Unlock Great Sex Together (or Alone) with these Tips From a Sex Therapist

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  • Опубликовано: 22 дек 2024

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  • @alphabeta8403
    @alphabeta8403 22 дня назад +2

    6:50 Foreplay and flow state
    11:00 Touch each other
    16:00 Curiosity
    23:30 Love and connection
    32:00 Boundaries
    39:10 Think outside the box
    42:30 Orgasmic issues
    52:30 Incompatibility
    1:00:00 Patience is a virtue

  • @charlesdavid-p1y
    @charlesdavid-p1y Месяц назад +216

    This captivating video triggers a flood of painful memories from the end of my 6 year relationship just three months ago. The woman I loved with all my heart chose to walk away, leaving me grappling with an insurmountable sense of loss. Despite my relentless efforts to salvage what we had, I'm left feeling disillusioned and unable to imagine a future without her. Despite my attempts to move on , I'm drawn to express my deep-seated longing for her here .

    • @DianaJovita
      @DianaJovita Месяц назад

      The struggle to release someone dear to your heart is undeniably arduous. I empathize, having experienced a similar circumstance when my 8 year relationship concluded. Refusing to accept defeat, I pursued every conceivable avenue to reclaim his affection. Eventually, I sought the assistance of a spiritual counselor, whose wisdom and intervention played a pivotal role in reuniting us.

    • @charlesdavid-p1y
      @charlesdavid-p1y Месяц назад

      Where did you find a spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with her?

    • @DianaJovita
      @DianaJovita Месяц назад

      Suzanne Ann Walters is the name of an exceptional spiritual counselor renowned for her ability to reunite you with your former partner.

    • @charlesdavid-p1y
      @charlesdavid-p1y Месяц назад

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online.

    • @stevencohn922
      @stevencohn922 Месяц назад +3

      @@charlesdavid-p1y I know it’s much easier to say than do however we must never put our complete hope,dependency and reliance on another person, company, or sports team etc to satisfy all our longings desires and emotional needs! None of them can truly meet our every need ! Only a personal relationship with our Creator thru Jesus! Matthew 11:28

  • @TheDWZemke
    @TheDWZemke Месяц назад +1

    4:35... Been happily married for 30+ years and my wife was an executive. Having a discussion on how she owns "her being present" and asking what I could to help was life changing.

  • @happyhome41
    @happyhome41 Месяц назад +2

    WONDERFUL episode. Ordered Dr. Jamea’s book.

  • @aaronwilliamsiscool
    @aaronwilliamsiscool Месяц назад +3

    There’s many great points here especially about Men with low emotional literacy & other great points here. I’m appreciating this video. “A good butt slap” is said by many women actually, mine asks for harder ones 32:31 That opinion wasn’t true, but still love the video!

  • @justinm1150
    @justinm1150 Месяц назад +24

    got to have a wife that even wants to be touched 1st i was married 8 yrs before we got married she was wild and tried everything after we got married she didnt want to be touch maybe hug every once in awhile she told me that sex and playtime has to be earned after 8 yrs of 0 anything except being put down and made fun of i am now single

    • @reyesmunguia4899
      @reyesmunguia4899 Месяц назад +4

      Are you financially well off.cause if you are maybe that is the only reason she wanted to be married to you

    • @cali2468
      @cali2468 Месяц назад

      @@reyesmunguia4899😂😂

    • @IAm-wl4zd
      @IAm-wl4zd Месяц назад +1

      There's millions more women

  • @riteshjoy6935
    @riteshjoy6935 Месяц назад +1

    this video literally came in the perfect moment in my life, love you

  • @OLUBADEJO-bn4rd
    @OLUBADEJO-bn4rd Месяц назад +2

    Good intimacy management lecture that cuts across all ages, and different physical and emotional challenges impacting intimacy between partners. Thumb up!

  • @DirtyJokesFan
    @DirtyJokesFan 12 дней назад

    Interesting conversation with a lot of great points to think over. A lot of it is affected by constant vocal fry. Please take an objective listen and use your voices to their full power. Thank you.

