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My Narc told me after more than a 20yr relationship that he didn't want to put a tittle to what we were doing because it made him feel like he's being controlled, but I was the only one that he was dating, when he gost me on his birthday and had the nerve to call me 4 nights later, that was it for me.I discarded him. It's been 3wks since I blocked him, hope he keeps it moving with his birthday supply and leave me alone.
Yes my first narcissist came back. I had been discarded. I later learned she had been cheating on me. She denied it when she discarded me. She suddenly came back. At first I was ecstatic for a day. This was at a meditation retreat. Then my feet touched the ground. I asked her. What did you do with that new boyfriend? Her mask shattered. Her lies all became very clear She looked confused. Looking at the floor I heard her weak child like voice say. " I guess I'll go back to him". I said you know you're mentally ill don't you? Her eyes were like a confused zombie. Empty. Weird. I never saw her again. I found out a lot more over time. And she's a nurse with a masters degree and higher certification. She married a guy years ago. It's obvious she ruined his life.
Totally...5 years later he came back, watching and stalking. At first I didn't even recognize him, once I knew it was him I would walk past him and not give him any sign of recognition. He finally left town. According to him he's a victim of betrayal.
5 years I provided on one wage two families. I met her.on holiday and she quickly moved in and 2023 I struggled paying for two families and she still bleed me dry before discarding me and coming back then discarded again. Even sent me pictures of her with other men and it really broke me I turned to drugs and alcohol but I'm clean now. I have never been so broken and she openly admitted it was fun destroying me and hurting me. Also said she was never with me for anything other than destroying my life. I'm not perfect but I would never do this to anyone or even stay with someone you hate and don't love. I've never experienced evil like this. Your videos really connect deep and help me put perspective on issues I've had. You really know what your talking about it. Thank you so much for your videos they are thorough and explain just how crazy there brains are wired. Lots of love from the UK
Thank you ❤I honestly don’t think he ever tried to sound like he wanted to change. This person I was in a relationship with is 15 years older than me. This relationship became more like a father always punishing me. ( pretty gross)
Trying to communicate with a narcissist is akin to sending messages in a bottle - you cast your words into the sea of their ego, hoping they'll be received, but the response is often an unpredictable wave.
The 'hoover'after the divorce? He cried and said he'll change jobs as to have more time together.Said I'll think about it.Found out he'd lost his job. ....sht never ends.
My narcissist husband violently attached my great dane, injuring him. I ran for the hills with my dog. My dog passed away because of all the trauma. My husband also broke my elbow. Not to mention my heart. I am now his worst fear, he wouldn't dare come near me now.
They are horrible people but we forget god gets ahold of people who cause damage and will make changes. Mine told me people like him don’t ask forgiveness. He doesn’t have but he uses god name in vain and god always comes when you call 🥰
Although I agree these are not sustainable healthy relationships however I did walk away with an overall wonderful experience full of the best memories I’ve ever experienced in my life and I left doing the right thing and left her much better off in every way, I have no regrets, however I did have a huge advantage being able to monitor all her communications without her knowledge.
My son has become an expert on how to let things run off his back. Especially when he goes to pick up his daughter. He has opened the foggy window and see her for what she is!
Has anyone else's narc ever put on the facade that they were the most shy, introverted person on the planet? My ex used shyness as a way to lure people (mostly women) into his web. He actually told me at the beginning of our relationship (back in the early 90's), that he would get girls in high school this way; being quiet, shy, and mysterious. 😮 He used this same manipulative tactic throughout our marriage when I would confront him with serious issues (like his cheating). He would say he 'didn't want to discuss anything because he hated to talk.' Ok, sure. Meanwhile, he would have 10 hour marathon conversations on social media or the phone with his supplies daily. No issues. These 'things' are disgusting. I refuse to acknowledge them as people. Their whole life centers around manipulating, using, and hurting good folks as often as possible. Pathetic.
