Did you receive any sex education in highschool? I’m curious to know! ✌️ I hope this video helped in some way! Definitely check out the free beducated trial - you will not be disappointed 💖💜💙🌈🤌🏻🌻🏡💁♀️
i got some but it was very vanilla and very heterosexual. they barely talked about birth control other than the condom and the pill, they mentioned IUDs briefly and they never even mentioned dental dams. they didn’t accurately teach about childbirth and things that the person giving birth can experience(like pooping on the table or your hooha potentially tearing) and i don’t remember if they ever mentioned the clit tbh 💀 i could go on for a whole essay about all the shit they left out lmao (gotta love that american sex ed that’s not even federally mandated)
all i learnt in high school was how to put a condom onto a banana😂 my school don’t teach us anything to do with life skills so i’m doing my own research so i don’t come out of school completely clueless lol
Well I'm in an Aussie school and we asked our PDHPE teacher if we were going to learn any sex ed and they replied with "we focus more on the consent not the physical stuff" The consent: If someone doesnt want tea, DON'T GIVE THEM TEA!
These kinds of videos are incredibly important. Lots of these questions are ones that most people would be too afraid to ask family or teachers. It’s stuff like this that is the reason Dutchy is my fave content creator ☺️
I def agree, I'm a teenager and I'm homeschooled. I still have yet to have a biology or sex Ed class and I'm in my first year of highschool now. I am not comfortable asking my mom or my sisters, so I'm just trying to educate myself on things like this bc I know I need to have the knowledge even if I am not ready to use it.
Dutchy brings the knowledge. All you need to do is open that mind. WIDE. I'm big on going down on women, but every woman is so different. Some like it fast, some like it slow and methodical. At the end of the day, and I agree with you, make sure your lady is relaxed, comfortable and is giving you 110% consent. Feeling safe and secure is sexy. Love seeing you again, Dutchy! Stay well!
The whole "its meant to hurt the first time" is so bad. My first time hurt like hell and I told him to stop multiple times and he didn't because "its meant to hurt". That was assault and it took me years to realise.
I went to Catholic school, and we did not get any sex ed, let alone queer sex ed (and my family, as far as I can remember, never talked with me about it). I'm 21, have never had sex with anyone, and only just realized I'm sapphic, so resources like this are so so helpful! Thank you so much! :)
ok, so it’s been a while since i’ve watched your videos because life has gotten in the way of youtube, and it is amazing that you’re here talking about this stuff and i just wanted to say i’m really glad that you’re doing this and helping to teach so many people who haven’t gotten adequate (or any) sex education and that you’re creating an environment where people aren’t afraid or embarrassed to ask questions that might make them uncomfortable in any other environment or situation
aww thank you so much for your support. it truly is important to be able to learn this sort of stuff in a comfortable/non-intimidating environment and I'm happy to provide that!
She is the only person I've ever just sat there and watched the sponsorship of, she's very persuasive and descriptive if what the website does. Also I really appreciate the proper sex ed, very helpful and useful information, thank you so much!
About six years after I lost my 'virginity' I knew I was going to be with a woman for the first time; knew too that I would want to go down on her, so I went to a lesbian friend of mine for the best advice since I wanted it to be the best for her I could make it. She made me laugh by saying, "So you decided to come to a pro huh?" Funny because she was actually a sex worker, but I was so grateful to her for what she said to me because it went really well, kerk
Your videos are amazing, i LOVE the fact that you are not embarrassed talking about s3x and the things around it. (Btw i don't find talking about s3x embarrassing i just know a lot of people are. Lots of love🖤)
thank you so much for being open about these kinds of things, i know i appreciate it and im sure there are a lot of young wlw and lgbtq kids who are learning from it too. it would be really good if you could make your language more nonbinary and trans friendly because not everyone who has "female" body parts identifies as a girl/woman or uses she/her pronouns. love u x
I loved the fact that you said penetration isn’t sex, because in sex Ed class we were informed that most women don’t orgasm from penetration , which is why most women who are with guys usually don’t get an orgasm cause guys think that’s all there is too it. When what we were told in sex Ed that it’s usually clitorial stimulation and foreplay/light touching. So I fully agree with what you said that lesbian sex is sex with out a male because most women dong need penetration to orgasm.
This really helped me out! I didn't learn any of this in school. I deffintly think we should learn about lgbtq+ stuff in school! It's a very important subject!
