I'd argue that using it improves it, every moving part of us needs physical exercise, obviously practice improves the potential experience overall. I don't relish teaching her everything. The mental aspects are another story.
Regarding body count... the issue is that almost all women will not be honest about their count. They will tell you about the serious, long term relationships they had, but they will not tell you about he short term or one night stands. So, good luck knowing the truth.
Almost all women. There are probably 2 billion of them on the planet. And you’ve done literally no scientific work to gather this data. You’re upset and speaking out of ignorance. I hope you get wiser and happier as you get older.
I've been with women with body counts of 25+ and i've seen what it does to their ability to love and bond (they cant anymore). Never again. We are not made for hookup culture and dating apps. Even from a purely egoistic perspective.. dont do that to yourself..
There’s a huge confounding variable here though. You are correlating lots of partners with the inability to bond to ONE partner. So how do you know it’s the sex that is making normal women unable to bond? Could it be that the women who want lots of partners were never able to bond monogamously? And that’s why they sought many partners in the first place? You would have to run experiments where you take women with no interest in casual sex and expose them to dozens of partners. And then see if they are able to have a pair bond after that. See what I’m saying? Does having lots of partners turn you into a “slut” psychologically? Or is it only the people who are psychologically “slutty” to begin with that end up having dozens of partners? Neither of you have isolated these variables so neither of you can say.
@@CarlYota I get what you’re saying. I know people who even whilst still being virgins or having very few sexual partners found it extremely hard to bond and attach too others
Criticism of " having multiple partners" is just fancy and wordy slut shaming bias. Having multiple partners has nothing to do with being able to bond and loving someone in fact it can increase affection and love for other people because sex is such an intimate thing.
All the absolute buffoons who keep commenting that 'judging someone by their past shows that you're insecure' is absolute nonsense cause past behaviour is the best predictor of future behaviours, which can not only be used in a relationship but also a lot of other aspects in life too, like if you're a woman who knows that the guy you're about to date or take seriously has been very abusive in his past relationships, would you be able to commit to a person like that even though it may turn out that he may never abuse you, but the main question there is that 'are you willing to take that chance ?'. Same way if a girl has a high body count especially the younger she is, is a big sign of danger that she treats relationships as a transaction and doesn't know how to form a meaningful long-term relationship, cause it's literally not possible for you to have multiple partners and say at the same time that 'you had a serious relationship with all of them individually'. Also, even if it didn't mean all of these things, people are allowed to ask questions and prefer things and certain values in a partner especially values that may be required in a serious relationship and it's a completely different thing that people will lie about their body count or any other question, but to say that you're not allowed to even ask that or any other type of question before getting in a relationship is absolutely wrong ad idiotic.
Thank you so much for having me on! The "vagina stretches out with your body count" myth is so pervasive, but it could not be more wrong. I'm glad that we're debunking all these myths, and talking openly about the facts about sex and sexual health!
It matters to men because we evolved under the conditions of paternity uncertainty. That explains male instincts almost entirely on this matter. It also makes sense that it would benefit women to have multiple men who care enough about her to provide and protect. So it makes sense that women would be less fussed over themselves having multiple partners. There are other reasons that would make women wary of this too though. Mainly that they know men don’t like it so won’t invest in them. However, modern people are selfish and we don’t actually “need” each other, which is why things like feminism is making women do whatever they want regardless of what men might think. Not all women, of course. But the culture encourages all of us to be selfish AF these days.
If I’m with a her and she has a high body count (multiple failed relationships or hook ups) I’ll think differently of her. Personally I wouldn’t want to date a woman that has a high body count. Yes, I see that as her having experience in relationships or sex. I also see it as someone who probably can’t keep a relationship or someone who doesn’t care about her self worth because she slept around with a bunch of guys. I understand that what she has done in the past prior to meeting me is in the past. As a guy you can’t help but think about all those guys that ran through or been inside her when you are with her. It’s something that you cannot avoid if you truly value your relationship and truly love her.
Mentally it's a mixed bag, physically-- use is essential for maintenance and development like any moving part. Then there's the overall experience, practice is essential for max potential.
Chief Oncologist at Baylor Medical Womens Cancer Center in Dallas told us that many women are misdiagnosed as bipolar when it is nothing more than hormonal issues.
