" hits hard!
Thanks for being so open, I highly appreciated.
You are amazing Teesha!
Thank you So much for talking about this in such a cool, entertainingly relaxed, casual, and non smutty way.
VERY much appreciated.
L
This was a good presentation! I admire her confidence and humor while talking about this. I loved her message about shame and how we need to be able to accept ourselves and not feel guilty about it.
Supposed to make you go blind but, somehow I can't see that.
I love things like this that support my existing beliefs.
🤔
Well said. She amazed me of how she delivered her message effectively. The way talk was calm and smooth. Her visual presentation was a good way to present her ideas coherently. The way she moves and the way she uses her hands were also a good way to convey every points of her message. Overall, her communication skills were pretty impressive and if I would to rate her speech then it would be 9/10.
@Venom Hype hi how are you? is there female?
I was so depressed at the beginning untill she said it's a lie
@@rideadventure3777 time to get it done before I get to the other thing that is not worth the time to talk about it
Well, I partly agree with her, but she uses the "I'm saying the truth, trust me" speech, without any reference to any study whatsoever. That's just awful.
She is a professional just like she said
Some speakers find that citing constantly tends to bog down the speech, especially if there is a time limit.
Also a quick google search proves that she has a doctorate so I think she knows what she is saying.
Lol, not everyone with doctorate knows what they are saying.some are just trying to push an agenda.
At least they site the research, Instead of telling people to just believe them.
You are naive if you think professionals can't be ideologues.
Pedro Luque
She is wrong in many things... there other videos here that says almost the opposite!!
when masturbation becomes an adiction, we have a problem.
Men loses LOTS of energy in masturbation. (I don't need any video to know this!!)
and if you practice alone, you'll play alone...
when you practice football, soccer, etc you play with others... you don't practice alone
I kept staring at the butterfly tattoo on her ankle.
Oh, so that was what the tattoo is.
I liked it too, great legs!
@@edwintalbot1653 True..... And that makes me wonder if up north there is some more curly hair :-)
I thought I’d be the only one staring at that tattoo
What she is not talking about is that masturbation can lead to lost of motivation, social anxiety, lost of confidence and can be trap that prevents you from pursuing your passions and life goals. Conscious celibacy can help with these issues. Also, excessive masturbation can prevent you from looking for real life partner. Combined with porn can mess up with your perception of sex and relationships between sexes.
I would argue that in moderation it will not kill you, and conscious celibacy can bring you some benefits. BTW I am not advocating becoming priest.
Social anxiety / loss of confidence: I bet the stigma that masturbation carries doesn't help. Are you sure it's masturbation causing these and not the stigma?
You may be right. Propably porn is more dangerous than masturbation alone. But I still believe that you can get some benefits from not masturbating. There are some theories as to why that can happen. One tells that when you dont do it, your body recognize that you are not reproducing and give you extra energy to improve yourself, your confidence and motivation. Also, masturbation gives you huge dopamine kick, and when you overdose over time, you can become depleted. Thats my thoughts.
Bernd jendrissek IKR... centures of sexual repression was bound to do humanity some good... it's not like it goes against everything we know about biology right? or dosen't lead to prostaid cancer. -_-
This is the comment i was looking for, you are chad
@@ejdemih Your going down the wrong path bud, seriously it doesent get pretty.
If basic human activity causes you to feel shame and anxiaty, thats because you view it as shameful, The fact someone told you its bad is why you feel bad, not because it is.
You should apply that line of thinking to alot of things im sure your reading
She is right about some things but I believe it DOES teach me instant gratification which makes my life feel harder than it is.. I get more distracted because I tend to search for a stimulus that gives me similar feeling more often.. I did experience worse performance at a gym after doing it (I'm talking day or two before).. I'm not sure about immunity improvement, I only notice brief improvement when I'm sick and then I feel even more tired and overall worse.. I don't tell anyone what to do but for me it seems helpful. I don't have religious reasons, I'm not ashamed of it and I don't care about going against mainstream.. Maybe it helps only certain types of people, who knows, I'm probably one of them.. For anyone who looks down on this, I encourage you to stay open minded.. give it try for several days.. If then you decide It's utter nonsense, it's ok..
