The Skill of Humor | Andrew Tarvin | TEDxTAMU

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  • Опубликовано: 23 ноя 2024

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  • @amkamat92
    @amkamat92 5 лет назад +7314

    “Unable to establish connection to the server.” That was really smart lmao

  • @brijavpogi
    @brijavpogi 5 лет назад +13609

    Dear Andrew,
    I loved your TedTalk.
    Love,
    Your viewer

  • @PlanetXtreme
    @PlanetXtreme 4 года назад +13503

    Wouldn't it have been hilarious if nobody laughed at this guy's jokes during the Ted talk

    • @DatSaltyPerson
      @DatSaltyPerson 4 года назад +599

      Laughed at this comment

    • @kaivalyaarora3258
      @kaivalyaarora3258 4 года назад +446

      @@DatSaltyPersonDidn't laugh at this reply

    • @DatSaltyPerson
      @DatSaltyPerson 4 года назад +647

      @@kaivalyaarora3258 Understandable, have a nice day

    • @samara_w3273
      @samara_w3273 4 года назад +36

      @@alwaysseverus741 thats what he said

    • @samara_w3273
      @samara_w3273 4 года назад +9

      Always Severus ohhhhh hahahaha

  • @kshitijrahatekar2147
    @kshitijrahatekar2147 3 года назад +5379

    Summary of this video:
    1. Humor is a skill that you can learn through practice
    2. Humour is a way through which you can connect with other people but starting a conversation
    3. It helps you look at the world with a less serious attitude and it can be a great companion no matter where you stand in your life right now
    4. The world's not going to fall apart due to your bad jokes, so go ahead and let it out, you surely will get better with practice
    5. Humor allows you to vent out your stress, even if you do not want to say anything out loud you could always be funny in your head
    6. It all starts with a choice, a choice to be funny to look at the whole wide world with a different lens

    • @Jump-2-the-moon
      @Jump-2-the-moon 3 года назад +41

      This video didn’t at all teach me how to be funny, it was pretty much a useless circlejerk for him to talk about himself

    • @kshitijrahatekar2147
      @kshitijrahatekar2147 3 года назад +6

      @@Jump-2-the-moon 😂😂💯

    • @ianrose6218
      @ianrose6218 3 года назад +33

      @@Jump-2-the-moon Like almost 50% of TED talks that exist. I already hate having to scour this video for actual, usable advice for a class assignment.

    • @nalanibelvin251
      @nalanibelvin251 3 года назад +57

      7. Wtf means "well that's fun"

    • @naveenkumarswarnkar2121
      @naveenkumarswarnkar2121 3 года назад +10

      Thank you for this summary and your soft finger who type it for other a me from India.

  • @masonbernheim7629
    @masonbernheim7629 6 лет назад +24769

    When will ted himself show up to the talk?

    • @christinasong9082
      @christinasong9082 5 лет назад +1500

      Mason Bernheim TED stands for Technology Entertainment Design, lol i thought it was a person too🤣

    • @masonbernheim7629
      @masonbernheim7629 5 лет назад +1475

      r/whoosh

    • @tejeshvemula6423
      @tejeshvemula6423 5 лет назад +314

      @@masonbernheim7629 I can feel for you brother :-)

    • @remimarkable4834
      @remimarkable4834 5 лет назад +339

      Why's Ted have to be a him? Maybe Ted is gender neutral, or even possibly gender reverse

    • @remimarkable4834
      @remimarkable4834 5 лет назад +55

      @@not_sterling woah is the the then that there now is, be into them that which is he

  • @robertogonzalez7428
    @robertogonzalez7428 3 года назад +1038

    "Because a reflection on the past
    leads to action in the future"
    What a quote

  • @Jayok16
    @Jayok16 5 лет назад +4146

    This dude was being funny while explaining "funny". GG
    Edit: I’m here a year later with 3.3k likes 😳 I’ve never had so much before thanks guys!

    • @desireekeys6854
      @desireekeys6854 4 года назад +9

      The JKN Effect ikr

    • @joelonsdale
      @joelonsdale 4 года назад +38

      Not THAT funny though. Polite laughter...

    • @fizzcode7758
      @fizzcode7758 4 года назад +10

      not funny, not at all

    • @Byun_David
      @Byun_David 4 года назад +2

      He had it down to a science

    • @joe_bhop
      @joe_bhop 4 года назад +1

      ( ͡ʘ ͜ʖ ͡ʘ)

  • @Artificeral
    @Artificeral 2 года назад +2464

    I love this, it's not about getting the loudest or longest laughs, it's about using humour to connect with people and making your points memorable. Keeps things light, too.

    • @quintespeed
      @quintespeed 2 года назад +38

      Dear Advait,
      Your comment was adorable.
      Love,
      Random Grandma

    • @kevinmontgomery1383
      @kevinmontgomery1383 2 года назад

      @@quintespeed Your

    • @fintanhuttermann6452
      @fintanhuttermann6452 2 года назад +5

      nah this guy is just not very funny

    • @gleefulreaper
      @gleefulreaper 2 года назад +10

      @@fintanhuttermann6452 But you are😂, Quite Laughable actually.

    • @CreeperKiller420
      @CreeperKiller420 Год назад +4

      Yeah. I really think laughter is the best medicine, and that humor is one of the best ways take the world a better place. Make more memories with people laughing with you. Smiling. It will be harder at first, but it will get easier and will Improve everybody's life including yours.

