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My sister went into full narc revenge mode when mum died and told me that she can do anything she likes to me now that mum's dead. This was late October. She is still trying to destroy me.
Rebecca, you nailed it except one thing They have your children and are using them against your heart for years. Your children end up with their low self esteem taking on the pathology of the parent they live with to alienate themselves against the other! Most attorneys and judges do not get this!!!!
My dad actually apologized for something one time. I was floored. Out of the blue he asked me if I remembered a time when he spanked me too hard for something that he shouldn’t have even spanked me for. I couldn’t remember it. That’s how long it took him to apologize. It was over a decade before and I couldn’t even remember the event, or isn’t sure I do. There were many times that he whipped me for something he shouldn’t have whipped me for or also whipped me too hard. I could think of a dozen events, but not the one that he apologized for. Because it was that much longer ago. And I was an adult when he apologized.
They are always right They don’t like the word no They are shallow They are manipulative They are Combative They know they are empty They will even sometimes suggest you delete yourself Just laugh and walk away
Fragile ego of a narcissist,no self respect or values in life,supply could be their motivation,looks for trouble with control tactics.Trigger their rage when they question their effectiveness,it bothers them when their being exposed🚩❌🆘💲✔️
These narcs are very dangerous. Extremely reactive. As difficult as it is to control your own emotions I agree with everything this content creator suggests. Be patient as you plan your exit.
You nailed it. This is a toxic survivor Island environment. We appreciate your work and guidance The rage is amazing. A narcissist with dementia makes it difficult and impossible every day.
Shut them down, they do not deserv my company, it is so hard to have a narcissistic sister, it has ruined my whole life. Kristine from Denmark, I’ve to listen to your videos.
If the narc is behaving like a full grown two year old behaving badly then I ALWAYS, ALWAYS point that out and am the only one that points out that destructive behavior. in fact, i am the only only one that does not simp to the narc. IF you are going to call a spade a spade then be calm, cool, and consistent about it. it is what it is. observe reality. embrace reality. call out reality. losing the narc is a gain/win.
Don't people with narcissistic or psychopathic disorders feel physically tired? Don't they need sleep? I have already met once that psychopathic people are loud at night, disturbing the sleep of others, leading to physical exhaustion, but they themselves are like a loud machine at a construction site that does not feel tired, but has great satisfaction in, malicious satisfaction from depriving other people of sleep. 🤔 What can I do?
mine is a covert. Always cheating on me, love bombing me at the end. Kept the house, moved her right in. I filed for divorce n hes already wearing a new wedding ring. im relieved but also hurt.
EXCELLENT video! You have given me so many tools and insight to deal with the toxic people who have pursued me through the family court system for well over 6 years now. When I employ these methods, they've absolutely behaved in the ways you've predicted. One thing I've learned is that they have a toolbox of tricks, but their tools are limited and it's so easy to see the patterns once you stop being in defense mode and really take time to see their behavior for what it is.
Funny how they treat others like we can't do to them These folks are foolish and unbelievable!!!!! I wish I could go no contact My son and daughter in law and soon to be ex are all toxic I have an almost two-year-old grandson that is at stake. Jesus, please continue to help me. Thanks, Rebecca for this video
I don't fancy how someone can call their own son a narcissist. Suppose you raised him yourself. Wasn't there anything you could do against this development? Like teaching him true values? And also, does it mean you don't love him? My mother is a narcissist, which is making it impossible for me to love her. I think every child deserves being loved, at least by their own mother. Otherwise they will be forced to develop serious psychological disorders....
@Rebecca Zung I now know how they think & what to expect if I engage in a discussion... The appalling thing to me is how good of a pathological lier they can be, just lie & do it so well & easy... I just am astonishing over this...In my situation, my ex-wife was a rape victim of 13 yrs old girl that never got sycological help & turn to a Narcissistic so-called married preacher for something, which turned into an affair...Dealing with situation, me knowing this but she would not admit to it... So I use all of your information, so helpful bcus I was at a loss, emotionally, mentally & physically...Our 39 marriage ended & I was accused of what they were doing....OMG, a nitemare, we have adult sons & our youngest son & daughter-law won't speak to me or allow me around & their kids...( three little daughters)... It goes on & on...
TOTALLY! That's what they do. They use fear and intimidation. My daughter's "insignificant other"is held up for hopefully 6 months or 180 days. It has taken me 2 months to come up for air. BUT, he calls 3-5 times a day and we aren't ever really free. Unbelievable he could still have power to control from where he is at. It's difficult when children are involved. Oh yeah couldn't work because sick off and on. Lived off us 9 years and I feel like I've been through a war. (At least a huge battle). I'm 64 and my health has declined significantly and my hard working husband too. We're worn out from this but you are a light in this darkness. At least we're getting some ubderstanding of this liar, and raging violent lunatic. My husband tells me to never provoke him as he is mentally ill and insecure. He is a total "2 year old" and we've given him chance after chance and expects to come back......