  • @vintagedesmo2658
    @vintagedesmo2658 Месяц назад +37

    I was looking forward to watching this video. My wife and I are retirement age and she has completely lost her libido, I have the libido of a 20 year old. Its tough. She really tries but she gets no pleasure from any form of stimulation whether alone or together. At 3 minutes your guest seems to be ambiguously avoiding straight answers. I can't even tell if she's referring to males or females who are very different in what they need for arousal and stimulation. And to say "get into the body" with no stimulation at all seems ridiculous to me. Some external stimulation needs to take place in order for the body to react and blood to start flowing to the genitals. I shut it off at 3.47 rather than listen to an hour of more ambiguous non-answers to your poignant questions - disappointing.

    • @douglasgraham4387
      @douglasgraham4387 Месяц назад +12

      I'm going through similar situation. Wife is post menopausal and no libido. And she doesn't want to have libido. She has agreed to give me sex but it would be great to have her respond to my affection like she used to. Tough getting older.

    • @BillB33525
      @BillB33525 Месяц назад +7

      @@douglasgraham4387 The program, unfortunately, does not address the typical problems of seniors.

    • @trinsit
      @trinsit Месяц назад +2

      ​@@douglasgraham4387then why stay with her? If you're older, kids are already out of the house, and she doesn't have Any care in the world for it, unless you're into dead fish or really want her for house cleaning or cooking and playing games or some entertainment with each other, then why hold on?

    • @baileyboy7567
      @baileyboy7567 Месяц назад +11

      @@trinsit Ever hear of 1) LOVE, I love my wife with or without sex. "BETTER OR FOR WORSE" which leads to 2) Till death do us part.

    • @baseballstrengthandpower4445
      @baseballstrengthandpower4445 Месяц назад +2

      Probably best to get her hormones checked. I had several older women clients who got on a very low dose of testosterone after menopause, and their libido, sex drive, sensitivity to stimulation, and their overall mood improved. It's worth getting checked. I know my wife will be taking it the first onset of menopause because she doesn't want to go through all that crap.

  • @SureshNaskar-x1i
    @SureshNaskar-x1i Месяц назад

    We need more people like this telling us truth! Just finished reading 'The Skin Radiance Recipe' by Mrs. D. Its fascinating what they hide from society.

  • @GregLupu
    @GregLupu Месяц назад

    Thank you for your insights! Does Normotim help with diet adherence? 🙏

  • @OctaviaCosma
    @OctaviaCosma Месяц назад

    Serotonin levels are linked to our mood. When they go up, it helps us feel calmer. And Normotim supposedly helps increase serotonin.

  • @jsominsky
    @jsominsky Месяц назад +2

    Thank you for the information, hopefully I get a chance to use it someday.

  • @meteor1237
    @meteor1237 Месяц назад +1

    Esther Perl also "Mating in Captivity" and "State of Affairs".

  • @girishdeo2907
    @girishdeo2907 Месяц назад +4

    It's my pleasure to see & listen dr. Emily

  • @AbeDallas68
    @AbeDallas68 Месяц назад +1

    A great educational video found this very enlightening and a great listen on my drive

  • @kunalsahu7906
    @kunalsahu7906 Месяц назад

    the biggest game changer for me was reading 'The Skin Radiance Recipe' by Mrs. D

  • @JANEDANE-b8j
    @JANEDANE-b8j Месяц назад

    great video, had to leave a like!

  • @pocopico7409
    @pocopico7409 Месяц назад +4

    Whoa…y’all are both beautiful. Love your attire today, Dr. M. 😍

  • @Avoid_Low_Frequency
    @Avoid_Low_Frequency Месяц назад

    Great video!!! At age 66 I’m still learning. I will be a great partner for someone

  • @danielkilkenny963
    @danielkilkenny963 Месяц назад +4

    "Said no woman ever" is far from true. I personally know multiple women who that does turn them on. All too often, people disregard notions that don't match with their feelings. Always avoid saying that anything applies to everyone.

    • @jb613jb
      @jb613jb Месяц назад +2

      Good point. In my experience most women desire some level of objectification from a person they are attracted to.