Hate the click-baity title. There's so much more discussed than the title suggests. Thanks for the discussion! Trying to be a better dad and partner by staying informed.
It does matter especially, if the relationship gets serious and then starts to get a little rocky. If either or both have a high body count, straying or the sudden request for an open marriage is highly likely. Choose carefully. 🤔
I really think the information about body count is misinformed and misguided. We need to teach young men and women to value themselves a little bit more. Multiple partners does affect you physically and mentally.
Agreed. Unfortunately, my anecdotal observation of ppl with high body count show they exhibit certain self-sabotaging behaviours, which makes it difficult for them to have a stable and enriching relationship.
Omitted: The problems with high body count is that men won’t want you and you might lose your ability to pair bond. Be honest at the start of your relationship about your past sexual history including acts or your relationship may implode if something comes to light. Proper body count is one husband.
Talk about water. Women in water sports, please wear diver type shorts. Know a teen girl locally that was waterskiing and basically fell doing the splits. The water pressure at speed when she fell filled her uterus with nasty lake water. Took a while to get her straight and get rid of the infections from the nasty lake water forced inside her.
I almost want to share this with my girlfriend, but I also fear her taking it wrong and claiming I'm passive aggressively telling her something about her downstairs. 😅
While I agree. The problem is that society has made marriage so difficult, and the consequences of a failed marriage so bad, that it makes it easy to fulfill natural human desires/needs without commitment/consequences. Further, because of culture, we are more inclined to be attracted to a woman who maybe had 10 partners, and 5 abortions, than a woman who might have only had 1 partner but is now divorced/widowed with 1 child.
Good for wemen knowing this but she should have said something about the brain after doing with so many ppl. It's not her field but she should said something
Thanks guys!! Very interesting and always good to learn and question all or anything I thought I knew 8 out of 10 …. Be nice to know more about how to be a better guy but uv stated a lot about each man and lady being that unknown variables
Most people literally learn lessons from history.....i mean literal HISTORY....and what history teaches us the most (whether you actually like it or not) is every respectable, reputable, conquerors and warriors highly with deemed masculine features were renowned to have concubines and multiple women as wives for the most part coz they knew they were actual men who could literally protect and provide...... And women who were known to be been with men outside of marriage (regardless of bodycount) were shamed and belittled not allowed to sleep with anyone and everyone assuming they were sexually empowered women like modern day females who assume to be so 🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️ So whether women liked it or not doing numbers on your body hoping there'll be zero accountability and consequences for it is actually a joke....PERIOD!!! 🙌🙌🙌
Oh , what a move! Having primarily a male audience, inviting a gynecologist who will authoritatively allow women to have as many intimate partners as they want.
This didn't happen? Also.. Nobody needs to "allow" you to have many partners. The question is if you wanna pay the price. The choice is always yours. You just dont get to have the best out of both worlds.
If you don’t commute or have a job where you can listen during work I don’t know how people would listen to long form content. Lucky for me I work blue collar and can listen to podcasts all work day if I wanted.
Hormone loss kills desire. Men's natural desires become a nuisance. Age is a big problem, but complacency is the 800 pound gorilla in the room. So much can be done.
From a young age, I was taught that sex was dirty and wrong and it seemed to stay with me my entire life. I'm 64 and will die without knowing what that experience was like
@@Pault3788 btw, you had a 50% chance it would not have gone well with wife n fam. I tried to do everything right and it exploded for me as it has for 50% of my friends and I have a LOT of friends.
People who have jobs where they can listen at work do. Or commuters. Everyone else I agree. If I ever change jobs I won’t listen to another long form podcast ever again. Not wasting free time at home on that.
If a person's body count is some type of indicator to someone, it shows that their level of maturity before even heading into a relationship is still lacking.
Wow I love it when doctors have a belief system rather than definitive facts. Gravity is clear as day for me. And the month cycle of a Women emotions can be plotted. As any husband. Yes dear. I enjoyed the talk but doctors believe that playing with hormones is a could idea. I would remind you a medical perl. No indication complication. Eventually you will catch up with the facts vs theories in science we think we know. Change your diet change your mind. And just because I can manipulate your hormones doesn’t mean I should. Dr. Ginge
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So the biggest takeaway is that it doesn’t matter physically but it does emotionally and psychologically. Got it
😂😂😂 it matters either way 😂😂😂
Yeah, so keep sleeping around nothing bad will happen.