Madam. I am very happy that podcasts like yours are being made. Of course, I also understand why you create it. It's great that there is someone brave who can talk about sex in a simple and correct language without any profanity. Unfortunately, I cannot agree with you on the issue of pain during penetration. As a doctor, I know a lot of patients who, unfortunately, were not painless for the first time. Each of us is different, I mean not only the psyche and external appearance, but also anatomical structure. There are different types of hymen, depending on what the patient has, it can be predicted whether the first time will be only discomfort or, however, due to the thickness and size of the hymen, the patient may feel pain during defloration. The same is true of bleeding when the hymen is damaged. Of course, the majority of the female population does not have a defloration problem. However, there are exceptions to this rule. That is why it is worth going to a doctor before having sex. Not necessarily for contraceptives, but sometimes just to chat. As you said yourself, you need to experience it with the right person, at the right time and place - because all this has a special meaning for us women. Besides, an honest conversation with your partner before sex is the basis for a successful first time. Once again, congratulations on this material because it is factually correct, simply presented and probably well understood by all interested parties. Best wishes.
I fricking HATE the fact that in your school we still don't have s3x education. And it doesn't seem like we are gonna have a gay (s3x) education. (So i just wanted to say your soooo pretty and i love your videos
thank you so much for making this video, i'm going to stay at my girlfriends house for the first time this weekend and i was so nervous but this video definitely helped!
Yeah. The only thing I learned about sex was heterosexual and penetration. That's it. I'm a bisexual man and I know how to please a guy but not a girl besides penetration 😅
I met a woman I really like and we are in a long-term relationship we have not had sex yet because we haven't met in person I have never had sex with a woman so how do I do this
Did you receive any sex education in highschool? I’m curious to know! ✌️ I hope this video helped in some way! Definitely check out the free beducated trial - you will not be disappointed 💖💜💙🌈🤌🏻🌻🏡💁♀️
i got some but it was very vanilla and very heterosexual. they barely talked about birth control other than the condom and the pill, they mentioned IUDs briefly and they never even mentioned dental dams. they didn’t accurately teach about childbirth and things that the person giving birth can experience(like pooping on the table or your hooha potentially tearing) and i don’t remember if they ever mentioned the clit tbh 💀 i could go on for a whole essay about all the shit they left out lmao (gotta love that american sex ed that’s not even federally mandated)
all i learnt in high school was how to put a condom onto a banana😂 my school don’t teach us anything to do with life skills so i’m doing my own research so i don’t come out of school completely clueless lol
I did. It was nearly 14 years ago though. In hindsight it was very hetronormative though and taught nothing about same sex activities
@@nicolew4513 yep sameeeee
Well I'm in an Aussie school and we asked our PDHPE teacher if we were going to learn any sex ed and they replied with "we focus more on the consent not the physical stuff"
The consent: If someone doesnt want tea, DON'T GIVE THEM TEA!
These kinds of videos are incredibly important. Lots of these questions are ones that most people would be too afraid to ask family or teachers. It’s stuff like this that is the reason Dutchy is my fave content creator ☺️
Bless! Thank you! 🥰🥰
SAMMEE
I def agree, I'm a teenager and I'm homeschooled. I still have yet to have a biology or sex Ed class and I'm in my first year of highschool now. I am not comfortable asking my mom or my sisters, so I'm just trying to educate myself on things like this bc I know I need to have the knowledge even if I am not ready to use it.
me: **imma get an early night because i’m really tired**
dutchy: **uploads**
my sleep: **gone**
hehe my bad
this reminder did NOT just come up while i was screen sharing on the tv for my parent-omg
@@ashni2024 my mom: 👀😏”you gonna click that?”
my dad: “BAHAHAHAHHAHA YOU RLY GOTTA KNOW DONT YOU? i thought you had a boyfriend?”
me: *gay panic*
HAHAHAHA OML
Dutchy brings the knowledge. All you need to do is open that mind. WIDE. I'm big on going down on women, but every woman is so different. Some like it fast, some like it slow and methodical. At the end of the day, and I agree with you, make sure your lady is relaxed, comfortable and is giving you 110% consent. Feeling safe and secure is sexy.
Love seeing you again, Dutchy! Stay well!
Aww thank you lovely! YESSSSS! Thanks for your support, you too!
I’m literally laying in bed, my bi flag wrapped around me and binging Dutchy videos all night, love you dutchy! ❤️
Blessss! What a vibe! Love you too 💖💖
The whole "its meant to hurt the first time" is so bad. My first time hurt like hell and I told him to stop multiple times and he didn't because "its meant to hurt". That was assault and it took me years to realise.