These videos keep me encouraged I know I’m dealing with a narcissist I doubt myself and think maybe I’m over thinking but this is all dead on and I need to trust my intuition also when the truth always come out this person fights so hard to convince otherwise and I’m just telling them hey you can’t lie to me I have proof of everything just be honest it’s not that bad.. and they will just go on and on and further into a dark hole
Great message!! I work with Narcissist people and I go absolutely no contact. I don't look at them and I say nothing to them. Basically invisible to me!
I work for a boss that is a narcissist, and I’ve only been back there a couple months to be trained to become a management and she has made my life a living. Hell she gas lights me She bullies me she manipulates me. She threatens me. I used to love my job of five years and I actually hate it now, I finally went to the district manager, and I pray that he helps because I can no longer take her abuse! I am actively seeking another job because of her actions. 💔😥😥😥😥😥
I don't get why I have to worry about not hurting their feelings they sure didn't care about hurting mine. If I'm busy I'm busy. Why do I have to walk on eggshells?
Had a 1.6 year relationship with one. Horrible. Constant LIES! I was sick all the time. Major player. I am so happy to be FREE!!!! I have ny life back.
That's very interesting at my job I was a Gardner I worked for my bosses wife but now I'm working on the farm his wife would praise me of a job well done then you see that look on his face
They live their entire life driven by hate , they are frauds they deflect the things that would set them free if they took responsibility for the things they deflect to the ones they want to be
Please help, my husband and mother in law tortured me they electrocuted my brain and drugged me with psilocybin. They think they fixed my brain. I can't prove it, I just sound crazy. Please can you do something. Advice?
Someone Please convince me not to wanna get revenge on my ex wife. It's been 17 years since our divorce. And I am just finding out that she was a narcissist. She has been a narcissist. I have two children with her that are adults now there are mid20s. Their lives are tarnished and I need help. Craig she gets the narcissist supply she has a pervert boyfriend that's a photographer. What should I do?
“You are a loser”, “You are a failure”…I didn’t have to say it, I just had to be me and live my go-getter life and covert narc mom, grandiose narc half-bro, and ASPD-BPD brother are offended just by my presence or if I showered and feeling like my happy self 😂
If they can't make you love them, then they want you to hate them. Do neither. Be indifferent to them. Why do they bother you so much?---THEY DON'T. You think they're a JOKE. They are INSIGNIFICANT to you.
They are a couple in Ottawa who cyberstalk me. I called his wife a fa. . . and then they took control of the arrow on the laptop screen. The police know about them.
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I'll see you all there!
That's. Rite. Hun 👍👍👍👍
Totally
Hi. Rebecca. Ok ⭐⭐⭐⭐
I'm so over it
The most powerful words you can use are no words at all.
Yes. That is what i heard too.
So true
How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪
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My sister went into full narc revenge mode when mum died and told me that she can do anything she likes to me now that mum's dead. This was late October. She is still trying to destroy me.
Rebecca, you nailed it except one thing
They have your children and are using them against your heart for years. Your children end up with their low self esteem taking on the pathology of the parent they live with to alienate themselves against the other! Most attorneys and judges do not get this!!!!
My dad actually apologized for something one time. I was floored. Out of the blue he asked me if I remembered a time when he spanked me too hard for something that he shouldn’t have even spanked me for. I couldn’t remember it. That’s how long it took him to apologize. It was over a decade before and I couldn’t even remember the event, or isn’t sure I do. There were many times that he whipped me for something he shouldn’t have whipped me for or also whipped me too hard. I could think of a dozen events, but not the one that he apologized for. Because it was that much longer ago. And I was an adult when he apologized.
They are always right
They don’t like the word no
They are shallow
They are manipulative
They are Combative
They know they are empty
They will even sometimes suggest you delete yourself
Just laugh and walk away
Fragile ego of a narcissist,no self respect or values in life,supply could be their motivation,looks for trouble with control tactics.Trigger their rage when they question their effectiveness,it bothers them when their being exposed🚩❌🆘💲✔️
Stay strong! ❤
Join me in my free webinar - icanslay.com
These narcs are very dangerous. Extremely reactive. As difficult as it is to control your own emotions I agree with everything this content creator suggests. Be patient as you plan your exit.
You nailed it. This is a toxic survivor Island environment. We appreciate your work and guidance The rage is amazing. A narcissist with dementia makes it difficult and impossible every day.
This videos confirmed what I already knew its crazy CORRECT!