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I'd argue that using it improves it, every moving part of us needs physical exercise, obviously practice improves the potential experience overall. I don't relish teaching her everything.
The mental aspects are another story.
I agree with this ❤
Regarding body count... the issue is that almost all women will not be honest about their count. They will tell you about the serious, long term relationships they had, but they will not tell you about he short term or one night stands. So, good luck knowing the truth.
Almost all women. There are probably 2 billion of them on the planet. And you’ve done literally no scientific work to gather this data. You’re upset and speaking out of ignorance. I hope you get wiser and happier as you get older.
The fact that you NEED to know this just shows your maturity level.
And you *need* to know her body count, WHY?
I'm not a woman but I lie about my count all the time. Truth be told, I don't even remember. Lol! It's in the very high hundreds.
@@ddpwe5269 Some people care. It is a preference. This just shows your maturity level.
I've been with women with body counts of 25+ and i've seen what it does to their ability to love and bond (they cant anymore). Never again. We are not made for hookup culture and dating apps. Even from a purely egoistic perspective.. dont do that to yourself..
Have you ever met a woman with a high body count who went against the norm and was actually capable of bonding with someone. I myself haven’t
There’s a huge confounding variable here though. You are correlating lots of partners with the inability to bond to ONE partner. So how do you know it’s the sex that is making normal women unable to bond?
Could it be that the women who want lots of partners were never able to bond monogamously? And that’s why they sought many partners in the first place?
You would have to run experiments where you take women with no interest in casual sex and expose them to dozens of partners. And then see if they are able to have a pair bond after that.
See what I’m saying? Does having lots of partners turn you into a “slut” psychologically? Or is it only the people who are psychologically “slutty” to begin with that end up having dozens of partners? Neither of you have isolated these variables so neither of you can say.
@@CarlYota I get what you’re saying. I know people who even whilst still being virgins or having very few sexual partners found it extremely hard to bond and attach too others
Criticism of " having multiple partners" is just fancy and wordy slut shaming bias. Having multiple partners has nothing to do with being able to bond and loving someone in fact it can increase affection and love for other people because sex is such an intimate thing.
Finally some one who got it and honest.
All the absolute buffoons who keep commenting that 'judging someone by their past shows that you're insecure' is absolute nonsense cause past behaviour is the best predictor of future behaviours, which can not only be used in a relationship but also a lot of other aspects in life too, like if you're a woman who knows that the guy you're about to date or take seriously has been very abusive in his past relationships, would you be able to commit to a person like that even though it may turn out that he may never abuse you, but the main question there is that 'are you willing to take that chance ?'. Same way if a girl has a high body count especially the younger she is, is a big sign of danger that she treats relationships as a transaction and doesn't know how to form a meaningful long-term relationship, cause it's literally not possible for you to have multiple partners and say at the same time that 'you had a serious relationship with all of them individually'. Also, even if it didn't mean all of these things, people are allowed to ask questions and prefer things and certain values in a partner especially values that may be required in a serious relationship and it's a completely different thing that people will lie about their body count or any other question, but to say that you're not allowed to even ask that or any other type of question before getting in a relationship is absolutely wrong ad idiotic.
Thank you so much for having me on! The "vagina stretches out with your body count" myth is so pervasive, but it could not be more wrong. I'm glad that we're debunking all these myths, and talking openly about the facts about sex and sexual health!
To me it matters, it should matter not just for men for women also. I'm not talking about 5-10 but when they're up there in the upper 20s.
It matters to men because we evolved under the conditions of paternity uncertainty. That explains male instincts almost entirely on this matter.
It also makes sense that it would benefit women to have multiple men who care enough about her to provide and protect. So it makes sense that women would be less fussed over themselves having multiple partners. There are other reasons that would make women wary of this too though. Mainly that they know men don’t like it so won’t invest in them.
However, modern people are selfish and we don’t actually “need” each other, which is why things like feminism is making women do whatever they want regardless of what men might think.
Not all women, of course. But the culture encourages all of us to be selfish AF these days.
Thanks!