  • @imaboostedanimal2774
    @imaboostedanimal2774 4 года назад +4375

    he didn't make me laugh, but kept me entertained throughout which is impressive considering i have the attention span of a toddler with adhd

    • @zainalnashef2385
      @zainalnashef2385 4 года назад +30

      That’s me

    • @jeezus1677
      @jeezus1677 4 года назад +11

      WT(IMB)F

    • @임세열-g5s
      @임세열-g5s 4 года назад +102

      “Unable to establish connection to the server.” That was really smart lmao

    • @susanzoeckler4926
      @susanzoeckler4926 4 года назад +13

      Love your "name" & your comment-- me, me, & me. I have major ADD (I crave the H) & say I am fully connected to my inner 5 year old

    • @elizabethmartin7614
      @elizabethmartin7614 3 года назад +17

      I laughed at "That means I'm an ambitious stubborn introvert who likes long walks on the beach. "

  • @joesr31
    @joesr31 6 лет назад +6236

    He made me blow air slightly more furiously out of my nose more than once in this video, he is a funny guy

  • @unnamed7225
    @unnamed7225 3 года назад +6570

    Being funny isn't a skill
    It's your hidden Sixth sense
    The sense of humor

    • @galegarson8703
      @galegarson8703 3 года назад +264

      You just opened my third eye

    • @arktic3140
      @arktic3140 3 года назад +51

      2:57 Me: that's a lot of reasons
      Also me: sees reason 30
      *Preceeds to meme the manager

    • @glorp7833
      @glorp7833 3 года назад +15

      good one lol

    • @betharramrojas8051
      @betharramrojas8051 3 года назад +7

      :O

    • @pvs2656
      @pvs2656 3 года назад +9

      Thanks for this Theodore

  • @keeperofthehammer6795
    @keeperofthehammer6795 3 года назад +299

    "Hey girl, are you opposite over hypotenuse, because you're making me wanna sin."
    Stealing that.

    • @I_am_FRANCO
      @I_am_FRANCO 5 месяцев назад +2

      You better stop stealing and repent

    • @tj4744
      @tj4744 4 месяца назад

      how did that one work out with the poppy profilepic? xD

    • @crystalconcrete7605
      @crystalconcrete7605 3 месяца назад +1

      Just stay away from the cosine

    • @christinerobinson8017
      @christinerobinson8017 2 месяца назад +1

      That math pickup line would have totally worked on me

  • @sergiearruda443
    @sergiearruda443 4 года назад +3152

    "Hey girl, you're way above average, don't be mean".
    -Laughing and quietly taking note-

    • @cement1818
      @cement1818 3 года назад +2

      you have to take note for that?

    • @demonreturns4336
      @demonreturns4336 3 года назад +42

      Statistics was not his fav subject - confirmed 👍

    • @sergiearruda443
      @sergiearruda443 3 года назад +27

      @@demonreturns4336 ​ @Shihan Gu This is more about not being able to recall every pickup line I've heard in my life, just like I had forgotten about this one but the notification of your comment reminded me, so thanks for that hahahaha

    • @justacommentercommenting
      @justacommentercommenting 3 года назад +6

      oh wow I just got that

    • @Shettydurgesh
      @Shettydurgesh 3 года назад +1

      Why do even you watching video my boi you dont need one

  • @mandy14521452
    @mandy14521452 5 лет назад +900

    "It doesn't matter how much time we have if we never have the energy to do anything with it"
    What a great quote

    • @wompwomp3456
      @wompwomp3456 5 лет назад +8

      I read this right as he said it

    • @abhichi
      @abhichi 5 лет назад +2

      It's a quote used in that procastinator guy Ted talk..right?

    • @andrewshaffe9398
      @andrewshaffe9398 5 лет назад +3

      Mine you this is meant to teach the audience something interesting/important

    • @wulfooo
      @wulfooo 4 года назад

      @Mia Li It's still a quote you walnut

    • @jackmcguire7871
      @jackmcguire7871 2 года назад

      Might be the most precious sentence I've ever heard.. especially that I'm guilty of wastingh a lot of time

  • @willart1735
    @willart1735 3 года назад +726

    "if YOU find it funny, THAT is what matters most, because chances are someone else will too"

    • @sorlakvader155
      @sorlakvader155 3 года назад +7

      That's true mate, I like to think it has more to do with your presentation as a whole rather than the jokes. We all have that teacher or family member who is or very unfunny or quite the opposite. A mystery how the mind works

    • @sanskarpachhai8041
      @sanskarpachhai8041 3 года назад +3

      This is nice to actually believe such humour really exists.

  • @Vicky-ni2lm
    @Vicky-ni2lm 3 года назад +681

    This guy is good. I didn't laugh but I caught myself smirking from one in a while. I didn't even realize how long the video was because he actually had me invested in what he was saying. I've been literally making chicken this entire time and realized I was in a better mood than when I woke up.

    • @suyashprksh
      @suyashprksh 2 года назад +25

      That smirking is deeper than your laugh.
      I am glad you found it interesting.

    • @ved955
      @ved955 Год назад +10

      I immediately felt better after listening to his talk. I had been feeling bored and lethargic earlier due to an unproductive Sunday, but his words provided inspiration and motivation. It's amazing how the power of listening to someone's ideas and insights can have such a positive impact on our mood and well-being

    • @jianguoxia2589
      @jianguoxia2589 Год назад

      agree

    • @itmisfits
      @itmisfits Год назад +1

      It's entertainment. It's art.

  • @debakidebaki6015
    @debakidebaki6015 6 лет назад +3762

    “When something goes wrong with computers, we get error message but when something goes wrong with people , we get 'feelings' . ”

    • @__-cd9ug
      @__-cd9ug 6 лет назад +94

      wtf

    • @lolicanadian
      @lolicanadian 6 лет назад +42

      …well, sort of. An error message is merely a statement written by the programmer explaining that the program has reached a state that you, the user, would probably find undesirable. The actual error is just a number.

    • @Sibernethy
      @Sibernethy 6 лет назад +18

      Nah, I get error messages from people when they go wrong.

    • @Poppy-cock
      @Poppy-cock 6 лет назад +5

      Andrew Marx Sounds pretty much like negative emotion to me. Down to the biological programming flagging a state as undesirable and everything.

    • @kyleboatwright4262
      @kyleboatwright4262 6 лет назад

      Debaki Debaki yes

  • @arian4562
    @arian4562 5 лет назад +9372

    “Fake it until you become it” Sounds a lot like sleeping.

    • @TishSerg
      @TishSerg 5 лет назад +73

      AFAIR she actually says "*Fake it till you make it*"

    • @Kinghassz
      @Kinghassz 5 лет назад +7

      Hahaha

    • @77Sofiah
      @77Sofiah 5 лет назад +27

      What if it never happen what if I just fake it and fake it and feel wrong, bad.

