Masturbation is the New Meditation | Keeley Olivia | TEDxLeamingtonSpa

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  • Опубликовано: 27 ноя 2018
  • Keeley Olivia is a Female Sexuality Expert on a mission to revamp the sexual experiences of women and couples the world over.
    In this talk she shares her own story of discovering orgasm, explains why she wrote a masturbation memoir and announces the arrival of the second wave sexual revolution - one that will close the gender orgasm gap and place the pursuit of female orgasm and deep sexual connection as a powerful portal for personal and relationship transformation and empowerment.
    Keeley is the founder of Self Pleasure School which gives women a foundation in self and body love that allows them to enjoy a thriving sexuality throughout their lives regardless of their relationship status.
    This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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  • @santomenon3689
    @santomenon3689 2 года назад +73

    The process of discovering self is more important in this day and age. The self discovery has broken many taboos. Hats off to her for sharing it in an articulate manner

  • @atiqrahman7289
    @atiqrahman7289 3 года назад +40

    Bold, outspoken lady. Nothing wrong about this. With self-pleasure, no one is hurt.

  • @re-thinkthis4880
    @re-thinkthis4880 5 лет назад +92

    Thank you for your generosity in sharing so boldly and honestly. You set an example that is worth following.

  • @izegaegbe
    @izegaegbe 5 лет назад +401

    The number of men screaming and cheering at the beginning 😂😂😂😂

  • @sarrahalejaga5103
    @sarrahalejaga5103 3 года назад +128

    Wow. I was shocked to hear her voice, it's so poetic and beautiful.

    • @saisasank8987
      @saisasank8987 3 года назад

      Can u help me with findings???

    • @rscott2247
      @rscott2247 3 года назад

      Some other fantasy went through my head halfway into it.

    • @larrycarter3765
      @larrycarter3765 2 года назад +1

      peotic?

  • @heatherlott1342
    @heatherlott1342 3 года назад +15

    I have experienced the same. A release and communion with oneness. Opened my soul and healed me in way's I want to scream from the mountain tops. All women should have this experience. Freedom from the constraints of the chains we have bound ourselves with.

  • @Ketumak
    @Ketumak Год назад +5

    A great talk and great comments too! I can't add much except to say how well she expresses herself. Her words are poetic.

  • @DeepakKumar-yo7xd
    @DeepakKumar-yo7xd 2 года назад +5

    loved your boldness and courage of sharing your profound experience with all of us. LOVE LOVE

  • @manikadalela5533
    @manikadalela5533 5 лет назад +40

    such an intelligent and brave and confident woman she is!! I am shook... this was beyond beautiful

  • @Karloffspring
    @Karloffspring 5 лет назад +22

    Thank you, @Keeley Olivia, for your candour, your sense of fun and your bravery in challenging the inequitable status-quo and the veil of silence surrounding it.

    • @ajaymehra4027
      @ajaymehra4027 2 года назад

      @Peter Riches, Absolutely Right🎯
      You have put it in a very sensible manner👍

  • @Balancinglife
    @Balancinglife 5 лет назад +266

    Honestly, this was comforting, she's intelligent, clearly is confident af, and well spoken, this has to strike a cord in some women in a positive way.

    • @tristramgarbellotto3402
      @tristramgarbellotto3402 4 года назад +1

      so therefore masturbation is a meditation?

    • @sriramkudarla75
      @sriramkudarla75 2 года назад +7

      @@tristramgarbellotto3402 she used spiritual. What u do while masturbation. U feel. That's a kind of meditation. Yes she is absolutely right. She is saying that feeling should be spiritual. Is she right. Do you agree?

    • @sriramkudarla75
      @sriramkudarla75 2 года назад +1

      @@tristramgarbellotto3402 great question

    • @fonikgaming1217
      @fonikgaming1217 2 года назад +1

      @@sriramkudarla75 That's joke man!!🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @fonikgaming1217
      @fonikgaming1217 2 года назад

      @@tristramgarbellotto3402 Not at all! Masterbation is wasting of time and energy! What is real guided meditation you can search in RUclips!