I would love to see more Post-menopause content, its great to have more specific content that seems to change before and after meopause.
I agree. Post menopause pause women also “taste” better IMHO.
If I’m with a her and she has a high body count (multiple failed relationships or hook ups) I’ll think differently of her. Personally I wouldn’t want to date a woman that has a high body count.
Yes, I see that as her having experience in relationships or sex. I also see it as someone who probably can’t keep a relationship or someone who doesn’t care about her self worth because she slept around with a bunch of guys.
I understand that what she has done in the past prior to meeting me is in the past.
As a guy you can’t help but think about all those guys that ran through or been inside her when you are with her. It’s something that you cannot avoid if you truly value your relationship and truly love her.
So, that's why she'll never tell you the truth...
@ that’s why both individuals need to be upfront and honest with each other.
Found the incel.
Im with you buddy 👊🏽
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yes, it matters
Mentally it's a mixed bag, physically-- use is essential for maintenance and development like any moving part.
Then there's the overall experience, practice is essential for max potential.
It’s a game of guess your disease
Yes it does. Look at Lilly Philips. She absolutely utterly damaged.
Chief Oncologist at Baylor Medical Womens Cancer Center in Dallas told us that many women are misdiagnosed as bipolar when it is nothing more than hormonal issues.
Hate the click-baity title. There's so much more discussed than the title suggests. Thanks for the discussion! Trying to be a better dad and partner by staying informed.
My count is in the very high hundreds and I still feel lonely and unsatisfied most of the time.
You're doing "IT" wrong!!!!
Thank you for this!
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It does matter especially, if the relationship gets serious and then starts to get a little rocky. If either or both have a high body count, straying or the sudden request for an open marriage is highly likely. Choose carefully. 🤔
Great watch as always 👊🏿
I really think the information about body count is misinformed and misguided. We need to teach young men and women to value themselves a little bit more. Multiple partners does affect you physically and mentally.
It would be a bold and incredible branding move if board certified gynecologist Dr. Karen Tang could be persuaded to change her name to Dr. Poon Tang,
Not sure how much body count matters, but I usually multiply by 3 when a woman reveals it.
Agreed. Unfortunately, my anecdotal observation of ppl with high body count show they exhibit certain self-sabotaging behaviours, which makes it difficult for them to have a stable and enriching relationship.
Omitted: The problems with high body count is that men won’t want you and you might lose your ability to pair bond. Be honest at the start of your relationship about your past sexual history including acts or your relationship may implode if something comes to light. Proper body count is one husband.
and one wife
@ not as important but certainly optimal.
Absolutely! I feel like most women don't even know about pair bonding. It makes a huge difference in the depth of your relationship.
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That's sounds like a very, very backwater religious idea, honestly.
Thank you for this great podcast. This is so important. This information is great to learn and know.
So a 30 plus year old told me her count was 5, am I being lied to ?
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Thanks that’s what i was looking for you saved me time ❤
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Talk about water. Women in water sports, please wear diver type shorts. Know a teen girl locally that was waterskiing and basically fell doing the splits. The water pressure at speed when she fell filled her uterus with nasty lake water. Took a while to get her straight and get rid of the infections from the nasty lake water forced inside her.
Love the thumbnail
Should talk about the physical change in womans eyes after lots of partners
I almost want to share this with my girlfriend, but I also fear her taking it wrong and claiming I'm passive aggressively telling her something about her downstairs. 😅
I doubt that! You care about her health. She will appreciate that.
I believe you. You know her better than the Doctor. Women have no idea how women react to the things men say.
Do NOT do it bro.
Don't tell her!! She will NOT see it as caring about her health!!
I do not use a blanket, preferring a steam room and sauna. How can this affect pregnancy and bethanechol? No se convoctoria, que es um transbordacão?
Sired 5 with one. One with another and she lied to me and was married.
It is totally erelavent what these woman think. It matters on all levels to men and that is all that matters.
I hate that the title of this video makes it impossible to send this video to women that I care about.
You care about them but you can’t say “overlook the title, here’s what it’s really about?”
@@CarlYota After living 6 decades I know that women uniquely consider everything, wondering why this title caught my eye in the first place.
Wow.