    • @randomdude9135
      @randomdude9135 5 лет назад +15

      That's my MO. That's y I have MATH Genius as my channel name 😅😅🤣

    • @stutid582
      @stutid582 5 лет назад +2

      GaRry it does

  • @JCAlder
    @JCAlder 6 лет назад +2143

    It was not surprising to learn he used to be a nerd. He's actually still one, or at least has a typically nerdy sense of humour, cleverness over emotions. It's an intellectual sense of humour rather than an emotional one.

    • @norwegiannignog2470
      @norwegiannignog2470 6 лет назад +90

      JC C. Doesn’t take a genius to know that, it takes wit to have witty humor so he’s witty...

    • @jerryearl1986
      @jerryearl1986 6 лет назад +7

      your so right, if you can explain it, you can"t do it, well said!

    • @tylerwinters2578
      @tylerwinters2578 6 лет назад +9

      It takes knowledge to be a nerd, unless you bang your head on a rock... you’ll always be a nerd.

    • @alejrandom6592
      @alejrandom6592 6 лет назад +1

      Both

    • @wayzUX
      @wayzUX 6 лет назад +20

      He's doing a ted talk.

  • @exsethllent
    @exsethllent 3 года назад +84

    You can tell that he is a very intelligent person. The way he talks, stand, and also the jokes are brilliants. He is impressive.

  • @shinnyii
    @shinnyii 6 лет назад +798

    Personally I think comedy is the key to anyone’s heart. I used to be that guy in the corner, sad, and didn’t want anything to do with anyone in school. Then I told a joke to someone, they laughed. It felt so good to have someone take notice and have a positive reaction to me. Then I tried it again, and then I realised I had something with comedy and making people laugh.
    Comedy taught me confidence, and to just try. My saying is life is “If you have something funny to do or say, just do it.”

    • @ghostfox13
      @ghostfox13 5 лет назад +42

      My story is just like yours...only the guy said the joke outloud and everyone laughed and he took all the credit and later on I got beat up.

    • @achaidez1547
      @achaidez1547 5 лет назад +3

      Yea if I were to plan a joke or try to form one it just gets butchered

    • @tadeob_
      @tadeob_ 5 лет назад +1

      @@achaidez1547 same here sadly

    • @charlyx3z894
      @charlyx3z894 5 лет назад +12

      Comedy/ humor as the video shows us how to break out of the shell as you did in your case but it has so many more benefits. It also presents us an opportunity to present information uniquely in order to insure that people are listening. And humor is just a simple skill that anyone can learn which makes it such a versatile skill to add to anyones arsenal.

    • @Bonshad
      @Bonshad 5 лет назад +3

      not SirBeasty thanks for the advice
      Lost my job but you had to be there
      totally worth it

  • @YokoshimaSTAR
    @YokoshimaSTAR 6 лет назад +1972

    He said humour make you good looking and he didn't lie. He looks better now lol

    • @magnamia
      @magnamia 5 лет назад +30

      Helps, too, if people "bought" the humor.

    • @cacahuete1456
      @cacahuete1456 5 лет назад +112

      no it's just the fact that he has the eyes of Justin Timberlake

    • @marquisgomez9390
      @marquisgomez9390 5 лет назад +1

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @electric8586
      @electric8586 5 лет назад +8

      That’s also called engineering money. That suit is nice!

    • @otsutsukiyuvraj9090
      @otsutsukiyuvraj9090 5 лет назад +1

      True

  • @AparnaSChand
    @AparnaSChand 3 года назад +5898

    Am I the only one who didn't laugh but felt impressed at his jokes and was like "take notes and remember those"

  • @itzgood
    @itzgood 3 года назад +248

    Wow, I didn't want him to end his speech.
    He was quite an entertainer

  • @yazarhtun3028
    @yazarhtun3028 5 лет назад +538

    If anyone who wanna take away the tips from this lesson,
    1/ Share your point of view.
    2/ Explore and heighten.
    3/ Practice, Perform and Repeat.

    • @GraceYocum
      @GraceYocum 4 года назад +1

      Thanks I love u lol

    • @nurhusna1407
      @nurhusna1407 4 года назад +1

      Thanks it got way too long to start and I got bored lol

    • @shireenity
      @shireenity 4 года назад

      Thank you

    • @makokimoto4132
      @makokimoto4132 4 года назад

      Flirting with a waitress and “Error. Unable to establish connection to server.” 😂😂😂
      That was clever.

    • @solcoster8110
      @solcoster8110 4 года назад

      @Jamie Ng what does number 2 mean

  • @rubadubmedia
    @rubadubmedia 5 лет назад +857

    "it doesn't matter how much time we have if we never have the energy to do anything with it"
    That hit home.
    Thanks Andrew

    • @nduduzogasa5289
      @nduduzogasa5289 4 года назад +7

      I just watched the procastination video

  • @Leto85
    @Leto85 4 года назад +1447

    I love it how he starts out with his grandmother and ends his show with it. The buildup was excellent, and his humor unexpexted (at least to me). Maybe I should accidentally stumble upon his website some day.

    • @brettmastema7056
      @brettmastema7056 2 года назад +12

      He uses a lot of comedy standards that make me smile when he says them. People would be amazed how anyone can be funny if they try the rules. I love when i can say something in a certain way and get a bigger laugh than expected and they really saw something i actually wasnt saying. Although it is what i would say i mean now. LOL

    • @justflavio3260
      @justflavio3260 2 года назад +1

      don't. it uses a language we can't even translate in google translate

    • @ariadna2018
      @ariadna2018 2 года назад

      Yes !!!🤣🤣🤣 good prank for a comedian !!!

    • @Subzero3-n7r
      @Subzero3-n7r Год назад

      that's a good one(he he)

  • @nathankim9333
    @nathankim9333 3 года назад +281

    Notes:
    1. Share your point of view
    2. Explore and heighten
    3. Practice, Perform, Repeat

  • @Esterferreiradecastro
    @Esterferreiradecastro 6 лет назад +4408

    "Humor makes the person more attractive"
    Either this is false or im not as funny as i thought

    • @aurax3531
      @aurax3531 6 лет назад +6

      ester ferreira HAHA same

    • @tadeo517
      @tadeo517 6 лет назад +209

      Yeah, you're not funny at all

    • @inthedms82
      @inthedms82 5 лет назад +27

      maybe hey dont get your kind of humor

    • @ghostfox13
      @ghostfox13 5 лет назад +48

      @@inthedms82 no we get it... it doesn't make us laugh but we get it.