  • @douglaidlaw740
    @douglaidlaw740 Месяц назад +1

    3 women at once are 2 too many. If you want a 50 year marriage like ours, sex techniques are "the icing on the cake," IMO. They are not your starting point. Several videos have stressed getting out of one's mind. It took me several years to discover. I found it during a massage. I used the Yoga technique of putting my awareness where the masseuse's hands were, and moving with her.

  • @EatMyOats
    @EatMyOats Месяц назад

    You're not on Rumble? Why?

  • @viribowanjiku5412
    @viribowanjiku5412 Месяц назад +1

    Thanks doc..much lov3

  • @meteor1237
    @meteor1237 Месяц назад +5

    Both 71 great 46 year no children marriage, retired, TRT therapy. Routine can set in, it does take some thought and yes "sex" is not all about penetration, though that's not an issue for us thankfully. We "grab ass" throughout the day and earn what we've heard called "sexual currency". May never have sex in the traditional term/way, but we do physically connect. And yes, we have on occasion had another partner; hard to expect one person to provide all you need for a lifetime. Whatever works. Shame society and religion NEVER help with such an important life function.

    • @TB-yu8mu
      @TB-yu8mu Месяц назад

      Actually, finding the right partner will provide everything you need if you simply communicate what you need and your partner actually cares, get it?

    • @meteor1237
      @meteor1237 Месяц назад +1

      @ No it won’t if the other partner will not agree to the desires expressed in the communication. Communication does not equal agreement. Get it?

  • @BradAaronTaylor
    @BradAaronTaylor Месяц назад +2

    Dr Emily is a babe.
    As a teenager, I watched Nina Hartley's _'How to Eat P Like a Champ'_ DVD (she's an expert educator, as well as a performer). It detailed everything - including the entire build-up. I'm so glad I put in the time, cus it's paid off a million fold. You can never know too much.. there's always more to learn. x

    • @trinsit
      @trinsit Месяц назад +1

      That's what Sex Ed is Supposed to be like. At least one big part of it should be exploring for beginners and understanding your emotions as you go through everything, including learning what you're into and how to explore it safely.

  • @robrain1344
    @robrain1344 Месяц назад +1

    Good day beautiful Doctor❤🌹

  • @job7973
    @job7973 Месяц назад +3

    I would rather avoid sex than try and explain to a woman that we can have sex without penitration, lol. Since passing 40, my sex drive has dropped off a cliff, but can still get it up 1 time per week. Doctors refuse to give testostirone and get people taking a pill every day of the year (clearly not sustainable), so feels like help for men is nearly impossible.

    • @nickps2251
      @nickps2251 Месяц назад

      Might want to go “elsewhere” to get your testosterone

  • @Kinglouie31
    @Kinglouie31 Месяц назад +1

    "If you feel like you are one of those people who has become not a human being but a human doing" These ladys are dropping some knowledge right now. Shame all you who came here to goon and sexualize them will never use this valuable information.

    • @trinsit
      @trinsit Месяц назад +1

      While you are right. Sexualize or not, it doesn't change the fact that when you realize being a human being, there still aren't any girls waiting to talk because you "being" didn't change how dating works in this age.

    • @Kinglouie31
      @Kinglouie31 Месяц назад

      @trinsit Yeah its a terrible landscape. I agree. I found one thing that helped me personally is to stop sexualizing women and essentially stop trying so hard. I eventually found someone compatible. It really seemed like the harder I tried and the more I tried to find women, they picked up on my desperation. But yes, dating sucks in this online world.

  • @jasoncarll8073
    @jasoncarll8073 Месяц назад +1

    "keep hammering away" lol

  • @k9under
    @k9under Месяц назад +1

    Wow, wow, wow, wow.

  • @CarlosAlvarez-lj7gh
    @CarlosAlvarez-lj7gh 28 дней назад

    I love your videos ! You are amazing ! What do you know about PEPTIDES ? Can you do a video please

  • @jackhicks7427
    @jackhicks7427 Месяц назад +1

    Married no sex for the last 25 years and no cheating either. Got libido of a 20 year old at 65. What to do?

    • @jong2359
      @jong2359 13 дней назад

      Talk about Sex... 99% chance you aren't talking to your partner in a meaningful way about sex basically ever.