The family courts in the States will give the abusive man full custody. They don't care about what is best for the children. If I knew that I might have tried to wait until the kids were 18. The lawyers, judges, courts, specialists, therapists, they all make a lot of money by dragging it out. If they contest custody, it's just another way they use the courts to abuse Lawyers say they're working for us, but they work for money for themselves. They don't want to anger the judge. They pretty much ignore the laws. DV is a crime but we're not in criminal court. Nothing is enforced. Families are being killed because of abusers getting shared custody when an abuser, or even if she's afraid of him but there's no proof of DV or child abuse, there should NOT be shared custody. If you're afraid of your spouse, it's not possible to coparent. The worst abuse is not physical or even illegal
😂I’m different. I’m better. I’ve never gone back to a girlfriend. Although I was married to a covert narcissist. Maybe borderline personality disorder? I’ll take the advice of Professor Sam Vaknin to run away 🏃🏿♂️🏃🏿♂️
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I'll see you all there!
ive blocked him in every social media platform and Im moving !! yeyyy so excited
Totally! I’m so over the game!
Me too 🔥❤️🔥
Me three😂
❤️🫶🙏🏼🙏🏼
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Big Lire . I have to be strong as hard as it is. Dont need that poision in my life.
My Narc told me after more than a 20yr relationship that he didn't want to put a tittle to what we were doing because it made him feel like he's being controlled, but I was the only one that he was dating, when he gost me on his birthday and had the nerve to call me 4 nights later, that was it for me.I discarded him. It's been 3wks since I blocked him, hope he keeps it moving with his birthday supply and leave me alone.
Go girl don't look back.
Yes my first narcissist came back. I had been discarded. I later learned she had been cheating on me. She denied it when she discarded me. She suddenly came back. At first I was ecstatic for a day. This was at a meditation retreat. Then my feet touched the ground. I asked her. What did you do with that new boyfriend? Her mask shattered. Her lies all became very clear She looked confused. Looking at the floor I heard her weak child like voice say. " I guess I'll go back to him". I said you know you're mentally ill don't you? Her eyes were like a confused zombie. Empty. Weird. I never saw her again. I found out a lot more over time. And she's a nurse with a masters degree and higher certification. She married a guy years ago. It's obvious she ruined his life.
Totally...5 years later he came back, watching and stalking. At first I didn't even recognize him, once I knew it was him I would walk past him and not give him any sign of recognition. He finally left town. According to him he's a victim of betrayal.
5 years I provided on one wage two families. I met her.on holiday and she quickly moved in and 2023 I struggled paying for two families and she still bleed me dry before discarding me and coming back then discarded again. Even sent me pictures of her with other men and it really broke me I turned to drugs and alcohol but I'm clean now. I have never been so broken and she openly admitted it was fun destroying me and hurting me. Also said she was never with me for anything other than destroying my life. I'm not perfect but I would never do this to anyone or even stay with someone you hate and don't love. I've never experienced evil like this. Your videos really connect deep and help me put perspective on issues I've had. You really know what your talking about it. Thank you so much for your videos they are thorough and explain just how crazy there brains are wired. Lots of love from the UK
Thank you ❤I honestly don’t think he ever tried to sound like he wanted to change. This person I was in a relationship with is 15 years older than me. This relationship became more like a father always punishing me. ( pretty gross)
Trying to communicate with a narcissist is akin to sending messages in a bottle - you cast your words into the sea of their ego, hoping they'll be received, but the response is often an unpredictable wave.
The 'hoover'after the divorce?
He cried and said he'll change jobs as to have more time together.Said I'll think about it.Found out he'd lost his job.
....sht never ends.
Boundaries. I’m in Pennsylvania. Covert narcissist is in Montana
My narcissist husband violently attached my great dane, injuring him. I ran for the hills with my dog. My dog passed away because of all the trauma. My husband also broke my elbow. Not to mention my heart. I am now his worst fear, he wouldn't dare come near me now.