    • @Rayka_96
      @Rayka_96 5 лет назад +123

      makes you MORE attractive- so cheer up: maybe you were just REALLY unattractive to begin with :)

  • @AllAboutAwe_HQ
    @AllAboutAwe_HQ 5 лет назад +507

    "You are way above average. Don't be mean " 👍👍

  • @dani.phantm
    @dani.phantm 5 лет назад +2984

    this crowd is dead smh he was on a roll with the jokes

    • @goshtic9565
      @goshtic9565 5 лет назад +300

      Or the crowd aren't that bright to get the jokes. Sometime when someone say a clever joke, you just roll with it and laugh, so it makes you seem like you're smart to understand it. Ha, ha.

    • @aditimin1260
      @aditimin1260 5 лет назад +250

      @@goshtic9565 There's something about that comma...

    • @salmourn7316
      @salmourn7316 5 лет назад +81

      the mic doesn't pick up the audience very well

    • @tdreamgmail
      @tdreamgmail 5 лет назад +145

      They were overly generous. He's not funny

    • @hugoc.8534
      @hugoc.8534 5 лет назад +14

      In a smart deep way yeah but cringe asf. But I digged

  • @dr.vaishnavi_sarda
    @dr.vaishnavi_sarda 2 года назад +18

    "Reflection of the past leads to action in the future." Wise words.

  • @ImmortalLemon
    @ImmortalLemon 3 года назад +437

    I learned a while ago that if I make people laugh when trying to explain something they get it better. So I shifted my language in general to be more comedic just in my general speaking, now people understand what I say better

    • @elvikingo100
      @elvikingo100 3 года назад +15

      It's easier to keep their attention - for sure!

    • @ScorpioHR
      @ScorpioHR 3 года назад +30

      That's exactly how teaching works. You need a familiar topic, known to everyone and then present a twist to it, something that matches the same pattern but people didn't know about it. What really happens is that we got confused for a moment, trying to make the connections and see the pattern, and when we "get it" - brain gives us cookies, because brain wants us to learn new things. Children learn new things every day, laughing up to 200 times a day. Because they're discovering something new. Jokes teach us a new perspective, and it makes us happy. This is the same reason that will make you smile, because you've learned something new...
      Wait for it...........

    • @nickr8979
      @nickr8979 3 года назад +3

      What do you mean?

    • @ImmortalLemon
      @ImmortalLemon 3 года назад +14

      @@nickr8979 giggles mean big brain think. More giggle means you wanna listen more. More you listen means human word idea sharing and we can win evolution better

    • @itzelfranco2772
      @itzelfranco2772 3 года назад +5

      @@ImmortalLemon underrated comment

  • @gtheking1926
    @gtheking1926 5 лет назад +2122

    This poor video has been demonized because of “wtf” Wow That’s Fun. Wtf RUclips

    • @nirmienalt6268
      @nirmienalt6268 4 года назад +74

      Gtheking
      Wow thats fun RUclips

    • @henryventurina8832
      @henryventurina8832 4 года назад +13

      For real?

    • @jamariegdia8014
      @jamariegdia8014 4 года назад +15

      Changing the meaning of Wtf.

    • @markedwardlewis8007
      @markedwardlewis8007 4 года назад +83

      No! It’s been demonized? We need an exercist

    • @skywriter4308
      @skywriter4308 4 года назад +87

      @@markedwardlewis8007 I think you meant exorcist. xD Unless you think exercise will expel the demons.

  • @claytosrepublic7858
    @claytosrepublic7858 6 лет назад +765

    "ERROR! Unable to establish connection with server" HA! That's Brilliant!

    • @diditilanus1386
      @diditilanus1386 6 лет назад

      Claytos Republic I actually have such a 'system overload emergency powercut' it's called kataplexy and its a rare form of epilepsy induced by too many different kinds of triggers like loud noises or bright flashes

    • @jhonnyvinci
      @jhonnyvinci 6 лет назад +1

      My nuts are unable to establish connection with your chin.

    • @bibilotka
      @bibilotka 6 лет назад

      There's something about that "HA!" that puts me off... Are you being sarcastic?

    • @DragoNate
      @DragoNate 6 лет назад +4

      That was the most perfect joke

    • @Diamondkity
      @Diamondkity 6 лет назад +2

      Loved this one too! 😂

  • @AmirGTR
    @AmirGTR Год назад +42

    Man the audience was BRUTAL at first. He just powered through it till they warmed up

    • @arunkarthikma3121
      @arunkarthikma3121 6 месяцев назад +6

      Yeah, he totally killed it. I think TED probably attracts a more serious audience usually.

    • @jellybean6953
      @jellybean6953 Месяц назад +1

      @@arunkarthikma3121 You make a good point. Congrats, I quoted you in my essay about this video. 🙂

  • @HudsonG
    @HudsonG 6 лет назад +2348

    Damn, I never realized that "stressed" is "desserts" backwards.

    • @ghostfox13
      @ghostfox13 5 лет назад +14

      It's just desserts

    • @YouMakeMyMotorRun
      @YouMakeMyMotorRun 5 лет назад +82

      Also, "peppermint" is just "tnimreppep" backwards.
      But I don't like peppermint.

    • @crisvan6377
      @crisvan6377 5 лет назад +10

      aboymisunderstood hahaha, wtf wow that's funny

    • @YouMakeMyMotorRun
      @YouMakeMyMotorRun 5 лет назад +13

      @@not_sterling I guess people aren't really interested in the inner workings of the reverse typography of condiments.

    • @YouMakeMyMotorRun
      @YouMakeMyMotorRun 5 лет назад

      @Karan Well, I am flattered... feel free to subscribe to my channel or whatever. But don't look too hurt into it or you might hurt your eyes.

  • @eugeniagrammatikopoulou5200
    @eugeniagrammatikopoulou5200 4 года назад +2156

    "People who use humor are paid more."
    **cries in stand-up comedian**

    • @annaturquoise7114
      @annaturquoise7114 4 года назад +4

      lololol

    • @R3dacted_1
      @R3dacted_1 4 года назад +15

      Hubert Jasieniecki gottem

    • @fartquad326
      @fartquad326 4 года назад +4

      *Executives* who use humor are paid more.