You might wanna ask yourself why you are constantly looking for stimulus, for me it was because of my ADHD but it could be different for many people.
I completely agree to this. The speaker does not seem to have real experience about it.masturbation is wrong. It weakens you physically as well as mentally.
I will not be able to look at cornflakes the same again
As long as your cornflakes have milk, they’re great ;)
I've been doing it since I was 17 and say it makes me go blind and grow hair on my hands and a lot of religious people say things that God hates us doing it and also a stress reliever as a fact as what you say.
Yes and that God kills a kitten everytime you do it
When the tiger roars at the door, don't open the door. Don't even sneak a look at the tiger out the small window upstairs.
If you want to increase will power.
Border Bioscope so well, wow amazing explanation 😂😂
U either have willpower or you dont. U cant increase it. Now tame that tiger and become the man of the house.
@@Jblah OHHHH OOOHHHH GET OUT THE WAY OMG HAHAHA
@@Jblah fixed mindset I see.
wut?
The best TED talk I've ever heard. Good for you and all women.
What about men??
@@fromchopinnot good at all
WHEN MY MOM CAUGHT DOING THE DASTARDLY DEED SHE TOLD ME IT WOULD CAUSE ME TO GO BLIND! I THEN ASKED HER IF I COULD JUST DO IT UNTIL I NEEDED GLASSES!!! GO FIGURE !
im mad at her!
I can imagine a kid believing that as truth. The day the kid sees a blind person they would probably ask them, " You've masturbated didn't you?"
LMFAOOOOOOOO
Chary me up from serious relationship
Voice call +234 904 260 2671
It'll cause her to be blind ..what she doesnt know doesnt hurt her .. so why is she bothering your pleasure
If you want something done right, do it yourself.
"If you don't use it, you loose it" words to live by
I say this often....
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- Johny sins
... you lose* it
Eye cant help noticing the tip top points.
Grass Horper...cant believe I missed that! Thanks for pointing that out, no pun intended
She is quite attractive, and I am glad that she is helping couples to solve their problems.
It lowers your stress, gives happy chemicals, feel relaxed, but the only thing is don't overdo it, Anything in excess has its negative effects, cardio for 20 to 30 min will get you in shape, but cardio for 10 straight hours nonstop will kill you for sure, do it, but don't overdo it
i love this topic. masturbation is safe. we all need it.
I raised it from a pup ! ill beat it like a dog!
I don't think she's considered the male side of things.
+Rickie Hilll Yeah your right, the male facts are quite very bad to hear.
+Geoffrey Onyedikachi So suddenly it's going to kill all our cocks ?
+Geoffrey Onyedikachi not really or as far as iv researched porn on the other hand can be bad depending on how much and what type.
sean wilde Exactly. Obviously the Mental state of some who jacks off once or twice a day vs someone who collects large galleries or video columns of pornography videos. Will differ drastically. natural masturbation has many physical and physiological benefits.
cuz she will never know
3:18 - Vsauce moment
+Heros Heller LOL totaly! Michael is an inspiration :)
Heros Heller damn right
hey vsauce michael here
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0:32 not to nitpick or be overly pedantic but "infertile" is a term reserved for women's reproductive ability, or lack there of. The correct term for men is "sterile".
Who saw that look at 6:30 when she said more likely the more educated u are......look of self reflect
I am over doing it..I need to see you immediately
Me too 😂🤣🤣🤣
Very well spoken.Finally and open, intellectual and factual approach to sexuality/masturbation.
I think this video and it’s author is very inspirational 💯🔐
...this video and its* author (it's = it is) are* inspirational.
Congratulations Teesha!
This is such a wonderful speech on a very serious topic within current society with intelligent humors, and it contains a lot of facts as well. I am a big believer in communication and trust are key to successfully relationships (particularly sexuality part of the relationship) , and masturbation can really help in those two areas, because if you don't know your own body, your own sexual pleasure, then how would you expect anyone else to know better than yourself. Only when you know yourself well enough, you can guide your partners and communicate clearly with your partner to allow him/her to give you pleasure, and trust in him/her to allow you to receive great pleasure.
Give me your phone number gobble , gobble
I watch the whole video for the 1St time in my entire RUclips career
It was because of her. Attractive woman
It's wonderful how people laugh at the men's problems, and nobody thinks anything bad about it.