Your poor 🐶 :(
It's good that they come back we got your back Rebecca we ❤️ you
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Your curls are vibes counselor! Fellow attorney loving your channel ❤
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We love you Rebecca
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OMG yes! Such fragile people
You know I have!
TOTALLY…ABSOLUTELY💯
Boundaries!!!
Love the Easter bunny analogy
Be well
TOTALLY!!
I have been through this the first two times because I didn't know
They are horrible people but we forget god gets ahold of people who cause damage and will make changes. Mine told me people like him don’t ask forgiveness. He doesn’t have but he uses god name in vain and god always comes when you call 🥰
Although I agree
these are not sustainable healthy relationships however I did walk away with an overall wonderful experience full of the best memories I’ve ever experienced in my life and I left doing the right thing and left her much better off in every way, I have no regrets, however I did have a huge advantage being able to monitor all her communications without her knowledge.
My son has become an expert on how to let things run off his back. Especially when he goes to pick up his daughter. He has opened the foggy window and see her for what she is!
Totally!!!
But Psychopaths don't come back after discarding right?
Totally!
Marrissa Peer too.
Totally ! 😎
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Boundaries
Lyres... Playing like a bunch of ancient violins
They guilt trip you
He has stalked me lol
TOTALLY!
Lire this man seriously says he’s going on mission of God
My to 😡
Totally
Totally 😢
Has anyone else's narc ever put on the facade that they were the most shy, introverted person on the planet? My ex used shyness as a way to lure people (mostly women) into his web. He actually told me at the beginning of our relationship (back in the early 90's), that he would get girls in high school this way; being quiet, shy, and mysterious. 😮 He used this same manipulative tactic throughout our marriage when I would confront him with serious issues (like his cheating). He would say he 'didn't want to discuss anything because he hated to talk.' Ok, sure. Meanwhile, he would have 10 hour marathon conversations on social media or the phone with his supplies daily. No issues. These 'things' are disgusting. I refuse to acknowledge them as people. Their whole life centers around manipulating, using, and hurting good folks as often as possible. Pathetic.
Totally-Boundaries
Hes gone really wild
Totally
Still in a marriage bt don’t give a toss
Agree
This is so sad
TOTALLY
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What if you have 2 kids with a narcissist?
The family courts in the States will give the abusive man full custody. They don't care about what is best for the children. If I knew that I might have tried to wait until the kids were 18.
The lawyers, judges, courts, specialists, therapists, they all make a lot of money by dragging it out. If they contest custody, it's just another way they use the courts to abuse
Lawyers say they're working for us, but they work for money for themselves. They don't want to anger the judge. They pretty much ignore the laws.
DV is a crime but we're not in criminal court. Nothing is enforced. Families are being killed because of abusers getting shared custody when an abuser, or even if she's afraid of him but there's no proof of DV or child abuse, there should NOT be shared custody.
If you're afraid of your spouse, it's not possible to coparent. The worst abuse is not physical or even illegal
@@recoveringsoul755 you are 100% correct. It’s pure evil and severe child abuse and ex spousal abuse.
Ex dark triad has created family with new victim that dont know him because i am suoer empath and i exposed him in his face
AGREE😢
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I really wonna knw what its like to be with a real lovly female again..SIGHH..IM OVER THE DEAL😅
😂I’m different. I’m better. I’ve never gone back to a girlfriend.
Although I was married to a covert narcissist. Maybe borderline personality disorder?
I’ll take the advice of Professor Sam Vaknin to run away 🏃🏿♂️🏃🏿♂️
Therapist / wow a Work in progress she didn't want tooooooooooo treat u Sad........ not supply here
It’s demons , the devil comes to steal kill and destroy …. Jesus saved me when I called out to God
So creepy!
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Helpppp😂😂😂🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲
LIARS😂
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She is so creepy
He is creepy
Toni and Alice are shameless.
LIERS
Liar! Lol future faker I love it
Liar
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Tou dont allow anything else...but the Truth into ypùr Life.🤍
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Me to divorce in final in couple days 🙃 🙏👐😁
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TOTALLY!!!.
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