Stay strong! ❤
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Shut them down, they do not deserv my company, it is so hard to have a narcissistic sister, it has ruined my whole life. Kristine from Denmark, I’ve to listen to your videos.
Great video! I have watched quite a few videos on narcissists.
I can binge watch your videos all day. I feel like you know my narcissist😮
Thank you!!!
So glad you found them helpful! What is something you're struggling with? 😊
If the narc is behaving like a full grown two year old behaving badly then I ALWAYS, ALWAYS point that out and am the only one that points out that destructive behavior. in fact, i am the only only one that does not simp to the narc. IF you are going to call a spade a spade then be calm, cool, and consistent about it. it is what it is. observe reality. embrace reality. call out reality. losing the narc is a gain/win.
I laugh at them and ask them why they're so full of hate I'm like I get it you're throwing a fit you want my attention
Don't people with narcissistic or psychopathic disorders feel physically tired? Don't they need sleep? I have already met once that psychopathic people are loud at night, disturbing the sleep of others, leading to physical exhaustion, but they themselves are like a loud machine at a construction site that does not feel tired, but has great satisfaction in, malicious satisfaction from depriving other people of sleep. 🤔 What can I do?
@@Villanelle-yh8tp disturbance of sleep is one of Their favorites 🥱🙄
mine is a covert. Always cheating on me, love bombing me at the end. Kept the house, moved her right in. I filed for divorce n hes already wearing a new wedding ring. im relieved but also hurt.
EXCELLENT video! You have given me so many tools and insight to deal with the toxic people who have pursued me through the family court system for well over 6 years now. When I employ these methods, they've absolutely behaved in the ways you've predicted. One thing I've learned is that they have a toolbox of tricks, but their tools are limited and it's so easy to see the patterns once you stop being in defense mode and really take time to see their behavior for what it is.
Excellent comment!
Thank you so much! this might help you better as well slay.rebeccazung.com/home
Funny how they treat others like we can't do to them These folks are foolish and unbelievable!!!!!
I wish I could go no contact
My son and daughter in law and soon to be ex are all toxic
I have an almost two-year-old grandson that is at stake. Jesus, please continue to help me. Thanks, Rebecca for this video
I don't fancy how someone can call their own son a narcissist. Suppose you raised him yourself. Wasn't there anything you could do against this development? Like teaching him true values? And also, does it mean you don't love him? My mother is a narcissist, which is making it impossible for me to love her. I think every child deserves being loved, at least by their own mother. Otherwise they will be forced to develop serious psychological disorders....
"Yes" "I win" "Totally" "So over it" "Break free" "I've seen it" "Shut them down" "Just move on"
Best most informative video yet! Thank you! All makes so much sense! No fear...done with believing or falling for the games!
Cheri,You look gorgeous ❤,Hope you are not with a narcissist….
You are so welcome babe! What is something that you are grateful for? 🙌
Your so kind in sharing all this wealth of information...Thank you from the bottom of my ❤️ 💙 💜...
I'm glad to be helping! What is one point that you'll start using today?
@Rebecca Zung I now know how they think & what to expect if I engage in a discussion... The appalling thing to me is how good of a pathological lier they can be, just lie & do it so well & easy... I just am astonishing over this...In my situation, my ex-wife was a rape victim of 13 yrs old girl that never got sycological help & turn to a Narcissistic so-called married preacher for something, which turned into an affair...Dealing with situation, me knowing this but she would not admit to it... So I use all of your information, so helpful bcus I was at a loss, emotionally, mentally & physically...Our 39 marriage ended & I was accused of what they were doing....OMG, a nitemare, we have adult sons & our youngest son & daughter-law won't speak to me or allow me around & their kids...( three little daughters)... It goes on & on...
TOTALLY!
That's what they do. They use fear and intimidation. My daughter's "insignificant other"is held up for hopefully 6 months or 180 days. It has taken me 2 months to come up for air. BUT, he calls 3-5 times a day and we aren't ever really free. Unbelievable he could still have power to control from where he is at.
It's difficult when children are involved.
Oh yeah couldn't work because sick off and on. Lived off us 9 years and I feel like I've been through a war. (At least a huge battle). I'm 64 and my health has declined significantly and my hard working husband too.
We're worn out from this but you are a light in this darkness. At least we're getting some ubderstanding of this liar, and raging violent lunatic. My husband tells me to never provoke him as he is mentally ill and insecure.
He is a total "2 year old" and we've given him chance after chance and expects to come back......
Happy 🆕 Year Rebecca, 🎉 I wish you the best of the best!