  • @FMdTamal
    @FMdTamal Месяц назад +1

    Rena Malik - Drop Dead Gorgeous ❤

  • @marioandresgomezplata1522
    @marioandresgomezplata1522 Месяц назад

    Dr Emily … your beautiful eyes wake up all my senses.

  • @gebronthomasson6960
    @gebronthomasson6960 Месяц назад

    i believe there is a great danger and failure rate in a sex addict “12 step” group account there is the feeding of the addiction..and when there on those on the edge they feed others who are struggling..”sick” people around other sick people..Therapy for sure and vital i believe..

  • @2Cruz808
    @2Cruz808 Месяц назад

    There’s Potentially Great Loving From These Two… Unlock It Men!!!!

  • @matthewklein660
    @matthewklein660 28 дней назад

    I'm having an odd problem. I dont have a problem getting erect when I'm with my girlfriend, but have a really hard time getting an erection when I'm by myself. I dont think it's a stress thing. What should I do?

  • @Jigyasu0007
    @Jigyasu0007 Месяц назад

    Haven't done best waiting ....

  • @fueldriver27
    @fueldriver27 Месяц назад +1

    I live in Seattle and its a great place to be.

    • @jong2359
      @jong2359 13 дней назад

      It is a great place to live if you want your government to define what freedom means to you.

  • @lifewith26gang45
    @lifewith26gang45 Месяц назад

    Sweet ❤

  • @khalidishaque7813
    @khalidishaque7813 Месяц назад

    I am married since 2007 having two kids problem is from my first sex that i a dischrged firstly even before penetration and then i feel errection problem i am regularly using scindal tablet from sex now i am of 46 but still i do not last long in bed advise me

  • @Chris-hj2ym
    @Chris-hj2ym Месяц назад

    Let's gooo

  • @Hoser584
    @Hoser584 Месяц назад

    After many years, it's like an old car when it's unreliable and costly and is loud and annoying like a hole in the muffler we trade it in...They haven't figured out there's more in the sea than star fish..

  • @s0urp0wer5
    @s0urp0wer5 Месяц назад +8

    Lmao yall cant just listen to the wisdom of this podcast without sexualizing these two women just because the topic is sex. 😂

    • @zlamanit
      @zlamanit Месяц назад +2

      You can if you have your actual partner in mind.

    • @Kinglouie31
      @Kinglouie31 Месяц назад

      Exactly. Just a bunch losers who saw women and the words sex. As was said before me. Some of us are trying to enhance sex with our partner.

    • @Kinglouie31
      @Kinglouie31 Месяц назад

      Thank you

    • @trinsit
      @trinsit Месяц назад

      There's less of a point to this video when it doesn't change how dating doesn't work anymore for a majority of people as well as relationships becoming even more of a trap than it's always been.

    • @Kinglouie31
      @Kinglouie31 Месяц назад

      ​@@trinsitwell this video is how to have better sex not attract women and find partners. You havent found the right women if your experience had led you to feel that dating is a trap.

  • @MusaUsman771
    @MusaUsman771 Месяц назад

    Translation Urdu please.....

  • @Wisiai-b8s
    @Wisiai-b8s Месяц назад

    Dr I think I'll come to you so you can teach me practically

  • @OneManLikeNoOneElse
    @OneManLikeNoOneElse Месяц назад +6

    The Modern culture in America for sexual relationships is toxic! I spent most my life being extremely healthy, military man. Blue eyes, blonde hair fit. I could turn heads going in a popular night club but all that wasn’t enough! I felt lonely for decades. I’d ask a girl out occasionally but still getting cold shoulder. At age 61, I moved to the Philippines and without any effort, young women and girls were eyeing me up and down! After a month I have a petite Filipina, half my age who deeply in love with me and giving me the best sex of my life!!! It’s amazing knowing how connected I am with a woman like never before! I recommend any lonely man take a vacation from the toxic environment of the US and/or the UK and see an 18 yr old beauty for $100 just to get back in action!☺️💪✌️

    • @gageblackburn7146
      @gageblackburn7146 Месяц назад +2

      I’ve been with a girl for 4 almost 5 years I met on the other side of the world never had love or dedication like hers before in my life I’m not saying it’s for everyone but if your struggling to find someone you can have a real connection with it’s worth a shot.