And ED is always the man's problem, too. And men have to wear condoms or get a vasectomy.
i was scared at the beginning but then i realized she was empasizing a point and the statements were myths.
The most eloquent and mellifluous speaker I've ever heard. I just want her to keep talking 😄 and such immense intellect and wit ! Wow! But surprised that Ted has spelling mistakes :P
Great lecture Teesha! You make me proud. Keep up the great work.
don't know but she is amazing talker i mean speaker on stage and she has the guts to touch such topic wow
Now it's your turn to do some touching.
Wait, how was this recommended for my watching??
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BOERA NDEMO
You know...
You must have been searching for some kinky stuff lately lol
Google knows what you are doing.
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You are a wonderful speaker Teesha! Keep spreading the word
I mean
this girl would have a butterfly ankle tattoo
so true. this girl listens to chart music.
I see she may have HPV.
Your name and dp though 😹😹😹
Yeah.. but what manner of tramp stamp is she sportin?
i thought the same thing
An old man in nursing home was caught "pleasuring himself". A very conservative nurse tells him "Stop that; you'll go blind." The man asks "Can't I do it until I just get cataracts?"
VERY factual and real explanation of what we are in disguise. Indeed the term makes much difference Masturbation and changing this would really be something we ought to do earlier.
She did not speak of real health issues that men feel after too much masturbation. Don't fall for the beauty of the lady. What I've experienced, I will tell you. Masturbation makes you weaker, lessens immunity, feels dizzy sometimes, weakens nerves like shaking hands, shortens your ejaculation time, lessens powers of concentration, leads you to find a stimulus every now and then. Never go with what is told to you. If you really do masturbation, you will have some problems. So not for God's sake, but for yourself you should try to get rid of it to enjoy a healthy life. At least you can decrease it.
Congratulations Teesha! Your talk was edgy, funny, informative - but above all, a great way to tackle a topic that many folks have questions about, but didn't know who to ask... now they do! Great job, and I'm looking forward to hearing more great stories from you in the future!
I blame my Jesus Christ church for spreading the myths about pleasuring myself. This Jesus guy and his priests have lied to humanity.
Very well done. Articulate and informative. We need more women like Teesha breaking down barriers to our happiness.
You aren't going to find many women like her in this country.
What a delight it is to hear this important topic covered in such a playful and inviting way. Love your presentation style, humour and your joy is infectious! I can't wait to refer my clients to your RUclips!
+Jo-Anne Weiler Just for her presentation?
I love the way she delivered the entire presentation on such a sensitive topic. kudos!
Yes she's terrific. You can tune into her on the Shine In 2016 webinar. Sign up app.webinarjam.net/register/23623/b8a4305988
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I can’t believe people used to believe the lies. Thank god I know everything about masturbation. It’s natural. You can do it how ever many times you want. It’s that simple.
Another benefit is that your dominant hand gets much much stronger.
Or you become unbalanced.
Stop reading the comment focus on the video
I must be really well-educated...
Read the title and thought it said "Masturbation Methods" and I was like oh shit but now I'm here and kind of disappointed
Aiden Woods 😂😂
Aiden Woods 😂😂😂
9:05 ladies and gentlemen, we finally found the cure for the coronavirus
Thats true.. according to scientist..
Lol
Damn boi
Genius baby
vaccination reverse way (men's view only) 😂
An open question:
May masturbation improve self-esteem, confidence?
so you live a temporarily dream and plays to create a reality in your mind.
As you think in possibilities when dating, or after breaking a relationship, then you create a happy ending in your mind?
Hope so
I "enjoyed" this Ted Talk. ;)
I get you
I bet she does it all the time
Dilir daiyan aranna o felt bad I insulted ur mama
Keep on fucking your cows.
Dilir daiyan aranna why don't you just shit through ur mouth and speak through ur ass instead
***** haha why didn't I think of that one.. 🙌👍
"why don't you just shit through ur mouth and speak through ur ass instead" Classic... >XD also to the relivant topic she is a nymphomaniac.
Her child is the luckiest child 👶 in the whole world
Right
I get the message. Everything from 14:45 to 15:42
"Change the connotation of the word masturbation."
That's the one-sentence sum-up.