    • @alzarian3702
      @alzarian3702 4 года назад +2

      @@fartquad326 they get humorous with the budget ;-)

    • @galegarson8703
      @galegarson8703 3 года назад +1

      Great opportunity for anyone interested to read "The Present" by Global Truth Project! Talks about how basically everything is funny when you think of it that way

  • @nightspicer
    @nightspicer 5 лет назад +2725

    "i'm a nerd. And if you're wondering what type of nerd the answer is... yes."

    • @nightspicer
      @nightspicer 5 лет назад +18

      5:21

    • @renel8964
      @renel8964 5 лет назад +38

      *I say neigh*

    • @hibak8196
      @hibak8196 5 лет назад +32

      He said that line and I fell in love lol

    • @ninjafff61
      @ninjafff61 5 лет назад +24

      Haha that's my favorite line of the show.. the speech I mean

    • @kyo250996
      @kyo250996 5 лет назад +5

      /r/inclusiveor

  • @denakelley4363
    @denakelley4363 2 года назад +55

    Humor is something I wish I had. I'm in search and rescue and also work as a clerk at a police department. Humor is indispensable. You can defuse tense situations. Someone who was subject to or a witness of a traumatic event can be pulled out of an acute stress reaction if you can make them laugh. It's am amazing skill that I would love to learn.

    • @JUNXO
      @JUNXO 7 месяцев назад

      @blackhealthtalk Yes

    • @zoedelosanne
      @zoedelosanne 5 месяцев назад +1

      just go with it!! I believe anyone can do it, and as he says, you can be funny by your lack of humor (is that understandable)

    • @j.t.harrison3203
      @j.t.harrison3203 5 месяцев назад +3

      My advice is try it but take it slow, don't gun it. If you feel you aren't reaching them, don't leave them hanging on the cliff. If you lose them just keep talking, they'll hear you eventually and feel relieved you made the effort. And finally take note that wrapping someone in a foil blanket is not as good as wrapping them in a hug and telling them a silly knock knock joke. lol hope you stay safe and do good work!

  • @38abrahams
    @38abrahams 5 лет назад +1396

    He killed me with "Hey girl, you're way above average. Don't be mean!" XD

    • @rit.x
      @rit.x 4 года назад +4

      Abraham Dadoun I am glad to be the 100 ;)

    • @hometv4166
      @hometv4166 4 года назад +15

      Average is equal to Mean..

    • @hometv4166
      @hometv4166 4 года назад +9

      @@svmwasthesheet1971 WTF

    • @curtyung884
      @curtyung884 4 года назад +4

      I didn't catch that one but his demonstration made me laugh

    • @aaroniouse
      @aaroniouse 3 года назад

      @@hometv4166 Come on, don't be average..

  • @shinnyii
    @shinnyii 6 лет назад +512

    Hey, this one is actually pretty good.
    Love, your grandma

    • @Shain3333
      @Shain3333 5 лет назад +3

      Savage

    • @1Kn2828
      @1Kn2828 5 лет назад +2

      Not Sirbeasty
      You forgot the introduction
      Love, your grandma

  • @koushikmajumder1119
    @koushikmajumder1119 5 лет назад +1895

    I use humor as a defense mechanism 😂

  • @ambition112
    @ambition112 Год назад +445

    1:06: 😂 L'humour est indispensable pour une vie professionnelle épanouissante et productive
    3:56: 🤣 Humor is a skill that can be learned, and anyone can do it.
    7:23: 🤣 Using humor and personal perspective to connect with others
    11:09: 🤣 Humor can be a powerful tool in life and work.
    15:40: 😂 Humor can create human connection and improve productivity at work.
    18:27: 🤣 Turning numbers into Roman numerals can be hilarious, even according to a grandmother.
    Recap by Tammy AI

    • @thederpydude2088
      @thederpydude2088 Год назад +10

      Woah, an AI-generated comment?
      (Why is the first sentence in French though? Haha)

    • @lombridious
      @lombridious Год назад +1

      @@thederpydude2088 same lol

  • @cynthiahawkins2389
    @cynthiahawkins2389 5 лет назад +67

    Also, I find (at 71) that as I walk around having my day: being on the lookout for funny situations and mis spellings, or just silliness, gives me such joy. And the happy feeling - lingers long in my mind. And, I suspect, in my immune system, to fight illness and aches and pains..

    • @Fortifeye
      @Fortifeye 4 года назад +1

      happy 72! Hope youre still living!

  • @jayb7386
    @jayb7386 4 года назад +119

    Watching this really makes me realize that humor is a skill, and that is from his presentation. He adds jokes along with facts that make you laugh, but it is not forced.

  • @atturnec360
    @atturnec360 4 года назад +168

    “Things would be so much easier if humans came with error an message”
    %1000 😂😂😂
    Great talk man!

  • @jessicacat1206
    @jessicacat1206 Год назад +126

    This guy really knows how to be funny! And so does his grandma!

  • @Frozenfanatic-vq4rr
    @Frozenfanatic-vq4rr 3 года назад +119

    "When a computer has a problem, you get an error message. When a something goes wrong with a human, you get...*feelings*"
    Eugh. Emotions. Felt that.

    • @stevetennispro
      @stevetennispro 3 года назад +3

      And a computer's attempt to understand humans would be... a BIT problematic. ;)

  • @BunnyFett
    @BunnyFett 6 лет назад +1241

    "I'm trying to decide if I should become an athlete or a criminal, so I made a list of pros and cons."

    • @almaxii
      @almaxii 5 лет назад +41

      WTF :D Wow, that's fun :D

    • @tonydcC-vt9qf
      @tonydcC-vt9qf 5 лет назад

      why is your second option is to be a Criminal?🤔🤔🤔😐

    • @motaz5867
      @motaz5867 5 лет назад +10

      @@tonydcC-vt9qf did you even watch the ting ting

    • @geraldmoyo6392
      @geraldmoyo6392 5 лет назад +10

      @@tonydcC-vt9qf way to ruin a good joke

    • @shivakumarv7626
      @shivakumarv7626 5 лет назад

      to be practical and smart one should know his environment. environment is changing and future is for the smart and intelligent not insentitve and mean. the winner is always one who takes other with him

  • @nicoletelovejoy5565
    @nicoletelovejoy5565 5 лет назад +1634

    If he was a rapper they would call him Hydro Gen X.