I went to Catholic school, and we did not get any sex ed, let alone queer sex ed (and my family, as far as I can remember, never talked with me about it). I'm 21, have never had sex with anyone, and only just realized I'm sapphic, so resources like this are so so helpful! Thank you so much! :)
ok, so it’s been a while since i’ve watched your videos because life has gotten in the way of youtube, and it is amazing that you’re here talking about this stuff and i just wanted to say i’m really glad that you’re doing this and helping to teach so many people who haven’t gotten adequate (or any) sex education and that you’re creating an environment where people aren’t afraid or embarrassed to ask questions that might make them uncomfortable in any other environment or situation
aww thank you so much for your support. it truly is important to be able to learn this sort of stuff in a comfortable/non-intimidating environment and I'm happy to provide that!
Honestly it's so important that people are starting to have more open and more inclusive discussions of sex ❤️
She is the only person I've ever just sat there and watched the sponsorship of, she's very persuasive and descriptive if what the website does. Also I really appreciate the proper sex ed, very helpful and useful information, thank you so much!
About six years after I lost my 'virginity' I knew I was going to be with a woman for the first time; knew too that I would want to go down on her, so I went to a lesbian friend of mine for the best advice since I wanted it to be the best for her I could make it. She made me laugh by saying, "So you decided to come to a pro huh?" Funny because she was actually a sex worker, but I was so grateful to her for what she said to me because it went really well, kerk
Your videos are amazing, i LOVE the fact that you are not embarrassed talking about s3x and the things around it.
(Btw i don't find talking about s3x embarrassing i just know a lot of people are. Lots of love🖤)
thank you so much for being open about these kinds of things, i know i appreciate it and im sure there are a lot of young wlw and lgbtq kids who are learning from it too. it would be really good if you could make your language more nonbinary and trans friendly because not everyone who has "female" body parts identifies as a girl/woman or uses she/her pronouns. love u x
You're so welcome Jay!! This is very true!! Can do :) love you so much xx
I loved the fact that you said penetration isn’t sex, because in sex Ed class we were informed that most women don’t orgasm from penetration , which is why most women who are with guys usually don’t get an orgasm cause guys think that’s all there is too it. When what we were told in sex Ed that it’s usually clitorial stimulation and foreplay/light touching. So I fully agree with what you said that lesbian sex is sex with out a male because most women dong need penetration to orgasm.
YESSSSSS!!!!
We’re lucky lol
me, an ace: hmm interesting information i will never use.
cool vid dutchy lol
same though
This really helped me out! I didn't learn any of this in school. I deffintly think we should learn about lgbtq+ stuff in school! It's a very important subject!
I’m so glad this helped!!
i was actually wondering about this the other day! i’m glad that you made a video about it☺️
Aww I'm glad I could help!!
I’ve been needing this I’m going to highschool next year (14/15 years old) and I you never know
@UCnr0meC3VVYE_l5eXy1EBXA BAHAH it’s okay I just wanted to be prepared juuuussssttt incase
At your service!!
Honestly 💀
@@MsDickerz dutchyyyyy!!!!
OUR QUEEN IS BACK 🤩 I didn’t expect that you to spoil us with a new video right after the last one that came recently.
We love you ❤️
Hehe I'm back!!! Yessss she's ready and raring to go again fam! Love you too!
Loved you video!!!! I don't usually watch lives/vids with live chats and interacting with you and everyone else was so fun!!! ❤❤❤
Aww thanks so much Elina! That means the world ❤️🔥❤️🔥
I'm really glad you made a video talking about this because my school does not talk about lgbtqia+ relationships or sex ed
Talking is so important and learning from you partner is key…expecting this person would like it, cause this one liked it, can make things awkward
YESSSS
Madam. I am very happy that podcasts like yours are being made. Of course, I also understand why you create it. It's great that there is someone brave who can talk about sex in a simple and correct language without any profanity. Unfortunately, I cannot agree with you on the issue of pain during penetration. As a doctor, I know a lot of patients who, unfortunately, were not painless for the first time. Each of us is different, I mean not only the psyche and external appearance, but also anatomical structure. There are different types of hymen, depending on what the patient has, it can be predicted whether the first time will be only discomfort or, however, due to the thickness and size of the hymen, the patient may feel pain during defloration. The same is true of bleeding when the hymen is damaged. Of course, the majority of the female population does not have a defloration problem. However, there are exceptions to this rule. That is why it is worth going to a doctor before having sex. Not necessarily for contraceptives, but sometimes just to chat.
As you said yourself, you need to experience it with the right person, at the right time and place - because all this has a special meaning for us women. Besides, an honest conversation with your partner before sex is the basis for a successful first time.
Once again, congratulations on this material because it is factually correct, simply presented and probably well understood by all interested parties. Best wishes.