Keeping vows starts
before marriage by
keeping sex only
for INSIDE marriage
... If you dont keep
that standard itll be
far less likely to keep
Are talking about abstinence before marriage?
Yes it's important abstain from sex before marriage.
While I agree. The problem is that society has made marriage so difficult, and the consequences of a failed marriage so bad, that it makes it easy to fulfill natural human desires/needs without commitment/consequences.
Further, because of culture, we are more inclined to be attracted to a woman who maybe had 10 partners, and 5 abortions, than a woman who might have only had 1 partner but is now divorced/widowed with 1 child.
Good for wemen knowing this but she should have said something about the brain after doing with so many ppl. It's not her field but she should said something
Thanks guys!! Very interesting and always good to learn and question all or anything I thought I knew 8 out of 10 …. Be nice to know more about how to be a better guy but uv stated a lot about each man and lady being that unknown variables
Most people literally learn lessons from history.....i mean literal HISTORY....and what history teaches us the most (whether you actually like it or not) is every respectable, reputable, conquerors and warriors highly with deemed masculine features were renowned to have concubines and multiple women as wives for the most part coz they knew they were actual men who could literally protect and provide......
And women who were known to be been with men outside of marriage (regardless of bodycount) were shamed and belittled not allowed to sleep with anyone and everyone assuming they were sexually empowered women like modern day females who assume to be so 🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️
So whether women liked it or not doing numbers on your body hoping there'll be zero accountability and consequences for it is actually a joke....PERIOD!!! 🙌🙌🙌
Are you saying we should continue to do what they did in the past? There is a real sense of growth there.
Oh , what a move! Having primarily a male audience, inviting a gynecologist who will authoritatively allow women to have as many intimate partners as they want.
This didn't happen?
Also.. Nobody needs to "allow" you to have many partners. The question is if you wanna pay the price. The choice is always yours. You just dont get to have the best out of both worlds.
I'm ashamed to say my bc is between 709-800 (I've lost count a long time ago). 😢
These videos are too long to watch man, seems informative but long as well😢😢
If you don’t commute or have a job where you can listen during work I don’t know how people would listen to long form content. Lucky for me I work blue collar and can listen to podcasts all work day if I wanted.
Oh boy I can tell this comment section is gonna be packed and heated no thanks am out , have a good one everyone.
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Hormone loss kills desire. Men's natural desires become a nuisance. Age is a big problem, but complacency is the 800 pound gorilla in the room. So much can be done.
From a young age, I was taught that sex was dirty and wrong and it seemed to stay with me my entire life. I'm 64 and will die without knowing what that experience was like
You didn’t miss much.
Bro truss me u are good its not worth the hassle that comes with it u leaves a good life
@@Pault3788 btw, you had a 50% chance it would not have gone well with wife n fam.
I tried to do everything right and it exploded for me as it has for 50% of my friends and I have a LOT of friends.
It means if you are honest with your partner they maybe disgusted after a certain number is past.
No one has time for the 1 or 2 hour videos
People who have jobs where they can listen at work do. Or commuters. Everyone else I agree. If I ever change jobs I won’t listen to another long form podcast ever again. Not wasting free time at home on that.
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If a person's body count is some type of indicator to someone, it shows that their level of maturity before even heading into a relationship is still lacking.
Wow I love it when doctors have a belief system rather than definitive facts. Gravity is clear as day for me. And the month cycle of a Women emotions can be plotted. As any husband. Yes dear. I enjoyed the talk but doctors believe that playing with hormones is a could idea. I would remind you a medical perl. No indication complication. Eventually you will catch up with the facts vs theories in science we think we know. Change your diet change your mind. And just because I can manipulate your hormones doesn’t mean I should. Dr. Ginge
Does the Dr look like Paul Stanley, or is it just me?
Was crazy as my cousin was the inventor of Gatorade.
❤💪💍🙏✝ GOD BE WITH US AGAINST EVIL AND TEMPTATIONS ✝🙏⛪💍👩❤️👨🕊
How about you take responsibility? God wont help you. Its your job to be a good person. Religious or not.
@RenaMalikMD Can you add Turkish subtitles to your videos?
❤💪💍🙏✝ GOD BE WITH US AGAINST EVIL AND TEMPTATIONS ✝🙏⛪💍👩❤️👨🕊