  • @TheChibuogwu
    @TheChibuogwu Год назад +33

    I totally enjoyed this talk. The humor is subtle and not forced. He taught how to be humorous in a humorous way. 🔥

  • @sepehrsohrabi95
    @sepehrsohrabi95 5 лет назад +1772

    how much of a computer nerd are you?
    me : 1

  • @danielwu249
    @danielwu249 3 года назад +838

    "Are you opposite over hypotenuse? Because you're making me want to sin"
    How to attract a girl from the math team in your school with minimal effort

  • @sourabhyadav7635
    @sourabhyadav7635 4 года назад +49

    13:55 "Reflection on the past, leads to action in the future"
    Brilliantly mentioned Andrew.

    • @stevetennispro
      @stevetennispro 3 года назад +1

      Negative. Focus on the past... sticks one into the past. Focus on the far future produces worry/doubt! Focus on the now/ just do it produces action! (Aka, one step at a time.)

    • @beeeeepboop8110
      @beeeeepboop8110 3 года назад

      ikr couldntve been worded better

    • @beeeeepboop8110
      @beeeeepboop8110 3 года назад +2

      @@stevetennispro he didn't mean mourn about it he said reflection like analyzing your test scores to improve your next test, you learn from your mistakes so if you did something wrong in the past instead of dwelling on it try to think of ways to correct it in the future

  • @adibmohareri1223
    @adibmohareri1223 10 месяцев назад +4

    I've been watching this once every year for like 5 years and My humor has got a lot better by practice; people now laugh when I tell them about my life decisions.
    But seriously, this ted talk is gold :))

  • @walterblack8127
    @walterblack8127 5 лет назад +20

    What most teachers aspire to is the ability to be entertaining while they educate. Andrew is trying to educate, while being entertaining and he succeeds. Love the rhythm, it draws us along and while delivery is a matter of taste and not everybody busts a rib listening to John Cleese, the dry, factual way that Andrew delivers his punch lines is powerful yet understated, or perhaps, powerfully understated. This is also a TED talk that is inspirational because if I tech nerd can come up with successful lines, there is hope for all of us. Well done, Andrew

  • @petalknurling4841
    @petalknurling4841 3 года назад +878

    The HAHA in the DNA code is absolutely hilarious.

    • @jackodone3208
      @jackodone3208 3 года назад +26

      didn't get nearly enough laughs.

    • @Jump-2-the-moon
      @Jump-2-the-moon 3 года назад +8

      Is it? There’s no H in DNA, not clever

    • @stevetennispro
      @stevetennispro 3 года назад +3

      And NORSE code is... a bunch of stabs and slashes. Aka, a touchy/feely communication style.

    • @stevetennispro
      @stevetennispro 3 года назад +15

      @@Jump-2-the-moon Yes, there is literally no humor(haha) in D.N.A.... nor in yours either, apparently. ;)

    • @water5210
      @water5210 2 года назад +1

      @@stevetennispro oooooooof

  • @subzeroarctics1299
    @subzeroarctics1299 5 лет назад +120

    "Reflection of the past leads to action in the future."

  • @NafisaAthiya
    @NafisaAthiya 2 года назад +29

    he mastered the art of storytelling. the whole tedx was so well orchestrated!!!

  • @wittywavvy
    @wittywavvy 4 года назад +720

    "In today's overworked, underappreciated, stress-filled, sleep-deprived culture,
    humor is a necessity. "

    • @parvajuddin3830
      @parvajuddin3830 4 года назад +4

      Wouldn't it have been hilarious if nobody laughed at this guy's jokes during the Ted talk

    • @josephcabrera7626
      @josephcabrera7626 4 года назад +22

      “Unable to establish connection to the server.” That was really smart lmao

  • @xQcWilliam
    @xQcWilliam 5 лет назад +399

    At first I thought the vertical asymptote pickup line was really funny but then I realized how much of a nerd I am for understanding it lol

    • @weird2972
      @weird2972 5 лет назад +7

      Soo umm... could you explain it? cuz i have no idea what it is.

    • @crimmus
      @crimmus 5 лет назад +7

      It’s just if you took/paid attention in Algebra 2.

    • @weird2972
      @weird2972 5 лет назад +2

      @@ScillogScratch Oh thanks. I understand now. Kinda. But Im just starting gr7 soo idrc.

    • @sanderverlinde4311
      @sanderverlinde4311 5 лет назад

      i got it too, and in my opinion it actually was a pretty awesome joke :D

    • @cookingshellybean
      @cookingshellybean 5 лет назад

      It was a pretty great joke! I'd have laughed out loud if I were her. You don't even have to be good at calculus or remember it from years ago... You could watch Mean Girls and still appreciate it

  • @bobmorane9200
    @bobmorane9200 5 лет назад +232

    11:58 shout out to the one guy who clapped

  • @leadershipwithliz
    @leadershipwithliz 3 года назад +99

    This was the BEST Ted Talk. It played automatically after another one I was watching and couldn't turn it off. Thank you so much for the humour break! I needed it

  • @wilwad
    @wilwad 5 лет назад +3336

    LOL = Lots Of Love
    Grandma: David, your Grandpa has died. LOL

  • @PabloGonzalez-io6pq
    @PabloGonzalez-io6pq 4 года назад +11

    He does not express himself like an average engineer, and I don't say it as an stereotype, but rather as my perception, since I am an engineer and know that engineers tend not to have much humor, or iniciative in general, we just solve problems and talk to a computer all day long. It's pretty cool when people realize that they can improve in certain areas, such as humor and attitude, and just go for it. I think I am one of the few engineers who want to have a different attitude to people and life in general, just like this guy. Well done!

  • @tristand9129
    @tristand9129 6 лет назад +271

    People did not understand "unable to establish connection with the server", talking about a waitress...

    • @milanstevic8424
      @milanstevic8424 5 лет назад

      @@cocosusprime Or in post-Harry-Potter-era: just muggles.