  • @karthikeyansundararajan2391
    @karthikeyansundararajan2391 3 года назад +10

    discover the divinity within ,this lady is proud to openly express

  • @dipudtt
    @dipudtt 4 года назад +32

    It's a one of the most beautiful thing one experiences while doing. Each and every part of the body responds equally.

  • @anirbanmukherjee489
    @anirbanmukherjee489 3 года назад +11

    Very well narrated. The subject was very bold and very well handled. Excellent. 👌👌👏👍👍

  • @AndrewRobinson-ee7um
    @AndrewRobinson-ee7um 3 года назад +104

    I have listened to hundreds of TED talks. I have probably enjoyed this one the most. Thank you Keeley.

    • @ridabrahim7604
      @ridabrahim7604 2 года назад

      Probably because you were watching bad ones

  • @siddhijones
    @siddhijones 5 лет назад +17

    thank you Keeley that was the most inspiring talk you are a true gift to humanity
    keep on trucking sister your joy is contagious love light and laughter /Kunga Dorja

  • @Jrodcarter
    @Jrodcarter 5 лет назад +197

    I like the boldness she shows to express herself openly. That courage of confidence is very attractive to me. Bravo! my lady

    • @MageryGuy
      @MageryGuy 4 года назад +6

      It's not about you.

  • @jilasheikhi4179
    @jilasheikhi4179 4 года назад +7

    Brilliant. Utterly utterly brilliant. Well said Keeley and well done and Thank You.

  • @hyphysteve
    @hyphysteve 9 месяцев назад +2

    Wow Keeley what a tremendous confident presentation, especially the intense studying for over an hour each day 5 days a week!! and a scientist to boot. It not only helps women understand their inner treasures it helps men discover more things about women also.

  • @jinjo001
    @jinjo001 5 лет назад +30

    There are some videos that makes you joyous to the core.
    She did it. Energy permeates when she talks.

    • @titaa56
      @titaa56 Год назад +1

      Most definitely! Had me in tears

  • @hennydewaart1875
    @hennydewaart1875 5 лет назад +11

    Great speech! Great message!

  • @frankwyman9138
    @frankwyman9138 2 года назад +10

    She is a wonderful woman with so much of very great value to contribute and assist in the transforming of our world.

  • @pamlacooper3288
    @pamlacooper3288 5 лет назад +11

    I get it. Great job, not new to my mind but reassurance that others feel this way as well.

  • @acrobbins3602
    @acrobbins3602 5 лет назад +151

    Such a Beautiful talk. My immense respect to Ms. Keeley for being such an important voice to educate woman about their own lovely bodies and souls. And to educate us men to realize how much we can learn from our lovely female partner and be excited to yet learn perpetually more about the sharing of Love with her.

    • @kbanghart
      @kbanghart 4 года назад +3

      And sharing her with others

    • @sriramkudarla75
      @sriramkudarla75 2 года назад

      @@kbanghart she never talked about that.. She used toys. Lol

    • @kbanghart
      @kbanghart 2 года назад

      @@sriramkudarla75 aww bummer

    • @sriramkudarla75
      @sriramkudarla75 2 года назад

      @@kbanghart hahaha 😂

  • @venkatesh9408
    @venkatesh9408 5 лет назад +943

    When you're about to start Nofap journey and youtube suggests you this video !

  • @johndsouza2099
    @johndsouza2099 4 года назад +9

    Great... Continue your good work for the humanity...

  • @johnnywlittle
    @johnnywlittle 4 года назад +22

    It’s amazing how many comments made in ignorance and self righteous indignation. This was a poetic story of a woman’s self discovery about societal shame placed on women and embracing her own right and desire for personal pleasure and fulfillment. It’s amazing this story still needs being told today but is made obvious that it is by the comments it’s generated.

    • @ajaymehra4027
      @ajaymehra4027 2 года назад

      Yup i agree with u pal but like u it's a bit confusing that we still need to talk about these subjects in 2022 . Maybe way back in 60's it might have been termed revolutionary.