Thanks for your info!! :) really appreciate it!! I didn't even think about that!! xx
I fricking HATE the fact that in your school we still don't have s3x education. And it doesn't seem like we are gonna have a gay (s3x) education.
(So i just wanted to say your soooo pretty and i love your videos
I love watching these videos! Leaning about sex Ed is great even when you know a lot already, there's always more to learn!
100%%! :)
I love your account :) I remember finding it last year before I had come out and it was so crazy for me that there were people like me
aw thanks Alice :)
YES PLS DO A VIDEO ON CONDITIONS WHERE IT CAN HURT
sure! :)
perfect thing to recover from my fav characters death 😭👊🏻
Aww no what show?!
@@MsDickerz attack on titan, it has a lot of deaths but one was a character who i rly liked :/
@@greysettings9288 nooooo 🥺🥺
You are so amazing! I didn't know any of this they don't teach it at school!
Thanks lovely! Yesss I know, it sucks!
❤️💜💙😊
thank you so much for making this video, i'm going to stay at my girlfriends house for the first time this weekend and i was so nervous but this video definitely helped!
awww I'm so glad I could help in some way!!
I got an ad for a Christian university before watching this 😂😂
hahaha wot
Dutchy at 18:06 : wow, what is this?
Me: That is how you flip someone off if you live inside the "friends" show
hahaha noice
Speaking as a hetero guy that is a great video. I hope lots of guys are watching it.
I'm ace, and I'm still watching this 🤣
Appreciate your support x
@@MsDickerz ❤❤❤
Hey bestie u looking chefs kiss in that outfit and so happy u are back 🌈❤❤
Hiii bestie! Thank you ✌️✌️
this video is so helpful! i also love your necklaces- where did you get them??
That moment when you realize your question is in the video👀
Yayayaay
I like your attitude and your confidence Dutchy... Thank you for helping us
THANK YOU DUTCHY FOR COMING IN WITH THE CLUTCHY
omg thats so bad uyrherugj
omg this is going to be so useful because school sex ed is just straight boring stuff haha
Thank you for sharing this kind of vlog..its really informative!..actually its not my first time..but the girl i spend with is her 1st time..
Tqsm for making this masterpiece buddy ily
love u love u!
Thanks for advice cuz I m gonna have my crush come over Saturday
thank u so much, these videos are really chill and helpful !!
I’m so glad to hear it xx
Can you do a video bassed off of how to get a girl to like you in middle school
I can definitely note it down!
god i love you and your channel sm
Thank you 🥺🥺
idk y i clicked this video but im glad i did
@@MsDickerz omggggg
i missed ur vids so much
awww missed you!
could you upload all your podcasts from now on to your channel here?
Can do!
Or might start a separate channel for it!
@@MsDickerz well you’ll have at least one sub on the podcast channel if you make another channel for it haha
Love you so much thanks for the video 💗
you're most welcome!
Thank you so much, this will help my kids so much. 🏳️🌈👍🏽👈🏼👉🏼✌🏽
Aww I'm so glad to hear it!
What are your thoughts about people getting tested for STDs and sexually transmitting illnesses from sex? And what is lube?
Unable to get you up on Netflix on RUclips TV
When we learned sex ed in school it was strictly hetero and there was nothing about same sex relationships I find it so annoying.
✨Dutch Angel Dragon✨
me watching this video for a girl who lives half way across the world
me too 😭
Sexy time is a fun time -dutchy2021 lmao 😂😂😂
HAHAHHAA OOOP
I would say first time sex only hurts if u have never touched yourself or used a toy before
Yeah. The only thing I learned about sex was heterosexual and penetration. That's it. I'm a bisexual man and I know how to please a guy but not a girl besides penetration 😅
Hey, where is your blouse from? Its so Pretty 😍
I’m jealous of lesbians
Why???
Omg me too.
Bestie!!!🌈
Yes bestie!!
@@MsDickerz I'm happy to have you back bestie 💖💜
@@sparkee. happy to be back bestie!!
thank you so much for this video. i was lucky enough to actually have sex education (i’m american) but like you said it was very cishet.
I met a woman I really like and we are in a long-term relationship we have not had sex yet because we haven't met in person I have never had sex with a woman so how do I do this
12:41
7:37 Tht sound Eeeee, thts me when i saw the title heheh. Bun stuff 😁.U look😍....Meow
Can you please do a video on consent?
I have one on consent! :)
@@MsDickerz
Yay thanks btw
Consent is just a 6 letter word,if you hv trouble counting
Not person it’s women
are women not people? lol what is this comment i’m confused
button up your shirt, girl.
Let me guess you’re a dude right? Don’t tell a woman what to do with her body lol u know better than this