    • @TheBlaha12
      @TheBlaha12 5 лет назад

      I love that one, and I am not the admin

  • @jamiluddinmiju
    @jamiluddinmiju 9 месяцев назад +6

    "Everyone has their own perspective" i love this line sir❤

  • @cynthiaaaa5204
    @cynthiaaaa5204 6 лет назад +61

    When he made the sin joke, my first though was, "OH." (Opposite / Hypotenuse) 😂 I would definitely respond favorably to this pick up line. 👌🏻

  • @user-id4cu1hp6j
    @user-id4cu1hp6j 3 года назад +59

    I’m kinda confused why a lot of people in the comments is still trying to learn to be funny while they already get me laughing to death

    • @inthenameoflove2962
      @inthenameoflove2962 3 года назад +2

      Indeed 😆

    • @yeatdagoat173
      @yeatdagoat173 3 года назад +1

      internet humor is different with real life humor

    • @yokkie2846
      @yokkie2846 2 месяца назад

      We've all been infected by the humour in this video.

  • @desireekeys6854
    @desireekeys6854 4 года назад +13

    Added to my list of favorite TedTalks. He’s talking about the power of funny and being funny at the same time. That’s kinda genius. I love to laugh but there are actually people in this world who don’t like funny and laughter. You can like what you like but how can anyone pass up an opportunity to just get a “good feeling” even if it’s just temporary. Love, someone else’s grandma

  • @greggleaverton7525
    @greggleaverton7525 3 года назад +1

    I think keeping a straight face, sincerity and seriousness are better than laughing at things.

  • @mirandahickman713
    @mirandahickman713 4 года назад +11

    I use humour every chance I get at work. Especially when people seem pissed off. It's the most amazing feeling knowibg that I've made someone's day seem a little bit brighter than it was before they walked in...

  • @vjayind
    @vjayind 6 лет назад +629

    "Way Above Average, dont be Mean" killed it !

    • @JCAlder
      @JCAlder 6 лет назад +21

      Oh thanks, I had understood "you weigh above average, don't be mean" and thought this was rude haha

    • @jasperbartolazo4794
      @jasperbartolazo4794 6 лет назад +7

      whats the mode of this comment section and what dou you mean by it?

    • @vjayind
      @vjayind 6 лет назад +27

      It was a joke in the video.. A guy walk up to a girl in the Bar who ignore his.. as a geek the guy responds " You are way above average, dont be mean(the mean in statistics ie Average)" it cant be any geeky and wittier.. :)

    • @jasperbartolazo4794
      @jasperbartolazo4794 6 лет назад +12

      should have highlighted my "mode" and "mean" from my previous comment. . .

    • @muppetallica
      @muppetallica 6 лет назад +1

      vjayind His chances of getting her number? Yeah, probably.
      😜 🤣

  • @cigLXXVII
    @cigLXXVII 6 лет назад +469

    Are you the square root of a negative number?
    Cuz' I can't believe you're real.

    • @christianpaulos7260
      @christianpaulos7260 5 лет назад +1

      Nice🤣

    • @freecreator6426
      @freecreator6426 5 лет назад +4

      this one was good, Love your grandpa

    • @maxkho00
      @maxkho00 5 лет назад +3

      More like "You and I should be together. In fact, you are I. You just can't be real"

    • @ogc1974
      @ogc1974 5 лет назад +5

      @@maxkho00 makes 0 sense

    • @ariad6929
      @ariad6929 5 лет назад +4

      @@ogc1974 i is the symbol for the square root of a negative number

  • @jackburton2148
    @jackburton2148 2 года назад +15

    I used to work for a wedding photographer, and I learned that if you take enough pictures (a ton of them, really) then you'll always end up with some great gems. The same thing applies to cracking jokes, at least in my experience. Just let them out, and you will land some great ones even if there are some duds.

    • @ttthecat
      @ttthecat Год назад +1

      That's a great strategy. On a slightly less attractive version of this principle a guy I know used the shotgun broadside of the barn approach with hitting on women, (his terminology not mine) shoot his shot at everyone he could and eventually he'd get his target.🤷🏽‍♀️ I like your approach better.

  • @titoboswell2853
    @titoboswell2853 5 лет назад +31

    Favorite quote: "I am obsessed with milk shakes. Milk shakes are the most efficient form of dessert." He just made my life better, and my dessert obsession justified.

  • @Varifyr
    @Varifyr 5 лет назад +7

    Reflection of the past, leads to action in the present. Thank you. I need this.

  • @JasonB95
    @JasonB95 4 года назад +8

    One element to being better at humour is being able to see the funny in your own life. This was a non-verbal point that he made throughout his presentation. From showing old photos of himself to listing the famous people he has been told he resembles (can totally see the Justin Timberlake one btw lol), he constantly demonstrated how he uses his own life experiences and peculiarities to generate a laugh. We all have something about us that's funny. It's about opening our eyes to it, owning it and sharing that with others.

  • @happieme4687
    @happieme4687 3 года назад +13

    Only when you are comfortable with yourself, you can feel ok to tell jokes, even it fails and doesn't make sense to anyone , but you.
    I'm fine ☺️☺️

  • @weathermayne61
    @weathermayne61 6 лет назад +1077

    This is now my favorite talk.

  • @ArjunThatai
    @ArjunThatai 5 лет назад +1066

    "hey girl,
    Are you a vertical asymptote?
    Cuz. your beauty has no limits."

    • @anonymoussecret5948
      @anonymoussecret5948 4 года назад +28

      While technically true, an infinity is often used to denote unbounded limits especially in a beginning level calc course (which most ppl will end up stopping at)

    • @olivergaar9276
      @olivergaar9276 4 года назад +36

      Anonymous Secret bet your fun at parties

    • @anonymoussecret5948
      @anonymoussecret5948 4 года назад +23

      @@olivergaar9276 bet you've been to a single party

    • @olivergaar9276
      @olivergaar9276 4 года назад +10

      Anonymous Secret. yes, one. So what

    • @SamvedIyer
      @SamvedIyer 4 года назад +10

      I think engineers in our country (India) must be quite fond of such liners.