  • @christopherjsmith2306
    @christopherjsmith2306 5 лет назад +67

    I say GOOD FOR YOU KEELY! And hopefully, good for a lot of us. Women and men as well. The world has changed so much from the one I grew up in. And a lot of it not for the better. In the age of sterile, distant, electronic communication. We are becoming so dangerously disconnected. Mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually. I can’t imagine the BALLS it took to walk out, in front of that crowd and give the talk I just saw her give. Reconnection to all we have lost, has to start somewhere. For those on the planet that are not as “enlightened “ as others, this may bring them to knowing who they are, and being able to love who they are, which in turn may enable them to love others..... Maybe even, some of you.... peace

    • @herblapp
      @herblapp 5 лет назад +3

      Very well said! 👍

    • @nada3492
      @nada3492 Год назад

      @@ShaquilleBarron Dude it’s because the capital letter is at the start of a sentence 💀💀

  • @adrienperie6119
    @adrienperie6119 2 года назад +36

    💪✊I admire her courage to talk to not only a large audience but have it recorded and published on RUclips, believe me talking to 200 people of personal life experiences some of which you're not proud of takes conviction and, for me, god given courage, but to know that everything you say is recorded and freely accessible to everyone for as long as the internet exists, and still talk openly, takes the courage of a warrior.
    *Bravo !*

    • @mattias5157
      @mattias5157 5 месяцев назад

      For some people being shameless doesn´t take any courage.

  • @mistermendozag
    @mistermendozag 5 лет назад +151

    "my body was capable of magic", that's exactly it.

    • @noobie7719
      @noobie7719 3 года назад +1

      YES!!! Who didn’t feel that way after the the very FIRST time they “meditated”?? ❤️👍

  • @kentlarsen5834
    @kentlarsen5834 3 года назад +2

    Very excellent and informative presentation. Keeley's dress is lovely and gives her a sense of presence and a woman who knows what suits her.

  • @kalpanaa5605
    @kalpanaa5605 3 года назад +3

    Admirable ! And so eloquently said !!!

  • @SaskiaDelarondeMusic
    @SaskiaDelarondeMusic 4 года назад +31

    One of the best talks ever!! So enlightening.

  • @migdaliacolon8368
    @migdaliacolon8368 3 года назад +7

    Beautifully presented, recited, and explained.

  • @sanchitmittal3260
    @sanchitmittal3260 5 лет назад +7

    Maybe for you, while it depends on mood but lately listening is the best suited for meditation or silence for that matter!

  • @mohanasundaram48
    @mohanasundaram48 5 лет назад +8

    Excellent Speech Loved it

  • @noorawdoll3128
    @noorawdoll3128 3 года назад +40

    she looks like she is reading poetry. full of wisdom

  • @bobbytait9646
    @bobbytait9646 5 лет назад +4

    EVERY DAY; MAKE ME PROUD!
    you are amazing Keeley O!

  • @adithyannair3667
    @adithyannair3667 5 лет назад +61

    I will recommend this Ted x talk to one of my bestest female friend which would really help her

  • @SunnyBeetle1922
    @SunnyBeetle1922 Год назад +2

    I know her story because I’ve lived it. Truly we are blessed!!❤️

  • @roychowdhury4348
    @roychowdhury4348 5 лет назад +3

    Great presentation.

  • @ChrisSamuel1729
    @ChrisSamuel1729 3 года назад +35

    Meditation really improves sleep quality, before falling asleep is really the best time.

    • @ashotofmercury
      @ashotofmercury 3 года назад +3

      @LITTLE BOOTS really helps with menstrual pain and headaches too! 👌🏻

    • @moizkhan4204
      @moizkhan4204 2 года назад +3

      99% time. I do meditation before sleep

    • @thisisntallowed9560
      @thisisntallowed9560 2 года назад

      @@ashotofmercury When the pain feels like torture, it is really the only thing that can relieve the pain and it really works

  • @tammyallen1
    @tammyallen1 4 года назад +4

    Wow, thank you for your courage. Bravo

  • @szagmara
    @szagmara 5 лет назад +163

    I can tell you one thing about this speech I had goosebumps all over my body!!
    We need to hear it even if it is difficult to learn self love and be free. Amazing topic. Powerful and highly needed talk.