    • @socloseagain4298
      @socloseagain4298 Месяц назад +6

      Hey buddy are you sure it wasn't a ladyboy?? 😆😆😆

  • @Awill1875
    @Awill1875 Месяц назад +1

    Emily has the prettiest eyes

  • @strongfoot2009
    @strongfoot2009 Месяц назад +1

    Sex is a natural thing and you do not need anyone to show you how to enjoy it. Damn!. Even animals enjoy sex folks.

  • @brunomaraton8751
    @brunomaraton8751 Месяц назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @robertcasarez1468
    @robertcasarez1468 Месяц назад +1

    Just watching your videos has improved my sex life. Fuckin gorgeous

    • @Kinglouie31
      @Kinglouie31 Месяц назад

      You mean your sex life with yourself?

    • @Kinglouie31
      @Kinglouie31 Месяц назад

      With yourself I assume?

  • @fs5866
    @fs5866 Месяц назад +5

    The secret is a healthy age difference, a 20 year woman and a 30 year old man will have a very happy and content sexual life lasting decades since they will both stay attractive for long if they take care of themselves since women mature earlier than guys since childhood till old age.That way a balance of sexual attractiveness and desire will be kept for longer between them.

    • @user-pz8lo2rf9f
      @user-pz8lo2rf9f Месяц назад +3

      To many broadest statements, too much hype, too much of your own ideas without proof,
      People are too much individuals, for you to be throwing blankets over them in collective statements like you're doing geez whatever

    • @OneManLikeNoOneElse
      @OneManLikeNoOneElse Месяц назад +2

      Agreed. It’s also possible to reignite that youthful desire with going to the Philippines where a 50 yr difference is not uncommon.
      Also, couple that with stem cell therapy focused on the penis and it’s absolute ecstasy for a heterosexual man!!🧍‍♂️😊

  • @HàThịChiên
    @HàThịChiên 8 дней назад

    The video is very interesting! Something I don't understand: I have TRC20 USDT in my OKX wallet and I have the recovery phrase: 《pride pole obtain together second when future mask review nature potato bulb》. How should I convert them into Bitcoin?

  • @adrian-vm7yb
    @adrian-vm7yb Месяц назад

    hi i dont get the feeling any more why that

  • @WalterWhite1911
    @WalterWhite1911 Месяц назад +1

    Secret to unlock the greatest sex of your life: stop begging your wife for it, get out and pay for it. Much better by 3 orders of magnitude.

  • @patrick54847
    @patrick54847 Месяц назад +1

    Wow pushing feminism on male health channel

  • @MrSanman28
    @MrSanman28 Месяц назад +1

    So much talking. So little substance.

  • @WORKOUTSOLUTIONS
    @WORKOUTSOLUTIONS Месяц назад +1

    ❤💪👩‍❤️‍👨🙏✝ GOD BE WITH US AGAINST EVIL AND TEMPTATIONS ✝🙏⛪️💍🕊

  • @romeoC9968
    @romeoC9968 Месяц назад

    Can't take this so called therapist seriously when she makes a comment like "said no woman ever"....blanket statement like that from a therapist (assuming she has actual qualifications which I'm doubting now!) are not helpful and help foster stereo typical responses from both parties...clearly only interested in boosting her online presence that anything else....this will be the first video I've disliked on this channel.
    I know women who actively seek out these things.
    This is probably why people avoid going to thereapy, they help no one with stereotypical uneducated comments only seekint to line their pockets with your money

  • @hectorphipps4081
    @hectorphipps4081 Месяц назад

    👉👉Rena Malik 08 Friday November 2024 at 10:10 AM... A Good/Great Morning..._100% RENA MALIK 100%_ BEST one & only on RUclips.. & still looking lovely!!!!!👈👈

  • @Gary-lo5pm
    @Gary-lo5pm Месяц назад +2

    Sex alone is a sin

    • @jsvaldez88
      @jsvaldez88 Месяц назад

      Yeah? Well, you know, that’s like, your opinion, man.