  • @roymizrachi7360
    @roymizrachi7360 5 лет назад +501

    People don't understand my jokes they always take the opposite of what I meant. Speaking of opposite, if you say funny backwards it kinda sounds like enough, which is what people keep telling me after my jokes😢

    • @marwaalahoui6971
      @marwaalahoui6971 5 лет назад +51

      Roy Mizrachi same😭 but honestly I think that you are funny ynnuf

    • @ikamastayanapurba2888
      @ikamastayanapurba2888 5 лет назад +5

      Hahahahah same with me. But I keep telling my jokes that way

    • @naechilds8593
      @naechilds8593 5 лет назад +5

      Roy Mizrachi ..Your comment was funny.

    • @steve_ai
      @steve_ai 5 лет назад +18

      Be like proton . Be positive.

    • @marthedge
      @marthedge 5 лет назад +11

      Depends on the culture. A lot of it is wit and in some cases people don't respond positively to some jokes. It sounds like I'm restating the obvious, no, I *am* doing so. Humor is often a reflection of how much you understand a person/people's culture. Personally normal jokes don't really work unless they're done in conjunction with the odd random event in life, or in quick back-and-forth banter. Some people laugh easily, some almost never budge. When people don't laugh, we might take it personally or dismiss their culture when it might just be different. It's the humor version of rejection. I don't think it's that people lack a sense of humor, it just doesn't match up with another people's humor. Different strokes for different folks.

  • @paulhilder7249
    @paulhilder7249 2 года назад +7

    This is so true. I have worked in a number of different environments, including managing my own IT company and being a London Policeman. In both of those environments, humour was very much a part of everyday life. It was used as a mechanism to cope with the stressful moments that occurred in very different circumstances. I don't remember much of the difficult times in the police but I can recall many of the humorous ones.

  • @valentia1752
    @valentia1752 6 лет назад +424

    I started dating my boyfriend because he would tell me nerdy pick up lines. It's the right kind of humor. Wrong kind of female.

  • @nathangarber9644
    @nathangarber9644 6 лет назад +606

    On a date with a waitress..
    She’s not really feeling it..
    “ERROR: Unable to establish connection to server”
    Lost my mind 😂😂

  • @pablolloyd1450
    @pablolloyd1450 5 лет назад +240

    Flirting with a waitress and “Error. Unable to establish connection to server.” 😂😂😂
    That was clever.

    • @Lolcoca
      @Lolcoca 2 месяца назад

      😂🤣🤣😂

  • @TITOFROG1
    @TITOFROG1 2 года назад +6

    This guy is actually very funny and smart. Good delivery and I'd say he's "underrated" as a stand up comic and I don't know why. The more you listen to him, the more you'll like him. Thanks.

  • @whittmckinney3824
    @whittmckinney3824 5 лет назад +65

    Really enjoyed the style of presentation--the timing, speed, & conciseness, with the droll humor like layers of frosting throughout.

    • @walterblack8127
      @walterblack8127 5 лет назад

      And he would be the first to say that practice makes perfect, or at least, plausible...

  • @ryannicholls3372
    @ryannicholls3372 6 лет назад +55

    This guy made some really subtle easy to understand jokes, surprised the audience didn't get around him more. Not the funniest thing I've seen but impressive considering it was informative and he taught himself comedy

    • @1996Pinocchio
      @1996Pinocchio 6 лет назад +1

      Ryan Nicholls It's TEDx, not standup comedy...

  • @Me-ju6gp
    @Me-ju6gp 3 года назад +122

    The girl in the bar who rejected him did not deserve him. Those jokes were amazing. 😂😂😂

  • @dieuanh3994
    @dieuanh3994 20 дней назад

    I absolutely agreed to your view in how important the humors are and the appropriate periods we should use them. My father is often trolled me but that’s why i love him

  • @thinkwithdori9201
    @thinkwithdori9201 3 года назад +20

    Dear Andrew,
    W.T.F., youtube is reading my mind. Just yesterday I was thinking about the importance of humor and how I should cultivate this skill to it's maximum potential. Great talk. Enjoy a fun life!

  • @kringewithak2209
    @kringewithak2209 3 года назад +34

    Brings explaining the joke to a whole new level

  • @GionneS
    @GionneS 6 лет назад +17

    Man this is GOLD! Always had that feeling that the skill of humor is underrated

    • @nickwriter6274
      @nickwriter6274 6 лет назад +1

      Underrated for sure but overused everywhere!!!

  • @jimincute8622
    @jimincute8622 Месяц назад +2

    "Humor gets people to listen"
    Yes it really got people's attention when they hear my bad humors. That's why I'm here to learn good humor.
    Love,
    Your viewer

  • @amalsulfi9416
    @amalsulfi9416 3 года назад +221

    Andrew : I once had to miss school for hypothermia. I was too cool for school.
    Audience : Laughs
    Andrew : That was a bad joke
    Audience : *Laughing intensifies*

    • @thankdrew1173
      @thankdrew1173 3 года назад +8

      I noticed that too. And laughed both times!

    • @steveanton2162
      @steveanton2162 3 года назад +6

      I didn't even hear the audience lol that one actually cracked me up

  • @argonman1
    @argonman1 5 лет назад +459

    talking to waitress, not going well....... error - "unable to establish connection to server".... awesome!

    • @craolta
      @craolta 5 лет назад +8

      I loled hard at that one :P

    • @rtendotapiwa306
      @rtendotapiwa306 5 лет назад +1

      The pun....😂😂

    • @gabrielcesar96
      @gabrielcesar96 5 лет назад +3

      It's a very good joke. The way he delivered.... Not that well.. that's why I didn't laugh

    • @StrawberryCowMoo
      @StrawberryCowMoo 4 года назад +1

      @@craolta laugh out loud'ed, makes sense to me

  • @mystic5583
    @mystic5583 5 лет назад +54

    Ok the “in the audience” one got me.

  • @yumikoalida5570
    @yumikoalida5570 11 месяцев назад

    "But I've learned we're not our personality assessments." THIS. This is actually what took 2 years and more of my teenage life to find out that I was not just what MBTI test told me who I was. I was not just an introverted melancholic depressed girl who loves overthinks stuff. I was not someone who couldn't go out there and being the first who initiated to talk first to stranger. I was not excluded from the society, I was excluded myself from them. I was not rejected. And I was not special, neither I was different. I am just a girl, who still finds out who she is, and willing to learn and explore more about her world. This is such a precious talk. I love it.