  • @nebulous8389
    @nebulous8389 5 лет назад +184

    Sometimes I meditate in the shower, or when nobody is home or right before I fall asleep

  • @al-hassan9200
    @al-hassan9200 3 года назад +47

    social anxiety, killing motivation and a screwed dopamine cycle is the new pill of meditation!!

  • @fsalehi5371
    @fsalehi5371 3 года назад +2

    Awesome presentation👏👏👏

  • @rerezi
    @rerezi 4 года назад +365

    I bet 80% of the women there couldn't wait to get home and "meditate"..

  • @OurNewestMember
    @OurNewestMember 5 лет назад +36

    She found it and put it into words. Well done!
    9:01 This is what YOU are after
    11:21 An experience so life-changing that it shows you: "this how I want to live the rest of my life."
    12:26 If you are a conscious being... then this idea is for you

  • @anneis8319
    @anneis8319 5 лет назад +25

    Can’t help but think of the line from WHEN HARRY MET SALLY ...”I’ll have what she’s having”

  • @zoeyreese7608
    @zoeyreese7608 Месяц назад

    Amazing work Keeley.. love this

  • @riverbender9898
    @riverbender9898 5 лет назад +3

    Glad she spoke clearly and unashamed!

  • @livewebcast14
    @livewebcast14 5 лет назад +887

    You mean I've been meditating 3 times a day?

    • @user-em9mw9ch3y
      @user-em9mw9ch3y 5 лет назад +62

      Legend says that holy men in ancient times used to meditate straight for months...
      that's a lot of stamina if you ask me..

    • @joni-nv3el
      @joni-nv3el 5 лет назад +5

      i 4

    • @livewebcast14
      @livewebcast14 5 лет назад +4

      @@joni-nv3el comrade.

    • @Network-jw1jd
      @Network-jw1jd 5 лет назад +21

      They have nothing in common whatsoever she's insulting meditation and all those who professionally specialize in it by even comparing the two.

    • @livewebcast14
      @livewebcast14 5 лет назад +12

      @@Network-jw1jd I totally agree with you.This video should be removed for blasphemy.

  • @joefloine2000
    @joefloine2000 3 года назад +4

    she's sooo poetic....

  • @alexanderworkchannel
    @alexanderworkchannel 5 лет назад +1

    Great info - Thanks

  • @jiandaimalingmei3720
    @jiandaimalingmei3720 5 лет назад +1

    very very good message.👍

  • @ajaymehra4027
    @ajaymehra4027 2 года назад +5

    Yes, this is what real women emancipation is all about 👌
    More power ⚡to Keeley Olivia & her ilk🌸🌿🌸

  • @geoffreylynnegambrelljr.4132
    @geoffreylynnegambrelljr.4132 5 лет назад +74

    If you focus on anything in a curious seeking way everyday for an hour you will get astounding results that we would consider Meta.

    • @zain4019
      @zain4019 5 лет назад +1

      Geoffrey G that’s a really good idea thank you :) I’m doing that :)

    • @goranhorvat1582
      @goranhorvat1582 4 года назад +1

      True

    • @Jsinka48
      @Jsinka48 3 года назад

      What do you mean

    • @geoffreylynnegambrelljr.4132
      @geoffreylynnegambrelljr.4132 3 года назад +1

      @@Jsinka48, what I mean is that meditation is You focusing your mind. If you only focus on one thing long enough then you will experience some interesting things.

    • @Jsinka48
      @Jsinka48 3 года назад

      @@geoffreylynnegambrelljr.4132 Oh OK i will try that

  • @analicewws1583
    @analicewws1583 Месяц назад

    Thank you so much, Keeley. You're so intelligent and brave. I'm, inspired, moved and enchanted.

  • @bbbeno
    @bbbeno 4 года назад +2

    Fantastic. Thanks a lot!!