Omg, I had said everything you said, not to, no wonder he flipped out. This is too funny.😂
These videos keep me encouraged I know I’m dealing with a narcissist I doubt myself and think maybe I’m over thinking but this is all dead on and I need to trust my intuition also when the truth always come out this person fights so hard to convince otherwise and I’m just telling them hey you can’t lie to me I have proof of everything just be honest it’s not that bad.. and they will just go on and on and further into a dark hole
How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪
This might help - slay.rebeccazung.com/
It is true. They want your interaction. Strategic to fight the interaction works best.
Great message!! I work with Narcissist people and I go absolutely no contact. I don't look at them and I say nothing to them. Basically invisible to me!
I appreciate the kind words! This might help you better as well slay.rebeccazung.com/home
I work for a boss that is a narcissist, and I’ve only been back there a couple months to be trained to become a management and she has made my life a living. Hell she gas lights me She bullies me she manipulates me. She threatens me. I used to love my job of five years and I actually hate it now, I finally went to the district manager, and I pray that he helps because I can no longer take her abuse! I am actively seeking another job because of her actions. 💔😥😥😥😥😥
I see now. I've been wasting my time and my breath and it's been driving me crazy, literally.
It's really difficult not to tell the narcissistic spouse who is also a total leach, I'm busy!!
Yes! The I don't care phrase works!
I don't get why I have to worry about not hurting their feelings they sure didn't care about hurting mine. If I'm busy I'm busy. Why do I have to walk on eggshells?
Silence or an adamant NO!!!
Had a 1.6 year relationship with one. Horrible. Constant LIES! I was sick all the time. Major player.
I am so happy to be FREE!!!! I have ny life back.
Thank you. Really helpful.
So how can you starting slaying?
Thank you.
thank you for your knowledge and wisdom.
Break free!
Stay strong! ❤
Yr explaining my boss in great detail
Hello & Thanks from Dr Cliff.
It's not so easy when you have a narcissistic only child.
Break Free
That's very interesting at my job I was a Gardner I worked for my bosses wife but now I'm working on the farm his wife would praise me of a job well done then you see that look on his face
I’ve definitely seen it (triangulation)
they hate "whatever"
Break free
Yes I’m done with narc
Fantastic
Narcissist are the most pathetic individuals I have ever met!! SMH
They live their entire life driven by hate ,
they are frauds they deflect the things that would set them free if they took responsibility for the things they deflect to the ones they want to be
Stay strong! ❤
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Break Free
Please help, my husband and mother in law tortured me they electrocuted my brain and drugged me with psilocybin. They think they fixed my brain. I can't prove it, I just sound crazy. Please can you do something. Advice?
I win 🙂
So over it!
Break free
Stay strong! ❤
YES!
Stay strong! ❤
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yes tnks
I WIN !!!
You got this ❤
Yes
Ive seen this before
totally.
I WIN!!!!
I realize after these. videos that failed at every single aspect of dealing with my ex.
Another funny aspect was that she started having problems at work about the same time we started having these serious issues again..
Shut them down
SHUT THEM DOWN!
Yes 😊
Omg so true 😮
You got this ❤
Yes!!!!!!!!!! 🌈
TOTALLY!!!!
Yes!!
I’ve seen it.
So over it !!!
Yes!!!
Totally!!!!!
Someone Please convince me not to wanna get revenge on my ex wife. It's been 17 years since our divorce. And I am just finding out that she was a narcissist. She has been a narcissist. I have two children with her that are adults now there are mid20s. Their lives are tarnished and I need help. Craig she gets the narcissist supply she has a pervert boyfriend that's a photographer. What should I do?
I WIN
“You are a loser”, “You are a failure”…I didn’t have to say it, I just had to be me and live my go-getter life and covert narc mom, grandiose narc half-bro, and ASPD-BPD brother are offended just by my presence or if I showered and feeling like my happy self 😂
I win!
YES!!!
Louder!
Totally
If they can't make you love them, then they want you to hate them. Do neither. Be indifferent to them. Why do they bother you so much?---THEY DON'T. You think they're a JOKE. They are INSIGNIFICANT to you.
Panic attacks. Exposure fo the cause!
I need more info.
Totally.
YES
Totally
Sorry but they are crazy simply put I have a classic narcissist I’m trying to get away from without drama 😢😮nuts
Yes
yes
YES ❤
Stay strong! ❤
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Can a narcissist really love someone?
No, not the way we do.
Yes!
Just act like you don't care.
Fact!
Totally
They contradict themselves ALL the time! Especially when giving you directions or info you need!
I call it pulling 180s
I win
They are a couple in Ottawa who cyberstalk me. I called his wife a fa. . . and then they took control of the arrow on the laptop screen. The police know about them.
Yessssss!
YES
I win
Win
Totally😮