  • @rohitisalwayspositiv
    @rohitisalwayspositiv 5 лет назад +19

    Well done 😊✌✌

  • @ashvarma1
    @ashvarma1 5 лет назад +14

    Very pleasant, very insightful, very informative and very inspiring. Thanks very much. Ash Varma M.D. San Francisco, California

  • @pendulumdistinction2494
    @pendulumdistinction2494 Год назад +2

    What an amazing Gift! Thank you Keeley

  • @healthyhappy4life
    @healthyhappy4life 2 года назад +2

    This brought me to tears

  • @donaldjeffery9338
    @donaldjeffery9338 4 года назад +22

    Simply Amazing, who's aware of the travesty committed against the feminine gender are standing up & revealing the age old battle they've been engaged in for millenniums. And yes we of the male variety should applaud, appreciate & support the struggle bc it's our's as well.

  • @jameymartinson7457
    @jameymartinson7457 5 лет назад +26

    Sharing like this is righteous!!

    • @NonPremiumID
      @NonPremiumID 3 года назад

      That is what Satan wishers to you.

  • @NLKINK
    @NLKINK Год назад +1

    What a wonderful lady. Great talk.

  • @EdwardHazell
    @EdwardHazell 2 года назад +1

    This is a brilliant TED talk.

  • @Rixoonify
    @Rixoonify 4 года назад +274

    who felt like she was reciting poem!

    • @humphreyokello9655
      @humphreyokello9655 3 года назад +11

      Very Poetic! Lyrical! Musical! Rhythmic! Educative! English is sweet!!

    • @jeffreyohler2599
      @jeffreyohler2599 3 года назад +14

      That's because she had wrote her speech prior to her talk. She had rehearsed the whole thing. Yet she chose her words wisely and spoke from the heart.
      The way she had conected it spiritually was awesome! Also she knew when to pause and for how long at the right times which makes her a good Orator. That being said I thought it was just as artfully flavorful as a poem!

    • @CianneMcGinnis
      @CianneMcGinnis 3 года назад +6

      Outstanding speaker! Her cadence was lyrical and mesmerizing. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

    • @macsammy8925
      @macsammy8925 3 года назад

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @danhanlon858
      @danhanlon858 3 года назад +1

      @@humphreyokello9655 262uuuuuuu

  • @Craftbeerpinup
    @Craftbeerpinup 5 лет назад +115

    What a talk!!! I so wish I’d watched this when I was 16! This so needs to be watched by women everywhere. Amazing!

    • @user-em9mw9ch3y
      @user-em9mw9ch3y 5 лет назад +1

      Don't show your (old) bobs and vegan

    • @katiekane5247
      @katiekane5247 5 лет назад +2

      I agree!

    • @jhhatcher
      @jhhatcher 5 лет назад +6

      Lovely. And, since you are now on the journey, check out the RUclips video "Cliteracy" and share it with your sisters. Also share it with young men; they oughta know.

    • @fabianoaraujo7379
      @fabianoaraujo7379 5 лет назад

      Ridicolous

    • @artkat7722
      @artkat7722 4 года назад

      @Nagy Hajnalka Éva ayyy

  • @PeterOzanne
    @PeterOzanne 3 года назад

    Excellent talk! The only (minor) quibble is with the translation of "pudendum/pudenda" (singular/plural), which I think is the gerund case, like "demonstrandum", "addendum" etc - "to be demonstrated", "to be added". In this case "to be ashamed of". Not that that affects what Keeley is talking about ;-)

  • @Danny_27
    @Danny_27 2 года назад +1

    Such a wise and poetic speech... ❣️🤩

  • @magenelliepikrati8594
    @magenelliepikrati8594 5 лет назад +6

    Yes. I need quite place to do it and let me feel my body un affected by outside forces or negatives.

  • @mohansinghrawat4324
    @mohansinghrawat4324 5 лет назад +5

    Thank you for sharing your experience with us... @keeley Olivia

  • @melemackglobal
    @melemackglobal 2 года назад

    Amazing talk!

  • @ganeshbagul8983
    @ganeshbagul8983 5 лет назад +19

    Poetically enlightening.

  • @tz3887
    @tz3887 5 лет назад +30

    sad to see how many people don´t understand the message behind her talk.. our bodies are (also) a portal to divinity.. I wish for you you can discover that. Every cell is vibrating with bliss. If you can tune into that, you will discover the truth in it. Its exactly the same as what Jesus and other spiritual masters talk about. They just use other words and analogies. If you want to learn more about it, start exploring tantra.

  • @prudencesidecafe2572
    @prudencesidecafe2572 4 года назад +6

    COMMENTS ARE DISABLED
    FOR THIS VIDEO. 😳 😵.
    You go girl ! ♥.

  • @weekendwankere69
    @weekendwankere69 5 лет назад +16

    I close my eyes and meditate at work, on public transport and also libraries.

  • @yobrojoost9497
    @yobrojoost9497 3 года назад

    Great talk! What courage this lady has!

    • @beatewagner7.2934
      @beatewagner7.2934 3 года назад

      Courage????....for what????....😂

    • @yobrojoost9497
      @yobrojoost9497 3 года назад

      @@beatewagner7.2934 Would you dare to talk so openly about pleasuring yourself?

  • @Mezilesialan
    @Mezilesialan 5 лет назад +59

    Courageous woman , giving so much for the well-being of women. And she smiles and laughs with a kind of joy.

    • @cgalloli6190
      @cgalloli6190 5 лет назад +2

      Well said Sir, I agree with you.

    • @gmhenry14
      @gmhenry14 5 лет назад +1

      Somebody's getting off to the lady! Meditation time? xD

    • @user-em9mw9ch3y
      @user-em9mw9ch3y 5 лет назад +1

      Put it back in your pants

  • @l.p8458
    @l.p8458 4 года назад +9

    This is an amazing awareness. Thank you MS. Keeley

  • @cfour7672
    @cfour7672 3 года назад +2

    I understand what she's saying. I see stars n explore new realms of the galaxy. Beautiful

  • @danielabartelli4734
    @danielabartelli4734 3 года назад +2

    Thank you very much for sharing mama bear ❤️

  • @Wissle
    @Wissle 2 года назад +27

    Remember not to meditate too long and too hard, you don't want to chafe anything.

  • @solidus927
    @solidus927 4 года назад +5

    Brilliant! Women should never be ashamed of themselves. The world doesn't have power over you unless you give the world that power. Enjoy yourselves,

  • @MohsinKhanblogs
    @MohsinKhanblogs 2 года назад

    Very good program

  • @kimmills3264
    @kimmills3264 2 года назад +2

    my new favorite TED talk. Go Keeley!!!💫❤✨🍑💃✨💫

  • @nitishdeswal667
    @nitishdeswal667 2 года назад +6

    Wow! It means I meditate 5 times in a day. I am the great meditator in the world.

  • @thesanddancerwarrior3503
    @thesanddancerwarrior3503 5 лет назад +7

    Absolutely outstanding!

  • @kellycolmey3742
    @kellycolmey3742 2 года назад +1

    Bloody wonderful talk

  • @aneesahendricks2853
    @aneesahendricks2853 3 года назад +3

    Wow, just 🥺🥺 amazing !

  • @michaelbartlett6864
    @michaelbartlett6864 4 года назад +3

    Well, it does relieve stress!

  • @brajanand1273
    @brajanand1273 5 лет назад +4

    Absolutely true!!

  • @TimetoTravel1985
    @TimetoTravel1985 3 года назад

    A great elaborator i must say

  • @bighoodie4315
    @bighoodie4315 3 года назад +2

    It sure does clear my mind I'll tell you that

  • @rajubathula8308
    @rajubathula8308 5 лет назад +9

    this is the exact new generation and her daughter generation will talk about more deeper on this subject and audiences will respond with more claps

  • @chloeredmond4234
    @chloeredmond4234 3 года назад +7

    Your thoughts determine your frequency, and your feelings tell you immediately what frequency you are on.

    • @naked-artradio2623
      @naked-artradio2623 3 года назад

      Powerful

    • @DatingOnlineAdvice
      @DatingOnlineAdvice 2 года назад

      I can't speak for other women but hormones aren't just determine by my thoughts.... Just saying...

  • @krishnendubhattacharyaart5486
    @krishnendubhattacharyaart5486 4 года назад

    Outstanding madam.... Salute

  • @heloisasa3715
    @heloisasa3715 3 года назад

    Fantastic talk!!!